Hirap maging artista. Wala kang karapatan maging totoo. Kaya bilib ako sa mga artistang hindi pa showbiz at ginagawa ang gusto nila maski tadtad sila sa mga nega comments ng mga judgemental na pinoys.
Si 2:38 napaghahalataang fantard ng isang Negastar na hirap na hirap na idefend ng sariling mgt. Nakikisawsaw naman ngayon kay Sofia pero alam mong iba pinaghuhugutan. Hahahaha!
As a Celebrity, you are selling BOTH your talents AND image! All top brass entertainment agencies and managers know that. Talent is a product and image is a talent's brand/marketing. You can NEVER sell a product without marketing.
Enroll mo nga sarili mo sa Business school... puro jeje alam mo eh.
Tama si 3:54 pag magaling kang artista yun na yung image mo. Dahil kahit nag aral ka pa sa business school e hindi mo malalaman kung totoo ba yung kaharap mo lalo na kung magaling siyang artista!
correct! pasok pasok itong mga ito sa pag aartista pero ayaw ng atensyon. Naalibadbaran sa mga tao. Parang nandidiri pa sa fans. Quit showbiz and get a different career. Kasi nakakahiya naman sa inyo!
I believe mabait syang Tao. Maybe she's the type na unapproachable at first but once masanay na sya sayo, she'll come out of her shell and be chatty. She's introverted. Mas mainam na to kesa yung kunwari mabait pero demonyo offcam at behind closed doors. She's humble enough to apologize and explain her side. Let's give this girl a chance.
I don't think "pang-iirap" and always looking at your phone qualifies as being introvert. And its not an excuse. She chose a profession that requires her to interact with people on a regular basis. She is an actress. Not all her roles are reflections of who she is in real life but she has to act and fake it to be believable. she should've done that during the interview.
12:22 ang taong introvert ay mas mamimistaken na mahiyain than masungit or maldita. Pero cguro nga pwede na din dahil masungit yung facial features nya. Ewan ko, pero yung umiirap sya and yung sabihin nya na "too tired to be too nice", i dont think may kinalaman dun ang esteem or confidence. Depende na din cguro how one will handle it. She should seek help kung ang manifestation nyan sa kanya ay negative. 12:58 besh, hindi naman naka depende sa surrounding ng tao kung magiging introvert sya or not. Wala yun on/off switch.
im with sofia andres... a lot of times people think na masungit and umiirap ako kahit di naman..nagugulat na lang ako na yun ang sinasabi nila.. all because i have resting bitch face and my eyes really looks like masungit.. so don't judge a book by its cover
Scheduled interview or presscon has long been arranged so hindi naman siguro binigla sya at pinaupo lang doon. She must know too well that she was there for a reason. Ba't parang nasa ibang planeta yata ang isip ni ateng? Diba sya na-notify ng schedules nya?
I feel you anon 2:00. Madalas din ang first impression sa ken is masungit because matapang daw ang dating ng mata ko. Even if i am not scowling. Kaloka.
actually, medyo relate ako sa kanya. mejo nasasabihan din ako dati ng suplada at isnabera. pero in reality, takot lang din akong mareject. kaya imbes na kakausapin ko or babatiin, magkukunwari na lang ako busy or di na lang titingin.
Baks binasa ko din kaso inuna ko comments section. And tama ka, dramarama.
Self defense pala yung nakatingin at nagpipindot sa phone while pretending no one is around you. If she's super shy then biz is not good for her. Dapat ma PR ka at friend ka ng lahat. Lalo na ngaun may socmed. Hindi na kapanahunan nila Nora at Vilma na mag antay ka ng news about them thru newspapers and magazines.
If this were true then i can totally relate with her because this is really me. I pretend like i dont care nor need anybody. Put me in a room full of people and id pretend to be busy with my phone playing games whatsoever just to keep me from engaging in a conversation. I dont even know how to open a conversation and if someone asks me how i am, i would answer a very generic “im fine” and the conversation would just end there because i wouldnt know how to say “how are you” back. Sucks to be us. Matapang and madaldal lang ako sa socmed especially if im anonymous. 😫
Di ka naman artista kaya okay lang. Artista siya so di uubra ang excuse niya. She has to fit in and blend in. Kung di niya kayang magbago w magquit siya.
Teh, being an introvert is NOT AN EXCUSE. Nasa official presscon sya... meaning, nasa trabaho sya whose aim is to promote their product (in this case, ung bagong show nya). So pag nagpo-promote ka ng product, ipapakita mong naiinip ka at gusto ng umuwi?
4:39 4:09 12:09 introvert ako, i told my family and relatives that i find parties and gatherings boring, and ayoko matease but in reality shy ako makihalubilo, kaya naiinip ako mas gusto ko sa kwarto magkulong at magisa at para wag ako lapitin i act bored and masungit, so please lang kung hindi ka introvert hindi mo maiintindihan ang situation, iba iba ang tao at iba iba din ang actions, magsalita tong mga to kala mo tatalino.
Can you use ur introvertness as an excuse NOT to do your job?! Kaya mo bang sabihin sa mga katrabaho mo 'ayaw kong makausap kau kasi introvert ako' while doing your job? Can you simply divert attention to your phone when on an OFFICIAL meeting with you as the center of attention? May relasyon pa ba ang pagiging introvert dito teh? I'm not saying I'm smart nor am I going against introvertness. What I'm against is using introvertness as an EXCUSE to NOT do your job which ur paid for. Being introverted has NOTHING to do with something that is expected from you!
Apology letter ba talaga to or excuse letter for bad behavior? Theres a huge difference. Masama talaga ugali mo teh. Matagal na yan. GGSS ka pa na feeling mo lahat may gusto sayo. Maraming artista na may insecurities at may fear of rejection pero di sila snob at matapobreng tulad mo. Wag acouh beshywap!
At least she acknowledged her mistake. Isaw her na sa mall and muka namang super reserve lang kasi talaga sya in person. Sana matuto sya maki salamuha or mag personality improvement program sya. Sayang opportunities and break na binibigay sakanya kung pagpapatuloy nya yung ugali nya na snobera at magmaldita
I think there is a difference between being reserved and posting "too tired to be too nice". Kung reserved ka and takot sa tao why would you post something like that?
She was in a presscon... official work. She should have tried her best to keep up a facade so that people will like her. Being with the press is a sensitive environment because small actions can get bigger and can reach even wider audience/medium.
Give this lady a benefit of the doubt guys. Afterall, di naman natin alam kung anong problema nya bat sya ganun. Nag sorry naman na sya. Kubg magbabago talaga sya, then good for her
yup i can sense sincerity sa post nya. may nakitaan nakong isang celebrity dati na nag apologize pero may shading pa din sa huli eh, yun ang kabwisit. pero Sofia is okay kaya move on na tayo.
You're scared that people would judge you that's why you act the way you do?? Girl, act bitchy and people would judge you as being a bitch, act nice and people would see you as a nice person. Plain and simple. You just spouted BS in that "apology". Im sure you were told to be humble on that post to gain sympathy. Damage control lalo na baka maka sira ka pa sa bagong show niyo.
Interview yun mga ate. Kasama sa trabaho, and she should've acted professional while doing her job. Kailangang umirap-irap habang iniinterview ng bloggers?
I remember when her van caused an accident and nag pa-victim mode siya on socmed. Yon pala the person they hit works for a major fashion mag and he put her on blast. Noon na siya pa-victim. May kulo talaga si girl.
I can totally relate to her too....ganyan din ako Pag Hinde ko kilala snob ko or Hinde ko papansinin Kaya ako na papakamalhan na suplada, moody, Sungit at snob.. minsan nga umiiwas din ako kasi I still have this hiya and insecurities kasi takot ako ma reject or Anu sabihin Sa akin Kaya ako... I pretend na kungyari d ko sila nakita . Usually Kami yung Tao yung often misunderstood . Hinde lahat ng Tao parehas ng personality Kaya learn na intindihin at pakisamahan ... maybe introvert itong si Sophia
Same here. People like us and a few who commented above can relate to this and be sympathetic to Sofia because we see ourselves in her. So I do understand her. Hoping others can show some empathy also, instead of judging right away.
Truth!! D ko masyado like si sophia pero I can relate to her. Yong iba kasi dito masyadong expert in socializing at paggiging outgoing not knowing na iba2x ang klase ng tao! hayy nako
Same here. Alam ko kung ano yung nararamdaman nya kasi ganyan din ako. Why do people keep saying here na "eh di wag mag artista" it's what she wants to do eh. Sabi naman nya na she's working on it. She said sorry na nga eh, after all di naman nya sainyo ginawa yun. Ang mean lang ng mga tao
Pls realize how privileged you are to be given a break sa Bagani o maging bida sa teleserye. Andaming mas deserving sayo, the least thing you could do is ayusin ang ugali mo
because of that, i like you na. it takes a certain amount of humility to apologize and put her self on the spot like that. cos' admit it, some people would still bash her, at ida-down pa sya kahit she admitted na she was wrong. ganun talaga ang human nature i guess.
Well, only God knows. Marami masyadong maalam sa comments. It may sounds excuse but if you come to think of it there are real people whos experiencing and can feel the same as her.
Kasi pa importante at pasikat sya. Un ang totoo. Kesyo malapit sya sa fans kuno pero totoo isnabera Yan. Mas kinikilala nya ung sikat, pag Di ka sikat, Wala din sya. Ganon Lang un. Sows. Suplada sya. At namimili sya nv taong kakausapin. Pag Alam nya na mapapakinabangan nya. Kung ikaw kilala mo aa sarili mo, Hindi mo na kailangan pang magpalinawanag. Kung nasa Tama ka, bakit ka magbabago. Ang totoo, Alam nya sarili nya at Alam nya na isnabera sya. Tapos.
Nabigyan na ng kaunting break akala mo kung sinong sikat ng umasta. Yan ang problema sa mga artista ngayon, ang bilis lumaki ng ulo lalo na mga taga-ABS.
Then you are in the wrong line of business. You know being in showbiz calls for good public relations. This is the type of profession that good PR will be your ticket to stardom and longevity.
why natatakot mag hi or hello if its a group or team na haharap ka for an interview ... diba dapat magiliw ka sa kanila .. like in a prescon or blogcon atbp..
Nakuu naman defense mechanism mo sa fear mo ang maging arogante (rolling your eyes) and bastos (cellphone to the max). Ayun! Di kaya yun ka lang talaga?
I feel for her, I’m not an actress but I am the same. People sometimes mistakenly me as snob but I am not. I’m always having a hard time approaching people because of the fear of being rejected rather ill just walk away and say nothing at all. I think mabait syang tao. Minsan naman lagay muna ang sarili bago mag judge ng tao at mag share ng opinion para sirain ang isang tao
Iba rin po kasi pag may attitude problem. Im an introvert. I feel like everyone is staring at me pero di ako bastos na mag phophone ako. At shy ako kung shy ka di ka mag phphone sa presscon
Para sirain ang isang Tao? Patawa ka? Un mga Tao nageexpress Lang ng views, hindi ka madestroy Kung talagang mabuti Kang tao. Defensive sta Kasi kilala nya sarili nya. Alam nya na isnabera sya
Manners and personalities are two separate things. I am an introvert myself. Ang tanda ko na and yet I'm still plagued by my inadequacies. But if I have to sit through something uncomfortable because I have to and etiquette demands it, I do it. Or that when I am in a conversation with someone or a set of people, I give them my undivided attention unless an emergency ensues.
Ok lang magpakatotoo pero hindi ok yung maging masama ugali mo. Kung ayaw mo ng mga presscon ayaw mo mapagaod maghanap ka ng ibang trabaho.lalo at kung di ka nageexcel dito.
So sad for her. Been through that insecure phase in my younger years. I think she's being sincere and the fact that people still bash her even after she has shown vulnerability just proves majority just intend to be mean and abusive online. Artista or not, you can't please everyone so don't take to heart all the negativity especially from random people who don't really matter in your life!
Yung mga perfect dito just say you hate her and go. Oo pinili nya yan but being an introvert is not something a lot of people understand. Paki go home your medieval reasoning.
Teh, we don't hate her. And NO, being introvert is NOT a reason to forget your MANNERS especially as a PUBLIC FIGURE. She knew she has a press con and that's enough reason to keep up a facade of her image. She had time to prepare and condition herself HOW TO ACT in front of the press. Regardless if there was a prior commitment or a stint before the conference, she should know how to manage and prepare!
wag ka mag artista... you want the fame and pay but you don't want the responsibilities that goes with it... so many excuses... again, wag kang mag artista...
i understand her...ganyan din ako...most of the time napagkamalan maldita/suplada because of my face na di marunong mag smile...even in pics, i find it awkward to smile...but she's artista, so need nya to work on that....hope she can overcome it....para lang hindi bagay sa introvert maging artista...yun lang po...
I can relate as well. But the problem is she's in the business of entertaining and pleasing people. Like it or not, she has to learn how to be a people person. Its her bread and butter. That is, if she wants to remain honing her craft.
Anong relate? Artista ka Teh? Nasa Q&A panel ka more than twice? Tinarayan mo rin ba ang mga interviewers mo sa isang official discussion? Nag-bababad ka rin sa phone kung may kausap?
3:56 oo artista ako, nalaos nga lang. (smirk) Pero btaw binabawi ko na yung pagdedefend ko sa kanya since nakita ko yung latest news nya dito sa FP about her.
yan kase,ung confidence galing sa validation from likes and comments in social media. puro social media lng inaatupag..feed goals,selfies..all to feed the ego. hindi na ndevelop ang social skills in the real world.
Learned lesson yan sa mga young celebrities ang nangyari kay Sofia. Be professional sa harap ng press people. Dami kasing nag ce-cellphone minsan pa nga nag che-chewing gum pa. Yung mga celebrities minsan ang mga looks talagang mukhang walang gana sa kausap. Hindi nila naisip na sila ang gagawan ng article. Wala na nga silang freedom to ask questions ng gusto nila dahil usually filtered ng network tapos hindi pa maganda ang behaviour ng artista.
I believe her. May one time nagshoot sila dito banda samin (Pwera Usog) and she's nice approachable lumabas pa ng tent saying if may gusto papic pero makikita mo uneasy siya sa actions niyang ganun like tama ba un or ano. Dont be too hard on her di namn natin siya kakilala personally baka sa kakabash sa kanya eh iba pa isipin niya like madepress etc. Lets spread positivity guys 😄
Yeah. Right. How long have you been at this again? This thing called acting? And you wanted to do this right, ang pag aartista? And you wanted because you knew all the advantages of being one, from money to fame and other privileges right? But you also knew you had to play nice with fans and the press and other crap to survive right? No? Uh yeah. Right. So will we see "I have depression" posts next? Yeah. Right.
Ang true measure of apology ay yung hindi ka na uulit. Siguro nga marami siyang issues pero girl, hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon magaadjust ang ibang tao para sayo. Dapat marunong ka rin makisama, otherwise di ka magtatagal sa showbiz.
Dati, sinuportahan ko Yan. Pero nawalan ako ng Gana. Puro pakabig. Pag Alam nya napapakinabangan nya Tao, manipulate nya to her advantage. Malamang ung ibang nameet nya e imbyerna agad sa kanya Kaya cguro Ganon. lumalabas tunay na ugali. Defensive Yan. Kasi mean talaga sya
Actually, whether may fear of rejection eme siya, rude pa rin yung more cellphone si vaks sa harap ng interviewers. Let's say mabait naman siya at wiz sadya pag-irap, wiz mapapagkaila na bastos yung pagcecellphone niya sa kalagitnaan ng interview. Common courtesy lang ganern. Naforget ata ang GMRC.
she may be sincere with her words here but dear, if you already know that your defense mechanism could lead to misinterpretations, then you should be working on it, lalo pag showbiz where kaplastikan goes along long way.
I too am a shy person but I have never been arrogant. This girl should think of another job is she can't cope with meeting people. Try nya mag librarian.
People who are insecure indeed try to cover it up with a strong facade. It's good of her to accept this and even share it on social media. What she does hereon will determine if she will learn from this lesson.
If she's sincere about her apology (which I doubt because a proper apology doesn't come with a slew of excuses and all about me undertones), why doesn't she personally apologize to the bloopers and reporter? Why put it on an IG story? Why? Cuz it'll ruin her feed? How insincere. Her behavior has nothing to do with her being insecure or shy. I'm an introvert, but arrogant and rude towards ppl specially at work is a no-no at any job u do.
mga ateh, kung naaalibadbaran kayo sa mga atensyon na binibigay sa inyo ng mga fans. Dapat mag iba kayo ng career! wag na kayo mag artista! kasi naiirita kayo dahil naaabala ang privacy ninyo pero nag aartista kayo. Try nyo mamundok at tumira sa Kweba, doon walang gagambala sa buhay ninyo.
Introvert ako pero pag may nakakasalubong akong naghi-hi at nginitian ako ay ganun din ang ginagawa ko sa kanila. Kapag nahihiya ako makipagusap nagkukunwari na lang akong busy o kaya beast mode ang lola. As in turning my back at them o kaya walang ngitian. Hahaha!
Be true to yourself. Better to be smug than friendly if you're not really a people person. It's tiresome to pretend. The only ones offended that you're not accommodating are the same ones who want to eat you alive.
So it's and okay for her to be rude and unprofessional when she's working? You know ganito din siya bts of her show. You wonder why no one is close to her or hangs out with her. Kasi matapobre talaga aura niya. BV siya kahit sa set. Alam yan ng lahat. Covered up lang ng manager niya.
Ang haba ng apologies and explanation niya but it doesn't change the fact that she was rude and not nice to others. Damage control bago masira ang image niya.
Introvert din ako. Taray taray din ako pra di na ako kausapin lalo na pag di ko trip yung mga nkakasalamuha ko. Pro di nmn ako artista so okay lang. Pro si ate gurl artista xa kaya sorry at na judge ka.
Bakla full of me, myself and I ka. Hype ka!
ReplyDeleteNag sorry na - para sa mga paimportante, feeling entitled, na dapat all smile at bait baitan ang artista sa kanila
DeleteEh bat kasi nagro roll eyes pa daw si ate tapos puro celphone. Iba ang insecure sa walang manners.
DeleteHirap maging artista. Wala kang karapatan maging totoo. Kaya bilib ako sa mga artistang hindi pa showbiz at ginagawa ang gusto nila maski tadtad sila sa mga nega comments ng mga judgemental na pinoys.
Delete12:52 Part ng trabaho niya ang ngumiti habang iniinterview.
Delete2:38 trabaho niya ang magkaroon ng good image. Kung gusto niyang magpakatotoo, tanggapin niya ang pamumuna ng mga tao. Kung ayaw niya, magquit siya.
Iba ang pagiging totoo sa pagkakaron ng masamang ugali. Di porke nagpapakatotoo ka eh ok lang na bastos ka. Mali yun
Delete5:49 masama man o hindi ugali nung tao napapagod din yan, tao lang din yan, nagapologized na dami mo pang mema, damn if u do, damn if u dont!
DeleteCut her some slack. Whether totoo ang sinabi nya o hindi, binaba pa rin nya ang pride at nagsorry. What she does from hereon should be the true test.
DeleteSi 2:38 napaghahalataang fantard ng isang Negastar na hirap na hirap na idefend ng sariling mgt. Nakikisawsaw naman ngayon kay Sofia pero alam mong iba pinaghuhugutan. Hahahaha!
Delete12:52 okay ka lang? Nasa presscon siya nun or interview ata. Nag ppromote siya so dapat umakto siya ng maayos.
Delete5:49 trabaho niya magaling dapat umarte at mag-entertain! Hindi magkaron ng good image!
DeleteA definite NO AnonymousMarch 7, 2018 at 3:54 PM!
DeleteAs a Celebrity, you are selling BOTH your talents AND image!
All top brass entertainment agencies and managers know that.
Talent is a product and image is a talent's brand/marketing. You can NEVER sell a product without marketing.
Enroll mo nga sarili mo sa Business school... puro jeje alam mo eh.
Tama si 3:54 pag magaling kang artista yun na yung image mo. Dahil kahit nag aral ka pa sa business school e hindi mo malalaman kung totoo ba yung kaharap mo lalo na kung magaling siyang artista!
Deletecorrect! pasok pasok itong mga ito sa pag aartista pero ayaw ng atensyon. Naalibadbaran sa mga tao. Parang nandidiri pa sa fans. Quit showbiz and get a different career. Kasi nakakahiya naman sa inyo!
DeleteDA WHO pa rin naman si Sofia. Wala pa siyang napapatunayan na tumatak talaga sa tao.
Deletehahahhahhh Natakot si gurl dahil takot din siya mawalan ng trabaho kaya napilitan magsorry social media. Kahit alam natin may attitude siya talaga
DeleteI believe mabait syang Tao. Maybe she's the type na unapproachable at first but once masanay na sya sayo, she'll come out of her shell and be chatty. She's introverted. Mas mainam na to kesa yung kunwari mabait pero demonyo offcam at behind closed doors. She's humble enough to apologize and explain her side. Let's give this girl a chance.
ReplyDeleteI don't think "pang-iirap" and always looking at your phone qualifies as being introvert. And its not an excuse. She chose a profession that requires her to interact with people on a regular basis. She is an actress. Not all her roles are reflections of who she is in real life but she has to act and fake it to be believable. she should've done that during the interview.
DeleteEh di wag sya sa showbiz. Sa opisina na lang sya magtrabaho
DeleteIf she's full of FEAR, ba't mag-artista?! Privacy, attitude and all the minor details are scrutinized in showbiz.
DeleteI agree @12:22. And to you @12:58 shut up. Typical bully online pero pagkaharap mo na parang asong nabahag ang buntot.
Delete12:22 ang taong introvert ay mas mamimistaken na mahiyain than masungit or maldita. Pero cguro nga pwede na din dahil masungit yung facial features nya. Ewan ko, pero yung umiirap sya and yung sabihin nya na "too tired to be too nice", i dont think may kinalaman dun ang esteem or confidence. Depende na din cguro how one will handle it. She should seek help kung ang manifestation nyan sa kanya ay negative.
Delete12:58 besh, hindi naman naka depende sa surrounding ng tao kung magiging introvert sya or not. Wala yun on/off switch.
im with sofia andres... a lot of times people think na masungit and umiirap ako kahit di naman..nagugulat na lang ako na yun ang sinasabi nila.. all because i have resting bitch face and my eyes really looks like masungit.. so don't judge a book by its cover
DeleteScheduled interview or presscon has long been arranged so hindi naman siguro binigla sya at pinaupo lang doon. She must know too well that she was there for a reason. Ba't parang nasa ibang planeta yata ang isip ni ateng? Diba sya na-notify ng schedules nya?
DeleteI feel you anon 2:00. Madalas din ang first impression sa ken is masungit because matapang daw ang dating ng mata ko. Even if i am not scowling. Kaloka.
DeleteHahahahaha!!! Ang matindi di sya mabait on and off cam! Ilang media people na nagpatotoo. Wag kayong bulag bulagan!
DeleteThere's a huge difference between fear of rejection and bad attitude. Your actions and words dont match at all. Goodluck girl.
ReplyDeleteactually, medyo relate ako sa kanya. mejo nasasabihan din ako dati ng suplada at isnabera. pero in reality, takot lang din akong mareject. kaya imbes na kakausapin ko or babatiin, magkukunwari na lang ako busy or di na lang titingin.
DeleteOkay lang un 12:39 hindi ka naman nagartista eh
DeleteLol and hindi mo naman siguro ginawa yun 12:39 in the middle of an interview?
DeleteHer defense is quite far-fetched. But let us all give her the benefit of the doubt. Wawa naman
ReplyDeleteSounds like an excuse to me.
ReplyDeleteBinasa ko talaga. Pero puro drama lang pala. Lol.
ReplyDeleteBaks binasa ko din kaso inuna ko comments section. And tama ka, dramarama.
DeleteSelf defense pala yung nakatingin at nagpipindot sa phone while pretending no one is around you. If she's super shy then biz is not good for her. Dapat ma PR ka at friend ka ng lahat. Lalo na ngaun may socmed. Hindi na kapanahunan nila Nora at Vilma na mag antay ka ng news about them thru newspapers and magazines.
Sus jinustify pa ung paguugali.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha.... Lame excuse for her real bad attitude!!!
ReplyDeleteIf this were true then i can totally relate with her because this is really me. I pretend like i dont care nor need anybody. Put me in a room full of people and id pretend to be busy with my phone playing games whatsoever just to keep me from engaging in a conversation. I dont even know how to open a conversation and if someone asks me how i am, i would answer a very generic “im fine” and the conversation would just end there because i wouldnt know how to say “how are you” back. Sucks to be us. Matapang and madaldal lang ako sa socmed especially if im anonymous. 😫
ReplyDeleteMe too.. pero once close at comfortable na ako sa tao, i tend to be really talkative. Pero minsan, tahimik lg ako kasi i like to observe peeps.
DeleteDi ka naman artista kaya okay lang. Artista siya so di uubra ang excuse niya. She has to fit in and blend in. Kung di niya kayang magbago w magquit siya.
DeleteTrabaho nya yan. Yan din ba attitude nyo sa trabaho nyo 12:28 and 5:11 kung working na nga kayo?
DeleteTulog na Sofia! Tama na excuses!
DeleteMala Windows 98 code ang paandar ah. Outdated and over...just like her career.
ReplyDeleteAnd 'I' tenkyow
ReplyDeleteMukhang tinawagan ng boss at pinag-apologize si bakla for damage control. Di kasi ayusin ugali. Dadagdag pa sa bad pr ng Bagani.
ReplyDeleteTapos ano yung 'too tired to be too nice' na ganap niya kung anxious pala siya at hindi attitude?
Deletepati pag sososorry "me,myself and I " parin drama ni ate girl. 😂
ReplyDeleteSocial media and attitude can make or break you. Yan pinili mong trabaho kaya umayos ka.
ReplyDeleteSo yung pag irap irap nya is fear of rejection pala yun.
ReplyDeleteDi ko mai-connect ang pag-irap sa fear of rejection. Introvert ako pero di ako pala-irap. I normally respond with a shy smile.
Deleteintrovert ako madalas ako umirap lalo na pagnaiinip sa mga gathering dahil i cant wait umuwi at magkulong uli sa kwarto.
Delete8:38 baka maarte ka lang talaga
Delete
DeleteAnonymousMarch 7, 2018 at 8:38 AM
Teh, being an introvert is NOT AN EXCUSE.
Nasa official presscon sya... meaning, nasa trabaho sya whose aim is to promote their product (in this case, ung bagong show nya).
So pag nagpo-promote ka ng product, ipapakita mong naiinip ka at gusto ng umuwi?
8:38 walang kinalaman ang pagiging introvert sa mainipin or nang iirap maldita ka lang talaga
Delete4:39 4:09 12:09 introvert ako, i told my family and relatives that i find parties and gatherings boring, and ayoko matease but in reality shy ako makihalubilo, kaya naiinip ako mas gusto ko sa kwarto magkulong at magisa at para wag ako lapitin i act bored and masungit, so please lang kung hindi ka introvert hindi mo maiintindihan ang situation, iba iba ang tao at iba iba din ang actions, magsalita tong mga to kala mo tatalino.
DeleteAnonymousMarch 7, 2018 at 11:28 PM
DeleteCan you use ur introvertness as an excuse NOT to do your job?!
Kaya mo bang sabihin sa mga katrabaho mo 'ayaw kong makausap kau kasi introvert ako' while doing your job? Can you simply divert attention to your phone when on an OFFICIAL meeting with you as the center of attention? May relasyon pa ba ang pagiging introvert dito teh?
I'm not saying I'm smart nor am I going against introvertness. What I'm against is using introvertness as an EXCUSE to NOT do your job which ur paid for. Being introverted has NOTHING to do with something that is expected from you!
Apology letter ba talaga to or excuse letter for bad behavior? Theres a huge difference. Masama talaga ugali mo teh. Matagal na yan. GGSS ka pa na feeling mo lahat may gusto sayo. Maraming artista na may insecurities at may fear of rejection pero di sila snob at matapobreng tulad mo. Wag acouh beshywap!
ReplyDeleteAyusin mo muna yung flat mong mukha at paguugali bago ka humarap ss ibang tao gurl. Mas madaming deserving bigyan ng break kesa sayo
ReplyDeleteang ganda mo
DeleteOo maganda ako and I thank you bow.
DeleteAt least she acknowledged her mistake. Isaw her na sa mall and muka namang super reserve lang kasi talaga sya in person. Sana matuto sya maki salamuha or mag personality improvement program sya. Sayang opportunities and break na binibigay sakanya kung pagpapatuloy nya yung ugali nya na snobera at magmaldita
ReplyDeleteI think there is a difference between being reserved and posting "too tired to be too nice". Kung reserved ka and takot sa tao why would you post something like that?
DeleteMore like jinustift niya ung kaartehan niya.
DeleteMore like jinustify niya ung kaartehan niya.
DeleteTeh,
DeleteShe was in a presscon... official work.
She should have tried her best to keep up a facade so that people will like her.
Being with the press is a sensitive environment because small actions can get bigger and can reach even wider audience/medium.
Give this lady a benefit of the doubt guys. Afterall, di naman natin alam kung anong problema nya bat sya ganun. Nag sorry naman na sya. Kubg magbabago talaga sya, then good for her
ReplyDeleteTeh,
DeleteOk lang ang "Benefit Of The Doubt" if it happened ONCE.
Pero pag twice, thrice, or more... ibang usapan na un.
Mukha nmng sincere
ReplyDeleteTrue.
Deleteyup i can sense sincerity sa post nya. may nakitaan nakong isang celebrity dati na nag apologize pero may shading pa din sa huli eh, yun ang kabwisit. pero Sofia is okay kaya move on na tayo.
DeleteAte tulog na....
DeleteYou're scared that people would judge you that's why you act the way you do?? Girl, act bitchy and people would judge you as being a bitch, act nice and people would see you as a nice person. Plain and simple. You just spouted BS in that "apology". Im sure you were told to be humble on that post to gain sympathy. Damage control lalo na baka maka sira ka pa sa bagong show niyo.
ReplyDeleteCharotera si ineng!
ReplyDeleteUng feeling of everyone talks s behind your back yet expecting more of you. How can you pretend everything is okay infront of them?
ReplyDeleteMagquit siya sa showbiz if she can't take the heat.
DeleteTeh,
DeleteKahit saang industriya, ganun!
Kelangan mo lang paano i-manage ung REACTION mo and choose to RESPOND in the most appropriate manner.
kanina ka pa teh, galit na galit ka yata dun sa tao? masama yan teh hinay lang mahighblood ka. ikaw na magartista teh dami mong alam eh
DeleteFeer of rejection eh interview nga
ReplyDeletei think she might be telling the truth, thing is, pinasok mo showbiz, so u need to change your attitude or change career!
ReplyDeleteRelate ako kay ate girl. I have the same feeling pag socializing with everyone.
ReplyDeleteme too. kaya nga gets na gets ko din siya.
DeleteInterview yun mga ate. Kasama sa trabaho, and she should've acted professional while doing her job. Kailangang umirap-irap habang iniinterview ng bloggers?
Delete5:57 kanina ka pa, ikaw na pumalit sa kanya. mema to. nag apologize na ano pa ba gusto mo?
Delete8;44 may point kasi sya d tulad mo sabaw utak
DeleteDon’t us. Isn’t she the one involved sa parking lot incident with a senior citizen? Lame excuse. Fear of rejection daw oh.
ReplyDeleteay parang si Sue Ramirez yun kung di ako nagkakamali
DeleteThat was Sue. Mema ka lang.
DeleteI remember when her van caused an accident and nag pa-victim mode siya on socmed. Yon pala the person they hit works for a major fashion mag and he put her on blast. Noon na siya pa-victim. May kulo talaga si girl.
DeleteI can totally relate to her too....ganyan din ako Pag Hinde ko kilala snob ko or Hinde ko papansinin Kaya ako na papakamalhan na suplada, moody, Sungit at snob.. minsan nga umiiwas din ako kasi I still have this hiya and insecurities kasi takot ako ma reject or Anu sabihin Sa akin Kaya ako... I pretend na kungyari d ko sila nakita . Usually Kami yung Tao yung often misunderstood . Hinde lahat ng Tao parehas ng personality Kaya learn na intindihin at pakisamahan ... maybe introvert itong si Sophia
ReplyDeleteSame here. People like us and a few who commented above can relate to this and be sympathetic to Sofia because we see ourselves in her. So I do understand her. Hoping others can show some empathy also, instead of judging right away.
DeleteTruth!! D ko masyado like si sophia pero I can relate to her. Yong iba kasi dito masyadong expert in socializing at paggiging outgoing not knowing na iba2x ang klase ng tao! hayy nako
DeleteArtista ka teh?
DeleteHindi ka dapat nag-showbiz ateng.... else, you have to change your attitude kasi pinasok mo showbiz eh.
ReplyDeletegets ko sya. nasasabihan din akong snobbish when in fact im just painfully shy to greet other people.
ReplyDeleteHahahahhahaa!!! Sabihan mo sya na gayahin ka na not in showbiz. Walang pupuna! Makakuda lang eh!
DeleteSame here. Alam ko kung ano yung nararamdaman nya kasi ganyan din ako. Why do people keep saying here na "eh di wag mag artista" it's what she wants to do eh. Sabi naman nya na she's working on it. She said sorry na nga eh, after all di naman nya sainyo ginawa yun. Ang mean lang ng mga tao
ReplyDeleteTulog na sofia. Mag rest ka na para di ka too tired to be nice
DeleteSo effect pala ng fear of rejection nya yung pag irap irap nya? Kaloka ka girl. Galingan mo minsan mga excuse mo. lol
ReplyDeletenag apologize na, ok na yon. move on na!
ReplyDeletePls realize how privileged you are to be given a break sa Bagani o maging bida sa teleserye. Andaming mas deserving sayo, the least thing you could do is ayusin ang ugali mo
ReplyDeleteso true. panira cya sa lineup ng 5 main cast
Deletebecause of that, i like you na. it takes a certain amount of humility to apologize and put her self on the spot like that. cos' admit it, some people would still bash her, at ida-down pa sya kahit she admitted na she was wrong. ganun talaga ang human nature i guess.
ReplyDeleteTagalugin mo na lang beshy! Hahahha
ReplyDeleteHer English is passable naman, what's wrong with you?
Delete2am is a typical bully.
DeleteDi sya bully. Di lang sya makagets ng english.
DeleteKudos to her. It takes a brave act to admit this that she is working on it. Give her a chance. And girl, pls do improve you are a public figure still
ReplyDeleteWell, only God knows. Marami masyadong maalam sa comments. It may sounds excuse but if you come to think of it there are real people whos experiencing and can feel the same as her.
ReplyDeleteCONSISTENCY. If u know what that means then u'll understand the comments of most people here.
Delete"Never ruin an apology with an excuse."
ReplyDeleteDi sana di ka nagshowbiz. Dami mo sinabi.
ReplyDeleteKasi pa importante at pasikat sya. Un ang totoo. Kesyo malapit sya sa fans kuno pero totoo isnabera Yan. Mas kinikilala nya ung sikat, pag Di ka sikat, Wala din sya. Ganon Lang un. Sows. Suplada sya. At namimili sya nv taong kakausapin. Pag Alam nya na mapapakinabangan nya. Kung ikaw kilala mo aa sarili mo, Hindi mo na kailangan pang magpalinawanag. Kung nasa Tama ka, bakit ka magbabago. Ang totoo, Alam nya sarili nya at Alam nya na isnabera sya. Tapos.
ReplyDeleteNabigyan na ng kaunting break akala mo kung sinong sikat ng umasta. Yan ang problema sa mga artista ngayon, ang bilis lumaki ng ulo lalo na mga taga-ABS.
ReplyDeleteI believe you Sofia...
ReplyDeleteMadaming ganyan, yung mahina ang social skills. Don’t easily judge.
ReplyDeleteArtista ba sila lahat?
DeleteOo madami 10:31.
Deletegirl your in the wrong business
ReplyDeleteThen you are in the wrong line of business. You know being in showbiz calls for good public relations. This is the type of profession that good PR will be your ticket to stardom and longevity.
ReplyDeletewhy natatakot mag hi or hello if its a group or team na haharap ka for an interview ... diba dapat magiliw ka sa kanila .. like in a prescon or blogcon atbp..
ReplyDeleteNakuu naman defense mechanism mo sa fear mo ang maging arogante (rolling your eyes) and bastos (cellphone to the max). Ayun! Di kaya yun ka lang talaga?
ReplyDeleteTomoo. Defensive masyado kasi kilala nya sarili nya. Alam nya na isnabera Naman talaga sya
DeleteI feel for her, I’m not an actress but I am the same. People sometimes mistakenly me as snob but I am not. I’m always having a hard time approaching people because of the fear of being rejected rather ill just walk away and say nothing at all. I think mabait syang tao. Minsan naman lagay muna ang sarili bago mag judge ng tao at mag share ng opinion para sirain ang isang tao
ReplyDeleteIba rin po kasi pag may attitude problem. Im an introvert. I feel like everyone is staring at me pero di ako bastos na mag phophone ako. At shy ako kung shy ka di ka mag phphone sa presscon
DeletePara sirain ang isang Tao? Patawa ka? Un mga Tao nageexpress Lang ng views, hindi ka madestroy Kung talagang mabuti Kang tao. Defensive sta Kasi kilala nya sarili nya. Alam nya na isnabera sya
DeleteManners and personalities are two separate things. I am an introvert myself. Ang tanda ko na and yet I'm still plagued by my inadequacies. But if I have to sit through something uncomfortable because I have to and etiquette demands it, I do it. Or that when I am in a conversation with someone or a set of people, I give them my undivided attention unless an emergency ensues.
DeleteOk lang magpakatotoo pero hindi ok yung maging masama ugali mo. Kung ayaw mo ng mga presscon ayaw mo mapagaod maghanap ka ng ibang trabaho.lalo at kung di ka nageexcel dito.
ReplyDeleteSo sad for her. Been through that insecure phase in my younger years. I think she's being sincere and the fact that people still bash her even after she has shown vulnerability just proves majority just intend to be mean and abusive online. Artista or not, you can't please everyone so don't take to heart all the negativity especially from random people who don't really matter in your life!
ReplyDeleteNo. People are expressing their views on her pathetic excuse of being mean. Oh please...
DeleteYung mga perfect dito just say you hate her and go. Oo pinili nya yan but being an introvert is not something a lot of people understand. Paki go home your medieval reasoning.
ReplyDeleteIm not perfect and yan rin feeling ko all the time pero di ko bastos na nag phophone
DeleteIntrovert?! Have u seen her photos? That's not being introverted. Porket sinabe ng Tao na introverted sya naniniwala ka agad. Etsos
DeleteTeh, we don't hate her. And NO, being introvert is NOT a reason to forget your MANNERS especially as a PUBLIC FIGURE.
DeleteShe knew she has a press con and that's enough reason to keep up a facade of her image. She had time to prepare and condition herself HOW TO ACT in front of the press. Regardless if there was a prior commitment or a stint before the conference, she should know how to manage and prepare!
too late po
ReplyDeleteyou may profess to be this and that yet it does not manifest on your actions/gestures...try again honey
ReplyDeletewag ka mag artista... you want the fame and pay but you don't want the responsibilities that goes with it... so many excuses... again, wag kang mag artista...
ReplyDeletei understand her...ganyan din ako...most of the time napagkamalan maldita/suplada because of my face na di marunong mag smile...even in pics, i find it awkward to smile...but she's artista, so need nya to work on that....hope she can overcome it....para lang hindi bagay sa introvert maging artista...yun lang po...
ReplyDeleteToo crass too entitled. Why not get real artists abs??? Please!????
ReplyDeleteNakakarelate ako sa kanya. Ganyan din ako. Haaay I'm really sad to those people who are quick to judge you.
ReplyDeleteI can relate as well. But the problem is she's in the business of entertaining and pleasing people. Like it or not, she has to learn how to be a people person. Its her bread and butter. That is, if she wants to remain honing her craft.
DeleteSows. Oa ka. Tulog mo n Lang Yan.
DeleteAnong relate?
DeleteArtista ka Teh?
Nasa Q&A panel ka more than twice? Tinarayan mo rin ba ang mga interviewers mo sa isang official discussion? Nag-bababad ka rin sa phone kung may kausap?
3:56 oo artista ako, nalaos nga lang. (smirk) Pero btaw binabawi ko na yung pagdedefend ko sa kanya since nakita ko yung latest news nya dito sa FP about her.
Delete3:33 hindi ako si Sofia kaya ikaw ang matulog.
Deleteyan kase,ung confidence galing sa validation from likes and comments in social media. puro social media lng inaatupag..feed goals,selfies..all to feed the ego. hindi na ndevelop ang social skills in the real world.
ReplyDeleteTrue. It's fake confidence. Gusto talagang sumikat. Kasi Hindi ka Naman magrereact ng ganyan Kung simple ka Lang.
DeleteLearned lesson yan sa mga young celebrities ang nangyari kay Sofia. Be professional sa harap ng press people. Dami kasing nag ce-cellphone minsan pa nga nag che-chewing gum pa. Yung mga celebrities minsan ang mga looks talagang mukhang walang gana sa kausap. Hindi nila naisip na sila ang gagawan ng article. Wala na nga silang freedom to ask questions ng gusto nila dahil usually filtered ng network tapos hindi pa maganda ang behaviour ng artista.
ReplyDeleteButi di ito napagsabihan ni mam sylvia
ReplyDeleteI believe her. May one time nagshoot sila dito banda samin (Pwera Usog) and she's nice approachable lumabas pa ng tent saying if may gusto papic pero makikita mo uneasy siya sa actions niyang ganun like tama ba un or ano. Dont be too hard on her di namn natin siya kakilala personally baka sa kakabash sa kanya eh iba pa isipin niya like madepress etc. Lets spread positivity guys 😄
ReplyDeleteTulog na Sofia . Kuda ka ng kuda
DeleteYeah. Right. How long have you been at this again? This thing called acting? And you wanted to do this right, ang pag aartista? And you wanted because you knew all the advantages of being one, from money to fame and other privileges right? But you also knew you had to play nice with fans and the press and other crap to survive right? No? Uh yeah. Right. So will we see "I have depression" posts next? Yeah. Right.
ReplyDeletepasosyal siya!!!
ReplyDeleteAng true measure of apology ay yung hindi ka na uulit. Siguro nga marami siyang issues pero girl, hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon magaadjust ang ibang tao para sayo. Dapat marunong ka rin makisama, otherwise di ka magtatagal sa showbiz.
ReplyDeleteOk forgiven... dahil gusto ko sya I will give her a chance.. pero dapat magbago na nang attitude.
ReplyDeleteDati, sinuportahan ko Yan. Pero nawalan ako ng Gana. Puro pakabig. Pag Alam nya napapakinabangan nya Tao, manipulate nya to her advantage. Malamang ung ibang nameet nya e imbyerna agad sa kanya Kaya cguro Ganon. lumalabas tunay na ugali. Defensive Yan. Kasi mean talaga sya
ReplyDeleteActually, whether may fear of rejection eme siya, rude pa rin yung more cellphone si vaks sa harap ng interviewers. Let's say mabait naman siya at wiz sadya pag-irap, wiz mapapagkaila na bastos yung pagcecellphone niya sa kalagitnaan ng interview. Common courtesy lang ganern. Naforget ata ang GMRC.
ReplyDeleteshe may be sincere with her words here but dear, if you already know that your defense mechanism could lead to misinterpretations, then you should be working on it, lalo pag showbiz where kaplastikan goes along long way.
ReplyDeleteI too am a shy person but I have never been arrogant. This girl should think of another job is she can't cope with meeting people. Try nya mag librarian.
ReplyDeleteNot in the mood to read her post, but by the looks of it. SHOWBIZZY, thats all folks. #damagecontrol
ReplyDeletePeople who are insecure indeed try to cover it up with a strong facade. It's good of her to accept this and even share it on social media. What she does hereon will determine if she will learn from this lesson.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a fan but am giving her a chance. Di ko naman cya kilala ng personal so who am I to judge?
ReplyDeleteI like her so much so she gets another crack at fame. Support lng;she'll learn to tread that tricky fine line.
ReplyDeleteIf she's sincere about her apology (which I doubt because a proper apology doesn't come with a slew of excuses and all about me undertones), why doesn't she personally apologize to the bloopers and reporter? Why put it on an IG story? Why? Cuz it'll ruin her feed? How insincere. Her behavior has nothing to do with her being insecure or shy. I'm an introvert, but arrogant and rude towards ppl specially at work is a no-no at any job u do.
ReplyDelete*bloggers
ReplyDeletemga ateh, kung naaalibadbaran kayo sa mga atensyon na binibigay sa inyo ng mga fans. Dapat mag iba kayo ng career! wag na kayo mag artista! kasi naiirita kayo dahil naaabala ang privacy ninyo pero nag aartista kayo. Try nyo mamundok at tumira sa Kweba, doon walang gagambala sa buhay ninyo.
ReplyDeleteIntrovert ako pero pag may nakakasalubong akong naghi-hi at nginitian ako ay ganun din ang ginagawa ko sa kanila. Kapag nahihiya ako makipagusap nagkukunwari na lang akong busy o kaya beast mode ang lola. As in turning my back at them o kaya walang ngitian. Hahaha!
ReplyDeleteBe true to yourself.
ReplyDeleteBetter to be smug than friendly if you're not really a people person. It's tiresome to pretend.
The only ones offended that you're not accommodating are the same ones who want to eat you alive.
So it's and okay for her to be rude and unprofessional when she's working? You know ganito din siya bts of her show. You wonder why no one is close to her or hangs out with her. Kasi matapobre talaga aura niya. BV siya kahit sa set. Alam yan ng lahat. Covered up lang ng manager niya.
DeleteAng haba ng apologies and explanation niya but it doesn't change the fact that she was rude and not nice to others. Damage control bago masira ang image niya.
ReplyDeleteNag sorry siya agad natakot masira ang kaniyang career
ReplyDeleteHahaha...natakot mawalang trabaho si inday.
ReplyDeleteIntrovert din ako. Taray taray din ako pra di na ako kausapin lalo na pag di ko trip yung mga nkakasalamuha ko. Pro di nmn ako artista so okay lang. Pro si ate gurl artista xa kaya sorry at na judge ka.
ReplyDelete