Uso ata yun Kung kailan nasa retiring age na doon na maghihiwalay. Inintay muna nila maging adults mga anak bago mag move on. Believe din ako sa mga parents na ganyan, sacrifice talaga for their children. Kasi pag adults na mga anak mas makakaintindi na. Just like how Heart and her siblings can easily accept the situation.
Minsan kasi pag nagkaka anak na, ang nagiging priorites ng parents ay mga anak nila. Kaya often when parents becomes empty nesters, parang doon mo na ma re-realize na iba na pala relationship mo with your spouse. Na di na pala sya yong taong pinakasalan mo, na ibang iba na pala kayong dalawa.
Super agree sizt! 1:49- everything will change when you had a family sobbrang iba kaya kayo lahat ng pakiligan gawin nyo while single kc yanng mga tweetums na yan mawawala pag magasawa na kau tho may sweet nothings, pero iba na talaga pag May family, ang priority nyo pareho ay mga anak pangalawa income.
My parents separated nung may kanya kanya ng pamilya kaming mgkakapatid. May times na umiiyak pa din ako lalo na pag napapaniginipan ko father ko pero I know it’s for the better. Yung mga kakilala dati na gustong mgreconnect, iniiwasan ko kasi baka kamustahin ang parents ko eh nahihiya ako mgkwento lol
kaya pala i rarely see Rey and Cecilia together - except for this event, one time in New Manila at the house of Consuelo and Monchet. pero that was many years ago na.
anyways, if it's their destiny nga naman to part ways.
tagal ko ng nag re request sa vlog ni heart na sana ma feature mommy nya kasi ang mysterious kasi e, yung dad nya nag appear na sa vlog and chill lang and he looks so happy
Kialan kaya sila naghiwalay, after Heart’s wedding? Kasi kung before, di matitiis baka andun yung Dad niya...just speculating na mas malambot puso ng Dad as like most Dads or my Dad:)
how Heart handled this is very classy. The real elite dont want to talk about controversial issues lalo na family matters in public. They just keep it low key kung may problemang pinag daanan. We never heard about this until now.
I feel bad pag may naghihiwalay.pero I feel worse pag ang naghihiwalay eh may mga edad na.to think na they've been through so much but still decided to part ways, sobrang nakakahinayang
That's life. It's worse kung they stay to live together pero hindi naman magkasundo at hindi na masaya sa buhay. Im sure they remain friends. Yun nga lang ibang level na ang relationship but respect is still there. Some relationshios arent meant to last. Mas importante, mas masaya na sila ngayon ang moved on. Magkasama nga sa iisang bubong pero miserable naman at laging nagaaway? Yan ang mali.
@146 ok Lang yun pag matatanda na,wala sila dinamay na maliliit na Bata O mga teenagers. Mas magulo Kung affected mga bata. If they decide to separate at their old age, let them. Para naman they can find more peace and happiness in their twilight years.
Idk kung posible rin mangyari ito sa amin ng asawa ko in the future. Pls pray for us mga ka-FP. 4yrs na kami hindi okay, we’re just good at hiding it. Pag nakita nyo kami ganun pa rin kami sa labas, you’d think na nakalimutan na namin pareho yung nangyari pero sa aming dalawa we both know na sobrang laki ng pagbabago, ang dami nawala. Ang hirap, hirap pa rin ang kalooban ko, lalo mag-aanniversary na naman yung nangyari 4yrs ago. We’ve been married 22yrs now.
@3:04 AM parang Pareho tayo ah, mag 4. Years na din same situation. Sana malagpasan namin , tulad mo ang sakit sakit pa rin . We’ve been married 17 years . Mga ka FP please pray for us as well lalo na At May maliliit pa kaming anak .
If you keep bottling your emotions, one day you’ll explode and it will not be good. Don’t do the fake it till you make it way. Whatever happened 4 years ago, try to talked to your partner about it. What went wrong and what changes that’s needed to happen for the both of you. Soul search and ask yourself, what do you want? Don’t stay with him just because na-aawa ka, because you guys been together for too long or you’re scared of change. You do you sister. Whatever decisions you’ll make make sure that it will be for the better. You can do it!!!!
Wow...17 years.. question, don't you want to confront the issue now? Be free and find your happiness if that's what it takes? I dunno, parang if you're stuck in a relationship because of the kids, you're gonna regret having them in the end.
Thank you sa mga advices nyo, nakakagaan ng loob kahit paano. I am still hoping na maayos kami at bumalik sa dati ang labat, na parang walang nangyari. Nasa akin yata ang problema kasi hindi ko alam kung paano iha-handle ang first heartbreak ko. Kaya isama nyo ako sa mga dasal nyo pls. 1:52, hindi na ako malambing sa kanya, hindi ko na sya niyayakap at kini-kiss unless sya ang mauuna. Sa bagay na yan nagkaroon talaga ako ng wall, natatakot ako na masaktan ulit. At nawala ang tiwala ko sa kanya, at hindi pa nababalik hanggang ngayon. Pero we talk, para kasi kami magtropa kapag nag-usap, ganun pa rin kami, that's why I said na when you see us, hindi mo aakalain na hindi na kami (or ako) sweet sa (kanya) isa't-isa. I am still praying for us, kaya ko pa naman, hindi pa susuko.
Same here. Malilit pa mga anak namin and mahigit 1 year na kaming nag aawa to the point na minumura nya ako at sinasaktan gabi gabi in front of the kids. Mas mabuti ng maghiwalay hanggat maaga rather than antayin pang magsilakihan ang mga bata. Kawawa ang mga bata.
Im sorry to hear about your predicament.. its not healthy/good for the kids to see u r being verbally/physically abused/hurt by your husband.. that act has a huge impact/effect on ur kids - emotional, mental, psychological level.. please momshie, lumaban ka.. fight for urself & ur kids. Im sending u the warmest hug right now.
Its ok to get divorced lalo na kung wala na talaga. As long as you have a good relationship with your children. Sometimes even if we are blessed and all that, life is just not perfect. So gora lang mga sis.
Oh gosh. Hope everything's fine between her and her Mom.
ReplyDeleteher mom lives in the US ndaw at bihira nlng umuuwi ng pinas. kaya yung dad nla nasa condo na nkatira.
DeleteUso ata yun Kung kailan nasa retiring age na doon na maghihiwalay. Inintay muna nila maging adults mga anak bago mag move on. Believe din ako sa mga parents na ganyan, sacrifice talaga for their children. Kasi pag adults na mga anak mas makakaintindi na. Just like how Heart and her siblings can easily accept the situation.
ReplyDeleteDi ba si heart lang ang anak nila?
DeleteMinsan kasi pag nagkaka anak na, ang nagiging priorites ng parents ay mga anak nila. Kaya often when parents becomes empty nesters, parang doon mo na ma re-realize na iba na pala relationship mo with your spouse. Na di na pala sya yong taong pinakasalan mo, na ibang iba na pala kayong dalawa.
Delete1:48 she is the youngest of their 3 daughters
Delete1:48 No. Heart has older sisters and she’s the youngest.
DeleteSuper agree sizt! 1:49- everything will change when you had a family sobbrang iba kaya kayo lahat ng pakiligan gawin nyo while single kc yanng mga tweetums na yan mawawala pag magasawa na kau tho may sweet nothings, pero iba na talaga pag May family, ang priority nyo pareho ay mga anak pangalawa income.
DeleteNo, Heart has an older sister, Camille. The other siblings are half.
Deletekorek...ako nag aantay lang din lumaki ang mga bata...freedom see u....
Delete@148 heller? May mga kapatid si Heart, her sisters. Full siblings sila not half. She's the youngest.
DeleteMy parents separated nung may kanya kanya ng pamilya kaming mgkakapatid. May times na umiiyak pa din ako lalo na pag napapaniginipan ko father ko pero I know it’s for the better. Yung mga kakilala dati na gustong mgreconnect, iniiwasan ko kasi baka kamustahin ang parents ko eh nahihiya ako mgkwento lol
Delete11:16 Heller ka din. Si Camille lang ang full sibling niya. The rest anak ng parents nila sa exes nila.
Deletekaya pala i rarely see Rey and Cecilia together - except for this event, one time in New Manila at the house of Consuelo and Monchet. pero that was many years ago na.
ReplyDeleteanyways, if it's their destiny nga naman to part ways.
I saw her Mom way back sa Power Plant Mall and she looked exquisite and youthful.
Deletesorry to hear that hearty! am a chismosa gurl but i didnt see that coming
ReplyDeleteWell at least hindi sila nag air ng dirty laundry in public.
DeleteTo each their own . No need to ask for more .
ReplyDeletetagal ko ng nag re request sa vlog ni heart na sana ma feature mommy nya kasi ang mysterious kasi e, yung dad nya nag appear na sa vlog and chill lang and he looks so happy
ReplyDeleteWala siya dito sa ph. That’s why di rin siya visible sa ig posts ni heart.
Deletewalang halong echos, mas gusto ko yong mga ganitong sagot. direct to the point.
ReplyDeleteI miss seeing her mom on her posts. Kamukhang kamukha niya talaga mommy niya.
ReplyDeleteKialan kaya sila naghiwalay, after Heart’s wedding? Kasi kung before, di matitiis baka andun yung Dad niya...just speculating na mas malambot puso ng Dad as like most Dads or my Dad:)
ReplyDeleteHer dad seems very loving and kind. Even before sya talaga mas malambot kay heart and forgives her easily
DeleteSa states na yata naka base mom niya ngayon.
ReplyDeletehow Heart handled this is very classy. The real elite dont want to talk about controversial issues lalo na family matters in public. They just keep it low key kung may problemang pinag daanan. We never heard about this until now.
ReplyDeleteDapat di na inuusisa ng mga netizens yung ganyang bagay.
ReplyDeletedi kasi nakikita yung mom sa vlogs nya kaya they wondering
DeleteTrue
DeleteI feel bad pag may naghihiwalay.pero I feel worse pag ang naghihiwalay eh may mga edad na.to think na they've been through so much but still decided to part ways, sobrang nakakahinayang
ReplyDeleteThat's life. It's worse kung they stay to live together pero hindi naman magkasundo at hindi na masaya sa buhay. Im sure they remain friends. Yun nga lang ibang level na ang relationship but respect is still there. Some relationshios arent meant to last. Mas importante, mas masaya na sila ngayon ang moved on.
DeleteMagkasama nga sa iisang bubong pero miserable naman at laging nagaaway? Yan ang mali.
@146 ok Lang yun pag matatanda na,wala sila dinamay na maliliit na Bata O mga teenagers. Mas magulo Kung affected mga bata. If they decide to separate at their old age, let them. Para naman they can find more peace and happiness in their twilight years.
Deleteits better to seperate lalo na pag everyday nag aaway parents..mas lalong di maganda yun sa mental health ng mga bata
DeleteIdk kung posible rin mangyari ito sa amin ng asawa ko in the future. Pls pray for us mga ka-FP. 4yrs na kami hindi okay, we’re just good at hiding it. Pag nakita nyo kami ganun pa rin kami sa labas, you’d think na nakalimutan na namin pareho yung nangyari pero sa aming dalawa we both know na sobrang laki ng pagbabago, ang dami nawala. Ang hirap, hirap pa rin ang kalooban ko, lalo mag-aanniversary na naman yung nangyari 4yrs ago. We’ve been married 22yrs now.
ReplyDeletePanong hindi ok? Care to elaborate? Hindi kayo masyado nag uusap ganon?
DeleteMy prayers for you baks. Sana try to reach out kahit it’s so hard. Keep trying
Delete3:04 not to be nega but you should have a contingency plan in place just in case you need it.
Delete@3:04 AM parang Pareho tayo ah, mag 4. Years na din same situation. Sana malagpasan namin , tulad mo ang sakit sakit pa rin . We’ve been married 17 years . Mga ka FP please pray for us as well lalo na At May maliliit pa kaming anak .
DeleteIf you keep bottling your emotions, one day you’ll explode and it will not be good. Don’t do the fake it till you make it way. Whatever happened 4 years ago, try to talked to your partner about it. What went wrong and what changes that’s needed to happen for the both of you. Soul search and ask yourself, what do you want? Don’t stay with him just because na-aawa ka, because you guys been together for too long or you’re scared of change. You do you sister. Whatever decisions you’ll make make sure that it will be for the better. You can do it!!!!
DeleteWow...17 years.. question, don't you want to confront the issue now? Be free and find your happiness if that's what it takes? I dunno, parang if you're stuck in a relationship because of the kids, you're gonna regret having them in the end.
DeleteHi 3:04 here!
DeleteThank you sa mga advices nyo, nakakagaan ng loob kahit paano. I am still hoping na maayos kami at bumalik sa dati ang labat, na parang walang nangyari. Nasa akin yata ang problema kasi hindi ko alam kung paano iha-handle ang first heartbreak ko. Kaya isama nyo ako sa mga dasal nyo pls.
1:52, hindi na ako malambing sa kanya, hindi ko na sya niyayakap at kini-kiss unless sya ang mauuna. Sa bagay na yan nagkaroon talaga ako ng wall, natatakot ako na masaktan ulit. At nawala ang tiwala ko sa kanya, at hindi pa nababalik hanggang ngayon. Pero we talk, para kasi kami magtropa kapag nag-usap, ganun pa rin kami, that's why I said na when you see us, hindi mo aakalain na hindi na kami (or ako) sweet sa (kanya) isa't-isa. I am still praying for us, kaya ko pa naman, hindi pa susuko.
4:16, kaya natin ito mamsh! I will also pray for you. Hugs! -3:04
DeleteLife is too short. Be free and be happy.
DeleteSame here. Malilit pa mga anak namin and mahigit 1 year na kaming nag aawa to the point na minumura nya ako at sinasaktan gabi gabi in front of the kids. Mas mabuti ng maghiwalay hanggat maaga rather than antayin pang magsilakihan ang mga bata. Kawawa ang mga bata.
ReplyDeleteIm sorry to hear about your predicament.. its not healthy/good for the kids to see u r being verbally/physically abused/hurt by your husband.. that act has a huge impact/effect on ur kids - emotional, mental, psychological level.. please momshie, lumaban ka.. fight for urself & ur kids. Im sending u the warmest hug right now.
DeleteShe is hanging out a lot more with her Dad. I guess nasa america ang nanay. Sometimes its better that way.
ReplyDeleteIts ok to get divorced lalo na kung wala na talaga. As long as you have a good relationship with your children. Sometimes even if we are blessed and all that, life is just not perfect. So gora lang mga sis.
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