Really Disappointing

Moving on is far easier said than done. When one leaves a relationship, the other would feel the sudden void, and think hard of the reasons why things ended in that manner. Had their followers not notice the absence of recent pictures of a celebrity couple, the idea that their relationship ended would not even surface.

At the time when Non-showbiz Partner (NP) and Talented Celebrity (TC) were starting out, they would always post photos of their adventures in their social media accounts. Fans were kind toward the couple, as NP and TC represented relationship goals. First, both are intelligent and well educated. Second, they are celebrities in their own fields and have a significant number of followers because of their individual achievements. Third, their personalities seemed to complement each other. Their posts would always reflect the humorous side of their relationship. Fourth, both are pursuing and achieving their dreams freely. No reports have emerged that either would control each other’s decisions. Finally, TC respects the wish of NP to remain pure until her wedding, which made him earn praises for being a true gentleman. Both were respected because the couple represented the ideal in a relationship.

Then, one day, NP noticed that TC turned cold. The texts were not as often, the pickups were inconsistent, and TC was crankier. The usual sweetness, hugging, and kissing were now infrequent. As NP would call the attention of TC, he would become irritated and combative. He would say he was tired. Thus, to avoid further confrontation, NP would just keep quiet. Sensing that something is indeed not right in their relationship, both had to give way to each other. As the news broke, both kept a calm disposition in public.

As NP was unsure of the cause of the sudden change in TC, her support system raised possible reasons for the actions of TC. First, there could be a third party, who allegedly lives in a nearby province. Second, TC might be ready for marriage at this point. Third, TC might have gotten too tired of waiting for the day when NP would give herself fully to him. Fourth, both have been too busy in their careers, such that they missed the early signs of an impending breakup. Finally, TC might still want time to find himself.

Despite all these theories of their breakup as a way to comfort NP, she has been trying to project an image that everything is fine. She’s cool and calm when in front of the cameras. However, during private moments, NP is devastated. She has been shedding tears over this breakup. Her moving on is taking a slow process. By contrast, TC seems to be moving on by showing more of his talents and interacting with a few of the prized talents of the network.

“Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” ― Deborah Reber

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