To be honest Medyo na lungkot ako when they broke up!:( Sayang talaga imagine 3 or 4 weddings ang ganap diba? Kaya baks lesson learned Ito Sa atin wag agad mag pakasal Kahit right age na dapat daw mag pakasal agad.. nope! Dapat 100 % ready talaga tayo from heart mind body and soul.. sympre financially na din... Iba na daw talaga pag kasal na
Totoo. Apat na beses tapos hiwalay din. Masaklap. Minsan okay pa un live in na lang. At least walang hassle. Testing the waters muna. Pag di swak. Goodbye
Naku iba naman ang situation nila and fyi you can never tell kung ready ka na talaga sa pag.aasawa noh. Feeling mo ready ka na bec you will be with your loved one. What do you mean test the waters muna? Live in? Lugi babae dyan noh
Ang pinaka importante both parties are willing to work sa relationship. I was 20 nung mag asawa and when i looked back sa lahat ng pinagdaanan namin kung bumitaw isa samin, hindi siguro kami nagcelebrate ng 22 anniversary and looking forward for more years of togetherness. ๐
12:50 maybe thats the ideal type but in reality you can never be ready and prepared. marriage is an everyday choice you have to make and an everyday learning experience.
Marriage is not just about love. It is a choice. Love fades away and when that time comes, you want to have something that holds you and your husband together. It doesn't matter how big or small your wedding is. What matters is the foundation.
Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince charming. Marriage is not a guarantee that you are going to stay forever. Marriage is a promise and promises are made to be broken.
You have to meet the person who will always choose to be with you and whom you will always choose to be with. So that... when you go through difficult situations... you will know you will both always choose each other.
What a beautiful and inspiring message. Being heartbroken and having a failed marriage is truly not the end of the world. Happiness exists for those who have faith and pick themselves up and forge on.
So dapat ikahiya at itago na parang madumi kang tao? Ano Ng mentality yan? The guy treated her badly that is why it ended. Well bumangon si girl, iniyakan niya pero hindi siya nagpatalo sa lungkot. She acknowledged those who supported her plus her loved ones and made herself a productive person who concentrated on her career and now has found someone who makes her happy. She knew she was not the problem and did not punish herself.
I'm in my late 20's and malapit na din mag 30... most of my friends who are married now every time we catch up ang lagi nila sinasabi sa akin..
1. You're lucky your still single. Wag ka mag madali mag pakasal..
2. Wag ka mag asawa Muna enjoy life!
3. Once your married Iba na ang mundo.
Ako naman gusto ko rin mag asawa one day like my friends and have children but at the end of the day Sa catch up namin Kahit single pa ako sila may family na I learned a lot of things Sa kanila... para when Im given a chance ako ni Lord mag pakasal someday lahat ng learnings nakuha ko Sa friends ko maaply ko Sa life as a married woman.. mga wag ko Gawain Hinde ko gagawin.. promise you will learn. Lot from them! Kaya ako Ito enjoy life as much as I can as a single woman.
Walang formula sa happy marriage. Kahit pa million tips ang ibigay sa iyo ng mga friends, you and your partner will be the one to make the marriage work. Pag nafall out of love ang isa along the way, walang anumang formula pa ang makakalunas. When it's over, it's over.
Even if you have fallen out of love, if there is still trust, respect and friendship, a relationship could still work. I realised that when my husband and I made the decision to stay married and try to work things out despite all the challenges.
Theirs was a different story from yours. Yes,you can learn from them but eventually, when you get married you'll learn that despite how ready you are based on the many advises you've had had, you still need to do you and not rely on what the others have told you.
I am married for a very long time now. Matagal ko din naging bf ung hubby ko before getting married. Natural lng naman na may problems na maeencounter. Iba iba yan. Walang perfect na tao so walang perfect marriage. Respect. Trust. Love. It is always between the two persons involved di ung mga magpapayo payo syo.
Anon 11.10 you're are harsh but true, i guess when that time comes, love yourself more and respect the process its not easy as it may say but its worth it, afterall life is short and is beautiful spend all your love with your family and the people who supports you, magnet yourself to positivity, collect inspirational thoughts, keep yourself busy and Pray! Has 3 kids and on the process of painful separation of marriage life for 15 years, no third party! Personal differences and upbringing and values i guess. Yun lang..keep smiling and move forward๐
Beautiful message. I’m truly happy for her even if I don’t know her. ๐ฌ She has the right to speak out and be an inspiration to others who are and have been in a similar situation.
you know why she's talking about it? kasi naka move on na sya. Hindi na masakit para sa kanya para pag usapan. Wala sigurong nag mamahal sayo ๐คฃ or ikaw ung tipo ng taong puro putak sa fb pag binreak hahahah
Dko binasa pero I know why she shared it. Di pra ipangalandakan pero to help inspire other men/women who went thru the same situation. Dko magets bakit masama sa iba ung pag post nya.
Madali lang magmove on para sa kanya kasi mayaman, she can go wherever, and do whatever she wants. Kita mo meron na agad syang partner, wala pang 2 years hiwalay. Iba tlaga pag mayaman, mabilis magmove on. Pero pag ordinaryong tao, waley, 2 years na d ka pa makamove on lol
It's what you call LOVE IS BLIND dear 1:43. Maybe sa ibang tao, negative ang image ni Gab, pero baka may something kay Gab na hindi natin alam kaya nainlove si gurl sa kanya. Don't judge easily.
Tricia was ready to be a wife whereas Gab was just in love with the idea of being married. Both should be ready and matured before signing a binding contract. Once the wedding is over, you work on it, adjust if you have to, and it should be a respectful partnership. And if it doesn't work no matter how much you had both tried, let go. A broken marriage/relationship doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
Buti naman
ReplyDeleteTo be honest Medyo na lungkot ako when they broke up!:( Sayang talaga imagine 3 or 4 weddings ang ganap diba? Kaya baks lesson learned Ito Sa atin wag agad mag pakasal Kahit right age na dapat daw mag pakasal agad.. nope! Dapat 100 % ready talaga tayo from heart mind body and soul.. sympre financially na din... Iba na daw talaga pag kasal na
ReplyDeleteTotoo. Apat na beses tapos hiwalay din. Masaklap. Minsan okay pa un live in na lang. At least walang hassle. Testing the waters muna. Pag di swak. Goodbye
DeleteNaku iba naman ang situation nila and fyi you can never tell kung ready ka na talaga sa pag.aasawa noh. Feeling mo ready ka na bec you will be with your loved one. What do you mean test the waters muna? Live in? Lugi babae dyan noh
Deletesuper agree with 2:33. di mo masasabi. Kaya dapat kapag pinasok nyo na, do your best to make it work. Nasa sainyonng dalawa lang yan talaga.
Delete2:33, 8:49, i agree with you. Pero i think 12:50 means make sure na maturing kayo pareho and you both have a realistic idea of what marriage entails.
Delete1:05 so shallow, maglive in daw muna, hahahaha
DeleteAng pinaka importante both parties are willing to work sa relationship. I was 20 nung mag asawa and when i looked back sa lahat ng pinagdaanan namin kung bumitaw isa samin, hindi siguro kami nagcelebrate ng 22 anniversary and looking forward for more years of togetherness. ๐
Delete11:45 am, happy for you!
DeleteSorry but your logic is ๐๐ป @1:05AM
Delete12:50 maybe thats the ideal type but in reality you can never be ready and prepared. marriage is an everyday choice you have to make and an everyday learning experience.
DeleteAng haba, in short naka move on na ksi me jowa na sya bago. Tapos!
DeleteKami nga 9 years bago kami nag hiwalay. Pray lang ng pray.
DeleteMarriage is not just about love. It is a choice. Love fades away and when that time comes, you want to have something that holds you and your husband together. It doesn't matter how big or small your wedding is. What matters is the foundation.
DeleteSometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince charming. Marriage is not a guarantee that you are going to stay forever. Marriage is a promise and promises are made to be broken.
DeleteYou have to meet the person who will always choose to be with you and whom you will always choose to be with. So that... when you go through difficult situations... you will know you will both always choose each other.
DeleteWhat a beautiful and inspiring message. Being heartbroken and having a failed marriage is truly not the end of the world. Happiness exists for those who have faith and pick themselves up and forge on.
ReplyDeleteHindi ko na binasa. Basta ang alam ko, failure in marriage shouldnt be post in public
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DeleteSo dapat ikahiya at itago na parang madumi kang tao? Ano
DeleteNg mentality yan? The guy treated her badly that is why it ended. Well bumangon si girl, iniyakan niya pero hindi siya nagpatalo sa lungkot. She acknowledged those who supported her plus her loved ones and made herself a productive person who concentrated on her career and now has found someone who makes her happy. She knew she was not the problem and did not punish herself.
I agree
DeleteWhy not? Kung makakatulong sa ibang tao yung experience or thoughts nya.
DeleteEh kasi atat ka rin girl makasal. Marriage is not a rush
ReplyDeleteLol bakit sya lang ba nag decide magpakasal? Mutual agreement naman ah nagkataon lang na hindi nag work.
DeleteNever rush into marriage.
ReplyDeleteNever pretend to be in a happy and perfect married life all the time as per IG feed.
Never pretend to be someone that you are not just to project a certain image on social media.
Never tell people what to do with their lives.
Deleteeasier said than done, you righteous person
DeleteNever tell people that they should never tell people what to do with their lives
DeleteNever pretend. Period.
DeleteNever delve on anyone's personal issues unless that person is asking for your advise. Nagbabasa lang tayo dito oh... Maka never naman kayo.
DeleteWeddings and Marriages are not bandwagon and trend for couples to ride along. TAKE THE TIME to know yourselves better.
ReplyDeletethis... "forgive as often as you laugh and speak love". such an inspiring message from a woman with a strong mind and a forgiving heart.
ReplyDeleteLiving together then getting married = disaster. Pick one.
ReplyDeleteI'm in my late 20's and malapit na din mag 30... most of my friends who are married now every time we catch up ang lagi nila sinasabi sa akin..
ReplyDelete1. You're lucky your still single. Wag ka mag madali mag pakasal..
2. Wag ka mag asawa Muna enjoy life!
3. Once your married Iba na ang mundo.
Ako naman gusto ko rin mag asawa one day like my friends and have children but at the end of the day Sa catch up namin Kahit single pa ako sila may family na I learned a lot of things Sa kanila... para when Im given a chance ako ni Lord mag pakasal someday lahat ng learnings nakuha ko Sa friends ko maaply ko Sa life as a married woman.. mga wag ko Gawain Hinde ko gagawin.. promise you will learn. Lot from them! Kaya ako Ito enjoy life as much as I can as a single woman.
Walang formula sa happy marriage. Kahit pa million tips ang ibigay sa iyo ng mga friends, you and your partner will be the one to make the marriage work. Pag nafall out of love ang isa along the way, walang anumang formula pa ang makakalunas. When it's over, it's over.
DeleteEven if you have fallen out of love, if there is still trust, respect and friendship, a relationship could still work. I realised that when my husband and I made the decision to stay married and try to work things out despite all the challenges.
DeleteTheirs was a different story from yours. Yes,you can learn from them but eventually, when you get married you'll learn that despite how ready you are based on the many advises you've had had, you still need to do you and not rely on what the others have told you.
DeleteBeing married is like falling from 7th heaven! Reality sits in!
DeleteI am married for a very long time now. Matagal ko din naging bf ung hubby ko before getting married. Natural lng naman na may problems na maeencounter. Iba iba yan. Walang perfect na tao so walang perfect marriage. Respect. Trust. Love. It is always between the two persons involved di ung mga magpapayo payo syo.
DeleteAnon 11.10 you're are harsh but true, i guess when that time comes, love yourself more and respect the process its not easy as it may say but its worth it, afterall life is short and is beautiful spend all your love with your family and the people who supports you, magnet yourself to positivity, collect inspirational thoughts, keep yourself busy and Pray! Has 3 kids and on the process of painful separation of marriage life for 15 years, no third party! Personal differences and upbringing and values i guess. Yun lang..keep smiling and move forward๐
Deleteshe used mga bible verse and God but not nakakainis like the ex mudra in law.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful message. I’m truly happy for her even if I don’t know her. ๐ฌ She has the right to speak out and be an inspiration to others who are and have been in a similar situation.
ReplyDeleteMove on na daw, but she is still talking about it. Ano ba yan.
ReplyDeleteIkaw ang magmove on dyan sa kanegahan mo. Shake it off!
Deletei don't think she wrote it out of bitterness. she wrote it to inspire...
Deleteyou know why she's talking about it? kasi naka move on na sya. Hindi na masakit para sa kanya para pag usapan. Wala sigurong nag mamahal sayo ๐คฃ or ikaw ung tipo ng taong puro putak sa fb pag binreak hahahah
DeletePwede naman mangyari yun.
Delete2:43 hindi ko alam kung naintindihan mo ba yung post niya or kung binasa mo man lang.
DeleteDko binasa pero I know why she shared it. Di pra ipangalandakan pero to help inspire other men/women who went thru the same situation. Dko magets bakit masama sa iba ung pag post nya.
DeleteWhat a beautiful message of forgiveness and moving on.
ReplyDeleteYan ang patunay na love is not like a fairytale. Kailangan tinatrabaho.
ReplyDeletekoreks
Delete2:43 Ganyan talaga pag iisip Ng Isang nega. Ipagpatuloy mo ang mapait ming buhay. Dyan ka Lang lumiligaya pag nakapangbash ka.
ReplyDeleteWritten beautifully. Good luck Tricia. I hope you find your ultimate happiness. :)
ReplyDeleteMadali lang magmove on para sa kanya kasi mayaman, she can go wherever, and do whatever she wants. Kita mo meron na agad syang partner, wala pang 2 years hiwalay. Iba tlaga pag mayaman, mabilis magmove on. Pero pag ordinaryong tao, waley, 2 years na d ka pa makamove on lol
ReplyDeleteAy totoo. Mas madali mag move on ang mayayaman. Mas marami sila chances para maglibang.
Deletehey, moving on is a choice, wala sa estado ng buhay yan. nkklk k
Deletehindi based sa yaman ang pag mo move on mga hija. nasa pagkatao mo yun
DeleteAlam ng buong pilipinas na may attitude si gab. Pinakasalan mo pa din.
ReplyDeleteIt's what you call LOVE IS BLIND dear 1:43. Maybe sa ibang tao, negative ang image ni Gab, pero baka may something kay Gab na hindi natin alam kaya nainlove si gurl sa kanya. Don't judge easily.
Deletehmmm. attitude saka di naman gwapo tapos sya pa gumagastos. ok! love is blind nga.
Deletelucky ni girl may divorce sila
ReplyDeleteWho are you people to say what's wrong or right? To each his own. Don't shove your opinion down people's throat.
ReplyDeleteWas she a battered wife?Parang may hints dun sa write up nya.
ReplyDeleteTricia was ready to be a wife whereas Gab was just in love with the idea of being married. Both should be ready and matured before signing a binding contract. Once the wedding is over, you work on it, adjust if you have to, and it should be a respectful partnership. And if it doesn't work no matter how much you had both tried, let go. A broken marriage/relationship doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
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