Di ka pa nagbuntis te no? kahit nga di pa nagbuntis dapat alam mo na its rude to say such words lalo na sa buntis at kung di mo naman kilala yung tao o bagong kakilala pa lang.
Okay una kahit kelan hindi naging okay mangealam ng weight ng may weight. Pangalawa, buntis si Saan mas sensitive sya than other people dahil hormonal sila. Pangatlo, normal ang weight gain normally 25 lbs accrdng sa obstetrics by williams. Uulitin ko, it’s rude to comment on other people’s weight.
Actually, it is wrong to comment on any body's weight. Many would comment ,"you gain weight or you lost weight". That is totally rude. Wala tayong paki alam sa itsura ng ibang tao.
"Uy! Ang taba mo na." - that is mean and insulting to some. Buntis man o hindi, people should stop saying that.
When someone told me, "uy ang laki mo na. I answered her back, "oo! Malaki na ako. I gained weight as u can see. Kapapanganak ko lang via CS. Hindi pa pwede exercise. Do you have a problem with that?"
@1:36 Naranasan ko na. And I was not whiny that way. People will always have something to say. Problema kasi sa ibang tao, masyadong na bubutt hurt. Marami pang ibang bagay na kelangan pagtuunan ng pansin. Comments like that can be or should be shrugged off. Pwede mo na mang sabihin na it's okay na mataba ka as long as healthy ang babies. DUH
well saab mabuti ng sabihan ka ng mataba habang buntis ka.. kesa sabihin na LALO kang tumaba ngayong buntis ka kase d ka naman mapayat to begin with and there is nothing wrong with that. You see, if you are ok with whatever size you are in, kesehodang sobrang payat mo, sobrang taba mo or sexy ka, d ka apektado. But obviously you have issues with being mataba kaya ka nag react ng ganyan. Ako mataba ako, i love my body, pag sinabihan ako ng mataba ako oks na oks lang. masarap kumain eh.
In reality, mahirap na totally mawala yung ganyang comment about weight and appearance dahil part of being human yan. For me case to case yan. Like example, sinabi na uy pumayat ka, maybe it can be a reminder to you na take care of yourself more. Maybe sa sobrang pagka busy mo hindi mo namalayan na pumayat ka.
Only in the Philippines na sasabihin talaga sa pagmumuka mo na tumaba ka. Pinoys should learn how rude it is to comment or ask about someone's weight, age, sexuality, how much u earn. Its never late to learn some niceties and proper breeding.
I totally agree... napaka insensitive ng tao para magsabi na "uy ang laki mo na." As if its not obvious you are pregnant and you are bound to gain weight. Why should pregnant ladies be defensive, dapat yung mga tao ang maging tactful.
It’s not anybody else’s business kung pumayat o tumaba ka. Ang Pinoy sadyang taklesa, pakialamero at sensitive...pag nagreact ka pa sa fat/ shaming sila pa ang galit...feeling entitled pa sila
i didnt gain weight during my pregnancy. i mean, of course bumigat kunti cos of the baby but not yung super fat. no soda, coffee. only fruits, veggies, fish, chicken kasi gusto ko kainin nun. wasnt into red meat kasi nasusuka ako. pag nakatalikod di mo akalain preggy ako.. anyway, my point is nasa mother yan. depende sa eating habits and all. tumaba na ako after na nanganak cos na miss ko kumain ng heavy2... haha..
10:51 Pag sobrang opinionated nega ang dating. Being too honest is nega also. May mga things na di na dapat pinapansin lalo na kung mababaw lang naman.
3:33 pm who are you to say what’s mababaw and what’s not? Eh sa hindi mababaw para sa kanya ang weight issue. Kung siya opinionated at nega, ikaw naman judgemental. Dami mo nang na judge about Saab eh.
@9:00 Sa kanila kasi ni Maxene si Saab kasi yung fatty kaya siguro hate nya yung pansinin katawan nya. I think insecure kasi sya and may issues sa body nya even before she got pregnant.
Totoo naman na yung mga taong gumagamit ng mga linyang 'tumaba/pumayat ka' as a conversation starter are dense. Mano ba namang kamustahin mo nalang diba?
Korek! Pag sinasabihan akong taba mo na ngayon, wla lang... eh totoo naman so anong masama. Dami lang onion skin sa mundo kahit di na dapat pag aksayahan ng panahon ipost ipopost pa din.
Pwedeng maging aktibista itong si Saab. Lagi na lang may negatibong ganap. Kabaliktaran ng kapatid nyang si Maxeene. The likes of Mariel the nega title holder itong si Saab. Soon dami ng asar sa babaeng to.
Why don't you accept the fact that getting pregnant, you'll definitely gain weight, Saab? If somebody will comment to me that I'm fat na because of my pregnancy, I would say, "yes, ma lapit na ang twin lalabas" with a smile. Duhh!
ang oa mo din at masyadong sensitive
ReplyDeleteShe is right though, people shouldn't fat shame others especially pregnant women.
DeleteDi ka pa nagbuntis te no? kahit nga di pa nagbuntis dapat alam mo na its rude to say such words lalo na sa buntis at kung di mo naman kilala yung tao o bagong kakilala pa lang.
Deletealam mo ba gaano kahirap magbuntis anon 12:26? kung oa sya inconsiderate naman tawag sayo
DeleteOkay una kahit kelan hindi naging okay mangealam ng weight ng may weight. Pangalawa, buntis si Saan mas sensitive sya than other people dahil hormonal sila. Pangatlo, normal ang weight gain normally 25 lbs accrdng sa obstetrics by williams. Uulitin ko, it’s rude to comment on other people’s weight.
DeleteSi 1226 yung example ng mga ganyan. Insensitive na mga shunga. Mema lang.
DeleteActually, it is wrong to comment on any body's weight. Many would comment ,"you gain weight or you lost weight". That is totally rude. Wala tayong paki alam sa itsura ng ibang tao.
DeleteMasakit naman kasi talaga. Usually pag may ganung comment kunwari tatawa lang ako pero deep down masakit sya. :P
Deleteobviously wala ka ring modo. if you tolerate and encourage things llike these, our world will be filled with hate in no time, 12:26.
Deletewhine and complain pa more , Saab
ReplyDelete1:07 Naranasan mo na bang magbuntis? Kung hindi pa eh shut up ka na lang. You don't know how pregnant women feel.
DeleteIkaw din 107.
Delete"Uy! Ang taba mo na." - that is mean and insulting to some. Buntis man o hindi, people should stop saying that.
DeleteWhen someone told me, "uy ang laki mo na. I answered her back, "oo! Malaki na ako. I gained weight as u can see. Kapapanganak ko lang via CS. Hindi pa pwede exercise. Do you have a problem with that?"
Parang ang defensive mashado.
DeleteIba nga dyan ang sexy pa rin kahit buntis. Tingnan nyo si pia guanio. O diba? Eh so saab kahit si pa buntis medyo malaman na talaga2
Delete@1:36 Naranasan ko na. And I was not whiny that way. People will always have something to say. Problema kasi sa ibang tao, masyadong na bubutt hurt. Marami pang ibang bagay na kelangan pagtuunan ng pansin. Comments like that can be or should be shrugged off. Pwede mo na mang sabihin na it's okay na mataba ka as long as healthy ang babies. DUH
Delete2:39 Kanya kanya naman kasi. Hindi porket wala lang sayo, ganon na dapat lahat. Karamihan naman tlaga nahuhurt sa weight comments.
Delete@2:39
DeleteYung comment mo shows na you're not that different from the people you call whiny. Just saying.
well saab mabuti ng sabihan ka ng mataba habang buntis ka.. kesa sabihin na LALO kang tumaba ngayong buntis ka kase d ka naman mapayat to begin with and there is nothing wrong with that. You see, if you are ok with whatever size you are in, kesehodang sobrang payat mo, sobrang taba mo or sexy ka, d ka apektado. But obviously you have issues with being mataba kaya ka nag react ng ganyan. Ako mataba ako, i love my body, pag sinabihan ako ng mataba ako oks na oks lang. masarap kumain eh.
DeleteIn reality, mahirap na totally mawala yung ganyang comment about weight and appearance dahil part of being human yan. For me case to case yan. Like example, sinabi na uy pumayat ka, maybe it can be a reminder to you na take care of yourself more. Maybe sa sobrang pagka busy mo hindi mo namalayan na pumayat ka.
ReplyDeleteReminder sa buntis??
DeletePregnancy ang context, ate.
Only in the Philippines na sasabihin talaga sa pagmumuka mo na tumaba ka. Pinoys should learn how rude it is to comment or ask about someone's weight, age, sexuality, how much u earn. Its never late to learn some niceties and proper breeding.
DeleteTumpak 8:11. I really hate that about our culture. So rude.
DeleteI totally agree... napaka insensitive ng tao para magsabi na "uy ang laki mo na." As if its not obvious you are pregnant and you are bound to gain weight. Why should pregnant ladies be defensive, dapat yung mga tao ang maging tactful.
ReplyDeleteIt’s not anybody else’s business kung pumayat o tumaba ka. Ang Pinoy sadyang taklesa, pakialamero at sensitive...pag nagreact ka pa sa fat/ shaming sila pa ang galit...feeling entitled pa sila
ReplyDeletei didnt gain weight during my pregnancy. i mean, of course bumigat kunti cos of the baby but not yung super fat. no soda, coffee. only fruits, veggies, fish, chicken kasi gusto ko kainin nun. wasnt into red meat kasi nasusuka ako. pag nakatalikod di mo akalain preggy ako.. anyway, my point is nasa mother yan. depende sa eating habits and all. tumaba na ako after na nanganak cos na miss ko kumain ng heavy2... haha..
ReplyDeleteAww good for you but nobody cares, really.
DeleteHaHaHaHa! You're so blessed š
DeleteKaw na 5:39
DeleteMema lang?! Twins din ba pinagbuntis mo? LOL
Delete7:50 nobody cares but here you are, made a comment yourself. So ano? Nobody care pala ha! Lol
Delete11:44 i think ikaw ang mema kasi may kilala ako na nag buntis ng twins at hindi din sya nag tumaba. Nag gain lang ng weight bec of the babies.
Same metabolism ba yang kakilala mong mom of twins at si saab? Same lifestyle? Stop comparing. Kayo na ang mga diyosang buntis. Okay na?
DeleteMatabil din dila nyan at OA na talaga at sensitive na talaga kahit hindi pa buntis.... Ewan ko ba, ang gagalang naman nung mga bata pa sila..
ReplyDeleteOpinionated is not matabil ang dila 6:21. Being honest about your feelings is not matabil ang dila. Know the difference.
Delete10:51 Pag sobrang opinionated nega ang dating. Being too honest is nega also. May mga things na di na dapat pinapansin lalo na kung mababaw lang naman.
Delete3:33 pm who are you to say what’s mababaw and what’s not? Eh sa hindi mababaw para sa kanya ang weight issue. Kung siya opinionated at nega, ikaw naman judgemental. Dami mo nang na judge about Saab eh.
Delete9:00 Saab tulog na. Makakasama sa pag bubuntis mo pagiging patola.
Delete@9:00 Sa kanila kasi ni Maxene si Saab kasi yung fatty kaya siguro hate nya yung pansinin katawan nya. I think insecure kasi sya and may issues sa body nya even before she got pregnant.
Delete9:00 puso mo teh! Napag hahalata tuloy na ikaw si Saab.
DeleteTotoo naman na yung mga taong gumagamit ng mga linyang 'tumaba/pumayat ka' as a conversation starter are dense. Mano ba namang kamustahin mo nalang diba?
ReplyDelete7:50 Alam na palang dense so bakit pa papatulan?
Delete3:32 Para baka sakaling mabawasan ang dense people sa mundo. One dense person at a time.
Deleteu guys are too sensitive. kapay may nag sabing uy ang taba mo, simply tell them, masarap kasi ang kinakain ko ššš.
ReplyDeleteKorek! Pag sinasabihan akong taba mo na ngayon, wla lang... eh totoo naman so anong masama. Dami lang onion skin sa mundo kahit di na dapat pag aksayahan ng panahon ipost ipopost pa din.
Deletetrue lol lahat na lang kasi dapat big deal para mapansin. don't us saab
DeletePwedeng maging aktibista itong si Saab. Lagi na lang may negatibong ganap. Kabaliktaran ng kapatid nyang si Maxeene. The likes of Mariel the nega title holder itong si Saab. Soon dami ng asar sa babaeng to.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you accept the fact that getting pregnant, you'll definitely gain weight, Saab? If somebody will comment to me that I'm fat na because of my pregnancy, I would say, "yes, ma lapit na ang twin lalabas" with a smile. Duhh!
ReplyDeleteDefensive and too sensitive. Fat or chubby is NOT synonymous to ugly. Fat, chubby, thin or slim can all mean you are beautiful.
ReplyDelete