3:06 Kaya naman pala nag-react din si Kier, who's usually quiet naman. I feel like there are some things din that Dani doesn't know, like her dad doesn't know a lot about her din. Maybe in years to come they can still have a relationship, in their own time.
Agree! Sana khit hndi naging okey ang relationship, sana inayos nila, para walang ganyan pag laki.. kasi sinasabi ni kier nakikipaghabulan sya kay marjorie eh, so ano kaya ang totoo?
Example is gabby and Sharon. Never niya siniraan si gabby Kay KC. At hind pinag bawalan. Maybe years years ago may pagkakamali din si kier Kay dani yung when dani needed him waley na. Kaya hinde mo rin masisi si dani... NASA Tao naman yan if gusto niya nag reach out kahit sinaktan ka... Kung ayaw edi wag pag gusto edi mas OK. Hirap din pag may resentment k sa isang Tao
That’s for you pero may iba iba din kasi tayo ng definition of right, manners and morals. Dani even agreed with his words kasi sounds like his support to her also.
Exactly. He should be the bridge that will help them communicate hindi ung makikisawsaw sya. Oo asawa magiging asawa nya si Dani pero nakaka off lang pag mema ang guys 😒
3:26 he can support her without feeding the fire. I sense immaturity in the guy. I agree with some of the comments here. Yung comment niya sana, more on encouragement that relationships can still be mended.
agree! it's great to be supportive and to have a supportive partner but there are certain issues, situations or events in life where a partner should just provide balance/support rather than add fuel to the fire. maybe one day your other half will even thank you for "bridging" the gap when all wounds have had time to heal.
I beg to disagree. The guy was echoing Dani’s decision not because he’s madaldal or pakialamero but because he trusts Dani. The bridge should not be on his shoulders. The bridge should be extended by the Dad or Dani herself. Ang role ng husband is to support the wife. Bakit niya pipilitin sa Dani kung ayaw? This was not a decision made overnight by the daughter. This was a long process. To even get to the point na she can talk about her parent with objectivity is a long and painful road but she got to this point thru the help of her mom, siblings, friends, and boyfriend. So do not discount that as being madaldal or mema lang yung guy. Absentee father si Kier. Yan ang consequence. So wag ninyo iabswelto dahil lang “tatay pa rin niya yon” or “mas matanda sa kanya”. Dahil mismo sya ang tatay at sya ang mas matanda, sya dapat ang nag-effort to be present sa buhay ng mga batang iyan.
I agree with you @626. I have a step daughter whom i love so much! Never nageffort ung tatay nito na mangamusta man lang what more magbigay pa ng support. Since she was a baby until now wala. So hindi natin masisisi kung ganyan ang salita ni Dani. And for her bf naiintindihan ko kc wala ako iba susuportahan kundi ung asawa ko. Kung anu desisyon nya dun ako. Mas mema sya kung ipipilit nya ung ayaw. Alangan naman nagsasalita si Dani sasabihin nyang "hindi, mali ka dun. Dapat makipagayos ka sa tatay mo". Mas epal sya pag ganun narinig natin dba? Haha
mabigat parin yun baggage na dinadala ni dani. for father and mother. yun can see when through her actions pag ayaw pagusapan di sya natingin sa camera.
When your father takes nothing to do with you, mahirap yun. Even if her mom raised her well, dala dala nya hanggang pagtanda nya na hindi nag effort yung tatay nya na kilalanin sya.
sana you didn’t react na lang. Pati si fiancee nakisali pa. i know there was hurt but better to keep quiet na lang. I didn’t finish the video. Nahiya ako for her. Ithink the Dad was just reaching out. sorry but it would have been better if you were reconciliatory afterall you will start a new life.
ayan na naman tayo eh. kanya-kanya nga daw tayo ng karanasan at opinion. kung yan eh sa tingin mo tama, iba naman ang tingin ni Dani. hayaan mo nalang sya sa mga sinabi nya. huwag kanalang mag-comment kung hindi ka agree kasi at the end of the day, buhay ni Dani yan so sya ang masusunod.
3:05 I also found that a bit off. Of course he can just be also defending Dani and reflecting her feelings NOW but what happens if in the future Dani and her father reconciles? Mag ama yan. He’ll also change his tune?
I can totally relate to Dani. My dad was never around for 38 years of my life. Now that he is back in my life I regret it so much for many reasons that are too long to list here. I totally get where Dani is coming from though and I hope people are not quick to judge her.
2:08 My dad is just not a nice person and still does not make much of an effort with me. However, he takes money and balikbayan boxes that my mom sends him. (We are in the U S, He is in PI. ) So my regret is that he came back into my life. Instead of making me feel "whole", I feel even more broken because he doesn't really love me. He loves the money and the material things we can give. I hope the father of your child will eventually show that he loves him/her. That is all anyone really wants.
Also 2:08 just like Dani, my mom's love was more than enough and I never felt empty when my father wasn't in my life. I am sure your child will feel the same about you. ❤️
Dani Barretto, no matter your differences w/ your father, pls don't put him in a bad light in the eyes of other prople. Ang hilig mo mang down ng kadugo mo katulad ng ginawa mo sa tita mo!
Sya ang nakakaalam ng totoo. Porket nagpost si Kier sya na ang tama. Usually ang lalaki magttry yan lang ng ilang beses tas susuko na. Feeling ko ganun nangyari tapos nagsalita sa vlog si Dani kaya napa explain tuloy si Kier. Madalas ang lalaki pag may new family na nakakalimutan na anak from previous marriage.
Not true about men. Ang mga lalaki di yan susuko kung talagang gusto nila ang isang bagay, the mere fact na sumuko agad as you say eh ibig sabihin di nya talaga gusto makasama si Dani
Her fiance meddling makes me think that he didn't help Dani patch things up with her dad. I don't know their story but if it were me, I'd like it if my other half encourage me to have good relationships with my parents. And him commenting in a public post which puts Kier in a bad light 😫
My husband had an absentee father too and ang laki ng sama ng loob nya, nilang magkakapatid sa kanya. But I encouraged him to forgive his father and support him whenever he needs financial help.
Yung iba bago mag comment meron talagang parent na hindi mag effort maging close sa anak tapos idadaan sa ako magulang mo respetuhin mo ako. Hindi po ganun kadali yun. Mas may respeto pa ako kay Mamang sorbetero na hindi iniwan ang 10 anak at araw araw naglalako ng sorbetes
ang ganda ni Dani, lumalabas yong pagka-Marjorie nya pag nagsasalita. hindi sya maganda sa pictures pero kung sa video lumalabas yong ganda nya. may mga tao lang talagang hindi photogenic :)
She kept on saying that her mom raise her well, the thing is if her mom raised her well she could have taught her that no matter how bad your father is or absent man cya sa life mo while growing up give him the love and respect which I don’t see in her. Parang nagtanim cya ng galit and someone supported that galit while she was growing up.Now , dun naman sa guy that’s family matters kahit fiancèe pa cya dapat alam nya limitations nya
sawsawera naman si mister driver...ikaw dani wag masyadong mataras sa ama. tatay mo pa din sya.. sana sinabi mo na lang na u respect him kahit na ur not in gd terms right now and ur hoping na maayos yan. para kasing nagmmaganda kapa.. oo na nagkulang tatay mo syo pero mali ang approach mo na hanash..
There are two sides of the story. According to Dani, di umeffort si Keir for her. Sabi naman ni Keir, bata palang si Dani hinahabol habol na siya ni Keir. So, anong masasabi mo dito marj? Lol
I think hindi naman sya sa may hero and villain. Every child deserves to know the truth kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng magulang nya. At hindi na rin bata si dani. Acceptable if ganun nararamdaman nya lalo kung walang effort ang ama. Laging hinahabol ba ni kier? E bat di nakarating? Kung gusto mo talaga, maaabot mo sya. Ikaw ang ama. Ikaw ang magsimula. Hugot to kasi ganyan din sinabi ng ama ko sakin nung gusto ko syang makilala na ako pa ang nag effort. Pero at some point, if youre not really meant to be with each other, hindi mangyayari. At kelangan irespect ng ibang tao yun.
Bastos na bata. We have been through some sort of pain pero how you deal with it would eventually reveal how you are as a person. Would you remain respectable or bastos? In this case, bastos. You should have taken the higher road lalo na you are claiming to be an influencer. Discuss it with your dad lalo na kung mature ka naman. Tapos ang pangit pa na pati fiance mo eh kumo comment pa. Bastos din e. At the end of the day, tatay mo pa rin yun.
Agreed. I cringe every time she keeps saying she was raised well because it’s showing she was not with every words she speak. She has so much bitterness while she spoke that it’s ironic of her to say she’s ok not having the other parent and she never felt lacking. Dani honey, a person who grew up with so much love does not talk like that. Your mouth will always speak whatever your heart is full of.
So yung pagkabastos ni Dani napansin mo pero yung pagkapabaya ng tatay niya napalampas mo dahil lang “tatay” pa rin niya yon? Wala namang nag-aalis sa fact na tatay niyo yon. Pero fact din na absentee father siya. Pabaya, in other words. Deadbeat sa ibang lengwahe. At baka kaya bastos sa paningin mo ang anak ay dahil pabaya ang ama diba? Kasi ang respeto, ine-earn yan. Hindi libre yan. Mabuti nga’t ang sabi pa ng bata eh mas ok na di sila naguusap at least di sila nagkakasakitan. Kung masama at bastos na bata talaga yan, baka hanggang ngayon namumura pa nya yung pabaya nyang ama.
shout out to her mom all of it daw. hmmmm... i know you can't force relationships and everyone knows that. you dont have to like your dad since it's obvious basing on what you said he had a lot of shortcomings. but you are not alive if your dad didn't contribute to making you. at the end of the day, you still owe your dad your life. whether he's bad or good, acknowledge him somehow. Look at KC concepcion, we all know Gabby wasn't around her growing up, but at least she respects her dad and doesn't say anothing bad about him including his shortcomings. To each its own I guess.
With regards with KC never siniraan ni Sharon si KC sa dad niya. Before pa naman nung nag 18 si KC pumayag si Sharon. An maganda Kay KC siya nag reach out... kahit Alam niya sinaktan gab mother niya. She let go her anger and she looks at the brighter side. Mabait si KC. Kay Dani naman I understand her and hinde mo siya masisi. Iba Iba Lang Talaga personality natin
Sa mga hiwalay na magulang, un naiiwan sa mga anak, pag laging may sinasabing di magnda dun sa parent na wala, iba tlga ang dating sa mga anak. Kahit anong effort pa ang gawin nung magulang na wala, mahihirapan syang lumapit kung nabuo na sa isip ng anak lahat ng sinabing di maganda nung magulang na nag-alaga sa kanya. Pati tuloy mga anak minamana un galit imbes na dapat sa mga parents lang yon.
I agree with you. Pag laging nkkarinig ng unpleasant things ang kids from the other parent, that will be their lasting impression sa isang parent who are not with them.
Let others say that your Mom did a great job raising you. Hindi yung naggaling sayo na ‘My mom raise me well’ kaya pala may hatred heart mo towards your dad. At wala kang utang na loob sa Aunt mo
Same sitch kami ni Dani, never siniraan ng nanay ko ang biological father ko sakin but reality is, as you grow up, nagkaka-malay ka na about things and you learn how to get hurt nadin for things na gaya nito. We cant blame Dani if she felt that she was neglected, sa kanya na galing, yung tatay nya naman hindi OFW but if there was no effort to reach out to her or be like a father to her, masakit talaga yon. Ako nga, yung tatay ko was based abroad, tuwing umuuwi sha dito sa pinas (which is super rare) saka lang sha umaaktong tatay sakin, when hes back in the states, kahit ichat mo sa facebook, sobrang lamig sumagot, all that despite all my efforts of trying to be a daughter who checks up on him all the time. Dadating talaga yung time na youd feel like how you want to love them is not reciprocated, yun yung masakit na part and yun yung mej damaging talaga. Dahil sa ganung treatment sakin ng tatay ko, I had trust issues with people, nagkaron ako ng feeling na why am I easy to abandon. Hindi sha madali, kaya for those na hindi napagdaanan yung sitwasyon, its easy to say na “tatay mo padin yan” or “kasalanan ni marjorie bakit malayo loob sa tatay”, once you are in this kind of situation, the older you get, the more you get a grasp of the pain of being abandoned, sobrang hypocritical if sasabihin natin na por que tatay e dapat always forgiving tayo, its not that easy. Tatay ko din sobrang flowery magpost sa facebook pero in reality, walang amor sa mga anak talaga. So what we see in public (like kier’s greeting) is just a tip of the iceberg, how he is as a father is far more than what we see in social media or in public. We have to respect that, and we have to respect Dani’s pain, too.
I agree. Hindi siniraan ng mom kung ang father ko but I hold a lot of resentment towards him. H-school kung first naramdaman I needed a father pero waley eh. Di talaga nagparamdam. Gaya ni Danny di rin siya OFW, dito lang siya, wala lang talagang paki.
Yun na nga para palabasin na hero sya pero kelangan ba takaga ng mga bata ng hero at villain para sa paglaki nila? Ewan ha pero naging maganda career ni Julia nung nayos nya relasyon nya sa ama. Ibig sabihin lang sumunod sa sampung utos and u can never go wrong.
Namatay na yun parents ko na parang wala lang. Nakaka relate ako kay Dani. Iniwan ako ng mga magulang ko to be raised by other relatives. Wala sila both effort to contribute to my education or get to know me. Di ko nga Alam feeling ng may nanay O tatay. Pinapa labas nila sa mga kaibigan nila na they cared about me etc etc pero di naman yun ang totoo. Puro press releases lang. Minsan kinukuha nila ako pero parang di ko feel na welcome ako. Parang pa bigat pa pag wala na mga tao.
I’ll take KC as an example,Gabby left them and he never made an effort for like 20+ years but Sharon obviously never badmouthed him to KC and when they reunited, KC never held a grudge on her dad in the first place. It takes two to tango but if a parent will never be a villain to the other one and also to the upbringing then I guess everything will fall into place. But I understand that Dani’s coping it on her own way because she has the right as well.
Mabait si KC kasi... hinde siya nag tatanim ng Sama ng loob. Malambot puso niya . Si dani mabait naman and sweet Iba Lang Talaga tingin niya sa dad niya na mahirap ma forgive. Yun na yun. Hinde natin siya masisi nasaktan siya... siguro one day ma forgive niya hinde pa ngayon but soon. Time heals ika nga.
1:50 ang hindi mo na factor is in the end si Gabby also made an effort, kung isa lang ang eeffort wala kang mapapala. That's what probably happened to Dani, effort siya ng effort but at some point you just have to accept na most likely hindi interested yung Dad niya to have an actual relationship. Ganyan ang life diba? No point dwelling over it.
At the end of the day he’s still her dad, and without his efforts (iykwim lol) she wouldn’t be here on Earth. Whether he’s good or bad, you still owe your life to him. At least you weren’t unaborted. So be grateful.
bakit ba laging, you still owe your life to him or her or sa parents. di ba ang mga anak hindi naman ginusto na isilang sa mundo? hindi na-feel ni Dani ang effort ng ama nya to reach out to her kaya nya nasabi ang mga sinabi nya. bakit parang biniblame nyo si Dani? di ba responsibilidad din naman ng parents to take care of their children? now kung hindi yon naibigay or naramdaman ng anak yong presensya ng magulang nya pwede din naman siguro silang i-blame. swerte yong mga anak na hindi nakaramdam ng pagmamahal at pag-aaruga ng magulang pero mapagpatawad parin pero sana yong mga anak na nasaktan na gaya ni Dani huwag nyo naman syang sisihin kasi kahit kayo hindi nyo alam gaano kalalim yong sugat na naramdaman nila sa pagiging absentee ng father nya.
Opinion ko lang.Ang dapat dyan nag reach out yung tatay sa anak nya.Kasi hindi naman pwede na you just abandon your children then you expect them to love you in return.
Dani supporter here. Leave the girl alone! Bakit si Marj ang sinisisi nyo? Kayo na nagsabing adult na si Dani kaya as an adult, naranasan nya 1st hand ang pagiging absentee father ni Kier.
Tama. Respetuhin na lang kung ano ang pakiramdam ni Dani. Although sana she kept quiet na lang. Pero it's unfair for people to tell her what to feel. Alam ko kasi ang feeling ng may hinanakit sa parent/parents. Nakakairita yung magsasabi ng "magulang mo pa rin yan".
Reading thru this thread made me realize why there are so much depressed people nowadays — kasi pag nag open up ka sa mga bubog mo sa buhay, more often than not, icocompare ka sa iba, or ijjudge ka.
Stop comparing her issue with Kier kesa sa issue ng ibang celebs or known personalities na naghiwalay din. It doesnt mean parehas na naghiwalay e parehas nadin ng naging treatment sa anak after, heck you guys dont even know how things turned out over the years para sabihin na kasalanan ng nanay or salbaheng anak si Dani.
Ito problema sa ibang pinoy eh, masyadong righteous pag usapang pamilya, kahit basag basag ka na dahil sa mga ganap sa pamilya, pipilitin ka padin to swallow everything just because family eh, cant do anything about it but to accept. Talaga ba?
Bakit parang kasalanan pa ni kier na di siya nagreach out. Have you forgetten na Dani was with his dad during those times na hindi sila okay ng mom niya.
I find her too full of herself. I have a dead-beat dad but I don't go around telling people about it. What's the point? All Dani did here was try to make herself look perfect. TRIED.
Haha. She is 25 what to do expect. 5 years or 30 years from now you will regret your decision. Moreso that you told everyone your dirty laundry lalo na how foolish you are towards your biological dad. Sumasama pa yang fiance mo that should've paved a better bridge for you and ur dad. One word lang yan in a few years REGRET
dapat si jowa hinde na nakisawsaw. Lols sana hinde na Lang siya nag salita about her dad . Sana sinabi niya this is a private matter etc etc... hinde naman lalaabs ang issue nanifo if hinde siya nag kwento. The way she made kwento its full of hatred na walang forgiveness
Sana gayahin nya c Manny Pacquiao. Sobrang ganda ng sinabi ni Manny s tatay nya na khit pinabayaan cla, hindi xa ng tampo at ngalit s tatay kasi yung pngyayaring yon ang ngturo s kanya ng grit. Hindi perfect mga magulang ntin pero at the end of the day, magulang mo pa rin cla.
I was only raised by my mother. I’ve only seen/meet my father once. But I never felt the need to hate him. I’ve made it a point since I was in first grade that if my father would have wanted a relationship with me, he should reach out. After all, what can a 7 year old kid can do? There we’re times when I’m jealous with my cousins and friends who has a complete family, but at the end of the day, I have accepted that a mom/dad thing was not meant for me. I have prayed so many times to see my father somewhere along the way, but it was never answered. Did I love my father? I don’t know. Did I hate him? No.
ganyan din kami ng dad ko hanggang sa ako na lang yun napagod. nakakapagod un mental stress at emotional fatigue na maghabol ng attention and love. i prayed all the time na umokay pero he doesnt seem to care about me, my hubby and especially his own apo so to save me from distress i stayed away and masaya naman buhay kesa sa ipilit mo sarili mo sa mga taong ayaw ka maging parte ng buhay nila :) So let's not judge dani, hindi ntin alam story nila ng dad nya.
My husband just got reunited with his father after 25 long years. He left them when he was 8. I am so amazed that my husband forgive and forgets any issues they had. Personally, I don't know if I can do that. Its just rare to see someone that can be so forgiving that it makes you want to reflect and question yourself and to become a better person.
Kier should really had alot to do with this.Malaki ang kulang nya sa anak niya.Bilang magulang, you don't just abandon your kids and after a few years kala mo parehas pa rin ang respeto sa iyo.You don't do that.You reap what you sow.
I don’t know what happened to you personally but i think di na siya dapat pinapublic because either ways pwede siya mag backlash to you and your dad. You shouldnt expect na lahat kakampi sayo
Ayan nagexplain tuloy! Kumbakit kasi pinublic pa yung greeting!
ReplyDeleteActually nauna Ang vlog kesa s post no kier
Delete3:06 Kaya naman pala nag-react din si Kier, who's usually quiet naman. I feel like there are some things din that Dani doesn't know, like her dad doesn't know a lot about her din. Maybe in years to come they can still have a relationship, in their own time.
DeleteThe barrettos are known to wash their dirty linen in public!
DeleteTrue 4:24.
DeleteAy true 4:24... di ba pwedeng private ba lang ito? Or all for the love of the vlog ito? #parasakabuhayan
Deletei hate when parent sinisiraan yun other half. nag kakaroon ng hero at villain sa mata nga bata 🙄
ReplyDeleteYou may be right pero may possibility na na-experience din ni Dani at first hand.
DeleteAgree! Sana khit hndi naging okey ang relationship, sana inayos nila, para walang ganyan pag laki.. kasi sinasabi ni kier nakikipaghabulan sya kay marjorie eh, so ano kaya ang totoo?
DeleteExample is gabby and Sharon. Never niya siniraan si gabby Kay KC. At hind pinag bawalan. Maybe years years ago may pagkakamali din si kier Kay dani yung when dani needed him waley na. Kaya hinde mo rin masisi si dani... NASA Tao naman yan if gusto niya nag reach out kahit sinaktan ka... Kung ayaw edi wag pag gusto edi mas OK.
DeleteHirap din pag may resentment k sa isang Tao
Kung gusto nya talagang habulin si dani, dapat nahabol nya. nakulangan siguro sa effort
DeleteAkala ko ok si Dani and Legaspi side.
Deletei hate na nag vo voice out yun lalaki sa buhay ni dani. like he knew the whole story. kahit nasa relationship kayo may set of boundaries parin
ReplyDeleteThat’s for you pero may iba iba din kasi tayo ng definition of right, manners and morals. Dani even agreed with his words kasi sounds like his support to her also.
DeleteAgree anon 3:05
DeleteBecause he probably knew the whole story eh?
DeleteCompletely agree.
DeleteExactly. He should be the bridge that will help them communicate hindi ung makikisawsaw sya. Oo asawa magiging asawa nya si Dani pero nakaka off lang pag mema ang guys 😒
DeleteOf course he knows her story, magiging wife nya na so Im sure naikwento na lahat sa kanya. He is actually very protective of her which I like.
DeleteTrue! Mema yun guy! I think he never met Kier so he only know one side of the story
DeleteExactly!!
DeleteTrue bebyenanin nya pa din yun at mas matanda sa kanya. Show some respect. It goes againsts sa sinasabi nilang "wag mag judge kung wala sa position"
DeleteI agree 3:05. Hindi sya dapat sumasabat.
DeletePareho tayo, mejo na-epalan ako dun sa lalake, kala mo nman mula pagkabata andun sya sa buhay nila Dani, mejo presko ang dating.
Deleteagree 3:05, parang nagoverstep nga, imbes na supportive ang labas, parang madaldal tuloy ang dating
Delete3:26 he can support her without feeding the fire. I sense immaturity in the guy. I agree with some of the comments here. Yung comment niya sana, more on encouragement that relationships can still be mended.
Deleteagree! it's great to be supportive and to have a supportive partner but there are certain issues, situations or events in life where a partner should just provide balance/support rather than add fuel to the fire. maybe one day your other half will even thank you for "bridging" the gap when all wounds have had time to heal.
DeleteI beg to disagree. The guy was echoing Dani’s decision not because he’s madaldal or pakialamero but because he trusts Dani. The bridge should not be on his shoulders. The bridge should be extended by the Dad or Dani herself. Ang role ng husband is to support the wife. Bakit niya pipilitin sa Dani kung ayaw? This was not a decision made overnight by the daughter. This was a long process. To even get to the point na she can talk about her parent with objectivity is a long and painful road but she got to this point thru the help of her mom, siblings, friends, and boyfriend. So do not discount that as being madaldal or mema lang yung guy. Absentee father si Kier. Yan ang consequence. So wag ninyo iabswelto dahil lang “tatay pa rin niya yon” or “mas matanda sa kanya”. Dahil mismo sya ang tatay at sya ang mas matanda, sya dapat ang nag-effort to be present sa buhay ng mga batang iyan.
DeleteI agree with you @626. I have a step daughter whom i love so much! Never nageffort ung tatay nito na mangamusta man lang what more magbigay pa ng support. Since she was a baby until now wala. So hindi natin masisisi kung ganyan ang salita ni Dani. And for her bf naiintindihan ko kc wala ako iba susuportahan kundi ung asawa ko. Kung anu desisyon nya dun ako. Mas mema sya kung ipipilit nya ung ayaw. Alangan naman nagsasalita si Dani sasabihin nyang "hindi, mali ka dun. Dapat makipagayos ka sa tatay mo". Mas epal sya pag ganun narinig natin dba? Haha
Delete@4:56 tama. It reminds me of how robin padilla help mariel and her mom rebuild their relationship. Ganon dapat.
Deletemabigat parin yun baggage na dinadala ni dani. for father and mother. yun can see when through her actions pag ayaw pagusapan di sya natingin sa camera.
ReplyDeleteWhen your father takes nothing to do with you, mahirap yun. Even if her mom raised her well, dala dala nya hanggang pagtanda nya na hindi nag effort yung tatay nya na kilalanin sya.
DeletePano kasi wagayway forever sya ng buhok nya. Kakairita.
Deletenatawa ako sa pa buhok hahaha 1:17 oo nga.
Deletesana you didn’t react na lang. Pati si fiancee nakisali pa. i know there was hurt but better to keep quiet na lang. I didn’t finish the video. Nahiya ako for her. Ithink the Dad was just reaching out. sorry but it would have been better if you were reconciliatory afterall you will start a new life.
ReplyDeleteayan na naman tayo eh. kanya-kanya nga daw tayo ng karanasan at opinion. kung yan eh sa tingin mo tama, iba naman ang tingin ni Dani. hayaan mo nalang sya sa mga sinabi nya. huwag kanalang mag-comment kung hindi ka agree kasi at the end of the day, buhay ni Dani yan so sya ang masusunod.
DeleteI get what she says about an absentee dad but being ok about it in that you got the love naman so keri lang...
ReplyDeleteGrabe nmn ung lalaki respeto din sa ama nya kahit ikakasal na kau dpt wag mo ng dagdagan pa kahit alam mo ung buong istorya, tahimik lng boy!
ReplyDeleteang lungkot naman. why is the fiance talking so much? kairita.
ReplyDeleteI find her fiance' soo annoying with all his side comments🙄
ReplyDeleteDani is so honest and its not her fault. She deserves to be happy.
ReplyDelete3:05 I also found that a bit off. Of course he can just be also defending Dani and reflecting her feelings NOW but what happens if in the future Dani and her father reconciles? Mag ama yan. He’ll also change his tune?
ReplyDeleteI can totally relate to Dani. My dad was never around for 38 years of my life. Now that he is back in my life I regret it so much for many reasons that are too long to list here. I totally get where Dani is coming from though and I hope people are not quick to judge her.
ReplyDelete4:17 AM what did you regret? ung matagal kayong ndi nagkasama or the fact na bumalik xa sa life mo?
Delete--curious single mom
2:08 My dad is just not a nice person and still does not make much of an effort with me. However, he takes money and balikbayan boxes that my mom sends him. (We are in the U S, He is in PI. ) So my regret is that he came back into my life. Instead of making me feel "whole", I feel even more broken because he doesn't really love me. He loves the money and the material things we can give. I hope the father of your child will eventually show that he loves him/her. That is all anyone really wants.
DeleteAlso 2:08 just like Dani, my mom's love was more than enough and I never felt empty when my father wasn't in my life. I am sure your child will feel the same about you. ❤️
DeleteThanks for responding. I cried a little. My biggest fear is one day she will look for her Dad and the “dad” wont show any affection.
DeleteDani Barretto, no matter your differences w/ your father, pls don't put him in a bad light in the eyes of other prople. Ang hilig mo mang down ng kadugo mo katulad ng ginawa mo sa tita mo!
ReplyDeleteTrue. Very evident she has not matured yet.
DeleteArtista kasi si tatay. Sayang ang Free publicity. Puede naman mag greet privately.
ReplyDeleteMay common denominator sila ni Julia. This is so sad. Dani I like you but you could have kept this private
ReplyDeleteSya ang nakakaalam ng totoo. Porket nagpost si Kier sya na ang tama. Usually ang lalaki magttry yan lang ng ilang beses tas susuko na. Feeling ko ganun nangyari tapos nagsalita sa vlog si Dani kaya napa explain tuloy si Kier. Madalas ang lalaki pag may new family na nakakalimutan na anak from previous marriage.
ReplyDeleteNot true about men. Ang mga lalaki di yan susuko kung talagang gusto nila ang isang bagay, the mere fact na sumuko agad as you say eh ibig sabihin di nya talaga gusto makasama si Dani
DeleteKasali ba talaga yung jowa nya sa vlog na to?
ReplyDeleteI hate na ingles pa ng ingles pero nauubusan naman ng baon
ReplyDeleteAgree. Di pa tama. Grammar!
DeletePa sosy kasi masyado kahit di naman.
Deleteang laki naman ng problema ninyo. at least nag try yong tao. naapektohan ba buhay nyo dahil sa pang iingles si Dani? ahahahahaha
DeleteHer fiance meddling makes me think that he didn't help Dani patch things up with her dad. I don't know their story but if it were me, I'd like it if my other half encourage me to have good relationships with my parents. And him commenting in a public post which puts Kier in a bad light 😫
ReplyDeleteMy husband had an absentee father too and ang laki ng sama ng loob nya, nilang magkakapatid sa kanya. But I encouraged him to forgive his father and support him whenever he needs financial help.
DeleteGanun din ang hubby ko. I'm estranged from my mom pero ang hubby ko, he tries to seek ways to bridge the gap and I do appreciate his efforts.
DeleteYung mga anak ni Marjorie, walang solid relationship sa kanilang mga ama.
ReplyDeleteLahat sila may resentment. Galit!
DeleteYung iba bago mag comment meron talagang parent na hindi mag effort maging close sa anak tapos idadaan sa ako magulang mo respetuhin mo ako. Hindi po ganun kadali yun. Mas may respeto pa ako kay Mamang sorbetero na hindi iniwan ang 10 anak at araw araw naglalako ng sorbetes
ReplyDeleteang ganda ni Dani, lumalabas yong pagka-Marjorie nya pag nagsasalita. hindi sya maganda sa pictures pero kung sa video lumalabas yong ganda nya. may mga tao lang talagang hindi photogenic :)
ReplyDeleteMagdrive ka na lang, wag ka na sumawsaw sa pagsasalita ni Dani. Kainis.
ReplyDeleteSabi ni Dani wala daw syang pakialam sa mga bashers eh bakit pa sya nagpapaliwanag?
DeleteI can relate, Dani. Gets na gets kita.
ReplyDeleteShe kept on saying that her mom raise her well, the thing is if her mom raised her well she could have taught her that no matter how bad your father is or absent man cya sa life mo while growing up give him the love and respect which I don’t see in her. Parang nagtanim cya ng galit and someone supported that galit while she was growing up.Now , dun naman sa guy that’s family matters kahit fiancèe pa cya dapat alam nya limitations nya
ReplyDeleteAgreed. The lengthy explanation negates that very statement.
DeleteTama! Sabat ng sabat nakakainis!
DeleteAgree, baks!
DeleteGusto ko yung sinabi ng boyfriend nya. Something like, it takes 2 people to make a relationship work, not just one.
ReplyDeletesawsawera naman si mister driver...ikaw dani wag masyadong mataras sa ama. tatay mo pa din sya.. sana sinabi mo na lang na u respect him kahit na ur not in gd terms right now and ur hoping na maayos yan. para kasing nagmmaganda kapa.. oo na nagkulang tatay mo syo pero mali ang approach mo na hanash..
ReplyDeleteThere are two sides of the story. According to Dani, di umeffort si Keir for her. Sabi naman ni Keir, bata palang si Dani hinahabol habol na siya ni Keir. So, anong masasabi mo dito marj? Lol
ReplyDeleteI think hindi naman sya sa may hero and villain. Every child deserves to know the truth kung ano ang pinagdadaanan ng magulang nya. At hindi na rin bata si dani. Acceptable if ganun nararamdaman nya lalo kung walang effort ang ama. Laging hinahabol ba ni kier? E bat di nakarating? Kung gusto mo talaga, maaabot mo sya. Ikaw ang ama. Ikaw ang magsimula. Hugot to kasi ganyan din sinabi ng ama ko sakin nung gusto ko syang makilala na ako pa ang nag effort. Pero at some point, if youre not really meant to be with each other, hindi mangyayari. At kelangan irespect ng ibang tao yun.
ReplyDeleteParang lagi pinagdadamot ni marjorie mga anak nya sa mga tatay pag nag split up.
ReplyDeleteBastos na bata. We have been through some sort of pain pero how you deal with it would eventually reveal how you are as a person. Would you remain respectable or bastos? In this case, bastos. You should have taken the higher road lalo na you are claiming to be an influencer. Discuss it with your dad lalo na kung mature ka naman. Tapos ang pangit pa na pati fiance mo eh kumo comment pa. Bastos din e. At the end of the day, tatay mo pa rin yun.
ReplyDeleteMedyo nabastusan din ako sa pinagsasabi niya. And I hate the fact that she's a self-styled influencer. Of what?
DeleteAgreed. I cringe every time she keeps saying she was raised well because it’s showing she was not with every words she speak. She has so much bitterness while she spoke that it’s ironic of her to say she’s ok not having the other parent and she never felt lacking. Dani honey, a person who grew up with so much love does not talk like that. Your mouth will always speak whatever your heart is full of.
DeleteSo yung pagkabastos ni Dani napansin mo pero yung pagkapabaya ng tatay niya napalampas mo dahil lang “tatay” pa rin niya yon? Wala namang nag-aalis sa fact na tatay niyo yon. Pero fact din na absentee father siya. Pabaya, in other words. Deadbeat sa ibang lengwahe. At baka kaya bastos sa paningin mo ang anak ay dahil pabaya ang ama diba? Kasi ang respeto, ine-earn yan. Hindi libre yan. Mabuti nga’t ang sabi pa ng bata eh mas ok na di sila naguusap at least di sila nagkakasakitan. Kung masama at bastos na bata talaga yan, baka hanggang ngayon namumura pa nya yung pabaya nyang ama.
Deleteshout out to her mom all of it daw. hmmmm... i know you can't force relationships and everyone knows that. you dont have to like your dad since it's obvious basing on what you said he had a lot of shortcomings. but you are not alive if your dad didn't contribute to making you. at the end of the day, you still owe your dad your life. whether he's bad or good, acknowledge him somehow. Look at KC concepcion, we all know Gabby wasn't around her growing up, but at least she respects her dad and doesn't say anothing bad about him including his shortcomings. To each its own I guess.
ReplyDeleteWith regards with KC never siniraan ni Sharon si KC sa dad niya. Before pa naman nung nag 18 si KC pumayag si Sharon. An maganda Kay KC siya nag reach out... kahit Alam niya sinaktan gab mother niya. She let go her anger and she looks at the brighter side. Mabait si KC. Kay Dani naman I understand her and hinde mo siya masisi. Iba Iba Lang Talaga personality natin
DeleteSa mga hiwalay na magulang, un naiiwan sa mga anak, pag laging may sinasabing di magnda dun sa parent na wala, iba tlga ang dating sa mga anak. Kahit anong effort pa ang gawin nung magulang na wala, mahihirapan syang lumapit kung nabuo na sa isip ng anak lahat ng sinabing di maganda nung magulang na nag-alaga sa kanya. Pati tuloy mga anak minamana un galit imbes na dapat sa mga parents lang yon.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Pag laging nkkarinig ng unpleasant things ang kids from the other parent, that will be their lasting impression sa isang parent who are not with them.
DeleteLet others say that your Mom did a great job raising you. Hindi yung naggaling sayo na ‘My mom raise me well’ kaya pala may hatred heart mo towards your dad. At wala kang utang na loob sa Aunt mo
ReplyDelete12:05 Gaya nga ng sabi niya, wala ka doon when all this happened so wag kang mag assume na alam mo lahat.
DeleteSame sitch kami ni Dani, never siniraan ng nanay ko ang biological father ko sakin but reality is, as you grow up, nagkaka-malay ka na about things and you learn how to get hurt nadin for things na gaya nito. We cant blame Dani if she felt that she was neglected, sa kanya na galing, yung tatay nya naman hindi OFW but if there was no effort to reach out to her or be like a father to her, masakit talaga yon. Ako nga, yung tatay ko was based abroad, tuwing umuuwi sha dito sa pinas (which is super rare) saka lang sha umaaktong tatay sakin, when hes back in the states, kahit ichat mo sa facebook, sobrang lamig sumagot, all that despite all my efforts of trying to be a daughter who checks up on him all the time. Dadating talaga yung time na youd feel like how you want to love them is not reciprocated, yun yung masakit na part and yun yung mej damaging talaga. Dahil sa ganung treatment sakin ng tatay ko, I had trust issues with people, nagkaron ako ng feeling na why am I easy to abandon. Hindi sha madali, kaya for those na hindi napagdaanan yung sitwasyon, its easy to say na “tatay mo padin yan” or “kasalanan ni marjorie bakit malayo loob sa tatay”, once you are in this kind of situation, the older you get, the more you get a grasp of the pain of being abandoned, sobrang hypocritical if sasabihin natin na por que tatay e dapat always forgiving tayo, its not that easy. Tatay ko din sobrang flowery magpost sa facebook pero in reality, walang amor sa mga anak talaga. So what we see in public (like kier’s greeting) is just a tip of the iceberg, how he is as a father is far more than what we see in social media or in public. We have to respect that, and we have to respect Dani’s pain, too.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Hindi siniraan ng mom kung ang father ko but I hold a lot of resentment towards him. H-school kung first naramdaman I needed a father pero waley eh. Di talaga nagparamdam. Gaya ni Danny di rin siya OFW, dito lang siya, wala lang talagang paki.
Deleteboy, control lang sa pag cocomment tungkol sa family ni dani. wag maki alam sa family matters niya. respeto lang ampangit mo pakinggan
ReplyDeleteYun na nga para palabasin na hero sya pero kelangan ba takaga ng mga bata ng hero at villain para sa paglaki nila? Ewan ha pero naging maganda career ni Julia nung nayos nya relasyon nya sa ama. Ibig sabihin lang sumunod sa sampung utos and u can never go wrong.
ReplyDeleteNamatay na yun parents ko na parang wala lang. Nakaka relate ako kay Dani. Iniwan ako ng mga magulang ko to be raised by other relatives. Wala sila both effort to contribute to my education or get to know me. Di ko nga Alam feeling ng may nanay O tatay. Pinapa labas nila sa mga kaibigan nila na they cared about me etc etc pero di naman yun ang totoo. Puro press releases lang. Minsan kinukuha nila ako pero parang di ko feel na welcome ako. Parang pa bigat pa pag wala na mga tao.
ReplyDeleteI’ll take KC as an example,Gabby left them and he never made an effort for like 20+ years but Sharon obviously never badmouthed him to KC and when they reunited, KC never held a grudge on her dad in the first place. It takes two to tango but if a parent will never be a villain to the other one and also to the upbringing then I guess everything will fall into place. But I understand that Dani’s coping it on her own way because she has the right as well.
ReplyDeleteMabait si KC kasi... hinde siya nag tatanim ng Sama ng loob. Malambot puso niya . Si dani mabait naman and sweet Iba Lang Talaga tingin niya sa dad niya na mahirap ma forgive. Yun na yun. Hinde natin siya masisi nasaktan siya... siguro one day ma forgive niya hinde pa ngayon but soon. Time heals ika nga.
DeleteSharon is a Cuneta and she had a very good support system plus financially they never had an issue
DeleteMabuting tao si sharon dahil makikita mo na napalaki nya ng mahusay si KC. Mas bumilib ako kay Sharon bilang nanay after seeing this video.
Delete1:50 ang hindi mo na factor is in the end si Gabby also made an effort, kung isa lang ang eeffort wala kang mapapala. That's what probably happened to Dani, effort siya ng effort but at some point you just have to accept na most likely hindi interested yung Dad niya to have an actual relationship. Ganyan ang life diba? No point dwelling over it.
DeleteA perfect example of a daughter raised well by her mom is KC Concepcion
ReplyDeleteAgree pati mga kapatid nya kay gabby sya nag reach out talaga. Kaya hirap ako mainis kay kc kase mukha talagang mabait syang tao.
DeleteAgree ako dito. Parang humble lang. di uso negative and hatred.
DeleteMaturity kc umiral sa kanya. Kc is an example of a good daughter to her parents
Kc = CLASS thay goes with sharon as well
DeleteAt the end of the day he’s still her dad, and without his efforts (iykwim lol) she wouldn’t be here on Earth. Whether he’s good or bad, you still owe your life to him. At least you weren’t unaborted. So be grateful.
ReplyDeletebakit ba laging, you still owe your life to him or her or sa parents. di ba ang mga anak hindi naman ginusto na isilang sa mundo? hindi na-feel ni Dani ang effort ng ama nya to reach out to her kaya nya nasabi ang mga sinabi nya. bakit parang biniblame nyo si Dani? di ba responsibilidad din naman ng parents to take care of their children? now kung hindi yon naibigay or naramdaman ng anak yong presensya ng magulang nya pwede din naman siguro silang i-blame. swerte yong mga anak na hindi nakaramdam ng pagmamahal at pag-aaruga ng magulang pero mapagpatawad parin pero sana yong mga anak na nasaktan na gaya ni Dani huwag nyo naman syang sisihin kasi kahit kayo hindi nyo alam gaano kalalim yong sugat na naramdaman nila sa pagiging absentee ng father nya.
Deletemay hugot 6:14?
DeleteOpinion ko lang.Ang dapat dyan nag reach out yung tatay sa anak nya.Kasi hindi naman pwede na you just abandon your children then you expect them to love you in return.
DeleteDani supporter here.
ReplyDeleteLeave the girl alone!
Bakit si Marj ang sinisisi nyo?
Kayo na nagsabing adult na si Dani kaya as an adult, naranasan nya 1st hand ang pagiging absentee father ni Kier.
Tama. Respetuhin na lang kung ano ang pakiramdam ni Dani. Although sana she kept quiet na lang. Pero it's unfair for people to tell her what to feel. Alam ko kasi ang feeling ng may hinanakit sa parent/parents. Nakakairita yung magsasabi ng "magulang mo pa rin yan".
DeleteKier since sya yung matanda should have reached out to Dani.Siya ang mag establish ng relationship with his daughter
DeleteReading thru this thread made me realize why there are so much depressed people nowadays — kasi pag nag open up ka sa mga bubog mo sa buhay, more often than not, icocompare ka sa iba, or ijjudge ka.
ReplyDeleteStop comparing her issue with Kier kesa sa issue ng ibang celebs or known personalities na naghiwalay din. It doesnt mean parehas na naghiwalay e parehas nadin ng naging treatment sa anak after, heck you guys dont even know how things turned out over the years para sabihin na kasalanan ng nanay or salbaheng anak si Dani.
Ito problema sa ibang pinoy eh, masyadong righteous pag usapang pamilya, kahit basag basag ka na dahil sa mga ganap sa pamilya, pipilitin ka padin to swallow everything just because family eh, cant do anything about it but to accept. Talaga ba?
Bakit parang kasalanan pa ni kier na di siya nagreach out. Have you forgetten na Dani was with his dad during those times na hindi sila okay ng mom niya.
ReplyDeleteSana ng usap nlng ng personal kesa social media. Or quiet nlng.
ReplyDeleteNaawa tuloy ako kay Kier. Wala naman akong nakitang masama sa sinabi nya bakit ganyan ang pinag sasabi ni Dani?
ReplyDeleteI find her too full of herself. I have a dead-beat dad but I don't go around telling people about it. What's the point? All Dani did here was try to make herself look perfect. TRIED.
ReplyDeleteHaha. She is 25 what to do expect. 5 years or 30 years from now you will regret your decision. Moreso that you told everyone your dirty laundry lalo na how foolish you are towards your biological dad. Sumasama pa yang fiance mo that should've paved a better bridge for you and ur dad. One word lang yan in a few years REGRET
ReplyDeletedapat si jowa hinde na nakisawsaw. Lols sana hinde na Lang siya nag salita about her dad . Sana sinabi niya this is a private matter etc etc... hinde naman lalaabs ang issue nanifo if hinde siya nag kwento. The way she made kwento its full of hatred na walang forgiveness
ReplyDeleteTotoo dun ako medyo napahello eh!! Parang dude father in law mo yan. Since d mo dn sya kilala personally wag kuda
DeleteThe way she speaks against her biologic al father makes me go against her saying that her mom raised her well.
ReplyDeleteSana gayahin nya c Manny Pacquiao. Sobrang ganda ng sinabi ni Manny s tatay nya na khit pinabayaan cla, hindi xa ng tampo at ngalit s tatay kasi yung pngyayaring yon ang ngturo s kanya ng grit. Hindi perfect mga magulang ntin pero at the end of the day, magulang mo pa rin cla.
ReplyDeleteHindi pareparehas ang nangyari kay Manny at kay Dani
DeleteI was only raised by my mother. I’ve only seen/meet my father once. But I never felt the need to hate him. I’ve made it a point since I was in first grade that if my father would have wanted a relationship with me, he should reach out. After all, what can a 7 year old kid can do? There we’re times when I’m jealous with my cousins and friends who has a complete family, but at the end of the day, I have accepted that a mom/dad thing was not meant for me. I have prayed so many times to see my father somewhere along the way, but it was never answered. Did I love my father? I don’t know. Did I hate him? No.
ReplyDeleteSarap naman basahin ng pinost mo baks. Sana ganyan din mag isip mga tao.
DeleteIt depends on your relationship.Ot also depends on your mother.
DeleteOnly one thing came to my mind while watching this video. She's UGLY.
ReplyDeleteAnd you felt the need to say this out loud, huh? Ugly attitude.
Deleteganyan din kami ng dad ko hanggang sa ako na lang yun napagod. nakakapagod un mental stress at emotional fatigue na maghabol ng attention and love. i prayed all the time na umokay pero he doesnt seem to care about me, my hubby and especially his own apo so to save me from distress i stayed away and masaya naman buhay kesa sa ipilit mo sarili mo sa mga taong ayaw ka maging parte ng buhay nila :) So let's not judge dani, hindi ntin alam story nila ng dad nya.
ReplyDeletethey reconciled before, but maybe yung tatay talaga ang nagkulang.
ReplyDeleteMy husband just got reunited with his father after 25 long years. He left them when he was 8. I am so amazed that my husband forgive and forgets any issues they had. Personally, I don't know if I can do that. Its just rare to see someone that can be so forgiving that it makes you want to reflect and question yourself and to become a better person.
ReplyDeleteKier should really had alot to do with this.Malaki ang kulang nya sa anak niya.Bilang magulang, you don't just abandon your kids and after a few years kala mo parehas pa rin ang respeto sa iyo.You don't do that.You reap what you sow.
ReplyDeleteSana maappreciate mo yung tatay mo
ReplyDeletelahat naman kasi ng anak ni marjorie eh Hindi solid ang relationshipsa mga daddy nila. Mataas lang pride mo ghorl
ReplyDeleteThey became okay na few years ago ha? What is this nanaman? For clout ata to and be the talk of the town lol
ReplyDeleteI don’t know what happened to you personally but i think di na siya dapat pinapublic because either ways pwede siya mag backlash to you and your dad. You shouldnt expect na lahat kakampi sayo
ReplyDeletepero bat kailangan na dalhin mo pa sa public? hahaha pasikat at papansin lang ganon?
ReplyDeletehay nako pamilya baretto nga naman di malaman hahaha
ReplyDeleteang mga barretto talaga mga attention seeker 🤧
ReplyDeletenakakaumay na makakita.ng baretto haha laman lagi ng.mga ganitong.klaseng balita
ReplyDeleteattention seeker hays haha
ReplyDeletecant imagine a baretto without a social media hahaha funny clowns
ReplyDeleteakala ko maayos na sila dati pero bat ganito nanaman? and ang pangit pa dahil nilabas pa sa public. Hindi ba kayo marunong mag-usap privately?
ReplyDeletegrabe di talaga mabubuhay ang baretto ng.walang social,media news hahahaha partida di kapa.kilala hahahaha
ReplyDeletegusto mo pa.ng.time.haha may sarili ng pamilya lahat lahat hahahaha
ReplyDelete