2:38 isa ka pa! Di nga natin alam ano ginagawa ng mga bata everyday. Like Toni said it was just a photo. I follow Lucia through Bianca’s IG stories and limited ang gadget use nya, even watching tv. Always playing sa park etc. So many people nowadays are too quick to judge and make unnecessary comments. 🤦🏻♀️
But it’s true naman. I’m grateful that I was born in the 70s and had experience playing outdoors plus having a personal experience while hanging out with friends.
That was during your time at wala pang gadgets na ganyan noon. Juskoday. Yang tatlong batang yan can experience playing outdoors and hangout with friends. Nagkataon lang na may mga gadgets din na pwede nila laruin. Kahit ako na nanay, if I have the means to provide them with toys and gadgets gagawin ko pero with moderation.
Pero ang sad pa rin kasi dapat they are interacting with one another instead mga nakatutok sa screens. Kaya di nakapag tataka madaming kids ngayon kulang ang social skills
Nakakabwisit yang mga ganyang nanay na porke hindi nila gawain sa bahay mali na ang tingin nila sa iba tas kung maipamuka nila sayo ang sama sama mo ng nanay. Oo may mga magulang na pinapahawak nila ng gadget ang mga bata pero may limit din yan, like 2 hours or less. You let them play but under your control and moderation.
Sa pedia lecture namin no gadgets before the age of 2 and max of 1 hour before the age of 4 granted that the minimum amount of physical activity and reading time everyday has been met too.
8:40 true nasa medschool ako at sinasabi yan lagi ng mga lecturer sa pedia na dapat hindi binababad sa gadget ang bata kase mas prone din sila sa tantrums and shorter attention spans. Kaya ngayon I feel weird about parents na proud na proud sila na nakagadget yung toddlers nila, ginagawa kaseng babysitter ang gadgets.
I'm with toni on this one. I also have shots of my little one doing things she isn't supposed to yet on several occassions. I once caught her putting on make up. I took photos first before reprimanding her. I just don't post it because the world is full of judgemental people as if you have some explaining to do.
1:24 Ikaw yang nag comment kay Toni noh? LOL! Whats condescending is people like you judging mothers like Toni, Mariel, and Bianca when you don't even know them personally and have lived with them for 24/7!
Exactly! It’s only a photo but these kids look like they are comfortable and used to holding and spending time with gadgets. Also, because they are celebrities, they are setting a bad example to other parents. #thirdworldmiddleclassproblem
Like Toni said, you don't know what they do 24/7. They make it a point to travel and show Seve other countries. They visit museums and art shows, Seve is barely 2 but he knows his alphabets and colors. They are always outdoors. Seve must have seen more places than any of you haters combined.
My baby started watching when she was 3 months old. She is now 16 months and she still enjoys watching. she also plays with her toys, go to the beach, travel, eat and sleep. I guess im a bad mama.
korek bka mamaya nga mas malala pa ung pag use ng gadgets ng anak nila kesa dyan sa 3 bata. ska ok lang nmn mag gadget basta may nag susupervise ska if nanood sila about colors alphabet. may alaga din kmi 2 yrs old sa youtube sya na22 mag count ng numbers, ano ung mga colors ska mag abc.
Lahat naman alam natin that it is better for kids to play outside than to play with gadgets. But let us not be hypocrites. We cannot practice what we preach because technology is an inevitable part of our daily lives now. I am sure na kung meron ng gadgets noon, nangunguna din naman tayo maglaro nyan. If you are a parent (and I am quite convinced that those who comment are not), the number one rule is to stop parenting kids who are not yours. Do not act as if you know better because you are not their parents. Inasmuch as you don't want others to question your parenting styles, you also do not have a say on other parents' styles. Stop acting like you are better than these moms or that you care for their kids. Gusto nyo lang may masabi for the sake of appearing like you make sense. Please just stop.
There was a woman I just met and told me “not to let my kid play with an Ipad”. Guess what? Wala sya anak! To all best ‘moms’ out there,do not judge. You don’t know how it is running a household without any yaya (could not find anyone bright and fit enough - lahat tamad and matigas ulo... hahaha baka may magcomment na walang pera pang hire ng yaya,lol!) the house won’t clean itself, you have to cook healthy meals as well, take care of the kids; absolutely no time to rest. So sa mga feeling best moms, wag kayo assumera lalo na wala pa kayo anak and no household to run.
Sarap kagatin ng paa ni seve. Kagigil
ReplyDeleteLol. Please apply cream to the burned area. Nice clap back Tony
ReplyDeleteHaay itong mga commenters talaga.
ReplyDeleteAng problema ko lang dito is yung harmful effect ng exposure sa gadgets. Baka maaga makasira ng mata
DeleteAng problema ko lang dito is yung harmful effect ng exposure sa gadgets. Baka maaga makasira ng mata
Delete2:38, if theyre not in gadget the whole day, its not harmful naman ate
Delete2:38 isa ka pa! Di nga natin alam ano ginagawa ng mga bata everyday. Like Toni said it was just a photo. I follow Lucia through Bianca’s IG stories and limited ang gadget use nya, even watching tv. Always playing sa park etc. So many people nowadays are too quick to judge and make unnecessary comments. 🤦🏻♀️
Delete2:38 "ang problema ko dito..." - they are not your kids. Problemahin mo sarili mong anak.
DeleteHahahaha...like you?
Deleteang dami kasing "perfect moms" sa mundo!
ReplyDeleteMga "perfect" at pakialamero kamo.
DeleteNo, just more knowledgeable.
Deleteknowledgeable? assumera kamo.
DeleteBut it’s true naman. I’m grateful that I was born in the 70s and had experience playing outdoors plus having a personal experience while hanging out with friends.
ReplyDeleteThat was during your time at wala pang gadgets na ganyan noon. Juskoday. Yang tatlong batang yan can experience playing outdoors and hangout with friends. Nagkataon lang na may mga gadgets din na pwede nila laruin. Kahit ako na nanay, if I have the means to provide them with toys and gadgets gagawin ko pero with moderation.
DeleteSo these kids can't experience that now? Like what Toni said you don't see what they do 24/7. Don't assume that these kids don't play outdoors.
DeleteYes, very true.
DeleteThose who comment like that to moms probably do not have kids of their own. so judgy. Kudos to Tony for keeping it calm and collected in her reply.
ReplyDeleteExcuses, excuses.
Deletehang cute ng little ms. bianca :)
ReplyDeletePero ang sad pa rin kasi dapat they are interacting with one another instead mga nakatutok sa screens. Kaya di nakapag tataka madaming kids ngayon kulang ang social skills
ReplyDeleteIt's just a picture, honey.it doesn't mean na ganyan sila the whole time.
DeleteTrue, they should be playing with each other. They are just mimicking the adults with gadgets.
DeleteBut the truth is yan ang sad reality puro gagets na mga tao ngayon.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Toni on this one. You can't judge their parenting style based on just one photo.
ReplyDeleteThis. @1:12
DeleteNakakabwisit yang mga ganyang nanay na porke hindi nila gawain sa bahay mali na ang tingin nila sa iba tas kung maipamuka nila sayo ang sama sama mo ng nanay. Oo may mga magulang na pinapahawak nila ng gadget ang mga bata pero may limit din yan, like 2 hours or less. You let them play but under your control and moderation.
ReplyDeleteSa pedia lecture namin no gadgets before the age of 2 and max of 1 hour before the age of 4 granted that the minimum amount of physical activity and reading time everyday has been met too.
DeleteAgree 2:14, yan ang advise ng pedia namin, no gadgets before the age of 2; interaction is a must
Delete8:40 true nasa medschool ako at sinasabi yan lagi ng mga lecturer sa pedia na dapat hindi binababad sa gadget ang bata kase mas prone din sila sa tantrums and shorter attention spans. Kaya ngayon I feel weird about parents na proud na proud sila na nakagadget yung toddlers nila, ginagawa kaseng babysitter ang gadgets.
DeleteYou are trying to excuse your behaviour. Wrong pa rin.
DeleteI'm with toni on this one. I also have shots of my little one doing things she isn't supposed to yet on several occassions. I once caught her putting on make up. I took photos first before reprimanding her. I just don't post it because the world is full of judgemental people as if you have some explaining to do.
ReplyDeleteWrong doesn’t make it right.
DeleteAng condescending ng tone nya palagi sana ioff nya na lang yung comment section kase totoong kulay is showing whenever she responds.
ReplyDeleteGusto ko siya. Ikaw kaya ang I-off.
DeleteShe is right though.. why say sad when they dont know the whole story?
Delete1:24 Ikaw yang nag comment kay Toni noh? LOL! Whats condescending is people like you judging mothers like Toni, Mariel, and Bianca when you don't even know them personally and have lived with them for 24/7!
DeleteLol bakit sino ka para mag sabi na ioff ni tony ung comment section.
Deletebato bato sa langit, ang mainis sa sinabi ni toni baka nasapul kase, lol daming judgemental! judge pa more
Delete11:05 sorry I don’t follow her sa soc med. Dito ko lang sya nakikita, I don’t watch tv din.
DeleteHahaha....palengkera pa rin kasi. You can’t buy class.
DeleteKada comment ni toni tila lage palaban no? Though nasa katwiran sya. I find her not nice talaga
ReplyDeleteAt their age, very savy na sila. Ang cute!
DeleteParang totoo tlgang masungit sya sa totoong buhay
DeleteYah, she is so arrogant. Akala mo Kung sino.
Deletepero sa totoo lang, ganito na ang mga kabataan ngayon
ReplyDeleteAgree 126, the sad reality of most children today
DeleteYes, photo lang. But they're only toddlers who look like they're used to gadgets already at this early age, which is wrong naman talaga.
ReplyDeleteAgree!
DeleteExactly! It’s only a photo but these kids look like they are comfortable and used to holding and spending time with gadgets. Also, because they are celebrities, they are setting a bad example to other parents. #thirdworldmiddleclassproblem
Delete1:26, bakit wrong? please expound
DeleteBakit kasi ginagawan ng IG yung bata eh kebata bata. Sana i-off comment nalang yung IG ni chumbeey
ReplyDeleteMasyado na kasing sa social media umiikot mundo ng mga tao nowadays. They tend to judge your whole life based on just one photo. Sad but true.
ReplyDeleteMy kid stays indoors as I work at night. Ok lng sa kanya manood youtube. Weekends lng kme nakakalabas. Your kid, your rules.
ReplyDeleteAgree!! People should just mind their own business. Different folks different strokes.
DeleteLike Toni said, you don't know what they do 24/7. They make it a point to travel and show Seve other countries. They visit museums and art shows, Seve is barely 2 but he knows his alphabets and colors. They are always outdoors. Seve must have seen more places than any of you haters combined.
ReplyDeleteMy baby started watching when she was 3 months old. She is now 16 months and she still enjoys watching. she also plays with her toys, go to the beach, travel, eat and sleep. I guess im a bad mama.
ReplyDeletehahaha. SUNOG!!! tawa ko dun sa "relax BEST MOMS"
ReplyDeletekorek bka mamaya nga mas malala pa ung pag use ng gadgets ng anak nila kesa dyan sa 3 bata. ska ok lang nmn mag gadget basta may nag susupervise ska if nanood sila about colors alphabet. may alaga din kmi 2 yrs old sa youtube sya na22 mag count ng numbers, ano ung mga colors ska mag abc.
ReplyDeleteActually at their kids' age it is really not advisable to be exposed sa gadgets kahit 1 minute.
ReplyDeleteVery true.
DeleteLahat naman alam natin that it is better for kids to play outside than to play with gadgets. But let us not be hypocrites. We cannot practice what we preach because technology is an inevitable part of our daily lives now. I am sure na kung meron ng gadgets noon, nangunguna din naman tayo maglaro nyan. If you are a parent (and I am quite convinced that those who comment are not), the number one rule is to stop parenting kids who are not yours. Do not act as if you know better because you are not their parents. Inasmuch as you don't want others to question your parenting styles, you also do not have a say on other parents' styles. Stop acting like you are better than these moms or that you care for their kids. Gusto nyo lang may masabi for the sake of appearing like you make sense. Please just stop.
ReplyDeleteThere was a woman I just met and told me “not to let my kid play with an Ipad”. Guess what? Wala sya anak! To all best ‘moms’ out there,do not judge. You don’t know how it is running a household without any yaya (could not find anyone bright and fit enough - lahat tamad and matigas ulo... hahaha baka may magcomment na walang pera pang hire ng yaya,lol!) the house won’t clean itself, you have to cook healthy meals as well, take care of the kids; absolutely no time to rest. So sa mga feeling best moms, wag kayo assumera lalo na wala pa kayo anak and no household to run.
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