Bakit kaya ngayon inabandera na ang lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay nila sa social media. Wala namang maitutulong ang mga tsismosang bashers at mga taong paki alamera.
Sa korte ka pumunta para idulog reklamo para merong action at mabigyan ng child support anak mo.I feel bad and sorry for you talagang ang Pag-Ibig ay bulag. Maganda ka at merong pinag aralan at makakakita ka pa. God Bless sa iyo at sa anak mo
Nagkaron na po ng usapan sa barangay noon pero lately po, mula ng lumabas na Ang isyu ng bagong kinakasama, Hindi na ito nasusunod at Hindi naman po ako nagkulang ng pagffollow up privately na lagi naman pong Hindi pinapansin at hindi sinasagot. Ngayon po, sinagot na Nila Tru press conference. Hindi naman po ako celebrity na may Mga hawak na media at nakakapag press conference like that.
Agree kay 4:37. Ang bottom line talaga diyan ay dahil pinalitan na siya. Masakit naman talaga iyon.
Ang tungkol sa mga anak niya, nagsusustento naman pala si Jomari with matching yaya at maids pa. Hindi pa lang naibibigay amg Starex although anytime na kailanganin, puwede niyang gamitin. Akala ko noong una, hindi nagsusustento, iyon pala ay ibinibigay naman ng regular as scheduled kaya lang gusto niyang dalasan.
I don’t understand what she’s doing. If you want to be left alone, then let it rest and get a job. Hindi lang ikaw ang inanakan at iniwan. Stop using social media. Sue him for child support and make sure he’s abiding by what the court tells him to give. Then move on.
She’s just exposing him. What’s so wrong about that? If you haven’t been on her shoe, don’t act like one. Let her grieve and move forward the way she knows how. You don’t know what’s she’s going through to even say that!
Mga gurls, nothing wrong with what she is doing. It’s common knowledge that social media has become powerful in airing grievances. Ma buti ng yan para wala Nang mabiktima si Jomari. Jusme, intindihin nyo naman si gurl. Wala ba kayong Friends na na inabandona. I ka nga woman scorned sya. Paano ba yan naging konsehal? Hats off sa empathy mo, 1:57. I know women who have been in a similar situation kaya Getz ko.
Expose then whats the benefit to her and the kids? Shes just making everything else more complicated. It seems her only choice now is move on from her bad decision so for me her rants is not helping her at all. Its a setback everytime she goes to social media about how they were abandoned.
Agree with 1:32 if u want to move on you dont need to post in social media. If u really want peace let him be who he wants to be. If he is not supporting the kids go to court. Hindi lang ikaw ang iniwanan ng lalaki or asawa so dont say na we dont understand. Maganda may pibag aralan ka nman siguro why dont you work for yourself and your kids instead of depending in him so that way whether he gives or not it wont matter to you. Mas magiging tahimik pa ang buhay. Its just money. Dont say na ang pinaglalaban mo eh ang karapatan ng mga bata. Nag iingay ka kasi nasaktan ka at yan ang way mo to get back at him. If you are really thinking about your kids you should stop this and focus on yourself and tour kids
1:23 "hindi lang ikaw ang inanakan" ang insensitive mo masyado baks.. kung sayo or sa kapatid or sa magiging anak mo mangyari yan? dalawa pa yang iniwan sa kanya.. hayyy.. pagtanggol pa talaga yung iresponsableng lalaki na yun.
1:23 "If you want to be left alone, then let it rest and get a job" -- kadiri ka magisip. Di mo ba nabasa? Gusto nya ng peace of mind, na tipong hindi na nya mayat maya kailangang habulin si jomari kasi nagbibigay nang kusa BASE SA NAPAGKASUNDUAN. Kapapanganak lang nya, mahirap iwanan ang newborn para magwork. Mahirap kumuha ng nanny. Kung kukuha naman, dagdag sa expenses, na ano, shouldered pa rin nya? Sobrang gastos naman yan at forever malulumpo na financially si ateng. Habang si jomari ang daming extra money para mambabae. Nilalaban lang nya ano tama. Since nagpressrelease si jomari sa public, sumagot din sya in public. Basa naman na may legal agreement na ang dalawa, hindi lang sumusunod ang lalake. Wag mo iassume na tengga lang si babae at puro socmed.
Aminin nyo, kung hindi artista or politician si Jomari tapos nagtatalak sa social media ang ex ay iisipin nyo lang na she is palengkera for washing dirty laundry in public. Get a lawyer and sue him, yun ang best way to deal with this issue.
Kung ako, higit pa dyan gagawin kong pamamahiya. Pilay ako nyan financially for how many years. Di mabilis magmoveon sa ganun. Hindi ito simpleng mag bf/gf lang, sana wag magmarunong iba dyan na nakikitira pa sa nanay at pinapalamon ng parents. Hindi nyo alam hirap ng buhay.
Ito opinion ko lang naman. Pag ganyan na ang tatay ng mga anak dapat gumawa na din sya ng paraan kesa mag intay sa tatay ng mga anak nga na ibigay ang mga demands nya. Wala na syang magagawa kung ganyan lang ang gustong ibigay sa kanya. Mas marami pang masahol na lalaki out there na kahit singkong duling ayaw mag bigay. Meron din naman na hindi ka iiwan pero palamunin naman. Ang babae kailangan marunong na din tumayo sa sariling paa at matuto dumiskarte in case ang makuha nilang asawa eh walang kwenta.
Yes maraming masahol na lalaki at alam mo bakit masahol sila at kapal mukha? Because people like you tolerate them and never made accountable that's why they are confident to do these things because know they can get away with it! Kelangan mga gani tong lalaki I all out in public if necessary aside from consistent legal action! Because the more we don't hold them accountable the more guys will do this. For me tama lang I all out yan sa social media para ma's mapabilis ang action. Kasi public servant yan at ayaw ng kahihiyan. If the girl will keep this a private battle this might derailed necessary actions. So ffs tama na ang gani tong reason excusing irresponsibility!! Make deadbeat dad's accountable!
When my daughter’s bio dad had another woman 14 years ago I decided to become a single mom. Her bio dad didn’t give any financial support and the worst he turned the table to me having another man šš. I stood tall, I kept my silence and composure for my daughter, I prayed and worked hard, I chose happiness. Now my daughter is 20 heading to her 4th year college soon. I don’t beg to that irresponsible man instead I beg for God’s mercy and blessings! To all single moms cheers to you all. God bless us always ❤️
you're pretty at ang bata pa.. hayaan mo na yung iresponsable na yun, let fate punish him. move on.. work hard na lang for your sons.. sa ganda mo na yan i'm sure may makikita ka pang mas karapat dapat.
1:26 tingin mo hinahayaan nyang magutom ang anak nya pag hindi nagbibigay nang tama si jomari? May anak ka na ba? Bata ka pa ba at nakikitira sa parents mo? Syempre hindi nya hinahayaang magutom ang mga bata sa ngayon. Pero maraming unexpected expenses kung magkasakit, need bakunahan, emergency, etc. Not to mention yung insurance for the kids, educational plan, etc. Kailangan nya ng katuwang para naman maging maganda buhay ng mga bata. Syempre nakakainis pag nanay ka at alam mong kaya magbigay ng ama pero pinagkakaitan ang mga bata sa magandang future. Kaya mo rin magprovide pero mas maginhawa sana kung may tutulong di ba, kasi responsibilidad nya naman talaga. May trabaho si ateng dati, maganda, sa government. Pinagresign ni jomari with the promise na sya na bahalng sumuporta basta magalaga sya ng bata. Hindi pala asa si ateng umpisa pa lang, pero pinilit syang magresign. Sabay hindi pala tutupad ng pangako? Tinapon na nya career nya eh, baka ngayon balik sya sa mababang sweldo, pano pagkakasyahin?
Mag asawa ba sila? Para sa mga classmates natin na familiar sa Family Code natin, kung hindi siya asawa may habol ba siya under the law? Also, napanood ko yung video na yan, and puro “respect to the family” (of Abby Viduya) yung sinasabi ni Jomari. š Yung transportation daw, hindi binigay yung Starex pero provided daw and transpo kapag kailanagan. At any rate, hindi ko rin alam kung paano at bakit nanalong konsehal ng ParaƱaque si Jomari.
They’re not married, they just lived together under one roof and had 2 kids. Sa PH law, she has no grounds as a legal wife would have but it’s different with her kids, she could ask for financial support for them since Jomari has a “full time job” as councilor. The child support would depend on the father’s monthly salary.
Hindi sila mag-asawa kaya wala siyang habol sa alimony, pero pwede siyang maghabol ng child support para sa dalawang bata. Yung "Starex" pwedeng hindi ibigay ni Jom sa girl basta regular ang child support dahil technically considered ang kotse na luxury. I agree, paano nanalo si Jom na konsehal, pero alam na natin na mahilig ang maraming botante sa artista.
People like jomaru should be made accountable. Hindi yung move on move on nalang. Kaya damning lalaki malakas ang loob Di mag bigay ng child support dahil puro kayo move on. Fight for the children's right is what a mother should do.
Ang hinahabol nya ung para sa mga bata lang. Paano nya nga bubuhayin ng mag isa. Una, pinaalis sya ni Jomari nung timr na sila pa sa work nya. 2nd, isang 1 yr old at isang halos kakapanganak palang na bata inaalagaan nya. Paano?
12:33 are you sure??? Ewan anong reading compre meron ka, nagkakaproblema nga sila sa sustento eh. Pero ikaw sure na sure kang babayaran ni jomari. Alam mo one missed payment lang, baka iwanan sila ng nanny, mas mahassle sa work si ate pag iniwan sila sa ere ng nagbabantay. Hindi naman kasi si jomari ang mananagot pag nagluko/nawala bigla ang nanny e. At kahit tama binabayad mo, may nannies na di mo rin matantsa ang ugali. Mahirap talaga. Kung ganyan kadali sinasabi mo, sana lahat ng new moms kumuha na lang ng nanny. Hay.
12:30, wala bang anesthesia sa mga procedures nnuya? May recovery period naman yun. Bakit kinaladkad ba siya oalabas ng ospital pagkatapos ng panganak at apendectomy?
3:31 from your comment one can sense you’re a pleasant person - NOT! Please tell me where is it that I implied “kinaladkad sya palabas”? My point is on top of a delicate pregnancy, giving birth and a major operation like appendectomy anybody will need significant amount of time to heal fully. Add to that the responsibility for 2 kids under 3 years old. Regardless, whether or not Jomari has another gf now he is still the father of these babies and have parental responsibilities he needs to fulfil.
Ang ingay ng babaeng ito, sa barangay ka magteklamo regarding the agreed support na di nabibigay sa inyo.. wala magawa ang social media sa problema mo, mag enjoy pa mga bashers sa pag bash sa’yo.
Sorry po but I'm doing this to fight for what's right. Meron pong barangay agreement na Hindi nasusunod and privately, I tried to solve this and tried to reach out but text messages and calls have been totally ignored. Meron pong nagawa ang social media sa Mga Kagaya Kong Hindi celebrity na walang hawak na media people at Hindi nakakapag press conference anytime na gustuhin. Hindi po ako nabobother sa bashers. Mas madami po Ang matatalino at may puso na nagmamalasakit.
@joy Reyes if properly documented the agreement made thru your barangay, go to proper forum (law) .. court not here social media. Yes May matatalino Tao pero Ano magagawa nila to help, they can give opinions and advise.. . you’re pityfishing.
Do what u think is right for your kids. Tama, private life should not be in social media but if the concerned person cannot be reached or deadma na lang, social media na lang siguro option mo. Madaling mgcriticize ang iba if they are not in your position. Go, go,go girl.
1:58 Tingin mo may pakialam pa sya sa bashers at this point in her life? May mas malaki syang laban na kinakaharap, di naman sya celebrity, pakialam nya sa bashers. Sya biktima, hayaan mo syang iexpress saloobin nya. Si jomari nga nagpapressrelease pa eh, sya nga nangagrabyado. Dumaan naman sa legal way, kaso wala, hindi sinusunod ni jomari. Panibagong reklamo siguro gagawin, another waiting game. Kung way nya to para pressurin si jomari, let her be. Basta para sa mga bata na totoo namang responsibilidad nung lalake. Ibang tao nga na ang bababaw ng hanash, hinahayaan nyo e. Ito pang may mas malalim na issue, gusto nyong pagbawalan. Tsk. Priorities.
Infer I like Abby Viduya and naririndi na din ako sa mga post nitong Joy. I get it she's hurting and Jomari tricked and dumped her. He is wrong pero ranting all over social media isn't going to help her situation any. Maghabla na sya ng kaso instead of blabbing all over and try and find a job. Andyan naman yun program ni Raffy Tulfo if she needs assistance.
If that's the girl Joy is referring as mayaman na "babae" ni Jomari, papano naging mayaman si Abby Viduya eh isa rin yang kapos na iniwan ng asawa sa Canada at naging single mom. Look at her looks sobrang tumanda so Abby sa konsimisyon.
Hindi porke galing ng Canada ay mayaman. Mas mayaman si Jomari keda kay Abby Viduya/Priscilla Almeda. Pero hindi na tumanda ang itsura niya mula noong nawala sa kunsumisyon niya sa asawa niya dati. Ganda nga niya eh.
2:08 "i like abby viduya" -- ayan dyan kayo magaling sa kampihan. We dont need to take sides, nakikichismis lang tayo. Pero wala rin tayong karapatang pigilan si joy kung yan ang way nya para mapressure si jomari sumunod sa kasunduan. Pakialam ba nila if you like who better. May pinaglalaban sya, di ito popularity contest. Pakialam nya sa like natin, basta sya, tamang sustento lang ang gusto. Tsaka syempre wala kayong maririnig dun sa Abby, sya kabit e. Sya pumasok sa relasyon ng iba, alangan namang sya pa magmatapang.
2:08 you live in a world where mas ok magkaanak, iwanan ang mag ina dahil sa isang babae rather than rant sa social media? Ok ka Lang? Dahil sa mga katulad mo madalas mangyari mga to. Tell d truth and hold him accountable. malaki laking kaguluhan Ginawa niya. di basta basta move on. Hindi siya okay na gawin.
Let karma serve him. I know its hard esp with 2 kids but I rather have the kids than a man like him. Might be hard to move on and deadmahin but just keep yourself busy and maybe find a job and not be a dependent sa kanya.
Madaling magsalita. Hayaan nyo sya, di naman kayo ang napapagod e. Tsaka kapakanan ng kids nya ang pinaglalaban nya. Kesehodang mawala pride, ganyan ang nanay basta para sa anak. Wag nyo sya pigiling magpakananay. Sa panahon ngayon, kahit magtrabaho ka, kung single parent napakahirap ng buhay, baka isang kahig isang tuka lang mangyari sa kanila na syempre ayaw nya, kung alam naman nyang may kakayanan ang ama, nagmamaramot lang. Maganda to na umpisa pa lang ng breakup e may mastablish nang amount ng sustento, para hindi habambuhay maghirap si girl na dapat naman talaga e sagot ni jomari ang kalahati. Problema kasi sa pinoy, kinukunsinti mga nangabandona na tatay, ayan puro single mother na hindi na makaangat sa buhay. Laging gipit, laging asa sa parents. Mas pipiliin nyo ganyang setup? Please, don't.
Unsolicited advice to Joy: You got involved with a douche bag and the treatment you are getting is the consequences of this. Isipin mo na lang na wala ka nang maasahan sa tatay ng mga anak mo. Sue him for child support if you want to BUT build a new and financially independent life for you and your boys just the same. Rebuild your career and finances and accept the reality that you are going to raise them alone. Mahirap sa umpisa but you will survive this crisis. Hayaan mo na ang ex mo magkalat. Let karma do its thing in time. Good riddance na lang. Your boys need you because you are all they've got right now. I wish you well and really hope that you can rebuild a better life for you and your children.
Gets ko si ate girl. Yung tatay ng isang friend ko dati ayaw magsuporta sa 2 anak. Dinaan ni friend sa social media post yung tirades, ayun napahiya yung batugang tatay sa social media kaya napilitang magsuporta.
I'm with the woman and the children's side. Give what is due to them and on time. My dad and my brother were previous councilors. Madami talagang kita sa local government. He can easily give them 200k (or more, if he wishes or if there are no other minor children on his part) a month. Get an excellent lawyer.
The Yllanas are pretty well off. He was an actor before. If he can indulge in his cars and racing I’m pretty sure he can afford 200K for his children. The thing with males is that they have fun making babies but they shy away from responsibilities of having children.
Totoo ba na 2 maids + 2 yayas + driver + bahay ang binabayaran ni Jomari for her? Kahit ng 2 yayas lang eh maayos naman pala buhay nya. Kung sya lang talaga nag-aalaga eh mahirap yan at no wonder nagaalburuto sya sa hirap. Pero kung may yayas naman pala jusko
Ultimate PR move ang ginawa ninJomari sympre masisisra siya. Imagine nasa agreement na hindi pwede mag salita si girl sa social media. Prepared na si tatang kasi alam niya hindi magiging regular ang sustento.
Take this to court. Though it's true that social media can help raise awareness on any situtation, this move will scar your kids. Remember, anything you post online is there forever. Better concentrate your efforts into finding a good lawyer and filing a case for child suppport.
To Joy Reyes who is answering the comments here. I get u'r hurting and angry and maybe bitter. But move on na po thru legal channels for d sake of ur children. Nakikichismis lng po kami dito and some of us haven't gone thru what u'r experiencing now. As women we will support ur efforts to get financial independence and single parenthood. But please focus na lang on ur kids and not ur ex.
U trusted in a guy who didn't deserve it. Move on and find a way to get employment instead of just waiting for his financial suppport. U'v already shamed him on socmed. So what else are u gonna do? Ur kids deserve a loving mother who is 100% focused on them and not ranting on socmed. Choose happiness and a new life for urself and ur kids - from someone else in a similar situation
Even if she says na wala na siyang pake kay Jomari it's pretty obvious there's a part of her that still does and shempre natural lang yan dahil kakahiwalay lang. However too much emotions can cloud the judgment. Mauubos lang emotions mo sa social media di pa rin yan magbibigay or palalabasin na hysterical ka. Get yourself together for the kids' sake.
Delicate pregnancy. Appendicitis shortly after giving birth. 2 children under 2 years old. Even with 2 yayas and househelps you need to allow for time to physically heal from these 2 major things. Mommies go on maternity leave while those who suffered from appendicitis heal for 3-6 months.
At the end of the day tatay parin yan ng mga anak mo. At kami na di ka naman personally kilala at na nakiki chismis kahit kampuhan ka, walang magagawa para sayo. Tigilan mo na te pag post sa social media dahil ang mga ganitong bagay nireresolba sa legal na pamamaraan. Kung ayaw na sayo ng lalake, di huwag! Ilaban mo nalang karapatan ng mga anak nyo sa korte at bumalik ka sa pagtatrabaho. Alam mo naman noon pa ang klase ng pagkatao ni Jomari pero sumige ka parin. Get yourself together for the sake of your children, move forward and work!
Ang dami dito, puro pigil kay ate mag air on social media. Hayaan nyo sya kung yan way nya para mapressure si Jomari. Gagawin ng nanay ang lahat para makapagprovide sa mga bata. Ginagawa nyo kasing norm sa pinas na moveon agad pag iniwan ng lalake, tapos babalik sa bahay ng nanay, makikikain, papaalaga ng bata. Kunwari empowered at may pride. Empowerment ba yun, eh pinaalaga mo rin sa iba, nakihati ka pa sa funds ng parents mo. Gets nyo? Punto ko lang, bakit hindi pagbayarin yung totoong salarin/may responsibilidad. Aminin nyong hindi nyo kaya magisa at maghabol kayo sa lalake ng sustento. Mas mabuti yan kesa ipaubaya sa ibang kapamilya yung responsibilidad. Mas ok nga tong ginagawa ni ate kesa sa ginagawa ng iba sa inyo na balik asa sa magulang eh. Kaya wag nyong pigilan.
Ateng Joy Reyes, isa lamang akong chismosa pero gets ko where you are coming from. Fight lang ng fight for the bagets. At articulate ka ha! He definitely downgraded!
Bakit kaya ngayon inabandera na ang lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay nila sa social media. Wala namang maitutulong ang mga tsismosang bashers at mga taong paki alamera.
ReplyDeleteSa korte ka pumunta para idulog reklamo para merong action at mabigyan ng child support anak mo.I feel bad and sorry for you talagang ang Pag-Ibig ay bulag. Maganda ka at merong pinag aralan at makakakita ka pa. God Bless sa iyo at sa anak mo
Nagkaron na po ng usapan sa barangay noon pero lately po, mula ng lumabas na Ang isyu ng bagong kinakasama, Hindi na ito nasusunod at Hindi naman po ako nagkulang ng pagffollow up privately na lagi naman pong Hindi pinapansin at hindi sinasagot. Ngayon po, sinagot na Nila Tru press conference. Hindi naman po ako celebrity na may Mga hawak na media at nakakapag press conference like that.
DeleteEmail mo si FP or send message sa IG
DeleteDeep inside, yung poot ni girl ay dahil pinalitan na siya. Yung ang ugat ng lahat ng yan.
Delete4;37 unless you’re a mother already you wouldn’t understand
DeleteAgree kay 4:37. Ang bottom line talaga diyan ay dahil pinalitan na siya. Masakit naman talaga iyon.
DeleteAng tungkol sa mga anak niya, nagsusustento naman pala si Jomari with matching yaya at maids pa. Hindi pa lang naibibigay amg Starex although anytime na kailanganin, puwede niyang gamitin. Akala ko noong una, hindi nagsusustento, iyon pala ay ibinibigay naman ng regular as scheduled kaya lang gusto niyang dalasan.
Girl.. ano?
ReplyDeleteI don’t understand what she’s doing. If you want to be left alone, then let it rest and get a job. Hindi lang ikaw ang inanakan at iniwan. Stop using social media. Sue him for child support and make sure he’s abiding by what the court tells him to give. Then move on.
ReplyDeleteShe’s just exposing him. What’s so wrong about that? If you haven’t been on her shoe, don’t act like one. Let her grieve and move forward the way she knows how. You don’t know what’s she’s going through to even say that!
DeleteBesh sinagot nya lang nman mga kuda ni Jomarie.
DeleteMga gurls, nothing wrong with what she is doing. It’s common knowledge that social media has become powerful in airing grievances. Ma buti ng yan para wala Nang mabiktima si Jomari. Jusme, intindihin nyo naman si gurl. Wala ba kayong Friends na na inabandona. I ka nga woman scorned sya. Paano ba yan naging konsehal? Hats off sa empathy mo, 1:57. I know women who have been in a similar situation kaya Getz ko.
Delete1:23 bakla un nga ung pinaglalaban niya. Ung karapatan ng mga anak niya, ung sustento na dapat matanggap ng mga bata.
DeleteI agree with 1:23. Wag mo gawin cheap ang sarili mo by posting a lot of hanash
DeleteExpose then whats the benefit to her and the kids? Shes just making everything else more complicated. It seems her only choice now is move on from her bad decision so for me her rants is not helping her at all. Its a setback everytime she goes to social media about how they were abandoned.
DeleteThe only time you will understand it is if it's happening to you. Just Be thankful it's not.
DeleteAgree with 1:32 if u want to move on you dont need to post in social media. If u really want peace let him be who he wants to be. If he is not supporting the kids go to court. Hindi lang ikaw ang iniwanan ng lalaki or asawa so dont say na we dont understand. Maganda may pibag aralan ka nman siguro why dont you work for yourself and your kids instead of depending in him so that way whether he gives or not it wont matter to you. Mas magiging tahimik pa ang buhay. Its just money. Dont say na ang pinaglalaban mo eh ang karapatan ng mga bata. Nag iingay ka kasi nasaktan ka at yan ang way mo to get back at him. If you are really thinking about your kids you should stop this and focus on yourself and tour kids
Delete1:23 "hindi lang ikaw ang inanakan" ang insensitive mo masyado baks.. kung sayo or sa kapatid or sa magiging anak mo mangyari yan? dalawa pa yang iniwan sa kanya.. hayyy.. pagtanggol pa talaga yung iresponsableng lalaki na yun.
DeletePano kaya,sya mg work eh 2 ang baby maliliit pa,pg ng comment kau..ayusin nyo.dapat lng na i expose mga ganyang lalaki
Delete1:23 "If you want to be left alone, then let it rest and get a job" -- kadiri ka magisip. Di mo ba nabasa? Gusto nya ng peace of mind, na tipong hindi na nya mayat maya kailangang habulin si jomari kasi nagbibigay nang kusa BASE SA NAPAGKASUNDUAN. Kapapanganak lang nya, mahirap iwanan ang newborn para magwork. Mahirap kumuha ng nanny. Kung kukuha naman, dagdag sa expenses, na ano, shouldered pa rin nya? Sobrang gastos naman yan at forever malulumpo na financially si ateng. Habang si jomari ang daming extra money para mambabae. Nilalaban lang nya ano tama. Since nagpressrelease si jomari sa public, sumagot din sya in public. Basa naman na may legal agreement na ang dalawa, hindi lang sumusunod ang lalake. Wag mo iassume na tengga lang si babae at puro socmed.
DeleteAminin nyo, kung hindi artista or politician si Jomari tapos nagtatalak sa social media ang ex ay iisipin nyo lang na she is palengkera for washing dirty laundry in public. Get a lawyer and sue him, yun ang best way to deal with this issue.
Deletenakakasawa na tong mga post ni ate girl.. minsan mapapaisip ka if exaggerated nalang din sya.. although Jomarri really looks like a playboy
ReplyDeleteJust be thankful to God it's not happening to you. šš»
DeleteShe just gave birth..she is hurting..left with two kids with poor financial support
DeleteBakit pa kasi nagpa anak? Naka dalawa pa.
DeleteAkala kc di jomari ok lng na mng iwan ng babae na ganun na lng kadali
DeleteKung ako, higit pa dyan gagawin kong pamamahiya. Pilay ako nyan financially for how many years. Di mabilis magmoveon sa ganun. Hindi ito simpleng mag bf/gf lang, sana wag magmarunong iba dyan na nakikitira pa sa nanay at pinapalamon ng parents. Hindi nyo alam hirap ng buhay.
DeleteIto opinion ko lang naman. Pag ganyan na ang tatay ng mga anak dapat gumawa na din sya ng paraan kesa mag intay sa tatay ng mga anak nga na ibigay ang mga demands nya. Wala na syang magagawa kung ganyan lang ang gustong ibigay sa kanya. Mas marami pang masahol na lalaki out there na kahit singkong duling ayaw mag bigay. Meron din naman na hindi ka iiwan pero palamunin naman. Ang babae kailangan marunong na din tumayo sa sariling paa at matuto dumiskarte in case ang makuha nilang asawa eh walang kwenta.
ReplyDeleteYes maraming masahol na lalaki at alam mo bakit masahol sila at kapal mukha? Because people like you tolerate them and never made accountable that's why they are confident to do these things because know they can get away with it! Kelangan mga gani tong lalaki I all out in public if necessary aside from consistent legal action! Because the more we don't hold them accountable the more guys will do this. For me tama lang I all out yan sa social media para ma's mapabilis ang action. Kasi public servant yan at ayaw ng kahihiyan. If the girl will keep this a private battle this might derailed necessary actions.
DeleteSo ffs tama na ang gani tong reason excusing irresponsibility!! Make deadbeat dad's accountable!
Pag ganyan na ang hitsura ng tatay, move on na at maghanap ng iba.
DeleteWhen my daughter’s bio dad had another woman 14 years ago I decided to become a single mom. Her bio dad didn’t give any financial support and the worst he turned the table to me having another man šš. I stood tall, I kept my silence and composure for my daughter, I prayed and worked hard, I chose happiness. Now my daughter is 20 heading to her 4th year college soon. I don’t beg to that irresponsible man instead I beg for God’s mercy and blessings! To all single moms cheers to you all. God bless us always ❤️
Deleteyou're pretty at ang bata pa.. hayaan mo na yung iresponsable na yun, let fate punish him. move on.. work hard na lang for your sons.. sa ganda mo na yan i'm sure may makikita ka pang mas karapat dapat.
DeleteJusko pano kaya makagawa ng paraan yun kung ngpapa,dede pa at 2 baby? Ikaw kaya sa lugar nya
Delete1:26 tingin mo hinahayaan nyang magutom ang anak nya pag hindi nagbibigay nang tama si jomari? May anak ka na ba? Bata ka pa ba at nakikitira sa parents mo? Syempre hindi nya hinahayaang magutom ang mga bata sa ngayon. Pero maraming unexpected expenses kung magkasakit, need bakunahan, emergency, etc. Not to mention yung insurance for the kids, educational plan, etc. Kailangan nya ng katuwang para naman maging maganda buhay ng mga bata. Syempre nakakainis pag nanay ka at alam mong kaya magbigay ng ama pero pinagkakaitan ang mga bata sa magandang future. Kaya mo rin magprovide pero mas maginhawa sana kung may tutulong di ba, kasi responsibilidad nya naman talaga. May trabaho si ateng dati, maganda, sa government. Pinagresign ni jomari with the promise na sya na bahalng sumuporta basta magalaga sya ng bata. Hindi pala asa si ateng umpisa pa lang, pero pinilit syang magresign. Sabay hindi pala tutupad ng pangako? Tinapon na nya career nya eh, baka ngayon balik sya sa mababang sweldo, pano pagkakasyahin?
DeleteTinapon ang career is exag. Bata pa kasi sya, she can go back to work if she wants to.
DeleteMag asawa ba sila? Para sa mga classmates natin na familiar sa Family Code natin, kung hindi siya asawa may habol ba siya under the law? Also, napanood ko yung video na yan, and puro “respect to the family” (of Abby Viduya) yung sinasabi ni Jomari. š Yung transportation daw, hindi binigay yung Starex pero provided daw and transpo kapag kailanagan. At any rate, hindi ko rin alam kung paano at bakit nanalong konsehal ng ParaƱaque si Jomari.
ReplyDeleteThey’re not married, they just lived together under one roof and had 2 kids. Sa PH law, she has no grounds as a legal wife would have but it’s different with her kids, she could ask for financial support for them since Jomari has a “full time job” as councilor. The child support would depend on the father’s monthly salary.
DeleteHindi sila mag-asawa kaya wala siyang habol sa alimony, pero pwede siyang maghabol ng child support para sa dalawang bata. Yung "Starex" pwedeng hindi ibigay ni Jom sa girl basta regular ang child support dahil technically considered ang kotse na luxury. I agree, paano nanalo si Jom na konsehal, pero alam na natin na mahilig ang maraming botante sa artista.
Deleteyes, she has rights under the law. mas lalo na ang mga anak nila.
DeleteOo may habol siya sa child support, regardless kung kasal kayo or not.
DeleteRa 9262 pwede sya mag file if wala ngang sustento. At wala piyansa ang ra 9262
DeleteThe children 18 below kailangan may sustento na sapat
Meron. Child support.
DeleteEx ni Jomari si Abby Viduya diba, nagbalikan pala?
ReplyDeleteShe better get a good lawyer and maybe makukuha as mabuting usapan.
"Current girlfriend Abby Viduya" sila na naman????
ReplyDeleteDiba may asawa si Abby?
DeleteYes. Iniwan mga anak para lumandi. Kadiri.
DeleteHiwalay na yata pero nasa process na ang divorce.
DeleteAbby Viduya? Also known as Priscilla Almeda??
DeleteDiba ex din ni Anjo si Abby Viduya? Kalurks.
DeleteGirl, buhayin mo na lang nang maayos anak mo,di ka na pala interested pero di ka din pumepreno.
ReplyDeletePeople like jomaru should be made accountable. Hindi yung move on move on nalang. Kaya damning lalaki malakas ang loob Di mag bigay ng child support dahil puro kayo move on. Fight for the children's right is what a mother should do.
DeleteE paano ung mga anak? Un lang naman ang gusto niya ung sumunod sa usapan sa suporta para sa anak.
DeleteAng hinahabol nya ung para sa mga bata lang. Paano nya nga bubuhayin ng mag isa. Una, pinaalis sya ni Jomari nung timr na sila pa sa work nya. 2nd, isang 1 yr old at isang halos kakapanganak palang na bata inaalagaan nya. Paano?
Delete9:51, may maids at babysitters siya na binabayaran ni Jomari, kaya puwede.
DeleteShortly after giving birth she also had an appendectomy. You know how painful it is to go through a double whammy like that?!!
Delete12:33 are you sure??? Ewan anong reading compre meron ka, nagkakaproblema nga sila sa sustento eh. Pero ikaw sure na sure kang babayaran ni jomari. Alam mo one missed payment lang, baka iwanan sila ng nanny, mas mahassle sa work si ate pag iniwan sila sa ere ng nagbabantay. Hindi naman kasi si jomari ang mananagot pag nagluko/nawala bigla ang nanny e. At kahit tama binabayad mo, may nannies na di mo rin matantsa ang ugali. Mahirap talaga. Kung ganyan kadali sinasabi mo, sana lahat ng new moms kumuha na lang ng nanny. Hay.
Delete12:30, wala bang anesthesia sa mga procedures nnuya? May recovery period naman yun. Bakit kinaladkad ba siya oalabas ng ospital pagkatapos ng panganak at apendectomy?
Delete3:31 from your comment one can sense you’re a pleasant person - NOT! Please tell me where is it that I implied “kinaladkad sya palabas”? My point is on top of a delicate pregnancy, giving birth and a major operation like appendectomy anybody will need significant amount of time to heal fully. Add to that the responsibility for 2 kids under 3 years old. Regardless, whether or not Jomari has another gf now he is still the father of these babies and have parental responsibilities he needs to fulfil.
Delete9:04, hindi lahat ng new moms ay makakakuha ng nanny dahil walang mga pambayad. Si Joy, binabayaran ni Jomari ang nannies niya.
DeleteAng konsehal ng Paranaque namamangka sa dalawang ilog hehe
ReplyDeleteAng ingay ng babaeng ito, sa barangay ka magteklamo regarding the agreed support na di nabibigay sa inyo.. wala magawa ang social media sa problema mo, mag enjoy pa mga bashers sa pag bash sa’yo.
ReplyDeleteSorry po but I'm doing this to fight for what's right. Meron pong barangay agreement na Hindi nasusunod and privately, I tried to solve this and tried to reach out but text messages and calls have been totally ignored. Meron pong nagawa ang social media sa Mga Kagaya Kong Hindi celebrity na walang hawak na media people at Hindi nakakapag press conference anytime na gustuhin. Hindi po ako nabobother sa bashers. Mas madami po Ang matatalino at may puso na nagmamalasakit.
Delete@joy Reyes if properly documented the agreement made thru your barangay, go to proper forum (law) .. court not here social media. Yes May matatalino Tao pero Ano magagawa nila to help, they can give opinions and advise.. . you’re pityfishing.
DeleteDo what u think is right for your kids. Tama, private life should not be in social media but if the concerned person cannot be reached or deadma na lang, social media na lang siguro option mo. Madaling mgcriticize ang iba if they are not in your position. Go, go,go girl.
Delete1:58 Tingin mo may pakialam pa sya sa bashers at this point in her life? May mas malaki syang laban na kinakaharap, di naman sya celebrity, pakialam nya sa bashers. Sya biktima, hayaan mo syang iexpress saloobin nya. Si jomari nga nagpapressrelease pa eh, sya nga nangagrabyado. Dumaan naman sa legal way, kaso wala, hindi sinusunod ni jomari. Panibagong reklamo siguro gagawin, another waiting game. Kung way nya to para pressurin si jomari, let her be. Basta para sa mga bata na totoo namang responsibilidad nung lalake. Ibang tao nga na ang bababaw ng hanash, hinahayaan nyo e. Ito pang may mas malalim na issue, gusto nyong pagbawalan. Tsk. Priorities.
Delete9:07 may pakialam siya sa sinasabi ng iba kaya nga siya sumasagot dito.
Delete12:33 she is replying to put things into context.
DeleteNatawa ako sa slight dig about him being uneducated. Nasingit pa talaga.
ReplyDeleteIpa-TULFO na yan!!!š¤£šš¤
ReplyDeleteInfer I like Abby Viduya and naririndi na din ako sa mga post nitong Joy. I get it she's hurting and Jomari tricked and dumped her. He is wrong pero ranting all over social media isn't going to help her situation any. Maghabla na sya ng kaso instead of blabbing all over and try and find a job. Andyan naman yun program ni Raffy Tulfo if she needs assistance.
ReplyDeleteEh di wag nyong basahin rants nya para di kayo maiinis
DeleteIf that's the girl Joy is referring as mayaman na "babae" ni Jomari, papano naging mayaman si Abby Viduya eh isa rin yang kapos na iniwan ng asawa sa Canada at naging single mom. Look at her looks sobrang tumanda so Abby sa konsimisyon.
Delete2:08 agree
DeleteHindi porke galing ng Canada ay mayaman. Mas mayaman si Jomari keda kay Abby Viduya/Priscilla Almeda. Pero hindi na tumanda ang itsura niya mula noong nawala sa kunsumisyon niya sa asawa niya dati. Ganda nga niya eh.
Delete2:08 "i like abby viduya" -- ayan dyan kayo magaling sa kampihan. We dont need to take sides, nakikichismis lang tayo. Pero wala rin tayong karapatang pigilan si joy kung yan ang way nya para mapressure si jomari sumunod sa kasunduan. Pakialam ba nila if you like who better. May pinaglalaban sya, di ito popularity contest. Pakialam nya sa like natin, basta sya, tamang sustento lang ang gusto. Tsaka syempre wala kayong maririnig dun sa Abby, sya kabit e. Sya pumasok sa relasyon ng iba, alangan namang sya pa magmatapang.
Delete2:08 you live in a world where mas ok magkaanak, iwanan ang mag ina dahil sa isang babae rather than rant sa social media? Ok ka Lang? Dahil sa mga katulad mo madalas mangyari mga to. Tell d truth and hold him accountable. malaki laking kaguluhan
DeleteGinawa niya. di basta basta move on. Hindi siya okay na gawin.
Abby Viduya? Former actress?
ReplyDelete2:09 oo si abby viduya priscilla almeda
ReplyDeleteLet karma serve him. I know its hard esp with 2 kids but I rather have the kids than a man like him. Might be hard to move on and deadmahin but just keep yourself busy and maybe find a job and not be a dependent sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteAgree.
DeleteMadaling magsalita. Hayaan nyo sya, di naman kayo ang napapagod e. Tsaka kapakanan ng kids nya ang pinaglalaban nya. Kesehodang mawala pride, ganyan ang nanay basta para sa anak. Wag nyo sya pigiling magpakananay. Sa panahon ngayon, kahit magtrabaho ka, kung single parent napakahirap ng buhay, baka isang kahig isang tuka lang mangyari sa kanila na syempre ayaw nya, kung alam naman nyang may kakayanan ang ama, nagmamaramot lang. Maganda to na umpisa pa lang ng breakup e may mastablish nang amount ng sustento, para hindi habambuhay maghirap si girl na dapat naman talaga e sagot ni jomari ang kalahati. Problema kasi sa pinoy, kinukunsinti mga nangabandona na tatay, ayan puro single mother na hindi na makaangat sa buhay. Laging gipit, laging asa sa parents. Mas pipiliin nyo ganyang setup? Please, don't.
DeleteAww dalawa pala yaya nya hoy jomari isend mo na suporta mo aanak ka dimo pala kaya buti si aiko noon may sariling pera at di umasa syo.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha...kaya si Jamari lang ang lumalapad e. Lol.
ReplyDeleteUnsolicited advice to Joy: You got involved with a douche bag and the treatment you are getting is the consequences of this. Isipin mo na lang na wala ka nang maasahan sa tatay ng mga anak mo. Sue him for child support if you want to BUT build a new and financially independent life for you and your boys just the same. Rebuild your career and finances and accept the reality that you are going to raise them alone. Mahirap sa umpisa but you will survive this crisis. Hayaan mo na ang ex mo magkalat. Let karma do its thing in time. Good riddance na lang. Your boys need you because you are all they've got right now. I wish you well and really hope that you can rebuild a better life for you and your children.
ReplyDeleteGets ko si ate girl. Yung tatay ng isang friend ko dati ayaw magsuporta sa 2 anak. Dinaan ni friend sa social media post yung tirades, ayun napahiya yung batugang tatay sa social media kaya napilitang magsuporta.
ReplyDeleteI'm with the woman and the children's side. Give what is due to them and on time. My dad and my brother were previous councilors. Madami talagang kita sa local government. He can easily give them 200k (or more, if he wishes or if there are no other minor children on his part) a month. Get an excellent lawyer.
ReplyDeleteWrong. The salary of a vice mayor is only 120,000 pesos a month. Councillors get less than that. Where is he going to get that much money?
DeleteThe Yllanas are pretty well off. He was an actor before. If he can indulge in his cars and racing I’m pretty sure he can afford 200K for his children. The thing with males is that they have fun making babies but they shy away from responsibilities of having children.
DeleteTotoo ba na 2 maids + 2 yayas + driver + bahay ang binabayaran ni Jomari for her? Kahit ng 2 yayas lang eh maayos naman pala buhay nya. Kung sya lang talaga nag-aalaga eh mahirap yan at no wonder nagaalburuto sya sa hirap. Pero kung may yayas naman pala jusko
ReplyDeleteUltimate PR move ang ginawa ninJomari sympre masisisra siya. Imagine nasa agreement na hindi pwede mag salita si girl sa social media. Prepared na si tatang kasi alam niya hindi magiging regular ang sustento.
ReplyDeleteTake this to court. Though it's true that social media can help raise awareness on any situtation, this move will scar your kids. Remember, anything you post online is there forever. Better concentrate your efforts into finding a good lawyer and filing a case for child suppport.
ReplyDeleteDaming palabok. Facts of the case na lang tapos tag mo PAO and private law firms baka sakali may kumagat at i-pro bono.
ReplyDeleteTo Joy Reyes who is answering the comments here. I get u'r hurting and angry and maybe bitter. But move on na po thru legal channels for d sake of ur children. Nakikichismis lng po kami dito and some of us haven't gone thru what u'r experiencing now. As women we will support ur efforts to get financial independence and single parenthood. But please focus na lang on ur kids and not ur ex.
ReplyDeleteU trusted in a guy who didn't deserve it. Move on and find a way to get employment instead of just waiting for his financial suppport. U'v already shamed him on socmed. So what else are u gonna do? Ur kids deserve a loving mother who is 100% focused on them and not ranting on socmed. Choose happiness and a new life for urself and ur kids - from someone else in a similar situation
ReplyDeleteEven if she says na wala na siyang pake kay Jomari it's pretty obvious there's a part of her that still does and shempre natural lang yan dahil kakahiwalay lang. However too much emotions can cloud the judgment. Mauubos lang emotions mo sa social media di pa rin yan magbibigay or palalabasin na hysterical ka. Get yourself together for the kids' sake.
ReplyDeleteDelicate pregnancy. Appendicitis shortly after giving birth. 2 children under 2 years old. Even with 2 yayas and househelps you need to allow for time to physically heal from these 2 major things. Mommies go on maternity leave while those who suffered from appendicitis heal for 3-6 months.
ReplyDeleteAs per her IG nakakapag workout na siya complete with sports bra pose
DeleteGood for her! Sooner than later she will be ready to move on fully with her life with her two children.
DeleteAt the end of the day tatay parin yan ng mga anak mo. At kami na di ka naman personally kilala at na nakiki chismis kahit kampuhan ka, walang magagawa para sayo. Tigilan mo na te pag post sa social media dahil ang mga ganitong bagay nireresolba sa legal na pamamaraan. Kung ayaw na sayo ng lalake, di huwag! Ilaban mo nalang karapatan ng mga anak nyo sa korte at bumalik ka sa pagtatrabaho. Alam mo naman noon pa ang klase ng pagkatao ni Jomari pero sumige ka parin. Get yourself together for the sake of your children, move forward and work!
ReplyDeleteLalo kayong di sustentuhan ni Jomari dahil kuda ka ng kuda sa social media. Tsk
ReplyDeleteAlamin nyo din kalokohan nito! Ungkatin ang asawa at ang mga dokumento!
ReplyDeleteAng dami dito, puro pigil kay ate mag air on social media. Hayaan nyo sya kung yan way nya para mapressure si Jomari. Gagawin ng nanay ang lahat para makapagprovide sa mga bata. Ginagawa nyo kasing norm sa pinas na moveon agad pag iniwan ng lalake, tapos babalik sa bahay ng nanay, makikikain, papaalaga ng bata. Kunwari empowered at may pride. Empowerment ba yun, eh pinaalaga mo rin sa iba, nakihati ka pa sa funds ng parents mo. Gets nyo? Punto ko lang, bakit hindi pagbayarin yung totoong salarin/may responsibilidad. Aminin nyong hindi nyo kaya magisa at maghabol kayo sa lalake ng sustento. Mas mabuti yan kesa ipaubaya sa ibang kapamilya yung responsibilidad. Mas ok nga tong ginagawa ni ate kesa sa ginagawa ng iba sa inyo na balik asa sa magulang eh. Kaya wag nyong pigilan.
ReplyDeleteBakit ba mga artista ginagawa niyong politico? Lakas tiwala sa mga plastik na yan. Wala namang buga
ReplyDeletegirl! dalhin mo kay Idol Raffy yan issue tignan lang natin! dati na rin nareklamo sila Anjo and Ryan Yllana dun eh.. š
ReplyDeleteAteng Joy Reyes, isa lamang akong chismosa pero gets ko where you are coming from. Fight lang ng fight for the bagets. At articulate ka ha! He definitely downgraded!
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