Ateng 1242 baka naman kasi nabubugbog sa bahay yan Kaya ganyan Kung makareact. Yun pamamalo di na eeffect yan Kung mas matindi inaabot nya. Iba kasi yun Palo sa bugbog. Yun mga bata na ganyan ka violent more often than not nakaranas din ng matinding pananakit themselves.
hindi rin. maraming studies and nag-offer ng evidence na children who suffer abuse become abusers and bullies themselves. children should be taught the right values more than teaching them how to fight. children should be taught how to be kind.
Di ako pabor kay Anthony P. Maawa muna dun sa na-bully. Hustisya at "help" muna sa na-bully. Bago tulungan un hambog na nang-bully. At pwede ba, sa sports tinuturo ang sportsmanship, discipline, camaraderie HINDI pambubully. Taekwondo gagamitin mo para mang-bully at mang-apak ng pagkatao ng iba? Waw saang kweba ka galing batotoy?!?
1:15 Depende sa bata siguro. Ako nung bata araw araw pinapalo kahit walang ginagawang masama. Pag nag away mga magulang ko, yung nanay ko sa mga anak binubunton yung galit. Hanggat hindi siya pagod hindi nya kami titigilan ng kakapalo kahit saan tamaan. Sa awa naman ng diyos lumaki kaming walang nambubugbog saming magkakapatid. Siguro Depende sa surrounding ng bata kaya may ganyan.
I am glad the video was shared because it placed the bully's action in to light. Had there not be videos, it would be hard for the victims to back their story and the bully would just deny everything. Hopefully, this incident will bring awareness to bullying.
May tanong ako. Sino yung nag film nung incident? Medyo weird kasi na the small kid didn't even do anything to the one making a proof that he is bullying someone. Maybe a friend tapos na discover lang sa phone niya? Kaya kumalat? Kasi ang dami nila pero none of them helped the kid who was actually just peeing. Imagine being vulnerable like that. What if while he's peeing saka siya sinipa sa likod or something. 😣
1:55 obvious s video n alam ng bully n kinukunan sya at madalas syang humaharap s camera. Eye level lng yun shot e. Prang kinakausap p nya yun videographer
Syempre mga takot... Kahit nga siya pa-play safe pa.. Wala naman direkta na nagsabi na i-expel un studyanteng nam-bully which I think is only justiifed. FYI sa ibang school mangopya nga lang expulsion na, YAN PA KAYA?! SERIOUS PHYSICAL INJURIES. bugbog o dignidad ang litanya nung bansot na nambugbog, GRAVE THREATS at coercion yan... Tingnan natin kung may dignidad pa yan at un kapatid niya na nagbubully din kung wala na silang school na mapuntahan.
true! di ko alam kung ako lang pero nasan si ate bianca na napaka daming hanash. she usually has the same views with her alma mater pagdating sa current govt. pero ngayon pala sarili nilang problema sa sarili nilang studyante di nila mabigyan ng tamang atensyon ngayon kaya sya mag share ng lagi nyang napaka galing na opinyon
As a parent, I wouldn’t feel that my kids are safe if this Montes kid is in the same school as him. All the videos show that he is a threat to other kids.
Malamang, iisa lang yang si Montes sa maraming bullies dyan sa ateneo. Dapat talaga maginvestigate sila para maexpel din yung ibang bullies dyan kasama na yung barkada ni Montes na taga-video.
I also go for learning self defense. However, just like this taekwondo kid bully, some might abuse it and use it to hurt others. It’s a double edge sword. Kung maexpel sya, ang fear lang ay baka sa bago nyang school sya maghasik ng violence. Ano kaya pinagdaanan nung bata kaya naging ganun sya? Obviously there was something wrong with how he was raised. Sayang sya at nakakatakot pag lumaki yang batang yan tapos hindi tumino.
I know my comment is going to be unpopular here. Now I understand the president’s stand on EJK. That bully doesn’t deserve to grow up to be an adult. He’ll cause more damage when he grows up. I was soo against EJK and not really a fan of the president but now I know that some people don’t deserve a place on earth. Imagine if lahat Ng taong katulad nya ma tokhang. This world would be a far better place for peace loving citizens. And people would be scared to do something unlawful or else they know the consequence.
planado ang pag kalat ng videos sakto talaga sa christmas break pinost. how will the family will celebrate it no? kalat na family pictures nila.even their home.address! anytime pwede sila sugurin. whats more masakit yung victim after 2 days pa nalaman ng parents the kid lied sinabi niya kaya dumugo face siya because he was playing basketball! eh lumabas the videos!!! nakita ng magulang, natakot ang bata kaya hinde nag sumbong. :( see the truma of the victim kawawa din. kaya tama lang lumabas ang videos! my brother told me bago lumabas ang video sa social media alam na daw ng school pero kumalat. ayaw nila kumalat kasi yun nga they have to protect the kid since minor pa. gumagawa na sila action to expel the kid lets wait for the final.verdict! pero sana matanggal siya!!!
may mali ang ateneo dito.. if ginagawa na ni montes mambully for 3 years at dami na nag reklamo bakit never nila.pinalayas?? kailangan pa umabot sa ganito! ayan sila nasira... yan tinatawag na Karma!!!
Me, too, am a mother. Kaya kahit sa son kong college, talagang I step in to protect him. Kc chubby anak ko kaya tampulan ng bullying. I eally pity my kid pag binubully sya. Kaya since college na sya, sinabi ko to direct it to the dean. Thankfully, umaksyon naman agad ang dean and department head nila. Naiiyak talaga ako pag binubully mga kids ko sa school.that's why I told them to tell me everything whatever happens inside their school.
853. I know how you feel. Madalas din mabully anak ko. Kaya payo ko kung sinisigawan lang naman o tukso iwasan na nya, kasi karamihan sa ganun mga di napapansin sa bahay. Pero kung sinaktan na sya dapat alam nya protektahan ang sarili nya. Ngayon, naging friends nya pa yung ibang nang bully sa kanya at sila nga nagsasabi, hindi sila pinapansin ng magulang nila or kapatid nila nambubully sa kanila sa bahay
nope. my bully stopped being a bully after i stab his palm with a pencil. i did give him a warning that i'll stab him with a pencil if he punched me again. bully is a boy and i am a girl btw. and now, more than 2 decades after, i am quite ashamed of what i did, i am thinking i should have handled it better, but then if i didnt do what i did, probably, i will just question myself over and over why i let somebody punched me just for the sake of punching me.
Kailangan mapahiya talaga sila sa maraming tao before they stop bullying you. I would get bullied when i was a kid, 3 of the most bullies I fought back, as in, suntukan talaga at natalo sila to the point na umiyak sila. That changed them and stopped them from pestering me.
Im glad the videos were shared. Malaking maitutulong ng videos na yun for awareness that in this time, bullying has become worst. Kung di na ishare at nagtrending ang videos, marahil patuloy pading maghahasik ng lagim ang batang iyon at maaaring umabot sa kolehiyo nya. Ung pambubully sa kanya sa social media is a consequence of what he's done. Learned his lesson the hard way.
the people in the videos are minors, it's actually a crime to be spreading them around even with the best of intentions. public shaming, ridicule, and cyber bullying are not the solutions. empathy na lang din siguro, not only for the parents and family of the victim but of the bully na rin. how would you feel kung anak mo yung nasa video? and napaka-ironic ng stand mo. you're against bullying pero okay lang sa'yo na nabubully online yung bully.
And how would you feel if you were the parents of one of the bullied kids, 1:15? What Montes did to the other kids was public shaming too. Imagine, paluhurin nya yung other kid in front of their schoolmates. Sana wag mangyari sa anak mo yan. Wag tayo masyadong preachy unless we are on the bullied kids’ parents’ shoes.
Seryoso ka sa sinasabi mo 1.15? Tama lang na kumalat ang vids. 3 years nang nambubully yung batang yun. 3 years na din narereport ang montes brothers but wala ginagawa ateneo. Ngayon lang sila napilitang umaksyon dahil nagtrending. Gusto mo protektahan pa yung nambully? Wow
Dapat makasuhan yung parents nung bully for being irresponsible parents.
kung anak ko ung sinipa at sinuntok nya o kaya yung pinaluhod nya ewan ko na lang kung anong magagawa ko sa batang yan. hindi na bata ang 14 years old. mukhang matigas eh. kung totoong 3 years na syang nambubully bakit hinahayaan lang? something is wrong talaga.
Pero naawa din ako sa victims nung bully, also because kumakalat yung videos. Ok magagamit na evidence yan pero ngayon yung videos na binubugbog, pinapahiya, pinaluluhod sila ng someone smaller than them pinagpipiyestahan na ng lahat. Who would want to relive that humiliation? Buti sana kung lahat ng videos blurred yung faces ng victims hindi din naman. Nadagdagan pa siguro lalo yung trauma nila.
3:05 Mas ok na yan kasi hindi sila napahiya sa totoo lang. Madami nagka sympatya sa kanila and para once and for all mabigyan ng leksyon yung salbaheng bata. Imagine kung di lumabas yang video na yan eh di ang dami pang magsa suffer na bata ng dahil sa Montes na yan.
Kung anak ko yang si Montes igagapos ko yan at parurusahan para mag tanda. Sana hindi itolerate ng magulang nya dahil sila din ang magkakaroon ng sakit ng ulo pag laki ng anak nila. Tsaka bilang magulang dapat i-guide natin mga anak natin. Hindi porket anak natin eh kakampihan or pag tatakpan.
Thank you 3:05! I agree with you. Spreading the video further traumatizes the bullied kids. Years from now when everyone else has moved on, these kids will relive those humiliating moments and blame themselves for not being able to defend themselves.
I'm still not sold on the justification na 'buti nga kumalat ang video'. It was spreading within the Ateneo community days before it broke out. What's the use of spreading it among us na mga miron? May magagawa ba tayo? Dahil ba may video kaya lang natin tuturuan ang mga anak natin na mag behave?
In the end ang magdi-decide nyan mga insiders:ateneo and the children's parents. Government and the courts maybe. Wala sa ting mga miron yan.
Go call yourself a mere miron 6:36 but it helps people esp parents be aware that this thing happens, and in school na supposedly nag aaral lang sana ang bata. Hindi lang to sa ateneo nangyayari. Ung mga miron na sinasabi dapat sinasabihan mga anak or pamangkin nila na wag magpabully at mangbully. Puro chismis lang pinupulot mo, wala kang natututunan s mga issue na ganito.
miron mo muka mo. lahat tayo may kakayahang tumulong o mangelam lalo na kung may mga anak tayo. maging aral sana to sa lahat.. at sana mabully ka din lintek ka. parang ikaw pa yung mayabang parang pinagtatanggol mo pa.. manahimik ka na lang pwede? halatang katulad ka ng pamilya nila. kung di kumalat ang vid hanggang ngayon bully pa din si unano di mo ba nagets yun??? at hanggang ngyon di magsasalita ang mga biktima dahil sa takot. nakkuu may mga tao pa ding baluktot ang pqgiisip.
Opinion ko.lang naman. Mas ok na nagviral yung vids para matapia na rin pambubully ng batang yan. to think na 3 yrs na nyang ginagawa yan and so was his older brother daw. Dami na rin daw reklamo from other parents ng victims nya pero no actions from ADMU. Now lang kc napahiya na sila. At least ngayon, naging aware na parents for their kids. isa sa pinakakilalang schools and still this happens.
i agree na magandang nagviral to, para aware buong mundo about bullying, pero di ako agree na ilabas ang name at address ng bully. hindi naman mareresolba kung ibubully mo yung nang bully eh. goodluck sa ateneo, tagal na ng issue, ngyun nyo lang inaksunan...
Yung ma-expelled Lang won't help lalo a sa victims side. Hindi ko pa napapanood yung video and don't have plans to watch it, kasi as a mother hindi ko kayang makapanood ng ganun.
I had seen one video accidentally, didn’t plan on watching it either because I too, am a mother. All I can say is, my heart bleeds for those kids na nabully. Some were made to kneel just so the bully would stop kicking/punching/pushing them. May psychological effect ito for those bullied. I hope they are getting as much support and love at this time.
Im a mother too and napanood ko yung 4 vids. Nakakaawa yung mga binully esp yung asa cr. The bullied kid does not know how to defend himself or maybe ayaw lang lumaban kasi may mga kasama si bully. Tropa ata ni bully yung mga nagvivideo.
Watch it para malaman nyo anong kayang gawin ng mga batang hindi pinalaki ng tama ng magulang. Lalo na mga teachers at school administrators, kailangan nilang mapanood yun. Akala nila, asaran lang pero kaya nilang magpadugo ng ilong, manipa, manuntok, manira ng buhay ng kapwa nila bata. Nakakagalit talaga at nakakaawa.
I would like to think na you are way past your teenage years, 1:53. Sana makasalubong mo si Montes sa daan tapos gamitin nya sayo yung Taekwando skills nya. Wag mo sya gantihan ah. Kase mas malaki ka sa kanya and ayaw natin sa bullies, remember? Memang to!
1:53 this is 1:10 Ako pa itong bully talaga ha? Hindi ba pwedeng napuno na ang salop? Bawal na palang gumanti sa bully dahil mababaliktad at yung biktima pa ang magiging bully.
Self-righteous Bianca kasi always have something to say about everything, EXCEPT if it has a possibility of affecting her in a not so positive way. As always, hypocrite Bianca is playing it safe (again) this time.
I hate drugs! I toxic people like you too! the president is trying to clean the sh*t of what the previous administraions (not only the aquino) did to the country. Please kung gusto mo umayos ang pilipinas WAG KANG BULAG!
For once, pwede wag mo i-connect sa politics to? Hindi lahat ng oras at issues ay sisingitan nyo ng agenda nyo. Magwelga ka dun sa Malacañang kung gusto mo, walang pipigil sayo.
2:02 hinayaan ilibing si Marcos sa libingan ng mga bayani tapos pinalaya si GMA, naging house speaker pa. Yan ang cleaning after past administrations na sinasabi mo?
Ayan nanaman sa pagsisi sa administration. Bakit di nyo sisisihin yan gumawa ng batas na di pagparusa sa mga minor bagkus binebeypi pa.!kaya malalakas ang loob lalo na ang mga kabataan
I agree with tippy. Social media is too harsh and has included the rest of his family members which is so uncool. This kid should be taught a lesson but should come from people around his circle not from people looking from the outside.
It is not covering up a bad behavior. Keep in mind that he is still a minor. Suspension or expulsion is given by the school and that is a big punishment already. But to continue bashing the minor and his family in the social media is too much
Ngek eh alam naman nyang kinukunan sya ng video. He recorded his acts for what purpose? Obviously- naghahanap sya ng gulo. Ayan nahanap nya ang gulo. Ang pagsnowball ng consequences is out of his control. He chose to hurt people- fortunately- he cannot choose the consequences. He deserves every bit of shame he’s receiving right now. Na enjoy nya mambully- eto enjoyin nya kasikatan nya. Pero ang galing ha- bilis magbura ng pamilya nya ng tracks nila online. Google “ateneo bully” or his name- konti lang lalabas na relevant results.
Yes he’s violent because he’s power tripping and thinks he’s above the law - that’s the context and not because he was bullied.
He should be punished severely to serve as a lesson to all bullies nang magtanda. At least parents can now have a reference to their kids by saying look at what happened to Montes while disciplining their kid.
Sana this time may action ang government whether through due process or vigilante style. For sure no one will complain. He’s a menace to society.
kaya nga is it any wonder now to us kung bakit lumping ganyan ang bata? lahat nagsisimula sa bahay. sa murang edad nya lahat ng gagawin Niya maganda o pangit ang babagsakan magulang nya dahil nga bata pa eh. ang skwelahan naman responsibilidad nila hindi lang pag-aaral pero pati na rin kapakanan at modo ng mga estudyante nila. anong mensahe ang sinasabi nila na pinalampas nila ito ng ilang beses na? at ano naman ang binibigay nilang pangangalaga sa mga biktima ng batang ito? hindi maganda ang pagkalat ng video pero kung hindi pa lumabas sa social media ilan pang study ante ang dadanas nito bago umaksyon ng nararapat at sapat ang admu? asan ang pangangalaga nila ng buo sa lahat ng estudyante Nila?
We’ve seen this before. Hindi na bago ang bullying pero hanggang ngayon malaking problema pa rin aa schools. Nakakainis pa na makita yung mga bullies nung highschool na maayos ang buhay ngayon na parang walang nangyari, no remorse, habang yung mga victims nila, tumandang may low self-esteem.
I agree that the bully has to learn his lessons the hardest way even. But spreading the video does not help. The victims’ face are shown and i am worried about that. Victims dont always want the world to know that they suffered and gone through this and this will them feel more less of themselves. Nakakagigil and really makes me want kick the hell out of the bully but we must protect the other party as well.
Inimagine ko din pano kung may nag-viral na videos na binubugbog at pinapahiya ako? Ayoko nun mehn! sige proof yun of myself being the victim but at the very least cover my face. Na-achieve nga nung Montes yung gusto niya gawin, yung mga biktima niya stripped of their dignity for everyone to see.
Or it could be a lesson to you to hit back next time. Once you watch it and you realize that the bully is not as powerful as what you perceive him to be.
Ngayon ko nga pinagsisihan na bakit nung grade school di ako lumaban sa mga bully kong classmate eh.. .pero totoo un, yung mga bully na yan kailangan talaga masampolan para tantanan ka nila eh..
MORAL LESSON - bakit hindi ipanukala ng gawing PE ang self-defense sa mga bata, kesa magsasayaw ng pandanggo sa ilaw at tinikling.. and make sure na dapat for self defense or pang competition lang dapat ang martial arts. galaw galaw nasa legislative.
nakakaloka, buong ateneo nadamay sa kolokoy na to, pano kaming mababait at mapagkawang gawa... langya, buti sana kung name mo lang, dinamay mo pa kami pati school.
Basta ako masaya ako kasi walang record record sa phone nung bata pa ako. Binully ako ng isang payat na lalaking mas maliit pa sa akin. Binully niya ako sa salita. So ako naman, since mas matangkad ako sa guy, sinuntok ko siya sa likod. LOL. Winner. Pero nung naging adults kami, friends kami nung guy. As in we talk to each other. Di ako naghahanap ng kakampi or whatever, malamang mali ang ginawa ko, pero kasi binully ako eh, so that was my response nung bata pa ako. Naransasan ko din kasi yung manahimik, eh hindi nag work. Yes, I was violent as a kid, but I'm not violent anymore as an adult. :)
Sinturonin ng magulang yung bully. Hanggat di nakakatikim ng matindi tinding palo yung binatilyong yun, walang pag-asang magbago yun.
ReplyDeleteAteng 1242 baka naman kasi nabubugbog sa bahay yan Kaya ganyan Kung makareact. Yun pamamalo di na eeffect yan Kung mas matindi inaabot nya. Iba kasi yun Palo sa bugbog. Yun mga bata na ganyan ka violent more often than not nakaranas din ng matinding pananakit themselves.
Deletehindi rin. maraming studies and nag-offer ng evidence na children who suffer abuse become abusers and bullies themselves. children should be taught the right values more than teaching them how to fight. children should be taught how to be kind.
DeleteDi ako pabor kay Anthony P. Maawa muna dun sa na-bully. Hustisya at "help" muna sa na-bully. Bago tulungan un hambog na nang-bully. At pwede ba, sa sports tinuturo ang sportsmanship, discipline, camaraderie HINDI pambubully. Taekwondo gagamitin mo para mang-bully at mang-apak ng pagkatao ng iba? Waw saang kweba ka galing batotoy?!?
Delete1.26 am This!
DeleteAgree 1.26
DeleteNabasag pala ang ilong at kailangan ng surgery ng sinipa ng unanong hambog na yan. Na nagkataong may kaunting kaalaman sa taekwondo. Hustisya naman
Deletei agree with kapamilya regine, i'd teach my kids to hit back!
DeleteSuntok yun hindi sipa. 2:48
DeleteSuntok yun hindi sipa. 2:48
Delete1:15 Depende sa bata siguro. Ako nung bata araw araw pinapalo kahit walang ginagawang masama. Pag nag away mga magulang ko, yung nanay ko sa mga anak binubunton yung galit. Hanggat hindi siya pagod hindi nya kami titigilan ng kakapalo kahit saan tamaan. Sa awa naman ng diyos lumaki kaming walang nambubugbog saming magkakapatid. Siguro Depende sa surrounding ng bata kaya may ganyan.
DeleteI am glad the video was shared because it placed the bully's action in to light. Had there not be videos, it would be hard for the victims to back their story and the bully would just deny everything. Hopefully, this incident will bring awareness to bullying.
ReplyDeleteMay tanong ako. Sino yung nag film nung incident? Medyo weird kasi na the small kid didn't even do anything to the one making a proof that he is bullying someone. Maybe a friend tapos na discover lang sa phone niya? Kaya kumalat? Kasi ang dami nila pero none of them helped the kid who was actually just peeing. Imagine being vulnerable like that. What if while he's peeing saka siya sinipa sa likod or something. 😣
DeleteMaybe the other kids were scared that if they help the one being buklied, ma-bully din sila. Montes already kinda has a reputation of being a bully.
Deletemas nakakakilabot na kaya na-video dahil proud yung bully at mga kabarkada niya and gusto nila i-record ang kayabangan nila.
Delete1:11, I read an article the bully had his own videographer. As to how the videos came out...that I don't know.
Delete1.11 yan din tanong ko, pano kaya kumalat yung video. Kawawa yung mga batang nabugbog.
Delete1:55 obvious s video n alam ng bully n kinukunan sya at madalas syang humaharap s camera. Eye level lng yun shot e. Prang kinakausap p nya yun videographer
DeleteKonti ng nagreact yung ibang atenista na sikat ayaw magcomment..
ReplyDeleteSi robi lang nabasa ko nagcomment na atenista sikat s showbiz.
Syempre mga takot... Kahit nga siya pa-play safe pa.. Wala naman direkta na nagsabi na i-expel un studyanteng nam-bully which I think is only justiifed. FYI sa ibang school mangopya nga lang expulsion na, YAN PA KAYA?! SERIOUS PHYSICAL INJURIES. bugbog o dignidad ang litanya nung bansot na nambugbog, GRAVE THREATS at coercion yan... Tingnan natin kung may dignidad pa yan at un kapatid niya na nagbubully din kung wala na silang school na mapuntahan.
Deletetrue! di ko alam kung ako lang pero nasan si ate bianca na napaka daming hanash. she usually has the same views with her alma mater pagdating sa current govt. pero ngayon pala sarili nilang problema sa sarili nilang studyante di nila mabigyan ng tamang atensyon ngayon kaya sya mag share ng lagi nyang napaka galing na opinyon
DeleteAs a parent, I wouldn’t feel that my kids are safe if this Montes kid is in the same school as him. All the videos show that he is a threat to other kids.
DeleteBaka ayaw lang nila ibully yung maliit na bata tulad ng ginagawa niyo ngayon. Hahahahahaha!
Deletesi bianca na may laging say sa mga issue ayun tahimik ngayon. lol. selective din sa pag oopinyon.
DeleteAteneo JHS to, walang say si Bianca dahil di sya dun nag HS. Exclusive
DeleteDapat dyan expulsion para hindi pamarisan. Liit liit ang yabang.
DeleteMalamang, iisa lang yang si Montes sa maraming bullies dyan sa ateneo. Dapat talaga maginvestigate sila para maexpel din yung ibang bullies dyan kasama na yung barkada ni Montes na taga-video.
DeleteI also go for learning self defense. However, just like this taekwondo kid bully, some might abuse it and use it to hurt others. It’s a double edge sword.
ReplyDeleteKung maexpel sya, ang fear lang ay baka sa bago nyang school sya maghasik ng violence.
Ano kaya pinagdaanan nung bata kaya naging ganun sya? Obviously there was something wrong with how he was raised. Sayang sya at nakakatakot pag lumaki yang batang yan tapos hindi tumino.
Pwede din dun siya makakatagpo ng katapat na mas bully sa kanya.
DeleteConsidering na dalawa sila ng kuya nyang ganyan, there really is something wrong with how his parents raise kids
DeleteIlipat sa mga notorious public schools, ewan na lang pag magamit nya yang bugbog o dignidad na litanya nya.
DeleteIlipat sa public school. Tingnan natin kung ubra ang tapang nya dun.
DeleteI know my comment is going to be unpopular here. Now I understand the president’s stand on EJK. That bully doesn’t deserve to grow up to be an adult. He’ll cause more damage when he grows up. I was soo against EJK and not really a fan of the president but now I know that some people don’t deserve a place on earth. Imagine if lahat Ng taong katulad nya ma tokhang. This world would be a far better place for peace loving citizens. And people would be scared to do something unlawful or else they know the consequence.
Deletegoodluck sa school na tatanggap sa kanya. treat sya sa ibang bata.
Deleteplanado ang pag kalat ng videos sakto talaga sa christmas break pinost. how will the family will celebrate it no? kalat na family pictures nila.even their home.address! anytime pwede sila sugurin. whats more masakit yung victim after 2 days pa nalaman ng parents the kid lied sinabi niya kaya dumugo face siya because he was playing basketball! eh lumabas the videos!!! nakita ng magulang, natakot ang bata kaya hinde nag sumbong. :( see the truma of the victim kawawa din. kaya tama lang lumabas ang videos! my brother told me bago lumabas ang video sa social media alam na daw ng school pero kumalat. ayaw nila kumalat kasi yun nga they have to protect the kid since minor pa. gumagawa na sila action to expel the kid lets wait for the final.verdict! pero sana matanggal siya!!!
ReplyDeletemay mali ang ateneo dito.. if ginagawa na ni montes mambully for 3 years at dami na nag reklamo bakit never nila.pinalayas?? kailangan pa umabot sa ganito! ayan sila nasira... yan tinatawag na Karma!!!
I feel so sad for the victims.😢 I am a mother too and I can not imagine the heartbreak if anak ko ang makita ko sa video na yan.😢
Delete2;10 same tayo. Madapa nga lang ang anak ko nagpapanic ako. Yung mabugbog pa?!
DeleteGod forgive me pro kung anak ko ang ginanun nya, baka mas malala pa gawin ko sa kanya.
DeleteMe, too, am a mother. Kaya kahit sa son kong college, talagang I step in to protect him. Kc chubby anak ko kaya tampulan ng bullying. I eally pity my kid pag binubully sya. Kaya since college na sya, sinabi ko to direct it to the dean. Thankfully, umaksyon naman agad ang dean and department head nila. Naiiyak talaga ako pag binubully mga kids ko sa school.that's why I told them to tell me everything whatever happens inside their school.
Delete853. I know how you feel. Madalas din mabully anak ko. Kaya payo ko kung sinisigawan lang naman o tukso iwasan na nya, kasi karamihan sa ganun mga di napapansin sa bahay. Pero kung sinaktan na sya dapat alam nya protektahan ang sarili nya. Ngayon, naging friends nya pa yung ibang nang bully sa kanya at sila nga nagsasabi, hindi sila pinapansin ng magulang nila or kapatid nila nambubully sa kanila sa bahay
DeleteDapat ilagay siya sa juvenile prison at ipa-experience sa kanya kung paano ma-bully para maintindihan niya yung pain ant trauma ng mga binully niya.
ReplyDeleteLalo yan lalala pagkatapos. Gaganti yan pag nakalabas.
Deletenope. my bully stopped being a bully after i stab his palm with a pencil. i did give him a warning that i'll stab him with a pencil if he punched me again. bully is a boy and i am a girl btw.
Deleteand now, more than 2 decades after, i am quite ashamed of what i did, i am thinking i should have handled it better, but then if i didnt do what i did, probably, i will just question myself over and over why i let somebody punched me just for the sake of punching me.
Kailangan mapahiya talaga sila sa maraming tao before they stop bullying you. I would get bullied when i was a kid, 3 of the most bullies I fought back, as in, suntukan talaga at natalo sila to the point na umiyak sila. That changed them and stopped them from pestering me.
Deletei remember si amalayer, binully yung guard sa tren, nagviral, nabash ng katakot takot, may death treat pa nga, ayun, tumino ang loka.
DeleteIm glad the videos were shared. Malaking maitutulong ng videos na yun for awareness that in this time, bullying has become worst. Kung di na ishare at nagtrending ang videos, marahil patuloy pading maghahasik ng lagim ang batang iyon at maaaring umabot sa kolehiyo nya. Ung pambubully sa kanya sa social media is a consequence of what he's done. Learned his lesson the hard way.
ReplyDeletethe people in the videos are minors, it's actually a crime to be spreading them around even with the best of intentions. public shaming, ridicule, and cyber bullying are not the solutions. empathy na lang din siguro, not only for the parents and family of the victim but of the bully na rin. how would you feel kung anak mo yung nasa video? and napaka-ironic ng stand mo. you're against bullying pero okay lang sa'yo na nabubully online yung bully.
DeleteAnd how would you feel if you were the parents of one of the bullied kids, 1:15? What Montes did to the other kids was public shaming too. Imagine, paluhurin nya yung other kid in front of their schoolmates. Sana wag mangyari sa anak mo yan. Wag tayo masyadong preachy unless we are on the bullied kids’ parents’ shoes.
DeleteSeryoso ka sa sinasabi mo 1.15? Tama lang na kumalat ang vids. 3 years nang nambubully yung batang yun. 3 years na din narereport ang montes brothers but wala ginagawa ateneo. Ngayon lang sila napilitang umaksyon dahil nagtrending. Gusto mo protektahan pa yung nambully? Wow
DeleteDapat makasuhan yung parents nung bully for being irresponsible parents.
kung anak ko ung sinipa at sinuntok nya o kaya yung pinaluhod nya ewan ko na lang kung anong magagawa ko sa batang yan. hindi na bata ang 14 years old. mukhang matigas eh. kung totoong 3 years na syang nambubully bakit hinahayaan lang? something is wrong talaga.
DeletePero naawa din ako sa victims nung bully, also because kumakalat yung videos. Ok magagamit na evidence yan pero ngayon yung videos na binubugbog, pinapahiya, pinaluluhod sila ng someone smaller than them pinagpipiyestahan na ng lahat. Who would want to relive that humiliation? Buti sana kung lahat ng videos blurred yung faces ng victims hindi din naman. Nadagdagan pa siguro lalo yung trauma nila.
Delete3:05 Mas ok na yan kasi hindi sila napahiya sa totoo lang. Madami nagka sympatya sa kanila and para once and for all mabigyan ng leksyon yung salbaheng bata. Imagine kung di lumabas yang video na yan eh di ang dami pang magsa suffer na bata ng dahil sa Montes na yan.
DeleteKung anak ko yang si Montes igagapos ko yan at parurusahan para mag tanda. Sana hindi itolerate ng magulang nya dahil sila din ang magkakaroon ng sakit ng ulo pag laki ng anak nila. Tsaka bilang magulang dapat i-guide natin mga anak natin. Hindi porket anak natin eh kakampihan or pag tatakpan.
DeleteThank you 3:05! I agree with you. Spreading the video further traumatizes the bullied kids. Years from now when everyone else has moved on, these kids will relive those humiliating moments and blame themselves for not being able to defend themselves.
DeleteI'm still not sold on the justification na 'buti nga kumalat ang video'. It was spreading within the Ateneo community days before it broke out. What's the use of spreading it among us na mga miron? May magagawa ba tayo? Dahil ba may video kaya lang natin tuturuan ang mga anak natin na mag behave?
In the end ang magdi-decide nyan mga insiders:ateneo and the children's parents. Government and the courts maybe. Wala sa ting mga miron yan.
Go call yourself a mere miron 6:36 but it helps people esp parents be aware that this thing happens, and in school na supposedly nag aaral lang sana ang bata. Hindi lang to sa ateneo nangyayari. Ung mga miron na sinasabi dapat sinasabihan mga anak or pamangkin nila na wag magpabully at mangbully. Puro chismis lang pinupulot mo, wala kang natututunan s mga issue na ganito.
Deletemiron mo muka mo. lahat tayo may kakayahang tumulong o mangelam lalo na kung may mga anak tayo. maging aral sana to sa lahat.. at sana mabully ka din lintek ka. parang ikaw pa yung mayabang parang pinagtatanggol mo pa.. manahimik ka na lang pwede? halatang katulad ka ng pamilya nila. kung di kumalat ang vid hanggang ngayon bully pa din si unano di mo ba nagets yun??? at hanggang ngyon di magsasalita ang mga biktima dahil sa takot. nakkuu may mga tao pa ding baluktot ang pqgiisip.
DeleteOpinion ko.lang naman. Mas ok na nagviral yung vids para matapia na rin pambubully ng batang yan. to think na 3 yrs na nyang ginagawa yan and so was his older brother daw. Dami na rin daw reklamo from other parents ng victims nya pero no actions from ADMU. Now lang kc napahiya na sila. At least ngayon, naging aware na parents for their kids. isa sa pinakakilalang schools and still this happens.
DeleteButi sana kung blurred yung faces ng victims eh kaso hindi! Lalo na yung nakaluhod na closeup pa talaga sa face nya.
Deletei agree na magandang nagviral to, para aware buong mundo about bullying, pero di ako agree na ilabas ang name at address ng bully. hindi naman mareresolba kung ibubully mo yung nang bully eh. goodluck sa ateneo, tagal na ng issue, ngyun nyo lang inaksunan...
DeleteYung ma-expelled Lang won't help lalo a sa victims side. Hindi ko pa napapanood yung video and don't have plans to watch it, kasi as a mother hindi ko kayang makapanood ng ganun.
ReplyDeleteI had seen one video accidentally, didn’t plan on watching it either because I too, am a mother. All I can say is, my heart bleeds for those kids na nabully. Some were made to kneel just so the bully would stop kicking/punching/pushing them. May psychological effect ito for those bullied. I hope they are getting as much support and love at this time.
Delete1:02 you're right. Wag mo panoorin. Pinanood ko to kahapon and mabigat pa rin sa pakiramdam ko.
DeleteIm a mother too and napanood ko yung 4 vids. Nakakaawa yung mga binully esp yung asa cr. The bullied kid does not know how to defend himself or maybe ayaw lang lumaban kasi may mga kasama si bully. Tropa ata ni bully yung mga nagvivideo.
DeleteWatch it para malaman nyo anong kayang gawin ng mga batang hindi pinalaki ng tama ng magulang. Lalo na mga teachers at school administrators, kailangan nilang mapanood yun. Akala nila, asaran lang pero kaya nilang magpadugo ng ilong, manipa, manuntok, manira ng buhay ng kapwa nila bata. Nakakagalit talaga at nakakaawa.
DeleteMay nambully sa akin noong grade 5. Hinagis ko sya sa lababo.
ReplyDeleteHindi ka nabully prinovoke ka lang. The fact na kaya mo siyang ihagis sa lababo means ikaw ang mas me power ikaw ang bully pero prinovoke ka ng goaty.
DeleteSome boys tried to bully me nung elementary because I was small and looked frail. Nakakita sila ng lumilipad na armchair.
DeleteMay mali yata sa sinabi mo 1:53, dahil nakalaban sya, sya ang bully? Nakakakobo.
DeleteI would like to think na you are way past your teenage years, 1:53. Sana makasalubong mo si Montes sa daan tapos gamitin nya sayo yung Taekwando skills nya. Wag mo sya gantihan ah. Kase mas malaki ka sa kanya and ayaw natin sa bullies, remember? Memang to!
DeletePag kinaya and pinatulan mo ang bully, kaw na ang bully ganun ba 1:53? Balik ka s planeta nyo ni montes.
Delete1:53 this is 1:10 Ako pa itong bully talaga ha? Hindi ba pwedeng napuno na ang salop? Bawal na palang gumanti sa bully dahil mababaliktad at yung biktima pa ang magiging bully.
DeleteAko naman tinadtakan ko ng ubod lakas ang chair ng classmate kong bully kaya tumilapon sya. Namutla at natakot sya at tinantanan na ako mula noon.
Delete1:53 alam mo ba ibig sabihin ng bully?
DeleteExpulsion is the consequence of his actions. I think he needs psychiatric therapy because he might have a lot of angst within him.
ReplyDeleteA public apology (kung un man ang isa sa drama) won't be enough. This kid needs psychiatric help. Di na papasa sa counselling lang to.
ReplyDeletebakit di nag comment ngayon si bianca gonzalez?
ReplyDeleteBakit ba in love na in love ka kay Bianca? Ang concern namin yung nabully. Hindi si Bianca!
DeleteSelf-righteous Bianca kasi always have something to say about everything, EXCEPT if it has a possibility of affecting her in a not so positive way. As always, hypocrite Bianca is playing it safe (again) this time.
DeleteHahaha very true k dyan 2:25. Selective lng sya kuda nya and she's such a hypocrite for that.
Deletedear anon 2:05 please read 2:25 ng maintindihan mo
DeleteAsus hanggang trending at viral issue lang yan nothing will change. Galit kayo sa bully na bata pero ung bully sa malacanang tikom bibig nyo?
ReplyDeleteI hate drugs! I toxic people like you too! the president is trying to clean the sh*t of what the previous administraions (not only the aquino) did to the country. Please kung gusto mo umayos ang pilipinas WAG KANG BULAG!
DeleteFor once, pwede wag mo i-connect sa politics to? Hindi lahat ng oras at issues ay sisingitan nyo ng agenda nyo. Magwelga ka dun sa Malacañang kung gusto mo, walang pipigil sayo.
DeleteMaisingit lang talaga ang pulitika kahit ibang isyu ang pinaguusapan. Ang layo mo baks!
DeleteAh so hindi totoo na bully si duterte totoong mabait sya na tao. Walang bahid at napakabait nya
DeleteUU 3:48, any violent reaction from you? LOL
Delete2:02 hinayaan ilibing si Marcos sa libingan ng mga bayani tapos pinalaya si GMA, naging house speaker pa. Yan ang cleaning after past administrations na sinasabi mo?
DeleteAyan nanaman sa pagsisi sa administration. Bakit di nyo sisisihin yan gumawa ng batas na di pagparusa sa mga minor bagkus binebeypi pa.!kaya malalakas ang loob lalo na ang mga kabataan
DeleteI agree with tippy. Social media is too harsh and has included the rest of his family members which is so uncool. This kid should be taught a lesson but should come from people around his circle not from people looking from the outside.
ReplyDeleteDon't cover up a bad behavior! Bullying is a crime ahsinst humsnity! Expel him Ateneo!
DeleteIt is not covering up a bad behavior. Keep in mind that he is still a minor. Suspension or expulsion is given by the school and that is a big punishment already. But to continue bashing the minor and his family in the social media is too much
DeleteNgek eh alam naman nyang kinukunan sya ng video. He recorded his acts for what purpose? Obviously- naghahanap sya ng gulo. Ayan nahanap nya ang gulo. Ang pagsnowball ng consequences is out of his control. He chose to hurt people- fortunately- he cannot choose the consequences. He deserves every bit of shame he’s receiving right now. Na enjoy nya mambully- eto enjoyin nya kasikatan nya.
ReplyDeletePero ang galing ha- bilis magbura ng pamilya nya ng tracks nila online. Google “ateneo bully” or his name- konti lang lalabas na relevant results.
I totally agree w/ you! This boy is a menace to society! Ateneo should expel him pronto!
DeleteBaka dahil minor involved?
Deleteimagine living in a thirld world country..with this bullying video..so much privileged.
ReplyDeleteLahat naman ng countries, across all socio-economic strata there's bullying no.
DeleteThe bully has so much anger. Appears like he has been bullied too.
ReplyDeleteBully din daw yung kuya. Baka yung kuya mismo nambubully sa kanya sa bahay. Gwapo at matangkad pati yung kuya kaya may insecurities din siguro.
DeleteDIFINE POWER TRIPPING. di yan nabully.. kinulang lang sa aruga o nasobrahan? madaming kilalang makapangyarihan yan kaya ganyan yan kakapal.
DeleteNasa palaki talaga ng magulang yan.
DeleteEntitled Lang yan. He grew up thinking he’s above the law.
DeleteHindi lang yan power tripping or feeling entitled. May violence. Vinideohan pa para paulit ulit na panoorin yung pananakit.
DeleteYes he’s violent because he’s power tripping and thinks he’s above the law - that’s the context and not because he was bullied.
DeleteHe should be punished severely to serve as a lesson to all bullies nang magtanda. At least parents can now have a reference to their kids by saying look at what happened to Montes while disciplining their kid.
Sana this time may action ang government whether through due process or vigilante style. For sure no one will complain. He’s a menace to society.
Mayabang din ang mother ng bully..nagsorry sa fb pero galit! Dapat talaga iexpel ito ng ateneo..this boy doesn't deserved to be an atenean!
ReplyDeletetalaga sis bakit nga ganyan kung sino pa may kasalanan sila pa mayabang
Deletekaya nga is it any wonder now to us kung bakit lumping ganyan ang bata? lahat nagsisimula sa bahay. sa murang edad nya lahat ng gagawin Niya maganda o pangit ang babagsakan magulang nya dahil nga bata pa eh. ang skwelahan naman responsibilidad nila hindi lang pag-aaral pero pati na rin kapakanan at modo ng mga estudyante nila. anong mensahe ang sinasabi nila na pinalampas nila ito ng ilang beses na? at ano naman ang binibigay nilang pangangalaga sa mga biktima ng batang ito? hindi maganda ang pagkalat ng video pero kung hindi pa lumabas sa social media ilan pang study ante ang dadanas nito bago umaksyon ng nararapat at sapat ang admu? asan ang pangangalaga nila ng buo sa lahat ng estudyante Nila?
DeleteA bully is a bully..is a bully..there's no excuse for that! He must be punished!
ReplyDeleteWe’ve seen this before. Hindi na bago ang bullying pero hanggang ngayon malaking problema pa rin aa schools. Nakakainis pa na makita yung mga bullies nung highschool na maayos ang buhay ngayon na parang walang nangyari, no remorse, habang yung mga victims nila, tumandang may low self-esteem.
ReplyDeleteI agree that the bully has to learn his lessons the hardest way even. But spreading the video does not help. The victims’ face are shown and i am worried about that. Victims dont always want the world to know that they suffered and gone through this and this will them feel more less of themselves. Nakakagigil and really makes me want kick the hell out of the bully but we must protect the other party as well.
ReplyDeleteInimagine ko din pano kung may nag-viral na videos na binubugbog at pinapahiya ako? Ayoko nun mehn! sige proof yun of myself being the victim but at the very least cover my face. Na-achieve nga nung Montes yung gusto niya gawin, yung mga biktima niya stripped of their dignity for everyone to see.
DeleteOr it could be a lesson to you to hit back next time. Once you watch it and you realize that the bully is not as powerful as what you perceive him to be.
DeleteNgayon ko nga pinagsisihan na bakit nung grade school di ako lumaban sa mga bully kong classmate eh.. .pero totoo un, yung mga bully na yan kailangan talaga masampolan para tantanan ka nila eh..
ReplyDeleteomg i wont enroll my children sa Ateneo. may ganyan pala ohhhh
ReplyDeleteAko nga tinurok ko ang lapis ko sa ka klase ko na llake. Babae ako pero sobrang bully siya. Grade 3 Lang kami. After noon tinigilan niya na ako
ReplyDeleteMORAL LESSON - bakit hindi ipanukala ng gawing PE ang self-defense sa mga bata, kesa magsasayaw ng pandanggo sa ilaw at tinikling.. and make sure na dapat for self defense or pang competition lang dapat ang martial arts. galaw galaw nasa legislative.
ReplyDeleteTotoo yan. Astig pa kung yun ang PE, yung taekwondo. Saka ko tuloy na appreciate ngayong malaki na ako.
Deletenakakaloka, buong ateneo nadamay sa kolokoy na to, pano kaming mababait at mapagkawang gawa... langya, buti sana kung name mo lang, dinamay mo pa kami pati school.
ReplyDeleteBasta ako masaya ako kasi walang record record sa phone nung bata pa ako. Binully ako ng isang payat na lalaking mas maliit pa sa akin. Binully niya ako sa salita. So ako naman, since mas matangkad ako sa guy, sinuntok ko siya sa likod. LOL. Winner. Pero nung naging adults kami, friends kami nung guy. As in we talk to each other. Di ako naghahanap ng kakampi or whatever, malamang mali ang ginawa ko, pero kasi binully ako eh, so that was my response nung bata pa ako. Naransasan ko din kasi yung manahimik, eh hindi nag work. Yes, I was violent as a kid, but I'm not violent anymore as an adult. :)
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