Mga nanay natin wala naman mga ganyan ganyan.. mashado na lang kasi pressure ng society ngayon at social media to look perfect, but what is perfect, really. Simple lang naman,Dont compare yourself to anyone. And pray for peace and contentment.
I agree. Dahil sa social media yung mga tao gayahan na ng gayahan. Kailangan maganda ka, sexy, sosyal, mayaman etc. Hindi na tuloy nagiging masaya ang iba sa simpleng buhay lang dahil sa mga nakikita nila sa socmed.
agree! sa totoo lang ang pinaka di ko kinakaya si iya di ko matanggap ung nagrereklamo sya sa 7kgs na need nya pang ibawas dahil nag gain sya pagka panganak nya tapos weight lifting agad? di binigyan ang katawan ng time mag heal papayat na agad
8:15 true..nashock nga aq nung preggy xa nagbubuhat xa ng mga mabibugat na weights, nakapanganak ana xa ang all after a week ata nagbubuhat na nmn xa ng weights..
Liliit din naman yan, importante makinis ka pa din girl! Deadma mo na yang mga tao na yan. Iba nga malaki tiyan, hindi naman nanganak. Paano ka pa diba? Keri lang yan, go girl. :)
Kahit hindi ako mommy naiyak ako sa sinabi nya, sometimes people are can be so hurtful even without their intent. I struggled with eating disorder and body dysmorphism kahit payat ako dahil I let people commenting about my weight get into me. Congratulations ms Lara, you are still beautiful.
Ako rin naiiyak kasi i really gained a lot after giving birth... i don’t have a facebook account bec i’m afraid of being judged. I really can relate😔. I lost my confidence.
Yung iba nga after years of giving birth, madamng baby fats paren.
The problem with these women who seem to act like they dont care about their body, in reality they are the ones pressuring themselves. They are not sincere about being OK with their postpartum body. Its like saying "i am here" instead of saying "Her i am". Big difference!
The advent of social media. Kailangan perfect image. Pag hindi perfect, kailangan ijustify. Parating may ipinaglalaban. It has a become a competition. And those who are not happy with who they are get so insecure and post to justify why they are not who they want to be.
Alam kong mas mahirap pressure ke Lars na maging sexy uli kasi Miss International sya. Dont wori Lara marami kaming mga nanay na naiintindihan ka. Iba effect ng CS sa body. Ako nga 8 years na bunso ko pero mukha pa ring buntis.
I salute Lara for her thankfulness to God for the grace of 2 healthy and handsome babies. Acceptance is the road to loving oneself and loving those around you. In time the body will recoup with some good diet, exercise and quick catnaps in between. Carry on, Lara!
Why do we have to excuse after giving birth? My God, its a gift from heaven. Ako nga fit for a 33yr old di pa nagkakababy, kung lumaki man ako after giving birth I wont mind. People nowadays always think na ibbody shame sila right after giving birth, well not people will do that. Count your blessings and not to worry about the negative impreasion people will give you about your body.
6:56 The thing is, binody shame na siya right after giving birth. Ofcourse sensitive pa yan probably because of postpartum. Ikaw na rin nagsabi di ka pa nagkaka baby kaya di mo pa alam hanggat di mo mismo maexperience. Malaking changes mararamdaman mo when you you got pregnant, physically, mentally, emotionally, etc... At iba ibang ways din tayo how to deal with it. Swerte mo kung ikaw feeling mo malakas loob mo at under control mo lahat
Mga nanay natin wala naman mga ganyan ganyan.. mashado na lang kasi pressure ng society ngayon at social media to look perfect, but what is perfect, really. Simple lang naman,Dont compare yourself to anyone. And pray for peace and contentment.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Grabe na rin kasi ang social media di ba.
DeleteI agree. Dahil sa social media yung mga tao gayahan na ng gayahan. Kailangan maganda ka, sexy, sosyal, mayaman etc. Hindi na tuloy nagiging masaya ang iba sa simpleng buhay lang dahil sa mga nakikita nila sa socmed.
Delete1:43 tama ka.
Deleteagree! sa totoo lang ang pinaka di ko kinakaya si iya di ko matanggap ung nagrereklamo sya sa 7kgs na need nya pang ibawas dahil nag gain sya pagka panganak nya tapos weight lifting agad? di binigyan ang katawan ng time mag heal papayat na agad
DeleteAgree. Masyado big deal ang post pregnancy body ngayon. Parang si Kate Middleton lang ang peg dapt lagi
Delete8:15 true..nashock nga aq nung preggy xa nagbubuhat xa ng mga mabibugat na weights, nakapanganak ana xa ang all after a week ata nagbubuhat na nmn xa ng weights..
DeleteOa naman tlga ni iya kala mo vs model
DeleteLiliit din naman yan, importante makinis ka pa din girl! Deadma mo na yang mga tao na yan. Iba nga malaki tiyan, hindi naman nanganak. Paano ka pa diba? Keri lang yan, go girl. :)
ReplyDeleteLara should be thankful na normal at healthy ang baby niya at siya din.
DeleteI like Lara. Ito yung beauty queen na hindi vain. Nothing wrong in working out pag kakapanganak kaso yung iba nasobrahan na.
ReplyDeleteAgree. At ito yata ang unang post na nabasa ko regarding loving your post-partum body that sounded sincere.
DeleteKaya nga yung iba after manganak mga hashtag chuva chuva workout na agad.
DeleteCongrats to Lara.
ReplyDeleteKahit hindi ako mommy naiyak ako sa sinabi nya, sometimes people are can be so hurtful even without their intent. I struggled with eating disorder and body dysmorphism kahit payat ako dahil I let people commenting about my weight get into me. Congratulations ms Lara, you are still beautiful.
ReplyDeleteAko rin naiiyak kasi i really gained a lot after giving birth... i don’t have a facebook account bec i’m afraid of being judged. I really can relate😔. I lost my confidence.
DeleteYung iba nga after years of giving birth, madamng baby fats paren.
DeleteThe problem with these women who seem to act like they dont care about their body, in reality they are the ones pressuring themselves. They are not sincere about being OK with their postpartum body. Its like saying "i am here" instead of saying "Her i am". Big difference!
Ako nga walang anak pero mas malala pa dyan.
ReplyDeleteAng daming excuses ni lola.
ReplyDeleteBitter alert! Perfect mo siguro?
DeleteThe advent of social media. Kailangan perfect image. Pag hindi perfect, kailangan ijustify. Parating may ipinaglalaban. It has a become a competition. And those who are not happy with who they are get so insecure and post to justify why they are not who they want to be.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Kaya ako walang socmed eh. Mas masaya. :)
DeleteSame here!From the moment I quit social media, my life became more at peace instead of being insecure all the time!
DeleteAlam kong mas mahirap pressure ke Lars na maging sexy uli kasi Miss International sya. Dont wori Lara marami kaming mga nanay na naiintindihan ka. Iba effect ng CS sa body. Ako nga 8 years na bunso ko pero mukha pa ring buntis.
ReplyDeleteI salute Lara for her thankfulness to God for the grace of 2 healthy and handsome babies. Acceptance is the road to loving oneself and loving those around you. In time the body will recoup with some good diet, exercise and quick catnaps in between. Carry on, Lara!
ReplyDeleteWhy do we have to excuse after giving birth? My God, its a gift from heaven. Ako nga fit for a 33yr old di pa nagkakababy, kung lumaki man ako after giving birth I wont mind. People nowadays always think na ibbody shame sila right after giving birth, well not people will do that. Count your blessings and not to worry about the negative impreasion people will give you about your body.
ReplyDelete6:56 The thing is, binody shame na siya right after giving birth. Ofcourse sensitive pa yan probably because of postpartum. Ikaw na rin nagsabi di ka pa nagkaka baby kaya di mo pa alam hanggat di mo mismo maexperience. Malaking changes mararamdaman mo when you you got pregnant, physically, mentally, emotionally, etc... At iba ibang ways din tayo how to deal with it. Swerte mo kung ikaw feeling mo malakas loob mo at under control mo lahat
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