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We have to help those who are suffering from depression.Encourage people or those we love to seek professional help instead of making fun of them.
ReplyDeleteButi na lang at mga me mga kakayahan magpagamot mga ito papano na lang yung mga naWoke at Super Sensitive? Lolobo ang budget ng gobyerno sa Health Care! Hindi na nga magkandaugaga!
DeleteNobody is making fun of mental health. Sa mga artista na rin lang naman nanggagaling yan. At kung kelan lang May project or pino promote sila. Artists should also stop using mental health for promotional gimmick or para mapag usapan sila.
Delete2:06 hindi porket ikalolobo ng budget ng gobyerno sa health care e hindi na siya dapat pagtuunan ng pansin. Magbasa basa ka rin para malaman mo kung gaano ka-kailangan rin yang paglaanan ng resources natin. Hindi yan inarte lang. Pag aralan mo muna bago kumuda diyan
Delete2:09, mental health should be a priority, too. Hindi porke hindi siya visible ay hindi siya dapat pagtuunan ng pansin. Wala naman sanang malaking problema sa budget kung hindi binawasan ng gobyerno ang health care funds by 1 billion at nilagay sa "Intelligence" funds ng Office of the President.
DeleteI urge you to read and see kung saan napupunta ang pera natin as taxpayers. It is terrible and disgusting to say the least.
kaya nga dapat unawa sa mga taong may problema. akala mo kung sinong iba dyan na di man lang mag isip sa sasabihin purkit matanda na alaways right kuno. matanda or bata we have to understand the situation of others. some were blessed some were unlucky.
DeleteDito kasi sa Pilipinas na kung magpatingin sa psychiatrist ang tao,masama na ang chismis.Wag ganun.Mas lalo pa dapat palawakin ang pag uunawa.biguan ng psychiatric help mga artista at mga kabataan tulad ng ibang sakit.
DeleteHaaaaay.
ReplyDeleteI like what gab was doing.Encouraging others and making us aware of what depression is.
ReplyDeleteTbh, it makes me uncomfortable. People who've worked with individuals na may mental disorders would prolly know what I'm talking about. The diagnosis that was disclosed to the public doesn't seem to be the whole picture, especially that there was a history of abusive and manipulative behavior. Of course walang professional na magdidispute publicly cause there are guidelines sa pagdisclose ng sensitive information.
Delete2:42 yes madaming factors that triggers depression. Hindi lang basta nadedepress ang isang tao, may certain causes like abuse, stress, loss of loveones, withdrawal from drugs and many more. Kaya nga dapat people should be sensitive, kasi prior to depression maaring marami pang pinagdaan yung taong nadiagnosed.
DeleteGets kita..abusive cla tpos ung way na i control nila ung mga tao sa paligid nila e mag se self harm cla pra pa victim cla to manipulate and mcontrol nila ang mga tao with what they want.partner ko parati xa nagte threaten na magsuicide xa. Sa harapan ko usually, so ako, ntatakot gnagawa ko gusto nya, pero nung huli, hindi nako nadala sa "attempts" niya, dun nmn ngstart pananakit nya sakin kahit anak namin nasasaktan nya, kaya nag decide ako iwan xa. nlaman ko nlng my bipolar xa.
DeleteExactly 8:37. These people obviously have problems and they definitely need some help, but they definitely won't benefit from the same course of action that will usually be followed when dealing with those who have clinical depression or anxiety disorder. There are even books written by professionals for other professionals on how to protect themselves from being manipulated by their patients, those who have conditions that are "distinct".
DeleteNasaan na yung mga ibang “mental health advocates” na laging nagpapainterview? So pag press people tikom pala sila sa mga advocacy nila?
ReplyDelete1:53 So you expect ilista dito sa FP lahat? Libre mag-Google.
DeleteWalang karapatan ang ibang tao na sabihan kang tumalon na lang sa building. Kahit pa pabiro o pang asar. Naalala ko dati nung bumagsak ako sa board exam, dun sa ikalawang take ko habang nagrereview ako, may nagsabi sa akin, dapat ipasa mo na yang pangalawa take mo, kundi tumalon ka na lang sa building. Bata pa ko non kaya tumatak talaga sa akin iyon. Dekada na lumipas pero di ko makakalimutan un sinabihan ako ng ganon. Masakit kaya un. Walang sinuman ang may karapatang sabihan ka na sumuko ka na o tumalon ka na lang sa building. Dumaan man ako sa depression, anxiety at stress pinahahalagahan ko pa din ang kaisa isang buhay na meron ako. At simula non lahat ng exam na tinake ko, pasado na ako.
ReplyDeleteTotoo, yung mga jokes na minsan kahit pa gaano na katagal sinabi sayo pero naaalala mo kasi iba ang epekto sayo. Hay, sana wag lahat gawing biro.
DeleteAng malalim na meaning kasi nung joke na yun is pag hindi ka nakapasa e maghihirap na ang buhay mo dito sa mundo equal na din na para kang mamamatay. Ang NAGPAPADEPRESS TALAGA sa mga tao e yung pressure na makasabay at makaconform sa standard ng mundo. Yung INGGIT na nararamdaman na YUNG IBA MERON AKO WALA tapos naging talamak pa ang socmed na makikita mo na puro mga materialistic ang content kahit pa sabihing para sa mga kapamilya nila LALO NA YUNG MGA YOUTUBERS puro mga Achievements at mga kasosyalan at pamumudmod ng pera ang mapapanuod mo! Mas lalong NAKAKADEPRESS YUN dahil GUSTO MO DING GAWIN SA MGA MAHAL MO SA BUHAY MGA GANUN!
DeleteIt is never ok to joke about suicide. My husband has attempted suicide several times..pati ako ngka anxiety kasi hindi ko alam baka pag gising ko, nag succeed na xa..he is receiving care and taking meds right now..but i know he needs more than that..so please po. This is no joking matter..
ReplyDeleteBe strong baks. 🙏
DeleteHealing prayers for you and your husband. Pakatatag ka po.
DeleteWill pray for you and your husband..I also experiencing depression but I lift it all to Jesus. God bless you and your husband.
DeleteDapat rin tumigil na mga celebs sa pag post ng cryptic caption.Sa totoo lang,ung kay Nadz na post ang dating parang warning kay James na magpapakamatay siya .Kaya siguro binalikan ni James,natakot siya for Nadz. Si Ricky Lo,tagal na sa propesyon at hindi niya stake name niya,if not true ung nasulat niya.Lets see if mag apologises siya kay Nadine.Lalabas rin ang katotohanan,its just a matter of time kung sino nagsasabi ng totoo. At napaka low naman kung gimik iyong ginagawang posts ni Nadine para lang pagusapan siya.
ReplyDeleteAnuna, 2020 na at ganyan ka pa rin mag isip.
DeleteAs a follower of KPop medyo mas naging aware ako sa depression. Hindi talaga ginagawang biro yan kasi just last year... hay nakaka sad. Sa iba biro yan, pero sa depressed person, they might take it seriously. Tapos nasa huli ang pagsisisi. Why didn't we helped. Why we didn't see the signs.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me to all the experts out there but I humbly disagree that people who commit suicide have mental illness. Just because some people are so depressed and frustrated that they want to end their lives doesn't mean may katok sila. I have known a few people in my hometown na may mga katok, tumanda na sila pero they never commit suicide. Palakad-lakad lang sila, nagsasalitang mag-isa, hihingan ka ng aginaldo kahit hindi xmas pero they are harmless, minsan nauutusan pa sila ng pamilya nila to do simple errands. I know some people too who commited suicide or tried to commit suicide pero normal ang pag-iisip nila, normal ang buhay nila at nagkaproblema lang sila ng matindi na hindi nila ma solve.
ReplyDeleteANg mga taong may katok ay pinagtatawanan ng mga "normal" na tao dito sa pinas and some parts of the world... It's an ignorant social problem that needs to stop but because experts keep saying that those who have suicidal tendencies have mental illness, some dumb people laugh at them the same way pag nakakasalubong sila ng tao sa kalye na nagsasalita or tumatawang mag-isa. This is my humble opinion...
True. Yung iba o Most e sumobra lang yung Drama at Emotion sa buhay dala ng mga stimuli na napapanuod niya. Tulad nung mga nakilala ko in my life span na mga nagsuicide dahil iniwan ng mga nobya nung teenager pa ako. Yung napagalitan lang Ng mga magulang Uminom at binangga yung kotse. Uso pa nun yung mga pelikulang mga magulang walang panahon sa anak at panay work. Yung hindi napagbigyan ang gustong pinabibili uminom ng lason. Eto ang ilan sa mga naencounter ko nung life span ko. Some e yung mga napressure sa work na nagbaril sa sarili dahil me nadispalko.
Deleteomgee... 729, dami ko gusto ireply sayo pero... gosh please educate yourself regarding mental illness! start with google please not sa kanto, google will help you more! goodness gracious me! iba ang mentalidad ng isang taong may depression at ang taong may i dont even want to say that word! and walang taong nag susuicide for drama lang 313... my gosh!
DeleteCan someone please explain kung bakit ganito ka-ignorante sa atin? Don't universities require college students to take some psych courses as a general requirement for an undergrad degree? Ako ang nahihiya pag nakakakita ako ng ganitong mga nagpopost ng opinyon sa isang subject na wala silang alam. Baks, yung "katok sa utak" na sinasabi mo ay schizophrenia, and ibang diagnosis yung ng mental disorder separate from major depressive disorder. Both may or may not lead to suicide.
Delete7:29.i respect your humble opinion.. Thats what i used to think before. I think iba iba lang ang klase ng depression ng mga tao. Kung normal na tao ka. Kasi, di mo magagawang magsuicide dahil ito ay nakakatakot gawin. Pero kung ikaw ay halimbawa di nakakatulog sa tindi ng problema mo sa buhay, nagkaka diperencia ang utak at sa palagay ko unknowingly ang nagagawa mong gawin ang mga bagay na yun. Nag iiba ang mental state. I had a bipolar sister who is manipulative keep on saying she will commit suicide oag may sumpong, pero eventually, di nya naman nagawa
DeleteDiba inaadvocaye ni kylie verzosa to? Bkt sya pa yta ang walang pake? Im not saying na sumawsaw sya but.. ito ung pinag lalaban nya dba?
ReplyDeleteNanalo na at tapos na ang reign eh so dedma na
DeleteIt's a two way warning actually. People should not joke about mental illness and people should not use mental illness for their own drama.
ReplyDeleteArte nyo. Nung panahon namin in the 80s, walang ganyan. As we grow older, we fight our problems head on. Pure guts and love of God. This generation talaga oh.
ReplyDeleteTita, hindi po kita ibabash dahil naiintindihan kong hindi niyo naiintindihan ang depression. Paki google na lang po tungkol kay Joey De Leon at depression, baka maliwanagan kayo.
DeleteNung panahon nyo po tita, wala pang social media. Hindi nyo po alam kung gaano kalaking impact ang internet at socmed sa mental health and self-perception ng kabataan ngayon. Ako, 1990 ako pinanganak kaya hindi pa nga extreme exposure ko sa internet compared sa Gen Z. But GenZ are born into this technology, and have known nothing else. you have no idea what impact this has on their way of thinking.
DeleteKaya yes, you can say it was easier for your generation, because you did NOT have the same environment as these kids have now. Please educate yourself po.
Hope you can also educate yourself on different causes of mental illness as you grow older. Aside from personal problems and environmental factors, have you ever heard of neurotransmitters and chemical imbalances in the brain? Wala kang karapatan to compare your generation to whatever generation or to whoever experiencing mental illness.
DeleteI agree with tita!1995 ako pinangank hindi pa ganun kalakas ang sm pero sa panahon na yun dun ka talaga lalaban madami na kaming pingdaanan pero kinaya namin mahirap din kami,pansin ko lang kung sino pa yung mga may kaya sa buhay sila pa yung nkakaranas ng ganyan.. ako mga kapatid ko iniwan ng tatay at tatay nila.. ang nanay namin nagkaron ng mental illness inalagaan kami ng lola namin namatay ang lolo namin.. gumaling na ang nanay namin. pero kaming magkakapatid lumalaban sa buhay
DeleteBAKA PO SADNESS LANG ANG PINAGDAANAN NYO NUNG KABATAAN NIYO, HINDI DEPRESSION. MALAYONG MALAYO PO.
DeleteSa tingin ko wag muna mag social media ang mga taong may suicidal tendencies.
DeleteDepression was not a joke but sana huwag din masyadong isensationalized kasi as I observed we, Millennial and Gen Z, are obsessed with what is trending. Iyon bang kahit konting sadness lang, associate na nila agad sa depression, now if you told them na mali assessment nila sa sarili nila, saka papasok na gusto nilang patunayan na depressed talaga sila by committing suicide attempts. Haysssst, I hope every institution has a free consultation regarding mental illness.
ReplyDeleteAGREE!!!!!
DeleteKung ako yan,maski anong rason pa ang makita natin,bilang tulong sa kapwa,samahan na magpatingin ang mga taong sad o depress sa psychiatrist.Kasi sila ang nakakaalam tulad ng ibang specialista ng ganitong karamdaman.
DeleteThey must seek professional help. Very sensitive talaga yang issue na yan. Ako nag attempt nung College a few times meron akong scars sa wrist. Hanggang ngayon naiisip ko pa din pero grabeng support ng asawa ko and family ko kaya hanggang ngayon kinakaya ko. Minsan ang hirap kasi kahit may baby and teen daughter ako parang gusto ko pa din tumakas sa lungkot. Minsan nagshashower ako bigla ko naiisip. Or nagdadrive ibangga ko nalang kaya. Pero dasal dasal eto buhay pa. Iniisip ko din kung may madadamay pa. Pero my brother can't be without meds. Psychologist lang ang pinuntahan ko pero sya narefer pa sa Psychiatrist. Pero sinabihan din kami na yung sa kanya medyo nasa manipulative behavior. Ginagamit nya yung stress nya na cause ng kalokohan nya para maawa kami. Yun ang warning ng Psychologists. Kaya dapat talaga may professional help. Kasi si mother ko na stress masyado akala nya sya ang reason bakit lagi magsusuicide daw sya. So nung nakausap yung Psychologists medyo gumaan pakiramdam ni Mother. Iwas lang sya sa brother ko na maoffend pa or whatever.
ReplyDeleteTrue.Kailangan magpatingin sa doktor.Do not rely on socmed dahil hindi doktor ang karamihan sa mga mema.
DeleteI have mild depression and anxiety disorder. It's never easy dealing with it. Last month was the worst, wherein I have cut myself. I was feeling hopeless, lonely, scared all of a sudden that have triggered it.
ReplyDeleteI am loved by my family, have a good paying job as Virtual Assistant, got lots of doggies, but still depression hits me.
Sorry to hear what you go through, 12:03. Hope you have more healing this 2020, you are worth it.
DeleteAt the age of 34, sexually abused by a relative from ages 4-10, I have attempted to commit suicide 15 times. I admit that I was different when I was younger but to be bullied almost everyday na sana magpakamatay ka na lang, and when my attempts failed, sasabihin nila “Kahit ang impyerno ayaw sa akin” kaya buhay pa rin ako and mag try and try until I literally die ako is not right.
ReplyDeleteMaking light of suicide alone is not a joke. Yung mga nangaatribida and desensitizing “woke” people who are sensitive enough, should really look in the mirror kung bakit ang tapang tapang nyo mag salita na kesyo kung sad lang depressed na. We don’t know what someones mind and life is going through unless you are them.
When my bullies found out that I was a victim of mental and sexual abuse, some of them apologized and felt remorse because they didn’t know. I have no idea what Nadine is going through because i’m not her, and not my life I have lived. However, the mental health industry is relatively young and we are learning so much about our own uniqueness and chemical imbalances.
People can still function with mental health FYI. They can be doctors, nurses, lawyers, a celebrity and be very great in their craft. Just because they don’t show it, it doesn’t mean they don’t go through it. And we are also very scared of being shamed and blamed. I’m glad to see alot of Filipinos who comment are very much aware and transparent to fight for people like me. - PTSD, bipolar, child abuse survivor
Sorry for what you went through 2:37. You are strong and more power to you!
DeleteSuicide cases like Goo Hara deserves to be sympathised. She experienced sexual assault, threats over revenge p*rn, loss of a close friend, bonus pa yung daily bashing sa kanya na wala naman syang ginagawang masama. Pag ganun klaseng trauma gaya kay Hara ang ma.experience mo, grabe talagang mental trauma ang naiidulot ng mga pangyayaring yan. Now, as of other suicide cases that aren’t even close to the physical and mental trauma that Hara went through, magsitigil sana kayo sa mga hugot nyo sa buhay. NOT EVERY suicide case deserves to be sympathised, especially if it’s rooted from shallow personal issues. Bahala kayo jan.
ReplyDeleteWhatever the reason is,suicide is a serious matter.Kayat dapat maski hindi mo alam ang rason ng depression ng isang tao,tulungan nating makabangon.Seek help of medical professionals dahil kung tayo tayo lang malay ba natin sa mga sakit na ganito.
DeleteHmmm, depression is serious but the problem today is that people declare themselves suffering from depression without being professionally diagnosed as such. Being sad, nervous and miserable at times don’t mean you are suffering from depression. All of these feelings are normal reactions to everyday situations from time to time.
ReplyDelete7:08, Very true. Over used and abused na ang tern na yan kasi. Some people are just using it to get attention or as an excuse for their bad behaviour.
DeleteYun nga ang point.Since hindi alam ng tao kung sadness ba yan or clinical depression,we should always encourage those who are suffering to see the psychiatrist.Samahan natin silang magpagamot.
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