Bata pa sila pero mukhang sa pagkakasabi ni Boy Abunda, walang balak si James magkaroon ng kids and magpamilya kahit kailan, kahit tumanda na sila. Kawawang Nadine.
Porket ayaw magpamilya di seryoso? May mga tao talagang ayaw ng anak. With the state the world we live in today lalo na here sa Ph? Magdadalawang isip din ako.
Kawawa agad 7:18? Pwedeng magwork ang relasyon kahit walang anak. Same goes kapag ang babae ayaw magkaroon ng anak tapos irerespeto ng lalaki yon tapos masaya naman silang mabubuhay ng magkasama. Sana stop niyo na pag-assume na laging kawawa si Nadine kay James. Admit it to yourselves that James loves Nadine so much and they respect it other. Kbye
Tama ito! Sa mga nagiisip na mag anak pa DON'T! We are already in The End Times and pag lumabas yung fifth, sixth and seventh seal ng Revelation, Last days na......!
Hoy 7:05, yan mismong comment mo ang sagot kung bakit dapat may values na ini-instill sa mga kabataan. Just because you live in that kind of setup, doesnt mean it's right!
Bakit pag live in ang mag-jowa babae ang laging may kasalanan? Kasi yung mga makikitid ang utak nirereduce ang value ng isang babae sa pagiging isang object ng lalaki. It’s 2019 guys! Move on!
Babae may choice unless kapit tuko sa lalake akala mo mauubusan ng lalake ganyan mangyayari. Sige go lang kayo sa makabagong mundo nyo 2019 na ek ek idolize nyo yan si Nadeng. Sa huli pagsisisi alila kayo ng pananaw ng lalake.
Mga beshies. Sa trots lang, ang mga lalake kung makakalusot na walang tali o obligasyon sa babae katulad ng kasal at kayo naman ay magpapauto, mas better. At para kapag nagsawa sa inyo madali kumawala sa babae, mas better. #fact
Bakit kalilangan mag agree ang madlang people sa decision nila, its their life wala ng pakialam ang maga tao doon, I dont agree with her decision pero wala akong karaoatan magjudge buhay nila yan
2:14 don’t be self righteous. they have the reason and it’s their choice. Whatever the reason, you're not less of a person than anybody else because of your choices.
213 Kapit tuko pag nakipaglivein? Anong sense? Oo 2019 na, pero pilipino paurong pa din magisip.
Hay nako mga tao talaga kailangan may set of rules na susundin sa buhay. Kumbaga pag may isang naiba, tingin niyo mali na. It’s our lives, our choices. Wag makikitid ang utak guys. :)
If both of you are catholic and who are living in together it is a SIN. Ma pa 2019 or 2020 sin pa rin yun .. religious man kayo or Hinde kasalan parin yun sa mata ng diyos.
Kayo mga fans deep inside sa heart niyo mas maganda muna pakasalan siya ni James. Pero looks Hinde Hinde mangyayari yun .
Bakit maka judge ka diyan? Inamin namam nila Naka live in sila... meaning they are leaving under one roof na Hinde pa kinakasal. Both of them are Catholics. Alam yan ni Nadine . Sa mata ng diyos mali yan
girl wag kami fantard ka lang talaga. matagal ng may gulo ang mundo pero yung ibang anak graduating and successful na. wala sa mundo yan nasa pagpapalaki yan.
Depende nmn sau yan. That should not be your mentality. Kaw lang mkkpgbago nun, doesnt mean if the world is crazy, crazy k n rin. kahit san m baliktarin theres no such thing as perfect and safe place, you will always be at risk importnte pinaghahandaan mo at ginagawan ng paraan. Stop with the excuses.
Sa 2 reply sa taas, it's actually a valid concern. The climate is slowly deteriorating, and besides kung ayaw mag anak ng tao hindi na dapat sila nageexplain, that's their decision and no one has the right to question that. Kahit ano pang reason hindi ibig sabihin nun excuses yun.
11:32 kung wala ka mapapakain sa anak mo dahil mahirap ka at walang pinagaralan at walang kabuhayan, parang awa mo na wag ka magdagdag ng problema sa lipunan. Kawawa ang bata po. Ibigay mo na ang pagaanak sa magkaya o mayaman. Kung gusto mo maganak, magsipag ka muna at magipon para anak mo hindi palaboy sa lansangan.
I totally super agree with u 5:09. Sobrang hirap n nga ng life at mahirap n nga ang status mo, gusto mo parin magka anak 11:32?
Buti sna kung mayron k mapakain s kanila or pampapaaral. Pro kpag wla, puro asa nlng s iba or govt. Kapag wla maibigay s inyo, sisi nlng? Yun b ang gusto mo?
Wag kang ganyan 1:56 am. I hate Nadine, too pero wag mo idikta sa ibang tao ang opinion mo. Kung nagagandahan si 1:12 am kay Nadine, hayaan mo na. Nagagandahan siya eh.
Correct ka baks! Plastic talaga. Kunyari ayaw kasi ayaw nung guy. Remember sabi nya dati wala daw talaga sya feelings for James pero hahahahaha Hindi man lng niligawan oo agad.
You should watch James’ interview then. Actually sinabi niya he wants kids in the future, hindi lang ngayon coz they’re both not ready for the responsibility. Kung makajudge kasi wagas.
1:27, Not Nadine... This girl has a mind of her own. Very mature and does not sugar coat her answers. You are talking about the other one na dilat lagi mga mata... yung takot mawalan ng mga fans...
?? dapat naman talaga na umagree sya sa bf nya kasi kung papasok sya sa isang relasyon dapat agree sila sa isat isa at nagkakaintindihan vice versa. so anong mali sa sinabi ni nadine? so dapat ba ang ibig mong sabihing magbaby agad sila? which is mali naman talaga dahil malaking responsibilidad yan.
249 I totally agree with you! She's a very independent woman, and not afraid to speak her own mind. Plus she actually DOESN'T CARE what people say, esp what the haters here say. Kaya bash pa more yung mga haters dito, lalo nilang ikapapangit. :D
Sige te ikaw lagi kang magdisagree sa jowa mo para hindi kayo magwork. It's all about compromising, girl. If that's how they make their relationship work, then it's fine. Hindi ibig sabihin na wala siyang sariling desisyon sa buhay.
Both of their perception on life and marriage are somewhat distorted because they broke out themselves from the norm or mold which is risky and uncertain. It’s like, “Anything goes.” Especially Nadine who comes from a traditional family. Makes sense now how she becomes prone to depression because James is not the marrying type.
Andun na kasi siya sa point na " i'll take whatever you're willing to give me." lalo na at sobrang set si guy sa kanyang preferrences at mukhang di willing makipagcompromise.
Norm and Mold ng Pilipinas or conservatives. Mas better ngayon to test the waters first. Lalo na sa Pilipinas na walang divorce. Nganga kayo pag hindi ng work. Lol
Bakit, kailangan ba ifollow yung norm or mold? Dapat ba may ifofollow tayong path sa buhay? As a child, magaral. Pagkagraduate, magtatrabaho for who knows how long. Magkakarelasyon, tapos magpapakasal. Magpapamilya, magkakaanak, etc etc. Dapat po ba ganun ang sundin?
Hindi naman po lahat ganun ang gustong gawin sa buhay. Kung kayo priority niyo marriage and family life, wag niyo po sanang ipagdikdikan sa iba na ganun dapat.
7:51 #fact mas rampant ang depression sa millennials ngayon. Tanong mo bakit? Ang buhay nasa social media lang nakatutok sa gadget, no mental activity puro scroll scroll lang bashing and hating, kaya ang utak depressed. Depression comes about when you feel worthless doing nothing productive.
Jusko yaan niyo na yan,isa din yang mga paganyan niya kung bakit siya nawalan ng mass appeal,hahaha, sa totoo lang ayaw ng mga guro at magulang ang ganyang ginawa ni nadine.
ha? parang yung attitude nia towards work ang naging issue s knya d nmn ung tungkol s pagaasawa at pagkaroon ng anak oh come on ate 2019 na malayo n narating ng traditional eme eme open minded n lahat ng tao
3:19, James and Nadine said, they still want to do so many things right now since they are both young. It's still too early for them to talk about marriage and kids, gets mo....
Tayong mga girls open tau sa marriage,who wouldnt u will be hypocrite kung di mo pinapngarap yan sa bf mo and it is alarming and disappointing kung ung bf mo nver inentertain ung idea n un. Very alarming,i assess mo self mo if u want still want to continue.
Sa tindi ng buhay now, hindi na marriage ang sagot sa lahat. Maski live in ng ilang years pag nag pakasal, nag babago din. Nothing is permanent. Kaya make the most of what life has to offer... Just be happy...
Ang yabang ni 5:04 pm. - Not 4:12. May friend akong maganda pero mas pinili niya maging celibate at sundan ang dreams niya. Kahit marami nagkakagusto sa kanya. May mga taong mas pipiliin ang success over marriage.
My husband and I decided not to have kids. We are childfree by choice. Isa sa mga reasons namin yung magulong mundo. Para sa amin, it would be very selfish of us and unfair for the child kung maglalabas kami ng bata sa ganitong environment.
Yeah right. But when you get older, you’d realize sana nagkaanak ka. Aanhin mo kayamanan pinagpaguran mo? Kanino mo ibibigay? Sa anak ng kapatid o pinsan mo? Lels the “irony” ibibigay mo din sa “anak”.
Actually girl, selfish ka with your decision. Malay mo yung anak mo pala ang makakapagbago sa magulong mundo na sinasabi mo, di ba? Sya pala yung maging Presidente ng Pilipinas? Naisip mo ba yun? Sana lang hindi din magbago isip ng asawo mo later gusto nya pala may legacy sya. Remember ang lalake kahit matanda na pwede pa mag baby. Unlike sayo gurl may biological clock ka. Kaya mag baby sa iba si Mister. Naisip mo ba yun?
To 4:19, no it's her choice not to have kids. Who are you to say that she will regret it in the future. I know people who regretted having kids. One thing you need to learn is not everyone thinks as backwards as you. Also, if she decides to leave her fortune to her nephews and nieces or to some charity, how Is that bad? 🤷♀️
Pwede naman ibigay nya to charity yung "mana" nila. Di naman kailangan sa kamaganak ibigay. And marami na ngayon senior retirement communities where they live happy fulfilled lives in their twilight years. Kesa naman nasa poder ka ng anak mo pero di ka pinapansin or halos di maalagaan. Di lahat ng anak maalaga sa matatandang magulang. Marami rin napapabayaan. Or yung anak mo nasa abroad and hardly visits you. Bottomline yung pag aanak di guarantee na may mag aalaga sa yo sa future.
Actually, other's peoples opinions don't put us down. We're living the life we want. Buhay binata at dalaga, less responsibilities, wala kaming pinag aawayan masyado, maayos at tahimik ang bahay, We have more than enough to share with others, di lang material things but also time. We can travel anytime we want, we pursue our passions and hobbies that allow us to earn and we are not tied to regular 8-5 jobs. Some people need children to find meaning in their lives and that's ok, pero not us, and that's also ok.
Actually, di naman namin goal mag amass ng sobrang kayamanan. Pero ang beneficiaries namin sa insurance at investments namin ay mga kapatid at pamangkin namin. And walang masama dun. Not having children allows us to be more generous to others and to share our blessings kasi it's more than enough for us.
Plus, hindi ba mas selfish yung mag aanak ka lang parang may mag alaga sayo sa pagtanda? Hindi pa pinapanganak yung bata, may expectations ka na, expected caregiver na. And FYI, hindi lahat ng anak ay nag aalaga ng magulang sa pagtanda.
This is not to convince others to be childfree but to open the minds of other people na it's also a valid choice :)
OMG. Ang dami parin mga tao ang super closed minded. Being a Child Free is a very very valid decision. And enough OF the expectations na ang anak needs to take care OF you when you’re old, NEVER a guarantee
1:15 sana sinabi mo yan sa magulang mo neng. You were brought into this world for a purpose of paying it forward. That is the meaning of life. You were given a Life... to be able to give life to another. You wasted God’s gift to you of a uterus. #realtalk
1:15 I pity your “meaningless” life. Money can’t buy you happiness. If you’re still young and able, it’s never too late to change your mind. I pray your husband will not change his mind later in the day. You can never be too sure my dear he will not change his mind.
Dami closed minded na Pilipino. Guys time to wake up, explore the world, see how many things or experiences could give our life meaning. We all have different views in life, different purpose, different passion, different culture. Don’t put people down just because they’re different from the norm, different from YOU. Sobrang laki ng mundo para isara niyo ang utak niyo sa kung ano lang ang alam niyo.
Ang sabi ni james hindi sya sure. Ang sabi ni nadine gusto nya pero hindi pa ngayon.. magkaiba yun. I feel bad that she has to change her values para lang umagree kay James. She obviously wants a traditional family. Ang sakit panuorin na while they both agree that having kids is not what they want right now, Nadine is still looking forward to having her own in the future.
8:15, Kung makapatid nga, magka iba ng sagot minsan, mag jowa pa kaya??? Let them be. They are still young. Discovering new things together. Mas mabuti pa yung nag live in na nag hiwalay, kesa nag asawa, nag mag hiwalay din pala in the end.
Only the Philippines na tinatanong mga celebrity ng ganito ka personal. Having children is the couple's decision and should not be questioned. Napaka ng mga tao dito saten.
pinili naman nilang maging celebrity... so deal with it di ba? sakyan niyo na lang. after all the public is your bread and butter. kung walang tagahanga wala ring gagastos for your projects, manonood ng shows or movies niyo or buy your songs.
Bka nman tlagang di pa sila ready pareho at least James admit na di pa sya ready kesa nga nman bigla silang mgkababy tpos hndi pa stabel di mas problema un ksi di biro Ang responsibilidad Ng isang anak.
12:17 and 12:20, both one and the same. As if naman ang aayos ng mga buhay nyo, bashers lang naman kayo. One word... paki nyo sa mind set ni James. Talo nyo pa si Nadine...
1:31. Parang sila lang ang nag iisang nag live in sa Pinas 'no??? Buti nga yan, honest sila. Di tulad ng iba, hindi nga live in, kung mag pda naman sa mga interviews, wagas. Besides, tanda na silang 2. 2
Having a child is a much bigger responsibility and requires maturity that they both feel they're not old enough for it. Hindi ba pwedeng magenjoy muna sila sa set up nila? Magkaiba naman ang live in sa pagkakaroon ng anak.
Bkt ba galit kyo eh sa dipa sila ready magbaby..kayo pa nagmmadali talaga agad agad kyo nga walang pang gatas sobra hirap ng buhay ngayon wag kyo pakialamera
No, mine wants to marry me. Ayaw ko mag-commit til i'm 100% sure, or when i'm 50. And i live in a country where divorce is legal. I'm 100% sure he will stick by me, it's me who's not so sure.
I am all for letting people do whatever they want to do with their lives as long as they're not breaking any laws and not stepping on other people and guess what? My boyfriend still wants to marry me. Eh ikaw?
611 This is not about being fans anymore. This is for enlightening closed-minded people (like you) to the different beliefs and priorities people have. It’s your choice to remain ignorant, and believe in your own “values.”
Actually same sentiments kami ni Nadine. Don’t get me wrong, I want kids. Pero parang pag naiisip ko yung state ng mundo ngayon. For example, when I’m in Manila, just seeing the traffic, the pollution, etc. napapatanong ako “gusto ko ba maexperience ng anak ko to?” Because for sure when she/he is born mas 10x worse pa ang traffic!
Tapos naman if I choose to raise my family here in the US (I’m a greencard holder), every week may shooting na news. I’m like.. ano ba? Is this a safe environment?! Yung tipong magwoworry ka pag papasok sa school ang anak mo na sana makauwi sha at walang mass shooter sa school nya?
Kung gusto mo maka anak and maging mabuti anak siya sayo at sa ibang tao palakihin mo ng maayos at may takot sa diyos. At sino ba ang sabi madali maka anak? Kaya ka nga nag asawa to build a family diba ? Kahit saan pa kayo pumunta ng ibang bansa hinde mo maiiwasan mga ganyan na Crisis nangyayari yan parte yan sa buhay . Its full Of challenges and struggles but you should Not give UP right? Why would u.
hello 1:06 di mo nagets punto ni 10:38. Kahit anong buti ng pagpapalaki mo sa anak mo kung yung paligid niya naman punong puno ng kasamaan at hirap, hindi ka din ba talaga mag-aalala?
Baby muna bago kasal.. kung goal nyo ay mag anak at magpamilya ha. Baka baog isa sa inyo, madali kumalas at maghanap ng iba na hindi baog. Madami chechebureche ang legalidad ng annulment bes.
Mas career ng babae nakataya kelangan mag off sa career kesa sa lalake dahil expected ang mother ang mag alaga 24/7 sa baby o anak. I’m sure mas ayaw ni Nadine kesa kay James magka baby sa ngayon.
i like nadine, pero its sad to see her bend over backwards for james and this relationship. James might really love her pero sobrang conditional lang, clearly ang layo ng disparity ng love ni nadine sa kanya and vice versa. know your worth girl!
Tama naman, ang bata pa nila. Nowadays, dapat maging practical.. Save, save and invest...
ReplyDeleteBata pa sila pero mukhang sa pagkakasabi ni Boy Abunda, walang balak si James magkaroon ng kids and magpamilya kahit kailan, kahit tumanda na sila. Kawawang Nadine.
DeleteActually sinabe niya sa interview gusto din niyang magkaanak someday. But not now kasi di pa sila ready sa ganun.
DeletePorket ayaw magpamilya di seryoso? May mga tao talagang ayaw ng anak. With the state the world we live in today lalo na here sa Ph? Magdadalawang isip din ako.
Delete7:18 bakit kawawa?
DeleteKawawa agad 7:18? Pwedeng magwork ang relasyon kahit walang anak. Same goes kapag ang babae ayaw magkaroon ng anak tapos irerespeto ng lalaki yon tapos masaya naman silang mabubuhay ng magkasama. Sana stop niyo na pag-assume na laging kawawa si Nadine kay James. Admit it to yourselves that James loves Nadine so much and they respect it other. Kbye
Delete11:54 nope dear. Madami naghihiwalay kasi gusto ng isa magkaanak. Lalo na sa part ng lalake, unless lalake yung baog.
DeleteTama ito! Sa mga nagiisip na mag anak pa DON'T! We are already in The End Times and pag lumabas yung fifth, sixth and seventh seal ng Revelation, Last days na......!
ReplyDeleteLol naligaw ka teh
DeleteI am Christian too. But dont blame us if we opted or wanted to have babies! Just pray. Jusme to
DeleteTime to make more babies, last chance na!
DeleteKaloka ka bakla
Deletenaisingit mo pa talaga yan ha lol
Deletemars pagbigyan mo ang mga gustong magka-anak parang awa mo na!
DeleteMaria Clara is tossing and turning in her grave right now. 😂
ReplyDelete#kasalmuna daw haha
uso pa yan sa panahong ito? be practical! lola at nanay ko hindi kasal pero nabuhay ako ng maayos.
DeleteWell, yung mga kasal naman naghihiwalay din, yung mga hindi kasal naman nagsasama. So tabla lang.
DeleteHoy 7:05, yan mismong comment mo ang sagot kung bakit dapat may values na ini-instill sa mga kabataan. Just because you live in that kind of setup, doesnt mean it's right!
Delete7:05 doing things the right way doesn't go out of season.
DeleteOo naman hindi rin agree madlang pipol nakipag live in ka ng walang kasal. Lels
ReplyDeleteyear 2019 na girl! ikaw na ang malinis at dapat tuluran ng lahat.
DeleteEh di ikaw na ang judgmental.
DeleteBakit pag live in ang mag-jowa babae ang laging may kasalanan? Kasi yung mga makikitid ang utak nirereduce ang value ng isang babae sa pagiging isang object ng lalaki. It’s 2019 guys! Move on!
DeleteBabae may choice unless kapit tuko sa lalake akala mo mauubusan ng lalake ganyan mangyayari. Sige go lang kayo sa makabagong mundo nyo 2019 na ek ek idolize nyo yan si Nadeng. Sa huli pagsisisi alila kayo ng pananaw ng lalake.
Delete1:31 eh di wag ka din magpakasal problema ba yun?
DeleteMga beshies. Sa trots lang, ang mga lalake kung makakalusot na walang tali o obligasyon sa babae katulad ng kasal at kayo naman ay magpapauto, mas better. At para kapag nagsawa sa inyo madali kumawala sa babae, mas better. #fact
Delete2:13 paki mo sa live in arrangement nila. Ikaw ba nag papakakain ke Nadine. Atupagin mo buhay mo...
DeleteBakit kalilangan mag agree ang madlang people sa decision nila, its their life wala ng pakialam ang maga tao doon, I dont agree with her decision pero wala akong karaoatan magjudge buhay nila yan
Delete2:14 don’t be self righteous. they have the reason and it’s their choice. Whatever the reason, you're not less of a person than anybody else because of your choices.
Deletemarami din naman naglilive na ngayon pero depende yon sa maturity. kasi don nila nakikilala ang isat isa para magready sa future.
Delete213 Kapit tuko pag nakipaglivein? Anong sense? Oo 2019 na, pero pilipino paurong pa din magisip.
DeleteHay nako mga tao talaga kailangan may set of rules na susundin sa buhay. Kumbaga pag may isang naiba, tingin niyo mali na. It’s our lives, our choices. Wag makikitid ang utak guys. :)
If both of you are catholic and who are living in together it is a SIN. Ma pa
Delete2019 or 2020 sin pa rin yun .. religious man kayo or Hinde kasalan parin yun sa mata ng diyos.
Kayo mga fans deep inside sa heart niyo mas maganda muna pakasalan siya ni James. Pero looks Hinde Hinde mangyayari yun .
10:12 Mas makasalanan ang mang-judge ng taong di mo naman kilala.
DeleteExcuse me, wag mo idamay lahat ng madlang people sa pagiging judgemental mo. What a hypocrite.🙄 12:52
DeleteBakit maka judge ka diyan? Inamin namam nila Naka live in sila... meaning they are leaving under one roof na Hinde pa kinakasal. Both of them are Catholics. Alam yan ni Nadine . Sa mata ng diyos mali yan
DeleteAgree 10:12, ang mali ay mali kahit lahat ng tao ginagawa yun, ang tama ay tama kahit isa lang ang gumagawa. Hindi yan pagigimg judgmental, fact yan!
DeleteNapaisip ako dun a. Oo nga no? Parang gugustuhin mo ba maranasan ng anak mo ung gulo ng mundo right now? Lalo na kung nasa lower and middle class.
ReplyDeletegirl wag kami fantard ka lang talaga. matagal ng may gulo ang mundo pero yung ibang anak graduating and successful na. wala sa mundo yan nasa pagpapalaki yan.
DeleteDepende nmn sau yan. That should not be your mentality. Kaw lang mkkpgbago nun, doesnt mean if the world is crazy, crazy k n rin. kahit san m baliktarin theres no such thing as perfect and safe place, you will always be at risk importnte pinaghahandaan mo at ginagawan ng paraan. Stop with the excuses.
DeleteSa 2 reply sa taas, it's actually a valid concern. The climate is slowly deteriorating, and besides kung ayaw mag anak ng tao hindi na dapat sila nageexplain, that's their decision and no one has the right to question that. Kahit ano pang reason hindi ibig sabihin nun excuses yun.
Delete1:38 pinagsasasabi mo? Ikaw hater ka lang.
Deletekahit mahirap ako gusto ko pa din magka-anak!
DeleteGood for you 11:32
DeleteExactly 8:51
DeleteAno bang the world is crazy pinagsasabi nyo? The world has gotten crazy because of social media. #fact
Delete11:32 kung wala ka mapapakain sa anak mo dahil mahirap ka at walang pinagaralan at walang kabuhayan, parang awa mo na wag ka magdagdag ng problema sa lipunan. Kawawa ang bata po. Ibigay mo na ang pagaanak sa magkaya o mayaman.
DeleteKung gusto mo maganak, magsipag ka muna at magipon para anak mo hindi palaboy sa lansangan.
4:24 uh duh? Your point is?
DeleteI totally super agree with u 5:09. Sobrang hirap n nga ng life at mahirap n nga ang status mo, gusto mo parin magka anak 11:32?
DeleteButi sna kung mayron k mapakain s kanila or pampapaaral. Pro kpag wla, puro asa nlng s iba or govt. Kapag wla maibigay s inyo, sisi nlng? Yun b ang gusto mo?
Ang ganda ni Nadine! Blooming!
ReplyDeleteMore like sobrang kapal ng make up. Dont us fantard kau lang ngagandahan sa gnyang mukha,. Very unnatural
DeleteOo nga eh! Me and boys can’t get enough of her lalo!
DeleteKahit wala naman make up maganda padin si nadine.
DeleteWag kang ganyan 1:56 am. I hate Nadine, too pero wag mo idikta sa ibang tao ang opinion mo. Kung nagagandahan si 1:12 am kay Nadine, hayaan mo na. Nagagandahan siya eh.
DeleteToo much fillers, my dear. Not good!
ReplyDeleteKung ako din naman ang babae, pag sinabi ng llake ayaw nya pa, alangan naman sabihin ko gusto ko??ako lang gagawa?ganern??
ReplyDeleteCorrect ka baks! Plastic talaga. Kunyari ayaw kasi ayaw nung guy. Remember sabi nya dati wala daw talaga sya feelings for James pero hahahahaha Hindi man lng niligawan oo agad.
DeleteTrue.. James said he doesn't know if he'd like to have a family, pero Nadine naman is saying na she wants to have one although not anytime soon.
DeleteThose are obviously two different things. It seems like Nadine is settling to what James wants.
You should watch James’ interview then. Actually sinabi niya he wants kids in the future, hindi lang ngayon coz they’re both not ready for the responsibility. Kung makajudge kasi wagas.
DeleteNo choice si N eh.
ReplyDeletesyempre kailangan nyang mag agree. kung si sya mag a-agree, mag mumukha syang kawawa at yung jowa nya pala ay walang plano mag start ng family
ReplyDeletelagi na lang "i agree with james" wala kang sariling opinion or perception.
ReplyDeleteAy baka iba yung tinutukoy mo te. Yung walang opinion at laging nagpplease ng ibang tao. That’s definitely not N.
Delete1:53 she changed herself to please her boyfriend. siya lang ang nagbago ng attitude from day 1 so thats definitely nadine.
Delete1:27, Not Nadine... This girl has a mind of her own. Very mature and does not sugar coat her answers. You are talking about the other one na dilat lagi mga mata... yung takot mawalan ng mga fans...
Delete2:34 you don’t know her before so pano mo masasabi na nagbago siya just base on what you see on social media. Judgemental ka lang.
Delete?? dapat naman talaga na umagree sya sa bf nya kasi kung papasok sya sa isang relasyon dapat agree sila sa isat isa at nagkakaintindihan vice versa. so anong mali sa sinabi ni nadine? so dapat ba ang ibig mong sabihing magbaby agad sila? which is mali naman talaga dahil malaking responsibilidad yan.
DeleteAy wow si 234 nakatutok kay Nadine from day 1 hating. clap clap. Sayang life mo kakahate
Delete249 I totally agree with you! She's a very independent woman, and not afraid to speak her own mind. Plus she actually DOESN'T CARE what people say, esp what the haters here say. Kaya bash pa more yung mga haters dito, lalo nilang ikapapangit. :D
Delete1:27 she changed a lot for her boyfriend
DeleteSige te ikaw lagi kang magdisagree sa jowa mo para hindi kayo magwork. It's all about compromising, girl. If that's how they make their relationship work, then it's fine. Hindi ibig sabihin na wala siyang sariling desisyon sa buhay.
DeleteBoth of their perception on life and marriage are somewhat distorted because they broke out themselves from the norm or mold which is risky and uncertain. It’s like, “Anything goes.” Especially Nadine who comes from a traditional family. Makes sense now how she becomes prone to depression because James is not the marrying type.
ReplyDeleteAndun na kasi siya sa point na " i'll take whatever you're willing to give me." lalo na at sobrang set si guy sa kanyang preferrences at mukhang di willing makipagcompromise.
Delete2:24 that’s your own conclusion but you don’t know then personally so I can’t judge them to each is own.
DeleteBreaking from the norm is not bad. Pwede rin kasing mas pinag isipan nila yan para lang gawin yung expected na dapat.
DeleteImagine, yung life decisions mo ay dahil lang ginaya mo sa norm?
Goes to show how ignorant you are when it comes depression.
DeleteNorm and Mold ng Pilipinas or conservatives. Mas better ngayon to test the waters first. Lalo na sa Pilipinas na walang divorce. Nganga kayo pag hindi ng work. Lol
DeleteBakit, kailangan ba ifollow yung norm or mold? Dapat ba may ifofollow tayong path sa buhay? As a child, magaral. Pagkagraduate, magtatrabaho for who knows how long. Magkakarelasyon, tapos magpapakasal. Magpapamilya, magkakaanak, etc etc. Dapat po ba ganun ang sundin?
DeleteHindi naman po lahat ganun ang gustong gawin sa buhay. Kung kayo priority niyo marriage and family life, wag niyo po sanang ipagdikdikan sa iba na ganun dapat.
Kanya kanya po tayo ng priorities at dreams.
7:51 #fact mas rampant ang depression sa millennials ngayon. Tanong mo bakit? Ang buhay nasa social media lang nakatutok sa gadget, no mental activity puro scroll scroll lang bashing and hating, kaya ang utak depressed. Depression comes about when you feel worthless doing nothing productive.
Delete9:33 eh ano ba balak mo sa buhay neng? Matulog lang sa bahay hawak gadget mo? Lels
Delete416 Ikaw, ganito na lang ba balak mo sa buhay? Mang-judge ng tao on their OWN life choices? Magtago behind the screen hating successful people?
Delete416 Mind your own business.
DeleteJusko yaan niyo na yan,isa din yang mga paganyan niya kung bakit siya nawalan ng mass appeal,hahaha, sa totoo lang ayaw ng mga guro at magulang ang ganyang ginawa ni nadine.
ReplyDeleteha? parang yung attitude nia towards work ang naging issue s knya d nmn ung tungkol s pagaasawa at pagkaroon ng anak oh come on ate 2019 na malayo n narating ng traditional eme eme open minded n lahat ng tao
DeleteHindi talaga marrying tyoe si james tsk tsk tsk,puro live in lang alam hahaha
ReplyDelete3:19, James and Nadine said, they still want to do so many things right now since they are both young. It's still too early for them to talk about marriage and kids, gets mo....
DeleteEh di dapat wala sa "married setup" kung ayaw pa pala mag-asawa at mag-anak
DeleteIiwanan din yan pag tumigil siyang sabayan ang lifestyle ng bf.
ReplyDeleteTayong mga girls open tau sa marriage,who wouldnt u will be hypocrite kung di mo pinapngarap yan sa bf mo and it is alarming and disappointing kung ung bf mo nver inentertain ung idea n un. Very alarming,i assess mo self mo if u want still want to continue.
ReplyDeleteIt’s not very alarming. A lot of women are not open to marriage also. You probably aren’t just exposed to their types.
Delete1:34 could be kunti lang ang ganyan ang thinking..and kay nadine i can feel na gusto nya lalaki lang ang my ayw.
Delete7:05 I'm about to reach the height of my career. Never have I considered getting married. Don't sell your self short dear.
Delete4:12 sana hindi ka magsisi na alone ka girl despite your successes lels
DeleteSa tindi ng buhay now, hindi na marriage ang sagot sa lahat. Maski live in ng ilang years pag nag pakasal, nag babago din. Nothing is permanent. Kaya make the most of what life has to offer... Just be happy...
DeleteAng yabang ni 5:04 pm. - Not 4:12. May friend akong maganda pero mas pinili niya maging celibate at sundan ang dreams niya. Kahit marami nagkakagusto sa kanya. May mga taong mas pipiliin ang success over marriage.
DeleteUgh give them a break. Mid 20s pa lang sila. Hayaan niyo muna silang ienjoy company ng isa't isa. Wala namang pagmamadali dapat
DeleteMy husband and I decided not to have kids. We are childfree by choice. Isa sa mga reasons namin yung magulong mundo. Para sa amin, it would be very selfish of us and unfair for the child kung maglalabas kami ng bata sa ganitong environment.
ReplyDeleteYeah right. But when you get older, you’d realize sana nagkaanak ka. Aanhin mo kayamanan pinagpaguran mo? Kanino mo ibibigay? Sa anak ng kapatid o pinsan mo? Lels the “irony” ibibigay mo din sa “anak”.
DeleteActually girl, selfish ka with your decision. Malay mo yung anak mo pala ang makakapagbago sa magulong mundo na sinasabi mo, di ba? Sya pala yung maging Presidente ng Pilipinas? Naisip mo ba yun? Sana lang hindi din magbago isip ng asawo mo later gusto nya pala may legacy sya. Remember ang lalake kahit matanda na pwede pa mag baby. Unlike sayo gurl may biological clock ka. Kaya mag baby sa iba si Mister. Naisip mo ba yun?
DeleteBaks hindi nabubuhay ang tao para sa kayamanan. Who cares kung saan nya ibigay. Kahit ibigay nya sa foundation or kanino man pera nila yun.
DeleteTo 4:19, no it's her choice not to have kids. Who are you to say that she will regret it in the future. I know people who regretted having kids. One thing you need to learn is not everyone thinks as backwards as you. Also, if she decides to leave her fortune to her nephews and nieces or to some charity, how
DeleteIs that bad? 🤷♀️
7:49 when you both grow old, no one is going to take care of you. In westerns, no one is there to visit you in assisted living or nursing home
DeleteThey'll realize that later on kapag hindi na pwede 4:19. Apir na sa "anak" pa rin (ng iba) ibibigay ang kabuhayan na maiiwan lol!
Delete4:19 Lets just respect the decision made by 7:49 and her husband. She’s just sharing her take on their own family life. No need to put her down.
DeletePwede naman ibigay nya to charity yung "mana" nila. Di naman kailangan sa kamaganak ibigay. And marami na ngayon senior retirement communities where they live happy fulfilled lives in their twilight years. Kesa naman nasa poder ka ng anak mo pero di ka pinapansin or halos di maalagaan. Di lahat ng anak maalaga sa matatandang magulang. Marami rin napapabayaan. Or yung anak mo nasa abroad and hardly visits you. Bottomline yung pag aanak di guarantee na may mag aalaga sa yo sa future.
DeleteThank you 12:16 :) I appreciate it.
DeleteActually, other's peoples opinions don't put us down. We're living the life we want. Buhay binata at dalaga, less responsibilities, wala kaming pinag aawayan masyado, maayos at tahimik ang bahay, We have more than enough to share with others, di lang material things but also time. We can travel anytime we want, we pursue our passions and hobbies that allow us to earn and we are not tied to regular 8-5 jobs. Some people need children to find meaning in their lives and that's ok, pero not us, and that's also ok.
Actually, di naman namin goal mag amass ng sobrang kayamanan. Pero ang beneficiaries namin sa insurance at investments namin ay mga kapatid at pamangkin namin. And walang masama dun. Not having children allows us to be more generous to others and to share our blessings kasi it's more than enough for us.
Plus, hindi ba mas selfish yung mag aanak ka lang parang may mag alaga sayo sa pagtanda? Hindi pa pinapanganak yung bata, may expectations ka na, expected caregiver na. And FYI, hindi lahat ng anak ay nag aalaga ng magulang sa pagtanda.
This is not to convince others to be childfree but to open the minds of other people na it's also a valid choice :)
Aytenkyoo.
Oy wala naman pala kayong pagbibigyan ng mana, ipamudmod niyo nalang dito para may pakinabang kayo sa society lel
DeleteOMG. Ang dami parin mga tao ang super closed minded. Being a Child Free is a very very valid decision. And enough OF the expectations na ang anak needs to take care OF you when you’re old, NEVER a guarantee
Delete1:15 sana sinabi mo yan sa magulang mo neng. You were brought into this world for a purpose of paying it forward. That is the meaning of life. You were given a Life... to be able to give life to another. You wasted God’s gift to you of a uterus. #realtalk
Delete1:15 I pity your “meaningless” life. Money can’t buy you happiness. If you’re still young and able, it’s never too late to change your mind. I pray your husband will not change his mind later in the day. You can never be too sure my dear he will not change his mind.
Delete1:15 funny ibibigay mo din sa “anak” ng iba kayamanan mo lels goes to show kailangan mo ng anak
Delete7:02 exactly the irony gets mo?
DeleteDami closed minded na Pilipino. Guys time to wake up, explore the world, see how many things or experiences could give our life meaning. We all have different views in life, different purpose, different passion, different culture. Don’t put people down just because they’re different from the norm, different from YOU. Sobrang laki ng mundo para isara niyo ang utak niyo sa kung ano lang ang alam niyo.
DeleteAng sabi ni james hindi sya sure. Ang sabi ni nadine gusto nya pero hindi pa ngayon.. magkaiba yun. I feel bad that she has to change her values para lang umagree kay James. She obviously wants a traditional family. Ang sakit panuorin na while they both agree that having kids is not what they want right now, Nadine is still looking forward to having her own in the future.
ReplyDelete8:15, Kung makapatid nga, magka iba ng sagot minsan, mag jowa pa kaya??? Let them be. They are still young. Discovering new things together. Mas mabuti pa yung nag live in na nag hiwalay, kesa nag asawa, nag mag hiwalay din pala in the end.
DeleteOnly the Philippines na tinatanong mga celebrity ng ganito ka personal. Having children is the couple's decision and should not be questioned. Napaka ng mga tao dito saten.
ReplyDeletepinili naman nilang maging celebrity... so deal with it di ba? sakyan niyo na lang. after all the public is your bread and butter. kung walang tagahanga wala ring gagastos for your projects, manonood ng shows or movies niyo or buy your songs.
DeleteShe has fillers huh? She's changed a lot from when she started. Guess that's how it goes. People change.
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong with fillers, really??? Why is it so taboo here in the Philippines? Same as PS. Kaloka.
DeleteNothing wrong with it. All she needs to do is admit it.
DeleteBka nman tlagang di pa sila ready pareho at least James admit na di pa sya ready kesa nga nman bigla silang mgkababy tpos hndi pa stabel di mas problema un ksi di biro Ang responsibilidad Ng isang anak.
ReplyDeleteJames? he doesnt like responsibility.
ReplyDelete10:25, How do you know??? You his family now??? Kapal...
Deletethat much is certain.
Deletehe loves his friends more than anything.
DeleteJudgmental
DeleteHindi talaga husband material si james,hahaha, pang-ganyang set up lang siya hahaha
ReplyDeletehahahaha may nagpa uto kase eh. sorry nads. girls bat ba kase nagpapa uto pa rin kayo?
DeleteWala sa isip no james ang pag-aasawa, ganyan lang siya happy happy lang
ReplyDelete12:17 and 12:20, both one and the same. As if naman ang aayos ng mga buhay nyo, bashers lang naman kayo. One word... paki nyo sa mind set ni James. Talo nyo pa si Nadine...
DeleteAng face ni Nadine parang nanigas. Sabagay sabay sa uso. Malapit na showing ng Frozen.
ReplyDeleteGanda mo cgro. Mag artista ka rin. 😂
Deletewe're still both young...but you're already living in ??? enebehh
ReplyDeleteTrue hahahaha! Nakakaloka ano ba talaga?
Delete1:31. Parang sila lang ang nag iisang nag live in sa Pinas 'no??? Buti nga yan, honest sila. Di tulad ng iba, hindi nga live in, kung mag pda naman sa mga interviews, wagas. Besides, tanda na silang 2. 2
DeleteHaving a child is a much bigger responsibility and requires maturity that they both feel they're not old enough for it. Hindi ba pwedeng magenjoy muna sila sa set up nila? Magkaiba naman ang live in sa pagkakaroon ng anak.
DeleteBkt ba galit kyo eh sa dipa sila ready magbaby..kayo pa nagmmadali talaga agad agad kyo nga walang pang gatas sobra hirap ng buhay ngayon wag kyo pakialamera
ReplyDeleteHinay with the fillers Nadine.
ReplyDeletetotoo!
DeleteSiguro yung mga nagcocomment dito na Pro-live in eh mga ayaw din pakasalan ng mga jowa hahahaha!
ReplyDelete334 Ah talaga ba? Hindi ba closed-minded ka lang?
Delete3:34, HIndi lang kami judgemental at bashers like you and the others... As if naman James and Nadine lang ang nag live in na couple sa Pinas...
DeleteNo, mine wants to marry me. Ayaw ko mag-commit til i'm 100% sure, or when i'm 50. And i live in a country where divorce is legal. I'm 100% sure he will stick by me, it's me who's not so sure.
DeleteI am all for letting people do whatever they want to do with their lives as long as they're not breaking any laws and not stepping on other people and guess what? My boyfriend still wants to marry me. Eh ikaw?
Delete3:34 I have nothing against living in together with one’s bf/gf. So far nagpropose naman jowa ko at pinakasalan naman ako 🤷🏻♀️
DeleteFantards sported. 😂😂😂 Ok lang yan mga baks. This is the Internet, magpakailusyunada lang kayo at isipin niyo lang na normal yung setup nung dalawa lol
DeleteEven Solenn and Nico lived together before Marriage. Nico proposed naman and bow they are having a Baby. That’s only one examine Of many couples
Delete611 This is not about being fans anymore. This is for enlightening closed-minded people (like you) to the different beliefs and priorities people have. It’s your choice to remain ignorant, and believe in your own “values.”
DeleteMy boyfriend wants to marry me, As in now na if I agree pero it's me who's not yet ready. So... sorry pero mali ka lol :P
DeleteKung kayo ay tamad sa buhay, huwag nga kayo magaanak. Kawawa ang bata.
ReplyDeleteAminin niyo,mas gusto niyo na pakasalan kayo ng jowa niyo at magkababy hindi yung live in live in lang,hahaha
ReplyDeleteNatawa pa ako ako sa comment niya “we don’t have the same brain” hahaha
ReplyDeleteNadine agreed and sided with James’ opinion coz wala na siyang magagawa nasabi na ng partner niya eh. She would look pathetic kung magkaiba sila. Lol!
ReplyDeleteActually same sentiments kami ni Nadine. Don’t get me wrong, I want kids. Pero parang pag naiisip ko yung state ng mundo ngayon. For example, when I’m in Manila, just seeing the traffic, the pollution, etc. napapatanong ako “gusto ko ba maexperience ng anak ko to?” Because for sure when she/he is born mas 10x worse pa ang traffic!
ReplyDeleteTapos naman if I choose to raise my family here in the US (I’m a greencard holder), every week may shooting na news. I’m like.. ano ba? Is this a safe environment?! Yung tipong magwoworry ka pag papasok sa school ang anak mo na sana makauwi sha at walang mass shooter sa school nya?
Honestly ang hirap.
Kung gusto mo maka anak and maging mabuti anak siya sayo at sa ibang tao palakihin mo ng maayos at may takot sa diyos. At sino ba ang sabi madali maka anak? Kaya ka nga nag asawa to build a family diba ? Kahit saan pa kayo pumunta ng ibang bansa hinde mo maiiwasan mga ganyan na Crisis nangyayari yan parte yan sa buhay . Its full Of challenges and struggles but you should Not give UP right? Why would u.
Delete1:06 Hindi lahat ng nagpapakasal ang goal is magkaroon ng anak at bumuo ng pamilya.
Deletehello 1:06 di mo nagets punto ni 10:38. Kahit anong buti ng pagpapalaki mo sa anak mo kung yung paligid niya naman punong puno ng kasamaan at hirap, hindi ka din ba talaga mag-aalala?
DeletePuro kayo haka haka. Madami nga namamatay sa maling akala. Kung segurista kayo, don’t take chances.
Deletewalang choice tinanggap mo nga lang na james still chose his friends over you.
ReplyDeleteNakakaloka mga tao.
ReplyDeleteKapag nagbuntis nang di kasal malaking issue, andaming judgments.
Kapag naman ayaw (muna) magbaby, issue rin. Dami ring judgments.
May masasabi at masasabi ang iba kahit ano gawin.
Kaya di ko na tinuloy ang pag aartista eh, kay hirap lumugar. Charot!
Kasal muna bago baby
ReplyDeleteBaby muna bago kasal.. kung goal nyo ay mag anak at magpamilya ha. Baka baog isa sa inyo, madali kumalas at maghanap ng iba na hindi baog. Madami chechebureche ang legalidad ng annulment bes.
DeleteHindi pa sila mag baby kasi papano sila magtatrabaho kung may anak na sila,kailangan na sila mag leave
DeleteMas career ng babae nakataya kelangan mag off sa career kesa sa lalake dahil expected ang mother ang mag alaga 24/7 sa baby o anak. I’m sure mas ayaw ni Nadine kesa kay James magka baby sa ngayon.
Delete5:41 impossibleng aayaw si nadine kapag si james na ang may gusto. cant you see how clingy she is to james? hindi nga daw niya kayang mawala si james.
Deletei like nadine, pero its sad to see her bend over backwards for james and this relationship. James might really love her pero sobrang conditional lang, clearly ang layo ng disparity ng love ni nadine sa kanya and vice versa. know your worth girl!
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