Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Being Proud Too Soon


When one wants something badly, but allows patience to rule, the possibility of getting what one wishes becomes higher. Years ago, Good-looking Female (GF) wanted to enter showbiz. Armed with looks, determination and talent, GF tried her luck. Unfortunately, GF looks like most of the female talents in the network she chose, and thus, she was not given the second look.

GF tried to find her space in another network, who took her in and recognized her talent. However, as she was not homegrown, she could only wait for projects. Slowly, her talent was recognized and people began to notice her. Such would not last long, as GF became the center of the mischief of a powerful personality. That was the cue that GF should pack up and leave.

While the option of quitting seems too real, GF did not succumb to slipping into oblivion. She knew she had other talents than acting and she worked on developing her other skills. Soon, she was given a big break in the cinema and was once again noticed. Critics noticed her and GF was soon strengthening her foothold in the industry. Then, one day, an unexpected project came her way. With big stars and a big name director, the project was a good choice. GF believed in the project and did her best to be as believable in her character. She worked hard in promoting her project and her efforts paid off. Other projects came after and soon, GF was becoming more recognizable.

The time was perhaps right for GF to show humility, as her dreams were coming true. Unfortunately, that idea seems to be her opposite direction. While she appears pleasant and nice in front of cameras, fans realized a change in behavior once the cameras are no longer around. During a gig outside the city, her fans gathered around and sent word if GF could meet them briefly. After all, they were in the province and celebrities coming over were a big deal.

GF was not really doing much except being holed up in her room, and thus, her fans made the simple request. Minutes and hours passed, GF was nowhere in sight. The fans waited, but it was already late and soon they left, as they realized that GF refused to go down and see them. Disappointed, the waiting fans knew that they should just channel their admiration to someone else who knows how to value them. Some of them could not help but think that GF has an attitude problem, which could prevent her from achieving full stardom.

‘Dance. Smile. Giggle. Marvel. TRUST. HOPE. LOVE. WISH. BELIEVE. Most of all, enjoy every moment of the journey, and appreciate where you are at this moment instead of always focusing on how far you have to go.’ ― Mandy Hale

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79 comments:

  1. B. Dati pa may issue yan. Nakakalungkot lang kasi all praise iyong mga tao sa kanya na kesyo better version ni another B

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    1. Aning better version ng other B na sinasabk mo jan teh. Buti si other B nakikipagpicture kahit mukhang napipilitan.

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  2. Bakit naman BP? Huhu, labs pa naman kita...

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  3. Eh baka nmn hindi na relay kay gf ang message ng fans? Or pagod din? Hindi nmn kasi entitled lahat. Oo fans kayo. Pero dapat ba eh laging available sa inyo? I dont think tama rin un logic na un.

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    1. 1:21 tulog na B. sa precinto ka magpaliwanag

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    2. She should have told them na hindi sya pupunta than let them wait in vain...if d man nya kayang evalue yung time ng mga fans na pumunta dun ,sana man lang nya yung mga effort nila

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    3. Teh,
      Obvious na wala kang idea sa pagpapalakad ng mga tours and shows.
      BAYAD PO ANG MGA TALENTS SA LAHAT NG GIGS!
      So, tell us, may karapatan bang mag-no show sa venue ang talent kung bayad sa gig?

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    4. @ 3:28 hindi naman ata siya no show sa MAIN EVENT. Dun lang sa request ng fans na kung pwede siya i-meet. ang sabi din dito "sent word". baka nga hindi nakarating kay B yung pinapasabi

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  4. Na experience ko na rin yan sa kanya. Not literally na binastos pero the way she talked to me hindi approachable unlike other well known celeb. Si B to.

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  5. Si B to na KaH dati tapos bumalik sa KaF

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  6. GF- Si B ba ito na dating ka-F na naging ka-H na bumalik sa pgging kaF? Help!

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    1. tumfact. dati na may issue dito, totoo pala. hay...siguro ito yung kakatapos lang niyang TS.

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  7. This is B. KaF then KaH then KaF ulit.

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  8. B from KaH to KaF?

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  9. its her choice nmn kung mkikipgmeet. but that doesnt mean e hnd n humble. what if busy sya o pagod.

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    1. eh di dapat pinasabihan niya sa staff na hindi siya makakalabas. kaso hinayaan niya lang maghintay ng ilang oras yung mga fans niya.

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    2. Wag mag paasa ng fans kung pagod mag sorry siya kahit wala dapat ipag sorry para hindi lumabas na masama siya. Often misunderstood ang mga artista pero dapat kausapin nila kesa sa maging issue.

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  10. nalungkot ako kasi like ko pa naman sya

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  11. Dati pa may attitude issue na sya. Bumango lang ang umage niya kasi lumipat at hindi siya masayadong kilala.

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  12. This is B. Hawig nya pic actually.

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  13. Hindi na niya tungkulin ang imeet ang fans lalo na at tapos na work at nasa hotel na sila. Personal time na yun.

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    1. Kung si other B todo bash ng iba dahil mukhang nakasimagot daw eh at least pwede magpapicture sa kanya.

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    2. True masyadong entitled ang mga fans ngayon.

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    3. Pag celebrity/artista ka at yan ang pinili mo na hanapbuhay, you owe it to your fans to please them kasi sila ang bread and butter mo so, there is no such thing as personal time or whatevet ek ek because it would only take a second or two to pose for a photo and you give so much joy to your fans..c'mon B you haven't reach the pinnacle of success yet..stay grounded or else in a split second your blessing will fly out of the window!

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  14. It's B, now a KaF again. Many celebrities didn't last long nor gained fame because of their attitude.

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  15. sus, ilang beses ko na ren nabasa about sa ugali nya. sa isang awards ceremony. dinaan daanan lanng ibang press pips. samantalng yung ibang mas sikat e todo chika at frenly...

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  16. GF --- F Lumaki agad ang ulo sa "praises" sa acting abilites niya?

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    1. Sino si F parang mali pero clue naman dyan

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  17. This is B. Balik ka-f and nagka big issue with M dati.

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    1. I thought she was nice pa naman. :(

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  18. ang mga celebs tao rin cla, meaning may ibat ibang personality. merong friendly, merong approachable at meron din ung tahimik lng. at madalas ung mga tahimik lang eh napagkakamalang masungit or may attitude. just like you and me. My point is. if its not on her character to muchi muchi with other people does it make her a less of a person? think. Just because you are in showbiz industry doesnt mean na u have to act friendly if you are not. People will always say. Be yourself. the sad part is. they will judge you no matter what. #2cents

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    1. she should've asked her staff or someone from the hotel to tell them na hindi sya bababa kasi pagod xa at magsorry sya kaysa sa pinag-antay nya mga fans nya sa wala

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    2. Trully.. Yung iba kaya di nakikihalobilo kase nahihiya.. Meron kaseng ganung tao.. Malay nyo introvert pala.

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    3. Kaya dapat magpakabait sila and do away w/ this diva attitude!

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    4. Honestly, in showbiz industry she has to. Else di siya magtatagal. Di ka pwede sa industry na yan baks. Malalaos agad alaga mo sa attitude mo. Kaya nga "show"business. Trabaho yan, hindi pamilya o Friendster. Matuto siya dapat mag-adjust.

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    5. Couldn't agree with you more. Tama ka tlg dyan, kung ayaw nila ng socializing, mag office work na lang sila, period.....That's the price they have to pay in exchange of fame and fortune....

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    6. te, ang usapan dito eh pinaghintay niya mga fans. d sana tumanggi na lang siya saying pagod na siya and next time na lang, ok lang naman.

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    7. pag pumasok ka sa showbiz obligado kang maging nice sa fans mo..sila kaya dahilan kaya nagiging relevant ang mga artista, sla dun gumagastos pra mapanlod movies mo at hindi langawin..wag ismolin ang mga fans..sila bumubuhay sa karir ng mga artista..

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  19. wait anong issue nya sa powerful celeb? sino yun? hindi ako updated.

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    1. 2:59 yung palengkera/cheapangga

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    2. 2:59 yung palengkera na kaH. isa lang yun

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    3. si M na may issue na naman ngayon with another celeb sa network niya.

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    4. Baka yung issue with M

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    5. Powerful celeb is M of KaH.

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    6. kay M before nung nasa ka-H pa sya.

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    7. si M na gamit na gamit ng mga starlets..

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  20. Kung character nya ang hindi friendly, thats ok if you are on your own time. Pero nasa trabaho ka (GIG outside the city) kaya obligado kang maging friendly sa fans. Isipin na lang nya na PR yun. Honestly, a simple Hi or wave of the hand or a smile, masaya na ang fans. Hindi kailangan ng 1 hr yan.

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    1. ginawa naman niya trabaho niya. pahabol na request nalang ng mga fans yung i meet sila kasi nga big deal sa probinsya yung pagdating ng mga artista

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    2. kaya nga lalabasin lang saglit eh di pa nagawa. nasa gig naman sya at wala sa vacay.

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  21. Na Bi na siya dati dahil sa attitude problem

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  22. Mukha naman talagang moody si B Pero like ko pa din sya. Isa pa yun mga fans mahiya naman kayo, nasa room na yun tao and nagpapahinga na kung ayaw bumaba baka pagod. Kung harapan kayong dineadma that's different. Isa pa kung talagang fans kayo you would respect your idol's resting time.

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    1. ako din. like ko pa rin siya as an artist.
      sa mga fans naman, hindi pa ba sapat na nakita nila ang artista. baka naman kasi kelangan niya ng "me time"

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    2. kung pinaghintay ang fans ano tawag mo dun

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  23. Eh di ba lahat ng istasyon na pinuntahannyan, may nakaaway yang si B?

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  24. I like B as an artist pero minsan hirap nga tantyahin ng personal ugali nya so can't really call myself a fan. Pero i support her projects. Hope someone talks to her. Mukha pa naman syang God-fearing based sa interviews nya. Akala ko seryoso sya sa religion nya

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  25. Si B, yung kulang sa baba (chin)?

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  26. ay kaya ba sya bumalik sa ka-F dahil inaway sya ni M?

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    1. Wag ka one sided, aawayin ba yan ni M kung wala din syang ginawa noon? Mag isip ka. Me attitude si M but may attitude din naman pala to so quits lang sila.

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  27. Title pa lang alam ko na! first honor kahit today lang!

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  28. Teacher FP si B po ba ito? Hope I'm correct para di po ako kasali sa row 4. Sunod2 pa naman A+ ko.

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  29. na getsung ko na mga baks! si B na galing rin sa familia ng mga artista. ayun na.

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  30. I believe that this is B. May personal experience ako sa kamalditahan nito nung baguhan palang sya at nasa kaH pa. My friends and I were at a theme park at nakapila sa isang ride nung dumating sya kasama mga showbiz friends nya na mga baguhin din, mga members ng rshow na nagdidiscover ng new stars. Siningitan nila kami sa pila sabay sabi sa bantay ng ride na "kuya di mo ba kami kilala? Mga artista kami. Ako sa B" naloka talaga ako kasi yung ganung antics parang sa movies or tv show mo lang makikita.

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    1. pumalag ka sana baks! kukuda ka pa dyan eh di sana sinaway mo di ba? pinagbigyan mi kasi artista eh so aun nga kaya ginagawa nila un kasi ikaw ang example na pinagbibigyan sila.

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    2. Anong problema mo bat ang nega mo? Hindi mo ba nabasa? Yung attendant ang kausap nya, hindi kami. Hindi namin sya pinagbigyan, pagkasabi palang nya nun sa attendant, pinapasok na sya agad. Kuda ka ng kuda hindi mo naman alam yung buong nangyari. Yung kagaspangan ng ugali nya yung issue dito, hindi yung mga taong binibiktima nya. Kahit sawayin mo yung taong bastos, hindi mo mababagong bastos sya.

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    3. Hanggang dito ba naman may victim blaming pa.

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  31. B. ganyan naman yang mga yan pag di pa sikat panay papansin at mabait sa fans. pag nakilala na ng konti daming inarte. kasakay ko to dati sa eroplano di pa to sikat ang ingay ingay nya. buong 3 hr flight tapos late night flight pa pagod at antok na ang mga tao. boses lang nya maririnig mo. pati yung PA ata nya yun di na ganong makasingit sa kwento. walang kahit isang lumapit sa kanya para magpapicture

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  32. I disagree. it could just be a case of miscommunication. Mabait kaya sya in person.

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  33. my sister worked with her on a shot sometime ago, and yes, she said ma-attitude si B.

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