Haha and then all my predictions were true about Nikka but its all good now. Nawala na din ung awkward insinuations ng mga netizens about their set up. Kaya din ako bilib kay Jennylyn, kasi walang masamang tinapay sa kanya. May God bless them always.
@2:52 Agree with you! Sa totoo lang, mas nahihirapan pa ako mag-explain ng english sa mga kapwa ko pinoy lalo na dyan sa Pilipinas kumpara sa mga Amerikano. Iba maka-judge mga Pinoy e, ang gagaling! Ang peperfect! Yung mga Amerikano, basta maitindihan ka lang, kahit minsan may mali pang grammar, di ka pagtatawanan. Peste! We should all help each other, di yang ganyan. Kung naiirita kayo sa pa-"conyo" effect, pwes wag nyo na basahin.
Instead of appreciating the story she shared ganyan pa kayo. Minsan ang hirap ng intindihin ng mga netizens e. Reading the blog i was too happy for all of them. Theirs is not an ideal situation. You will never understand unless you get a first hand experience.
I read her story. It was nice, sincere and heartwarming. Most importantly, it came for the heart, which matters the most. I thought it was perfect. And I work as a technical writer here in North America. True, 8:24. Pinoys are far more picky!
Agree 8:24 pag job interview iyong mga initial interview sa HR and dami nila problema sa grammar mo sa "p" at "f" eh pag nag BU interview ka na naman sa amerikano basta nainitindihan nila ok na. Saka ang ganda nga ng pagkakasulat ni Nikka. Arte much ni 12:59
8:24 I super agree!!!!! Nahihiya ako mg English dito kasi pag mali ang grammar or na mispronounce ang isang word pagtatawanan ka o ipaparamdam na hindi ka matalino pero sa US basta naintindihan ka nila ok na. Maganda ang msg ng post ni nikka at naintindihan nmn natin lahat
Haha. Yung english ko mas baluktot pa sa triangle dito sa Dubai, pero wala naman nagjudge sa kung pano ako magsalita.
Sa dami tuloy ng "magagaling" sa Pilipinas, nawalan ako ng confidence sa sarili ko. Dito lahat ng ginagawa ko ang instinct ko, walang enta, dahil ayokong matawag na mayabang. Ganyan satin eh. Pag proud ka, pasiklab ka. Hay... di naman pala ganyan dapat pag ibang lahi na ang nag-iinterpret ng ugali mo. Magbagong buhay na kayo! Wag nyo ibaba ang mga kapwa nyo! Kastress hay
12:59 you must lead a disgusting, shallow, negative and sad life. daming puede matutunan sa storya yun Lang na pick up mo? Kaloka ka. I'm sure single ka. With that attitude and mind set. Kawawa kasama mo sa buhay
Poor vocabulary? SMH. Pasensya na dahil hindi nya sinulat yan para sa'yo 12:59, hindi ikaw ang target audience nya. If you can't relate, then don't hate. If you can't empathize, then don't demoralize. I hope someday you look at these comment of yours and realize how mean a person you are. And may you never experience such bullying, degradation - in all forms and aspect.
Medyo naluha ako. Inspiring nga ang story ni Nix. And she was brave enough to admit her insecurities and lift it up to God. Kapag si God talaga ang aasahan mo, pplantsahin nya lahat ng gusot sa buhay mo
Same here. Naiyak din ako. Swerte ni pat at maunawain ang napangasawa nya. Parang dko keri ang ganun at kasing sexy at ganda pa ni jen ang ex. Jusko mamamatay ako sa insecurities at d pgkain para lang maging ksing sexy nya. Hahaha
Pag talaga ang Diyos gumawa ng story mo bongga! Mabuti nalang dumating si Nikka sa buhay ni Pat at naayos lahat. Yung Nanay kasi ni Patrick mukhang matapobre (mayaman kasi talaga) kawawa si Jen noong panahon na yun kaya ngayon buhos biyaya sa kanya.
Si Nix naman talaga dapat ang unang mag-reach out. Si Jen ang ex, hindi naman nya basta basta i-push si Jazz sa bagong family ni Patrick. They are both admirable kasi ang kapakanan ng bata ang inuna. Maswerte si Jazz dahil nadagdagan pa ng magmamahal sa kanya, his tita Nix.
Aaawww! Such a wonderful story! With God the center of your life, you can't go wrong! Continue to be a blessing to one another. God bless your union and your life.
Nikka was just being paranoid for nothing. Good thing she prayed for that "meeting" with Jen.
I think Jen was just waiting for her to reach out too because it would be "epal" naman on her part to insist herself towards Nikka. Good vibes, happiness and peace in their two families. Kudos!
This is made me cry. I also have my own insecurities in my relationship because of his past. Ayoko rin aminin kay partner, syempre. Lagi ko ring dasal na alisin Nya ang selos at insecurities ko. Ayoko kasi ng ganito....
By acknowledging your insecurities and fears, you already took one step. Take it easy and you are doing your best. One step at a time and you will make it
Good for her. kahit sino ata maiinsecure kung si jen uung ex ng boyfriend mo but she chose to rise above her insecurites. I can see Patrick is very lucky to have her as a wife.
Same here. Jusko paramg ang hirap nun. Sexy,magnda at silat tapos ex ng hubby m. Waaaaa! Baka papangit ako sa kakaisip kung paano ako gumnda at sumeksi na higit sknya. Hahaha
I can relate! May selos o insecurities rin Ako sa mga ex ng jowa ko kahit alam ko naman na mahal na mahal nya Ako. Syemps di ko inaamin, todo support ka kunwari. This post is very inspiring, it tackles issues that most women won't admit. Galeng! Na-enlighten ako.
Please continue to vent out every single morsel of your personal life on social media, because It's a proven ingredient of a lasting relationship. Smh. Basta Lang talagang ma pansin. Why are there people with low self esteem who wanted a regular validation even if it comes from an utter strangers.
Why are you turning things into negativities? You dont know why she shared it with everybody. Im sure, one of her reasons is to inspire people that despite how tough situations can be, you can call upon God. She is glorifying God. What is your problem? And besides, even pyschologists would agree that we all need some kind of validation- one way or another. You need a chill pill dude
This was a Real story and pls they are not strangers at all coz the story is everywhere bakit di mo itake as inspiring story? Sus panindigan mo yan pseudo name mo Brightside! Sana yan ang nakita mo nun shinare ni Nikka yun story! Pakibago sa DARKSIDE lakas mo makabad vibes! At sure akong ikaw ang may low self esteem kc ang nega mo!
eh ikaw. ano pinaglalaban mo. Mag reflect ka nga, napapanisn ko puro nega mga comments mo sa mga article ah. Bitter ka ba? not happy with your life?dasal ka na lang. Mister Brightside pa user name, pero nega nega mo nman
iba talaga ang nagagawa ng panalangin sa panginoon at syempre ang pagiging totoo at mabuting tao. super natuwa ako sa nangyari na ito between these people. clap clap clap.
Nikka's story proves how and what Jennylyn is as a person, no? Not everyone may know her personally, but through this story, am surprised to discover that she seems genuine naman pala talaga.
Also, Nikka did the right thing because she saw how Patrick was happy visiting his son before. She made the first step, prayed about it then God showed her the way.
Hats off to Nikka for opening up about this. I'm going through the same feelings for years now regarding my husband's children from 1st wife so this is a very enlightening post. Thanks!
This is so nice, thank you! I can relate. Still battling love-hate feelings towards my stepchildren. I will follow her advise. Mahirap talaga ng maging stepmom or 2nd wife so this is very helpful to those like us.
I am 6 years in this stepmom game and honestly, love-hate pa rin. Hahaha the the child lives with us kasi. But you know what, it's okay. You don't have to be their mom, they have their biomom for that. You just have to be there. 😊 Pakisamahan mo lang. You don't have to love them immediately, you have to let it develop on its own.
For the sake of the children they swallowed the proverbial bitter pill. It shows na pareho silang matinong babae. I am not a fan of Jen but she has handled the trials that came her way with so much class and dignity. Swerte and makakatuluyan nya.
Wait Bakit ka na-iinsecure? You have no reason to kasi ilang beses ko tiningnan mga picture mo and I think kasing ganda mo si Jennelyn. Actually mas prefer ko pa facial features mo.
Thanks Nikka. As a fan of Jennylyn sobrang natutuwa ako at okay kayo. Sobra lang tlaga pasakit ang nangyari kay jen na pinagdudahan sya ng fam ni patrick. Naalala ko sabi ni jen sya naghatid sa sarili nya sa emergency room nung manganganak na sya kasi maysakit ang stepdad nya that time. Sobrang humanga lang ako sa katatagan at tapang ni Jen. Kaya siguro sobrang blessed nya. I am a very proud fan. Good vibes ito.
Love this. Good to know that she and Jen are in good terms.
ReplyDeleteHaha and then all my predictions were true about Nikka but its all good now. Nawala na din ung awkward insinuations ng mga netizens about their set up. Kaya din ako bilib kay Jennylyn, kasi walang masamang tinapay sa kanya. May God bless them always.
DeleteWhat a genuine heart Jennelyn has! Imagine how Patrick's family doubted her when she got pregnant pero nagawa pa rin nya ang lahat ng kabutihang ito.
DeleteMabait naman talaga si Jennilyn.
DeleteMabait at hindi mapagpatol sa bashers kaya pinagpapala.
DeleteCringe.
ReplyDeleteI take that's a shade. Why the hate?
DeleteFelt the same with Nikka's poor vocabulary and making it sound so conyo. She said "i got used to the routine" then she eventually said "to get SANAY".
Delete@12:59 Nyeta. Hang perfect nyo! Ka-stress!
DeleteUnderstand the story and take the lesson from it. That is the real purpose that is why Nix wrote it.
Delete@2:52 Agree with you! Sa totoo lang, mas nahihirapan pa ako mag-explain ng english sa mga kapwa ko pinoy lalo na dyan sa Pilipinas kumpara sa mga Amerikano. Iba maka-judge mga Pinoy e, ang gagaling! Ang peperfect! Yung mga Amerikano, basta maitindihan ka lang, kahit minsan may mali pang grammar, di ka pagtatawanan. Peste! We should all help each other, di yang ganyan. Kung naiirita kayo sa pa-"conyo" effect, pwes wag nyo na basahin.
Deletesuper agree to you @8:24 AM
DeleteInstead of appreciating the story she shared ganyan pa kayo. Minsan ang hirap ng intindihin ng mga netizens e. Reading the blog i was too happy for all of them. Theirs is not an ideal situation. You will never understand unless you get a first hand experience.
DeleteI read her story. It was nice, sincere and heartwarming. Most importantly, it came for the heart, which matters the most. I thought it was perfect. And I work as a technical writer here in North America. True, 8:24. Pinoys are far more picky!
DeleteAgree 8:24 pag job interview iyong mga initial interview sa HR and dami nila problema sa grammar mo sa "p" at "f" eh pag nag BU interview ka na naman sa amerikano basta nainitindihan nila ok na. Saka ang ganda nga ng pagkakasulat ni Nikka. Arte much ni 12:59
Delete8:24 I super agree!!!!! Nahihiya ako mg English dito kasi pag mali ang grammar or na mispronounce ang isang word pagtatawanan ka o ipaparamdam na hindi ka matalino pero sa US basta naintindihan ka nila ok na. Maganda ang msg ng post ni nikka at naintindihan nmn natin lahat
Deletelaki ng problema ni 12:59, sakit sa bangs! feel good na nga story basag trip pa
DeleteHaha. Yung english ko mas baluktot pa sa triangle dito sa Dubai, pero wala naman nagjudge sa kung pano ako magsalita.
DeleteSa dami tuloy ng "magagaling" sa Pilipinas, nawalan ako ng confidence sa sarili ko. Dito lahat ng ginagawa ko ang instinct ko, walang enta, dahil ayokong matawag na mayabang. Ganyan satin eh. Pag proud ka, pasiklab ka. Hay... di naman pala ganyan dapat pag ibang lahi na ang nag-iinterpret ng ugali mo. Magbagong buhay na kayo! Wag nyo ibaba ang mga kapwa nyo! Kastress hay
12:59 you must lead a disgusting, shallow, negative and sad life. daming puede matutunan sa storya yun Lang na pick up mo? Kaloka ka. I'm sure single ka. With that attitude and mind set. Kawawa kasama mo sa buhay
Delete12:59 naintindihan mo Hindi? Daming kuda
Delete8:24 beh, apir tayo dyan! Plangak! Natumbok mo tey!
DeleteMga perpekto eh
Poor vocabulary? SMH. Pasensya na dahil hindi nya sinulat yan para sa'yo 12:59, hindi ikaw ang target audience nya. If you can't relate, then don't hate. If you can't empathize, then don't demoralize. I hope someday you look at these comment of yours and realize how mean a person you are. And may you never experience such bullying, degradation - in all forms and aspect.
DeleteSo sweet...
ReplyDeleteMedyo naluha ako. Inspiring nga ang story ni Nix. And she was brave enough to admit her insecurities and lift it up to God. Kapag si God talaga ang aasahan mo, pplantsahin nya lahat ng gusot sa buhay mo
ReplyDeletetrue
DeleteAmen! This was a good reminder for us to lift all of our struggles and negativities to God
DeleteSan ang like button, FP?
DeleteSame here. Naiyak din ako. Swerte ni pat at maunawain ang napangasawa nya. Parang dko keri ang ganun at kasing sexy at ganda pa ni jen ang ex. Jusko mamamatay ako sa insecurities at d pgkain para lang maging ksing sexy nya. Hahaha
Deleteoo nga FP, gawa ka ng like button hehehe
DeletePag talaga ang Diyos gumawa ng story mo bongga! Mabuti nalang dumating si Nikka sa buhay ni Pat at naayos lahat. Yung Nanay kasi ni Patrick mukhang matapobre (mayaman kasi talaga) kawawa si Jen noong panahon na yun kaya ngayon buhos biyaya sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteSo inspiring.
ReplyDeleteawwwwwww
ReplyDeleteJennylyn is a good person
ReplyDeletethat is why a lot of good things are coming her way
true
DeleteSi Nikka rin naman is a good person hindi lang si Jen. Si nikka nga ang unang nag reach out di ba
Delete2:08 May sinabi bang hindi good person si nikka?
DeleteNa kay Jennylyn talaga ang simpatiya dahil sya naman ang inalipusta noon. Na kay Nikka naman ang admiration dahil sa tapang niya.
Delete2:08 huwag kang magsimula.
DeleteSi Nix naman talaga dapat ang unang mag-reach out. Si Jen ang ex, hindi naman nya basta basta i-push si Jazz sa bagong family ni Patrick. They are both admirable kasi ang kapakanan ng bata ang inuna. Maswerte si Jazz dahil nadagdagan pa ng magmamahal sa kanya, his tita Nix.
Delete9.40 wag kang magsimula, pareho silang good example of a grown woman.
Deletewag kang childish and bias!
Aaawww! Such a wonderful story! With God the center of your life, you can't go wrong! Continue to be a blessing to one another. God bless your union and your life.
ReplyDeleteKudos to both ladies.
ReplyDeleteGood vibes!
ReplyDeleteOn point & very well said nikka. Stay strong.
ReplyDeleteNikka was just being paranoid for nothing. Good thing she prayed for that "meeting" with Jen.
DeleteI think Jen was just waiting for her to reach out too because it would be "epal" naman on her part to insist herself towards Nikka. Good vibes, happiness and peace in their two families. Kudos!
Awwwww
ReplyDeleteSi Jennylyn at Nikka okay pero yung parents ni Pat mukhang hindi pa. Haha matapobre kasi.
ReplyDeleteThis is made me cry. I also have my own insecurities in my relationship because of his past. Ayoko rin aminin kay partner, syempre. Lagi ko ring dasal na alisin Nya ang selos at insecurities ko. Ayoko kasi ng ganito....
ReplyDeleteBy acknowledging your insecurities and fears, you already took one step. Take it easy and you are doing your best. One step at a time and you will make it
DeleteGood for her. kahit sino ata maiinsecure kung si jen uung ex ng boyfriend mo but she chose to rise above her insecurites. I can see Patrick is very lucky to have her as a wife.
ReplyDeleteSame here. Jusko paramg ang hirap nun. Sexy,magnda at silat tapos ex ng hubby m. Waaaaa! Baka papangit ako sa kakaisip kung paano ako gumnda at sumeksi na higit sknya. Hahaha
DeleteGv lang.
ReplyDeletetheir children are so blessed to have parents who are mature, selfless and with positive disposition in life.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful story!!!!
ReplyDeleteI can relate! May selos o insecurities rin Ako sa mga ex ng jowa ko kahit alam ko naman na mahal na mahal nya Ako. Syemps di ko inaamin, todo support ka kunwari. This post is very inspiring, it tackles issues that most women won't admit. Galeng! Na-enlighten ako.
ReplyDeletePlease continue to vent out every single morsel of your personal life on social media, because It's a proven ingredient of a lasting relationship. Smh. Basta Lang talagang ma pansin. Why are there people with low self esteem who wanted a regular validation even if it comes from an utter strangers.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you turning things into negativities? You dont know why she shared it with everybody. Im sure, one of her reasons is to inspire people that despite how tough situations can be, you can call upon God. She is glorifying God. What is your problem? And besides, even pyschologists would agree that we all need some kind of validation- one way or another. You need a chill pill dude
Delete1:25 Kind of ironic that you have that kind of username when you have a dark soul.
DeleteThis was a Real story and pls they are not strangers at all coz the story is everywhere bakit di mo itake as inspiring story? Sus panindigan mo yan pseudo name mo Brightside! Sana yan ang nakita mo nun shinare ni Nikka yun story! Pakibago sa DARKSIDE lakas mo makabad vibes! At sure akong ikaw ang may low self esteem kc ang nega mo!
Deleteeh ikaw. ano pinaglalaban mo. Mag reflect ka nga, napapanisn ko puro nega mga comments mo sa mga article ah. Bitter ka ba? not happy with your life?dasal ka na lang. Mister Brightside pa user name, pero nega nega mo nman
DeleteAng dami names nitong palaka na to. Mister brightside naman ngayon. Makarma ka sana kung sino ka man.
Deletemukang matanda kasi tong si nikka eh kaya insekyora hehehe
ReplyDeletewow just wow!...sana lang pangDyosa or pang Adonis ang fez mo...kalurkey ka!
Deletemaganda nman c nikka tisay at maganda kutis kahit no make up
Deleteiba talaga ang nagagawa ng panalangin sa panginoon at syempre ang pagiging totoo at mabuting tao. super natuwa ako sa nangyari na ito between these people. clap clap clap.
ReplyDeleteMad respect to these ladies!
ReplyDeleteGaling! Nice to see this post being featured in FP. It serves different purposes kc. For sure marami nkarelate. Kudos Nix, Jen and FP!
ReplyDeleteNikka's story proves how and what Jennylyn is as a person, no? Not everyone may know her personally, but through this story, am surprised to discover that she seems genuine naman pala talaga.
ReplyDeleteAlso, Nikka did the right thing because she saw how Patrick was happy visiting his son before. She made the first step, prayed about it then God showed her the way.
Family kaya ni Patrick tanggap na si Jazz? Buti pa si yun wife ni Patrick ok na, samantalang hindi naman nya kadugo yun bata.
ReplyDeleteBakit may nega? Napakapositive ng message! Anyways, sobrang mabait talaga si Jennylyn kaya I will always be a fan!
ReplyDeletewow okay n pla sila.. mas ok un atleast light ang feelings
ReplyDeleteSummary: akala niya awkward yun pala hindi, akala niya issue yun pala hindi
ReplyDeleteLesson learned: huwag praning
I love stories like this.
ReplyDeleteThe very moment is saw that IG post with Jen na naka-angkla pa kay Nikka. I knew these ladies are mature and kind-hearted.Respect!
ReplyDeleteHats off to Nikka for opening up about this. I'm going through the same feelings for years now regarding my husband's children from 1st wife so this is a very enlightening post. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteThis is so nice, thank you! I can relate. Still battling love-hate feelings towards my stepchildren. I will follow her advise. Mahirap talaga ng maging stepmom or 2nd wife so this is very helpful to those like us.
ReplyDeleteI am 6 years in this stepmom game and honestly, love-hate pa rin. Hahaha the the child lives with us kasi. But you know what, it's okay. You don't have to be their mom, they have their biomom for that. You just have to be there. 😊 Pakisamahan mo lang. You don't have to love them immediately, you have to let it develop on its own.
DeleteGod bless you! A relationship like this would certainly last long... ☺️
ReplyDeleteFor the sake of the children they swallowed the proverbial bitter pill. It shows na pareho silang matinong babae. I am not a fan of Jen but she has handled the trials that came her way with so much class and dignity. Swerte and makakatuluyan nya.
ReplyDeleteBagay na bagay talaga ang pagiging Ultimate Survivor sa kanya. More blessings Jen
DeleteVery inspiring...may God bless you Nikka, Patrick and Jennilyn!
ReplyDeletewow nice... it goes to show wala kang hindi magagawa para sa taong mahal mo.
ReplyDeleteI cried reading your story! Very inspiring & full of love to your hubby. You are a smart person.
ReplyDeletesuch an inspiring story❤️❤️. kudos to both of you nix and jen!
ReplyDeletePinalaking maayos at may breeding. Good job nix ikaw lang din nakapagpatino kay Patrick.
ReplyDeletePraise God for people like them!
ReplyDeleteWait Bakit ka na-iinsecure? You have no reason to kasi ilang beses ko tiningnan mga picture mo and I think kasing ganda mo si Jennelyn. Actually mas prefer ko pa facial features mo.
ReplyDeleteMe too.
DeleteThanks Nikka. As a fan of Jennylyn sobrang natutuwa ako at okay kayo. Sobra lang tlaga pasakit ang nangyari kay jen na pinagdudahan sya ng fam ni patrick. Naalala ko sabi ni jen sya naghatid sa sarili nya sa emergency room nung manganganak na sya kasi maysakit ang stepdad nya that time. Sobrang humanga lang ako sa katatagan at tapang ni Jen. Kaya siguro sobrang blessed nya. I am a very proud fan. Good vibes ito.
ReplyDeleteteary eyed as I read how God orchestrated and reached out to both of you. May the Lord bless you. :)
ReplyDeleteI love reading stories like this. Tinapos ko talaga hanggang dulo kahit mahaba. Inspiring story. God is good.
ReplyDeleteThis is what I like about Jen, parang napakagaan nya kasama. Walang masamang tinapay sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteAwww.. This made me cry!
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