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Sometime ago, a post of actress Cristine Reyes hinted that something was amiss at home. The actress requested for prayers to keep their marriage protected. Thus, speculations hovered around domestic problems and that her marriage with athlete Ali Khatibi might be having problems. Khatibi immediately reacted and assured followers that all is well.
Months later, the grapevine is abuzz that the inevitable has happened. Rumors have it that the couple has allegedly separated. Although no hint has been posted on either partner’s social media, Khatibi has been missing in the photos posted in the social media account of Reyes.
This development comes after two years of marriage. The two were married at Balesin in January 2016. The wedding was supposed to have taken place the year before, but was moved due to intricate preparations and scheduling issues concerning work and other matters. Reyes and Khatibi have a daughter.
They married way too soon. Not that I am saying it won't work if you've a short engagement, but some couples break up because they are in a relationship with someone they can't even be friends with.
ReplyDeleteWala talagang formula to a lasting marriage. Yung iba kahit matagal na nagkakahiwalay pa rin. Yung iba naman surprisingly eh nagwowork.
Deletei've only known my husband barely a year before we got married and we are on our 8th year na. Brangelina already had kids na nga when they got married still got divorced.
Delete6:44 i hope it works for you... i was married for 14 ayun wala din. and we dated for 4 years prior to marriage. so yup there's no perfect formula to a marriage. i know many couples who stay for the sake of the children or to save face, and a lot are still together for these reasons. which is really sad if you ask me.
Delete6:44 talaga??? Ako din! I married my husband like 9 months after i met him! 8 years na kami this year :) and we have 1 anak hes turning two this year :)
DeleteThere's a perfect formula to a lasting marriage. Put God at the center of your relationship. Don't just say it, but mean it and live by it.
Delete-married for 20 years and counting
Super in love kc c AA kya prang rush ung marriage life nya. Minsan kc kaylangan mong magsama muna pra malaman mo ung real person na papakasalan mo
DeleteI datef my husband in March 2011, and that was 3mos after we met. two months after we started dating, he proposed... 5months later, we got married.. All that happened in the same year.. We are soon celebrating our 7th year, with two lovely boys... Getting stronger each day... So wala sa tagal ng dating/engagement stage..nasa personality ng individual.. How much both are willing to sacrifice for the relationship...
DeleteAgree, 1:36.
DeleteMy husband and I got married 7 months after dating (ni wala kaming formal na kami na). We’ll be celebrating our 13th yr this August. Thank God tumagal kami (& praying for eternity) even if we don’t have kids to “bind” us.
DeleteNakakalungkot mga ganitong hiwalayan ng mag asawa. Sana maayos pa nila. Masarap na may kasama tayong tumanda. I feel sad for Cristine and Ali.
ReplyDeleteBalesin is not a good place for wedding kasi my tendency na maghihiwalay ang mag asawa.
Delete2:41 tama! Blame the place the wedding was held. Natumbok mo!
DeleteSusko anon 2:41. Anong kinalaman ng lugar sa paghihiwalay nila aber?
DeleteBahahaha 2:41 ano ba klaseng pag isip yan.
Delete2:41 san ba dapat ikasal para siguradong di maghihiwalay ang mag-asawa?
Deletewala sa lugar ng pinagkasalan ang paghihiwalay, nasa tao. me mga kinasal sa mga cathedral at ilang pari pa ang nagkasal pero naghihiwalay pa rin
It’s not where you wed that makes the relationship a success or a failure. It’s the two people involved in that sanctity that makes it work.
Delete2:41 Baks ang lakas ng tama mo! Hahahaha!
Delete2:41? huh?! wala sa lugar kung san kinasal ang success ng pag-aasawa. katawa yang belief mo
Delete2:41 why?
Delete2:41 tama ka. Baka natapakan nila ang nuno sa punso at hindi sila nagpaalam sa kapre na lider ng mga engkanto ng balesin kaya nagalit. Haayy so sad
Delete11:25 thanks for the laugh!
DeleteOo nga, may something sa Balesin! I have a friend din ng family dun nagpakasal, wala pang 2 years, hiwalay na sila!
DeleteAng sabi daw dont fo beach weddings or anything near the water/ocean kasi nawawash away agad Yun blessing. Ang stand out lang for me was sunshine and Cesar's wedding kasi diba they half covered the pool e masama daw un sabi ng pamahiin. But oh well. Wala naman yan sa ganyan siguro. Doesnt hurt to follow but even those that marry in the sturdiest structures go thru separation or divorce.
DeleteSo saan pwede magpakasal para hindi maghiwalay? Nakainom yata si 2:41 lol
DeleteYung iba nga hindi man kasal pero tumatandang magkasama at nagmamahalan. Wala sa lugar yan o kahit anong papel. Nasa magsasama talaga yan.
Deletetotoo din kaya na may simbahang may sumpa na lahat ng magpapakasal doon ay maghihiwalay?
DeleteAnon 1:35. But Ali Sotto’s wedding was also done at the beach. I think sila pa rin ng husband nya.
DeleteI don't like Christine that much, pero sana kung misunderstanding lang naman, maayos pa.
ReplyDeleteHindi mo talaga masabi paano ang magiging takbo ng marriage ng bawat couple. I hope maipaglaban pa nila pareho mabuo ung pamilya nila. Ang sakit ng stage na yan specialy sa mom.
ReplyDeleteAgree ako sayo. Mahirap at masakit yan kaya sana magawan pa nila ng paraan.
DeleteStay strong, Cristine.
Isa sa pinakamagandang wedding na napanood ko kasi sobrang sincere ng mga sinabi nila, ramdam na ramdam ang pagmamahalan saka intimate yung wedding, ang konti lang ng guests kaya nakakalungkot yung ganitong balita.
ReplyDeleteSana ay maayos pa nila dahil marami naman silang napagkakaaunduan at parehas ng interes din.
Ewan ko pero hindi talaga wife material si Cristine. Sarreh.
ReplyDeleteKung maka judge ka naman kala mo kilala at nakaka sama mo sya palagai. For me nakikita ko na ma ayos sya lalo na sa anak nya. Sana wag ka mag judge lalo na di mo sya kilala as a real person kilala mo lang sya as an actress
DeleteJudge ka na agad against Cristine ha. Do you know something that we don't? As far as I know from last year up to early this year Cristine has been praying hard to get Ali out of 'temptations' around bim
DeletePano mo nalaman? Naging wife mo ba sya para ma judge mo? Hirap sa atin eh. May nangyari na nga di maganda mag cocomment pa ng ganito. Sana di mangyari sayo yan kasi napaka wife/husband material mo.
DeleteHindi madali ang buhay may asawa.
DeleteShe is a good provider, I think. Siya nag-iisip ng mga business, eh si Ali, anong ganap?
Deletebakit ano ba ang wife material? paki explain.
DeleteI don't know Ali personally pero husband material din ba siya? Bakit kay Cristine ang blame mo?
DeleteAyan na naman ang misogynist view ng kababaihan na kesyo may tipong pinapakasalan at may jinojowa lang.
DeleteHindi ba parehas dapat silang may responsibility to work things out? Kawawa naman yung mga hindi wife material sa tingin mo, walang karapatan mag-asawa! Hahahahaha
DeleteI feel bad for them. I hope maayos pa rin nila. Seriously, mahirap mag asawa. Minsan, naiisip ko bakit pa ako nag asawa. I don’t mean to be nega at mahal ko ang asawa ko pero ang sakit kapag hindi magkasundo at nag aaway. Although we always choose to work things out, parang after namin mag away, lumalayo na kami sa dating kami. Malayong malayo na sa kung pano kami nag simula. We don’t have kids yet so lahat ng attention namin nasa isat isa.
ReplyDeleteNaiintindihan kita pero kami kasi wala pang one year kasal. Hindi ko lang masabi sa family or friends kasi ang tagal din namin bago magpakasal. Minsan iniisip ko kung para dito na ba ako, hindi ko kasi akalain na ang hirap pala kapag di magkasundo. Kahit yung mga movies about pag aasawa o kaya ganitong mga balita ay naaapektuhan ako, sobrang nalulungkot para sa kanila. Iba pala talaga kapag ikaw na mismo ang nasa sitwasyon.
DeletePero sabi nga nila, wala naman relasyon na perpekto. May kanya kanya lang daw talagang problema ang mag aasawa.
Salamat sa pag share 2:48. Wala rin kasi akong makausap tuwing hindi kami ayos ng asawa ko. Iniiyak at dinadasal ko na lang. Minsan kahit nasa jeep pag naiisip ko na di niya ako pinansin dahil may problema kami, naluluha na lang ako. Di naman ako dating ganon.
Kaya wish ko maging maayos din sina Cristine.
Truth!
DeleteWow, thanks for sharing that here. Medyo naiintindihan ko na how a marriage unravels, but hopefully with you and your spouse, mapagtibay nyo pa relationship nyo and renew your love for each other each day
DeleteAww baks i feel you. I'm not married, but in a relationship and we have a kid. I promised him we'll get married when and if I feel i'm ready to commit. Mahirap kasi talaga pag kasal na. After reading your comment, i don't think i'll ever be ready.
DeleteNaiyak naman ako.. i feel you. Pero iba yung sa amin, sobrang nagbago na ang lahat kasi simula nagka anak na kami. The only thing that keeps us together is our kids. Habang tumatagal nagbabago lahat pati pakikitungo namin sa isat isa at everyday parang ang sakit sakit.
DeleteTrue. Andami ko na ring nakaringgan mga friends and relatives na nagsasabing kung maibabalik lang ang panahon mas pipiliin nilang hindi na lang daw magasawa.
Delete2:48, i feel you baks. Ganyan na ganyan din kami.
Delete2:48 Me, too. Or maybe, in my case, I feel na ako lang yung lumalayo. In some sense, for me, it's a good thing you don't have kids yet. That way you can really focus on each other. We have three, and it really makes things way more complicated.
Deletesis part of being married is putting 100% extra effort sa marriage, sa kahit anong aspeto. you have to work it out both of you should commit to that consciously do it para the marriage will last long.
DeleteAwww. Be strong Ate Girl.
Deletekung lumalayo kayo sa dating kayo after niyo mag-away, eh may problema kayo. hindi dapat ganyan ang mag-asawa. dapat habang tumatagal, mas lalong tumitibay ang samahan.
DeleteI feel you,Im only 4 mos into my marriage,pero naiisip ko din,sana hindi na muna ako
DeleteNagpakasal
Same here. Wala akong mapagsabihan dahil nahihiya ako sa mga friends and family ko. One year pa lanh din kaming kasal pero ang laki ng pinagbago nya sa pakikitungo sakin. Matagal kaming naging boyfriend and girlfriend and iba pa kami di katulad ngayon. I love my husband pero simula ng nag asawa ako, mas naging malungkot ako kesa masaya. Sana malampasan natin ito and maayos ang laaht ng dapat maayos.
DeleteMalalagpasan nyo yan.Kapit lang.. Sa na observe ko maaga tinest mga marriages natin. Ganyan din kami noon first few tears after we got married. awa ng Dyos nalagpasan naman. Sana nalagpasan nyo rin. Communication mahalaga. Respect and trust. At mutual dapat ang desisyon na iwork out mahirap pag isa lang ang may gustong ituloy pa ang laban. Keep on praying for your marriage.
Deleteso, nakakasira ang anak sa relasyon ng mag asawa?
DeleteHi mga sis! It's the seven year itch. Eventually malalampasan nyo rin yan ng husband nyo. Kasi sa mga unang taon dyan pa lang nag-uumpisa yung pagkakakilala nyo bilang nagsasama sa isang bubong. Kumbaga ngayon nyo lang nakikilala yung isa't-isa. Malalampasan nyo din yan basta lagi nyo lang ipagpray yung marriage nyo. Bata ako nag-asawa 19 lang ako nung kinasal kami ng hubby ko. We're together pa rin after 13 years and stronger at mas kilala na namin ang isa't-isa. Tiwala lang malalampasan nyo din yang mga unang taon basta kapit lang. :)
DeleteNalulungkot ako sa mga kwento nyo pero kapit lang; sabi nga ni 10:23 respect - very important yan kahit minsan malayo ang nararamdaman mo sa asawa mo. it will all work out even when there are days you wonder why you got married in the first place. basta remember to fight for your love - hindi lang fight against temptations but also boredom, routine, angst - lahat ng ka-negahan try labanan and be cheerful (yes even if wala kang gana, try) kasi no one wants to be around a dreary person. i pray for all of you; in 2 wks 30th wedding anniversary na namin. ups & downs din sa umpisa pero that’s what it’s all about, if nag kakalayo kayo, pull the other person back (tulungan lang talaga even if sometimes ayaw mo) kasi you’re in it together (minsan kasi the other naman will pull you in). i pray for all of you mga babies. love, mama baks.
Delete10:23 tama. Medyo cliche man pakinggan pero totoong communication is the key. Hindi mo kailangan sabihin sa asawa mo lahat lahat ng naiisip mo,pero kailangan mo sabihin sa kanya kung ano ang dapat nya malaman. Dati hindi rin ako umiimik pag may misunderstanding kami hanggang sa magkasundo na lang kami ulit. Kaya lang everytime may away at tampuhan, naiisip ko lahat ng mga bagay at salita na gusto ko sabihin simula pa nung una. Thats why binago ko yun. Kung galit ako, I take a few moments before I talk to him. Then saka ko sya kakausapin. I dont hold back anymore. Ang hirap maipon lahat ng gusto mo sabihin sa isip mo lang then bigla kang sasabog in an instant. Talk in a calm and humble way.I know sobrang hirap lalo na pag galit at inis ka, pero you need to flex an extra muscle to make things work. God bless you all!
DeleteIt's me, 3:09 again. Binalikan ko ito at nakakagaan na kahit papaano nasabi ko dito nararanasan ko. Ang sarap sa pakiramdam mabasa mga sinabi nyo mga kapatid.
DeleteSalamat at naintindihan ko sitwasyon nang sinabi mo 10:23AM na maagang tinest ang mga marriages natin. Idadagdag ko yan sa mga tatandaan ko tuwing may mahirap na problema.
Happy weekend, wonder wives :-)
ganyan din ako sa sitwasyon namin. i think kung wala kami anak naghiwalay na kami. ang hirap hirap mga baks. feeling ko pinakasalan ko buong mundo at nahihirapan na ako kahit 2 years pa lang kmi kasal
Delete12:35 You're missing the point.
DeleteAgree 5:46. Parang naligaw si 12:35 dito sa thread na ito at dinala ang negativity niya.
Deleteang hirap ng ganyan 3:09 ung dinadaan na lang sa iyak. may mga lalake kasi na hindi talaga nagsasabi pag may problema, umiiwas sa conflict. malalaman mo na lang kapag baon na baon, lubog na lubog at mahirap na ang problema.
Deleteminsan naiisip ko simula pa lang kami ng marriage namin pero ganito bang buhay ang pasan ko sa mga susunod pang taon hanggang sa huling hininga ko. iniisip ko nalang na hindi naman lahat mahirap at palaging masakit. napasaya naman niya ako nung mag boyfriend pa lang kami, kailangan lang talaga lawakan ko pa ang pang unawa at pagtanggap ko..
Nakakatuwa naman tong thread na to supportive lahat. I hope maayos pa kayo ng asawa mo, pati ung mga ibang nag post, sana maging maayos din. Months p lng kami kasal pero almost 4yrs na livein. Hindi madali makisama sa relationship, pero one thing that works for us is we let the small things slide, kapag major lang talaga dun nagtatalo. Pero iba iba talaga yan depende sanyong mgasawa. Find a strategy that works. Goodluck sating lahat.
Delete10:23 here, you're welcome 3:09, its good to know I was able to helped you. kapit lang tyo! Pagdating ng panahon mangingiti ka nlang at magiging proud sa sarili mo na nalagpasan nyo ang mga pagsubok. Happy weekend and God bless you too! :)
Delete10:23 here,hi 4:08 I was never the type of holding back my feelings, stress yan kapag hindi nailabas baka magkasakit ka pa. Saka it's like sweeping the dirt under the rug lang yan, pero the dirt will still be there kapag hindi nasabi. Pero good job ka in talking calmly and humbly, I was able to worked on that. Dati Hirap ako jan, kapag galit ako as in galit hindi ako makapag Hintay hindi sabihin. And I didn't t like it about myself.
DeleteMy sister told me that too nuong Bagong kasal sya, siguro less than 2 years. Sana daw di sya nagpakasal. Makikisama ka kasi talaga Kahit pa sabihin no magkakilala kayo and friends kayo. Ibang mga desisyon Ang ginagawa pag may asawa na. And mind you she married an awesome man and they were both very well off. Usually sinasabi ng iba Pinaka pinagaawayan pera.
DeleteNow I'm married must and although I'm happy with my life and I adore my kids nakikita ko nga MAY POINT SI ATE.
More power to you OP kapit Lang!! :)
bf/gf for almost 8years, married for 3months..ang hirap..hindi pala enough na mahal nyo isa't-isa, prang nagsisi na ako nagpakasal pa..civil wed lang kami and planning for the church wed pero prang ayoko ng ituloy yun..mas marami kaming hindi napagkakasunduan ngayon na married na kami kaysa noong gf/bf pa lang kami..mabigat sa dibdib araw-araw..wala din akong masabihan kasi yung hindi ako mahilig magshare sa mga problema namin kahit nung magjowa palang kami at ngayong kasal na kami...mahirap talaga ang married life..wala pa kaming anak, pano na kaya kung magka-anak na kami..
DeleteThanks. Ako ung OP. I kinda feel relieved na hindi lang pala ako yung ganon ung feeling. So normal na may pagdadaanan talaga ang mag asawa especially katulad nating bago pa lang, so maraming adjustments. And lalo kong gustong pagtibayin ung pagsasama namin based sa mga naging experiences nyo na tinetest lang and malalampasan din yun. And special mention to you, 9:24pm, Salamat! 🙂 Sana we all get through whatever trials we have with our marriages. And tama, kapit lang!
DeleteThis exchange of married life experiences is something that FP must be proud of. It is just mind blowing that strangers get to share experiences and offer advice and support to those who need it. I have been married for 37 years. My husband cheated on me on our third year (childless pa at that time) but when we went for a vacay sa family nya biglang bigla lang out of the blue sinabi nya sa akin na mahal pa nya ako. I don't know if it was his family (they don't know na nag kaka problema kami) that made him realize it kasi sobrang mahal ako ng family nya. we raised two beautiful and successful kids. He loves them dearly. Siempre sinong ama ang hindi but he is such a proud Dad. Siguro nga totoo yung 7 year itch. After I gave birth madalas kami mag away ako ang nag susungit pero bibilib kayo sa bait at pasenysya nya. Fast forward to the 28th year he cheated again on me. We almost broke up. I was ready to be without him pero sya hindi pala. Grabe ang pinagda-anan ko. Hindi sya umbagero but I guess mas masakit yung emotional hurt kesa physical hurt. We worked things out. Sising sisi sya sa mga nagawa nya. He told me na ayaw nya masira ang pamilya namin. We prayed and considered counselling (religious counselling) but we thought we could handle the problems ourselves since kami lang naman talaga ang nakakakilala sa sarili namin. We are okay now but merong mga moments na na alala ko ang kasalanan nya at nasusumbat ko sa kanya. I can say na mas malakas kami ngayon by God's grace. Pray lang mga sisters, sabi nga ng isa dito put God in the center of your relationship. Kasi ang demonyo (literally and figuratively) pag gusto kayo guluhin di yan titigil. Be strong in your faith. Always remember he is God's gift to you and you are God's gift to him. Walang perfect na relationship lahat yan may pagsubok. Kapit lang.
DeleteMga sis, mag-1 year pa lang kami kasal ng husband ko. Lately lang napadalas ang away namin pero sobrang laki nang nabawas as compred nung bf-gf p lang kami. Although mas grabe na yubg effect emotionally pag magasawa na. Minsan naiyak ako aa gabi, nananalangin at nagbabasa ng devotionals dahil di talaga maiwasan ba di magaway. Actually its kind of normal kasi sa differences nyo. At kaya kayo nagaaway kasi may pake pa kayo sa isat isa. Magtaka kayo pag wala na talagang pakealam kasi wala na kayong nararamdaman sa isat isa. For us normal yung away but we agreed na kahit anong mangyari, love namin isat isa and that we trust each other na kakapit kami sa marriage namin together. Kasi sabi nga sa vows, for better or for worse. Kaya panindigan natin yun mga sis. Kaya natin to. In Jesus’ name.
DeleteKapit lang tayo. Kaya natin to.
DeleteKaya siguro ramdam natin pinagdaraanan ngayon ni Cristine kasi alam natin na walang perfect marriage. Sana mabasa ni Cristine yung mga messages natin dito at malaman niya na hindi siya nag iisa.
mga baks binasa ko lahat ng nsa thread na ito.. ngaun lng ako magccoment dito.. naiiyak ako sa mga kwento nyo.. lahat ng sinabi nyo totoo..sana maging friends ko kau.. i feel so alone.. wala me makausap.. mahirap din kc lumaban sa alam mong di na kailangan ipaglaban.. mapapagod ka din pero wala nmn choice.. salamat sa inyo mga baks
DeleteHmmm, it’s simple naman e. If you are not happy, move on na. Not too much drama.
Delete8:57 kung Ganyan ang mentality wag na mag commit. Single ba Lang date-date. Marriage is a commitment. You go through married life with ups and downs not just for the husband and wife but kids too.
DeleteMahirap talaga ang buhay mag-asawa at more so pag nagka-anak ka. I dated my hubby for 3 years before we got married. We got married at an early age too, emotionally I was ready but si hubby nasa barkada mode pa din so I had to adjust. Naging madalas yung away because of his ways and he doesn’t want to give up his lifestyle kaya it came to a point na napuno na din ako and I became resentful. I felt neglected ‘cos we hardly spent time together. I thought of leaving lalo na at that time I met someone who so compatible with me, shared the same interests as me and was willing to “wait” for me. It was then that I told hubby I met someone & I wanted to leave. That finally made him realize that I was giving up on him. He changed & we tried to work on our marriage. But I guess guys will be guys kasi after some time he was back to his old ways. By then the option of leaving was not easy ‘cos we had kids na. It again reached a point when I had to ask him to choose. Alam niya I can leave him because financially, I can afford to raise my kids on my own since I was earning more. Yun, natauhan siya at medyo nabawasan ang gimik at barkada. Ngayon pag lumalabas siya, lumalabas din kami ng mga kids - I take the kids out for movies & dinner or just dinner & stroll after. Kung siya nagsasaya, kami din nagsasaya.
DeleteWe are 19years married now & whenever I think of what I’ve been through, I couldn’t imagine having that much patience. Prayers helped me a lot, I believe yun nagbigay sa akin ng strength to hold on & eventually my kids na din.
Kaya mga sis who are having problems, kaya niyo yan. Communication is key and more importantly, prayers. Kung nakayanan ko for 19years, kakayanin niyo din.
parang ang serious natin ngayon sa post ni FP..kaya natin to..totoo nga sabi nla na mas madaling magshare sa hindi kakilala kaysa sa family and friends..-11:27
DeleteKobe, I’ll pray for your marriage. Sana nga maging friends tau dito kasi we share the same sentiments sa buhay mag asawa.. I’m so happy to meet all of you here kahit mga anonymous pa tau, feeling ko ang strong ng support system ko. Thank you guys. And sana nga malampasan natin to. Salamat din sa mga nagshare dito lalo na sa mga matagal ng mag asawa na napagdaanan na lahat. Nainspire ako ng sobra. Thanks FP din for having this page! 😊
DeleteThank you mama baks. Nag screenshot ako ng mga advice nyo para palagi akong mareremind. Salamat talaga sa inyo
DeleteAwww I am sad to hear this. I hope they can work it out.
ReplyDeleteCristine seemed to be the one who was willing to work around Ali - even learning the things he was passionate about. Hope they could still work things out.
ReplyDeleteAgree! Absolutely true!
DeleteParang ang dali dali lang mag hiwalay ng mag asawa nakakatakot
ReplyDeleteMashado kasi cla nagmadali.
ReplyDeleteMaraming hindi nagmadali na ganyan din ang kinasapitan naghiwalay din
DeleteSino ba tayo para mag assume ng dahilan kung bakit sila naghiwalay? Hindi natin sila personally kilala. Hindi din naman dahilan ang pagmamadali. Marriage is a choice. Love is a choice. I don’t think you’re in the right position para sabihin yan ang dahilan lung bakit sila naghiwalay 7:25
DeleteNakakalungkot naman Ito :( Sana maayos Kung Kaya pa ayusin.
ReplyDeleteI am in that stage right now kaya I feel sad hearing about this. In fact I’m so frustrated right now kasi lagi na lang kami nag-aaway ng asawa ko. Mahirap talaga kung iba ang point of views and priorities nyo. We’ve been trying to work it out since last year for the sake of our special needs child pero it looks like we’re heading to splitsville. I’m hoping magawan pa nila ng paraan.
ReplyDelete8:09 am I am praying for you. We also have a special needs child and I know how challenging that is on its own.
DeleteHang in there 8:09. Just give it your all, which I'm sure you are. Just give it your all. I'm praying that you can get through it.
DeleteThird mga bes. I have a special needs child as well. Kapit Lang for the kids! Pick your battles. Kung mapapatawad, magpatawad.
DeleteMhirap kc pag wlang may gustong makipag compromise. And if ikw lang prati nagbbgay. Aba bhala ka.
Delete8:09 Hahay I feel you. Sometimes, I feel like I really want to get out of this relationship but I can't cause we have a special needs child.
DeleteWell, it’s better to split than keep fighting di ba. At least you’ll be at peace.
Deleteyung nag sabi at least you'll be at peace, how selfish of u.
DeleteFirst few yeara of marriage talagang mejo mahirap kasi adjustment period yan. Magkaiba kayong tao and family background/values na kahit anong tagal na mag-bf mag aadjust pa din. Dapat lang strong and willing to work out pareho. Dont make a big deal out of small things para din maayos
ReplyDeletedi pa sure. sana may pinagdadaanan lang sila.
ReplyDeleteI know christine personally so no wonder.
ReplyDeleteSo how come you don’t know how to spell her name correctly?
DeleteRight 2:24 she/he is so funny knows cristine personally? but Don't even spell her name correctly.
Delete2:24 Knowing the correct spelling of the name of a friend of yours doesn't denote the depth of the friendship.
Delete- Not 12:22
napapanuod nya sa tv akala nya kilala na paguugali haha
DeleteEven if you know her, wala ka pa rin sa loob ng bahay nila to know their problems and what they are going through iba ang personality ng isang tao sa loob at labas ng bahay nila.
DeleteThe how’s of us. Bakit nga ba ang bilis bumitaw ng iba sa isang bagay na mahalaga at pwede naman kumapit pa? Chos! Anyways, there fairly new together. I hope they could find a common ground and decide to make their marriage work. Give it another shot.
ReplyDeleteSana nga maayos pa nila kung ano man problema pinagdaan nila at mrscristinekhatibi pa rin naman IG ni cristine
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot talaga pag hiwalayang mag asawa. Hay
ReplyDeleteI hope they fix their marriage. Marriage is a commitment and a covenant kay Lord. It's not just based on feelings, otherwise,mawawala din but it's really fulfilling your vows,"..in sickness and in health..". It's something that we have to fight for kaya it's important that we don't get married for the wrong reason, I'm not saying they did.
ReplyDeleteI bet financial problem is the major cause of their break up
ReplyDeleteBakit naman?
DeleteKaramihan naman talaga either financial or infidelity ang problema.
DeleteI agree. Ung asawa ko ginawa na lang akong katulong sa bahay, napakaburara nya sa haus. samantalang mas maganda ang work ko sa kanya. Di man lang maghanap ng ibang work na mas malaki ang sahod. Sobrang nawalan ako ng self esteem. Because of that naging distant na ako sa kanya.
DeleteDapat kasi talaga both ready and willing ang couple when getting married. Hindi dpat nirrush. At hindi rin dapat dahil nabuntis or to save a career (Not really saying that's what happened to them). WHen you plan everything ahead with your partner, umpisa pa lang makikita na kung compatible ba talaga kayo. Sa start dapat nagkakakilalang mabuti not after getting married. Anyway, same goes with splitting. Talk it out. Don't rush either. You've invested a lot of time, money and feelings already. Don't hurry in making another decision which you might regret again.
ReplyDeleteI saw this coming from watching an episode of a morning show where christine showed her beautiful home. I could sense the guy is not for keeps.
ReplyDeleteBaka financial. Kc kakakuha lang nila ng malaking bahay at di nmn masyado visible sa tv si tin.
ReplyDeleteNalulungkot ako :( Praying magkaayos sila. Favorite episode ko sa Magandang Buhay yung nag house tour sila Melai at Karla sa kanila and super down to earth nilang dalawa and God-centered. And kita mo how much they prioritize their family.
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot. Na observe naman natin how Christine went all out for her marriage. She used to be a spoiled brat pero naging responsable, madasalin, and a good provider for her family. Bumili ng bagong bagay, built a business, revived her career, took an interest on Ali's hobbies and supported him in his endeavors...it is disheartening to see all her efforts go down the drain.
ReplyDeleteYes absolutely true she did everything for her marriage to workout.
DeleteMarriage is an every day work. It's not an easy-peasy thing. It is a sacred covenant. I've been in a relationship for 6 years (gf/bf) and married for 5 years. It was bitter-sweet and yet a beautiful journey. Hold on to GOD not on to anyone/everyone else because it would fell apart if you do. In my case, trust, beliefs, emotions were not even the solid tools in keeping the path of marriage. God will find a way to work each one of you first then your marriage. So for me PRAYER is the answer.
ReplyDeletewe are not even sure if they really went on separate lives.
ReplyDeleteChristine is busy with her film commitments ,"Maria"..same with Ali .Not seeing them together on IG or FB doesnt mean they no longer are together.
Who knows its only social media they're separated.
Im sure they would always choose whats best for Amarah. Let us not assume rather pray for their family. Just my opinion:)
nakakalungkot mga ganitong hiwalayan lalo na maliit pa ang anak
ReplyDeletemas nakakalungkot yung maliit pa anak pero away lang nakikita sa mga magulang nya
DeleteAgree 11:04 noong bata ako lagi nag-aaway parents ko hanggang naghiwalay sila. At kahit na bilang anak nila malungkot pero mas hindi toxic. Hanggang nagyon tuloy tumatatak sakin yung mga away nila kaya takot pa rin ako pag merong nagsisigawan.
DeleteCristine, kapit lang and surround yourself with your family and trusted friends. They’re always there for you.
ReplyDeleteSome marriages just don’t work out. Yun Lang yun!
ReplyDeleteHindi natin alam ang story. For sure, they want their marriage to work, lalo na at may anak sila. If ever separated na sila, it means last resort na talaga yun. It means they tried their best pero sometimes, you have to end a chapter so you can live your best life. Sad, but it happens.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been married for 11 years now and all I can say is - marriage is always a work in progress not a finished product, otherwise it would be boring. Love, hate and fight but it’s always the making up butters all up!
ReplyDeleteLahat nmn ng married life may pagdadaanang pagsubok.
ReplyDeleteAng problema pinag uusapan yan.
Kc kung puro tago lng ng feelings pag napuno mahirap ng buuin.
Communication talaga ang kelangan at mahabang pasensya.
Wag susuko agad pag may problema dapat magpakatatag at mag isip ng solusyon sa problema.
Iba na kc panahon ngayon nakikilevel na talaga ang mga babae sa lalaki.
Ano nakikilevel ang babae sa lalaki. Mahirap na walang effort ang lalaki. Ang babae nagmamahal kakayanin ang lahat ng sakit pero kapag walang effort ang lalaki mahirap buoin ang marriage. Mukha naman gusto ipaglaban ni Cristine ang marriage nila kasi may post siya dati diba, baka yung lalaki ang umayaw na. Sasabihin naman ng iba desperada ang babae kapag habol ng habol sa lalaki.
DeleteDapat naman talaga pantay di ba? I donnt subscribe to the idea na dapat subservient ang babae. Marriage is a partnership so dapat both should compromise.
DeleteBuwag na ang #thekhatibis
ReplyDeletehahaha! ganern
DeleteIn fairness to Cristine parang pinaglaban naman niya ang marriage nila based on her posts before. May pinagdadaanan pero she's still holding on to their marriage.
ReplyDeleteOkay lang yan. It’s not the end of the world.
ReplyDeleteAlways remember kung ano dahilan kung bat nagpakasal ang mgbf/gf yun ay dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal sa isat isa.
ReplyDeleteKaya dapat kung ano pagsubok man ang dumating kelangan sa tabi ng isat isa pa rin.wag sukuan ang isat isa.
Do not expect too much kc madi disappoint lng pag di nangyari yong expectations.
Wag din manumbat ng mga bagay na ginagawa para sa spouse.
remember na kaya ginawa mo yon kc dahil sa pagmamahal hindi para ibalik din sa u ginawa mo.
Magkakaiba kc tau ng language of love.
Nobody's perfect kaya pag nag aaway dapat iicpin lagi saan ba ngcmula ang away.kung saan ba ngkamali.
Hindi yong ibubunton ang sisi agad sa asawa..
Usually nakakaapekto sa buhay mag asawa ang financial aspect.. then susunod na at makikita na ang ibang differences.. sana makayanan nila... kung stressed or depressed na sa situation find a hobby na makakatulong na madistressed kaht temporarily para mabawasan lang ang stress level at maiwasan maging emotionally vulnerable para magisip ng hiwalayan.
ReplyDeletereading comments... should i be thankful that i am still single? i hope so... kasi gusto ko din mag asawa... nawalan lang ako gana mag hanap or lumabas, ewan ko ba.
ReplyDeletebwahahaha single din ako baks. huwag ka magpa-apekto sa mga comment instead use it as a tool para pag ikaw naman nagka relationship kahit papaano may idea kana ano ang gagawin to make your relationship work pero syempre expect parin ng mga medyo may away ganern. pero lagi mong isipin iba-iba naman kasi ang paghahandle ng tao sa relationship at kung papaano ito pagtibayin. kaya go on, kung gusto mo magka-jowa at magpakasal go follow you dreams :)
Deletelucky all you single ladies. you can still learn from the mistakes of those who got there earlier. you do not really need to experience something to learn from it. learning from others' experiences is so much wiser. good luck!
Deleteoh well, magkahawig pa sila sa photo... dont blame me, nag babasa lang ako... kasi single padin ako, ingit kayo ako na ingit, kasi lahat ng kaibigan ko may asawa na. mag isa padin ako... huhu... nawala ako time, kasi father ko nag kasakit ng maraming years.
ReplyDeletehuwag ka mainggit. just enjoy your single life kasi kung meron naman talaga para sayo, darating at darating yon. huwag ka mag madali kasi baka sa sobra mong pag mamadali baka makabingwit ka ng lalaking hindi para sayo :)
DeleteAko di nagpakasal but lived with my partner for 23years until he died. Di pala kelangan ng kapirasong papel pra kau magtagal sa isang relasyon. Sure we had our ups and downs. Madalas din na may pinagaawayan just like any other couple but our love always comes first. Maswerte lang siguro ako n nakatagpo ako ng mabait na partner. Kaya lang wala na sya kinuha na ni lord. And i dont think i can find another man like him or can surpass him.
ReplyDeleteGod had blessed us greater than I could ever imagined.
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