Given Jason's previous misdeeds I don't put it past him.
Not victim blaming here, Pero possible nangyari to dahil obvious walang respeto sa kanya si Baron. Friends daw but they live together. Open relationship- they can see other people.
Girls put yourself to a higher standard. The world is spinning out of control di ibig sabihin kailangan makipagsabayan.
8:33 What does that have to do with the assault? Kahit ano pang relationship nila, she doesn't deserve it! She even tried to help him. Tapos kayo concern niyo is yung setup ng relationship nila?? Wtf?!
Kung nakablotter yan tulad nung sinabi nung girl na nagsumbong sila sa pulis sa me Pampanga, e Totoo! Pero kung walang record e mahirap patunayan na ang isang lasenggero e nambubugbog!
10:41 Hindi ba yan proof?? Kaya takot magsalita ang mga victims eh! Dahil sa mga katulad niyong kumukuyog! May doubts agad kahit ayan na ang pictures! My heart breaks for the victims who weren't able to record evidences :'(
Bakit umabot kapa sa ganyan sis? No relationship at all, no commitments, just helping him out ending up broken. Dapat alam mo din limit mo sis, you know naman pala what he’s capable of but you never save yourself. I’m not standing with baron but what I feel is bitterness in your post, even you spill it all out, tapos na e naka move on na xa with another girl wc you’re boiling with. Be better and move on na as in, walk the talk.
nagbasa po ba kayo? hindi po sya galit dahil may jowa nang bago si Baron. nainis po sya kasi nagsabi si Baron sa tweet nya na never syang nanakit, nag-malinis si guy. kaya pinakita ni girl yong pasa nya dahil sa pananakit ni Baron dati sa kanya.
yes, friends with benefits. so? ang issue ang pangbubugbog, di ang quality ng relationship. may mga relationships na ganyan, wala namang nagkakasakitan ng pisikal.
Bitter ex dahil magpapakasal na si Baron? Ang disadvantage lang ni Baron is yung past issues niya. Ang daming beses siya nakasuhan dahil nagiiba siya kapag nalalasing. Ang PBB ang nagpabagsak sa kanya.
So bakit ngayon mo lang nilabas kung kelan may news na ikakasal na si Baron? Sobrang daming controversies ni Baron last year pero bakit di ka nagsalita? Parang that’s the perfect timing kumbaga para isiwalat ginawa niya kasabay ng ibang issues niya but why now? Sorry for what happened to you pero the timing is really fishy. Yung totoo teh, gusto mo pigilan ang kasal no? Mukhang nagseselos si ate girl
Wow parang sure na sure kang nagbago na si byron ah, kung nagbago sya bakit sya nagsinungaling. Tsktsk. Sige kung may anak, kapatid or kahit kaibigan ka na bf si baron papayag kang mapakasal sya don? Sus wag plastic.
Physical abuse is never okay, but why is she talking about this just now? And she's saying she needs to preserve her mental sanity - but it's not like she's tied to Baron? She said they're living together but free to see other people so how could she be THAT emotionally attached to Baron when she's probably sleeping with other guys on the side as well?
Interesting timing specially that Baron is moving forward with his life and career (via Ang Probinsyano). Anyway I wish the woman all the best and healing. She should file a case.
I don't know Baron personally, but based on everything I've read about him so far, all the issues he's had with his temper, his drinking, his fight with family, with his co stars, I can totally see him capable of doing something like that to a girl, maybe due to drunkenness, or whatever. the accusations maybe false or half true, but I'm willing to give the girl the benefit of the doubt just because I don't know who she is, if she's a liar or not, but I do know a little bit about Baron, and yes I can see him doing that. But that's just me being judgemental.
Yes dahil hindi lang naman "tayo o hindi" ang basehan ng relasyon. Pwedeng they liked each other a lot but wanted to keep their freedom, or just weren't ready to commit.
Sorry if you've been living under a rock but relationships are no longer just black and white, they're multifaceted na. It's not just "mag-on tayo or hindi" because relationships are complicated, some more so than others.
Victim shaming again!!! Hindi importante kung kelan ginawa sayo. Sana marunong muna kayo mag research before kayo mag judge, so para sa mga puro react lang without knowing the truth, kaya ngayon lang sya nag react kasi nagsabi si baron na wala da w stang sinaktan na kahit sino before. So nag react na yung BIKTIMA na di totoo yun. Maganda na nga nag labas ng statement yung BIKTIMA para maging aware yung fiance' ni baron kung anong pinapasok nyang buhay.
But what if hindi totoo, so sino ang totoong biktima? Yung inaakusahan na walang kinalaman o yung nag-aakusang gumagawa ng istorya? Yes, may pasa... Pero what if it was not Baron? What if isa sa mga guys she was seeing na kasabay ni Baron?
Exactly! And people are judging the set up of their relationship pa. Relationships aren't just black and white, depende talaga sa tao yan. And why is the immediate reaction that she's jealous he's getting married? Pwede naman na concerned and she finally had the guts to speak her truth?
I disagree! Dahil by staying silent u are in a way saying na ok lang. Ex na sila and malaya sya maka file ng case pero bat di nya ginawa?! In some cases, pwedeng di ka makapalag bec you are still under someone pero di ganun ang case nya. Also malay natin kung saan nya yan nakuhang pasa or baka makeup lang. I know na pwedeng magawa yan ni Baron pero i want to be objective..not kampi kaagad sa victim. Pwede din sadyang humanap lang ng chempo si girl kung kelan pwede siraan si Baron para maka resbak. To sum up, need mo mag file kung ganyan ang nangyari. Kahit blotter lang o police report asap just to officially state na nadehado ka. Diba nga kung may nabili kang defective you report right away..kasi nga kung nanahimik ka lang it means ok yung item. Kung late ka magreport, it creates a tendency na pwedeng u are lying. U need to do your part din kasi
8:12 Then mag file ng libel si Baron! He could easily win this kung hindi totoo! Diba? Maraming victims na hindi kayang magsalita agad. Palibhasa wala ka sa position nila. Hindi mo alam ang epekto niyan emotionally! Sana hindi mo tan maranasan!
Kaloka talaga may mga victims na na trauma ng sobra kaya hindi nagrekla agad, may iba na kumukuha pa ng lakas ng loob, yung iba nahihiya kasi alam nilang maraming victim shamers. Sana bago kayo magsalita ng bakit ngayon lang magisip muna kayo. Hindi lahat may lakas ng loob na harapin kagad ang problema.
Uhm guys, ganito kasi yan.. Baron’s claiming that he didn’t hurt anyon, pinapabulaanan lang ni girl. I don’t think naman nagpapapansin sya or tututol sya sa kasal kaya ngayon lang nya sinabi. It’s just that Baron is coming clean which is di naman pala totoo
The thing ladies and gentlemen is that Baron lied that never siyang nanakit. That triggered this girl's sentiments which I find understandable naman. Kumbaga uminit lang ang dugo ni Ateng sa pasaring ni Kuya kaya siya naglahad ng side niya. I don't think dahil gusto niya itigil ang kasal or bitter siya or what. She just wants other people to know the truth by telling her story.
I see a lot of victim blaming here. Sa tingin ko karamihan sa inyo babae. Shame on you. Read what she said. I truly hope you do not experience that kind of abuse para hindi nyo malaman first hand kung gaano kabulok ang hustisya sa Pilipinas. Ang tatapang nyo to say why only now. Basahin maigi what she said. She is fed up with the lies. Women, please stop that culture of victim blaming. Kaya takot lumabas ang victims dahil sa inyo because you always rationalize it and somehow make it the victims fault. Shame!
And this is the reason why victims of abuse choose silence. Grabe yung comments questioning the timing and yung set up nila sa relationship na non existent pero living in. Una sa lahat, di madali magsalita dahil when that happens you are fearful of what the abuser can do to you at dahil mahal mo (I'm sure kahit pano she likes the guy) baka may takot din to lose the person if she speaks up. Sounds crazy!? Realtalk: that is the Psychology of the abused. Pangalawa, she admitted na she needs help. She probably know she has psych issues. Mababa ang capacity ng abused to choose wisely cause they feel powerless or helpless. They need help.
Hopefully Baron truly changed cause bihira yung di umuulit na Abuser. Tapos ganyan pa na he couldn't take responsibility.
I was abused Kaya ako ganito magsalita. It took years to heal. When you're abused, di lang naman bruised katawan mo even your soul gets broken. If this is the girl's way of coping, I hope it helps that she spoke up.
Basa muna bago mangvictim shame. It doesn't matter kung gano katagal pa nangyari yan or yung timing pero yung fact na sinungaling parin sha hanggang ngayon ibig sabihin nun never shang nagbago. Panay ang post ng bible verses pero hindi makaako sa kasalanan na nagawa. Wala na rin dapat pakialam kung naging ano pa sila pero yung fact na isa sha sa nagtry na tumulong kay Baron dati tapos ginanyan sha hindi tama! Dapat kasuhan yan it's not too late. Yung mga naging biktima rin ni Harvey Weinstein taon ang binilang bago nagsilabasan kasi baka nakadepende rin yan if they're already ready mentally and emotionally. Sana maintindihan din yan ng mga taong nagbabasa dito sa blog na ito.
Didnt you get it?? Very clear po ang pagkakaexplain niya. ITS HOT SCALDING TEA! she revealed it because BARON CLAIMED NA HINDI SIYA NANANAKIT. Kung ako din si girl maiimbyerna ako! I support her!!
Somehow true. I don't get why women are prone to this. Alam na nila na babaero or nambubugbog makikipagrelasyon pa rin. Masokista lang ang peg? Di ko rin alam. Pero one thing's for sure. Women cannot change men EXCEPT if the man truly loves a woman and he is willing to give up anything for her.
Bring your cases to the proper venue. Social media is never the proper venue. You won’t gain justice nor vindication from social media. Take it to the courts.
Andami talagang mahina ang comprehension noh? Why only now daw nagsabi. Eh kasi ngayon lang naman nagsabi si Baron on socmed na never siya nanakit ng babae. On soc med. Natrigger lang si ex sa sinabi ni baron kaya nagsalita siya.
Di ko kinakaya ang ibang comments. Victim blaming? siya na biktima, kasalanan niya pa?! Kaya maraming naaabuso na di na lang nagsasalita, natatakot na sila pa ang masisi. So sad :(
Tingin kayo sa paligid niyo (wag naman sana) baka may kasama o kakilala kayo na nabiktima na pala, di lang makakibo kase takot na masisi niyo.
Sana lang kase inuna nya mag-file ng case kesa mag-socmed, anyway mukang may pruweba nman sya based sa pictures nya. Okay lng nman ilabas sa social media yun ganyan, pero unahin munang mag-file ng kaso para maturuan din ng leksyon yun mga nananakit. Physical abuse should be taken seriously at hindi lang dpat sa socmed nilaladlad.
exactly. Why come out on social media first. If she got pissed because Baron lied about not hurting anyone. She should have filed the case agad. Now she's made herself a target and had to prove herself pa instead of getting support. :(
Social media/media ang best way para makuha mo ang simpatya ng mga tao..pero may other way naman ate para malaman mo ang tunay n sagot..kaso kung ang purpose mo ay contradict sa claim n sinasabi ni badboy yun nga ba ang REAL purpose mo?
Sa totoo lng setting aside our common hatred towards Baron's bad behavior in the past, sobrang perfect timing nga. Baron is about to turn his life around and marry the woman that he loves. Tapos magpapapansin si girl ng ganyan. Kung talagang sinaktan ka, bakit naghintay ka pa ng sobrang tagal? Delayed reaction lang? Ako nga sinampal ako ng ex ko (guy yun, babae ako), ipina sa Diyos ko na lang. Dahil hinayaan ko na lang, pinatawad ko ang ex ko, nagkaroon tuloy ako ng blessings. At nagkaroon ako ng boyfriend na proud sa akin at love na love ako. Wala ako siniraan kya ako nagkaroon ng blessings. Besides kung totoo man, edi sna kinasuhan mo ang artistang yan. Hindi yung gagawin mong court ang social media.
Eto na naman ang feeling matalino na si 3:14 am. Di porque hindi nag agree eh hindi na naintindihan. Read between the lines, teh! Perfect timing! Yun yun!
ang daming magagaling talaga sa socmed kung may kasalanan man si baron yah why now but nung nagpopost si baron ng nasa rehab di sya nag- i second that motion sya or sana kahit noon pa ngayon hati na desisyon at sasabihin ng iba nagpapapansin si ateng or victim blaming. Kung naka kaso na to eh di eh i-follow up ni ate girl kesa sa socmed at naghahanap ng trial by publicity. Cguro nga magmove na lang kesa sisiraan mo and then may mangyayare pa ba if ever kakasohan mo sa tagal na nung nangyare.
Ang sabihin mo galit ka lang kay Baron kaya hindi ka willing pakinggan ang both sides of the story. @9:19am O edi siya na. Siya na laging masama. LOL. We're trying to be objective here. Hindi victim blaming yun.
Never sya nanakit?? Jusko tawa na lang siguro ang showbiz people nung nabsa nila yang post mo Baron. Sino sa tingin mo maniniwala sayo
ReplyDeleteGiven Jason's previous misdeeds I don't put it past him.
DeleteNot victim blaming here, Pero possible nangyari to dahil obvious walang respeto sa kanya si Baron. Friends daw but they live together. Open relationship- they can see other people.
Girls put yourself to a higher standard. The world is spinning out of control di ibig sabihin kailangan makipagsabayan.
I really get your point, 8:33. But you are exactly victim blaming! Sana di mo na lang binanggit yang line na yan. Hypocrisy at its finest!!!!
Delete8:33 What does that have to do with the assault? Kahit ano pang relationship nila, she doesn't deserve it! She even tried to help him. Tapos kayo concern niyo is yung setup ng relationship nila?? Wtf?!
DeleteI wish her well and hope she gets justice. I'm not blaming her. I'm blaming Baron. Sya nanakit di ba?
DeleteI'm saying respect yourself first and others will respect you. This could be been avoided. Surround yourself with people who love and respect you.
What a great timing!
ReplyDeleteKung nakablotter yan tulad nung sinabi nung girl na nagsumbong sila sa pulis sa me Pampanga, e Totoo! Pero kung walang record e mahirap patunayan na ang isang lasenggero e nambubugbog!
Deletebasa ka uli baks 1:37
Deletebasa ka uli baks 1:37
DeleteWTF. Really? See her face?! You’re focusing on “timing “????
Delete4.26 sinong may gawa nyan? Ika nga can you place baron in the crime scene. Do you have proof?
Delete10:41 Hindi ba yan proof?? Kaya takot magsalita ang mga victims eh! Dahil sa mga katulad niyong kumukuyog! May doubts agad kahit ayan na ang pictures! My heart breaks for the victims who weren't able to record evidences :'(
Deleteit is never too late to file a case about any kind of abuse
ReplyDeletegoodluck on your recovery
uso din yan dito sa amerika allegations.. kung tunay sana noon pa. why wait? maayos na kasi si baron
ReplyDeleteDid read the whole story? Read pag may time besh
DeleteDi ka nag basa noh? Kumuda ka lang? Nakalagay, "Why only now?"
DeleteBakit ngaun lng lumabas ng my project at new gf na si Baron
Delete1:03 may point ka but you're thinking like someone who hasn't experienced being abused or having been in an abusive relationship.
DeleteBakit umabot kapa sa ganyan sis? No relationship at all, no commitments, just helping him out ending up broken. Dapat alam mo din limit mo sis, you know naman pala what he’s capable of but you never save yourself. I’m not standing with baron but what I feel is bitterness in your post, even you spill it all out, tapos na e naka move on na xa with another girl wc you’re boiling with. Be better and move on na as in, walk the talk.
ReplyDeleteVictim blaming
Deletenagbasa po ba kayo? hindi po sya galit dahil may jowa nang bago si Baron. nainis po sya kasi nagsabi si Baron sa tweet nya na never syang nanakit, nag-malinis si guy. kaya pinakita ni girl yong pasa nya dahil sa pananakit ni Baron dati sa kanya.
DeleteHindi kasi ikaw ang nabugbog kaya ang daling sabihin na Be better and move on.
DeleteMove on na lang, sis!
DeleteNever in a relationship daw, friends and sila and living together...Friends with benefits 🤔
ReplyDeleteyes, friends with benefits. so? ang issue ang pangbubugbog, di ang quality ng relationship. may mga relationships na ganyan, wala namang nagkakasakitan ng pisikal.
DeleteBitter ex dahil magpapakasal na si Baron? Ang disadvantage lang ni Baron is yung past issues niya. Ang daming beses siya nakasuhan dahil nagiiba siya kapag nalalasing. Ang PBB ang nagpabagsak sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteSo bakit ngayon mo lang nilabas kung kelan may news na ikakasal na si Baron? Sobrang daming controversies ni Baron last year pero bakit di ka nagsalita? Parang that’s the perfect timing kumbaga para isiwalat ginawa niya kasabay ng ibang issues niya but why now? Sorry for what happened to you pero the timing is really fishy. Yung totoo teh, gusto mo pigilan ang kasal no? Mukhang nagseselos si ate girl
ReplyDeleteWell if hindi mo nabasa. Hindi siya naniniwala sa jsutice system ng Pilipinas. He denied kasi na nanakit siya ng Girl, dun yung trigger
DeleteWow parang sure na sure kang nagbago na si byron ah, kung nagbago sya bakit sya nagsinungaling. Tsktsk.
DeleteSige kung may anak, kapatid or kahit kaibigan ka na bf si baron papayag kang mapakasal sya don? Sus wag plastic.
OMG. Are you for real?
DeleteSame hair si Baron at JLC. Parehong magaling na actor. Crush ng yaya ko dati si Baron at Patrick nung tabing ilog days.
ReplyDeletePhysical abuse is never okay, but why is she talking about this just now? And she's saying she needs to preserve her mental sanity - but it's not like she's tied to Baron? She said they're living together but free to see other people so how could she be THAT emotionally attached to Baron when she's probably sleeping with other guys on the side as well?
ReplyDeleteneng, basahin mo uli. pag di mo naintindiihan, basa pa uli.
DeleteShe's talking about this now when he made a statement that he NEVER hurt women.
DeleteIs that her way of saying “itigil ang kasal!”?
ReplyDeleteParang.
DeleteTiming na timing talaga ate?
ReplyDeleteGanyan minsan. Ako emotional abuse it took me a while to even tell anyone.
DeletePhysical violence is very bad pero sana dati pa syang nagreklamo. Hindi ngayon na engaged si baron. Na accuse tuloy sya na naghahabol pa kay baron
ReplyDeleteYun lang.
Deletetama! hahaha umaasa pa kasi si ate na may chance pa kahit nabugbug na sya. kaso mive on na si baron kaya ngayon nagiingay. typical drama queen!
DeleteInteresting timing specially that Baron is moving forward with his life and career (via Ang Probinsyano). Anyway I wish the woman all the best and healing. She should file a case.
ReplyDeleteOo. If documented naman may witness pa
Deletesyempre ikaw ba naman yung victim, matitrigger ka talaga pag nakikita mo sa TV yung mukha ng abuser mo. Iba't iba ang way ng pag deal ng trauma
DeleteI don't know Baron personally, but based on everything I've read about him so far, all the issues he's had with his temper, his drinking, his fight with family, with his co stars, I can totally see him capable of doing something like that to a girl, maybe due to drunkenness, or whatever. the accusations maybe false or half true, but I'm willing to give the girl the benefit of the doubt just because I don't know who she is, if she's a liar or not, but I do know a little bit about Baron, and yes I can see him doing that. But that's just me being judgemental.
ReplyDeleteEh ako rin eh. Parang in keeping sa alam at na basa ko about him through the years.
DeleteNever in a relationship daw, friends lang daw ang libing together..so friends with benefits
ReplyDeleteDun din ako naguluhan. There is such a thing pala
DeleteYes na yes!
DeleteYes dahil hindi lang naman "tayo o hindi" ang basehan ng relasyon. Pwedeng they liked each other a lot but wanted to keep their freedom, or just weren't ready to commit.
DeleteSorry if you've been living under a rock but relationships are no longer just black and white, they're multifaceted na. It's not just "mag-on tayo or hindi" because relationships are complicated, some more so than others.
DeleteVictim shaming again!!! Hindi importante kung kelan ginawa sayo. Sana marunong muna kayo mag research before kayo mag judge, so para sa mga puro react lang without knowing the truth, kaya ngayon lang sya nag react kasi nagsabi si baron na wala da w stang sinaktan na kahit sino before. So nag react na yung BIKTIMA na di totoo yun. Maganda na nga nag labas ng statement yung BIKTIMA para maging aware yung fiance' ni baron kung anong pinapasok nyang buhay.
ReplyDeleteTama! Nakakainit ng dugo ang ibang comments dito! Mas concerned sila sa timing??
DeleteExactly. May expiration date ang black and blue???
DeleteMy thoughts exactly
DeleteBut what if hindi totoo, so sino ang totoong biktima? Yung inaakusahan na walang kinalaman o yung nag-aakusang gumagawa ng istorya? Yes, may pasa... Pero what if it was not Baron? What if isa sa mga guys she was seeing na kasabay ni Baron?
DeleteExactly! And people are judging the set up of their relationship pa. Relationships aren't just black and white, depende talaga sa tao yan. And why is the immediate reaction that she's jealous he's getting married? Pwede naman na concerned and she finally had the guts to speak her truth?
DeleteI disagree! Dahil by staying silent u are in a way saying na ok lang. Ex na sila and malaya sya maka file ng case pero bat di nya ginawa?! In some cases, pwedeng di ka makapalag bec you are still under someone pero di ganun ang case nya. Also malay natin kung saan nya yan nakuhang pasa or baka makeup lang. I know na pwedeng magawa yan ni Baron pero i want to be objective..not kampi kaagad sa victim. Pwede din sadyang humanap lang ng chempo si girl kung kelan pwede siraan si Baron para maka resbak. To sum up, need mo mag file kung ganyan ang nangyari. Kahit blotter lang o police report asap just to officially state na nadehado ka. Diba nga kung may nabili kang defective you report right away..kasi nga kung nanahimik ka lang it means ok yung item. Kung late ka magreport, it creates a tendency na pwedeng u are lying. U need to do your part din kasi
Delete8:12 Then mag file ng libel si Baron! He could easily win this kung hindi totoo! Diba? Maraming victims na hindi kayang magsalita agad. Palibhasa wala ka sa position nila. Hindi mo alam ang epekto niyan emotionally! Sana hindi mo tan maranasan!
DeletePlease file a case! Baron needs to face this, di yan matututo kung puro chances nalang. Fight for your right.
ReplyDeleteKaloka talaga may mga victims na na trauma ng sobra kaya hindi nagrekla agad, may iba na kumukuha pa ng lakas ng loob, yung iba nahihiya kasi alam nilang maraming victim shamers. Sana bago kayo magsalita ng bakit ngayon lang magisip muna kayo. Hindi lahat may lakas ng loob na harapin kagad ang problema.
ReplyDeleteExactly. I suffered emotional abuse and it took me years to tell a soul. Maka comment tao dito minsan parang wala man lang capacity for empathy.
Deleteagree walang mga puso kalungkot
DeleteUhm guys, ganito kasi yan.. Baron’s claiming that he didn’t hurt anyon, pinapabulaanan lang ni girl. I don’t think naman nagpapapansin sya or tututol sya sa kasal kaya ngayon lang nya sinabi. It’s just that Baron is coming clean which is di naman pala totoo
ReplyDeleteButi ka pa, smart! Haha. Super nagets mo. Actually yan yung summary at point ng buong pangyayari
DeleteYun nga. Sabay kuyugin ang victim. Eh ito na nga proof bakit ang hirap magsalita, Bakit takot mga victims. Ang daming ang lakas mag victim shaming.
DeleteThe thing ladies and gentlemen is that Baron lied that never siyang nanakit. That triggered this girl's sentiments which I find understandable naman. Kumbaga uminit lang ang dugo ni Ateng sa pasaring ni Kuya kaya siya naglahad ng side niya. I don't think dahil gusto niya itigil ang kasal or bitter siya or what. She just wants other people to know the truth by telling her story.
ReplyDeleteI see a lot of victim blaming here. Sa tingin ko karamihan sa inyo babae. Shame on you. Read what she said. I truly hope you do not experience that kind of abuse para hindi nyo malaman first hand kung gaano kabulok ang hustisya sa Pilipinas. Ang tatapang nyo to say why only now. Basahin maigi what she said. She is fed up with the lies. Women, please stop that culture of victim blaming. Kaya takot lumabas ang victims dahil sa inyo because you always rationalize it and somehow make it the victims fault. Shame!
ReplyDeleteAnd this is the reason why victims of abuse choose silence. Grabe yung comments questioning the timing and yung set up nila sa relationship na non existent pero living in. Una sa lahat, di madali magsalita dahil when that happens you are fearful of what the abuser can do to you at dahil mahal mo (I'm sure kahit pano she likes the guy) baka may takot din to lose the person if she speaks up. Sounds crazy!? Realtalk: that is the Psychology of the abused. Pangalawa, she admitted na she needs help. She probably know she has psych issues. Mababa ang capacity ng abused to choose wisely cause they feel powerless or helpless. They need help.
ReplyDeleteHopefully Baron truly changed cause bihira yung di umuulit na Abuser. Tapos ganyan pa na he couldn't take responsibility.
I was abused Kaya ako ganito magsalita. It took years to heal. When you're abused, di lang naman bruised katawan mo even your soul gets broken. If this is the girl's way of coping, I hope it helps that she spoke up.
Basa muna bago mangvictim shame. It doesn't matter kung gano katagal pa nangyari yan or yung timing pero yung fact na sinungaling parin sha hanggang ngayon ibig sabihin nun never shang nagbago. Panay ang post ng bible verses pero hindi makaako sa kasalanan na nagawa. Wala na rin dapat pakialam kung naging ano pa sila pero yung fact na isa sha sa nagtry na tumulong kay Baron dati tapos ginanyan sha hindi tama! Dapat kasuhan yan it's not too late. Yung mga naging biktima rin ni Harvey Weinstein taon ang binilang bago nagsilabasan kasi baka nakadepende rin yan if they're already ready mentally and emotionally. Sana maintindihan din yan ng mga taong nagbabasa dito sa blog na ito.
ReplyDeleteIf totoo ito, I hope Baron will owe up to his past mistakes at sana talagang nagbago na sya at this new controversy will not pull him down again.
ReplyDeleteAte girl sorry pero ikakasal na siya. Move on ka na lang.
ReplyDeleteWow! Victim blaming!
ReplyDeleteDidnt you get it?? Very clear po ang pagkakaexplain niya. ITS HOT SCALDING TEA! she revealed it because BARON CLAIMED NA HINDI SIYA NANANAKIT. Kung ako din si girl maiimbyerna ako! I support her!!
ReplyDeleteKasalanan mo rin yan girl kc alam
ReplyDeleteMo na ang karakas ni baron pero
Pinatulan mo pa rin!
Somehow true. I don't get why women are prone to this. Alam na nila na babaero or nambubugbog makikipagrelasyon pa rin. Masokista lang ang peg? Di ko rin alam. Pero one thing's for sure. Women cannot change men EXCEPT if the man truly loves a woman and he is willing to give up anything for her.
Deleteshe was trying to help him and get shamed
Delete10:05 Yah, walang kasalanan si Baron, right? Dapat iwasan na lang siya kahit friend mo naman kasi once na bugbugin ka niya, kasalanan mo, right?
DeleteBring your cases to the proper venue. Social media is never the proper venue. You won’t gain justice nor vindication from social media. Take it to the courts.
ReplyDeleteDoon sa fiancée ni baron isip isip bago kayo ikasal pwede pa mag bago ang isip. Wag mo muna suitin ang helmet.
ReplyDeleteAndami talagang mahina ang comprehension noh? Why only now daw nagsabi. Eh kasi ngayon lang naman nagsabi si Baron on socmed na never siya nanakit ng babae. On soc med. Natrigger lang si ex sa sinabi ni baron kaya nagsalita siya.
ReplyDeleteOr nagseselos?
DeleteSrsly 10:45? Kaya may nga katulad ni Baron e kase may mga katulad mong magtatakip pa sa gawain niya lol. Victime blaming pa more
DeleteDi ko kinakaya ang ibang comments. Victim blaming? siya na biktima, kasalanan niya pa?! Kaya maraming naaabuso na di na lang nagsasalita, natatakot na sila pa ang masisi. So sad :(
ReplyDeleteTingin kayo sa paligid niyo (wag naman sana) baka may kasama o kakilala kayo na nabiktima na pala, di lang makakibo kase takot na masisi niyo.
Paano mo namam nasigurong biktima nga sya? Nakita momg binugbog sya?
Delete10:43 And why would she screw herself?? Baron can always file libel kung hindi totoo! Dyosko! Common sense! Sana hindi niyo yan maranasan!
Delete10:43 ikaw andun ka ba and nakita mo na hindi binugbog? Lol dami mong alam mukhang nawitness mo lahat e
DeleteSana lang kase inuna nya mag-file ng case kesa mag-socmed, anyway mukang may pruweba nman sya based sa pictures nya. Okay lng nman ilabas sa social media yun ganyan, pero unahin munang mag-file ng kaso para maturuan din ng leksyon yun mga nananakit. Physical abuse should be taken seriously at hindi lang dpat sa socmed nilaladlad.
ReplyDeleteexactly. Why come out on social media first. If she got pissed because Baron lied about not hurting anyone. She should have filed the case agad. Now she's made herself a target and had to prove herself pa instead of getting support. :(
DeleteCelebrities or athletes here in the US get cancelled if there is even the slightest proof of violence against women.
ReplyDeleteSocial media/media ang best way para makuha mo ang simpatya ng mga tao..pero may other way naman ate para malaman mo ang tunay n sagot..kaso kung ang purpose mo ay contradict sa claim n sinasabi ni badboy yun nga ba ang REAL purpose mo?
ReplyDeleteSabi ng girl di sya nagreport noon to give Baron a chance. Then why ruin him now when his career is picking up and he is planning to settle down?
ReplyDeletekse nafedup siya ng sabihin ni baron over social media na di dw sya ever nananakit ng babae. sinungaling kse si baron kaya natrigger si ate
Deletekaya malakas ang loob ng mga abusado maraming nagtatangol
ReplyDeleteSa totoo lng setting aside our common hatred towards Baron's bad behavior in the past, sobrang perfect timing nga. Baron is about to turn his life around and marry the woman that he loves. Tapos magpapapansin si girl ng ganyan. Kung talagang sinaktan ka, bakit naghintay ka pa ng sobrang tagal? Delayed reaction lang? Ako nga sinampal ako ng ex ko (guy yun, babae ako), ipina sa Diyos ko na lang. Dahil hinayaan ko na lang, pinatawad ko ang ex ko, nagkaroon tuloy ako ng blessings. At nagkaroon ako ng boyfriend na proud sa akin at love na love ako. Wala ako siniraan kya ako nagkaroon ng blessings. Besides kung totoo man, edi sna kinasuhan mo ang artistang yan. Hindi yung gagawin mong court ang social media.
ReplyDeleteHalatang di mo naintindihan yung post. Victim blaming at its finest! O ayan may siniraan ka na
DeleteComparing getting slapped to being beaten up? Uhmmmm two very different situations
DeleteNatrigger lang kasi xa dun sa sinabi ni Baron na never daw sya nanakit ng babae..
DeleteEto na naman ang feeling matalino na si 3:14 am. Di porque hindi nag agree eh hindi na naintindihan. Read between the lines, teh! Perfect timing! Yun yun!
Deleteang daming magagaling talaga sa socmed kung may kasalanan man si baron yah why now but nung nagpopost si baron ng nasa rehab di sya nag- i second that motion sya or sana kahit noon pa ngayon hati na desisyon at sasabihin ng iba nagpapapansin si ateng or victim blaming. Kung naka kaso na to eh di eh i-follow up ni ate girl kesa sa socmed at naghahanap ng trial by publicity. Cguro nga magmove na lang kesa sisiraan mo and then may mangyayare pa ba if ever kakasohan mo sa tagal na nung nangyare.
ReplyDeleteKasama ka sa magaling ayy nagmamagaling pla.
DeleteAng sabihin mo galit ka lang kay Baron kaya hindi ka willing pakinggan ang both sides of the story. @9:19am O edi siya na. Siya na laging masama. LOL. We're trying to be objective here. Hindi victim blaming yun.
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