If we'd read between the lines, she talked about how much her happiness comes from other people. She herself subtly reveals people often tend to leave her side.
It's wrong to demand people to be caring and lovable around you. The more important discernment is, are you lovable yourself? Why do people leave you KC?
Naaniniwala ako na money can't buy happiness. Kasi kapag mayaman ka na at mabibili mo lahat ng gusto mo parang ka lang bata na sa una aliw na aliw sa bagong laruan tapos ilang weeks nakalipas magsasawa ka na. Iba kapag pinaghirapan mo kasi mas may halaga sayo yung binili mo. Sympre iba rin na may pera kasi stable na ang buhay mo pero yung maachieve mo yung happiness talaga hindi nakadepende sa bank account mo.
At the end of the day mga tao parin ang magpapaligaya sayo. Kapag contented ka sa friends at partner mo dun mo ma achieve ang happiness.
Ako nman baks pinaghirapan ko nman pambili ko ng bag at jewelry pero sa una ka lang talaga magiging masaya. Lol, nakakalimutan mo nlang minsan natatapon pa. Iba rin talaga pag at peace ka sa sarili mo, yung totoong masaya ka maski di ka nman mayaman. 😄
Mas gusto ko ng may pera ako dahil marami akong magagawa kapag malulungkot ako. Kapag walang pera, maghinagpis ka na lang sa bahay mo kapag malungkot ka at manood na lang ng TV.
Nah at 2:40 am, i have been in both sides and it's true, if we are going for temporarily happines yeah sure, but it's only temporarily high, it fades away, iba, iba ang true happiness, God, family, friends. Donating etc. Kung tutuusin kung ano ung mga libre at simple, yun ang mas masaya, Mayaman na sya ha, but she seems to have that need to prove something kahit it's not needed. Don't get me wrong, even the rich can and should be happy, but through material na bagay? I don't think so.
2:40 I think ang point niya is masaya nga pero yung constant need para pasayahin mo ang sarili might never end. Baka walang contentment sa buhay. Kailangan natin ng pera but hindi mo dapat iasa na ang pera ang magbibigay ng happiness. May difference sa meeting your needs at being happy.
For me naman, "money does not change people, it only amplifies who they truly are."
If you are a bad person, having money gives you means to inflict evil on others.
If you are a selfless person, money will help you help others more, you can donate and build more establishments for your cause, have resources to give immediate help.
If you are a happy person, money can help you bring more happiness for your loved ones and people around you, you can help them realize their dreams, means for travel and leisure, gather everyone for nice get-togethers, provide for pleasure and enjoyment etc.
If you are a corrupt and selfish person, having money will only encourage you hoard more and more and cause misery for others.
Whoever you are as a person, money will amplify it.
Agree ako sa yo 1:18 pero wag idepende ang happiness sa mga pwedeng mawala. Pati relationships kasama yan. Masaya ka pa ba kahit iwan ka nila? Dapat matutong mahalin muna ang sarili.
Been there done that plge may kulang and guilt nung nkita ko pinagbbili ko na wlang saysay like clothes shoes bags. Sayang lng pera. Ngaun wla nko pera but happy ako sa asawa ko and my baby. Money isnt everything. It can buy temporary happiness but peace love and contentment hinde.
Meron ang marami na hindi makuha-kuha ni KC. LOL Kahilig hilig nyo ipangtapal yang kesyo mapera sya. Mapera- So what? Maybe hindi lahat mapera nya pero somehow nakakapag enjoy pa rin sa buhay and it’s so sweet to enjoy something knowing na sobrang pinagpaguran mo yon, blood, sweat and tears. Maganda - Oo, maganda sya. I’d be lying if I say no. Pero kung ganda ang paguusapan, maraming mas maganda pa! Actually kapag namasyal nga lang ako sa mall, for example, ang dami ko napapansin na magaganda pa sa artista. Nakapag-OJT ako sa parehong malaking station at may point of comparison ako. At higit sa lahat, hindi lahat papampam kagaya nya. Ciao!
7:08 parang ramdam na ramdam ko yung pagka bitter mo kay KC. point is mapera at mayaman sya period. kung meron ang marami na hindi nya makuha makuha, mas madami din ang meron sya na hindi makuha ng mas madami.
I agree with most of it, but I think that you don't need to be with someone to be happy. That's not real happiness. Real happiness needs to come from within and everything and everyone else that comes into your life is a blessing. That if this person leaves, you will still be whole and happy. It almost sounds like if she is not with someone, then she doesn't have real happiness.
Sa panahon ng social media, i think limiting exposure to toxic people is very important. Ang daming delusional sa social media. Marami ding sa social media dinadala ang mga bitterness nila sa buhay. Di maiwasang mahawa ka talaga.
Studies have already proven that social media is a huge cause of anxiety and depression. It’s a black hole filled that encourages narcissism, lies, toxicity, envy, vanity and a lot of other negativities.
I hope mapanindigan ni KC not to share much in social media and to love her body no matter what shape she is in,maybe she should stop filtering her pics,mas napupuna kc sya when she filter her pics. Good for her if she now find happiness from being private in her lovelife baka this time makahanap sya ng true love.
Che! Dati gustong gusto ko to mula pa nung bata ako kasi same age kami kaso ngayon sobrang ewan. Since last year nawalan na ako ng gana sa sobrang pampam nya
Dati panay bili din ako ng mga bags ngayon nbbuset nko ayoko na ng maraming gamit... masaya nko sa mga halaman ko succulents cactus and orchids... basta yan trip ko ngayon ...hayaan nyo na si kc wag na sana ibash
Parehong pareho tayo mare. Ngayon mas gusto ko mamili ng halaman kesa bagong shoes and bags. Pag nagmamature talaga narerealize natin na it’s not all about material things. Hindi kailangan bongga. Simpleng kaligayahan.
Real happiness and contentment comes from within. I learned this when I was in my late 20s. I already accepted that if I'd be alone (meaning no bf/husband) is not a bad idea. Fast forward in my late 30s, out of nowhere I met someone in the most unconventional way and now we are happily married for almost a decade now. Don't search for love, in God's perfect time He will lead that person to you. :)
What’s with all this “You already have everything” ballyhoo? Does having it all equate to happiness? Ang superficial lang ng dating when you capitalize on “having everything” to obtain happiness or contentment in life.
I'm happy when I have money. I could buy what I need, as well as the people I love. I could extend help if I have money. But don't worship money, use it in a good and productive way. Most of all, work for it. Mas masarap gastusin ang perang pinag trabahuhan sa tamang paraan.
Exactly what is self centered about wanting someone who wont leave you or take advantage of you? Kelan yon naging pitiful? napaka feeling better ka naman na wala sa lugar.
I don't understand what the problem is. Just because you "don't want someone to leave you" does not necessarily equate to you can't be alone or can't be happy alone. I enjoy my own company, but I am not going to say my it's ok if my husband leaves me. I would say he is part of my peak happiness in life.
8:14 ya i get your point it takes two to tango but whats wrong with sayig that part of your happiness is someone who won't leave you (context is probably that she wants the person to stay?)
Itong si Kc na to wala ng ginawa kundi maghanap ng lovelife pero puro failures pa rin. Walang nag tatagal. Baka hindi ka wifey material KC. Wala sa looks yan, nasa ugali mo gurl at kung paano mo i handle relationships. Walang nagtagal sayo. Omg malapit ka ng mag 40 kaya pala parang desperate magka LL lagi. Ayaw mabakante
Look at the second picture.May laman ang sinabi niya.Therapy is great.So read between the lines.She was probably depressed before then she had therapy.
Maybe troubled people should stay away from soc med. Misunderstanding can happen with her love ones, and netizens can be unkind. Even if nasanay na tayo sa socmed, its possible to live without it
Bakit parang sya lang din nag tanong sa sarili nya para magparinig? Lool
ReplyDeleteIf we'd read between the lines, she talked about how much her happiness comes from other people. She herself subtly reveals people often tend to leave her side.
DeleteIt's wrong to demand people to be caring and lovable around you. The more important discernment is, are you lovable yourself?
Why do people leave you KC?
Dahil may gusto syang paringan lol
DeleteShe sounds like she would only be happy if she is with someone.
DeleteAlam mo naisip ko din yan baks.
Deletelol diba? parang hindi naman ganyan mga tanong agad sa ask me kemerloo
DeleteLol
DeleteShe seems to be in love with love. And that's kinda sad. Girl, love yourself muna, parang umaasa ka sa iba for your own happiness e!
DeleteOut-of-touch with reality. She's been a princess all her life.
DeleteHindi na naka-move-on sa buhay prinsesa.
Naaniniwala ako na money can't buy happiness. Kasi kapag mayaman ka na at mabibili mo lahat ng gusto mo parang ka lang bata na sa una aliw na aliw sa bagong laruan tapos ilang weeks nakalipas magsasawa ka na. Iba kapag pinaghirapan mo kasi mas may halaga sayo yung binili mo. Sympre iba rin na may pera kasi stable na ang buhay mo pero yung maachieve mo yung happiness talaga hindi nakadepende sa bank account mo.
ReplyDeleteAt the end of the day mga tao parin ang magpapaligaya sayo. Kapag contented ka sa friends at partner mo dun mo ma achieve ang happiness.
Ako nman baks pinaghirapan ko nman pambili ko ng bag at jewelry pero sa una ka lang talaga magiging masaya. Lol, nakakalimutan mo nlang minsan natatapon pa. Iba rin talaga pag at peace ka sa sarili mo, yung totoong masaya ka maski di ka nman mayaman. 😄
DeleteMoney cannot buy happiness na kasabihan, masasabi lang ng mga taong walang pera.
DeleteNope 2:40
Delete2:40 ang mayayaman ang nag sasabi niyan.
Delete2:40 No dear, i have a friend. Sobrang stable nya at mapera sa US. Pro look. She still lives with a miserable life. U. Know.nothing.
DeleteMas gusto ko ng may pera ako dahil marami akong magagawa kapag malulungkot ako. Kapag walang pera, maghinagpis ka na lang sa bahay mo kapag malungkot ka at manood na lang ng TV.
DeleteNah at 2:40 am, i have been in both sides and it's true, if we are going for temporarily happines yeah sure, but it's only temporarily high, it fades away, iba, iba ang true happiness, God, family, friends. Donating etc. Kung tutuusin kung ano ung mga libre at simple, yun ang mas masaya, Mayaman na sya ha, but she seems to have that need to prove something kahit it's not needed. Don't get me wrong, even the rich can and should be happy, but through material na bagay? I don't think so.
DeleteHahaha! Natawa ako 2:40 pero tama ka. Iba pa din pag may pera
DeleteTrue girl true ka diyan 240.
Delete2:40 I think ang point niya is masaya nga pero yung constant need para pasayahin mo ang sarili might never end. Baka walang contentment sa buhay. Kailangan natin ng pera but hindi mo dapat iasa na ang pera ang magbibigay ng happiness. May difference sa meeting your needs at being happy.
DeleteFor me naman, "money does not change people, it only amplifies who they truly are."
DeleteIf you are a bad person, having money gives you means to inflict evil on others.
If you are a selfless person, money will help you help others more, you can donate and build more establishments for your cause, have resources to give immediate help.
If you are a happy person, money can help you bring more happiness for your loved ones and people around you, you can help them realize their dreams, means for travel and leisure, gather everyone for nice get-togethers, provide for pleasure and enjoyment etc.
If you are a corrupt and selfish person, having money will only encourage you hoard more and more and cause misery for others.
Whoever you are as a person, money will amplify it.
8:19 true! E pano pag walang tv?! Iyak na lang hangang makatulog 😂
DeleteAgree ako sa yo 1:18 pero wag idepende ang happiness sa mga pwedeng mawala. Pati relationships kasama yan. Masaya ka pa ba kahit iwan ka nila? Dapat matutong mahalin muna ang sarili.
DeleteBeen there done that plge may kulang and guilt nung nkita ko pinagbbili ko na wlang saysay like clothes shoes bags. Sayang lng pera. Ngaun wla nko pera but happy ako sa asawa ko and my baby. Money isnt everything. It can buy temporary happiness but peace love and contentment hinde.
DeleteBakit maraming mayayaman ang depressed????
DeleteBasahin nyo ang second part.You will realize that she had her down moments.Kasi di ba therapy is great!
Delete1:33, marami ring mahihirap na depressed pero mga undiagnosed dahil walang perang pambayad sa doctor para ma-diagnose.
DeleteKC is really beautiful. Kahit Ano pa shape ng body mo. Accept it .
ReplyDeleteAno ba meaning nung "already have everything" na yan? Yung meron si KC meron din naman ang iba pero hindi lang ganun kamahal ang mga presyo.
ReplyDeleteMaraming meron si KC na wala sa karamihan. Pera pa lang lamang na.
DeleteAgree 1:27 & 2:39
DeleteKC seems to have everything, but clearly, she's not happy. She searches around the wrong places to be happy.
Meron ang marami na hindi makuha-kuha ni KC. LOL Kahilig hilig nyo ipangtapal yang kesyo mapera sya.
DeleteMapera- So what? Maybe hindi lahat mapera nya pero somehow nakakapag enjoy pa rin sa buhay and it’s so sweet to enjoy something knowing na sobrang pinagpaguran mo yon, blood, sweat and tears.
Maganda - Oo, maganda sya. I’d be lying if I say no. Pero kung ganda ang paguusapan, maraming mas maganda pa! Actually kapag namasyal nga lang ako sa mall, for example, ang dami ko napapansin na magaganda pa sa artista. Nakapag-OJT ako sa parehong malaking station at may point of comparison ako.
At higit sa lahat, hindi lahat papampam kagaya nya. Ciao!
Well lahat ng tao may pera. Hindi nga lang pantay pantay sa dami. 2:39
Delete7:08 parang ramdam na ramdam ko yung pagka bitter mo kay KC. point is mapera at mayaman sya period. kung meron ang marami na hindi nya makuha makuha, mas madami din ang meron sya na hindi makuha ng mas madami.
DeleteI agree with most of it, but I think that you don't need to be with someone to be happy. That's not real happiness. Real happiness needs to come from within and everything and everyone else that comes into your life is a blessing. That if this person leaves, you will still be whole and happy. It almost sounds like if she is not with someone, then she doesn't have real happiness.
ReplyDeleteThis. This. Ahe will never be truly happy if she always try to find that happiness from others.
Delete1.27am AMEN. Let's go for self-love!
DeleteSa panahon ng social media, i think limiting exposure to toxic people is very important. Ang daming delusional sa social media. Marami ding sa social media dinadala ang mga bitterness nila sa buhay. Di maiwasang mahawa ka talaga.
ReplyDeleteStudies have already proven that social media is a huge cause of anxiety and depression. It’s a black hole filled that encourages narcissism, lies, toxicity, envy, vanity and a lot of other negativities.
DeleteSo true @2:26...if not for my family & close friends overseas, I would have quit ultimately a long time ago.
Deletekorek mga baks. social media tlaga yung nagpapalungkot sa mga tao, pero sad to say din na hindi kayang iwasan. lalo na mga celeb .hahays
DeleteI hope mapanindigan ni KC not to share much in social media and to love her body no matter what shape she is in,maybe she should stop filtering her pics,mas napupuna kc sya when she filter her pics.
DeleteGood for her if she now find happiness from being private in her lovelife baka this time makahanap sya ng true love.
Great advice esp on maintaining her mental health.
ReplyDeleteChe! Dati gustong gusto ko to mula pa nung bata ako kasi same age kami kaso ngayon sobrang ewan. Since last year nawalan na ako ng gana sa sobrang pampam nya
ReplyDeleteHindi ka niya kawalan. Soc med niya yan. Wag kang makibasa. Period.
DeleteAno Po ung pampam dyan? Kaya nag lagay ang Instagram ng “ask me” options para s mga celebrities n katuad nila at mk reach out ng followers
Delete10:15 Hindi ganyan ang format ng 'Ask Me' ng Instagram. It looks like KC 'interviewed herself' tuloy.
DeleteSana nilagay nya ung Instagram handle nung nagtanong to make it authentic.
Hay naku yung talagang happy chuva di kailangan ng validation lagi.
ReplyDeletekorek!
DeleteHahahahaha, okay, happy lady. You can go away, for good na. No need to brag.
ReplyDeleteLol. Talking to herself again.
ReplyDeleteMeh, don’t believe her. Why is she on social media then, for validation and bragging.
ReplyDeleteDati panay bili din ako ng mga bags ngayon nbbuset nko ayoko na ng maraming gamit... masaya nko sa mga halaman ko succulents cactus and orchids... basta yan trip ko ngayon ...hayaan nyo na si kc wag na sana ibash
ReplyDeleteParehong pareho tayo mare. Ngayon mas gusto ko mamili ng halaman kesa bagong shoes and bags. Pag nagmamature talaga narerealize natin na it’s not all about material things. Hindi kailangan bongga. Simpleng kaligayahan.
DeleteReal happiness and contentment comes from within. I learned this when I was in my late 20s. I already accepted that if I'd be alone (meaning no bf/husband) is not a bad idea. Fast forward in my late 30s, out of nowhere I met someone in the most unconventional way and now we are happily married for almost a decade now. Don't search for love, in God's perfect time He will lead that person to you. :)
ReplyDeleteMinsan talaga kapag di mo hinahanap, kusang dumarating
DeleteHappy for you baks but curious ako what unconventional way was that
Delete12:12 Instagram. He followed me and I followed back. Then after few months we started chatting and got really close and the rest is history.
DeleteWhat’s with all this “You already have everything” ballyhoo? Does having it all equate to happiness? Ang superficial lang ng dating when you capitalize on “having everything” to obtain happiness or contentment in life.
ReplyDeletewell, how can you be happy if you have nothing? hmm
DeleteLevel headed KC
ReplyDeleteI'm happy when I have money. I could buy what I need, as well as the people I love. I could extend help if I have money. But don't worship money, use it in a good and productive way. Most of all, work for it. Mas masarap gastusin ang perang pinag trabahuhan sa tamang paraan.
ReplyDeleteSomeone who loves me more than I love him
ReplyDeleteWon't leave my side
Won't take advantage of me
Good luck on her pursuit of finding happiness then. She's all about external validation.
Could there be anyone who's more self-centered?
The decision to be happy should start from within. Pitiful KC.
Exactly what is self centered about wanting someone who wont leave you or take advantage of you? Kelan yon naging pitiful? napaka feeling better ka naman na wala sa lugar.
Delete2:47 Yun rin ba pamantayan mo ng happiness? Validation galing sa ibang tao?
DeletePwede naman. Sana nga maging happy ka rin.
2.47 Maybe sa part na "about wanting someone who wont leave you" kasi it takes two to tango diyan eh. - Not 11.07
DeleteI don't understand what the problem is. Just because you "don't want someone to leave you" does not necessarily equate to you can't be alone or can't be happy alone. I enjoy my own company, but I am not going to say my it's ok if my husband leaves me. I would say he is part of my peak happiness in life.
Delete8:14 ya i get your point it takes two to tango but whats wrong with sayig that part of your happiness is someone who won't leave you (context is probably that she wants the person to stay?)
Itong si Kc na to wala ng ginawa kundi maghanap ng lovelife pero puro failures pa rin. Walang nag tatagal. Baka hindi ka wifey material KC. Wala sa looks yan, nasa ugali mo gurl at kung paano mo i handle relationships. Walang nagtagal sayo. Omg malapit ka ng mag 40 kaya pala parang desperate magka LL lagi. Ayaw mabakante
ReplyDeleteOmg ang perfect mo siguro
DeleteMaybe she is pagdating sa lovelife?
DeleteLook at the second picture.May laman ang sinabi niya.Therapy is great.So read between the lines.She was probably depressed before then she had therapy.
ReplyDeleteMaybe troubled people should stay away from soc med. Misunderstanding can happen with her love ones, and netizens can be unkind. Even if nasanay na tayo sa socmed, its possible to live without it
ReplyDeleteSo who will be the judge on who's too troubled for soc med and who's just right?
DeleteWhat about just practicing kindness.
Hmmm, she can’t function without social media.
Delete