Be strong sunshine. Kahit man lang dito sa social media naiilabas mo ang ang sakit ng kalooban mo. Once na din ako niloko ng asawa ko, kaya alam ko gaano kasakit nararamdaman mo:( bakit may mga lalaki talagang ganun? Huhuhu
she is in pain but she should still consider herself lucky as there are other women who are in the same situation but doesn't have a job to provide for their children if they leave their cheating husband, some women who just lives under the bridge and have no one to turn to, she is still lucky than other impoverished women who are being cheated as well with their husbands
Hindi naman siguro paawa. Wala eh. Hurt yung tao. Some of us take longer to move forward than others. Some just prefer to do it away from social media.
Maganda if she can learn to keep some private. I pity her just like any woman heading a separation. But to any problem sa mag asawa di lang isa to blame. Ang dali i attack ang asawa, sana me time sya mag reflect ano ba pagkukulang ko. Sa social media nya, trying to be a hero for others, hindi naman sya ang first. Gayahin mo si sunshine cruz do te battle in court. Andon ang justice. As to healing go to church to your parents for guidance and protection and work para maging busy at di ma depress. Lahat separation masakit, unless vengeance ang goal mo, mahirap ka mag move on. Love yourself.
masyadong insensitive iba dito, mahirap ang pinagdadaanan niya ngayon, may resources man siya, hindi pa din sagot yun sa sakit ng nararanasan niya ngayon, niloko, siya, binasura siya, pinerahan siya, at di din naman ganun kadami projects niya ngayon, it's not easy people!
true! napaka insensitive. pasalamat na lang kayo na hindi nyo naeexperience ang naeexperience niya ngayon. feel na feel ko yung last na post. parang very exhausting and stressful ng life niya ngayon. yung parang ang sarap tapusin ng buhay pero hindi pwede. i have a very very happy marriage pero i still feel for her.
I also feel that a lot of people here post unnecessarily harsh things even if they know someone is already going through a very difficult period In their lives. So OK posting things on social media may not be the best thing to do but that's her style, as bashing anonymously is others..
Let her be. Let us not be insensitive. Posting messages / quotes probably helps her cope with her problems. I have been in The same situation once and masakit Talaga so let's be more understanding .
Mga baks wag insensitive! Kung ganyan na kalaganap ang social media nung time na pinagdaanan ko rin ang ganito baka post din ako ng post para mailabas ko ang feelings ko at maassure ko ang self worth ko. Kailangan ng outlet para mailabas ang sama ng loob and ito ang choice niya. Kung di niyo type, wag na lang basahin. Don't bash.
From a person who'd gone thru the same path, i'll tell you that the wound that transgression creates is deep..you hold on to the relationship for the sake of the children, you endure..but in the end sometimes, it's the children who tells you what to do..then, you realized you've to keep your self respect and pick up the broken pieces of your life and have the courage to build your life again..and when you leave him there is no regret but freedom and you realized he 's not worth the sacrifice..be happy Sunshine..shine like a diamond! Lalaki lang yan! Somebody out there, somewhere will come into your life who'll love you more than you'll ever know..believe me...i hope you get to read this..
I am all 100pct support to Sunshine, been there and it was darkest phase of my life. Either gusto mong pumatay o magpakamatay, hayaan lang yan to release the pain. Mga hayop na kerida at gag.ng asawa!
Can someone tell her to shut up? Nakakaumay na sa totoo lng.
ReplyDeleteCan u also pls.stop,umay ka na pero tintgnan mo nman post nia at ngcomment kp
DeleteDownside yan pag sa umpisa, she felt encouraged to share. She doesn't know when to stop and when to keep things private.
DeletePractice some Christian kindness, please.
DeleteCan you also shut up? IG niya yan.
DeleteShine, idaan mo nlng da legal. Hueag na magpost pa. Sa ginagawa mong yan, ikaw tuloy mukhang desperada.
ReplyDeletebaks! pagbigyan m muna.... shes in pain and betrayed. kailangan nya pagdaanan yan to heal and to accept. way to recovery nya yn bago p e.
DeleteClearly, she's really hurting. Sana speedy na results ng court case filed so she can also heal.
DeleteI agree, way of recovery nya yan. Ganyan din ang officemate ko na iniwan ng asawa, panay post sa social media. Tagal din bago sya naka move on.
DeleteGo Sunshine! Time heal all wounds. It might be painful right now, but Tim will be irrelevant soon. Continue fighting for yourself and your children.
ReplyDeleteBe strong sunshine. Kahit man lang dito sa social media naiilabas mo ang ang sakit ng kalooban mo. Once na din ako niloko ng asawa ko, kaya alam ko gaano kasakit nararamdaman mo:( bakit may mga lalaki talagang ganun? Huhuhu
ReplyDeleteWhogoat na whogoat! Be strong Miss Shine. Keep your spirits up.
ReplyDeleteshe is in pain but she should still consider herself lucky as there are other women who are in the same situation but doesn't have a job to provide for their children if they leave their cheating husband, some women who just lives under the bridge and have no one to turn to, she is still lucky than other impoverished women who are being cheated as well with their husbands
ReplyDeleteAgree!!!!
DeleteTumpak!
DeleteAno ba yan? Fight in court na lang, wag na paawa.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman siguro paawa. Wala eh. Hurt yung tao. Some of us take longer to move forward than others. Some just prefer to do it away from social media.
DeleteUmay much. I feel bad ganyan coping mechanism nya(social media activities).
ReplyDeleteParang nga. But the operative there is "coping mechanism". Nasaktan talaga eh.
DeleteMaganda if she can learn to keep some private. I pity her just like any woman heading a separation. But to any problem sa mag asawa di lang isa to blame. Ang dali i attack ang asawa, sana me time sya mag reflect ano ba pagkukulang ko. Sa social media nya, trying to be a hero for others, hindi naman sya ang first. Gayahin mo si sunshine cruz do te battle in court. Andon ang justice. As to healing go to church to your parents for guidance and protection and work para maging busy at di ma depress. Lahat separation masakit, unless vengeance ang goal mo, mahirap ka mag move on. Love yourself.
Deletemasyadong insensitive iba dito, mahirap ang pinagdadaanan niya ngayon, may resources man siya, hindi pa din sagot yun sa sakit ng nararanasan niya ngayon, niloko, siya, binasura siya, pinerahan siya, at di din naman ganun kadami projects niya ngayon, it's not easy people!
ReplyDeletetrue! napaka insensitive. pasalamat na lang kayo na hindi nyo naeexperience ang naeexperience niya ngayon. feel na feel ko yung last na post. parang very exhausting and stressful ng life niya ngayon. yung parang ang sarap tapusin ng buhay pero hindi pwede. i have a very very happy marriage pero i still feel for her.
DeleteI also feel that a lot of people here post unnecessarily harsh things even if they know someone is already going through a very difficult period In their lives. So OK posting things on social media may not be the best thing to do but that's her style, as bashing anonymously is others..
DeleteGo! Shine fight for it...get justice, get them in prison!
ReplyDeleteLet her be. Let us not be insensitive. Posting messages / quotes probably helps her cope with her problems. I have been in The same situation once and masakit Talaga so let's be more understanding .
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts too.
DeleteMga baks wag insensitive! Kung ganyan na kalaganap ang social media nung time na pinagdaanan ko rin ang ganito baka post din ako ng post para mailabas ko ang feelings ko at maassure ko ang self worth ko. Kailangan ng outlet para mailabas ang sama ng loob and ito ang choice niya. Kung di niyo type, wag na lang basahin. Don't bash.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Ang insensitive lang ng iba. Ssama ng ugali, pwe!
DeleteDon't let them buy time. Kasuhan na yan!
ReplyDeleteIve been there before. Mahirap talaga maging single parent tapos yun akala mo na magiging forever mo trinayidor ka. Yun 3rd post nya nakakaiyak.
ReplyDeletethe sail is really rough just hold on be strong, you will eventually emerge triumphant in the end.
ReplyDeleteFrom a person who'd gone thru the same path, i'll tell you that the wound that transgression creates is deep..you hold on to the relationship for the sake of the children, you endure..but in the end sometimes, it's the children who tells you what to do..then, you realized you've to keep your self respect and pick up the broken pieces of your life and have the courage to build your life again..and when you leave him there is no regret but freedom and you realized he 's not worth the sacrifice..be happy Sunshine..shine like a diamond! Lalaki lang yan! Somebody out there, somewhere will come into your life who'll love you more than you'll ever know..believe me...i hope you get to read this..
ReplyDeleteI am all 100pct support to Sunshine, been there and it was darkest phase of my life. Either gusto mong pumatay o magpakamatay, hayaan lang yan to release the pain. Mga hayop na kerida at gag.ng asawa!
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