You zip your big mouth! If it's her way of coping, let her be. She's the aggrieved party and she's entitled to her own way of dealing with her failed marriage. You will never know the feeling until you experience it yourself. So shut your mouth!
Dear Sunshine: Go travel even for a few days. Come back refreshed and with a clear mind. Hire a good family lawyer. Exercise to release happy endorphins. Eat well with healthy foods so that you can keep up with your kids and your job. Surround yourself with family and friends. Let it go, and keep the faith that you are in a better place.
sis parang nag travel na sya kaso japan lang pero need nya muna mag exhale. States ka muna shine for a mos. hayaan mo madelayed ang hearing kasi moment mo naman yan. You need tons of peace of min and strong mental focus! for you and your children. just forget your feelings bout your husband its in the past. 1 year is enough pain
Nung una pro shine ako kaso now a days nakaka rindi na. Just look at the bright side atleast alam mo na manloloko asawa mo ng maaga kesa patagalin pa and super dami ng oras na ginugol mo iiwan kanman pala
what a cruel, insensitive comment. Alam mo palang nasaktan siya, ininsulto mo naman yung katawan. let me guess, sasabihin mo #truthhurts o kaya naman #fact. napaka insensitive mo.
machuba ka no? sa mga ladies na mag aasawa at magkaka anak be sure na good figure pa din kayo di reason ang nag kaanak kana kaya ka jumuba, para walang reason dhil panget ka kaya ka iniwan
Ako payat at 5'9 tall pero di ko magawa mamintas na ang tao ay mataba or pinabayaan sarili sa kusina. Ang dami ko kaibigan at mahal sa buhay na tumaba dahil sa hypothyroid. At matanung ko lang if tumaba, pumanget at tumanda excuse na para magloko ang isang tao. Masabi ko lang di ka marunong magpahalaga sa tao o relasyon. Magasawa po sila
So what if she feels perfect (which she clearly didn't imply on her posts, but anyway...)? Does it demote her prerogative to voice out her opinions, her inner thoughts, her feelings, etc.? Isn't it her personal IG? Perfection has nothing to do with it.
Naku Sunshine kung ako syo tumahimik ka na lang wag mo ipangalandakan na bitter ka para di ka mag mukang loser. Pasalamat ka nga at maaga pa lang pinakita na syo na mali yang taong pinakasalan mo kesa tander ka na bago mo malaman. Hindi ka maganda mag dala ng problema. Ikaw na tuloy nababaliktad at nag mumukang nega. Panay ka parinig.
Napaka malas ng mga taong nakapaligid sayo at meron silang kaibigan o kamag anak na masama ang ugali tulad mo! Pinapa tahimik mo ang taong masama ang loob? E kung yan ang nagpapa gaan ng loob nya ano bang paki mo??!!
FYI. She doesn't look nega to me. Also... why are you bashing on a person who is clearly still hurting? Does it make you feel better to tell her to just shut up already or to tell her she looks more nega? Are you trying to imply that she looks more nega for voicing out her anger/frustration than those other people who cheated? CLEARLY... if you think that she looks more nega than the cheaters then, you CLEARLY have your rational backwards.
Just be intelligent. BREATH. EXERCISE. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY AND good things come to you ms.shine dont post all your problems in social media. At the end of the day you and only you can solve your problems
eh kung sayo mangyari te. yung asawa mo makakita lang ng mas bata sayo, iiwan ka na kahit inaalagaan mo siya, ang mga anak nyo. tapos ititira pa ng asawa mo sa kabilang kwarto nyo lang, ay hindi mo mafeel? antay lang.
Kayong mga nag mamarunong dito ganyan ba tamang way mag dala ng problema? Sino ba nag mumukang loser diba si Sunshine! Naranasan ko na din kaliwain ng asawa kaya nag comment ako dito at para sa akin mas magandang lumaban ka discreetly na hindi involve ang madla knowing madaming makitid ang utak for sure si Shine na ang mag mumukang nega kaka parinig nya. At hoy 9:17 masama na ugali ko para syo dahil nag sasabi ako ng totoo na dapat wag syang mag mukang bitter dahil sya na nag mumukang nega. Aba'y consintidora ka siguro no!
Well 3:56 para sa akin hindi siya mukhang nega. Account niya yan so pwede nyang ipost ang gusto niyang ipost at wala kang pake kung nanenegahan ka sa ginagawa niya. The best thing you can do is bypass or ignore all her posts and all news about her para di ka na manegahan sa kanya. That simple, hindi ba?
oh ayan na naman tayo sa pinamumukha yong ginawa nating sacrifices para sa iba.. te kagustuhan ng dalawang tao na mag pakasal, now kung dumating man sa punto na umayaw ang lalaki huwag na ipamukha about your sacrifices kasi te choice mo yon, hindi ka naman pipilitin for sure kung ayaw mo..dapat nga isipin mo nalang na you gave everything, now kung iniwan ka parin it is not your loss but his.. wala ka dapat pag sisihan kasi at the end of the day sinunod mo lang ang gusto mo :)
Te.. Pa-been there ka pa diyan. Iba iba mag-cope ang tao. Hayaan mo siya. Buhay niya yan at IG niya yan. Kung yan ang nakakapagpagaan ng loob niya, sino ka para makialam.
shunga! Advice yan. marami nako nakitang ganyan okay lang sa una magalit ka pero if di ka maka move on sa huli ikaw ang mukang Loser and desperada. Have pride and mag maganda ka dhil di ka panget
Wow! Ang mga Tao dito victim blaming Lang at body shaming Ang style. Kung pinabayaan man Ni shine sarili Nya eh Hinde ba dapat man Lang Sana nakipag hiwalay muna bago nakipaglandian Sa Iba Ang asawa Nya. Hinde Yung niloko pa Sya. Yun lng man Lang Sana .
What is up with some of this comments? Let the girl post whatever she wants to post. It's her IG. Stop bashing on the person who was victimized. Maybe, posting that way, is her way of coping. Let her. Instead of focusing on the person who got hurt, telling her to move on etc. etc. you guys should focus on bashing the person who caused the pain, to begin with.
Some people are so annoying and are clearly heartless. Stop victimizing the victim even further.
I cant believe people's comments here. So rude and insensitive. Nagcomment kau kasi interesado kaung malaman ang pinost nea and yet, mga comments nyo is to shut her mouth. All you bashers are pieces of BS. Sana lang wag mangyari sa inyo or sa kapatid nio or sa nanay nio nangyari sa kanya.
Hoy! Mga taong 'to! Pabayaan niyo nga yung tao kung yan ang way of expression niya ng pain niya. Nakikibasa lang naman kayo sa IG niya. Gusto niyo ba pakialam din ang posts niyo? Siya ang victim dito. Hayaan niyo siyang iexpress niya ang feelings niya in her own way, wala naman siyang naaagrabyadong tao sa pagpo-post lang ng ganyan. Mga pakialamera!
Guys and girls! Sunshine is going through the 5 Stages of Loss. Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance. It will take a long time for her to get her act together so let's just give her space.
sa mga insensitive na tao dyan nagsasabi ng move on na, blah blah blah, sana paglolokohin din kyo ng mga asawa nyo para makita nyo kung mdaling mag move on sa panloloko ng asawa.
Among Mali sa post niya? Di niyo ba naintindihan? Wala akong makitang bitterness sa post niya dahil totoo nmn takot Ang nagtaksil na pagtaksilan din siya ng kabit niya...forever ng takot yan sa mga kabit at mga nang iwan
June lang naganap lahat, gusto niyo moved on na agad yung tao? Ang gagaling niyo eh no? Mga superhuman ba kayo? Panindigan niyo yan sa mga future endeavors niyo. From loss, acceptance agad! Walang dadaan ng denial, anger, bargaining, at depression. WALA! Move on agad! Galing niyo! Clap.
Leave her be. That's her coping mechanism. Madaling sabihin na magmove on pero mahirap gawin. Not all people are born the same, may iba madaling makaforget and forgive while others take time to heal and depende rin yun sa lalim ng hurt na na went through. Let her vent out everything and try to put your shoes in hers. Maybe you'll understand her better. Sa mga cheaters diyan, maniwala kayo sa karma lalo na sa Divine Justice. You can never get away with it.
Ang kakapal ng mga apog ng nam babashed sa iniwan. Sana mangyari sa inyo at sabihin nyo, hindi nyo alam ang pain. I have been there. Kaya kung hindi nyo na experience eh shut up!
WHAT????? Zip it, Shine! JUST ZIP IT!
ReplyDeleteYou zip your big mouth! If it's her way of coping, let her be. She's the aggrieved party and she's entitled to her own way of dealing with her failed marriage. You will never know the feeling until you experience it yourself. So shut your mouth!
DeleteWalakampake!
DeleteWhy should she zip it 5:28? She is the aggrieved party. In addition, walang masama sa mga quotes na may katotohanan.
DeleteFeeling q guilty much c anon 5:28 kaya wagas maka ZIP IT! U will never attain true happiness especially if it is at d expense of others.
DeleteLol. Turned out that moment of positivity was just a blip.
ReplyDeletetama. very little na lang ang matitirang peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteDear Sunshine: Go travel even for a few days. Come back refreshed and with a clear mind. Hire a good family lawyer. Exercise to release happy endorphins. Eat well with healthy foods so that you can keep up with your kids and your job. Surround yourself with family and friends. Let it go, and keep the faith that you are in a better place.
ReplyDeleteTama!
Deletesis parang nag travel na sya kaso japan lang
Deletepero need nya muna mag exhale. States ka muna shine for a mos. hayaan mo madelayed ang hearing kasi moment mo naman yan. You need tons of peace of min and strong mental focus! for you and your children. just forget your feelings bout your husband its in the past. 1 year is enough pain
Very well said.
Deletemema na nman c ateng ...
ReplyDeleteNung una pro shine ako kaso now a days nakaka rindi na. Just look at the bright side atleast alam mo na manloloko asawa mo ng maaga kesa patagalin pa and super dami ng oras na ginugol mo iiwan kanman pala
Delete1.09 anon- wala pang bright side. it takes time to heal. Let her vent as long as she wants. She got hurt real bad.
DeleteMAAGA PA BA YANG 2 NA ANAK?! OKIE KA LANG TE?
DeleteTe ang dami mong satsat! I'm sure pag ikaw nasa kalagayan ni shine eh baka mabaliw ka at maipasok na sa mental! My goodness!
DeleteMove on na... I know it hurts but please keep gourself busy focus na lang sa mga junakis. Pinabayaan mo nman kase sarili mo sa kusina eh.😊
ReplyDeletewhat a cruel, insensitive comment. Alam mo palang nasaktan siya, ininsulto mo naman yung katawan. let me guess, sasabihin mo #truthhurts o kaya naman #fact. napaka insensitive mo.
DeleteAnon 5:54, you are one uncaring person. Sana hindi mo maranasan ang nararanasan ni Sunshine. Let her express herself. Outlet rin yan sa kanyang pain.
DeleteKorek 7:59. Hindi ganon kadali maka-move on pag niloko at pinabayaan kayong pamilya. Nakapaka-insensitive!
Deletemachuba ka no? sa mga ladies na mag aasawa at magkaka anak be sure na good figure pa din kayo di reason ang nag kaanak kana kaya ka jumuba, para walang reason dhil panget ka kaya ka iniwan
DeleteEasy for you to say kasi wala ka sa position nyA.
Deleteganda mo te? ingat ka ha. baka pag ikaw ang iniwan masahol ka pa jan. wala kami masasabi kundi wag ka na umatungal a move on na.
DeleteWow te shut up
DeleteAko payat at 5'9 tall pero di ko magawa mamintas na ang tao ay mataba or pinabayaan sarili sa kusina. Ang dami ko kaibigan at mahal sa buhay na tumaba dahil sa hypothyroid. At matanung ko lang if tumaba, pumanget at tumanda excuse na para magloko ang isang tao. Masabi ko lang di ka marunong magpahalaga sa tao o relasyon. Magasawa po sila
Deletenatamaan ka 5:28? masakit talaga ang katotohanan noh?
ReplyDeleteFeeling perfect te? Di lang sayo umiikot mundo ng mga tao hoy
ReplyDeleteSinabi ba niya? Account niya yan te.
DeleteSo what if she feels perfect (which she clearly didn't imply on her posts, but anyway...)? Does it demote her prerogative to voice out her opinions, her inner thoughts, her feelings, etc.? Isn't it her personal IG? Perfection has nothing to do with it.
DeleteNone sense commenter
DeleteNaku Sunshine kung ako syo tumahimik ka na lang wag mo ipangalandakan na bitter ka para di ka mag mukang loser. Pasalamat ka nga at maaga pa lang pinakita na syo na mali yang taong pinakasalan mo kesa tander ka na bago mo malaman. Hindi ka maganda mag dala ng problema. Ikaw na tuloy nababaliktad at nag mumukang nega. Panay ka parinig.
ReplyDeleteNapaka malas ng mga taong nakapaligid sayo at meron silang kaibigan o kamag anak na masama ang ugali tulad mo! Pinapa tahimik mo ang taong masama ang loob? E kung yan ang nagpapa gaan ng loob nya ano bang paki mo??!!
DeleteFYI. She doesn't look nega to me. Also... why are you bashing on a person who is clearly still hurting? Does it make you feel better to tell her to just shut up already or to tell her she looks more nega? Are you trying to imply that she looks more nega for voicing out her anger/frustration than those other people who cheated? CLEARLY... if you think that she looks more nega than the cheaters then, you CLEARLY have your rational backwards.
DeleteJust be intelligent.
DeleteBREATH.
EXERCISE.
KEEP YOURSELF BUSY
AND good things come to you ms.shine
dont post all your problems in social media.
At the end of the day you and only you can solve your problems
eh kung sayo mangyari te. yung asawa mo makakita lang ng mas bata sayo, iiwan ka na kahit inaalagaan mo siya, ang mga anak nyo. tapos ititira pa ng asawa mo sa kabilang kwarto nyo lang, ay hindi mo mafeel? antay lang.
DeleteKayong mga nag mamarunong dito ganyan ba tamang way mag dala ng problema? Sino ba nag mumukang loser diba si Sunshine! Naranasan ko na din kaliwain ng asawa kaya nag comment ako dito at para sa akin mas magandang lumaban ka discreetly na hindi involve ang madla knowing madaming makitid ang utak for sure si Shine na ang mag mumukang nega kaka parinig nya. At hoy 9:17 masama na ugali ko para syo dahil nag sasabi ako ng totoo na dapat wag syang mag mukang bitter dahil sya na nag mumukang nega. Aba'y consintidora ka siguro no!
DeleteWell 3:56 para sa akin hindi siya mukhang nega. Account niya yan so pwede nyang ipost ang gusto niyang ipost at wala kang pake kung nanenegahan ka sa ginagawa niya. The best thing you can do is bypass or ignore all her posts and all news about her para di ka na manegahan sa kanya. That simple, hindi ba?
Delete3:56 pm, different people have different coping mechanism. If that helps her feel better, why not? that's none of you f*#k!ng business.
Deletemga lalake kase ngaun sa una lang magaling sa huli walang PAKIALAM sa mga asawa nila nakalimutan na mga gnawa para sa kanila
ReplyDeleteoh ayan na naman tayo sa pinamumukha yong ginawa nating sacrifices para sa iba.. te kagustuhan ng dalawang tao na mag pakasal, now kung dumating man sa punto na umayaw ang lalaki huwag na ipamukha about your sacrifices kasi te choice mo yon, hindi ka naman pipilitin for sure kung ayaw mo..dapat nga isipin mo nalang na you gave everything, now kung iniwan ka parin it is not your loss but his.. wala ka dapat pag sisihan kasi at the end of the day sinunod mo lang ang gusto mo :)
Delete9:26 tingnan natin kung ganyan pa maging opinyon mo pag niloko ka nga boypren o asawa mo mag hintay ka lang lol
Delete9:26 pray hard it won't happen to you!
DeleteHer silence was her lucid interval.
ReplyDeletekeep it to yourself, your bitteness. I know it is hard. I have been there. But the more you talk the more you spill the beans on yourself.
better yourself. Better your children. It will be your sweet revenge.
Been there.
Te.. Pa-been there ka pa diyan. Iba iba mag-cope ang tao. Hayaan mo siya. Buhay niya yan at IG niya yan. Kung yan ang nakakapagpagaan ng loob niya, sino ka para makialam.
DeleteAny galing mo! Wala kang empathy eh sa yan ang process nya para makamove on, paki mo. Kung ayaw mo sa sinasabi nya hwag mo basahin.
Deleteshunga! Advice yan.
Deletemarami nako nakitang ganyan okay lang sa una magalit ka
pero if di ka maka move on sa huli ikaw ang mukang Loser and desperada. Have pride and mag maganda ka dhil di ka panget
Been there talaga? How much time did you take before you moved on? Dont tell me 3 months?
Delete@7:53 @1:20 Hayaan nyo na yung mga sang ayon sa way nag pag cocope ni Sunshine meron kasi tlgang mga gaya nila na gusto palengke style
DeleteSabi na nga eh, may attitude tlga siya kawa iniwan.
ReplyDeleteparang attitude mo lang din. wag ka mag alala iiwan ka din nya para sa iba. hihi
DeleteMove on na, it's for your own good. Don't call them Cheaters again, now call them Accused or Criminals!
ReplyDeleteWow! Ang mga Tao dito victim blaming Lang at body shaming Ang style. Kung pinabayaan man Ni shine sarili Nya eh Hinde ba dapat man Lang Sana nakipag hiwalay muna bago nakipaglandian Sa Iba Ang asawa Nya. Hinde Yung niloko pa Sya. Yun lng man Lang Sana .
ReplyDeleteWhat is up with some of this comments? Let the girl post whatever she wants to post. It's her IG. Stop bashing on the person who was victimized. Maybe, posting that way, is her way of coping. Let her. Instead of focusing on the person who got hurt, telling her to move on etc. etc. you guys should focus on bashing the person who caused the pain, to begin with.
ReplyDeleteSome people are so annoying and are clearly heartless. Stop victimizing the victim even further.
I cant believe people's comments here. So rude and insensitive. Nagcomment kau kasi interesado kaung malaman ang pinost nea and yet, mga comments nyo is to shut her mouth. All you bashers are pieces of BS. Sana lang wag mangyari sa inyo or sa kapatid nio or sa nanay nio nangyari sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteHoy! Mga taong 'to! Pabayaan niyo nga yung tao kung yan ang way of expression niya ng pain niya. Nakikibasa lang naman kayo sa IG niya. Gusto niyo ba pakialam din ang posts niyo? Siya ang victim dito. Hayaan niyo siyang iexpress niya ang feelings niya in her own way, wala naman siyang naaagrabyadong tao sa pagpo-post lang ng ganyan. Mga pakialamera!
ReplyDeleteGuys and girls! Sunshine is going through the 5 Stages of Loss. Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance. It will take a long time for her to get her act together so let's just give her space.
ReplyDeleteMasyado ka bitter teh. Keber mo naman kun pngaddudahan ka. Pagdudahan mo kunh naka move on ka na o hindii pa.
ReplyDeleteTumahimik ka na. Kasi nkakabingi ka na. Pramis.
eh anong gusto nyo gawin magmukmok na lang sya? sana man gyari sa inyo para maranasan nyo.
Deletegagaling magcomment oh. pag sakanila kaya mangayri yan? minsan try nyo lumugar sa kanya. bago kayo humanash dyan.
ReplyDeleteTry mo mag yoga nakaka release ng nega. Pero i'm on your side mars! At dyan sya nabubuhay sa kakaisip lol
ReplyDeletesa mga insensitive na tao dyan nagsasabi ng move on na, blah blah blah, sana paglolokohin din kyo ng mga asawa nyo para makita nyo kung mdaling mag move on sa panloloko ng asawa.
ReplyDeleteWell, it's nothing unusual naman diba?
DeleteAmong Mali sa post niya? Di niyo ba naintindihan? Wala akong makitang bitterness sa post niya dahil totoo nmn takot Ang nagtaksil na pagtaksilan din siya ng kabit niya...forever ng takot yan sa mga kabit at mga nang iwan
ReplyDeleteJune lang naganap lahat, gusto niyo moved on na agad yung tao? Ang gagaling niyo eh no? Mga superhuman ba kayo? Panindigan niyo yan sa mga future endeavors niyo. From loss, acceptance agad! Walang dadaan ng denial, anger, bargaining, at depression. WALA! Move on agad! Galing niyo! Clap.
ReplyDeleteGood luck Shine
ReplyDeletePoor Shine but you'll be fine. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteLeave her be. That's her coping mechanism. Madaling sabihin na magmove on pero mahirap gawin. Not all people are born the same, may iba madaling makaforget and forgive while others take time to heal and depende rin yun sa lalim ng hurt na na went through. Let her vent out everything and try to put your shoes in hers. Maybe you'll understand her better. Sa mga cheaters diyan, maniwala kayo sa karma lalo na sa Divine Justice. You can never get away with it.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to move on.
ReplyDeleteBitter a rin siya.
ReplyDeleteeh anong gusto mo magcelebrate sya at magpaparty? pamilya nya nasira teh, hindi appetite lang!
DeleteThey were separated a long time ago. Move na Dapat.
ReplyDeleteA long time ago? Naka one year na ba?
DeleteNa bashed si Tito Sotto sa kanyang victing shaming comment. Tapos dito naman, yung kinaliwa ang being shamed. Wow, double standard mga hypocrites?
ReplyDeleteAng kakapal ng mga apog ng nam babashed sa iniwan. Sana mangyari sa inyo at sabihin nyo, hindi nyo alam ang pain. I have been there. Kaya kung hindi nyo na experience eh shut up!
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