I super agree 12:40. Medyo nahuhurt ako sa ganitong reaction ng mga celeb sa formula milk. Siguro OA lang ako but Im quite offended sa mga inang hindi nakakapagBF na parang ang sama namin.. I wasn't able to breastfeed my kid for some reasons pero I'm still proud of my daughter, healthy, talented, and superbibo. Before siya mag 3yo, she already knew A-Z 1-15, 10colors, shapes, can sing and dance. Yung kinakanta pa nya ROAR and themesong ni Moana. Im not a fan of the 2 songs kaya nagulat akong mas alam pa nya sakin. Never din siya nahospitalize (knock on wood). Para maging mabuting tao at healthy, I can say it really depends on how you take care (including pregnancy) and raise your kids.
1:12 true. minsan parang pinapalabas nila na malaking kasalanan ang formula. and parang yan na ang batayan ng pagiging isang mabuting ina. 12:58 yes it's their choice. OA na kasi minsan. parang ang sasamang ina ng nagfoformula. duh!?
True! 4mos ko lang din nabreastfeed ang anak ko dahil kusang huminto ang gatas ko kaya mumurahing milk powder lang ang napainom ko until today, but at age of 3 ay marunong na syang magbasa, magsulat at mag-arithmetic, at age 5 ay sumali at nanalo sya sa competitions sa school nya.Wala sa gatas yan kung nasa genes ang pagiging matalino. suporta lang din ng magulang ang kelangan to nurture the skills nd talents of the child..
Minsan kung sino pang mayaman who can affordto buy commercial milks yon png nag eeffort mag breastfeed, yong walang pambiling milk yon png nahihirapan magbreast feed.
Nahirapan din ako magpa breastfeed. One nga lang. hindi ako comfortable at nasasaktan ako. Ok lang to be an advocate of bf, pero may kanya kanyang reasons personal or physical kung bakit minsan hindi puwedeng ipilit ang breastfeed. Respetuhan tayo ng gusto natin dapat.
4:43, iba-iba naman kase situations ng mga moms. We can't generalize na it's for lack of trying. Ako hindi din nakapagpa-breastfeed dahil nagkaroon ng complications yung pagbubuntis and deliveries ko. I tried but my milk supply was simply not enough and eventually had to resort to formula because my babies were losing weight. Kaya wag sana magmagaling ang iba na kesyo it's lack of effort or impossible na wala kang milk supply because it happens.
BF or formula, what's important is how they grow to be. The greatest achievement I will ever recieve as mom is when people tell my child that he/she is a good and godly person. No one will even know or care if was exclusively BF or not.
masakit naman talaga na minsan insenstitive dating ng mga nageendorse ng breastfeeding na parang malaking kasalanan ang mag formula. Kasi sa case ko totally walang lumalabas na milk, ganun din sa sis ko at mo. I dunno if its hereditary hehe. yung naawa na lang yung mga doctors kasi nagta try talaga kami at sobrang gutom na nung baby. tried sabay, seafood name it, malunggay supplement! and pangarap namin mag BF pero wala talaga kaya please don't be so biased hindi lahat ayaw lng mag BF
I feel sorry for the moms here na ganito ang pananaw, I think Mariel is just trying to express her feelings on breastfeeding her OWN DAUGHTER. Masaya ang naging experience nya, kaya pinaliwanag lang sa social media, Hindi ko din maintindihan kung ano ang hanash ninyo sa sinabi ng tao. That's her stand regarding FEEDING HER OWN DAUGHTER. The last part encourages other moms to do the same thing which is not wrong at all. So ano ang masama doon saying that she is insensitive. She's probably insensitive to the BABY formula companies.
Breastfeeding isn't the gauge of whether or not you're a good mother. I've seen mothers who breastfed their babies only to abandon them later for a querido (sorry for the lack of a better word). Being a good mother is raising your child to be a good and God-fearing person and being there for him for guidance, love and protection.
Very well said 1:51AM. Women should not be considered failures as mothers if they did not breast feed their child. It's how you raise them and are there for them in their lives.
Exactly! Not being able to breastfeed your baby doesn't make less of a mother. Some mothers struggle with health issues and other problems which make them unable to breastfeed. I support breastfeeding but let us be considerate of other moms who are unable to do that even if they really want to. It is painful to see that with the rise of breastfeeding advocacies we become insensitive to the non-bf moms.
Mariel was merely encouraging mothers to breastfeed. Wala syang sinabing batayan yun ng pagiging mabuting ina or kung ano pang hanash na nirereact nyo. Ang OA nyo lang sa reactions. Positive yung message pero pilit hinahanapan ng negative connotation my gosh!!!
Bakit ang guilty and defensive ng mga comments dito? I dont see anything wrong with what she said, and tinanong lang cguro siya if she gives or will give formula, sinagot lang niya ng hnd. there was nothing on being a good mother, etc etc. jeesh people.
She's not saying it makes her a better mother or she's raising a better child if she breastfeeds. Fact is formula is packed with sugars which is why she's encouraging to breastfeed because breastmilk is healthier.
True. Too many defensive comments here. All from moms who don't breastfeed I am guessing. Advocating breastfeeding is free, unlike yun ibang artista who get paid millions to advocate a certain formula brand. That alone proves something.
yes, I don't see anything negative here, marami naman kasing benefits talaga if you breastfeed your baby. Healthwise, hindi sinasabing masama kung nag formula din ang mga anak mo, kanya kanya yan mga bes
Sometimes i feel na para bang ang sama sama na paginamin ng mommy na nagbbreastfeed sya. Wala naman masama sa sinabi ni mariel pero andaming negative reactions. Hindi naman din jinujudge ang mga nagfformula sa post nya. If she's thankful to have breastfed,let her express her appreciation towards her experience.
there's such a thing as freedom of choice, pero ako I believe in breastfeeding my children, it creates bonding and there are a lot of health benefits later on. hindi talaga masakitin ang batang breastfed
Kung hindi pala kayo naguguilty for formula feeding bakit super react kayo sa post ni mariel?! Let her be! It was a struggle na nalagpasan nya so it's her right to be happy and proud about it. If you think there is nothing wrong with formula feeding your child then don't be so nega to a mom who proudly breastfed hers. Just be happy happy she made succeeded since you know pala na it's hard.
It's not about her post. We truly understand her. Pero yung reply nya na super against sa formula milk, iba yung dating eh. Maybe youre not yet a mom or nakapagpaBF ka kaya you wouldnt understand how we feel
You know that maraming sugar ang formula milk, right? Do you really want that for your child? Wala lang kasing choice yung iba dahil mas mura naman talaga yun kesa sa ibang milk na "close to mother's milk." Ma-offend ka kung pinili mong magformula kahit kaya mo namang magbreastfeed dahil inuna mo kaartehan mo.
Formula milk is also packed with other vitamins and minerals not found in breastmilk. Case in point: my son is exclusively breastfed, he needs vit d supplement, whereas babies his age who are formula fed don't. And yes, formula milk has sugar so doctors recommend babies to have water after feeding, and not all sugar is bad too. Medyo OA ang reply mo. I'm breastfeeding and i feel offended for moms who can't. And no, it's not because they didn't try, they can't. I have a friend who only has 1 kidney and she's taking medicines so she can't breastfeed. I say get off your high horse and let mothers decide what's best for their babies.
then it's Mariel's right to believe in breastfeeding. She's not trying to offend other moms , just stating her wonderful experience breastfeeding her daughter. Baka natuwa sya or what not, bakit kayo offended? hello. Pananaw yan ni Mariel, wag balat sibuyas.
@11:53 she didn't talk negatively abt bf. It's a matter of her preferring goat's milk over formula. Choice nya yun. It's a matter of choosing one type/brand over the other. I'm just speaking objectively.
wag masyadong sensitive mga besh! hnd kinukwesyon ni madam ang pagging mga nanay nyo. she merely said na she wants what's best for her baby. may time and may pera syang humanap ng goats milk, hayaan na naten. sa mga nagiguilty na nag-formula, why? whether it's a choice or it's the situation that led you to do it, pinaghirapan nyo pa rin naman yung pinambili nyo nung gatas. hindi man kasing natural ng gatas ng ina, pero hnd naman kinulang ng pagmamahal. ktnxbye.
True @ 12:43. Masyadong defensive naman tong mga momshies naten. At the end of the day, it's still how we raise our kids. Try to be objective wag masyadong guilty or kala mo inaaway na kayo pag usapang breastfeeding na. NKKLK
As a bf mom, alam ko gaano kahirap ang pagdadaanan mo para icontinue ang pagpapadede. I think proud lang sya na nakayanan nya yung hirap. At deserve nya yun
saludo ako sa mga nanay na may masaganang supply ng breastmilk but i totally can relate to moms who tried to breastfeed their babies pero wala talagang enough gatas na lumalabas coz im one of them. The struggle is real kaya saludo din ako sa lahat ng mga nanay na mahal na mahal ang mga babies nila
I breastfeed too (exclusively). Here's the deal: once they reach 5 years old it doesn't matter whether they're breastfed or formula fed. At that age, formula fed babies reach the potential that breastfed babies have. So they're on equal grounds na in terms of nutrients and immune system. This is based on a study recently released. So all this hype about breastfeeding and all these moms who think so highly if themselves because they breastfeed - hay naku! Just u wait until they're 5, baka maunahan pa ng formula fed ang babies nyo. I breastfeed cause it's cheaper, it's easier and more convenient for me, not because i think its best. Kalokohan. Being a mom is hard enough. Don't make other moms feel guilty that they can't.
every mother gives her child what she believes is best. all moms are wonderful, i was raised by one. im married but childless and i sometimes take offense when i hear comments that a child makes a woman complete. not having a child doesnt make me less of a woman, just like not breastfeeding should not make any woman feel less of a mother. we can celebrate womanhood in many different ways. we just need to be openminded and be less critical of others.
i the end of the day, kahit nagformula o nagbreastmilk pa man ang baby.. di yan ang magiging batayan kung magiging mabuting tao sya paglaki.
ReplyDeleteChoice nya po yan, respetuhin po natin
DeleteI super agree 12:40. Medyo nahuhurt ako sa ganitong reaction ng mga celeb sa formula milk. Siguro OA lang ako but Im quite offended sa mga inang hindi nakakapagBF na parang ang sama namin.. I wasn't able to breastfeed my kid for some reasons pero I'm still proud of my daughter, healthy, talented, and superbibo. Before siya mag 3yo, she already knew A-Z 1-15, 10colors, shapes, can sing and dance. Yung kinakanta pa nya ROAR and themesong ni Moana. Im not a fan of the 2 songs kaya nagulat akong mas alam pa nya sakin. Never din siya nahospitalize (knock on wood). Para maging mabuting tao at healthy, I can say it really depends on how you take care (including pregnancy) and raise your kids.
Delete1:12 true. minsan parang pinapalabas nila na malaking kasalanan ang formula. and parang yan na ang batayan ng pagiging isang mabuting ina. 12:58 yes it's their choice. OA na kasi minsan. parang ang sasamang ina ng nagfoformula. duh!?
Delete1:12 I get you. No need to feel guilty and justify what your child can do at 3 y/o.
DeleteTrue! 4mos ko lang din nabreastfeed ang anak ko dahil kusang huminto ang gatas ko kaya mumurahing milk powder lang ang napainom ko until today, but at age of 3 ay marunong na syang magbasa, magsulat at mag-arithmetic, at age 5 ay sumali at nanalo sya sa competitions sa school nya.Wala sa gatas yan kung nasa genes ang pagiging matalino. suporta lang din ng magulang ang kelangan to nurture the skills nd talents of the child..
DeleteMinsan kung sino pang mayaman who can affordto buy commercial milks yon png nag eeffort mag breastfeed, yong walang pambiling milk yon png nahihirapan magbreast feed.
DeleteNahirapan din ako magpa breastfeed. One nga lang. hindi ako comfortable at nasasaktan ako. Ok lang to be an advocate of bf, pero may kanya kanyang reasons personal or physical kung bakit minsan hindi puwedeng ipilit ang breastfeed. Respetuhan tayo ng gusto natin dapat.
Delete4:43, iba-iba naman kase situations ng mga moms. We can't generalize na it's for lack of trying. Ako hindi din nakapagpa-breastfeed dahil nagkaroon ng complications yung pagbubuntis and deliveries ko. I tried but my milk supply was simply not enough and eventually had to resort to formula because my babies were losing weight. Kaya wag sana magmagaling ang iba na kesyo it's lack of effort or impossible na wala kang milk supply because it happens.
DeleteAgree! FED IS BEST, breastmilk or formula.
DeleteBF or formula, what's important is how they grow to be. The greatest achievement I will ever recieve as mom is when people tell my child that he/she is a good and godly person. No one will even know or care if was exclusively BF or not.
Deletemasakit naman talaga na minsan insenstitive dating ng mga nageendorse ng breastfeeding na parang malaking kasalanan ang mag formula. Kasi sa case ko totally walang lumalabas na milk, ganun din sa sis ko at mo. I dunno if its hereditary hehe. yung naawa na lang yung mga doctors kasi nagta try talaga kami at sobrang gutom na nung baby. tried sabay, seafood name it, malunggay supplement! and pangarap namin mag BF pero wala talaga kaya please don't be so biased hindi lahat ayaw lng mag BF
DeleteI feel sorry for the moms here na ganito ang pananaw, I think Mariel is just trying to express her feelings on breastfeeding her OWN DAUGHTER. Masaya ang naging experience nya, kaya pinaliwanag lang sa social media, Hindi ko din maintindihan kung ano ang hanash ninyo sa sinabi ng tao. That's her stand regarding FEEDING HER OWN DAUGHTER. The last part encourages other moms to do the same thing which is not wrong at all. So ano ang masama doon saying that she is insensitive. She's probably insensitive to the BABY formula companies.
DeleteAnd your point?
ReplyDeleteAng haba ng caption nya di mo pa rin na gets ang point nya? Kaloka ka
DeleteBreastfeeding isn't the gauge of whether or not you're a good mother. I've seen mothers who breastfed their babies only to abandon them later for a querido (sorry for the lack of a better word). Being a good mother is raising your child to be a good and God-fearing person and being there for him for guidance, love and protection.
ReplyDeleteVery well said 1:51AM. Women should not be considered failures as mothers if they did not breast feed their child. It's how you raise them and are there for them in their lives.
DeleteCorrect!
DeleteExactly! Not being able to breastfeed your baby doesn't make less of a mother. Some mothers struggle with health issues and other problems which make them unable to breastfeed. I support breastfeeding but let us be considerate of other moms who are unable to do that even if they really want to. It is painful to see that with the rise of breastfeeding advocacies we become insensitive to the non-bf moms.
DeleteYes 10:28AM. You are very right
DeleteMariel was merely encouraging mothers to breastfeed. Wala syang sinabing batayan yun ng pagiging mabuting ina or kung ano pang hanash na nirereact nyo. Ang OA nyo lang sa reactions. Positive yung message pero pilit hinahanapan ng negative connotation my gosh!!!
DeleteBakit ang guilty and defensive ng mga comments dito? I dont see anything wrong with what she said, and tinanong lang cguro siya if she gives or will give formula, sinagot lang niya ng hnd. there was nothing on being a good mother, etc etc. jeesh people.
ReplyDeleteIt's the way she reacted na. If you werent't able to BF your kid, you'd feel our sentiments
DeleteKasi yan din ang mga sinasabi ng mga moms na nanghuhusga sa ibang moms na hindi makapagbreastfeed.
DeleteWalang panghuhusga yung message ni Mariel. She was stating her choice. There is nothing wrong with that
Deleteyung iba kasi mga beks pakana ng formula milk companies, mga media nila para mas makabenta pa sila ng milk formula.
DeleteShe's not saying it makes her a better mother or she's raising a better child if she breastfeeds. Fact is formula is packed with sugars which is why she's encouraging to breastfeed because breastmilk is healthier.
ReplyDeleteš
DeleteTrue. Too many defensive comments here. All from moms who don't breastfeed I am guessing. Advocating breastfeeding is free, unlike yun ibang artista who get paid millions to advocate a certain formula brand. That alone proves something.
Delete-from a low supply mom who struggled to BF
yes, I don't see anything negative here, marami naman kasing benefits talaga if you breastfeed your baby. Healthwise, hindi sinasabing masama kung nag formula din ang mga anak mo, kanya kanya yan mga bes
DeleteSometimes i feel na para bang ang sama sama na paginamin ng mommy na nagbbreastfeed sya. Wala naman masama sa sinabi ni mariel pero andaming negative reactions. Hindi naman din jinujudge ang mga nagfformula sa post nya. If she's thankful to have breastfed,let her express her appreciation towards her experience.
ReplyDeleteMeron or madami pa rin ba kaseng moms who prefer not to breastfeed even if they can?
ReplyDeletethere's such a thing as freedom of choice, pero ako I believe in breastfeeding my children, it creates bonding and there are a lot of health benefits later on. hindi talaga masakitin ang batang breastfed
Deletehindi, marami ang mga publicity ng Formula Milk na ganyan. Malaki ang kanilang budget para sa publicity.
DeleteKung hindi pala kayo naguguilty for formula feeding bakit super react kayo sa post ni mariel?! Let her be! It was a struggle na nalagpasan nya so it's her right to be happy and proud about it. If you think there is nothing wrong with formula feeding your child then don't be so nega to a mom who proudly breastfed hers. Just be happy happy she made succeeded since you know pala na it's hard.
ReplyDeleteIt's not about her post. We truly understand her. Pero yung reply nya na super against sa formula milk, iba yung dating eh. Maybe youre not yet a mom or nakapagpaBF ka kaya you wouldnt understand how we feel
DeleteYou know that maraming sugar ang formula milk, right? Do you really want that for your child? Wala lang kasing choice yung iba dahil mas mura naman talaga yun kesa sa ibang milk na "close to mother's milk." Ma-offend ka kung pinili mong magformula kahit kaya mo namang magbreastfeed dahil inuna mo kaartehan mo.
DeleteFormula milk is also packed with other vitamins and minerals not found in breastmilk. Case in point: my son is exclusively breastfed, he needs vit d supplement, whereas babies his age who are formula fed don't. And yes, formula milk has sugar so doctors recommend babies to have water after feeding, and not all sugar is bad too. Medyo OA ang reply mo. I'm breastfeeding and i feel offended for moms who can't. And no, it's not because they didn't try, they can't. I have a friend who only has 1 kidney and she's taking medicines so she can't breastfeed. I say get off your high horse and let mothers decide what's best for their babies.
Deletethen it's Mariel's right to believe in breastfeeding. She's not trying to offend other moms , just stating her wonderful experience breastfeeding her daughter. Baka natuwa sya or what not, bakit kayo offended? hello. Pananaw yan ni Mariel, wag balat sibuyas.
DeleteAnkn 9pm you can get vit D from the sun. Libre pa!
Delete@11:53 she didn't talk negatively abt bf. It's a matter of her preferring goat's milk over formula. Choice nya yun. It's a matter of choosing one type/brand over the other. I'm just speaking objectively.
ReplyDeletewag masyadong sensitive mga besh! hnd kinukwesyon ni madam ang pagging mga nanay nyo. she merely said na she wants what's best for her baby. may time and may pera syang humanap ng goats milk, hayaan na naten. sa mga nagiguilty na nag-formula, why? whether it's a choice or it's the situation that led you to do it, pinaghirapan nyo pa rin naman yung pinambili nyo nung gatas. hindi man kasing natural ng gatas ng ina, pero hnd naman kinulang ng pagmamahal. ktnxbye.
ReplyDeleteTrue @ 12:43. Masyadong defensive naman tong mga momshies naten. At the end of the day, it's still how we raise our kids. Try to be objective wag masyadong guilty or kala mo inaaway na kayo pag usapang breastfeeding na. NKKLK
DeleteAs a bf mom, alam ko gaano kahirap ang pagdadaanan mo para icontinue ang pagpapadede. I think proud lang sya na nakayanan nya yung hirap. At deserve nya yun
ReplyDeletesaludo ako sa mga nanay na may masaganang supply ng breastmilk but i totally can relate to moms who tried to breastfeed their babies pero wala talagang enough gatas na lumalabas coz im one of them. The struggle is real kaya saludo din ako sa lahat ng mga nanay na mahal na mahal ang mga babies nila
ReplyDeleteI breastfeed too (exclusively). Here's the deal: once they reach 5 years old it doesn't matter whether they're breastfed or formula fed. At that age, formula fed babies reach the potential that breastfed babies have. So they're on equal grounds na in terms of nutrients and immune system. This is based on a study recently released. So all this hype about breastfeeding and all these moms who think so highly if themselves because they breastfeed - hay naku! Just u wait until they're 5, baka maunahan pa ng formula fed ang babies nyo. I breastfeed cause it's cheaper, it's easier and more convenient for me, not because i think its best. Kalokohan. Being a mom is hard enough. Don't make other moms feel guilty that they can't.
Deleteyes we respect breastfeeding moms and moms you cant breastfeed or mabilis lang ang pagbreast feed, we respect all types and beliefs here.
Deletepatawarin na natin sya, she's not very articulate kaya madalas she comes across as offensive
ReplyDeleteevery mother gives her child what she believes is best. all moms are wonderful, i was raised by one. im married but childless and i sometimes take offense when i hear comments that a child makes a woman complete. not having a child doesnt make me less of a woman, just like not breastfeeding should not make any woman feel less of a mother. we can celebrate womanhood in many different ways. we just need to be openminded and be less critical of others.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what nutrients can you get from goat's milk eh damo lang naman kinakain nila.
ReplyDeleteSo, vegans are not nourished? In this day and age, let us not be ignorant.
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