So Difficult

While everyone thinks that all is well between Performance Artist (PA) and Clingy Relative (CR), people around them can say that CR is still the same way with PA. Despite the years of closely monitoring the activities of PA, CR has remained strict in her dos and don’ts. Not only is the rule for her personal dealings, the rule is applicable even in professional engagements.

During an event, PA was the featured performer and naturally, The Director (TD) had ideas on how to make sure she would maintain the attention of the crowd between performances. Everything was set and TD was confident that the ideas would work well. Then, CR started asking for details of the show. TD presented the flow and the possible spiels. CR then raised a fuss and stated that the name of Hunk Actor (HA) should never be mentioned. TD was surprised, as HA is a significant person in the life of PA and mentioning him once or twice would come out naturally and spontaneously.

Despite the plans, TD gave way, as CR can put on attitude, which could affect the show. Still, TD and the crew could not understand why CR has such instructions. Thus, the speculation is that CR is still holding on to PA strongly and might not even set her free to find true love.

In contrast to the rude attitude of CR, TD praised PA for her professionalism. She listened to instructions quietly and she did her part without much fuss. She was so easy to work with, which TD and his team appreciated. Sadly, this experience with CR was a first of sorts for TD, who has never worked with someone as insistent as CR.

Incidentally, others have noticed that CR can indeed be meddlesome. Even for details, such as concert venues, can be her pet peeve and venue owners would rather not deal with her. Despite PA being of age, CR cannot seem to let go and allow PA to be more independent. More importantly, she still does not care about people relations when dealing with people behind the scenes.

‘Most of the time, we make discoveries about how difficult people are at the moment when the difficulties have actually hurt us; therefore, we are not likely to be forgiving or sympathetic.’ - Alain de Botton

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