Cacai, enough already. Let it go, learn from it and move on. Life is not fair, we all have our share of heartaches, expectations and disappointments. Putting all of these on social media will not do you any good. It will just prolong your agony, embarrassment and humiliation.
In a way, mass media is to blame. Why? Because they keep producing commercials and movies, where the "handsome guy falls head-over-heels for the unbeautiful character" to sell a fantasy. What they don't realize is that the idea resonates very strongly with people who have very low self-esteem and beauty issues. This is the second time this woman has obsessed over her male friend when her feelings were not reciprocated.
The fact is, in the real world, people find someone who looks like them or their mothers or their fathers, or for someone who is their equal--there's a science to that. If you get rejected, put your big girl pants on and take it with dignity. Don't impose your sentiments and force the issue to the point of obsessing over the guy. Nobody respects a woman who makes herself as a doormat.
2:38 You hit the nail in the head. What you said is so true and at the same time a sad fact. Rejection is everywhere, it does not matter if you're the prettiest or the smartest person. Learning to cope, accepting what has happened and moving on is a way to heal a broken heart.
Grabeh ka naman makasabi ng chaka. Ikasasaya mo ba o ikabubuti ng buhay mo yang sobrang panlalait at pananakit sa kapwa. Golden rule- Do not do unto others what you do not want others do to you.
Get off your high horse 3:01 usually yung mga ganyan katulad mo na pa self righteous ay masahol pa sa mga pinupuna nyo, yun nga lang walang nag popolis sa mga sinasabi at ginagawa nyo 24/7 pero alam lahat yan ni God. Let your actions speak louder than your words.
Ganito lang yan, Kakai. Nag-assume ka pero kinausap ka na privately, d ba? Kinorek na ang illusion mo. Pero sige ka pa rin eh. Stop na, teh. Nakakahiya na masyado. Kahit ako na hindi mo kaano-ano, nahihiya bilang babae. You look desperate. Wag ganern.
Enough na Kakai it's an embarrassment that you have to go to this extent to cover up your assuming words. Move on and find somebody who will love you back in a romantic way you want to.
Hay kakai. Im sure madaming magkaka gusto sayo kung maganda yung ugali mo tsktsk eh kung lahat ng lalaking (esp yung mga gwapo) na kakaibiganin nya tapos iaassume na sila na pag naging close eh wala na lalong lalaking lalapit sakanya
Actually she has too much pride that she can't accept the truth even if it hits her in the face. Her huge ego won't accept being rejected by a guy. That's why she can't let go.
Naramdaman ko naramdaman mo girl. Yes masakit talaga pero Kailangan mo na ma let go yan if not ikaw Ang masasaktan. Take it slowly and deliberately little by little hihilom din yan. One day pagtatawanan mo rin yan... been there and im proud na overcome ko rin. I'm sure magagawa mo rin yan
I like her answers too. I don't understand why people feel the need to put a gag order on her eh account nya yan. If you don't like her, then why bother following her or reading articles about her? Ako, i'm interested in what she has to say kaya pinag-aaksayahan ko na oras na basahin ang tweets nya.
Cacai is beyond irritating na, matigas ang ulo. Kapalmuks mo i shame yung mga nag babash sayo pero ganun din ang ginagawa mo. Ipokrita to the highest level.
Manahimik ka na please! Dati akala ko gums mo lang ang malaki, pati rin pala bunganga mo. Nakakaawa ka na sa totoo lang. Umabot ka pa talaga sa point na pinagduduldulan na ng lalaking ayaw sayo. Hindi ka nakakaawa, nakakabwisit ka na.
I feel so bad for her. Why does she have to make these affirmations public. I think she needs some time off social media. It will continually haunt her, the boy shenanigans she had =(
i think she needs a retreat without any wifi/data connection. she needs to stop using her socmed as an outlet but just to reflect really on herself. this is becoming toxic. madaming artista na din ang naging ganyan - socmed as outlet - pero it helped them more when they took a pause.
try lang, wala naman masama kung susubukan. this phase is difficult - no doubt. pro same with everything, lilipas din yan... #slowlybutsurely #dothisforyou #tiwalalang
Cacai, enough already. Let it go, learn from it and move on. Life is not fair, we all have our share of heartaches, expectations and disappointments. Putting all of these on social media will not do you any good. It will just prolong your agony, embarrassment and humiliation.
ReplyDelete#UnrequitedLove2.0
DeleteSuper bilib sa sarili. Where did she get that ego boost? Harap-harapan na ngang sinasabihan na THERE WAS NEVER AN US, push pa rin si Gums. Hahahaha!
DeleteBakit ayaw pa rin nyang tumigil?
Deleteshe's trying to safe face. but the more she does it, the more she humiliates herself. enough na. move on na.
DeleteHer never ending posts on the matter is like "kicking a dead horse". Tama na.
Delete12:55 because deep inside she likes the attention. She wants to stay relevant, kahit na nga negative issues papatulan nya. Kawawang nilalang.
DeleteIn a way, mass media is to blame.
DeleteWhy? Because they keep producing commercials and movies, where the "handsome guy falls head-over-heels for the unbeautiful character" to sell a fantasy. What they don't realize is that the idea resonates very strongly with people who have very low self-esteem and beauty issues. This is the second time this woman has obsessed over her male friend when her feelings were not reciprocated.
The fact is, in the real world, people find someone who looks like them or their mothers or their fathers, or for someone who is their equal--there's a science to that. If you get rejected, put your big girl pants on and take it with dignity. Don't impose your sentiments and force the issue to the point of obsessing over the guy. Nobody respects a woman who makes herself as a doormat.
2:38 You hit the nail in the head. What you said is so true and at the same time a sad fact. Rejection is everywhere, it does not matter if you're the prettiest or the smartest person. Learning to cope, accepting what has happened and moving on is a way to heal a broken heart.
DeleteWATCH KAYO KITA KITA. GANDA DAW.
Delete#talesfromthefriendzone
DeleteYan ang entry ni atcheng, charot!
True 2.38. Maraming mga Pinay na hoping talaga sa ganyan na fantasy. May itchura naman pero sobrang insecure sa kayumanggi o morena looks.
DeleteChaka naman sobra... chaka chaka mo pwe!
ReplyDeleteMas chaka ka!
DeleteSa totoo lang over OA na si Kakai. Kapal na nga ang gilagid kapal pa ng mukha idiin na tama sya palagi.
DeleteTaray over over acting 9:23?
DeleteGrabeh ka naman makasabi ng chaka. Ikasasaya mo ba o ikabubuti ng buhay mo yang sobrang panlalait at pananakit sa kapwa. Golden rule- Do not do unto others what you do not want others do to you.
DeleteGet off your high horse 3:01 usually yung mga ganyan katulad mo na pa self righteous ay masahol pa sa mga pinupuna nyo, yun nga lang walang nag popolis sa mga sinasabi at ginagawa nyo 24/7 pero alam lahat yan ni God. Let your actions speak louder than your words.
DeleteTama na Kakai.It's time to really move on and allow the
ReplyDeletehealing process to take place.Time heals everything...
Mukhang ayaw nyang mag heal and forget the past. Parang gusto nyang may bitterness kesa sa wala.
DeleteTe gurl, walk your talk kasi.
ReplyDeleteYeah she keeps saying it's okay pero sagot ng sagot. So it's not?
DeleteGanito lang yan, Kakai. Nag-assume ka pero kinausap ka na privately, d ba? Kinorek na ang illusion mo. Pero sige ka pa rin eh. Stop na, teh. Nakakahiya na masyado. Kahit ako na hindi mo kaano-ano, nahihiya bilang babae. You look desperate. Wag ganern.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Kinausap pala in private pero dakdak ng dakdak sa socmed. Nainis tuloy yung isa. Sayang ang friendship.
DeleteThere's a reason to this woman's big mouth. She just won't shut it. Her mouth swallowed her brain.
ReplyDeleteSorry, But not Sorry nga daw ateng... kaya tama na, magkalma na at mag-focus na sa ibang bagay
ReplyDeleteHay nako eto nanaman si kakai na pa-victim
ReplyDeleteSi girl naman masyadong pa relevant. Mas masyado papansin girl.
ReplyDeleteEnough na Kakai it's an embarrassment that you have to go to this extent to cover up your assuming words. Move on and find somebody who will love you back in a romantic way you want to.
ReplyDeleteHay kakai. Im sure madaming magkaka gusto sayo kung maganda yung ugali mo tsktsk eh kung lahat ng lalaking (esp yung mga gwapo) na kakaibiganin nya tapos iaassume na sila na pag naging close eh wala na lalong lalaking lalapit sakanya
ReplyDeleteIt's your glaring insecurities, Cacai. What a pity. What a waste.
ReplyDeleteCacai, have you no pride?
ReplyDeleteActually she has too much pride that she can't accept the truth even if it hits her in the face. Her huge ego won't accept being rejected by a guy. That's why she can't let go.
DeleteHow shameful!!! Nakakahiya ka na! Magkaroon ka naman ng respeto sa sarili mo girl! Matanda ka na at sana you act your age!
ReplyDeleteMove on na ate gurl. Daming kuda eh.
ReplyDeleteWag mag assume teh!
ReplyDeleteNaramdaman ko naramdaman mo girl. Yes masakit talaga pero Kailangan mo na ma let go yan if not ikaw Ang masasaktan. Take it slowly and deliberately little by little hihilom din yan. One day pagtatawanan mo rin yan... been there and im proud na overcome ko rin. I'm sure magagawa mo rin yan
ReplyDeleteShut up na Cacai. To forget your worries, watch GOT tomorrow. Snow And Stormborn will finally meet at Dragonstone. maybe
ReplyDeleteTama na teh. Nagmumukha ka lalong hurt at guilty sa haba ng drama mo. Di mo ikakasikat yan.
ReplyDeleteShe tries so hard but fails even harder. Wag mo rin kame.
ReplyDeleteIba talaga once you've been blinded by love...Wala ka nang ulirat
ReplyDeleteLove na talaga bes? Mukhang one-sided love naman ito. More like obsessed nanaman siya like duon sa foreign actor. Hindi talaga healthy yung ganyan.
DeleteDon't look back. Move on na kasi.
ReplyDeleteBet ko answers niya this time. Galing niya mambara ng bashers tho š
ReplyDeleteToo bad she can't stuff her big mouth shut.
DeleteI like her answers too. I don't understand why people feel the need to put a gag order on her eh account nya yan. If you don't like her, then why bother following her or reading articles about her? Ako, i'm interested in what she has to say kaya pinag-aaksayahan ko na oras na basahin ang tweets nya.
Delete3:25 bakit mo rin pinag aksayahan basahin ang mga nega comments about her? nag comment ka pa lol walk your talk
DeleteCacai is beyond irritating na, matigas ang ulo. Kapalmuks mo i shame yung mga nag babash sayo pero ganun din ang ginagawa mo. Ipokrita to the highest level.
ReplyDeletehaha your statement is THE TRUTH!!
DeleteTeh, iba kasi yung nag assume sa assumerang di maka move on! Yun yon.
ReplyDeletepapampam na ito masyado, so irrelevant.
ReplyDeleteSeason 2 na ba ito ng Assumeserye?
ReplyDeleteManahimik ka na please! Dati akala ko gums mo lang ang malaki, pati rin pala bunganga mo. Nakakaawa ka na sa totoo lang. Umabot ka pa talaga sa point na pinagduduldulan na ng lalaking ayaw sayo. Hindi ka nakakaawa, nakakabwisit ka na.
ReplyDeleteStop na cacai. Pa deep ka masyado but its not impressive actually. You're ending up being the laughingstock.
ReplyDeleteAhron wag ka na sumagot please
ReplyDeleteTahan,na bes!ššš
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for her. Why does she have to make these affirmations public. I think she needs some time off social media. It will continually haunt her, the boy shenanigans she had =(
ReplyDeleteNku kumanta ka nalang teh!i remember nagka album k nanan before and may hit song di ba.you can always follow the steps of your ate songbird.
ReplyDeleteBastus ka hahahaha
Deletei think she needs a retreat without any wifi/data connection. she needs to stop using her socmed as an outlet but just to reflect really on herself. this is becoming toxic. madaming artista na din ang naging ganyan - socmed as outlet - pero it helped them more when they took a pause.
ReplyDeletetry lang, wala naman masama kung susubukan. this phase is difficult - no doubt. pro same with everything, lilipas din yan... #slowlybutsurely #dothisforyou #tiwalalang
BABAAN MO NA NAMAN KASI ANG STANDARD MO SA GUY CACAI!! HANAP TAYO NG KA-LEVEL NATIN PARA DI TAYO MA-FRIENDZONE HA... FRIENDLY ADVICE
ReplyDeletejust move on, cry if u have to, drink if u have to then pick yourself back up!!
ReplyDeleteWith the exception of your last advice, she's probably already doing all of that now, hence the never ending social media posts. #pathetic
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