Sadly, some of these "journalists" aren't known now for in-depth research. They don't even get it right, it's not even called dowry for Muslims, it's called maher. Yes, gift, or token for the bride, and that gift/token is for the bride to do as she wants as it's hers.
oh I see, yung iba kasi hindi naman cash ang dowry. Pwedeng mga hayop, mga material things gold ganyan. iba iba, baka sa show na yan cash ang binigay nung family nung guy.
Talaga baks? Basta if you hear something in the woods tell me, if you hear something in the water you tell me , under no sircumstances you are allowed to take off your blindfolds! Do you understand?
Parang mas madami nakakatagpo ng asawa sa video games kesa sa dating sites. Baka dahil hindi kailangan mag pretend, yung hilig mo gusto din niya. Alam mo din kung pano mag rage sa video game ang taong yun kapag may mic hhahahaa
dowry is symbolic para malaman nga na bubuhayin ng lalaki yung babae. Anyways its also true na kailangan liwanagin ang ibig sabihin nito para maintindihan ng mga non muslims kung ano ang significance ng dowry sa kasal.
Required naman kasi. Pano mo naman masabing gift yan in the truest sense of the word? Need pa patunay na kayang buhayin daw ang bride ni groom? Dami namang paraan to show/prove. Pero tradition nila yan eh.
Yup, they just pretend it’s something else when in fact it is payment. If you have a job you can support yourself and your wife, yet that’s not good enough unless you can give actual money or goods. It’s a payment.
Nde po lahat pera or gold. It can be a verse in the Quran na irecite nang guy in front of the girl's family. Or it can be a promise or anything na proof na he's good enough for the daughter....financially or emotionally good enough. Kaya nde sya matatawag na payment. It's more appropriate to call it a gift.
Ahh ok, thank you mga baks sa pag-explain. Kakiba pala tlg sa kanila. I remember din na nagpost somewhere ang parents nya na looking for bride sya and madami nag-aapply, parang work hehe.
Di mo rin naman masisisi yung ibang tao kasi meron naman talaga pamilya na nukhang pera at gusto nila bago ipakasal yung anak nila ay bibigyan sila ng malaking halaga na parang binebenta nila yung anak nila sa lalaki, though mahal naman talaga ni girl si boy.
Hindi naman kasi sya optional. Pero mali na tawagin syang payment. Para na rin nilang sinabi na isang gamit yung babae na ibinenta sa lalaki. Although in some countries binibenta talaga ng magulang yung anak, but still.
Sadly, some of these "journalists" aren't known now for in-depth research. They don't even get it right, it's not even called dowry for Muslims, it's called maher. Yes, gift, or token for the bride, and that gift/token is for the bride to do as she wants as it's hers.
ReplyDeleteP30,000 kasi yung binigay kaya cguro payment ang nasabi hahahaha!
Deleteoh I see, yung iba kasi hindi naman cash ang dowry. Pwedeng mga hayop, mga material things gold ganyan. iba iba, baka sa show na yan cash ang binigay nung family nung guy.
DeleteIsipin nyo na lang, parang engagement ring din yan.
DeleteAng sakin Downy lang maibibigay ko dahil Im so down...
ReplyDeleteTalaga baks? Basta if you hear something in the woods tell me, if you hear something in the water you tell me , under no sircumstances you are allowed to take off your blindfolds! Do you understand?
Delete1.22 masyado ka namang serious. I’m not 1:17 pero OA na comment mo ha.
Delete1:22 what are you on?! What did you take?! Penge naman!
Deletelol baks kapapanood mo yan ng bird box, just the follow the birds lang.
Delete1:41 ikaw masyadong serious. Lol! Yang linyahan ni 1:22 galing yan sa Bird box. 😂
Delete1:22 Epekto ng Bird box hahahaha!
Delete1:22 Film about Blinds leading and guiding The Blinds
DeleteOnly shows that a few people from this thread always spend their time watching cheap shows airing on TV lol
Delete1:51 and 1:41,wag magmadali sa pagcomment kasi...
DeleteMalala na. Hahahahaha
Delete1:41 wag masyadong serious? Ikaw nga ang serious dyan.Hahahaha
Delete4:12 Netflix movie yun not tv show. Do you know netflix?
Deletegrabe kayo baka wala naman kasi netflix 1:41
DeleteHahaha. Bumi-bird box
DeleteParang mas madami nakakatagpo ng asawa sa video games kesa sa dating sites. Baka dahil hindi kailangan mag pretend, yung hilig mo gusto din niya. Alam mo din kung pano mag rage sa video game ang taong yun kapag may mic hhahahaa
ReplyDeletedowry is symbolic para malaman nga na bubuhayin ng lalaki yung babae. Anyways its also true na kailangan liwanagin ang ibig sabihin nito para maintindihan ng mga non muslims kung ano ang significance ng dowry sa kasal.
ReplyDeleteWow makes sense, tama nga naman
DeleteIt’s still a payment.
DeleteIt’s not a payment 3:47 kasi sa mag asawa dn naman mapupunta ang dowry
Deletenot only muslim doing that meron sa nepal,india,at mga kalapit nilang bansa ganyan tradition nila mostly gold at pera sa kanila.
ReplyDeletetama.sa nepal gold ang binibigay. karamihan sa katrabaho ko mga nepali. tradition tagala. sa laos pera naman
Deleteit is nice that these things are being discussed here so that we can be socially aware. Iba iba ang paniniwala ng tao.
DeleteSo,pwede rin ba ang cash? Baka kaya napagkamalian na payment???
Deleteeven Chinese traditional wedding may ganyan din. haha
DeleteIn Islam, dowry may be a form of cash, jewelries
DeleteRequired naman kasi. Pano mo naman masabing gift yan in the truest sense of the word?
ReplyDeleteNeed pa patunay na kayang buhayin daw ang bride ni groom? Dami namang paraan to show/prove. Pero tradition nila yan eh.
we need to respect that kung ano ang paniniwala ng ibang tao
Deletekahit ano pa ang tawag diyan basta mahalaga yan sa kultura ng Muslims.
DeleteYup, they just pretend it’s something else when in fact it is payment. If you have a job you can support yourself and your wife, yet that’s not good enough unless you can give actual money or goods. It’s a payment.
DeleteNde po lahat pera or gold. It can be a verse in the Quran na irecite nang guy in front of the girl's family. Or it can be a promise or anything na proof na he's good enough for the daughter....financially or emotionally good enough. Kaya nde sya matatawag na payment. It's more appropriate to call it a gift.
DeleteGrabe 2019 na hindi pa pala nako-correct 'to? People especially media should be enlighted.
ReplyDeleteQuestion po, meron ako kilala na from india, sya yung binigyan ng dowry ng bride. Bakit kaya ganun? Sincere question yan, nacucurious talaga ako.
ReplyDeletesa india po kz lalake ang binibili hindi girl. lalo na pag expat na indian malaki bentahan
Deletesa India bride talaga nagbibigay ng dowry baliktad sa kanila,sabi din ng friend kong Indian,,
Deletesa India naman, iba ang tradition hindi din po sila pwedeng magpakasal sa hindi Indian.
DeleteAhh ok, thank you mga baks sa pag-explain. Kakiba pala tlg sa kanila. I remember din na nagpost somewhere ang parents nya na looking for bride sya and madami nag-aapply, parang work hehe.
Delete3:56 BINIBILI?! di nga bayad ang dowry.
DeleteDi mo rin naman masisisi yung ibang tao kasi meron naman talaga pamilya na nukhang pera at gusto nila bago ipakasal yung anak nila ay bibigyan sila ng malaking halaga na parang binebenta nila yung anak nila sa lalaki, though mahal naman talaga ni girl si boy.
ReplyDeletemaganda din na may ganitong mga palabas sa TV, nagiging aware tayo, nabubuksan ang ating mga isip sa ibang mga lahi at kultura.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman kasi sya optional. Pero mali na tawagin syang payment. Para na rin nilang sinabi na isang gamit yung babae na ibinenta sa lalaki. Although in some countries binibenta talaga ng magulang yung anak, but still.
ReplyDeleteWell, no matter how you say it. It is a form of payment. Otherwise why bother with it.
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