The thrill of hitting it off with someone can truly put the smile of one’s face and the feelings of young love can be overwhelming. Seeing the person and doing activities with that significant other can inspire and make one move on with life. Things seem bright until a parent notices the extra glow and puts a stop to everything. Thus, the child must decide: pursue young love or obey the elders.
When Young Personality (YP) started coming of age, the public noticed that she’s very attractive and would definitely have a future in the industry. However, YP does not seem to be interested in pursuing a full-blown career yet as she wants to complete her study. Besides, growing up in the limelight, she knows the demands of having a career, the intrigues, and the criticisms.
One day, YP met Fellow Endorser (FE) in one of their projects. FE is equally attractive and knows how to project himself. He seems to be amiable and thus, he hit it off with YP. Soon, the two would go on friendly dates and since YP can be trusted, her parents thought everything was typical. However, a parent’s intuition is strong, and before the fear of any parent could happen, YP and Her Elder (HE) had a talk.
HE reminded YP that she has a goal, which is to complete her studies. HE does not want anything to distract her from her goal, and besides, she is still quite young to confine herself to just one person. The tension was building up, as any teen who is told of her restrictions tends to rebel.
It seems that HE does not like FE for YP for a number of reasons. First, FE barely has nothing to show in his career. After a botched partnership, he has yet to prove himself. With no connection to the industry, FE is just a struggling actor who must compete and prove his worthiness in the network. Second, FE’s parents are overseas and he might have just a different upbringing and views compared to YP. Third, given FE’s background, YP would not have a secured future with him. In other words, FE is not at all well-off nor even has a tenth of what YP’s family has. In addition, HE did not like the idea that the photos of FE and YP imply that they are already together.
Thus, HE told YP to delete all photos with FE in her social media account, as the photos are giving the wrong impression. HE wanted FE to do the same and moreover, YP should stay away from FE. Lucky for HE, YP was not the rebellious type and eventually followed his request or so he thought.
After the talk, HE thought everything was going to be fine. However, YP locked herself in her room and refused to eat for three days. HE felt a tug in his heart and softened up. YP got her way and she and FE spent quality time in an event after. As to whether FE and YP will get serious, their followers will have to wait and see.
‘Parents must not only have certain ways of guiding by prohibition and permission, they must also be able to represent to the child a deep, almost somatic conviction that there is meaning in what they are doing.’ - Erik Erikson
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Hay young love
Same guess. Ganon talaga, the best na lang talagang gawin is guidance sa mga teens.
DeleteAgree with the 3 reasons given by HE to YP. She can still meet decent and educated men with good upbringing in the future. Jusko! Sayang lang ang sheltered and alta upbringing niya if kay FE lang ang type niya.
DeleteFor someone exposed to decent men growing up, wonder why YP gives FE the time and effort. Sa totoo lang. Hindi bagay. Wala lahat sa guy, in fairness.
DeleteBut just cuz J is rich and educated it doesn’t mean she’s looking for guys who are similar to her status. M is a good looking guy and he’s very different from how she was brought up so maybe that’s what attracts her. I just hope she’s careful cuz M doesn’t strike me to be a sincere guy👀
DeleteHave you ever been genuinely smitten by someone because they can make you laugh, smile, feel butterflies in your stomach? Kasi kung na-experience mo yan, alam mo na ang sagot sa tanong mo 2:15
Delete2:14 2:15, money can't buy everything. HE din naman eh galing sa wala. Nagsumikap lang sya kaya naka angat at ilang babae din ginamit nya bago nya narating ang tagumpay. Kaya wag nyong husgahan agad si FE. Nagsusumikap din ang bata.
DeleteIguide lang nila dahil mga bata pa nga. Paglove, kahit sino at ano ka pa walang pinipili yan.
That's what usually happens because those who grew up rich doesn't really care about the status of a guy. Pang-golddigger lang thinking na 'yan. Anon 2:15
DeleteMy opinion lng.
DeleteYP kc is already rich.pag mayaman na, minsan yong iba naghahanap ng kasimplehan sa buhay, simpleng saya.
Bka nakita nya don kay FE,relax lang ba.
But in fairness nmn masaya family ni YP.
PERO tama yong payo ni HE kay YP,nagckap sa buhay c HE to where he is now.
syempre pag parent makikita agad nyan kung may hint b ng pagiging masikap c FE given pa na mgkaiba ng upbringing.
I hope YP will listen to the advise of HE.
Enjoy life but dont be so serious,studies muna YP.
The point is she is still young..Mag aral nga muna edi after nun saka sya magboyfriend..Saka nya lang marerealize na tama parents nya kapag tanda nya..I didnt regret obeying my parents when i was still studying and they gave me rules sa school and relationships..Syempre mejo tampo nung una pero nung nakagraduate ako and nagkawork saka ko nasabi na "ah kaya pala"..Sa experience ko lagi ko naiisip na our parents always mean well..After i graduated and nagwork na i became independent and wala na ko narinig sa kanila ang sabi lang they trust me and malaki na ko at natupad naman yung isa nilang rule..So for now kids habang nagaaral at nakasandal sa magulang hanggat sila ang nagppakain nagpapaaral at sunusuporta sa inyo matutong makinig at sumunod sa magulang..
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tulog na classmates
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Sayang si girl kung mapupunta kay boy tsk
DeleteSineseryoso mo naman agad..getting to know pa lang nga eh..masyafo pa maaga para husgahan!
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Yes! Same hula here! J, M, R. Event was P.
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Yay, getsung ko na agad sa 1st sentence pa lang!!
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Pero hala grabe YP locked herself in her room and refused to eat for three days. Mukhang tinamaan si baby girl..young love nga naman. Pero maiintindihan mo din si HE parents kase ehh. Lol.
Nawidang din ako dun baks
DeleteI’m surprised. I thought J was better than that! M doesn’t have anything in him.
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tama si HE. Studies muna unahin.
Eh gwapo talaga si M so siempre gusto ni J. Hindi naman niya hinahabol ang pera or fame. Pero too good talaga si J para kay M. Si M masyadong pa showbiz....
ReplyDeleteHindi pa showbiz si M..masayahin na bata kaya siguro nagustohan ni j besies that, he's guapo!
DeleteWow naman si HE. Parang hindi sya nagsimula na tulad ni FE. Sa kin, basta mabait at masipag ka, dapat binibigyan ng chance.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Kahit hindi naman mayaman, kung marespeto at masipag naman, okay na.
DeleteTrue but M looks like a user....there were so many other girls he claimed to “like” before😑
DeleteTama ka 2:24 AM. saan ba galing si HE? di na sa wala din
DeleteAgree ako sayo. This reflects on how poorly HE looks at other people na hindi nya kaestado sa buhay.
DeleteYP is still a minor. Other than that, HE knows more than anybody else how showbiz works. HE would know how willing struggling new actors are to do anything to get their own spot of limelight. Most of all, imagine the scandal if the unthinkable happens.
DeleteTrue and besides mabait naman si M like R galing din sya sa wala. Bata pa sila malay mo sumikat din si M na kasing sikat ni R. At yumaman din katulad nila. Bilog ang mundo.
Deletefor sure lahat ng kokontra kay HE ay wala pang anak..i dare you? wala pa kayong anak tama?
DeleteJ can do better!!!!
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ReplyDeletegets YP - J FE - M
ReplyDeleteJ. FE is M. Hindi talaga sila bagay ni J! Sana mauntog tong si J kasi sayang naman sya kung kay M lang din.
ReplyDeleteThey're too young to get serious..first puppy love yata ni girl si M, he's oozing w/ sex appeal and he's a down to earth
ReplyDeleteboy kaya nagustohan ni J!
Ngek d sya gwapo no. Oa ka naman
DeleteJ, nabasa ko marami ka pang pangarap kaya wag sayangin ang kabataan sa pagiging mapusok. I hope eventually she'll learn how to control herself & her emotions.
ReplyDeleteEro na nga ba kinatatakutan ni HE all this time yung magdalaga si yp dahil she has been sheltered all her life. Of course any parent would want the best for his child.di ba balita na baf attitude si FE kaya botched yung reel lt nya before.I don't like him for her oh my.saklap maging magulang. Bata pa si girl marami pang pwede ma meet at magawa sa buhay iha.
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Grabe naman si HE. Nagsimula rin naman siya sa wala. Understandable kasi magulang pero huwag nila sanang masyadong higpitan si YP. Di ba nga, kapag masyadong sinasakal, mas lalong nagpupumiglas. They can't keep her sheltered forever. Let her discover these things on her own, heartbreaks and all. Guide niyo lang pag talagang mali na.
It’s messed up for people to say they’re not “bagay” just because J comes from a wealthy family & M is a struggling actor. Tbh J hasn’t achieved anything significant in her life thus far either, she’s just lucky she was born into wealth. Right now they’re both just teenagers living life. They’re not thinking about their career, marriage, etc. they’re just looking to have fun! They’re young and in love, at least they believe they are. Many ppl go thru that stage and it would be wrong for her parents to stop that just cuz M isn’t rich.
ReplyDeleteKfbor kah? Sino mga yan besh :(
ReplyDeleteKapag tumibok ang puso, Wala ka ng magagawa kundi sundin eto.
ReplyDeleteBakit judgmental mga tao dito? Kilala ninyo b si M? D nga siya pa-showbiz kc tumiwalag siya sa ka-LT niya. Saka mayaman din ba si R dati???
ReplyDeleteGood luck sa magiging suitor ni j. Hindi basta basta malulusutan si r
ReplyDeleteKaF or KaH? Helppppp....
ReplyDeletethey are still young, they can enjoy the moment without being too serious.
ReplyDeleteJusmio bata p naman yang si J at M. Hindi pa mag-aasawa yan. Gets ko naman si R pero much better n iguide nlng nya ng maayos si J kesa pagbawalan. Tendency ksi nyan magrerebelde tlga. Kausapin nya lagi pti n rin si M. Lahat nmn tayo dumaan s gnyan eh. Ang importante sa gnyan ay wag pabayaan sila at suportahan nlng.
ReplyDeleteButi walang nagcomment ng X and K. Haha.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha! thank you napatawa mo ako :D
DeleteHahahaha natawa ako dito lol
DeleteYay! Hindi ako kulelat today.
ReplyDeleteGabay na lang talaga magagawa natin as parents. Pero infairnes kai M ha, lakas ng guts to pursue J. May common friends ba sila?
ReplyDeleteBantayan ng maigi yung bata. Wag hayaan na sila lang mag jowa kasi mahirap na sa oanahon ngayon.
ReplyDeleteshookt din akez after seeing J and M in photos together..eh knowing Js parents di ba na protective sa kanya.. masyado pang bata mga bebe uy.. iachieve nyo muna goals nyo.. crush2 lng muna wag muna seryosohin..
ReplyDeleteOh no classmates sino to sila?
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman mga comment dito.. Oo, struggling actor si M pero mabait ung bata at hindi pa-showbiz. Tingnan mo nga mga kaibigan nya pa rin ung kasama nya nung nagsisimula sya.
ReplyDeleteVery true!
DeleteMukhang kilala ko to ah hehe:
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The who mga beks? Clue naman
ReplyDeleteDi ko rin magets. Clue din please
ReplyDeleteIlan na ba nalink kay M? Sa show palang kung saan sya unang nakita ilan na ang nalink. Tapos may loveteam na naudlot. Tama naman ang advise ni R...
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