2:27 but it was shawie who first hinted their supposed rift/misunderstanding/tampuhan on ASAP. So sya ang unang nagpublicized char. Haha tyaka practice what you preach. Sya na nagsabi sana minessage sya ni kc privately. Bakit sya hindi na lang nya sinabi privately un napakahabang litanya nya.
Kasi Sharon put KC in a bad light again on ASAP. On live TV. So bashers harassed KC. So KC posted over social media to make everyone happy. Of course you still bash her because you are a Shawie tard
Bakit sila sa IG using their public profiles nagsasagutan? Tapos sabi ni Sharon, ang dami daw nakikialam sa social media. Public posts will generate public opinion. Ganyan ang mundo.
ako binasa ko lahat at babasahin ulit kasi ang cute cute ni sharon magsulat, cute ng mga choices of words niya, intelligent naman siya talaga pero the way she mix a bit of humor like calling her kids gremlins, like na like ko. sana ganyan din ako magsalita :)
2:11 Hindi nga lang si KC ang pinapahiya niya disguised in sweet message eh. Basta may tampo siya sa isang tao, naka ready na ipahiya sa instagram. Kahit sa ABSCBN nung hindi nakatanggap ng invitation sa Ball na hindi naman din niya pinupuntahan.
Exactly 2:11. This is KC’s way of fighting back. Poor girl has been manipulated enough by Sharon. I pity the other 3 kids if things do not go Sharon’s way
Sasabihin ko sana OA na naman kaya lang nabasa ko yung sa Christmas eve na ang tagal nila naghintay pero hindi dumating kaya kumain na sila. New Year’s eve wala din sya at di man lang daw nagtxt. Bakit kaya?
sus hindi mo lang naintindihan baks. basa ulit. mega will always love her kahit missing in action at walang call and sms nung birthday niya. MYMP. make your momma proud
1020 pinalaki siyang independent ng mga magulang niya. Natuto yung bata tapos ngayon aasahan na magpaparamdam lagi? Pagtiwalaan na lang niya na napalaki niya ito ng maayos at matibay. Babalik at babalik naman iyan sa kanya kapag ok na siya. Nilalagyan lang ni sharon ng drama ang kung anuman pinagdadaanan ng anak niya. Again it's about her. LOL.
Wake up, Sharon! She is obviously going thorugh a hard time. The best you can do is reach out to her PRIVATELY. Kawawa naman anak mo na call out mo nanaman in public. What kind of mother are you?
Omg 1:53! Baka nga may pinagdadaanan si Kc! Ganyan din ako madalas given my problems. Walang soc med. Walang tv. Trabaho uwi meetings lang. Sa gitna ng mga yan - iyak. Wala ako gusto kausap. My mom and sis (they live together and they know mg problems) are the ones who reach out to me. I don't initiate the conversations kasi i don't even have the slightest will to do anything. Text o call d ko kaya
1:53 bec again obviously KC is not in good place. May moment ang tao na pag may problema choose to be alone katulad ni sharon nung may ala mid life crisis before. Wala ka naman narinig kay kc about sa pinagdadaanan ni shawie before. She even offered good praises for her. Tong si shawie minsan marunong dapat makiramdam to give a little space for her daughter, after all matanda na yan sila. Tama ba i-compare nya sarili nya kung ano syang anak sa anak nya. So sya na perfect
Susko, hindi pa tapos ang araw naghanash at nagparinig na siya sa TV. Tanghali pa lang, may time pa para bumati yung anak pero nilaglag na niya. Anong klaseng Nanay yan? Obvious naman na mahal siya ni KC ang problema kay Sharon matanda na nga spoiled pa din ang arte sa buhay. Gusto niya siya ang magdikta kung paano mage-express ng love yung anak niya. Di lang nakapag guest sa ASAP nilaglag niya ng bonggang bonga in public. Kaloka.
Kasama mo lang si KC noong holidays okay naman kayo. Hindi ka lang nabati agad nag assume t parinig ka na. Sana hinintay mo munang matapos yung birthday mo bago nag conclude about KC.
Sana binasa ng buo yung message nya para alam mo kung anong nangyari nung holiday na yan. Alam kong mahaba but take time to read it. Hindi lang ito tungkol sa bday greeting ni KC but much more than that and the reason why she has to post this in social media.
syempre hindi ka ba naman batiin ng anak sa txt o tinawagan man lang. KC defended herself agad dun sa paghahanap ng nanay nya. imbis na nagpakita na lang sana. 1 day ahead pa binati sa IG lang. onting paalaa sa mga anak na masyadong independent. magpahalaga sa mga magulang. bow
I’m so lucky and thankful na walang Instagram nanay ko. May FB siya pero mas abala siyang maglike ng pictures ng friends niya kesa magpost ng status. Papalitan ko password ng wifi oras na magdrama siya sa FB. Hehe
1:19 same. Buti na lang di rin ganu ka tech savy ang nanay ko. Ako rin gumawa ng fb niya. Kaya oras din na dramahan niya ako idedeactivate ko yun agad.
I actually never accepted my own mother's FB request. I knowwww, she doesn't know how FB works. TMI to the world lang mangyayari. Tipong I-pm ko sya pero ang sagot nya sa wall aka post - in public pa. nakupowwww
Ako, suwerte, technophobic nanay ko.Ni text di marunong. Pero before internet, sobrang daldal na niya kahit sa mga kapitbahay. Inis na inis ako noon pag may gathering sa bahay. Panay praise ng mga bisita kasi daw tahimik kami at naka pirmi lang sa mga kuwarto namin. Ang hindi nila alam, no choice kaming mgakakapatid. Kasi pag nagparamdam kami, kalokang pagpapahiya at pambubuko ginagawa sa amin. Kaya ngayon, thankful kami, takot siyang matutong gumamit ng technology, hehehe. Its ghastly just to imagine kung anu-anong drama at anik anik na ibubulgar niya.
The daughter choosed to love them from a distance. Naku Naman mega, nasa 30s na anak mo and living her on life. Don't expect her to report to you ano naging activity Niya everyday. Don't expect her na lahat Ng okasyon available siya para sa inyo. Lastly ayaw mo ma bash kaya anak mo nilalaglag mo to justify Yung naging actions mo. N
Hahahahaha, true. Just like me. I love my family but I can’t be with them for a long time and I don’t want constant communication with them about everything. It’s gets too much kasi.
8:47, anong pinagsasabi mo diyan? Umuwi si KC nung pasko. Nag hihimutok lang si Sharon kasi dumaan muna si KC sa mga kamag-anak na nag-gathering sa bahay nila Helen Gamboa and Sen. Sotto. Besides, KC is often abroad as can be seen on her soc med postings. Dalawang occasion lang yan pinalalaki ni Sharon, graduation ni Frankie at New Year. Kalerks, our eldest was also away when our only brother graduated, wala namang nag emote. KC is an adult and had the right to make her own traditions and live her own life. Kung gusto niya sa ibang lugar mag New Year, karapatan niya yun. Masyadong mapagdikta si Sharon. Ang hirap siguro naging anak niya.
8.01 kung makapagsalita ka parang sure kA Na every time ay nagdidikta Si Sharon. Napaaral siya at nabigyan ng magandang buhay Ni Sharon so definitely Hindi mahirap maging anak Ni Sharon.
respect! her message was loud and clear. ewan sa mga hindi makagets. anyway i am praying most for KC tbat she finds direction in life and finds time to visit her mom every week. imagine they live only in makati. i like the message here. respect, love and gratefulness sa mga magulang natin.
130 ganun talaga. Lol, hindi kami artista ha pero yung hubby ko kahit ang lapit lapit lang ng nanay nya 1 or 2 a month nya lang binibisita at minsan nakakalimutan pang maggreet ng birthday. Lol, baka naadapt ni Kc ang ganyang ugali nung nasa Europe sya.
Di ko na binasa lahat pero obvs kawawa si kc sa nanay nya lagi na lang may hanash. She looks like a nice lady pa naman na na laging nabbash. And hindi din ok na mataas expectations sa kanya pero hindi sya sumikat ng bongga. Controversial pa ex. Sharon should treat her better, mas pabebe pa sya sa anak nya.
Couldnt agree more with KC being nice. My cousin who once had KC's makeup done back in 2012 would attest to her being very friendly, good-natured and extremely generous
Minsan kasi pag meron tayong pinagdadaanan we chose to isolate ourselves. Sana mag-reach out si Sharon privately. Ofc, iba-iba tayong lahat pero most cases, pag lumaki kang broken family, you feel alone. May kulang. Parang ayaw mo abalahin parents mo because alam mong may kanya-kanya na silang family. Mahirap rin.
I read Sharon's nobela of a caption. Basing from that, it seems na Sharon thought the best way to get through KC is via social media since hindi nagpaparamdam si KC sa kanila. Sad, mej naluha ako sa message ni Sharon. But I can't blame KC kasi kasi it'd obvious na may pinagdadaanan talaga siya. Sharon sana inintindi niya na lang si KC and not make it about herself. Pero ganun din kasi usually ang mga tumatanda and going/went through menopause. Nagiging madamdamin. I know, kasi ganun ang mom ko. Minsan OA na talaga and sadly, nagiging toxic siya kaya I'm distancing myself pag nagiging toxic na siya. Praying for healing for all of us...
Panong di nagpaparamdam mgksama nga sila nung Christmas di ba pinost pa nya yon. She treats KC like a child din kasi na dapat lahat naka report sa kanya. Masyadong needy at clingy na nanay.
I, too, read the whole thing. It made me sad and almost cried. I understand the love that Sharon has for her first born but she should reach out more to her now, but not on social media. KC might be experiencing something in her personal life. As a mother, she should know that.
Agree, 2:39. Sad for both of them but I truly hope Kc's ok. I've been through this phase - lowest, darkest time in my life. Ni di ko na alam araw, o kung may okasyon ba, kasi para akong zombie na may routine na kaya ko icomplete while I'm lifeless - dead inside talaga:(
Huh? 5:17, kailangan talaga pumunta sa ASAP kahit ayaw niya? Sa ayaw nung tao mag TV appearance eh. Si Sharon nga hindi sinipot ang kasal ni Regine at Ogie kasi ayaw niya yung gown niya. At that time she only wore black because of her weight. Dapat intindihin niya na sometimes ayaw ng tao lmag public appearance.
Yup, pero for sure KC has her reasons. Yung sinabi ni Sharon na "Wag ka lumayo samin.." ganyan, naisip ko baka minsan feeling out of place si KC sa family nila kaya she spends less time na with them. Obvious na mas close si Sharon kay Frankie. Siguro kahit sina Kiko na ang nakalakihan niyang family, minsan mahirap pa rin sakanya na incomplete yung own family niya since yung dad and mom niya may sarili ng family
All i can say is that we all have different lenses. We can say all our opinions but at the end of the day each of us have our own ways of expressing our emotions. Live and let live. In the end it will mend.
she’s a mom so i understand where she’s coming from. i feel sorry for KC tho. parang may pinagdadaanan yata sya( not her mom) . kaya worried ang nanay. now why do it via socmed? maybe sharon felt its the best way to reach out to her panganay who seems ghosting the whole family .
With this lengthy caption of hers, she only invited more people to judge her daughter. I get that she's hurting and longs for her daughter pero iba iba maman kasi kada anak. Independent panganay niya hayaan na niya.
E kung si Kiko kaya mag post din ng mahabang caption noon detailing how he yearns for his wife na palagi nagpopost ng throwback with her exes? Pasalamat ka mature lahat ng nasa paligid mo Shawie, your kids included.
People can say whatever they want about how KC isn't communicating with them how Shawie wants her to, but we don't know KC's reasons. She wouldn't be like that for no reason. For all we know they have a toxic relationship wherein it is much healthier to be distant but civil. It happens.
Kc is obviously avoiding her family for unknown reasons. Of course, she is entitled to her own feelings pero kung may rift talaga, sana di sya nag post publicly in ig after syang maparinggan sa asap kasi ang labas, it wasn't sincere and more of a pr stunt. She should've sent a private message as what sharon said.
Meh. Kay KC ako dito. Lagi nalang kasi pag magulang ka kala mo dapat ibigay sayo yung mundo ng anak mo even when ang dami ding issues ng anak na nakukuha sa mga magulang. Like here how can you feel loved when you have nothing of your own, no family na talagang sayong sayo na hindi ka tatanong okay lang ba maging parte nito? Hmm also Sharon sorry pero from your posts, ang hirap maging anak mo. Lagi mo na lang pang dapat ishout sa mundo na may problema ka. Hello KC is 30+ already. She clearly is going through something. Leave her be and leave her alone. Just because ngayon alam mo ng maging magulang doesn't bring back na absentee kayong dalawa sa start ng life ni KC and through growing up ever since!
Eto kasi iyung hindi alam ng mga tao. Kc was raised practically by her grandparents. Nothing wrong with her pursuing her career while she was in demand but iyan yung isa sa tradeoffs nun.
Nanay ako and I feel her. Sa mga nega dyan, pag naging magulang na kayo maiintindihan nyo where she is coming from.
Oo mali na pinost pa nya sa social media pero siguro yun lang ang way nya to get through KC, and also para makita na din ng mga bashers na nagmamarunong.
Sharon does not treat KC like a child. In fact she’s been independent since she was like 17 or 18? Sharon is just longing for her daughter, yun bang magparamdam man lang during special occasions which happens only once a year. And even if she’s been living independently for how many years now, mano ba namang magtext sya sa nanay nya from time to time on her whereabouts. Respeto lang sana sa magulang na nag aalala sa anak.
No need to humiliate your adult child on social media, and paint her as an ungrateful daughter. Fix it privately or give her the space she clearly needs. You just widened the gap further.
Nakakatawa na she included Kakie’s graduation sa event na sana complete sila yet she fail to show up nun naglaunch ng jewelry line si Kc which is i’m sure quite important for KC too. Only Kiko attended the event, no show ang nanay na mapahal ng pantay sa mga anak.
Her message also says about missing Kc doing the ate roles and her role as a daughter. Wala yun missing her as she is. Wag nya rin sana compare how she was to her late mom na lagi tinatawagan at update kung saan. Super update nga sya pero nakalusot pa na nabuntis sya at young age. Minsan kasi wala din sa ganun yun. Nakikita naman ni Kc na they are all doing well. From afar nakamasid sya sa family. May mga taong ganun klase magmahal yun di need na lagi physically present.
Literal na pasaway kahit pa nasa edad na si KC does not mean na hindi sya magpapaalam sa Nanay nya at porket may pera sya na sarili nya. At the end of the world nanay mo ang laging nasa tabi mo.
Huh? Mid 30s na may sariling buhay, living independently, running her own business tapos magpapaalam pa regarding her daily activities? Wuuutt? And FYI hindi siya laging nasa tabi ng anak niya. May mga importanteng events nga si KC no show siya.
No. Although there are a lot of good things about filipino family culture, our parenting ways can be too toxic in some ways. Parents have to understand that their children are individuals, not an extension of themselves. They deserve a space to be their true, authentic selves without day to day scrutiny from their parents as adults. KC turned out to be a good person, tumayo sa sariling paa and hindi naman nagbigay ng kahihiyan sa pamilya niya. She earned the right to be trusted na kaya niyang patakbuhin ang buhay niya. Sa parents naman, they gotta calm down. It's their time to focus on themselves now.
Ang anak kasi walang ka amor amor sa nanay nuon pa talagang may sariling mundo itong si kc nagiging closed lang kuno pag may nga jowang hinaharap sa pamilya.daming sakripisyo ng nanay sakanya maygad kc anuna tumatanda kana grow up!
Naku tita Shawie nilaglag mo na naman si KC lol. Bayaan mo na yung anak mo ang laki na nya she has her own life. I dont think magpo post si kc sa IG nya ng bday greeting sa yo but bec nilaglag mo sya sa asap kaya ayun. Ikaw naman yung nanay sana inintindi mo na lang at mukang may pinagdadaanan yung anak mo. Wishing ma patch up yung tampo mo kay kc soon.
Not siding with Sharon pero usually talaga ang ibang mga parents na 'oldies' sensitive and longing sa atensyon ng mga anak. Yung Mom ko nga (same age ni Sharon) nag tampo nung binuksan ko yung wine namin before New Year sa di ko maintindihan na rason.haha. My point is, di ko rin masisi si Shawie. Malas lang nya, sikat siya kaya daming hanash ng tao. Si KC sana mag adjust (kahit papaano)
Pwed rin kasing tawagan na lang niya o puntahan sa mga gamboa yung anak niya di ba? But no, it has to be kcs fault all the time they have misunderstandings.
KC is definitely going through something. Pero masakit pa din sa isang ina ang di pag pansin ng anak mo sa yo lalo na sa mga mahahalagang okasyon. I hope KC is okay. May dahilan yan kung bakit sya lumalayo.
So in short yung nakatapos basahin ang caption, naiintindihan si Shawie. Pero yung mga hindi nagbasa ng caption, feeling nila may mali or selfish si Shawie.
Oo nga, nasan ba kasi si KC? Hindi nya naman kailangan magparamdam everyday for 365 days, pero atleast ung family celebrations like New Year's Eve or birthday ng mom nya, ano ba naman ung dumalaw every once-in-a-while. Nasa Makati lang silang lahat.
Ang daming OFWs nangungulila abroad, kung magagawa lang nilang umuwi tuwing birthday ng mga mahal nila sa buhay. Si KC may kotse at driver naman, ano ba naman ung ilang oras dalawin nya pamilya nya?
Madaling magsabi dahil hindi tayo si kc. Baka ang fsmily atmosphere nila is less than the ideal that sharon seems to want to portray it in socmed. Naniniwala akong lahat ng tao may kanyang rason.
Umuwi siya nung Pasko. And busy din yung tao. Just because she is not publicly visible it does not mean she is just bumming around. Nakita ko nga yan during the SEA Games. She was working behind the scene. Di naman pwede na lahat ng occasion magkakasama. Brother ko nga kumain lang ng Noche Buena nag disappearing act na agad, God knows where. Hindi naman nag emote Nanay namin kahit favorite niya ang brother ko. Parents need to give their children breathing spaces. Huwag ipahiya ang anak in public. Nakakaloka.
Weh? 6:27, siguro in the eye of people like you who base their assessment of people on what are posted on soc med. Binasa mo ba ang post ni 3:12 ng maayos? KC worked during the SEA games. As far as I know, she was also behind the scenes sa IConic concert. She runs her own business, she goes to school, she has involvement in charities, she has photoshoots. So what if she parties? Bawal? Even 8 to 5 people have the right to go out and have fun, so may right din ang mga free lancers at self employed. Besides, kahit ano pa ginagaws niya, basta hindi lang siya nakalock sa bahay at nagmumukmok busy pa din ang tawag diyan. She has the right to choose her own activities.
Mid 30s . Dapat attend every occasion? Dapat report lahat ng ganap. Ngek. That’s not normal. Im sorry shawi we gotta learn to let go of our kids. Let them be.
KC is in her mid 30s. She has her own life. It’s too much to expect that she be reporting her whereabouts all the time especially since she has lived independently for a long time. It’s also hard to maintain contact with someone who is so negative about your choices in life.
Christmas was just couple of weeks ago pero para namang taon na nung hindi nakita ni Shawie si KC. Wag na magtaka si Shawie kung lalong lumayo loob ng anak sakanya dahil sa ginawa nyang yan
Sharon's sentiments as a mother is a normal feeling but doing it on social media just adds more animosity towards each other. She may have phrased her words carefully, but it doesn't change the fact that she's scolding her 34 year old daughter in public. Private matters needs to be dealt with in person not on social media.
As a mother, I understand where she’s coming from, ganun yata pag tumatanda nagiging matampuhin, gusto lage atensiyon ng mga anak,,, pero bilang isang pribadong tao mas gusto ko na kausapin na lang at iparating yung lengthy message ni ms shawie in private... just to protect kc na din.
There is a so called private conversation or just message her. It’s too public Sharon but I guess even you yourself does not mind putting this on public to see so who am I to stop you 😂
They must be having issues to the point na they are not communicating properly. Families should openly talk to each other. Ang hirap kc ngayon, lahat dinadaan sa social media. Wish ko lang na all millenials were able to experience a time before social media. The perhaps relationships could have been stronger than what they are today
Stop airing your dirty laundry in public. Ayusin ang dapat ayusin privately. Marami ang lalong makikisawsaw kasi nasa socia media lahat mga hinaing nyo!
Pagkatapos ko magbasa ng nobela, nalungkot ako para kay Sharon. Iniimagine ko kung kaya kong gawin yun sa nanay ko. Parang ang hirap.
Pero, if you look at it from KC's side, parang andami nyang issues: 1) Lola's girl si KC. Aminado naman sya dun, na mas close sya sa lola nya kesa sa mommy. And wala na si lola nya now. Last year, nagbalikan sila ng "the-one-that-got-away" nya na si Pierre. FYI, boto ang lola nya kay Pierre kasi naabutan pa yun ni Mita (close? hehe). This year, break na sila ni Pierre. Holidays pa. Nakakadepress yun ha. 2) Connected to number one, dahil Lola's girl sya, mas at ease sya sa mga Gamboa relatives. Baka dahil kasabay nya sila lumaki, bilang lagi naman wala si Tita Shawie. So ngayong down sya, she opted to spend more time with the people she is more at ease with. 3) Connected to number two, kahit na ala-Modern Family ang pamilya nya with Sharon and Francis, feeling ko mahirap pa rin yun for her. Hindi ako product ng broken family pero imagine na may pamilya na ang both parents mo. May sari-sarili nang mga anak. Para kang island! She must not feel that comfortable lalo na mukhang happy-ng happy ang nuclear family nya. 4) Entirely guessing pero feeling ko, si KC ang type na selosa. And seeing how close Sharon is to Miel before, and recently with Frankie, feeling ko nagseselos ang Big Ate. Sharon has been vocal about Frankie being her best friend. Sa interviews ni KC before, sabi nya excited na syang lumaki para finally mag-share na si Mommy nya sa kanya na parang friend at hindi daughter. Siguro nakikita nya yung gusto nyang relationship sana with Sharon, ganun ngayon si Sharon at Frankie. Pinupuntahan pa lagi sa US kasi miss na nya. Samantalang sya na feeling down lately, hindi man lang mapuntahan ng mommy nya na pareho naman sila nasa Maynila.
Tita Shawie, I know malungkot na detached sayo si KC. Pero be more understanding sana and go the extra mile by reaching out to your daughter. Literally. Tipong puntahan mo sa bahay kahit di nya alam. Spend more time with her. For sure matutuwa yung anak mo na ganun.
O diba, akala mo psychologist ako, mga beks. Hehe. Drama!
Eh bakit si kc hndi man lang kinukumusta mommy nya? Imagine,pag nasa abroad or kung saan man sya nandon sa ig lang nalalaman ng nanay nya.. acceptable ba yun.
D ko mapigilang malungkot after basahin ang post ni Ms Sharon. Bilang isang ina, nkakalungkot na me ganitong ganap between her and her daughter. For sure me factor yan bakit nangyari. Tita Shawie, d pa huli ang lahat to start afresh with ur eldest. Me way namn siguro to reach out for KC. Sna maging ok na kau considering na years n pla kayong "estranged" with each other. Sna mapuno ng pagmamahal sa bawat isa ang puso ninyo pra matakpan nito anumang pagkukulang at kamalian sa isat isa.
ang punto nya po, binati lang nya sa social media ang nanay nya, walang private message. kaya sinagot din sya sa social media. a taste of her own medicine.
Hi, first time to comment here. When I watched asap last sunday, I knew that this two have problems kasi ang dami patama talaga ni sharon. I went to kc’s instagram, if you check yung followers niya, wala dun si sharon. Also sa post naman ni sharon sa ig, kasama niya nung dec 25 si kc and the family
Wala nga tayong alam sa mga pangyayari pero now medyo may alam na tayo kasi sa pinagsasabi ni Sharon. I understand her longing for her eldest pero wag na mahabang explanation na ipost agad sa social media. May ibang kamag anak naman sila or ibang anak na pwedeng maging tulay na magkita at magkausap sila. Pero dba few days ago around Christmas magkasama sila????
Shawie feeling sad that kc wasnt there on her bday but shawie must have forgotten that she was not there during KC’s jewellery business opening/celebration or kung ano man. Kc did not maligned her after that. Ngayon ito bday lang sa asap nagalit na.
Huh? KC went to see them on Christmas. New Year lang wala. May sarili ng buhay yung tao. Di naman siguro masama mag New Year sa ibang lugar and regarding the birthday, why would KC come see her when she practically threw KC under the bus when she publicly shaded her own daughter during her ASAP appearance. Pure siya I, me, myself. Very manipulative. Wanting to control how her daughter lives. Tapos nagta-tantrum at pinapahiya ang anak when she does not get what she wants.
Lol I actually read everything. So if this is true, KC portrays a different life on social media. It always seemed like they were close as a family, her ‘we will always have New York’ message to her sister was humble bragging at most.
I read all of it, too. Medyo agree ako na KC's posts seemed she's close to her sisters and that they always communicate, but with her mom's "open letter" to her, hindi totoo. Though i read somewhere sometime ago too her mom said that since KC moved to Paris, she's gotten more independent and di masyado communicate with her mom. #sad
Wala nag si KC sa HS graduation ni Kakie, nag fly naman siya sa NYC Ning hinatid si Kakie ng family niya sa college dorm niya. Bottomline, KC goes out of her way, not the way Sharon wants her to, but KC makes the effort. She was even with Sharon on her 40th USA and Canada concert.
This rift will probably last a little longer. She put her early 30's child into bad light and I don't think this unnecessary post in public social media will help at all. KC is financially stable and can stand by herself and she does not need to report to her mom what she needs to do all the time but on the other hand if Sharon is wondering why she is silent all of a sudden then she can just text her or email her but of course she chose the opposite way by airing it on public. Yes, KC is probably-maybe has emotional crisis right now and she certainly needs her mom's understanding but at this point she just went over the top of being such an overbearing mom. Sometimes kids needs their own space especially the adult unmarried one.
Napuno na si KC lols! natural sa pamilya ganyan. Lumalayo na nga si KC eh, ugali naman kase ng Nanay nya.. lagi silang ganyan bwisitan silang dalawa. Im glad KC is so independent. Di naman sya bastos na anak, lumalayo nalang at iniintindi ugali ng nanay nyang Megastar!
Classmates paki summarize!! Haha
ReplyDeleteLol 3 words. Shawie miss KC
DeleteKapit lang mga classmates... Makakaraos din tayo.....
DeleteNami-miss niya si KC kasi hindi laging nakikipag-communicate o nagpapakita sa kanila.
DeleteAhaha dumeretso din ako sa comments para sa summary lol
DeleteTampuhan blues
DeleteKC come home...mama misses you daw baks
DeletePwde kau mag usap sa Phone. Toxic nitong mga to.
ReplyDeleteOA mo ha pero first honor ka naman agad sa comment dito. kunyari ka pa pero updated ka naman. wag kami nhahaha
DeleteKasi KC posted something online instead of messaging her mom or calling her sana. KC’s fault!
Delete2:27 but it was shawie who first hinted their supposed rift/misunderstanding/tampuhan on ASAP. So sya ang unang nagpublicized char. Haha tyaka practice what you preach. Sya na nagsabi sana minessage sya ni kc privately. Bakit sya hindi na lang nya sinabi privately un napakahabang litanya nya.
DeleteKasi Sharon put KC in a bad light again on ASAP. On live TV. So bashers harassed KC. So KC posted over social media to make everyone happy. Of course you still bash her because you are a Shawie tard
DeleteSaan dyan ang toxic baks? Nagbangayan ba sila? At kung toxic eh bakit ka nagpa epekto dapat di mo na pinansin tong post na to.
DeleteBakit sila sa IG using their public profiles nagsasagutan? Tapos sabi ni Sharon, ang dami daw nakikialam sa social media. Public posts will generate public opinion. Ganyan ang mundo.
DeleteWala kayang messaging app or pangtext o tawag tong mag-inang ito at sa IG pa dinadaan yung personal messages nila?
ReplyDeleteLol i tried reading it. Pero yung unang part pa lang omg! Kasalanan pa din ni KC, mega?? Poor daughter :(
ReplyDeleterich daughter kamo. basahin mo pa kasi para maintindihan mo wala ka kasing nanay na naghahanap sayo
DeleteBasahin mo lahat. Huwag first part lang. Nanay ako kaya alam ko ang ganyan.
Deleteako binasa ko lahat at babasahin ulit kasi ang cute cute ni sharon magsulat, cute ng mga choices of words niya, intelligent naman siya talaga pero the way she mix a bit of humor like calling her kids gremlins, like na like ko. sana ganyan din ako magsalita :)
DeleteI UNDERSTAND BOTH PARTIES. SHAWIE GREW UP BEING BABY-ED BY HER PARENTS; KC IS VERY WESTERNIZED - INDEPENDENT, SELF-SUSTAINING WOMAN.
DeleteBUT THEY SHOULD JUST TALK AND MAKE UP.
Parinig, iyak, throwback ng pictures hay naku mega every year ganyan ganap mo kay KC
ReplyDeletePansin ko din always humiliating her daugher in public pag may tampo siya
Deletepaalala sa anak na nakakalimot. kung tingnan mo IG ni mega laging laman mga anak nya. lalo si KC na simula pinanganak binibida. KC was her life.
Delete2:11 Hindi nga lang si KC ang pinapahiya niya disguised in sweet message eh. Basta may tampo siya sa isang tao, naka ready na ipahiya sa instagram. Kahit sa ABSCBN nung hindi nakatanggap ng invitation sa Ball na hindi naman din niya pinupuntahan.
DeleteExactly 2:11. This is KC’s way of fighting back. Poor girl has been manipulated enough by Sharon. I pity the other 3 kids if things do not go Sharon’s way
DeleteParehas naman silang mag ina
DeleteSasabihin ko sana OA na naman kaya lang nabasa ko yung sa Christmas eve na ang tagal nila naghintay pero hindi dumating kaya kumain na sila.
DeleteNew Year’s eve wala din sya at di man lang daw nagtxt.
Bakit kaya?
Naku Sharon gawin mo na Lang in person. Magaling ka mag sulat pero di naman kayo okay. Ayusin niyo na lang in private.
ReplyDeleteIkaw naman, huwag mo na lang basahin. Walang pumipilit sa iyo.
DeletePuro I. It's still all about the mother not the daughter.
ReplyDeletesus hindi mo lang naintindihan baks. basa ulit. mega will always love her kahit missing in action at walang call and sms nung birthday niya. MYMP. make your momma proud
DeleteKung ikaw ang ina n hindi mo alam nangyayari sa anak mo at kung bakit nagkakaganyan anak mo at nasa mlpit lang pero di ka mn lang madlaaw, tingin mo?
Delete1020 pinalaki siyang independent ng mga magulang niya. Natuto yung bata tapos ngayon aasahan na magpaparamdam lagi? Pagtiwalaan na lang niya na napalaki niya ito ng maayos at matibay. Babalik at babalik naman iyan sa kanya kapag ok na siya. Nilalagyan lang ni sharon ng drama ang kung anuman pinagdadaanan ng anak niya. Again it's about her. LOL.
DeleteThese are matters better discussed in private.Oversharing at the expense of KC being judged again.
Delete3.04 try to watch i shouldn't be alive Sa YouTube para maintindihan mo yang sinasabi mo.
DeleteWake up, Sharon! She is obviously going thorugh a hard time. The best you can do is reach out to her PRIVATELY. Kawawa naman anak mo na call out mo nanaman in public. What kind of mother are you?
ReplyDeletewhat kind of daughter is KC to not even call or message privately her mom on her birthday alam ng hinahanap siya nito? I'd say wake up, KC.
DeleteOmg 1:53! Baka nga may pinagdadaanan si Kc! Ganyan din ako madalas given my problems. Walang soc med. Walang tv. Trabaho uwi meetings lang. Sa gitna ng mga yan - iyak. Wala ako gusto kausap. My mom and sis (they live together and they know mg problems) are the ones who reach out to me. I don't initiate the conversations kasi i don't even have the slightest will to do anything. Text o call d ko kaya
DeleteHave you read her message in full because if you did you would know why Sharon opted to post this public.
DeleteOo. Mukhang may pinagdadaanan si KC.and humiliating her publicly isn't really the best idea to reach out to her.
Delete1:53 bec again obviously KC is not in good place. May moment ang tao na pag may problema choose to be alone katulad ni sharon nung may ala mid life crisis before. Wala ka naman narinig kay kc about sa pinagdadaanan ni shawie before. She even offered good praises for her. Tong si shawie minsan marunong dapat makiramdam to give a little space for her daughter, after all matanda na yan sila. Tama ba i-compare nya sarili nya kung ano syang anak sa anak nya. So sya na perfect
DeleteSusko, hindi pa tapos ang araw naghanash at nagparinig na siya sa TV. Tanghali pa lang, may time pa para bumati yung anak pero nilaglag na niya. Anong klaseng Nanay yan? Obvious naman na mahal siya ni KC ang problema kay Sharon matanda na nga spoiled pa din ang arte sa buhay. Gusto niya siya ang magdikta kung paano mage-express ng love yung anak niya. Di lang nakapag guest sa ASAP nilaglag niya ng bonggang bonga in public. Kaloka.
DeleteAng taas naman ng essay ni Sharon.. hindi ko na tinapos.. comment nalang si ako.
ReplyDeleteSharon is korek naman. Pero teh, nauna ka ksi dumakdak sa ASAP kaya nag post si KC. Halerrr? Tawagan mo kaya? Walang load ?
ReplyDeletepareho silang walang load.haha and u mean siya pa tatawag sa anak nya to ask for a birthday greeting? mabuti nga hinahanap pa si KC ng nanay niya.
DeletePalaging missing in action daw si KC sa kanila at hindi rin nila alam kung ano ang nangyayari dahil hindi rin sila tinatawagan o tine-text.
DeleteKapag usapang lalabas sa tv laging nawawala si kc
DeleteKasama mo lang si KC noong holidays okay naman kayo. Hindi ka lang nabati agad nag assume t parinig ka na. Sana hinintay mo munang matapos yung birthday mo bago nag conclude about KC.
ReplyDeleteChristmas eve before midnight na raw. Not on Christmas Day, New Year's eve, New Year's Day and her birthday. Wala rin silang narinig na kahit ano.
DeleteKOREK!
DeleteSana binasa ng buo yung message nya para alam mo kung anong nangyari nung holiday na yan. Alam kong mahaba but take time to read it. Hindi lang ito tungkol sa bday greeting ni KC but much more than that and the reason why she has to post this in social media.
Deletesyempre hindi ka ba naman batiin ng anak sa txt o tinawagan man lang. KC defended herself agad dun sa paghahanap ng nanay nya. imbis na nagpakita na lang sana. 1 day ahead pa binati sa IG lang. onting paalaa sa mga anak na masyadong independent. magpahalaga sa mga magulang. bow
ReplyDeleteI’m so lucky and thankful na walang Instagram nanay ko. May FB siya pero mas abala siyang maglike ng pictures ng friends niya kesa magpost ng status. Papalitan ko password ng wifi oras na magdrama siya sa FB. Hehe
ReplyDeleteFunny mo baks. Lol
Delete1:19 same. Buti na lang di rin ganu ka tech savy ang nanay ko. Ako rin gumawa ng fb niya. Kaya oras din na dramahan niya ako idedeactivate ko yun agad.
DeleteHAHAHAHAHA! Parehas tayo! 😂
DeleteI actually never accepted my own mother's FB request. I knowwww, she doesn't know how FB works. TMI to the world lang mangyayari. Tipong I-pm ko sya pero ang sagot nya sa wall aka post - in public pa. nakupowwww
DeleteI blocked my mom n soc med. baka kasi gayahin si tita shawie kung ano ipost 🤪
DeleteAko, suwerte, technophobic nanay ko.Ni text di marunong. Pero before internet, sobrang daldal na niya kahit sa mga kapitbahay. Inis na inis ako noon pag may gathering sa bahay. Panay praise ng mga bisita kasi daw tahimik kami at naka pirmi lang sa mga kuwarto namin. Ang hindi nila alam, no choice kaming mgakakapatid. Kasi pag nagparamdam kami, kalokang pagpapahiya at pambubuko ginagawa sa amin. Kaya ngayon, thankful kami, takot siyang matutong gumamit ng technology, hehehe. Its ghastly just to imagine kung anu-anong drama at anik anik na ibubulgar niya.
DeleteNaiyak ako, praying na makapag usap kayo soon. as a daughter, ikaw KC ang dapat lumapit sa mama mo.
ReplyDeleteThe daughter choosed to love them from a distance. Naku Naman mega, nasa 30s na anak mo and living her on life. Don't expect her to report to you ano naging activity Niya everyday. Don't expect her na lahat Ng okasyon available siya para sa inyo. Lastly ayaw mo ma bash kaya anak mo nilalaglag mo to justify Yung naging actions mo. N
ReplyDeletechose not choosed. Pero tumpak ka sa lahat gusto kasi yata ni Sharon every second naka text sa kanya
DeleteNgek! Kahit hindi magpunta sa lahat ng okasyon, puwede namang mag-text o tumawag kung makakapunta o hindi, kesa sa pakiramdaman lang.
DeleteWala na ngang regular na pagbista sa pamilya pati ba naman sa special occassion wala pa? eh pareho lang nasa Pilipinas no.
DeleteHahahahaha, true. Just like me. I love my family but I can’t be with them for a long time and I don’t want constant communication with them about everything. It’s gets too much kasi.
Delete8:47, anong pinagsasabi mo diyan? Umuwi si KC nung pasko. Nag hihimutok lang si Sharon kasi dumaan muna si KC sa mga kamag-anak na nag-gathering sa bahay nila Helen Gamboa and Sen. Sotto. Besides, KC is often abroad as can be seen on her soc med postings. Dalawang occasion lang yan pinalalaki ni Sharon, graduation ni Frankie at New Year. Kalerks, our eldest was also away when our only brother graduated, wala namang nag emote. KC is an adult and had the right to make her own traditions and live her own life. Kung gusto niya sa ibang lugar mag New Year, karapatan niya yun. Masyadong mapagdikta si Sharon. Ang hirap siguro naging anak niya.
Delete8.01 kung makapagsalita ka parang sure kA Na every time ay nagdidikta Si Sharon. Napaaral siya at nabigyan ng magandang buhay Ni Sharon so definitely Hindi mahirap maging anak Ni Sharon.
DeleteAko na yung nahihiya para kay KC. Imagine alam na ng tao yung personal na nangyayari sa inyong mag-ina.
ReplyDeleterespect! her message was loud and clear. ewan sa mga hindi makagets. anyway i am praying most for KC tbat she finds direction in life and finds time to visit her mom every week. imagine they live only in makati. i like the message here. respect, love and gratefulness sa mga magulang natin.
ReplyDeleteKung hindi man makabisita, kahit man lang text o tawag.
Delete130 ganun talaga. Lol, hindi kami artista ha pero yung hubby ko kahit ang lapit lapit lang ng nanay nya 1 or 2 a month nya lang binibisita at minsan nakakalimutan pang maggreet ng birthday. Lol, baka naadapt ni Kc ang ganyang ugali nung nasa Europe sya.
DeleteHala ka Sharon, lalong lumayo sayo c KC nyan. puntahan mo alam mo naman bahay ni KC. NKKLK!!!
ReplyDeleteUmmm! No... Nakakainis na may bigla na lang susulpot sa bahay mo ng walang pasabi.
Delete630am this! Pareho tayo kahit sino pa. Please tell me you're coming.
DeleteImagine kong ito ka penpal mo nung araw tyak ubos lagi tinta ng ballpen mo hahhaa
ReplyDeleteNo wonder si KC laging naghahanap ng validation sa mga followers nya. Hay naku Sharon stop na.
ReplyDeleteKorek! Ngayon ko na nagets why she is like that.
DeleteSi Sharon pa magstop? Me reading comprehension problem ka ba?
Delete3:04 Read again, maybe ur d one lacking comprehension.
DeleteDi ko na binasa lahat pero obvs kawawa si kc sa nanay nya lagi na lang may hanash. She looks like a nice lady pa naman na na laging nabbash. And hindi din ok na mataas expectations sa kanya pero hindi sya sumikat ng bongga. Controversial pa ex. Sharon should treat her better, mas pabebe pa sya sa anak nya.
ReplyDeleteYes, KC is super nice. Really kind and sweet. Wala talaga siyang bad bone. Met her once, napaka soft spoken at pala-ngiti.
DeleteCouldnt agree more with KC being nice. My cousin who once had KC's makeup done back in 2012 would attest to her being very friendly, good-natured and extremely generous
DeleteIn short di ko type na sa IG mo lang ako binati dapat may card chuva . Me me me hay naku naman.
ReplyDeleteThe following day na ang IG na bati.
Deletehindi nagtext at tumawag nung mismong bday. nagpost sa IG a day before lang. namimiss niya at mahal pa rin nya kahit ganon. hina ng mga toh.
DeleteThere’s a reason Shawie kung bakit nagkakaganyan ang anak mo. Sana hindi mo na pinost. TMI :(
ReplyDeleteI agree :(
DeleteMinsan kasi pag meron tayong pinagdadaanan we chose to isolate ourselves. Sana mag-reach out si Sharon privately. Ofc, iba-iba tayong lahat pero most cases, pag lumaki kang broken family, you feel alone. May kulang. Parang ayaw mo abalahin parents mo because alam mong may kanya-kanya na silang family. Mahirap rin.
DeleteI read Sharon's nobela of a caption. Basing from that, it seems na Sharon thought the best way to get through KC is via social media since hindi nagpaparamdam si KC sa kanila. Sad, mej naluha ako sa message ni Sharon. But I can't blame KC kasi kasi it'd obvious na may pinagdadaanan talaga siya. Sharon sana inintindi niya na lang si KC and not make it about herself. Pero ganun din kasi usually ang mga tumatanda and going/went through menopause. Nagiging madamdamin. I know, kasi ganun ang mom ko. Minsan OA na talaga and sadly, nagiging toxic siya kaya I'm distancing myself pag nagiging toxic na siya. Praying for healing for all of us...
ReplyDeletePanong di nagpaparamdam mgksama nga sila nung Christmas di ba pinost pa nya yon. She treats KC like a child din kasi na dapat lahat naka report sa kanya. Masyadong needy at clingy na nanay.
DeleteI, too, read the whole thing. It made me sad and almost cried. I understand the love that Sharon has for her first born but she should reach out more to her now, but not on social media. KC might be experiencing something in her personal life. As a mother, she should know that.
DeleteWala namang sinabi na laging report dapat sa kanya si KC. Longing for her daughter lang si Sharon lalo na at wala na silang naririnig kay KC.
DeleteAgree, 2:39. Sad for both of them but I truly hope Kc's ok. I've been through this phase - lowest, darkest time in my life. Ni di ko na alam araw, o kung may okasyon ba, kasi para akong zombie na may routine na kaya ko icomplete while I'm lifeless - dead inside talaga:(
Delete5:42 I feel you baks. Pag ganyan talaga di pwede asahan aila mismo mag-reach out. Ang hirap.
DeleteNasaan ka nga ba KC bat d mon man lang ba ma text ng birthday greeting ang mama mo?
ReplyDeleteNi ha ni ho, wala nga. Masakit sa nanay iyon siyempre.
DeleteI dont get it. Ano bang issue nila sa isa’t isa? Pabrief naman ako guys haha
ReplyDeleteDi ba pwede sa text, tawag or email ito? Instead post it publicly para sa mga tsismosang katulad ko? Pagpipistahan na naman ito
ReplyDeleteSinimulan ni KC eh. Sana sumipot na Lang siya sa ASAP.
DeleteHuh? 5:17, kailangan talaga pumunta sa ASAP kahit ayaw niya? Sa ayaw nung tao mag TV appearance eh. Si Sharon nga hindi sinipot ang kasal ni Regine at Ogie kasi ayaw niya yung gown niya. At that time she only wore black because of her weight. Dapat intindihin niya na sometimes ayaw ng tao lmag public appearance.
DeletePetty mo 5:17
DeleteIt started even before that
Praying for healing for both of them.
ReplyDeleteMeh, KC is too old already to be treated like a child. She deserves to be independent.
ReplyDelete230 baka you mean to be treated like a kid. Because she will always be her child kahit maputi na buhok nila pareho
DeleteThis is out of topic, but ang intense pala ng mata ni KC when she was younger. I didn't know eyes can change that much. Ganda ng mata niya nung bata.
ReplyDeleteA bit creepy actually. Glad she's not like that anymore.
DeleteNaiyak ako, tinapos ko kase basahin.
ReplyDeleteI read the entire thing. Nakakaiyak nga. She's just asking not be be shut out of her kid's life. Very sad.
Deletetruuee nakakaiyak. yung iba ang daming hanash hindi naman nagbasa
DeleteYup, pero for sure KC has her reasons. Yung sinabi ni Sharon na "Wag ka lumayo samin.." ganyan, naisip ko baka minsan feeling out of place si KC sa family nila kaya she spends less time na with them. Obvious na mas close si Sharon kay Frankie. Siguro kahit sina Kiko na ang nakalakihan niyang family, minsan mahirap pa rin sakanya na incomplete yung own family niya since yung dad and mom niya may sarili ng family
DeleteWe are not privy to anything but she also should have kept it private. Poor girl!
ReplyDeleteAll i can say is that we all have different lenses. We can say all our opinions but at the end of the day each of us have our own ways of expressing our emotions. Live and let live. In the end it will mend.
ReplyDeleteshe’s a mom so i understand where she’s coming from. i feel sorry for KC tho. parang may pinagdadaanan yata sya( not her mom) . kaya worried ang nanay. now why do it via socmed? maybe sharon felt its the best way to reach out to her panganay who seems ghosting the whole family
ReplyDelete.
Paanong ghosting she was with them during the holidays. Needy lang si sharon.
Deleteit also shows that no amount of money will ever make one happy - it’s health, love, peace of mind and family.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you even bringing up money?
DeleteWith this lengthy caption of hers, she only invited more people to judge her daughter. I get that she's hurting and longs for her daughter pero iba iba maman kasi kada anak. Independent panganay niya hayaan na niya.
ReplyDeleteE kung si Kiko kaya mag post din ng mahabang caption noon detailing how he yearns for his wife na palagi nagpopost ng throwback with her exes? Pasalamat ka mature lahat ng nasa paligid mo Shawie, your kids included.
ReplyDeleteprang ang needy ni Sharon. kailangan ba lagi mag report ang anak mong 30yrs old na sayo?
ReplyDeleteEven though this is TMI, nakakaiyak and tagos sa puso
ReplyDeleteNakakaloka parang pinapahiya niya si KC sa public. Pwede ba pag usapan niyo privately yung mga ganito
ReplyDeletePeople can say whatever they want about how KC isn't communicating with them how Shawie wants her to, but we don't know KC's reasons. She wouldn't be like that for no reason. For all we know they have a toxic relationship wherein it is much healthier to be distant but civil. It happens.
ReplyDeleteNapakasuwerte ko sa nanay ko. Buti na lang hindi si Sharon nanay ko. Kahit simple lang kami, tahimik at may peace of mind ang buhay namin.
ReplyDeleteWhy even compare yourselves to them? Iba situation nila, wag ka na magcompare.
DeleteKc is obviously avoiding her family for unknown reasons. Of course, she is entitled to her own feelings pero kung may rift talaga, sana di sya nag post publicly in ig after syang maparinggan sa asap kasi ang labas, it wasn't sincere and more of a pr stunt. She should've sent a private message as what sharon said.
ReplyDeleteMeh. Kay KC ako dito. Lagi nalang kasi pag magulang ka kala mo dapat ibigay sayo yung mundo ng anak mo even when ang dami ding issues ng anak na nakukuha sa mga magulang. Like here how can you feel loved when you have nothing of your own, no family na talagang sayong sayo na hindi ka tatanong okay lang ba maging parte nito? Hmm also Sharon sorry pero from your posts, ang hirap maging anak mo. Lagi mo na lang pang dapat ishout sa mundo na may problema ka. Hello KC is 30+ already. She clearly is going through something. Leave her be and leave her alone. Just because ngayon alam mo ng maging magulang doesn't bring back na absentee kayong dalawa sa start ng life ni KC and through growing up ever since!
ReplyDeleteEto kasi iyung hindi alam ng mga tao. Kc was raised practically by her grandparents. Nothing wrong with her pursuing her career while she was in demand but iyan yung isa sa tradeoffs nun.
DeleteAgree 100%
DeleteAwww...heartbreaking...i hope they patched up things...
ReplyDeleteNanay ako and I feel her. Sa mga nega dyan, pag naging magulang na kayo maiintindihan nyo where she is coming from.
ReplyDeleteOo mali na pinost pa nya sa social media pero siguro yun lang ang way nya to get through KC, and also para makita na din ng mga bashers na nagmamarunong.
Sharon does not treat KC like a child. In fact she’s been independent since she was like 17 or 18? Sharon is just longing for her daughter, yun bang magparamdam man lang during special occasions which happens only once a year. And even if she’s been living independently for how many years now, mano ba namang magtext sya sa nanay nya from time to time on her whereabouts. Respeto lang sana sa magulang na nag aalala sa anak.
No need to humiliate your adult child on social media, and paint her as an ungrateful daughter. Fix it privately or give her the space she clearly needs. You just widened the gap further.
ReplyDeleteNakakatawa na she included Kakie’s graduation sa event na sana complete sila yet she fail to show up nun naglaunch ng jewelry line si Kc which is i’m sure quite important for KC too. Only Kiko attended the event, no show ang nanay na mapahal ng pantay sa mga anak.
ReplyDeleteHer message also says about missing Kc doing the ate roles and her role as a daughter. Wala yun missing her as she is. Wag nya rin sana compare how she was to her late mom na lagi tinatawagan at update kung saan. Super update nga sya pero nakalusot pa na nabuntis sya at young age. Minsan kasi wala din sa ganun yun. Nakikita naman ni Kc na they are all doing well. From afar nakamasid sya sa family. May mga taong ganun klase magmahal yun di need na lagi physically present.
Wala din si Sharon when KC and Mark Nicdao had an exhibit. Only Sen. Kiko was there.
DeleteOonga noh
DeleteLiteral na pasaway kahit pa nasa edad na si KC does not mean na hindi sya magpapaalam sa Nanay nya at porket may pera sya na sarili nya. At the end of the world nanay mo ang laging nasa tabi mo.
ReplyDeleteHuh? Mid 30s na may sariling buhay, living independently, running her own business tapos magpapaalam pa regarding her daily activities? Wuuutt? And FYI hindi siya laging nasa tabi ng anak niya. May mga importanteng events nga si KC no show siya.
DeleteNo. Although there are a lot of good things about filipino family culture, our parenting ways can be too toxic in some ways. Parents have to understand that their children are individuals, not an extension of themselves. They deserve a space to be their true, authentic selves without day to day scrutiny from their parents as adults. KC turned out to be a good person, tumayo sa sariling paa and hindi naman nagbigay ng kahihiyan sa pamilya niya. She earned the right to be trusted na kaya niyang patakbuhin ang buhay niya. Sa parents naman, they gotta calm down. It's their time to focus on themselves now.
Deleteang nanay ay nanay na laging hahanapin ang pagmamahal ng anak lalo na sa mga importanteng okasyon yun ang hinde magets ng mga nega
ReplyDeletePuro me me me kasi si sharon. So unlike a typical mom.
DeleteAng anak kasi walang ka amor amor sa nanay nuon pa talagang may sariling mundo itong si kc nagiging closed lang kuno pag may nga jowang hinaharap sa pamilya.daming sakripisyo ng nanay sakanya maygad kc anuna tumatanda kana grow up!
ReplyDeleteLumaki siya sa mga lolo lola niya habang nagtatrabaho si sharon.
DeleteKay Sharon pa rin siya nakatira noon.
DeleteAwww very touching. I dont know but i feel sad reading this post from a mother 😣
ReplyDeleteNaku tita Shawie nilaglag mo na naman si KC lol. Bayaan mo na yung anak mo ang laki na nya she has her own life. I dont think magpo post si kc sa IG nya ng bday greeting sa yo but bec nilaglag mo sya sa asap kaya ayun. Ikaw naman yung nanay sana inintindi mo na lang at mukang may pinagdadaanan yung anak mo. Wishing ma patch up yung tampo mo kay kc soon.
ReplyDeleteMahaba sya pero binasa ko, I feel for Sharon as a mom too.
ReplyDeleteNot siding with Sharon pero usually talaga ang ibang mga parents na 'oldies' sensitive and longing sa atensyon ng mga anak. Yung Mom ko nga (same age ni Sharon) nag tampo nung binuksan ko yung wine namin before New Year sa di ko maintindihan na rason.haha. My point is, di ko rin masisi si Shawie. Malas lang nya, sikat siya kaya daming hanash ng tao. Si KC sana mag adjust (kahit papaano)
ReplyDeletePwed rin kasing tawagan na lang niya o puntahan sa mga gamboa yung anak niya di ba? But no, it has to be kcs fault all the time they have misunderstandings.
DeleteKC is definitely going through something. Pero masakit pa din sa isang ina ang di pag pansin ng anak mo sa yo lalo na sa mga mahahalagang okasyon. I hope KC is okay. May dahilan yan kung bakit sya lumalayo.
ReplyDeleteAng malaking tanong ay baket ayaw ni KC twagan xa?
ReplyDeleteSo in short yung nakatapos basahin ang caption, naiintindihan si Shawie. Pero yung mga hindi nagbasa ng caption, feeling nila may mali or selfish si Shawie.
ReplyDeleteTama, kaya lowest ang pilipinas sa reading comprehension eh. Headline lang binabasa, comment agad
DeleteOo nga, nasan ba kasi si KC? Hindi nya naman kailangan magparamdam everyday for 365 days, pero atleast ung family celebrations like New Year's Eve or birthday ng mom nya, ano ba naman ung dumalaw every once-in-a-while. Nasa Makati lang silang lahat.
ReplyDeleteAng daming OFWs nangungulila abroad, kung magagawa lang nilang umuwi tuwing birthday ng mga mahal nila sa buhay. Si KC may kotse at driver naman, ano ba naman ung ilang oras dalawin nya pamilya nya?
Madaling magsabi dahil hindi tayo si kc. Baka ang fsmily atmosphere nila is less than the ideal that sharon seems to want to portray it in socmed. Naniniwala akong lahat ng tao may kanyang rason.
DeleteUmuwi siya nung Pasko. And busy din yung tao. Just because she is not publicly visible it does not mean she is just bumming around. Nakita ko nga yan during the SEA Games. She was working behind the scene. Di naman pwede na lahat ng occasion magkakasama. Brother ko nga kumain lang ng Noche Buena nag disappearing act na agad, God knows where. Hindi naman nag emote Nanay namin kahit favorite niya ang brother ko. Parents need to give their children breathing spaces. Huwag ipahiya ang anak in public. Nakakaloka.
Delete3:12 anong busy walang ginawa kundi maglakwatsa
DeleteWeh? 6:27, siguro in the eye of people like you who base their assessment of people on what are posted on soc med. Binasa mo ba ang post ni 3:12 ng maayos? KC worked during the SEA games. As far as I know, she was also behind the scenes sa IConic concert. She runs her own business, she goes to school, she has involvement in charities, she has photoshoots. So what if she parties? Bawal? Even 8 to 5 people have the right to go out and have fun, so may right din ang mga free lancers at self employed. Besides, kahit ano pa ginagaws niya, basta hindi lang siya nakalock sa bahay at nagmumukmok busy pa din ang tawag diyan. She has the right to choose her own activities.
DeleteNgek. Ang hirap sa posisyon ni kc. I feel for her.
ReplyDeleteKorek. Imagine KC trying to be private and everything but her mom is doing the opposite. hays.
DeleteGoodness parang sobrang laking kasalanan. I dont want tbe in kc’s position.
ReplyDeleteMid 30s . Dapat attend every occasion? Dapat report lahat ng ganap. Ngek. That’s not normal. Im sorry shawi we gotta learn to let go of our kids. Let them be.
ReplyDeleteKC is in her mid 30s. She has her own life. It’s too much to expect that she be reporting her whereabouts all the time especially since she has lived independently for a long time. It’s also hard to maintain contact with someone who is so negative about your choices in life.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree. It is so hard to be in KC’s position.
DeleteChristmas was just couple of weeks ago pero para namang taon na nung hindi nakita ni Shawie si KC. Wag na magtaka si Shawie kung lalong lumayo loob ng anak sakanya dahil sa ginawa nyang yan
ReplyDeleteSharon's sentiments as a mother is a normal feeling but doing it on social media just adds more animosity towards each other. She may have phrased her words carefully, but it doesn't change the fact that she's scolding her 34 year old daughter in public. Private matters needs to be dealt with in person not on social media.
ReplyDeleteAs a mother, I understand where she’s coming from, ganun yata pag tumatanda nagiging matampuhin, gusto lage atensiyon ng mga anak,,, pero bilang isang pribadong tao mas gusto ko na kausapin na lang at iparating yung lengthy message ni ms shawie in private... just to protect kc na din.
ReplyDeleteThere is a so called private conversation or just message her. It’s too public Sharon but I guess even you yourself does not mind putting this on public to see so who am I to stop you 😂
ReplyDeleteThey must be having issues to the point na they are not communicating properly. Families should openly talk to each other. Ang hirap kc ngayon, lahat dinadaan sa social media. Wish ko lang na all millenials were able to experience a time before social media. The perhaps relationships could have been stronger than what they are today
ReplyDeleteKaya nga nagkaganyan lahat nalang dinaan sa socmed
DeleteToo much information Shawie.
ReplyDeleteIKR - Nkkloka!
DeleteSharon is wondering why KC needs to use socmed to reach out to her. Can you practice what you preach Sharon?
ReplyDeleteBaket nakatira ba sila sa magkabilang mundo?
DeleteDi ba nola alam phone number ng isat isa? Di ba uso dm kay KC?
Stop airing your dirty laundry in public. Ayusin ang dapat ayusin privately. Marami ang lalong makikisawsaw kasi nasa socia media lahat mga hinaing nyo!
ReplyDeleteSharon should not complain why people are commenting on their public post,she should have made it private or ioff notification.
DeleteKC has never posted anything negative bout her mom. Si Sharon lang ang me, me, me.
DeleteMaybe KC just needs a break from her cringey mom.
ReplyDeletePagkatapos ko magbasa ng nobela, nalungkot ako para kay Sharon. Iniimagine ko kung kaya kong gawin yun sa nanay ko. Parang ang hirap.
ReplyDeletePero, if you look at it from KC's side, parang andami nyang issues:
1) Lola's girl si KC. Aminado naman sya dun, na mas close sya sa lola nya kesa sa mommy. And wala na si lola nya now. Last year, nagbalikan sila ng "the-one-that-got-away" nya na si Pierre. FYI, boto ang lola nya kay Pierre kasi naabutan pa yun ni Mita (close? hehe). This year, break na sila ni Pierre. Holidays pa. Nakakadepress yun ha.
2) Connected to number one, dahil Lola's girl sya, mas at ease sya sa mga Gamboa relatives. Baka dahil kasabay nya sila lumaki, bilang lagi naman wala si Tita Shawie. So ngayong down sya, she opted to spend more time with the people she is more at ease with.
3) Connected to number two, kahit na ala-Modern Family ang pamilya nya with Sharon and Francis, feeling ko mahirap pa rin yun for her. Hindi ako product ng broken family pero imagine na may pamilya na ang both parents mo. May sari-sarili nang mga anak. Para kang island! She must not feel that comfortable lalo na mukhang happy-ng happy ang nuclear family nya.
4) Entirely guessing pero feeling ko, si KC ang type na selosa. And seeing how close Sharon is to Miel before, and recently with Frankie, feeling ko nagseselos ang Big Ate. Sharon has been vocal about Frankie being her best friend. Sa interviews ni KC before, sabi nya excited na syang lumaki para finally mag-share na si Mommy nya sa kanya na parang friend at hindi daughter. Siguro nakikita nya yung gusto nyang relationship sana with Sharon, ganun ngayon si Sharon at Frankie. Pinupuntahan pa lagi sa US kasi miss na nya. Samantalang sya na feeling down lately, hindi man lang mapuntahan ng mommy nya na pareho naman sila nasa Maynila.
Tita Shawie, I know malungkot na detached sayo si KC. Pero be more understanding sana and go the extra mile by reaching out to your daughter. Literally. Tipong puntahan mo sa bahay kahit di nya alam. Spend more time with her. For sure matutuwa yung anak mo na ganun.
O diba, akala mo psychologist ako, mga beks. Hehe. Drama!
Totoo. Pero add mo na may pagka self absorbed si mommy shawie na dapat lahat tungkol sa kanya sa feelings niya sa opinions niya.
DeleteNoted po
DeleteEh bakit si kc hndi man lang kinukumusta mommy nya? Imagine,pag nasa abroad or kung saan man sya nandon sa ig lang nalalaman ng nanay nya.. acceptable ba yun.
DeleteD ko mapigilang malungkot after basahin ang post ni Ms Sharon. Bilang isang ina, nkakalungkot na me ganitong ganap between her and her daughter. For sure me factor yan bakit nangyari. Tita Shawie, d pa huli ang lahat to start afresh with ur eldest. Me way namn siguro to reach out for KC. Sna maging ok na kau considering na years n pla kayong "estranged" with each other. Sna mapuno ng pagmamahal sa bawat isa ang puso ninyo pra matakpan nito anumang pagkukulang at kamalian sa isat isa.
ReplyDeleteWag kang pabebe Ate Shawie. There's a private way to reach out to KC and start again. This post doesn't help your situation.
ReplyDeleteang punto nya po, binati lang nya sa social media ang nanay nya, walang private message. kaya sinagot din sya sa social media. a taste of her own medicine.
Delete12:37 magbasa ka
Delete@12:37AM Kasi nagshade si Shawie kay KC in public dun sa ASAP so KC defended herself by the social media post.
DeleteHi, first time to comment here. When I watched asap last sunday, I knew that this two have problems kasi ang dami patama talaga ni sharon. I went to kc’s instagram, if you check yung followers niya, wala dun si sharon. Also sa post naman ni sharon sa ig, kasama niya nung dec 25 si kc and the family
ReplyDeleteWala nga tayong alam sa mga pangyayari pero now medyo may alam na tayo kasi sa pinagsasabi ni Sharon. I understand her longing for her eldest pero wag na mahabang explanation na ipost agad sa social media. May ibang kamag anak naman sila or ibang anak na pwedeng maging tulay na magkita at magkausap sila. Pero dba few days ago around Christmas magkasama sila????
ReplyDeleteShawie feeling sad that kc wasnt there on her bday but shawie must have forgotten that she was not there during KC’s jewellery business opening/celebration or kung ano man. Kc did not maligned her after that. Ngayon ito bday lang sa asap nagalit na.
ReplyDeleteChristmas, new year, at birthday po. at nawawala ng matagal na di nila alam kung nasaan na.
DeleteHuh? KC went to see them on Christmas. New Year lang wala. May sarili ng buhay yung tao. Di naman siguro masama mag New Year sa ibang lugar and regarding the birthday, why would KC come see her when she practically threw KC under the bus when she publicly shaded her own daughter during her ASAP appearance. Pure siya I, me, myself. Very manipulative. Wanting to control how her daughter lives. Tapos nagta-tantrum at pinapahiya ang anak when she does not get what she wants.
DeleteLalo kang di kakausapin ng anak mo if you keep exposing her in social media
ReplyDeletetruth. she’s just rubbing salt in the WOUND.
DeleteLol I actually read everything. So if this is true, KC portrays a different life on social media. It always seemed like they were close as a family, her ‘we will always have New York’ message to her sister was humble bragging at most.
ReplyDeleteI read all of it, too. Medyo agree ako na KC's posts seemed she's close to her sisters and that they always communicate, but with her mom's "open letter" to her, hindi totoo. Though i read somewhere sometime ago too her mom said that since KC moved to Paris, she's gotten more independent and di masyado communicate with her mom. #sad
DeleteWala nag si KC sa HS graduation ni Kakie, nag fly naman siya sa NYC Ning hinatid si Kakie ng family niya sa college dorm niya. Bottomline, KC goes out of her way, not the way Sharon wants her to, but KC makes the effort. She was even with Sharon on her 40th USA and Canada concert.
DeleteThis rift will probably last a little longer. She put her early 30's child into bad light and I don't think this unnecessary post in public social media will help at all. KC is financially stable and can stand by herself and she does not need to report to her mom what she needs to do all the time but on the other hand if Sharon is wondering why she is silent all of a sudden then she can just text her or email her but of course she chose the opposite way by airing it on public. Yes, KC is probably-maybe has emotional crisis right now and she certainly needs her mom's understanding but at this point she just went over the top of being such an overbearing mom. Sometimes kids needs their own space especially the adult unmarried one.
ReplyDeleteOmg, busted si kc by her own mama. That’s really low.
ReplyDeleteNapuno na si KC lols! natural sa pamilya ganyan. Lumalayo na nga si KC eh, ugali naman kase ng Nanay nya.. lagi silang ganyan bwisitan silang dalawa. Im glad KC is so independent. Di naman sya bastos na anak, lumalayo nalang at iniintindi ugali ng nanay nyang Megastar!
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