Closed and Boxed In

While everyone believes that Occupied Partner (OP) and Attractive Girlfriend (AG) have the ideal relationship despite their age gap, friends of AG are wondering if she has realized that OP has placed so many restrictions in their relationship. OP and AG have been a couple for several years and he has indicated that she is the woman with whom he will spend the rest of his life.

Sometime ago, OP did the unexpected, and that was to join AG in her non-showbiz commitment on Sundays. That was the sign that after having many relationships, OP might have found the woman who could tame him. Everyone was positive that the two would indeed end up together and all signs point toward that direction.

Despite such development and seeming assurance and loyalty in their relationship, OP has allegedly put his foot down on the behavior of AG. AG, like OP, is similarly busy with her various projects. She gets to be with various celebrities and meet fellow actors every so often. With his own schedule, OP cannot possibly be with AG all the time and guard her. Now, OP has allegedly forbidden AG to make friends with any of the male actors she gets to work with. Even small talk is not allowed. Hence, talking with the male actors in her projects is limited to dialogue for their scenes.

The lack of friendly communication correlates with the next rule, that is, AG cannot bond with any of the male actors. As an actor himself, OP knows that communicating with fellow actors in between takes can help improve the emotional responses in the scene. When actors are comfortable with each other, their scenes become more natural, as they would become comfortable with each other. OP does not care about that. Hence, AG has to abide by OP’s rules or else they might get into a heated discussion.

While OP is applying his dated restrictions, AG does not have a say on the rules she would want to apply to the behavior of OP. As OP’s work makes him interact with many female talents, he does not have rules similar to what he has imposed on AG. He can freely flirt with the female talents on the set and behave like he was single. The problem here is that some of the female talents might misinterpret his actions as his way of telling them that he likes a certain talent. OP might succumb to temptation and endanger their relationship. Of course, time can tell if AG can withstand the restrictions OP has imposed given that she so much potential to offer the industry.

‘The best partnerships aren't dependent on a mere common goal but on a shared path of equality, desire, and no small amount of passion.’ – Sarah MacLean

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