sus ang hilig mag discredit sa nanay na nagpalaki rin sa kanya. stop pitting them or comparing. credit goes to Sharon and Kiko on how well they raise their children. even frankie acknowledges that.
Medyo inggit ako. My parents aren't showy, and I don't remember both of them saying affectionate things to me. They're on the formal side, but I guess love for their kids mean they provide what we need growing up minus tender moments. What both wanted was their kids being independent. I was 15 when I joined college and they barely visited, nor did I felt homesickness that I was somewhere far from where I grew and family. I'm an expat now and I still don't know how being homesick feels, but I do wonder time and again how would it have been if I had easy and friendly camaraderie with my parents.
Heheh baliktad tayo. Ang tatay ko clingy naman, kahit maaga namatay tipong kasama ko siya everyday, syempre nung buhay pa siya hehe. Namatay siya nung 13 ako. Kaya malas talaga un number na iyon. Hatid sundo niya ako sa school. Daig pa yaya. Pati nga lunch time pumupunta siya. Kain kami sa resto, carinderia nung wala ng pera. Nalelate tuloy ako sa PM class ko. Yung mere physical presence niya naenjoy ko kahit sandali lang. Sine kahit walang kain, lakad kahit walang pera. May mga memories. Madaming memories na kasama ko ang aking mga magulang. Kahit nanay ko di ako pinabayaan o pinamigay. Tipong I feel really loved by them. Self reliant naman ako in a way kasi ako naman bread winner ngayon, at natuto na din maging independent nung wala na si Daddy. Pero sa akin importante din un time na kasama ko sila. Nasa memory bank ko na kasi un, di na maalis iyon. Nasa puso na pati un pakiramdam ng pagmamahal na binigay nila. Un ung pinanghuhugutan ko pag malungkot ako o natatalo ako sa laro ng buhay minsan. Sila ung magagandang pangbalanse.
Medyo pareho tayo 213. But my parents were busy with work as in kayod kalabaw kasi farmers. Other than that, pareho tayo. Ako nman 14 wla na sa amin nakatira at maski nasa malayo ako ngayon mas namimiss ko ang Pinas sa totoo lang. I also miss my parents pero wla talagang homesickness sa amin. Akala ko ako lang, ang weird kasi sa feeling. But I try my best nman to help my parents.
3:42 tumulo ang luha ko sa “sine kahit walang kain, lakad kahit walang pera”. There was a study conducted about the biggest regret of people on their dying days, and it was not that they wished they could have earned more money, or became more famous, rather , that they spent more TIME with loved ones. I think your dad was not clingy per se, but he didn’t wanna have this regret before passing away,He wanted to spend time with you, and did. He got it. Kay palad mo. As a parent or future parent, it makes one reassess one’s priorities. Thanks for sharing.
I feel you tita shawie!!! My kid nga grade school lang feeling ko ang bilis!!! I will shower her with affection.. kasi my parents show love differently, when i studied abroad for 3 years. 3x lang nila ako visit and sa airport lang nila ako hatid. Pero now that i have my own family, in a differnt house na. Mas feel ko sabik ng mom ko
Goodluck kay Frankie.Kaswerteng bata at may opportunity to study abroad.
ReplyDeletePag mayaman laging may opportunity to study abroad.
DeleteSure, yung mga study fashion or Literature. Rich girls choices.
DeleteHow old is Frankie?
ReplyDelete18
Delete18.
DeleteSaan ang school nya?
ReplyDeleteNYU
Deletekaya naman pala super proud si Shawie
DeleteNot NYU!
DeleteThe New School
Hindi NYU, The New School
DeleteIS IT ON THE SAME LEVEL AS PARSONS?
DeleteSaang university sya papasok?
ReplyDeleteI loved Frankie’s twba interview. Such a sensible young lady. Yung tipong mas mature pa sya mag-isip kaysa sa mom and ate nya.
ReplyDeleteshe learns from the best.
DeleteKapag serious topics, very sensible si Sharon at si KC...
DeletePanoorin mo iyong youtube videos ni Sharon tungkol sa finances, family, etc. Malalaman mo kung paano siya yumaman ng husto sa real estate.
2:30 Oh yes! Definitely from her dad.
Deletesus ang hilig mag discredit sa nanay na nagpalaki rin sa kanya. stop pitting them or comparing. credit goes to Sharon and Kiko on how well they raise their children. even frankie acknowledges that.
DeleteThey are so lucky to have such supportive parents who go all out sa mga endeavors nila.
ReplyDeletei understand sharon kahit nga ako bulacan to manila lang yung nanay ko di daw makatulog! hahaahha LOVE LOVE
ReplyDeletenkakainggit ang mga batang ganyan na may opportunity mamili ng school at mkapag-aral abroad.
ReplyDeletetrue!
DeleteYou can see how dedicated a mom Mega is here...and how she feels so free being able to walk around NYC with no makeup on...it’s so cute and sweet
ReplyDeletewala kasing nakakakilala sa kanya kaya free maglakad ng walang make up
DeleteMedyo inggit ako. My parents aren't showy, and I don't remember both of them saying affectionate things to me. They're on the formal side, but I guess love for their kids mean they provide what we need growing up minus tender moments. What both wanted was their kids being independent. I was 15 when I joined college and they barely visited, nor did I felt homesickness that I was somewhere far from where I grew and family. I'm an expat now and I still don't know how being homesick feels, but I do wonder time and again how would it have been if I had easy and friendly camaraderie with my parents.
ReplyDeleteHeheh baliktad tayo. Ang tatay ko clingy naman, kahit maaga namatay tipong kasama ko siya everyday, syempre nung buhay pa siya hehe. Namatay siya nung 13 ako. Kaya malas talaga un number na iyon. Hatid sundo niya ako sa school. Daig pa yaya. Pati nga lunch time pumupunta siya. Kain kami sa resto, carinderia nung wala ng pera. Nalelate tuloy ako sa PM class ko. Yung mere physical presence niya naenjoy ko kahit sandali lang. Sine kahit walang kain, lakad kahit walang pera. May mga memories. Madaming memories na kasama ko ang aking mga magulang. Kahit nanay ko di ako pinabayaan o pinamigay. Tipong I feel really loved by them. Self reliant naman ako in a way kasi ako naman bread winner ngayon, at natuto na din maging independent nung wala na si Daddy. Pero sa akin importante din un time na kasama ko sila. Nasa memory bank ko na kasi un, di na maalis iyon. Nasa puso na pati un pakiramdam ng pagmamahal na binigay nila. Un ung pinanghuhugutan ko pag malungkot ako o natatalo ako sa laro ng buhay minsan. Sila ung magagandang pangbalanse.
DeleteMedyo pareho tayo 213. But my parents were busy with work as in kayod kalabaw kasi farmers. Other than that, pareho tayo. Ako nman 14 wla na sa amin nakatira at maski nasa malayo ako ngayon mas namimiss ko ang Pinas sa totoo lang. I also miss my parents pero wla talagang homesickness sa amin. Akala ko ako lang, ang weird kasi sa feeling. But I try my best nman to help my parents.
DeleteYou’re not alone. My parent arent showy at all, not even a hugger.
Delete2.13 di bale na, you can foster that camaraderie when you yourself have kids.
Deletedo to your kids what you would’ve wanted your parents to do to and for you...
Sister, some kids go to boarding school at age seven. Rich white kids problems.
Delete3:42 you have such good memories of your father, nakakaiyak ang bond niyo.
Delete3:42 tumulo ang luha ko sa “sine kahit walang kain, lakad kahit walang pera”. There was a study conducted about the biggest regret of people on their dying days, and it was not that they wished they could have earned more money, or became more famous, rather , that they spent more TIME with loved ones. I think your dad was not clingy per se, but he didn’t wanna have this regret before passing away,He wanted to spend time with you, and did. He got it. Kay palad mo. As a parent or future parent, it makes one reassess one’s priorities. Thanks for sharing.
Deletebest mom! sweet and loving Sharon. sana mom ko rin ganito.
ReplyDeleteSa totoo lang baks yung mga artista sa atin, sa atin lang nman dinudumog. Sa ibang bansa may nakakakilalang mga Pinoy pero minsan deadma yung iba.
ReplyDeleteGood luck Frankie, NYC is such a great city to live in and study. You are such a lucky girl for having this opportunity.
ReplyDeleteButi nga sila puedeng umuwi sa pilipinas kahit kailan niila gusto- yun mga OFW ay ipapadala na lang yun pamasahe sa mga mahal sa buhay
ReplyDeleteI feel you tita shawie!!! My kid nga grade school lang feeling ko ang bilis!!! I will shower her with affection.. kasi my parents show love differently, when i studied abroad for 3 years. 3x lang nila ako visit and sa airport lang nila ako hatid. Pero now that i have my own family, in a differnt house na. Mas feel ko sabik ng mom ko
ReplyDeleteSeparation anxiety! But i'm sure kakie wants to get away from her over protective mother! Lol!
ReplyDeleteSayang d naranasan ni KC ang ganyan kay Sharon.
ReplyDeleteShe speaks fluent French and is highly independent. France is a dream. She is so lucky ano ba.
DeleteAno'ng hindi? Basahin mo lahat ng mga interviews at panoorin mo ang mga old videos nila noong panahon na iyon. Magpakalunod ka.
DeleteSharon made sure she lived in a nice apartment while studying in France. Ang swerte nga niya. She was also free to travel around during those times.
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