This is so sad. Even had guts to tag her dad and the girl involved. And even use the word attention to call out her father? Kitang kita pano pinalaki sa kawalang respeto ang batang ito sa matatanda. Ganito na ba mga bata ngayon
Is she not aware that her parents have already been separated for a long time? It's impossible to think that she has not seen the away-bati of her parents before?!
If this is indeed the kid’s own idea, nakaka sad and nakaka bother. At a very young age, na dapat masaya ang emvironment niya, she needs to experience and feel this kind of sh*t.
bata pa kasi syempre hindi pa siguro maliwanag sa kanya ang parteng iyan specially kung masaya naman sila pagmagkakasama. dapat lang kc bago sila mag public ng jowa nya naipaliwanag na sa dalawa kung anu magiging sitwasyon.
Hindi pa ba sila annulled? Ang tagal na nilang hiwalay. Kahit na sabihin niyong Hindi pa annulled eh pwede na siyang magkaroon ng ibang relationship. Maybe not legal but in reality okay na.
You can't blame the kid. May isip na kasi ang bata nakaka ramdam na yan ng pain, and sadness. I don't think gawa Ito ni Claudine... Kay Sabina na Ito nang Galing talaga. Tska naman,Hinde naman nilalayo ni Claudine Kay raymart. Alam ko civil sila. Nasasaktan Ang bata dito. Imagine such a age young na experience na Niya Ito.... this girl is maturing early.
True, kids these days think differently, and express themselves more openly as well. Hindi katulad ng previous generations, na generally tikom tayo sa mga nararamdaman natin noon.
At this point in time. Do you really believe na d yan kayang gawin ng isang teenager? Mas opinionated na ang mga bata at that age ngayon compared dati.
huh? bakit, hindi ba alam ni sabina na hiwalay na ang parents niya? hindi ba na explain sa kanila ng kapatid niya kung bakit hindi sa iisang bahay nakatira ang magulang niya?
Every child who loves both parents still hopes their parents will end up together in the end. Rational or not, it hurts when you see one move on with another woman/ man. Lalo na kung magkaanak sa iba. You feel replaced or cast aside. I still carry the scars after 20 years
1245 ganyan na mga bata ngayon. Ibang iba sa mga kaedad nila nuon. Ako naniniwala sya yan. Nasaktan yung bata. Baka yan ang way nya para sabihin sa daddy nya nararamdaman nya
That “bata” is 13 yrs old na. Teenager na sya mga baks di ba kayo na informed? Yan na mga age na nagi-emo na sila so malamang sya talaga gumawa nyan. Ma emote na ang age na yan.
2:20 basher alm mo ky sabina yan ig tingnan mo matalino ang bata at meron na cyang pakiramdam anoh masisi mo ba c sabina para sa father nya? isa kang raymart tard hindi pa annulled ang idol mo
2 yrs ng hiwalay si raymart at idol mo! E si jodi at lacson nga may love na din nakapag move on na. Sabihan mo idol mo magpapayat para makahanap din ng lovelife!
Guys, please don't discredit her feelings dahil lang bata. Mukhang very sheltered yung ideas nyo sa kung anong thoughts ng mga kids at 13. Hindi yan nakakatulong because these children need to know their emotions are valid so they can process them. Please understand where she's coming from.
Pag iniwan ka ng tatay mo, it is not easy to understand why. Take it from someone with first-hand experience. Sometimes, when you're a child, you see things in black and white. Witch or fairy, ganyan. Walang in between. So when your dad leaves you, your mom and your brother, hindi mo na iintindihin yung whys, you just think that's bad. Most children don't understand the intricacies of marriage. They just know parents are supposed to be together.
Swerte nyo if your parents were together when you grew up, but please, please, try to see things through sab's eyes before jumping to conclusions.
It is not easy to forgive and continue to respect a parent who's absent from home. It takes a lot of love and maturity. Sana Sab wil eventually learn that. But please don't force her to be happy kasi sa totoo lang, ruining your marriage is selfish and it really messes up your children- this goes to both parents. Kawawa yung mga anak na hindi naman piniling maging anak ninyo. Kids don't get to choose their parents. They have no say if their parents separate. They have zero control over the state of the family. Let them feel what they need to feel for their catharsis.
Pagnaghihiwalay ang parents, it helps a lot sa kung sino ang full custodial parent to explain the situation to the children and help them deal with whatever roller coaster of emotions they go through daily. Support support din ang ex para hindi naman lumayo ang mga anak sa kanya. Keep an open communication. Helps a lot also if the ex couple do not fight in front of the children. It's a process but doable.
Why are people so surprised? Plenty of thirteen year olds have angst and Sabina has a very valid reason for it. May mga adults nga na hindi mature enough to accept their widowed parent remarrying. How much harder would it be to watch your dad replacing your mom while she's alive? Please extend empathy for kids from broken homes. Lahi silang lugi. Marami nang researches dyan. Dont judge Sabina.
there should be a foundation at home where adults should teach their children to solve problems privately. Feel bad for this kid that she has to go through this. I hope claudine is aware of this.
13 na si Sabina, may isip na yan. Kaya naman posible na sya talaga ang nagpost nya, of her own will. Siguro nga bata pa ang edad na 13 kung ikukumpara sa mga nasa 20-30+ na, pero hindi ibig sabihin na hindi yan nag-oobserba o nakakapuna ng mga nangyayari. Matalinong bata si Sab. She simply expressed how she feels. Syempre umaasa yan na magiging okay pa parents nya. Lalo na pag may event sa school na magkasama sila Claudine at Raymart, syempre hopeful sya. Sino bang anak na naghiwalay ang mga magulang na hindi naging hopeful na magkakaayos pa parents nya hindi ba?
Kahit pa kausapin ang bata sa realidas ng relasyon ng parents nya... Na end na at hindi na magkakabalikan pa, eh nasa murang edad pa si Sab eh... Hindi nya agad-agad matatanggap yun. Kahit nga matatanda na hirap pa din sa katotohanan di ba? So paano na lang ang mas bata hindi ba? So sa mga grabe magsalita against kay Sab, mag-isip muna kayo! Hindi yung makapagsalita lang eh.
Sabina is 13 years old but I can say yung isip Niya Hinde pang 13 years old. Bata pa marami na siya na experience na having a incomplete na family sympre nakikita Niya yan Sa mga classmates and friends sila Complete sila Hinde...matalino din Sabina at 13 malawak na isip Niya..Hinde mo masisi ang bata
Maybe her dad didn't tell her na may gf siya at magpapakasal. Kung naging honest lang si raymart to his daughter na his seeinh someone and etc. Kung nGing open lang siya hinde ito mangyayati.
I hope Claudine can work on healing herself from her personal issues so that she can give guidance, love, and support to her daughter. The same with Raymart, that he will reach out, listen, and understand his daughter. It is heartbreaking to think that the child will grow up broken inside.
She should be happy her father found someone who would be his soul mate and life partner. Couples split for a reason, it just didn't work out. This is his second chance for happiness. Someday when Sabina is older and wiser she will realize how lucky she was to have a father who truly cared for her.
11:10 a 13 yo will never understand why her dad is with another woman when her mother is still alive. And what? A father who cared for her? I doubt that. A kid will never questions her dad's decision if he was a good father to begin with. He never reached out kaya hindi siya maunawaan ng bata.
Parents splitting up is never easy for any child/teenager. Maybe deep inside she is still hoping that her parents could patch things up so that things could go back the way they were. While venting on social media is hardly advisable, I could see where she is coming from. She feels helpless and hopeless eh. It's up to her family to make her feel loved at this crucial time, and affirm to her that while things may not have turned out the way she wanted it to be, she is still loved.
I had a tough childhood. at 7yrs old, i felt things not ought to be felt by kids that young. the tougher the childhood, the earlier they mature emotionally. yan talaga naramdaman nya, hindi naman yan sa edad. mahirap magkaroon ng broken family.
sad for the kids. but then in a way lucky pa rin cos di naman si raymart nambabae habang married. parang mas masakit yun sa bata bwing the reason ng broken family. shocked ako sa post ng bata. ang daming pait/poot. i see him as a good/cool dad sa mga posts nila together pag kasama ang daddy nila. i am happy for raymart cos disente ang girl.
8:38 hindi mo masisi si sabina meron cyang pakiramdam dahil teenanger na cya c raymart puro ang sarili iniisip dpat mga anak muna ang unahin bago ang ibang tao
13 na pala siya. the stuff she posted is the stuff from all those young adult novels. daddy has to speak to her heart to heart. sana the mom calmed down sab. oh well. when she gets of age, she will understand.
9:16 at 9:49 meron ng pakiramdam c sabina malaki n cya at matalino matured ang isip para ky sabina pamilya sila hindi annulled ang tatay nya walang nag file ng annullment
OMG this is not a work of a child!
ReplyDeleteI know right?
DeleteAGREE!!!
DeleteWell she’s 13, not exactly a child like you said.
DeleteTeenagers now or those even younger than her already know how to make their voices heard. If you'll notice sa soc med eh mas maraming teenagers.
Delete12:18 12:25 12:26 sabina is 13 my isip n cya nagdadalaga na cya daddys girl kasi meron n cya ig
DeleteIba na mga kabataan ngayon mag-isip, sobrang advanced na.
DeleteKay sabina yan galing.
Deleteang problema lang, hindi yata na explain ng maayos ng parents ang set up nila.
syempre bata pa mag isip.
Tataka ako sa mga nagsasabi na hindi bata gumawa nyan,wag nyo i-underestimate mga kabataan mas matatalino pa sa inyo mga yan.
DeleteThis is so sad. Even had guts to tag her dad and the girl involved. And even use the word attention to call out her father? Kitang kita pano pinalaki sa kawalang respeto ang batang ito sa matatanda. Ganito na ba mga bata ngayon
DeleteThis break my heart
ReplyDeleteIs she not aware that her parents have already been separated for a long time? It's impossible to think that she has not seen the away-bati of her parents before?!
Delete1:17 alam lahat ni sabina tungkol sa parents nya matured ang isip ni sabina sa edad na 13 yrs old at daddys girl hindi mo hawak ang isip ni sabina
Deletebreaks baks wag kalimutan ang sagwa basahin ng This break my heart.
DeleteIf this is indeed the kid’s own idea, nakaka sad and nakaka bother. At a very young age, na dapat masaya ang emvironment niya, she needs to experience and feel this kind of sh*t.
ReplyDeleteHindi to galing sa bata
ReplyDelete12:26 nagduda ka? Ky sabina mismo galing yan meron cyang ig 13 years old
DeleteDon't underestimate the thinking of a 13-year olds now, ako rin nagugulat sa mga kabataan ngayon.
Delete12:58 ikaw di ka nagduda? Wag masyadong tard.!
Delete1:15 matured ang isip ni sabina hay naku puro kyo duda
Deleteraymart appears to love her, biological or not, but why cant she be happy for her dad
ReplyDeletebata pa kasi syempre hindi pa siguro maliwanag sa kanya ang parteng iyan specially kung masaya naman sila pagmagkakasama. dapat lang kc bago sila mag public ng jowa nya naipaliwanag na sa dalawa kung anu magiging sitwasyon.
Delete12:28 hndi annulled c raymart bawal yan
Delete12:41 bkit umamin b c raymart? Tago ng tago hndi pa sila annulled walang nagfile ng annullment
DeleteAnnulled or not, people are free to have new relationships when the previous one is really over.
Delete3:18 try respecting the concept of marriage. Hnd yan break up lng ng magjowa
DeleteLegally speaking you're not free to date or have a romantic relationship if you're still married.
DeleteHindi pa ba sila annulled? Ang tagal na nilang hiwalay. Kahit na sabihin niyong Hindi pa annulled eh pwede na siyang magkaroon ng ibang relationship. Maybe not legal but in reality okay na.
Delete12:41 nagmamarunong ka hindi nga annulled eh
Delete12:41 hindi rin annulled ung girl pareho sila
DeleteParang hindi si Sabina mag post
ReplyDelete12:29 si sabina ang nagpost ig nya yan
DeleteYou can't blame the kid. May isip na kasi ang bata nakaka ramdam na yan ng pain, and sadness. I don't think gawa Ito ni Claudine... Kay Sabina na Ito nang Galing talaga. Tska naman,Hinde naman nilalayo ni Claudine Kay raymart. Alam ko civil sila. Nasasaktan Ang bata dito. Imagine such a age young na experience na Niya Ito.... this girl is maturing early.
ReplyDeleteTrue, kids these days think differently, and express themselves more openly as well. Hindi katulad ng previous generations, na generally tikom tayo sa mga nararamdaman natin noon.
DeleteThis is so weird. First came to my mind, hndi kayang gawin ng bata yan.
ReplyDeleteAt this point in time. Do you really believe na d yan kayang gawin ng isang teenager? Mas opinionated na ang mga bata at that age ngayon compared dati.
Deletehuh? bakit, hindi ba alam ni sabina na hiwalay na ang parents niya? hindi ba na explain sa kanila ng kapatid niya kung bakit hindi sa iisang bahay nakatira ang magulang niya?
ReplyDelete12:44 alam ni sabina lahat daddys girl ksi cya hndi annulled ang parents nya para ky sabina pamilya sila
DeleteEvery child who loves both parents still hopes their parents will end up together in the end. Rational or not, it hurts when you see one move on with another woman/ man. Lalo na kung magkaanak sa iba. You feel replaced or cast aside. I still carry the scars after 20 years
Delete1:13 pm :(
DeleteMars, nakakasad naman yan. Im sure you're very precious sa eyes ng both parents mo even if it doesn't seem that way.
I don't think that's Sabina.
ReplyDelete12:45 nagduda ka ky sabina yan matured ung bata sa edad na 13 yrs old
Delete1:21 kanina ka pa teh! 😂
Delete1245 ganyan na mga bata ngayon. Ibang iba sa mga kaedad nila nuon. Ako naniniwala sya yan. Nasaktan yung bata. Baka yan ang way nya para sabihin sa daddy nya nararamdaman nya
DeleteThis is sad.
ReplyDeleteThat “bata” is 13 yrs old na. Teenager na sya mga baks di ba kayo na informed? Yan na mga age na nagi-emo na sila so malamang sya talaga gumawa nyan. Ma emote na ang age na yan.
ReplyDeleteSi Sabina yan..sure ako
ReplyDelete12:34 anong weird? Ikaw ang weird ky sabina galing yan tingnan mo ig nya
ReplyDeleteanong problema mo? Claudine nandito ka talaga para idiin si Sabina..yun na nga eh 13 yrs old na sya...di nya gagawin yan..
Delete2:20 basher alm mo ky sabina yan ig tingnan mo matalino ang bata at meron na cyang pakiramdam anoh masisi mo ba c sabina para sa father nya? isa kang raymart tard hindi pa annulled ang idol mo
Delete2 yrs ng hiwalay si raymart at idol mo! E si jodi at lacson nga may love na din nakapag move on na. Sabihan mo idol mo magpapayat para makahanap din ng lovelife!
Delete8:47 c raymart hindi kayang tumayo para sa mga anak payat na po claudine basher
DeleteGuys, please don't discredit her feelings dahil lang bata. Mukhang very sheltered yung ideas nyo sa kung anong thoughts ng mga kids at 13. Hindi yan nakakatulong because these children need to know their emotions are valid so they can process them. Please understand where she's coming from.
ReplyDeletePag iniwan ka ng tatay mo, it is not easy to understand why. Take it from someone with first-hand experience. Sometimes, when you're a child, you see things in black and white. Witch or fairy, ganyan. Walang in between. So when your dad leaves you, your mom and your brother, hindi mo na iintindihin yung whys, you just think that's bad. Most children don't understand the intricacies of marriage. They just know parents are supposed to be together.
Swerte nyo if your parents were together when you grew up, but please, please, try to see things through sab's eyes before jumping to conclusions.
It is not easy to forgive and continue to respect a parent who's absent from home. It takes a lot of love and maturity. Sana Sab wil eventually learn that. But please don't force her to be happy kasi sa totoo lang, ruining your marriage is selfish and it really messes up your children- this goes to both parents. Kawawa yung mga anak na hindi naman piniling maging anak ninyo. Kids don't get to choose their parents. They have no say if their parents separate. They have zero control over the state of the family. Let them feel what they need to feel for their catharsis.
Very well said
DeleteBravo 1:04. This covers everything i want said.
DeletePreach mars! Thank you for this! And same experience din. :( Tayo tayo lang talaga nagkakaintindihan.
DeleteYESSSSS.
DeleteAmen to this!
DeletePagnaghihiwalay ang parents, it helps a lot sa kung sino ang full custodial parent to explain the situation to the children and help them deal with whatever roller coaster of emotions they go through daily. Support support din ang ex para hindi naman lumayo ang mga anak sa kanya. Keep an open communication. Helps a lot also if the ex couple do not fight in front of the children. It's a process but doable.
ReplyDeleteWhy are people so surprised? Plenty of thirteen year olds have angst and Sabina has a very valid reason for it. May mga adults nga na hindi mature enough to accept their widowed parent remarrying. How much harder would it be to watch your dad replacing your mom while she's alive? Please extend empathy for kids from broken homes. Lahi silang lugi. Marami nang researches dyan. Dont judge Sabina.
ReplyDelete1:12 korek
Deletethere should be a foundation at home where adults should teach their children to solve problems privately. Feel bad for this kid that she has to go through this. I hope claudine is aware of this.
ReplyDelete12:51 oo ky sabina na ig yan tingnan mo
ReplyDelete13 na si Sabina, may isip na yan. Kaya naman posible na sya talaga ang nagpost nya, of her own will. Siguro nga bata pa ang edad na 13 kung ikukumpara sa mga nasa 20-30+ na, pero hindi ibig sabihin na hindi yan nag-oobserba o nakakapuna ng mga nangyayari. Matalinong bata si Sab. She simply expressed how she feels. Syempre umaasa yan na magiging okay pa parents nya. Lalo na pag may event sa school na magkasama sila Claudine at Raymart, syempre hopeful sya. Sino bang anak na naghiwalay ang mga magulang na hindi naging hopeful na magkakaayos pa parents nya hindi ba?
ReplyDeleteKahit pa kausapin ang bata sa realidas ng relasyon ng parents nya... Na end na at hindi na magkakabalikan pa, eh nasa murang edad pa si Sab eh... Hindi nya agad-agad matatanggap yun. Kahit nga matatanda na hirap pa din sa katotohanan di ba? So paano na lang ang mas bata hindi ba? So sa mga grabe magsalita against kay Sab, mag-isip muna kayo! Hindi yung makapagsalita lang eh.
1:24 korek :)
DeleteThis!
Deletewag naman sana gamitin ang bata. As a child you should teach her to honor her parwnts him kahit na may mali.
ReplyDeleteHonor the parents kahit may mali... totoo ba ito?
Delete1:25 at 1:41 my pakiramdam na c sabina
DeleteSabina is 13 years old but I can say yung isip Niya Hinde pang 13 years old. Bata pa marami na siya na experience na having a incomplete na family sympre nakikita Niya yan Sa mga classmates and friends sila
ReplyDeleteComplete sila Hinde...matalino din Sabina at 13 malawak na isip Niya..Hinde mo masisi ang bata
Maybe her dad didn't tell her na may gf siya at magpapakasal. Kung naging honest lang si raymart to his daughter na his seeinh someone and etc. Kung nGing open lang siya hinde ito mangyayati.
ReplyDeleteI hope Claudine can work on healing herself from her personal issues so that she can give guidance, love, and support to her daughter. The same with Raymart, that he will reach out, listen, and understand his daughter. It is heartbreaking to think that the child will grow up broken inside.
ReplyDeleteShe should be happy her father found someone who would be his soul mate and life partner. Couples split for a reason, it just didn't work out. This is his second chance for happiness. Someday when Sabina is older and wiser she will realize how lucky she was to have a father who truly cared for her.
ReplyDelete11:10 alam mo hindi mo masisi c sabina my pakiramdam ang 13 yrs old masakit yun para ky sabina pamilya sila
Delete11:10 a 13 yo will never understand why her dad is with another woman when her mother is still alive. And what? A father who cared for her? I doubt that. A kid will never questions her dad's decision if he was a good father to begin with. He never reached out kaya hindi siya maunawaan ng bata.
DeleteParents splitting up is never easy for any child/teenager. Maybe deep inside she is still hoping that her parents could patch things up so that things could go back the way they were. While venting on social media is hardly advisable, I could see where she is coming from. She feels helpless and hopeless eh. It's up to her family to make her feel loved at this crucial time, and affirm to her that while things may not have turned out the way she wanted it to be, she is still loved.
DeleteI had a tough childhood. at 7yrs old, i felt things not ought to be felt by kids that young. the tougher the childhood, the earlier they mature emotionally. yan talaga naramdaman nya, hindi naman yan sa edad. mahirap magkaroon ng broken family.
ReplyDeletesad for the kids. but then in a way lucky pa rin cos di naman si raymart nambabae habang married. parang mas masakit yun sa bata bwing the reason ng broken family. shocked ako sa post ng bata. ang daming pait/poot. i see him as a good/cool dad sa mga posts nila together pag kasama ang daddy nila. i am happy for raymart cos disente ang girl.
ReplyDelete8:38 hindi annulled c raymart bawal yan walang nagfile ng annullment
Delete8:38 hindi mo masisi si sabina meron cyang pakiramdam dahil teenanger na cya c raymart puro ang sarili iniisip dpat mga anak muna ang unahin bago ang ibang tao
DeleteSana magabayan ng maayos para maintindihan nya.
ReplyDelete13 na pala siya. the stuff she posted is the stuff from all those young adult novels. daddy has to speak to her heart to heart. sana the mom calmed down sab. oh well. when she gets of age, she will understand.
ReplyDelete9:16 at 9:49 meron ng pakiramdam c sabina malaki n cya at matalino matured ang isip para ky sabina pamilya sila hindi annulled ang tatay nya walang nag file ng annullment
ReplyDeleteShe is 13 already. She knows the pain of a broken family. I know I felt pain when I was twelve and I lost my dad.
ReplyDeleteSome people here are out of touch with reality. She is 13, she is not 5. She most definitely knows what is going on and how she feels.
ReplyDelete5:40 ikaw ang epal sa paghuhusga mo
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