Anon 2:27. Dyan ako hanga kay ruffa. Kahit anong pamamahiya na sa kanya ng nanay nya. Iyak at tawa lang sya. But still she’s still sweet sa nanay nya. Mabait na anak si ruffa.
Anon 2:27, grabehan lang ha. Ang linis lang. Di lahat ng di sang ayon sa ina, pasaway. Minsan may mga tao na nanay nga, pero ganyan ka-lala mamahiya ng anak...
Maswerte ka siguro nabiyayaan ka ng nanay na matino, kaya makakaya mong sabihin na porket di agree, pasaway. Paano yung mga nanay na power tripping at namamahiya on purpose..? Whether you like it or not, may mga nanay na naglabas lang ng anak, pero di marunong magmahal ng anak...
My mother is like her kaya hindi nagestay ng matagal s bahay kung nd lng dahil sa Papa ko hindi na ko uuwi ng Pinas. She doesn’t shame me in public but ung magsisinungaling n may sakit un pala pinang HK, shopping ung pinadala ko then iniiwan Papang mag isa. Puro utang ako taga bayad pag tinanong mo sya png galit pati title ng lupa nmin pinagsangla kaya laging kming nagka clash.
Nagtaka ka ba Mother? But on a serious note..Moms should always be honored with all their sacrifices and efforts they done for us. The fact na binuhay nila tau is something that we should be thankful for. Kaya kahit anung samaan man ng loob meron tau let it go and always respect Moms. You are very lucky of having her around Janella..dont wait for for the time na dimo na kayang bawiin lahat. Tignan moko di man kami ganyan kalala mag away ng nanay ko yet ngayon wala na siya at naiisip ko diko na kayang ibalik lahat gusto ko na lng magbigti sa sa pagsisisi. I hope magkaayos kayo.
We should be Thankful dahil binuhay nila tayo? That's a general statement. Responsibilidad ng parents na buhayin ang anak. Just because they gave birth to you doesn't mean they own you. We don't know the extent of this mother-daughter rift, pero sana maaayos nila.
2:08 filipino mentality yang nasa utak mo..dapat mo malaman..our children didn't asked to be born..hindi nila ginusto na mabuhay sa mundong ito kaya tayong mga magulang it's our duty to nurture them w/ love and respect, to guide and teach them in every possible way while they're growing up and not expect anything in return! Gets mo?
Probably hindi ka pa nanay not to know how it takes to be a Mom..the fact lang binuhay siya ng nanay nia even it their family is not whole dapat na magpasalamat. Pero di kita konkontrahin anon 2:08 kung dka thankful sa nanay mo sa pagluwal sayo.
6:04 Mahirap maging magulang. Pero mahirap din mahing anak. Expected ka na dpat lagi ka lang thankful kasi binuhay ka. Pero pano nga kung di mo naman ginustong mabuhay at puro pasakit lang binibigay sayo ng mismong magulang mo. Mema lang
BINUHAY?!!! Ummm... for many people... the easiest thing to do is have a kid. You just do the deed and BAM you have a kid!!! The most difficult action... being a good and selfless mom.
Yung nanay talaga ni Janella hihila sa kanya pababa. Pwede namang hindi na lang sagutin yung sinabi para di na malamang hindi sya binati pero sumagot pa din. Papansin much madir. Oo nga siguro baka nga maldita anak mo, pero nanay ka protect her and her image kahit ano pa man ang mangyari. Eh pero syempre famewh*r* ka kaya ka ganyan, sasagot din. Tsk tsk. Respect is earned, hindi binibigay by default lalo na if you did something. Di porket ikaw ang magulang default respect for you. Tsss!
Grabe kabastos naman talaga ni janella no wonder jinx at palaging flop sya sa lahat ng ginagawa nya it reflects on her attitude. Feeling sikat eh starlet naman. #realtalk
Te kung bastos ang anak it reflects kung paano pinalaki ng magulang and/or kung ano ang nakikita ng bata sa magulang o matatandang nasa paligid nya. Yung nanay putak ng putak, daig pa nagtitinda sa palengke... Ang ingay! Kung minamalas man si Janella, kagagawan ng nanay nyang papansin. Nanay nya humihila sa kanya pababa.
For Janella’s sanity, she avoids this toxicity. She may have greeted her mom in her heart; we just don’t know, however, I do know this type of public shaming rarely works.
Tuwing merong article about kay janella parang laging merong ganitong comment. Halatang galing sa isang tao. Puro "flop, jinx at #realtalk" tas pag sinagot mo sobrang pikon HAHAHAHA
1:26 teh di kumo napapansin ko comment mo “tard” agad. Di ako fan ni Janella pero minsan naman aral ka para meron kang alam na new words. At until now, di mo pa rin alam meaning ng “delusional” Wag ganyan utak. Babaw mo.
Di mo kailangan maging fan nung artista para “ipagtanggol” sila. Minsan lang talaga, OA at wala sa lugar ang basher. Alamin mo ibig sabihin ng delusyonal. 😜
Janine is so vindictive. She says and does things that will surely make her kid hate her. Ilang beses ba dapat ipahiya ang anak in public?! Sya ang sumisira sa future ng anak nya and this will definitely lead to a trauma one way or another. Parents would normally try to understand or better yet try to be better a better parent. When u say you’ve done enough that means you still have not!
Even if it were true, she didn’t have to reply to this commenter. This mom just couldn’t seem to pass up an opportunity to put her daughter in a bad light. And that pretty much explains why she didn’t get a greeting.
Dear, after all you’ve said and done, you still expect her to greet you. Ene be yen? Grow up and act like a real mother. Stop ranting in social media. Talk to your daughter personally and do not humiliate her and yourself in public. Tsk tsk
There’s 3 sides of story. Janine’s story, Janella’s story and the real story. We don’t really know what happened to them. Pwedeng sobrang nasaktan lang si mommy sa pagbabago na ginawa ni Janella. Pwede din na nasaktan si Janella sa ginagawa ng mommy nya na pagpapahiya sa kanya publicly. So, pareho silang may mali. And hindi maaayos if pareho silang magmamatigas.
Hindi kami close ng mommy ko. I grew up questioning her parenting style when I was still teenager. She always humiliate me, never trusted me and always bad mouthing about me sa mga friends nya. May mga mali din ako pero ang pinaka di ko matanggap is yung pinapahiya ako. Now that I am a mother as well, sinabi ko sa sarili ko na I will never do that to my kids. Once in a while lang kami magkita ng mom ko, and still don’t feel comfortable around her. Pero nasa puso ko pa din na sana hindi kami nagkaganito. I still question myself how did we end up like this. Super sad. #justsharing
12:48 i feel you. I'm in the same situation pero with my dad. Never kame naging close. He always find faults, sees the negative in everything and everyone except for himself. Minsan iniisip ko na nakakalungkot na darating yung araw na mawawala sya dito sa mundo na ganto lang relationship namen. Worst is magkakasama pa rin kame sa bahay kahit may family na din ako. Gustuhin man bumukod but i can't leave my mom with that kind of man. Ang toxic lang.
2:19 same situation. Hindi ko alam pano kinakaya ng mama ko to live with that kind of man. She's the best and she deserves someone much better than my father
2:19 same. Wala pa akong sariling family and I still live with my parents. Ganyan din ang dad ko. I badly want to move out pero di pa kaya ng budget ko. Ngayon I just choose to stay silent pag sumasama loob ko or may gagawin siyang di mayanda, kasi pagod na ko magresist at ayoko na ng dagdag stress. Di rin naman siya magbabago sa pakikitungo at pagtingin niya sakin. I can't speak for Janella but I think I understand why deadma nalang siya.
Hugs to you all. Been there, and I left the country when I could without the parents' knowledge. Things got somewhat better once I was apart from them, and I hope the same for you all. 2:19 and 10:27, do your best to plan and save, to have your own own home. You deserve the peace, quiet, and calm nerves.
12:48- and everyone else here who has had one (or both) toxic parents-always remember YOU own your RIGHT to love and respect. Don't be too hard on yourself- no one is perfect- neither our parents, nor us- but we can only control ourselves. Build your self up, give yourself the chance to be angry and be sad, but don't hold on too long to those feelings. You can still make a good life ahead of you with the kind of love and affection you need and deserve.
nobody really knows. My guess is Janella is rebelling and doing what she wants with Elmo and the mom doesn't approve. In a way I get both sides, but at the same time I see Janella's immaturity just by her actions. The mom def needs to stop lashing out on socmed, but it also doesn't look good that Janella is that way. She thinks she's taking the high road by keeping quiet, but being prideful is also not a good trait to have.
I don't like what this mom is doing to her kid na lahat sinosocial media pero kahit ano pang sama ng loob ni Janella sa nanay niya, kahit simpleng pagbati lang sana ginawa niya. Replyan siya o hindi, tarayan man siya or what, at least walang bigat sa loob. Who knows siya lang din inaantay ng nanay niya gumawa ng move para magkaayos sila. I may not know what exactly happened but a mom will always be a mom. One day pag mas nagmature siya manghihinayang siya sa nasayang na panahon. Hindi forever nandyan ang magulang. Kaya din hirap pumick up ang career. Mabigat sa buhay may sama ng loob sa magulang. Best example is Julia B and Dennis Padilla before, Paras brothers and their mom. Mas magaan tuparin dreams mo pag magaan puso mo.
This is true. Don't go into it with any expectations. Just as long Janella put her effort into making ammends or simply greeting her mom, that should be enough. Unfortunately, she's still young and at a rebellious stage when she thinks she can deal with everything on her own. It's not healthy to carry around all that anger and resentment no matter what happened.
Sige lang Janella magmatigas ka, wag ka sana magsisi pag dumating time na wala na ang Mommy mo..kahit gano pa kahirap maging anak ng nanay mo, at the end of the day nanay mo parin yan at ang ikabubuti mo parin ang hangad nya.
I can only sigh sa nabasa ko dahil ako ay isang ina at isang anak but my mom is long gone. My mom and I had differences but when I became a mom I understood and embraced her uber uber protectiveness and sometimes her biases and prejudices over my friends and towards some of my decisions. We don't know what started the ill feelings between Jenine and Janella but I do hope that they will be able to one day settle it. Sana good friends will intervene and suggest professional counselling for these two. Perhaps a spiritual counselling. Sana kung ano man yung ayaw nila sa isa't isa ay masettle at mabridge na ang gap.
Okay lang maging overprotective, instinctual yun at naka embed ata sa DNA. Pero you din't have to stay by someone's side pag abusive na just for the sake of "mother and child" bonding. That's not how a healthy relstionship works. No one cares if you are a model mother or a model child, ang importante ay you love and care for each other.
It's wrong for her mom to continually lambast her own daughter in socmed, but at the same time it's also not right for Jae to not send even a simple greeting to her mom. Personally, I don't have a close relationship with my mom for all the hurtful things she has done to me and my Ate, but I always took the high road and greeted her for holidays and bdays. At least I put aside my pride and made the effort. Jae no matter how hurt she is should've put that extra effort to reach out. No expectations. Just reach out. Life and time is not guaranteed. I think the problem here is that their personalities are so similar to the point they always clash and both have too much pride to admit their faults.
I’m sorry but I did not greet my mother too. Mahirap kse ipilit. Like mother ko na lagi ako abused emotionally. parang gusto mo tahimik na lang ang buhay mo.
Relate ako @2:50. I don't feel the need to. Palaging nega kase lumalabas sa bibig ng mother ko. Maybe I am not a model kid pero I will never do the things she did to me to my own child.
I agree. Glad im not the only one. My mom and i went out last saturday as an advanced celebration pero nagsisi lang ako. We ended up not speaking to each other at all kasi sa mga sinasabi niya.
In this thread we have a lot in common. Our mothers are narcissists. They want us to excel so they can bask in the glory and take credit BUT don’t we dare outshine them or there is hell to pay. I empathize with Janella whose bitter mother is making her pay for her Dad’s faults.
Same with my mother dear.She thinks im the extention of her dream she wants me to be a lawyer like her, e hindi nga ako palaaway and im not outspoken para maging lawyer akala nya i took education and married a guy fr the wrong side of a track feeling nya i just wanted to rebel against her kaya 3 yrs na kaming nd nagkikita.
2:50 I hear yeah baks.. I love my Mother at wala kaming issues. Pero naiintindihan ko yung ibang may situations na katulad ng sayo.. Hindi lahat ng Ina mabubuting ina. lucky lang ako na wala akong problemang ganyan.
i am a strict and disciplinarian single mum, and I am glad that my daughter and I have a harmonious relationship. She is my travel, buffet and shopping buddy.
Haha nkktawa ang peperpekto ng mga tao dto..ang ina ay ina ibat ibat tayo ng pagpapalaki pero mas lumalaking desenteng anak ang may mga magulang n strikto..may bad influence kzng kasama kya gumanyan yan c jea..
...mas madami akong alam na instances na nagrerebelde ang anak kapag controlling ang magulang. Okay lang maging strict basta within reason at depende sa sitwasyon ang basis ng discipline. May strict oarents aksi pero emotionally eh unavailable naman, puro rules pero walang time oara mak8pag bonding sa anak. Mga teens naman matatalino, iexplain ng maayos. At kaoag na explain mo na at napaunawa mo, pero the kid still made a bad decision, it's his/her mistake to make and learn from it. We just have to be supportive kesa iwan natin sa mundo na nagssuffer anak natin
Wow naman ang ugali ng iba dito. Hindi naman siguro ganun kasama si Jenine. And kahit siguro masama man siya, bilang anak ano ba naman yung greetings man lang sa mother mo na nagpakahirap sa iyo. Consedering mag-isa niyag binuhay si Janella, dapat man lang naisip yan ni Janella.
Hindi utang na loob ni Janella na buhayin siya ng nanay niya. Responsibilidad yun ng nanay niya. Kung may masamang ginagawa si Janella, settle it privately at hindi ung pinaglalandakan sa social media. Ang daming way para ma-contact ang isang tao. Kung ayaw talaga ng anak mo kausapin ka, eh just convey to her na pag ready na siya, anjan ka lang para makinig at makipag ayos sa kaniya, hindi ung tinatadtad mo ng parinug sa social media.
Duh hello Ms Jenine, I don't blame your daughter for not greeting you. Respect begets respect. Why she should respect you when you never gave her the respect she so deserve? DUH!!!
What do you expect eh pinapahiya mo. Tapos pag matanda't may sakit ka na you expect your daughter to take care of you? When you don't even have an ounce of care for your daughter's feelings?
True. Di kausapin yung anak nya ng maayos oara maintindihan kung ano man gusto nya. Kung di sya pakinggap manahimik na lang sya at hintayin nya marerealize din ng anak nya. E dada pa ng dada.
Nasosobrahan kasi ng panonood ng maalaala mo kaya mga pinoy. Learn to cut off toxic people in your life, and you can forgive them but not take them back in your life like nothing happened and you experience invalidated. Susmio.
I was raised by a born again mother. The same pair of hands that she uses to clap to praise and worship songs are the same hands that slap me and my siblings really hard and mauled us to her heart’s content. When I was 22, the unforgettable thing happened. For some reason, she got really mad and beat me up, her 180+ pound body sat on my back as I was pinned down on the floor with both my hands behind me interlocked by her left hand while her right hand was pulling my hair and punching me alternately. I passed out for a few minutes. I woke up to the voice of my aunt, her older sister, calling out my name and scolding my mother. “Mapapatay mo yan anak mo, (name of my mother)! Ano na ba nangyayari sayo?!
Two years after, I got married. I left that house immediately after. I was 24.
I am now 35. I havent greeted her for eleven years already. In all honesty, my life has been extremely peaceful WITHOUT her than when she’s around.
I am glad to know that I am not alone. I wish i was born into a different family instead.
Pero as a mother, dapat pinrotektahan niya pa rin ang anak niya. Hindi yang pinapahiya pa niya sa social media. Kaya nga may kasabihan na ang anak kayang tikisin ang magulang pero ang magulang hindi kayang tikisin ang anak. Mama ko nga kahit anong sinasabi ng kapatid ko tungkol sa kanya sa ibang tao at nalalaman niya hindi siya nagcocomment kasi pinoprotektahan pa rin niya. Ganun ang magulang.
Like mother like daughter, Kung anong puno ang syang bunga.plastikada ang ina mas plastikada ang anak, jinx ang nanay mas jinx ang anak. flop ang nanay mas flop ang anak.
i do think that God gave wisdom to our parents on how to guide their kids. God is sovereign and He chose that parent for each one of us. parents want only the best spouse for us because they love us,and because that choice would make our life happy or miserable for the rest of our lives. also,all people including parents and kids have imperfections, but in the end, i think janella should obey her mom.
I don't have a perfect mother but I'm glad my mother is not her.
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DeleteKahit naman ako..di rin kita i greet
Deletetrue. bat mo kailangan pahiyain anak mo in public kahit siya ang mali? it is not making her a better person
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DeleteSana tumigil na siya. Maawa sa anak niya.
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DeleteTingnan niyo nga si Annabelle Rama napakabastos ke Ruffa, pero masasabi nyo bang masama shang ina? Mga pasaway siguro kayo kaya nyo nasasabi yan
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Anon 2:27. Dyan ako hanga kay ruffa. Kahit anong pamamahiya na sa kanya ng nanay nya. Iyak at tawa lang sya. But still she’s still sweet sa nanay nya. Mabait na anak si ruffa.
DeleteAnon 2:27, grabehan lang ha. Ang linis lang. Di lahat ng di sang ayon sa ina, pasaway. Minsan may mga tao na nanay nga, pero ganyan ka-lala mamahiya ng anak...
DeleteMaswerte ka siguro nabiyayaan ka ng nanay na matino, kaya makakaya mong sabihin na porket di agree, pasaway. Paano yung mga nanay na power tripping at namamahiya on purpose..? Whether you like it or not, may mga nanay na naglabas lang ng anak, pero di marunong magmahal ng anak...
My mother is like her kaya hindi nagestay ng matagal s bahay kung nd lng dahil sa Papa ko hindi na ko uuwi ng Pinas. She doesn’t shame me in public but ung magsisinungaling n may sakit un pala pinang HK, shopping ung pinadala ko then iniiwan Papang mag isa. Puro utang ako taga bayad pag tinanong mo sya png galit pati title ng lupa nmin pinagsangla kaya laging kming nagka clash.
DeleteJanine,OK lang yan baka sa Pasko batiin ka na. LOL
DeleteJanine, for your own peace of mind. Kahit hindi mo ako anak, ako na lang babati sa yo. Belated HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
ReplyDeleteHindi dw counted beks. Loool!
DeleteHmmm so ano ineexpect nya?
ReplyDeletePutak ka kasi ng putak. May mga anak na kahit gaano kabait napupuno rin. Maawa ka sa sarili mo at sa anak mo. Ikaw ang sumisira sa pamilya mo.
ReplyDeleteNagtaka ka ba Mother? But on a serious note..Moms should always be honored with all their sacrifices and efforts they done for us. The fact na binuhay nila tau is something that we should be thankful for. Kaya kahit anung samaan man ng loob meron tau let it go and always respect Moms. You are very lucky of having her around Janella..dont wait for for the time na dimo na kayang bawiin lahat. Tignan moko di man kami ganyan kalala mag away ng nanay ko yet ngayon wala na siya at naiisip ko diko na kayang ibalik lahat gusto ko na lng magbigti sa sa pagsisisi. I hope magkaayos kayo.
ReplyDeleteHINDI NAMAN LAHAT NG MAY NANAY E KAILANGAN THANKFUL AT LAGI SILANG SUMUSUNOD SA MGA NANAY. PANO KUNG ABUSIVE ANG MOTHER MO OR VIOLENT, DI BA?
DeleteWe should be Thankful dahil binuhay nila tayo? That's a general statement. Responsibilidad ng parents na buhayin ang anak. Just because they gave birth to you doesn't mean they own you. We don't know the extent of this mother-daughter rift, pero sana maaayos nila.
Delete2:08 filipino mentality yang nasa utak mo..dapat mo malaman..our children didn't asked to be born..hindi nila ginusto na mabuhay sa mundong ito kaya tayong mga magulang it's our duty to nurture them w/ love and respect, to guide and teach them in every possible way while they're growing up and not expect anything in return! Gets mo?
DeleteProbably hindi ka pa nanay not to know how it takes to be a Mom..the fact lang binuhay siya ng nanay nia even it their family is not whole dapat na magpasalamat. Pero di kita konkontrahin anon 2:08 kung dka thankful sa nanay mo sa pagluwal sayo.
DeleteI wonder. Anong masasagot nyo sa isang taong depress na magsasabing, "sinong may sabi na buhayin nyo ko? Pinahirapan nyo Lang ako?"
Deleteagree 2:08 hindi pinili ng anak na mabuo. responsibilidad ng nanay at tatay ang buhay ang anak. that is nt enough to be grateful for.
DeleteParang same lang kayo ng sentiments ni 2:08, 3:56.
Delete7:41- pansin ko din...Di ata nagets ni 3:56 si 2:08
Delete6:04 Mahirap maging magulang. Pero mahirap din mahing anak. Expected ka na dpat lagi ka lang thankful kasi binuhay ka. Pero pano nga kung di mo naman ginustong mabuhay at puro pasakit lang binibigay sayo ng mismong magulang mo. Mema lang
DeleteBINUHAY?!!! Ummm... for many people... the easiest thing to do is have a kid. You just do the deed and BAM you have a kid!!! The most difficult action... being a good and selfless mom.
DeleteMay mga nanay talagang abusive kaya mas pinili ko asawa ko kesa sakanya.
Delete11:49 on point!
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ReplyDeleteMga bata pa naman ngayon lalong nagrerebelde pag ginaganyan.
ReplyDeleteTumpak! Lagi niyang pinapahiya yung anak niya. Ayan tuloy.... san maayos na nila at sana wag na rin masyado ipinapahiya ni mader ang junakis niya.
DeleteDati nang ganyan ang mga bata. Its not a generation thing.
DeleteYung nanay talaga ni Janella hihila sa kanya pababa. Pwede namang hindi na lang sagutin yung sinabi para di na malamang hindi sya binati pero sumagot pa din. Papansin much madir. Oo nga siguro baka nga maldita anak mo, pero nanay ka protect her and her image kahit ano pa man ang mangyari. Eh pero syempre famewh*r* ka kaya ka ganyan, sasagot din. Tsk tsk. Respect is earned, hindi binibigay by default lalo na if you did something. Di porket ikaw ang magulang default respect for you. Tsss!
ReplyDeleteBagay lang sa kanya yan natitikis niya din naman anak niya
ReplyDeleteDi niya rin naman ata binati nung birthday si Janella. Mag-ina nga sila....
DeleteDelinquent mother! Disgusting! I feel for janella.
DeleteGrabe kabastos naman talaga ni janella no wonder jinx at palaging flop sya sa lahat ng ginagawa nya it reflects on her attitude. Feeling sikat eh starlet naman. #realtalk
ReplyDeleteTe kung bastos ang anak it reflects kung paano pinalaki ng magulang and/or kung ano ang nakikita ng bata sa magulang o matatandang nasa paligid nya. Yung nanay putak ng putak, daig pa nagtitinda sa palengke... Ang ingay! Kung minamalas man si Janella, kagagawan ng nanay nyang papansin. Nanay nya humihila sa kanya pababa.
DeleteFor Janella’s sanity, she avoids this toxicity. She may have greeted her mom in her heart; we just don’t know, however, I do know this type of public shaming rarely works.
DeleteAndami mong nasabi.
DeleteTuwing merong article about kay janella parang laging merong ganitong comment. Halatang galing sa isang tao. Puro "flop, jinx at #realtalk" tas pag sinagot mo sobrang pikon HAHAHAHA
Delete12:59 bakit naman mapipikon eh totoo lang naman ang sinabi ko teh😊 Ikaw halatang delusional fantard ng idol mong saksakan ng flop 😆
Delete1:26 teh di kumo napapansin ko comment mo “tard” agad. Di ako fan ni Janella pero minsan naman aral ka para meron kang alam na new words. At until now, di mo pa rin alam meaning ng “delusional” Wag ganyan utak. Babaw mo.
DeleteDi mo kailangan maging fan nung artista para “ipagtanggol” sila. Minsan lang talaga, OA at wala sa lugar ang basher. Alamin mo ibig sabihin ng delusyonal. 😜
DeleteSome people are just too toxic to be in your life. This mom obviously is.
DeleteMas may class pa yung anak nya kesa sakanya. Silence is the best revenge
ReplyDeleteJanine is so vindictive. She says and does things that will surely make her kid hate her. Ilang beses ba dapat ipahiya ang anak in public?! Sya ang sumisira sa future ng anak nya and this will definitely lead to a trauma one way or another. Parents would normally try to understand or better yet try to be better a better parent. When u say you’ve done enough that means you still have not!
ReplyDeleteEven if it were true, she didn’t have to reply to this commenter. This mom just couldn’t seem to pass up an opportunity to put her daughter in a bad light. And that pretty much explains why she didn’t get a greeting.
ReplyDeleteTHIS^ the woman is out to get her child. She glories in her daughter’s misery.
DeleteWho in the world would ask her? sya din ung nag asked. She just put a pic and fake acct para mapahiya lang anak.
DeleteDear, after all you’ve said and done, you still expect her to greet you. Ene be yen? Grow up and act like a real mother. Stop ranting in social media. Talk to your daughter personally and do not humiliate her and yourself in public. Tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteHaller, ikaw kaya ang rason kaya deadma ka sa anak mo. Ang ayus ng karera ng anak pero nasisira dahil sa kanegahan ng ina sa socmed.
ReplyDeleteThere’s 3 sides of story. Janine’s story, Janella’s story and the real story. We don’t really know what happened to them. Pwedeng sobrang nasaktan lang si mommy sa pagbabago na ginawa ni Janella. Pwede din na nasaktan si Janella sa ginagawa ng mommy nya na pagpapahiya sa kanya publicly. So, pareho silang may mali. And hindi maaayos if pareho silang magmamatigas.
ReplyDeleteHindi kami close ng mommy ko. I grew up questioning her parenting style when I was still teenager. She always humiliate me, never trusted me and always bad mouthing about me sa mga friends nya.
May mga mali din ako pero ang pinaka di ko matanggap is yung pinapahiya ako. Now that I am a mother as well, sinabi ko sa sarili ko na I will never do that to my kids. Once in a while lang kami magkita ng mom ko, and still don’t feel comfortable around her. Pero nasa puso ko pa din na sana hindi kami nagkaganito. I still question myself how did we end up like this. Super sad. #justsharing
12:48 i feel you. I'm in the same situation pero with my dad. Never kame naging close. He always find faults, sees the negative in everything and everyone except for himself. Minsan iniisip ko na nakakalungkot na darating yung araw na mawawala sya dito sa mundo na ganto lang relationship namen. Worst is magkakasama pa rin kame sa bahay kahit may family na din ako. Gustuhin man bumukod but i can't leave my mom with that kind of man. Ang toxic lang.
Delete2:19 same situation. Hindi ko alam pano kinakaya ng mama ko to live with that kind of man. She's the best and she deserves someone much better than my father
Delete2:19 I understand ur situation. 'hope things get better.
DeleteI feel you. Hindi ako close sa nanay ko. She’s so controlling. Ang hirap i-explain.
Delete2:19 same. Wala pa akong sariling family and I still live with my parents. Ganyan din ang dad ko. I badly want to move out pero di pa kaya ng budget ko. Ngayon I just choose to stay silent pag sumasama loob ko or may gagawin siyang di mayanda, kasi pagod na ko magresist at ayoko na ng dagdag stress. Di rin naman siya magbabago sa pakikitungo at pagtingin niya sakin. I can't speak for Janella but I think I understand why deadma nalang siya.
DeleteHugs to you all. Been there, and I left the country when I could without the parents' knowledge. Things got somewhat better once I was apart from them, and I hope the same for you all. 2:19 and 10:27, do your best to plan and save, to have your own own home. You deserve the peace, quiet, and calm nerves.
Delete12:48- and everyone else here who has had one (or both) toxic parents-always remember YOU own your RIGHT to love and respect. Don't be too hard on yourself- no one is perfect- neither our parents, nor us- but we can only control ourselves. Build your self up, give yourself the chance to be angry and be sad, but don't hold on too long to those feelings. You can still make a good life ahead of you with the kind of love and affection you need and deserve.
DeleteAnu ba pinag awayan nila ?
ReplyDeletenobody really knows. My guess is Janella is rebelling and doing what she wants with Elmo and the mom doesn't approve. In a way I get both sides, but at the same time I see Janella's immaturity just by her actions. The mom def needs to stop lashing out on socmed, but it also doesn't look good that Janella is that way. She thinks she's taking the high road by keeping quiet, but being prideful is also not a good trait to have.
DeleteI don't like what this mom is doing to her kid na lahat sinosocial media pero kahit ano pang sama ng loob ni Janella sa nanay niya, kahit simpleng pagbati lang sana ginawa niya. Replyan siya o hindi, tarayan man siya or what, at least walang bigat sa loob. Who knows siya lang din inaantay ng nanay niya gumawa ng move para magkaayos sila. I may not know what exactly happened but a mom will always be a mom. One day pag mas nagmature siya manghihinayang siya sa nasayang na panahon. Hindi forever nandyan ang magulang. Kaya din hirap pumick up ang career. Mabigat sa buhay may sama ng loob sa magulang. Best example is Julia B and Dennis Padilla before, Paras brothers and their mom. Mas magaan tuparin dreams mo pag magaan puso mo.
ReplyDeleteThis is true. Don't go into it with any expectations. Just as long Janella put her effort into making ammends or simply greeting her mom, that should be enough. Unfortunately, she's still young and at a rebellious stage when she thinks she can deal with everything on her own. It's not healthy to carry around all that anger and resentment no matter what happened.
DeleteCant force the kid to do it if shes uncomfortable.
DeleteEveryone here is judging but... How do we even know if she’s telling the truth? What if Janella greeted her, and she’s just claiming she did not?
DeleteSige lang Janella magmatigas ka, wag ka sana magsisi pag dumating time na wala na ang Mommy mo..kahit gano pa kahirap maging anak ng nanay mo, at the end of the day nanay mo parin yan at ang ikabubuti mo parin ang hangad nya.
ReplyDeleteBaka kasi if binati ka nya magtatago ka sa kwarto tapos mag post ka sa social media na hindi welcome ang greetings nya.
ReplyDeleteI can only sigh sa nabasa ko dahil ako ay isang ina at isang anak but my mom is long gone. My mom and I had differences but when I became a mom I understood and embraced her uber uber protectiveness and sometimes her biases and prejudices over my friends and towards some of my decisions. We don't know what started the ill feelings between Jenine and Janella but I do hope that they will be able to one day settle it. Sana good friends will intervene and suggest professional counselling for these two. Perhaps a spiritual counselling. Sana kung ano man yung ayaw nila sa isa't isa ay masettle at mabridge na ang gap.
ReplyDeleteOkay lang maging overprotective, instinctual yun at naka embed ata sa DNA. Pero you din't have to stay by someone's side pag abusive na just for the sake of "mother and child" bonding. That's not how a healthy relstionship works. No one cares if you are a model mother or a model child, ang importante ay you love and care for each other.
DeleteIt's wrong for her mom to continually lambast her own daughter in socmed, but at the same time it's also not right for Jae to not send even a simple greeting to her mom. Personally, I don't have a close relationship with my mom for all the hurtful things she has done to me and my Ate, but I always took the high road and greeted her for holidays and bdays. At least I put aside my pride and made the effort. Jae no matter how hurt she is should've put that extra effort to reach out. No expectations. Just reach out. Life and time is not guaranteed. I think the problem here is that their personalities are so similar to the point they always clash and both have too much pride to admit their faults.
ReplyDeleteHer mom is annoying .
ReplyDeleteAnd so as her daughter.
DeleteMother sabihin mo na rin kung anong kinakagalit sayo nung anak mo para naman alam namin kung anong mga hugot mo at para ipahiya mo ng ganyan anak mo
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry but I did not greet my mother too. Mahirap kse ipilit. Like mother ko na lagi ako abused
ReplyDeleteemotionally. parang gusto mo tahimik na lang ang buhay mo.
Madali kasing magsabi sa iba dito dahil wala sila situation ni Janella hindi nila alam yung pinagdadaanan ng bata
DeleteRelate ako @2:50. I don't feel the need to. Palaging nega kase lumalabas sa bibig ng mother ko. Maybe I am not a model kid pero I will never do the things she did to me to my own child.
DeleteI agree. Glad im not the only one. My mom and i went out last saturday as an advanced celebration pero nagsisi lang ako. We ended up not speaking to each other at all kasi sa mga sinasabi niya.
DeleteIn this thread we have a lot in common. Our mothers are narcissists. They want us to excel so they can bask in the glory and take credit BUT don’t we dare outshine them or there is hell to pay. I empathize with Janella whose bitter mother is making her pay for her Dad’s faults.
DeleteSame with my mother dear.She thinks im the extention of her dream she wants me to be a lawyer like her, e hindi nga ako palaaway and im not outspoken para maging lawyer akala nya i took education and married a guy fr the wrong side of a track feeling nya i just wanted to rebel against her kaya 3 yrs na kaming nd nagkikita.
Deletenegatron ang nanay na ito. Sana mag muni muni, reflect on what kind of person she is.
ReplyDeleteMay nanay na ayaw na nasasapawan. Totoo yan.
ReplyDeleteTroooot. Tapos ipapahiya ka sa harap ng tao, ililista mga faults mo publicly 7nder the guise na super concerned mom
DeleteI feel like the mom is emotionally abusive to her daughter. Everytime hindi nasusunod gusto niya, she lashes out and hurt her daughter in return.
ReplyDeleteTama. There's a lot of moms like that. They act like brats when they don't get their way. It's always about them and what they want!
Delete2:50 I hear yeah baks.. I love my Mother at wala kaming issues. Pero naiintindihan ko yung ibang may situations na katulad ng sayo.. Hindi lahat ng Ina mabubuting ina. lucky lang ako na wala akong problemang ganyan.
ReplyDeleteMay pinagmanahan rin kasi si Janella, so pareho lang sila.
ReplyDeleteVictim shaming yang ginagawa mo. Janella is victimized by her irrational mom. I hope she won’t use the brother to manipulate Janella
Deletei am a strict and disciplinarian single mum, and I am glad that my daughter and I have a harmonious relationship. She is my travel, buffet and shopping buddy.
ReplyDeleteHaha nkktawa ang peperpekto ng mga tao dto..ang ina ay ina ibat ibat tayo ng pagpapalaki pero mas lumalaking desenteng anak ang may mga magulang n strikto..may bad influence kzng kasama kya gumanyan yan c jea..
ReplyDeleteBad influence agad2x wag ganyan!
Delete...mas madami akong alam na instances na nagrerebelde ang anak kapag controlling ang magulang. Okay lang maging strict basta within reason at depende sa sitwasyon ang basis ng discipline. May strict oarents aksi pero emotionally eh unavailable naman, puro rules pero walang time oara mak8pag bonding sa anak. Mga teens naman matatalino, iexplain ng maayos. At kaoag na explain mo na at napaunawa mo, pero the kid still made a bad decision, it's his/her mistake to make and learn from it. We just have to be supportive kesa iwan natin sa mundo na nagssuffer anak natin
DeleteWow naman ang ugali ng iba dito.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman siguro ganun kasama si Jenine.
And kahit siguro masama man siya, bilang anak ano ba naman yung greetings man lang sa mother mo na nagpakahirap sa iyo.
Consedering mag-isa niyag binuhay si Janella, dapat man lang naisip yan ni Janella.
When you are blocked in someone’s phone your messages and calls cannot go thru.
DeleteHindi utang na loob ni Janella na buhayin siya ng nanay niya. Responsibilidad yun ng nanay niya. Kung may masamang ginagawa si Janella, settle it privately at hindi ung pinaglalandakan sa social media. Ang daming way para ma-contact ang isang tao. Kung ayaw talaga ng anak mo kausapin ka, eh just convey to her na pag ready na siya, anjan ka lang para makinig at makipag ayos sa kaniya, hindi ung tinatadtad mo ng parinug sa social media.
DeleteJanella's past tweets nung di pa siya artista proves that she's verbally abused by her mom.
ReplyDeleteSadly meron tlgang mother na ganyan, yun kayang ipahiya at i put down ang anak para itaas ang sarili.
ReplyDeleteDuh hello Ms Jenine, I don't blame your daughter for not greeting you. Respect begets respect. Why she should respect you when you never gave her the respect she so deserve? DUH!!!
ReplyDeleteDUH alam mo personal na nagyayari sa kanila o baka naman faney ka lang na feeling kilala personal idols nila
DeleteDuh! Kung ikaw ba naman nanay mo sisiraan ka publicly impis na personal ka kausapin. Duh 4:15
Deleteif she greeted her for sure sasabihin lang rin nyang,"plastic"
ReplyDeleteSana umoo Na lang siya kahit Hindi baka makonsensiya pa Yong anak niya.
ReplyDeletePuwede ding wag pansinin yung comment. Or mag thank you sa mother's day greetings nung nag comment.
DeleteWhat do you expect eh pinapahiya mo. Tapos pag matanda't may sakit ka na you expect your daughter to take care of you? When you don't even have an ounce of care for your daughter's feelings?
ReplyDeleteTrue. Di kausapin yung anak nya ng maayos oara maintindihan kung ano man gusto nya. Kung di sya pakinggap manahimik na lang sya at hintayin nya marerealize din ng anak nya. E dada pa ng dada.
DeleteNasosobrahan kasi ng panonood ng maalaala mo kaya mga pinoy. Learn to cut off toxic people in your life, and you can forgive them but not take them back in your life like nothing happened and you experience invalidated. Susmio.
DeleteI was raised by a born again mother. The same pair of hands that she uses to clap to praise and worship songs are the same hands that slap me and my siblings really hard and mauled us to her heart’s content. When I was 22, the unforgettable thing happened. For some reason, she got really mad and beat me up, her 180+ pound body sat on my back as I was pinned down on the floor with both my hands behind me interlocked by her left hand while her right hand was pulling my hair and punching me alternately. I passed out for a few minutes. I woke up to the voice of my aunt, her older sister, calling out my name and scolding my mother. “Mapapatay mo yan anak mo, (name of my mother)! Ano na ba nangyayari sayo?!
ReplyDeleteTwo years after, I got married. I left that house immediately after. I was 24.
I am now 35. I havent greeted her for eleven years already. In all honesty, my life has been extremely peaceful WITHOUT her than when she’s around.
I am glad to know that I am not alone. I wish i was born into a different family instead.
Medyo iba tayo story pero pareha tayo wish. Sana nakakapili tayo ng pamilya lalo magulang.
DeleteYou are not alone, and you are right to cut off toxic and abusive people in your life kahit nanay mo pa iyon.
DeleteEh hinde naman kase sya nanay umasta. Sa Bashers’ Day baka batiin sya ng anak ny.
ReplyDeleteBinati siya ni KC noong mother's Day. Nasa IG niya.
DeleteAy wrong article.
DeleteHHahaha! Kelan ba bashers day baks?
DeleteThank god hindi ganito mom ko. Haay Happy Mothers Day talaga (to MY mom) haha.
ReplyDeletelaking pasasalamat ko talaga at hindi itong si jenine desiderio ang naging nanay ko.
ReplyDeletePero as a mother, dapat pinrotektahan niya pa rin ang anak niya. Hindi yang pinapahiya pa niya sa social media. Kaya nga may kasabihan na ang anak kayang tikisin ang magulang pero ang magulang hindi kayang tikisin ang anak. Mama ko nga kahit anong sinasabi ng kapatid ko tungkol sa kanya sa ibang tao at nalalaman niya hindi siya nagcocomment kasi pinoprotektahan pa rin niya. Ganun ang magulang.
ReplyDeleteLike mother like daughter, Kung anong puno ang syang bunga.plastikada ang ina mas plastikada ang anak, jinx ang nanay mas jinx ang anak. flop ang nanay mas flop ang anak.
ReplyDeleteKung flop si Janella edi 90% ng teen stars flop. Saan ka te.
Deletei do think that God gave wisdom to our parents on how to guide their kids. God is sovereign and He chose that parent for each one of us. parents want only the best spouse for us because they love us,and because that choice would make our life happy or miserable for the rest of our lives. also,all people including parents and kids have imperfections, but in the end, i think janella should obey her mom.
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