Tama lang ya! Hayaan natin si Sunshine ang maging ehemplo ng matapang na legal na asawa! Kasi minsan sa legal na asawa dahil ayaw ng eskandalo at pinapanatili ang malinis na image sa social media, natatakot ng magsampa! Kilos kilos din at labanan ang kabitchina! Go girl!
Go Sunshine! I'm a kapamilya but my 100% support is on you, may this serves as an example sa mga kababaihan na takot lumaban dahil sa kung ano-anong dahilan. Time will come na maiintindihan din naman ng mga anak mo yan kaya huwag ka makinig sa mga nagsasabing manahimik ka na lang para sa mga anak mo.
Ayan kasi, asawa asawa kayo tapos kapag pinalitan kayo naglulupasay kayo. Kung ayaw na sa inyo, palayain niyo. Maawa kayo sa mga anak niyo na nakaka-witness ng pag-aaway niyo, at nakakatraumang pagsasama niyo, at maawa kayo sa mga sarili niyo. Kung di na kayo mahal, tanggapin niyo. Lahat ng bagay nagbabago. Karamihan kasi ginagamit ang isang kapirasong papel para patuloy na sumiksik sa isang relasyong umpisa pa lang ay tapos na. Palayain niyo kung ayaw na sa inyo. Iyon lang iyon.
10.32..Kung lahat ng asawang lalaki na nagsawa sa asawa e palalayain na lang, malamang halos lahat ng pamilya sa pinas broken family na. Mas mabuti pang naghiwalay sila BEFORE nangaliwa, not after. It makes a lot of difference!
10:32 utak mo nasan? Pag di na mahal, tanggapin na lang na kumakabit na sa iba? Diba dapat the guy has the balls to talk to Sunshine about his feelings? And isa pa, when you marry a person, it's a lifelong commitment. Sana di mo maranasan or ng anyone sa family mo ang lokohin.
Girl, di bale kung papalayain lang. Ang masakit nito yung niloloko ka ng taong pinakasamahan mo. Nagwork kang magisa para itaguyod yung pamilya mo, tapos yun pala, may iba ng gusto! Kabwisit lang di ba. Habang busy ka sa pagaalaga ng pamilya mo, sya humaharot sa iba. Kabit ka siguro 10:32 kaya ganyan ang logic mo.
10:32. Your logic is so sick. So youre saying okay lang na bastusin ang pagka babae mo lag ayaw na sayo? Also anong problema mo sa pag aasawa? Walang pumapasok sa pag aasawa wishing na sasaktan sila or dadaan sa ganito. Saka kapag mag asawa kayo may vows of committing thru thick and thin and I dont know the facts pero I can assume na pinagtiisan nya to save her family. Di ka pwedeng mag asawa tapos konting problema papakawalan na or may ma typan ang asawa mo e ipapamigay mo na. Tsk tsk tsk.
I hope you are not a mistress Anon 10:32. Marriage is a sacred vow, not just a piece of paper. The guy should not have agreed to the marriage in the first place if he can't commit to his vows. Patuloy na kawawa ang mga asawa na naloloko kung lahat may pananaw na gay sa'yo.
I AGREE! Hindi porke artista ka (at malamang pagchichismisan ka) ay mananahimik ka na lang. Oo sasabihin ng iba, hindi man lang naisip ang anak. Actually kaya niya yan ginawa PARA SA MGA ANAK NIYA. She's setting an example to her daughter na THIS IS REALITY. Merong mangaagaw at masasaktan ka pero kailangan mong lumaban. Mas masakit makita na ang nanay mo at mahina at hindi lumaban habang binababoy ng tatay mo. Kaya Shine, saludo ako sayo! Ipaglaban mo kung ano ang dapat. Kasuhan mo ng adultery at concubinage!
10:02 what kind of logic do you have?kapirasong papel is a binding contract and same goes to any contract,any breech to it would be punishable by law,hindi naman pinaglalaban na Balkan ng asawa, but the fact that he committed adultery and concubinage, aba seek justice and turuan ng lesson yan
1032, it's not about freedom. It's about respecting the law and contractual obligation of marriage which the husband broke together with his mistress and now they should face the consequences of their actions. Simple as that. Hindi naman nakikipagbalikan si Shine. Walang naglulupasay as per your term. She's seeking justice, not a second chance.
Hello 1032?! Asawa nga eh. Kasal sila. Committed sila. Legally, hati sila sa lahat. Hindi sila no strings attached na pwede lang basta basta humanap ng iba if ayaw na. May proseso para tapusin ang kasal bago ka humanap ng iba. At Sa Pilipinas, kailangan ng mas mabigat na dahilan kaysa sa ayaw na. Do you even understand the word asawa and kasal?!
Oi 10:32 normal sa mag asawa na ma fall out of love once in a while tas mag kaka inlove-an ulit isa't isa. Hindi ibig sabihin nun na pag nasa fall-out stage ka magpapakamot na sa iba... That's a sign of weakness. Marriage is 100% hardwork . Yung mga katulad mo na higad walang karapatan mag-asawa lalo na mag-anak.
it may be difficult to hide something from the public being a celebrity, but posting it on social media makes it a lot easier. It's your agenda in the first place. Trial by public kaya wag ka nang mang bs.
unless youre in her shoes, you will never understand. I was cheated on by an ex bf, it was tempting to shame them. Bf ko lang yun but the pain was real, sya pa kaya na asawa at may mga anak pa. this is her way of coping with pain kaya you have no right to judge her actions.
When your good-for-nothing hubby shames you and your kids by taking a mistress and asking for an annulment via interview, you're basically free to do whatever the hell you want to fight for your (and your kids') right.
Nang snatch lang nga ng bag binabalita sa TV yan pa kayang adultery at Bigamy ang hindi? Ang na snatch na bag pwede bayaran pero ang nasirang familya hindi na yan maibalik pa. Ang dalawang maliit na bata ang ninakawan na magkaroon ng buo na family habang buhay na nila yan dadanasin.
When your good-for-nothing hubby shames you and your kids by taking a mistress and asking for an annulment via interview, you're basically free to do whatever the hell you want to fight for your (and your kids') right.
Dear 8:47 mas bs po ang sinasabi mo. You don't know how high emotions run once you discover lies and cheating. And mind you, Sunshine is making it public with no hint of crass. She's a smart woman.
walang hiya ang asawa at kabit so bakit dapat manahimik si sunshine? dapat lang yan para malaman ng buong mundo ang kahayupan ng dalawa. pati pera ni sunshine ginastos pa ni mister para sa kabit tsk tsk.
The husband and mistress both deserved the trial by publicity. As a married woman, I understand why she had to sue them. Saka bakit sya dapat mahiya? Ung asawa ba nya nahiya nung magkaron ng affair at isinama pa ang mistress sa bakasyon nila? Obviously not. Sabi ko nga, cheating is a choice. Wala namang problema kung nagkaron ng relasyon ung dalawa, kung sana eh hiwalay na si Shine at asawa nya. Tama lang yan. May this serve a lesson sa mga babaeng akala mo eh mauubusan na ng lalaki.
Mas tame pa nga ang ginawa ni Shine eh. Nabalitaan mo naman siguro yung scandal ng wife at mistress na nagbugbugan sa mall? Wala pa akong asawa pero kung bf ko ganunin ako, baka nga magawa ko din yun or wirse mapatay ko. You can never tell what your emotions would do to you eh so dont judge a wife who's in pain. Kung "NAKAKAHIYA" ang ginawa ni Shine, anong tawag mo dun sa ginawa nung kabit? Righteous? Oh please! Magpakatotoo ka nga ANON 8:47
8:47pag naluko ka ng asawa mo saka mo maiintndhan ang pinagddaanan shine..pag nilloko ka ng aswa mo halos laht ng tao na makausp mo gs2 mo eshare ung sakit na pinagddaanan mo pra malabs mo ung sakit..been there done that kya naiintndhn ko c shine
Go! Shine your way to justice just as your namesake is. Show your two-timing husband as well as all homewreckers & cheaters out there that they cannot have their cake & eat it too. Make them bite the hand of justice instead. And don't forget to file suit against your husband's kabit too.
Anon 9:03 pm No one has the right to cheat on their spouse period. It shouldn't matter whether they are the family's breadwinner or not. Madami dito Na ganyan , magdusa Ang kabiterong asawa Sa ginawa Nila! May child support plus alimony pa pag nag hiwalay lalo pa stay at home mom Ang asawa.
Go Shine seek justice in court, Ipakulong ang mga cheaters. Millennium years na ngayon hindi na uso ang paawa na mga legal wife. Kapag may katwiran ipaglaban mo.
Me too. Shine, you're representing women everywhere who are unhappily married and are staying just because of the kids. Time to fight, women! #girlsruntheworld
Rampant n kasi ang ganitong kabitserye. ang mga anak ang kawawa nasisira agad ang perception nila sa buhay and marriage kya siguro kung walang kabit mapababae o lalaki n papatol s may asawa wala sana kaguluhan ganito. I-enforce lang natin ang morality sa society para walang gulo.
Ang lalakas kc ng loob ng mga kabit na yan e palibhasa alam nila na hahabulin cla ng lalake.. Kaya nga sila naging kabit then pag sinugod sasagot lang ng 'asawa mo palayuin mo wag ako' na witness ko to sa dati konh friend.. Tlga namang.. Kapal!!!
10:33 talagang makakapal naman mga kabit.yung sa friend ko naman alang kaalam alam ang family nya pro ung friends nya alam pero deadma saginagawa ng kaibigan at meron di konsintidor..loko lng no? sana maranasan din nilaang sakt n nararmdman ng mga totoong asawa..
She walks the talk! Best of luck Sunshine. May justice be by your side and your children. And in time, closure and healing for you and the little ones.
This is Pirena we are talking about. Pero truths sa lahat ng niloko dito ako napabilib talaga. Naku tim pagsisisihan mo na pinagpalit mo toh si shine sa brainless mo na kabit.. This girl is a keeper tanga lang talaga yung tim.
8:47 has a point. conflicting na sinasabi nya na she wants to keep it private pero posy sya ng post. Wala na dapat kabig if she is airing her dirty laundry in public. War kung war and dont go saying na you want to keep things private. - not a mistress I just dislike inconsistent people
di nmn sya nagsalita pero nagpainterview ang cheater nyang husband na mutual ang annulment kuno pero ang husband lang pla nya ang may gusto sus kunyari ka pa kung di nagsalita si shine bka galit ka pa din kasi di si shine nagsalita FYI 1 yr na nanahimik ang tao ngayon lang nlmn na may kabitan isyu tsk..tsk.. di ka kabit pero papunta na siguro sun HAHAHAHA
She just outed her husband and mistress in public para mahiya sila sa pinaggagawa nila. After that, private na ang magiging ganap sa litigation nila. I'd do the same thing if it happened to me.
I disagree 10:03 pm. I hope you never get to experience what she is going through right now . It's easy to say to just let it pass but it's a different story when you experienced it yourself. I have experienced that so I know what I'm talking about. She doesn't want her husband back, what she wants is justice. Justice for what he did to her. What he did is not only against the law of the land but against the law of God too. There are laws against bigamy and adultery so gamitin yan. Please don't underestimate the children's capacity to understand right from wrong even at a very young age. I also think that when their children are older they will understand why Shine had to do what she did and they will learn to stand for their rights and not let anyone or anybody trample those rights.
wow pinalipas hahahaha so okay lang manahimik hbng nagsasaya ang husband at ang kabi! manahimik mn o Hindi mllmn ng tao kasi artists sya at kahit anong gwin nya naapektuhan ang mga anak nya tsk..tsk..
Aba bakit ng mambabae ba ang asawa nyang walanghiya hindi pa nagulo ang buhay nila? Huwag idahilan ang mga anak sa kamartiran, hindi mananatiling bata ang mga yan, time will come na magmamahal din sila at ngayon pa lang dapat matuto na silang lumaban sa mga manloloko!
Aba bakit ng mambabae ba ang asawa nyang walanghiya hindi pa nagulo ang buhay nila? Huwag idahilan ang mga anak sa kamartiran, hindi mananatiling bata ang mga yan, time will come na magmamahal din sila at ngayon pa lang dapat matuto na silang lumaban sa mga manloloko!
haha. mistress spotted here. The moment na nag cheat ang asawa nya, that was the start na na ruin yung family nila. bakit, naisip ba nung asawa nya yun before sya pumatol sa iba?
Mas kawawa sila kapag nagkaron pa sila ng illegitimate siblings from their cheating father and his mistress na makikihati sa pera at ari arian na ipinundar ng nanay nila. There are situations you have to use your brain rather than your emotions.
sabihin mo yan s asawa niya...sana pinalampas o nagbuhos ng yelo para maalis ang init s katawan s paghahanap ng ibang babae,hindi sana tahimik buhay nila..hindi naman pabigat s kanyan si shine..at kung maypakukulang si shine, hindi dahilan yun para maghanap siya ng iba....si shine p ang i blame...
10:03, Just because Shine is taking actions it doesn't mean she doesn't pity the kids. The husband is a disappointment, ill mannered and no compassion to his kids. To be fare, she has to do what is right. As for the other woman, her husband can deal with her.
Anon 3:23 am In case you don't understand the situation allow me to enlighten you. She is not trying to hold on to him . She is not going to give him an annulment as of yet because she is filing a case against him i.e. Bigamy. For her case to prosper they need to be still legally married so no annulment for now . Gets?
Sunshine, ikaw nagpalaki sa lahat. Ikaw nagpost, ikaw nanira. Yes, nasaktan ka, pero wala ka paring karapatan mambintang. At ngayon, kakasuhan mo sila, eh wala ka pa ngang ebidensya eh. mukhang mahirap yan.
10:05 Do you really think that she would file a case against her husband and her husband's mistress if she doesn't have evidence against them? "That stupid girl isn't stupid after all." Hahaha.
She has evidence. In fact a lot of people living in their building are willing to testify for her to prove na kinasama ni husband nya si mistress in the same building where they live. Hindi mag fa file ng kaso yan if she's not serious about it.
10: 05 Did you even watch the news? Her lawyer said that they have gathered some evidences. Hindi siya stupid I think to go to court without evidences!
Di ko alam kung kapamilya ka nung asawa o ikaw mismo yung asawa o ikaw yung kabit. Kung maka SYMPATCHA ka sa philandering husband at makating hitad na kabit e parang ganun ganun nalang.
10:05 seriously? Manahimik ka na lang kung di mo alam sinasabi mo. Her husband and his mistress deserved to be shamed. Palakihin pa niya para maperwesiyo yun dalawa.
I've been in Sunshine's position before. But what i did was i just forgave my husband because i believe he's not perfect at all. Inisip ko rin kapakanan ng mga anak namin. And as a wife, i think sunshine is selfish. Inuna niya kanyang galit kaysa mabuo pamilya nila.
People react to situation differently, not because you forgave your husband immediately doesn't mean you are a better person than her. Ang galit at sakit ng damdamin may kanya-kanyang intensity yan. If your husband cheated and he was remorseful and repentant sa ginawa nya, tama lang na pinatawad mo. Sa case ni Sunshine, for her husband to tell the world na annulment ang solution, it means he chose to break the marriage. Kaya wag mo isisi Kay Sunshine na siya ang may ayaw na mabuo ang pamilya nya.
Girl, she's not you, you're not her. If you think she was selfish, because she chose to fight back, the same can be said of you. You're selfish for setting a bad example of being quiet even when your rights are trampled.
@10:06 pm. She is not selfish at all . Her husband chose to be with his mistress ( who happened to be married too) so Anong Pamilya pa Ang bubuuin Nya? Saka if you don't know 1 year Na ngang nanahimik at inaayos pero tuloy pa rin Sila diba hanggang pinili Na Ang kabit. I've been in her position too and like you i have forgiven my husband too but Iba naman kase Ang Sa kanila. Her husband didn't ask for forgiveness and instead chose to be with his mistress so ayan Tama Lang Na kasuhan.
1:06 Well goodnews, hindi kayo pareho ng pagktao khit minsn naranasan mo ung pingdadaanan nya, iba iba tau ng pamamaraan to cope with the pain. Hindi sya selfish pinaglalaban nya lang ang dapat. Gusto mo ba pang mabuo ang pamilya mo kung may lamat na? Eh mgffile na nga ng annulment aswa nya eh. L*nt*k lng walang ganti!
Anon 10:06 am Like you I have been in Shine's position too and have forgiven my husband but to call her selfish is way out of line. I'm not sunshine okay, but as a wife who have been cheated on I understand where she is coming from. Each of our situation is different so please don't judge her or her decisions because we all have our own reasons for doing what we did .
10:06 Siya pa yung selfish? E siya na nga yung niloko at yung husband ang sumira ng pamilya nila. And besides, yung asawa pa yung unang nagpa interview na gusto niya ng annulment. Tapos si Sunshine pa din ang selfish? Kakaloka ka. Kung ikaw kaya mong gawin yun, good for you kasi yun ang paniniwala mo. Pero iba iba ng paraan para mag cope ang tao.
10:06 You cannot compare yourself to shine even if you say you've been cheated upon to. You may think shine is selfish but others may think she's brave and strong. Others may think you're weak while you think you are forgiving. It was your choice to let it go, it's her choice to fight.
i know. she could have held her head up high and instead opt for the best family lawyer in town to seek her best move. in the future, her kids have access to the internet and may stumble upon these pieces of information
Just because you made a different decision than Sunshine, doesn't mean she is selfish. Neither choices are wrong. In her case, she's exercising her legal right to sue. She is the victim in this situation, I'm so sick of females needing to play martyr all the time. Her husband made a choice to cheat.
The husband is already asking for annulment. Was she just supposed to lie down and take it? Were you in that same situation, or did your husband just cheat on you? Don't presume that your experience is the same as other people's, especially when your circumstances are wildly different.
Malabo nang mabuo pamilya nila. 1 year nang may affair ung husband niya. Asawa na din niya mismo nagsabi na gusto na nila ng annulment. Un pala ayaw ni Sunshine. Hindi siya ang selfish dito. Ang selfish ay ung husband niya. Dahil imbes na pamilya sila, pinili niyang magkaroon ng kabit.
seriously 1taon na nanahimik at maraming beses binigyn ng chance at walang gnwa para ayusin ang problems at pinili pang mangabit maybe same kayo ng sitwasyon pero ibang tao kayo
ha? si sunshine pa ang selfish? iba ang kuwento ng buhay mo at iba kuwento ng buhay nya you don't have the right to judge her just because mgkaiba kyo ng decision. pag mali mali. pag mali pagdusahan then you forgive. - illegitimate child
Hindi na mabubuo ang pamilya nila. Nakisama na si husband sa mistress niya early this year pa and he's been asking for an annulment. Hence, nagsampa na siya ng case.
Doormat, that's what you are. Just because Sunshine is fighting for her right doesn't make her selfish. So pag sa anak mo nangyari yan, will you just tell her to forgive na lang? Never mind that she got hurt and stepped on by her own husband? But of course, if you believe you don't deserve better, then magtyaga ka sa husband mong philanderer.
ate paanong naging selfish si Shine? Hindi ba yung asawa nya ang suimira ng family nya? Kapag hinayaan nya yan, her children would then think na ok lang mag cheat.
Every woman is entitled to react differently, to you it may be forgivable but the fact that they lived 3 floors above you, that's a big bs, ang selfish dito is the husband and kabit
See? Si shine pa ang masama ngayon kasi siya ang magdedemanda. Si Shine ang sisira ng buhay ng anak niya at hindi ang nangaliwa niyang mister. Your thinking is BS.
You keep your husband kasi he's willing to stay. Sa case na ito, the guy wants out. So broken family pa rin sila.
What a load of crap. youre a doormat. Mabuo ang pamilya mo with someone who was so willing to tear it into pieces! Thats your choice but dont call someone who wants to stand up for whats right selfish! Nakakainit ng ulo ang reasoning mo.
Sometimes the reason the wife does not leave is because the husband is the breadwinner and she feels her children will suffer without financial stability. In Sunshine's case, she was working and her good-for-nothing husband was the freeloader, who took her money and spent it selfishly. She can survive without him, for sure.
June 2015 pa raw niya nabuking na may kabit ang asawa niya and she tried her best to keep her family together pero matigas ulo ng lalake. So anong sinasabi mo na selfish si Sunshine? 1 taon na nga siyang nagtiis. Ngayon gusto nang magsama ng dalawa so paaano pa magiging buo family nila?
Ano pa silbi ng pagssma nu kong nawla na ung trust.mayat maya nag hhinala ka sa aswa mo..mag kaiba cguro ku mg sitwasyon kc c shine binahay ng aswa nia c kabit sa mismong katbi ng bahay nia ano tawag don dba pambababoh s pagkatao ni shine
Siya pa ang selfish? May official statement na nga ang ga%o na they're seeking for annulment kahit walang kaalam alam si shine. He deprived his kids ng buong pamilya. He does not deserve forgiveness nor understanding.
10:06 kanina ka pa post ng post dito kabitenya ah? todo defend ka sa sarili mo? walang kakampi sayo girl, home wrecker makati, dapat sa inyo karamahin, tandaan mo di ka magiging masaya habang nabubuhay ka lol
You're right 12:49. That's why it is best for us women to have a job. Be independent so you can stand on your own. Time will heal but justice has to be served.
Tama si 10.06 bakit kailangan maging collateral damage ang mga bata. Dapat hindi na lang nilabas ang baho nila in public dahil baka mabully ang mga bata sa eskwela. Fight for your rights through the legal channels na lang. Keep your dignity intact and don't go down to their level of lies and manipulation.
Sige lang Shine..turuan mo ng leksiyon ang mga cheaters at mga home wreckers na yaN Para naman hindi lang lagi nagtitiis ang mga naloloko. Baka sa ginagawa mo you will make a difference even to just one person to think twice before engaging to an affair.
Go Sunshine! I never had the courage to do it, you will be a good example. I dont think we need to keep quiet and make the mistress and husband live happily. Umiinit ang ulo ko kapag ganito ang kaso. Dapat shame ang katapat kapag niloko ka kasi pag lalaki parang okey lang magloko, isama ang mga kabit sa shame!
Sa mga sumisisi o nagbe-blame kay Sunshine, wish ko lang mangyari sa'yo, sa mga anak mong babae o sa nanay mo ang nangyari sa kanya. At pag nangyari yun, maaalala mo ang comment ko, hahaha.
When it's over it's over! May relasyon na nagtatagal at merong hinde. Masakit at mahirap mang tanggapin, tanggapin mo na rin. That is the reality! From hereon out, don't make anymore comment in public since you already filed a case. Umiyak ka kung kelangan mong umiyak, magalit ka pero do not linger too long in misery. Rebuild yourself!
Sabi nga 'holding out anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die'
If this turns out to be true, ang kapal talaga ng husband to even ask for an annulment. Ano grounds nya aber? Sunshine even gave up her career (well, for a time at least) to devote herself to him and their family. Sa patriarchal society natin, palaging sa babae sinisisi pag nag-fail ang relationship kesyo hindi kuno inaalagaan ang family, kesyo losyang, kesyo etcetera etcetera. Tama ang sinabi ni ate Guy eh, ang Tatay, mag-uwi lang ng sahod tatawagin nang mabuting ama. Ang nanay, kahit magkandaugaga na sa house work, sa pag-alaga sa asawa't anak, hindi parin magiging mabuting ina. It's so unfair.
If I were in her shoes, I'd do the same thing. I'd first keep quiet and pretend I know nothing so I can gather evidence. Then I will clamor in social media para ma-expose ang kalokohan ng kabetchina & ni mister, wait for them to deny the affair and claim there's no evidence, saka ako maglalabas ng ebidensya. Ang kapal-kapal ng mukha ng mga kabit nowadays, madalas sila pa itong matatapang, na para bang they feel victorious when they succeed in stealing another woman's bf or husband, tapos they'd take pride pa in inflicting pain sa legal wife pati sa mga anak. I have very low tolerance towards cheaters and adulterers, mapa-lalaki or babae.
Mas kawawa ang bata kung makikita nilang nawawalan ng respeto sa sarili niya ang kanilang ina. Magkakaroon sila ng bitterness sa ama na mapang-abuso at di pinakita ang pagiging tapat sa asawa niya.
sunshine is not selfish, cheating is not a gray area na pwedeng patawarin, its a real pain na hindi nabubura ng sorry, the more na ramdam mo pag nakikita mo ang mga anak mo hinahanap ang ama, pero yung magaling na ama ay nasa kandungan ng kabit nya. Marriage is a commitment and if you think you get to fool around thinking anyhow your wife or hubby will definitely forgive you because of the kids or because they aren't selfish. Think again!! GO Shine! Pakulong mo para matuto ang mga desperadang / desperadong mga kabit at mga walang hiyang mga asawa.
10:06 PM, can you define selfish? She gave him a year or so to change but he'd rather be with the other woman. Since you've experienced the same situation and took your husband back, do you call yourself greathearted or martyr? Shine is a strong woman. She is able to stand up for herself and face her problems like a woman not a victim. She's not weak and she doesn't make herself look pitiful.
You have to consider na yung lalaki, ver willing na iwan si Sunshine and the Kids. So wala nang SECOND CHANCE na magaganap. So yung mga suggestion niyo na patawarin si guy para sa mga bata eh hindi applicable.
Saka bakit parang si Sunshine pa ang masama? Na siya ang sisira sa buhay nila? Anong klaseng pag-iisip yan?
What for?!?! If u are fighting to keep ur marriage or to keep your family together, by all means fight for it. Pero if ur doing all of these just to have ur revenge or just to vent out ur anger. Better drop the case shine. Kawawa lng mga bata, for sure u will paint a very bad image of ur husband in court and he to u also. Pareho lng kau talo. At the end even if u win the case makulong un husband n the kabit sirang sira na kau s mga anak nyo n ang nakuha mo lng ay ego boost or pride mo. Just let it go, time will heal ur wounds shine. The next one will be better.
kung ako sayo teh, manahimik ka nlng, may ipinaglalaban sya, kunwari concerned ka pa eh tindi mo naman husgahan si Shine, sya na nga yung naloko sya pa ibabash mo? tindi mo girl.
Easier said than done. The husband has been abusing Shine financially, emotionally and mentally. If he is guilty, he has to pay the consequences. We even correct or punish our kids when they are disobedient, disrespectful or things that they're not supposed to do what more someone who is suppose to be the head of the family.
Ipakulong muna. Mas madali ang pag move on kung makamit mo ang justice. Sira na ang pamilya ni Sunshine simula nambabai ang asawa niya kaya wala nang ikasira pa. Just serve the law para wag pamarisan ng iba.
Anon 12:38 am. Kelan pa naging Mali Ang pag stand up Sa tama? When their children are grown they will understand why she had to do what she is doing now. Don't underestimate the children's ability to tell right from wrong even at a very young age. They will also learn to stand for what is right and not let anyone or anybody walk all over them.
seriously nakakapang vigil tong asawa ni shine sarap tanggalan ng toot tlgang same building pa condo tumira sila ng kabit not juskoooooo sana tlga makulong para magtanda hays
hiwalay man sila nung jan wala syang karapatan ibahay ang kabit nya na may asawa din ano yun hiniwalayan din ng kabit ang asawa nya at sila nagsama so kaya may USA trip ang peg nila kpal ng mga mukha ng mga ganyan KARMAHIN SANA AGAD
nakakatawa ung mga ibang nacocomment..di mahalata na si KABIT ay anjan n ngcocomment..sa lahat n post d2 about kay sunshine anjan sya..paiba iba lang ang statement kuno..pero pansinin nio ung "selfish" n sinasabi nia paulit ulit..at may nakapagsabi n may nagmamanman s lahat ng post para makapagcomment..
It's a good move for her financially , Kung walang prenup hati pa si Lalaki , TAMA shine , fight and lead by example sa mga legal wife , only few knows na pwedeng mag demanda kase.
When I learned about my dad cheating on my mom I immediately outed him and his mistress on social media. Pahiyang-pahiya sila and they both deserved it.
Napakawalang hiya nitong asawa ni shine. Porke pogi. Tse!!!!! Pogi ka nga heartbreaker naman. At naatim pa sirain ang sariling pamilya. Kapalmuks!!! Magsama kayong dalawa sa putikan charot.
People here saying "kawawa ang mga anak selfish si shine" NOT TRUE. My family and i have been in that situation so many times before in the past . Babaero tatay ko pero nanay ko forgive ng forgive... At ang mga tao dito saying na dapat gawin ng mga wife ay fprgive and forget na lang para sa mga bata... No!!! Cause during that time na panay pangangabit tatay ko ang gusto ko lang gawin as a daughter e balatan sila ng buhay at patayin for cauing so much pain to my mom and my family! People who never experienced this will never understand kaya shut up na lang kaya. To ms Shine, I am very proud of you!!!!
Shine you are one strong woman and we admire you. Our prayers for you n your children. Champion the wives who chose to stand up for what is right and just.
Shine you are one strong woman and we admire you. Our prayers for you n your children. Champion the wives who chose to stand up for what is right and just.
Yung kabit at asawang walang balls ay wala ring pupuntahan in the end..pag nagkasawaan..hahanap ulet ng kakabitan mga yan...at yun pa rin ang rason na gagamitin nila..paulit ulit lang na cycle yan..no real happiness kase they are both unfaithful...
Tama lang ya! Hayaan natin si Sunshine ang maging ehemplo ng matapang na legal na asawa! Kasi minsan sa legal na asawa dahil ayaw ng eskandalo at pinapanatili ang malinis na image sa social media, natatakot ng magsampa! Kilos kilos din at labanan ang kabitchina! Go girl!
ReplyDeleteGo Sunshine! I'm a kapamilya but my 100% support is on you, may this serves as an example sa mga kababaihan na takot lumaban dahil sa kung ano-anong dahilan. Time will come na maiintindihan din naman ng mga anak mo yan kaya huwag ka makinig sa mga nagsasabing manahimik ka na lang para sa mga anak mo.
DeleteAyan kasi, asawa asawa kayo tapos kapag pinalitan kayo naglulupasay kayo. Kung ayaw na sa inyo, palayain niyo. Maawa kayo sa mga anak niyo na nakaka-witness ng pag-aaway niyo, at nakakatraumang pagsasama niyo, at maawa kayo sa mga sarili niyo. Kung di na kayo mahal, tanggapin niyo. Lahat ng bagay nagbabago. Karamihan kasi ginagamit ang isang kapirasong papel para patuloy na sumiksik sa isang relasyong umpisa pa lang ay tapos na. Palayain niyo kung ayaw na sa inyo. Iyon lang iyon.
DeleteTeh 9:41PM anong kinalaman ng pagiging kapamilya mo?? Need talaga sabihin pa yun. Disgusting!
Deleteyou go girl! para sa sarili mo at sa mga anak mo
Deletewow! parang may pinaghuhugatan ang mga emote mo. kabetcha ka siguro anon 10:32
Delete10.32..Kung lahat ng asawang lalaki na nagsawa sa asawa e palalayain na lang, malamang halos lahat ng pamilya sa pinas broken family na. Mas mabuti pang naghiwalay sila BEFORE nangaliwa, not after. It makes a lot of difference!
Delete10:32 utak mo nasan? Pag di na mahal, tanggapin na lang na kumakabit na sa iba? Diba dapat the guy has the balls to talk to Sunshine about his feelings? And isa pa, when you marry a person, it's a lifelong commitment. Sana di mo maranasan or ng anyone sa family mo ang lokohin.
Delete10:32 single ka siguro. Hahaha.
DeleteGirl, di bale kung papalayain lang. Ang masakit nito yung niloloko ka ng taong pinakasamahan mo. Nagwork kang magisa para itaguyod yung pamilya mo, tapos yun pala, may iba ng gusto! Kabwisit lang di ba. Habang busy ka sa pagaalaga ng pamilya mo, sya humaharot sa iba. Kabit ka siguro 10:32 kaya ganyan ang logic mo.
Delete10:32. Your logic is so sick. So youre saying okay lang na bastusin ang pagka babae mo lag ayaw na sayo? Also anong problema mo sa pag aasawa? Walang pumapasok sa pag aasawa wishing na sasaktan sila or dadaan sa ganito. Saka kapag mag asawa kayo may vows of committing thru thick and thin and I dont know the facts pero I can assume na pinagtiisan nya to save her family. Di ka pwedeng mag asawa tapos konting problema papakawalan na or may ma typan ang asawa mo e ipapamigay mo na. Tsk tsk tsk.
Delete10:32 mahina rin ang uko mo no teh? omg paurong ka girl wake up!
Delete10:35 anong diagusting sa pagsasabing kapamilya si 9:41? Palibhasa sanay ka sa network war kaya ganyan ang comment mo!
DeleteI hope you are not a mistress Anon 10:32. Marriage is a sacred vow, not just a piece of paper. The guy should not have agreed to the marriage in the first place if he can't commit to his vows. Patuloy na kawawa ang mga asawa na naloloko kung lahat may pananaw na gay sa'yo.
Delete10:32 such bitterness. you must be living a sad life.
DeleteI AGREE! Hindi porke artista ka (at malamang pagchichismisan ka) ay mananahimik ka na lang. Oo sasabihin ng iba, hindi man lang naisip ang anak. Actually kaya niya yan ginawa PARA SA MGA ANAK NIYA. She's setting an example to her daughter na THIS IS REALITY. Merong mangaagaw at masasaktan ka pero kailangan mong lumaban. Mas masakit makita na ang nanay mo at mahina at hindi lumaban habang binababoy ng tatay mo. Kaya Shine, saludo ako sayo! Ipaglaban mo kung ano ang dapat. Kasuhan mo ng adultery at concubinage!
Delete@10:32 , siguro ikaw ang mistress no? kung maka defend ka wagas
Delete@10:32 kabit Ka noh
DeleteKung Hindi mo na mahal ang isang Tao as a sign of respect you break up with her...
10:02 what kind of logic do you have?kapirasong papel is a binding contract and same goes to any contract,any breech to it would be punishable by law,hindi naman pinaglalaban na Balkan ng asawa, but the fact that he committed adultery and concubinage, aba seek justice and turuan ng lesson yan
Delete1032, it's not about freedom. It's about respecting the law and contractual obligation of marriage which the husband broke together with his mistress and now they should face the consequences of their actions. Simple as that. Hindi naman nakikipagbalikan si Shine. Walang naglulupasay as per your term. She's seeking justice, not a second chance.
DeleteMas disgusting naman yung way of thinking ni Anon 10:32 noh!
DeleteHello 1032?! Asawa nga eh. Kasal sila. Committed sila. Legally, hati sila sa lahat. Hindi sila no strings attached na pwede lang basta basta humanap ng iba if ayaw na. May proseso para tapusin ang kasal bago ka humanap ng iba. At Sa Pilipinas, kailangan ng mas mabigat na dahilan kaysa sa ayaw na. Do you even understand the word asawa and kasal?!
DeleteOi 10:32 manahimik ka nalang. Ganyan na ganyan kagaya mo yung asta ng mga manloloko. Siguro pinahiya ka din ng niloko mo no? Kawawa ka naman
DeleteUi 10:32 kabit spotted. At dito ka pa tlaga nagcomment. The nerve!
Delete@10:32 Kaya nga may batas tayo. Hindi pwede na pag ayaw eh kakabit na agad sa iba. May karapatan si Sunshine kasi asawa siya.
DeleteOi 10:32 normal sa mag asawa na ma fall out of love once in a while tas mag kaka inlove-an ulit isa't isa. Hindi ibig sabihin nun na pag nasa fall-out stage ka magpapakamot na sa iba... That's a sign of weakness. Marriage is 100% hardwork . Yung mga katulad mo na higad walang karapatan mag-asawa lalo na mag-anak.
Delete@10:32 -> tulog na kabit!
Deletesumikat bigla si 10:32 oh haha.. sanay na siguro maiwanan yan kaya ganyan magsalita.
DeleteGo shine!!! Suportado ka namin! Matakot na lahat ng mga babaerong mister!
ReplyDeleteLegal Wives let's Unite!!
ReplyDeleteChura mo po
Deleteit may be difficult to hide something from the public being a celebrity, but posting it on social media makes it a lot easier. It's your agenda in the first place. Trial by public kaya wag ka nang mang bs.
ReplyDeleteunless youre in her shoes, you will never understand. I was cheated on by an ex bf, it was tempting to shame them. Bf ko lang yun but the pain was real, sya pa kaya na asawa at may mga anak pa. this is her way of coping with pain kaya you have no right to judge her actions.
DeleteWhat if it happened to you? I doubt kung hindi ka magwala sa social media. Hypocrite tsk tsk
DeleteTrial by public, bagay Lang yon sa mga kabit! Are you a mistress too? Go shine! We'll pray for you u.
DeleteKapag sa akin nangyari yan baka 6 ft below the ground ang mangyari sa mga cheaters na yon.
DeletePraying that your significant other lies and cheats on you too para you can eat your words. #blessed
DeleteWow agenda pala ang pagpaalam sa buong sambayanan ang panloloko na ginawa ng asawa niya at kerida nito? Baka Isa ka ring kerida?
DeleteHahaha tama Lang yun ang Mali ay Mali! It just happen na celebrity sya so all the more shame sa husband and mistress Nya #sorryNOTsorry!
DeleteWhen your good-for-nothing hubby shames you and your kids by taking a mistress and asking for an annulment via interview, you're basically free to do whatever the hell you want to fight for your (and your kids') right.
DeleteI see no BS here. Buti nga sa haliparot na kabit.
Dapat lang ipaalam sa mundo para wag pamarisan ang mga kabit at manlolokong asawa.
DeleteNang snatch lang nga ng bag binabalita sa TV yan pa kayang adultery at Bigamy ang hindi? Ang na snatch na bag pwede bayaran pero ang nasirang familya hindi na yan maibalik pa. Ang dalawang maliit na bata ang ninakawan na magkaroon ng buo na family habang buhay na nila yan dadanasin.
DeleteI'm sure may reason kung bakit nakikisimpatya ka sa kabet 8:47 PM!
DeleteWhen your good-for-nothing hubby shames you and your kids by taking a mistress and asking for an annulment via interview, you're basically free to do whatever the hell you want to fight for your (and your kids') right.
Delete⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Best comment!
Dear 8:47 mas bs po ang sinasabi mo. You don't know how high emotions run once you discover lies and cheating. And mind you, Sunshine is making it public with no hint of crass. She's a smart woman.
Deletewalang hiya ang asawa at kabit so bakit dapat manahimik si sunshine? dapat lang yan para malaman ng buong mundo ang kahayupan ng dalawa. pati pera ni sunshine ginastos pa ni mister para sa kabit tsk tsk.
DeleteThe husband and mistress both deserved the trial by publicity. As a married woman, I understand why she had to sue them. Saka bakit sya dapat mahiya? Ung asawa ba nya nahiya nung magkaron ng affair at isinama pa ang mistress sa bakasyon nila? Obviously not. Sabi ko nga, cheating is a choice. Wala namang problema kung nagkaron ng relasyon ung dalawa, kung sana eh hiwalay na si Shine at asawa nya. Tama lang yan. May this serve a lesson sa mga babaeng akala mo eh mauubusan na ng lalaki.
DeleteMas tame pa nga ang ginawa ni Shine eh. Nabalitaan mo naman siguro yung scandal ng wife at mistress na nagbugbugan sa mall? Wala pa akong asawa pero kung bf ko ganunin ako, baka nga magawa ko din yun or wirse mapatay ko. You can never tell what your emotions would do to you eh so dont judge a wife who's in pain. Kung "NAKAKAHIYA" ang ginawa ni Shine, anong tawag mo dun sa ginawa nung kabit? Righteous? Oh please! Magpakatotoo ka nga ANON 8:47
DeleteTama yan para wag tularan. Sa panahon natin kabit pa matapang.
Delete8:47pag naluko ka ng asawa mo saka mo maiintndhan ang pinagddaanan shine..pag nilloko ka ng aswa mo halos laht ng tao na makausp mo gs2 mo eshare ung sakit na pinagddaanan mo pra malabs mo ung sakit..been there done that kya naiintndhn ko c shine
DeleteGo! Shine your way to justice just as your namesake is. Show your two-timing husband as well as all homewreckers & cheaters out there that they cannot have their cake & eat it too. Make them bite the hand of justice instead. And don't forget to file suit against your husband's kabit too.
ReplyDeletePahiya yun mga nag sasabi na walang ebidensya!
ReplyDeleteYan tlgang adultery panira ng buhay yan eh
actually good strategy yung ginawa ni Sunshine na nanahimik muna noong una para unti unti syang nag iipon ng ebidensya para sa korte.
Delete10:04 true! Baka naghanap muna ng mga evidence. Ladies, gayahin si Sunshine, at hayaan ang mga negang kabit. Hahahaha.
Delete10:04 brilliant move by Sunshine kung ganon nga ginawa nya. Utak pinairal nya.
Deletefight till the end para naman madala at mapahiya ,dahil SA sobrang sakit NG ginawa nya SA asawa ,anak at family
ReplyDeletee kung sya naamn pla angbunubuhay sa family nya e d go idemanda yan...would be a different story kung dependent ka sa asawa mo though
ReplyDeleteAnon 9:03 pm No one has the right to cheat on their spouse period. It shouldn't matter whether they are the family's breadwinner or not. Madami dito Na ganyan , magdusa Ang kabiterong asawa Sa ginawa Nila! May child support plus alimony pa pag nag hiwalay lalo pa stay at home mom Ang asawa.
Deletemali ang utak mo girl paurong ka rin
Deletewhat 9:03 is saying is matapang si Sunshine kasi di umaasa sa asawa. now if the case was umaasa sya sa asawa baka di sya ganyan palaban.
DeleteSupport all the way!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you shine! Alam ko mahirap ang pinagdadaanan mo. May God give you strength.
ReplyDeleteGo Shine seek justice in court, Ipakulong ang mga cheaters. Millennium years na ngayon hindi na uso ang paawa na mga legal wife. Kapag may katwiran ipaglaban mo.
ReplyDeleteGo Shine! If kukulangin ka sa financial na gastos sa korte abiso kalang welling ako mag ambag to support your battle.
ReplyDeleteTry mo kayang mag ambag muna sa mga taong naghihirap talaga?
DeleteMe too. Shine, you're representing women everywhere who are unhappily married and are staying just because of the kids. Time to fight, women! #girlsruntheworld
Delete10:46 WAG KANG EPAL.
DeletePERA NYA YAN . KAHET KANINO NYA GUSTO IBIGAY.
PERA MO PAKI ALAMAN MO! KALOKA KA!
10:46 I have a choice kung kanino ko itulong ang pera ko at gusto tulongan si Shine. Kaya ikaw nalang tumulong sa mahihirap ok?!
Delete10:46 wag epal okay ? It's anon 9:28's
Deletemoney . Hinde ka Nya dinidiktahan how to spend your money wag mo din Sya pakialaman!
Rampant n kasi ang ganitong kabitserye. ang mga anak ang kawawa nasisira agad ang perception nila sa buhay and marriage kya siguro kung walang kabit mapababae o lalaki n papatol s may asawa wala sana kaguluhan ganito. I-enforce lang natin ang morality sa society para walang gulo.
ReplyDeletekorek! itigil ang kabit serye!
DeleteAng lalakas kc ng loob ng mga kabit na yan e palibhasa alam nila na hahabulin cla ng lalake.. Kaya nga sila naging kabit then pag sinugod sasagot lang ng 'asawa mo palayuin mo wag ako' na witness ko to sa dati konh friend.. Tlga namang.. Kapal!!!
Delete10:33 talagang makakapal naman mga kabit.yung sa friend ko naman alang kaalam alam ang family nya pro ung friends nya alam pero deadma saginagawa ng kaibigan at meron di konsintidor..loko lng no? sana maranasan din nilaang sakt n nararmdman ng mga totoong asawa..
DeleteShe walks the talk! Best of luck Sunshine. May justice be by your side and your children. And in time, closure and healing for you and the little ones.
ReplyDeleteRamdam ko ang tapang at buong loob mo.go girl!
DeleteThis is Pirena we are talking about. Pero truths sa lahat ng niloko dito ako napabilib talaga. Naku tim pagsisisihan mo na pinagpalit mo toh si shine sa brainless mo na kabit.. This girl is a keeper tanga lang talaga yung tim.
Delete8:47 has a point. conflicting na sinasabi nya na she wants to keep it private pero posy sya ng post. Wala na dapat kabig if she is airing her dirty laundry in public. War kung war and dont go saying na you want to keep things private. - not a mistress I just dislike inconsistent people
ReplyDeleteHi, 8:47. Kunwari ka pa na bago kang commenter. Tse.
DeleteAko din I dont like inconsistent people but mas hate ko ang mga kabit, so ok lang yan, she deserves to take revenge. Go Shine!
DeleteI think Sunshine refers to 'the thing' is happening almost 1 year na, and she kept quiet. Ngayon lang siya nagsalita.
Deletedi nmn sya nagsalita pero nagpainterview ang cheater nyang husband na mutual ang annulment kuno pero ang husband lang pla nya ang may gusto sus kunyari ka pa kung di nagsalita si shine bka galit ka pa din kasi di si shine nagsalita FYI 1 yr na nanahimik ang tao ngayon lang nlmn na may kabitan isyu tsk..tsk.. di ka kabit pero papunta na siguro sun HAHAHAHA
DeleteShe just outed her husband and mistress in public para mahiya sila sa pinaggagawa nila. After that, private na ang magiging ganap sa litigation nila. I'd do the same thing if it happened to me.
Deleteshes a public figure.. malalaman at malalaman din yan sooner or later
Deleteganyan lang niya kayang i release ang pain n nararamdaman niya...for sure umiiyak yan s gabi, at hindi pinapakita s mga anak niya....
DeleteShine, sana pinalipas mo na lang. Yes, its painful. But it will heal. Dahil diyan mas lalo lang gumugulo buhay ng mga anak mo. Ako naawa sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteI disagree 10:03 pm. I hope you never get to experience what she is going through right now . It's easy to say to just let it pass but it's a different story when you experienced it yourself. I have experienced that so I know what I'm talking about. She doesn't want her husband back, what she wants is justice. Justice for what he did to her. What he did is not only against the law of the land but against the law of God too. There are laws against bigamy and adultery so gamitin yan. Please don't underestimate the children's capacity to understand right from wrong even at a very young age. I also think that when their children are older they will understand why Shine had to do what she did and they will learn to stand for their rights and not let anyone or anybody trample those rights.
Deletewow pinalipas hahahaha so okay lang manahimik hbng nagsasaya ang husband at ang kabi! manahimik mn o Hindi mllmn ng tao kasi artists sya at kahit anong gwin nya naapektuhan ang mga anak nya tsk..tsk..
DeleteAba bakit ng mambabae ba ang asawa nyang walanghiya hindi pa nagulo ang buhay nila? Huwag idahilan ang mga anak sa kamartiran, hindi mananatiling bata ang mga yan, time will come na magmamahal din sila at ngayon pa lang dapat matuto na silang lumaban sa mga manloloko!
DeleteAba bakit ng mambabae ba ang asawa nyang walanghiya hindi pa nagulo ang buhay nila? Huwag idahilan ang mga anak sa kamartiran, hindi mananatiling bata ang mga yan, time will come na magmamahal din sila at ngayon pa lang dapat matuto na silang lumaban sa mga manloloko!
Deletehaha. mistress spotted here. The moment na nag cheat ang asawa nya, that was the start na na ruin yung family nila. bakit, naisip ba nung asawa nya yun before sya pumatol sa iba?
DeleteMas kawawa sila kapag nagkaron pa sila ng illegitimate siblings from their cheating father and his mistress na makikihati sa pera at ari arian na ipinundar ng nanay nila. There are situations you have to use your brain rather than your emotions.
DeleteAyan, kaya talamak ang pambabae. Para sa bata, manahimik ka na lang. Set an example. Do what you need to do.
DeleteAnd teach the kids that its ok for people to walk all over you. Palipasin mo lang lahat ng mali na ginawa sayo.
DeleteRight.
sabihin mo yan s asawa niya...sana pinalampas o nagbuhos ng yelo para maalis ang init s katawan s paghahanap ng ibang babae,hindi sana tahimik buhay nila..hindi naman pabigat s kanyan si shine..at kung maypakukulang si shine, hindi dahilan yun para maghanap siya ng iba....si shine p ang i blame...
Delete10:03, Just because Shine is taking actions it doesn't mean she doesn't pity the kids. The husband is a disappointment, ill mannered and no compassion to his kids. To be fare, she has to do what is right. As for the other woman, her husband can deal with her.
DeleteShe is just wasting her time trying to hold on to him. He doesn't love her anymore. There is nothing that she can do to change that.
DeleteCorrection to my comment 12:49 AM. To be fair
DeleteAnon 3:23 am In case you don't understand the situation allow me to enlighten you. She is not trying to hold on to him . She is not going to give him an annulment as of yet because she is filing a case against him i.e. Bigamy. For her case to prosper they need to be still legally married so no annulment for now . Gets?
DeleteSunshine, ikaw nagpalaki sa lahat. Ikaw nagpost, ikaw nanira. Yes, nasaktan ka, pero wala ka paring karapatan mambintang. At ngayon, kakasuhan mo sila, eh wala ka pa ngang ebidensya eh. mukhang mahirap yan.
ReplyDeletePano naman magkakakasi yan kung walang ebidensya! Tang@
Delete@ 10:05 Hinde Sya nambintang . May evidence nga eh. Kabit ka siguro.
Delete10:05 Do you really think that she would file a case against her husband and her husband's mistress if she doesn't have evidence against them? "That stupid girl isn't stupid after all." Hahaha.
DeleteWlang ebidensya? Siguro namn alam ni Sunshine ang ginagawa nya.
DeleteWala kang idea kung ganu kasakit ang lokohin... Let her be.. Its her way of coping..let her be...
Deletemaghintay KA Wag atat may korte at dun nya ilalabas ang ebedensya nya Hindi sayo HAHAHAHA
Delete10:05 napanuod mo ba? ang sabi malaki ebidensya...kabit ka siguro kaya sa cheaters ka panig... hahaha looser
DeleteShe has evidence. In fact a lot of people living in their building are willing to testify for her to prove na kinasama ni husband nya si mistress in the same building where they live. Hindi mag fa file ng kaso yan if she's not serious about it.
Deleteisa ka. tulog na...
Delete10: 05 Did you even watch the news? Her lawyer said that they have gathered some evidences. Hindi siya stupid I think to go to court without evidences!
DeleteDi ko alam kung kapamilya ka nung asawa o ikaw mismo yung asawa o ikaw yung kabit. Kung maka SYMPATCHA ka sa philandering husband at makating hitad na kabit e parang ganun ganun nalang.
DeleteAba at sunod sunod pa ang post mo anon 10:03; 10:05. Mistress spotted!
Delete10:05 seriously? Manahimik ka na lang kung di mo alam sinasabi mo. Her husband and his mistress deserved to be shamed. Palakihin pa niya para maperwesiyo yun dalawa.
DeleteTrue this. We don't know if she is telling the truth naman diba?
DeleteI've been in Sunshine's position before. But what i did was i just forgave my husband because i believe he's not perfect at all. Inisip ko rin kapakanan ng mga anak namin. And as a wife, i think sunshine is selfish. Inuna niya kanyang galit kaysa mabuo pamilya nila.
ReplyDeletePeople react to situation differently, not because you forgave your husband immediately doesn't mean you are a better person than her. Ang galit at sakit ng damdamin may kanya-kanyang intensity yan. If your husband cheated and he was remorseful and repentant sa ginawa nya, tama lang na pinatawad mo. Sa case ni Sunshine, for her husband to tell the world na annulment ang solution, it means he chose to break the marriage. Kaya wag mo isisi Kay Sunshine na siya ang may ayaw na mabuo ang pamilya nya.
Deletesi sunshine pa ang selfish nyaon? my god.
DeleteGirl, she's not you, you're not her. If you think she was selfish, because she chose to fight back, the same can be said of you. You're selfish for setting a bad example of being quiet even when your rights are trampled.
DeleteWell maybe hindi lang isolated case tong kay Timothy. Maybe paulit ulit na. Pinatawad na nga daw nya ng paulit ulit diba?
Delete@10:06 pm. She is not selfish at all . Her husband chose to be with his mistress ( who happened to be married too) so Anong Pamilya pa Ang bubuuin Nya? Saka if you don't know 1 year Na ngang nanahimik at inaayos pero tuloy pa rin Sila diba hanggang pinili Na Ang kabit. I've been in her position too and like you i have forgiven my husband too but Iba naman kase Ang Sa kanila. Her husband didn't ask for forgiveness and instead chose to be with his mistress so ayan Tama Lang Na kasuhan.
Delete1:06 Well goodnews, hindi kayo pareho ng pagktao khit minsn naranasan mo ung pingdadaanan nya, iba iba tau ng pamamaraan to cope with the pain. Hindi sya selfish pinaglalaban nya lang ang dapat. Gusto mo ba pang mabuo ang pamilya mo kung may lamat na? Eh mgffile na nga ng annulment aswa nya eh. L*nt*k lng walang ganti!
DeleteAnon 10:06 am Like you I have been in Shine's position too and have forgiven my husband but to call her selfish is way out of line. I'm not sunshine okay, but as a wife who have been cheated on I understand where she is coming from. Each of our situation is different so please don't judge her or her decisions because we all have our own reasons for doing what we did .
Delete10:06 Siya pa yung selfish? E siya na nga yung niloko at yung husband ang sumira ng pamilya nila. And besides, yung asawa pa yung unang nagpa interview na gusto niya ng annulment. Tapos si Sunshine pa din ang selfish? Kakaloka ka. Kung ikaw kaya mong gawin yun, good for you kasi yun ang paniniwala mo. Pero iba iba ng paraan para mag cope ang tao.
Delete10:06 You cannot compare yourself to shine even if you say you've been cheated upon to. You may think shine is selfish but others may think she's brave and strong. Others may think you're weak while you think you are forgiving. It was your choice to let it go, it's her choice to fight.
Deletei know. she could have held her head up high and instead opt for the best family lawyer in town to seek her best move. in the future, her kids have access to the internet and may stumble upon these pieces of information
DeleteJust because you made a different decision than Sunshine, doesn't mean she is selfish. Neither choices are wrong. In her case, she's exercising her legal right to sue. She is the victim in this situation, I'm so sick of females needing to play martyr all the time. Her husband made a choice to cheat.
DeleteThe husband is already asking for annulment. Was she just supposed to lie down and take it? Were you in that same situation, or did your husband just cheat on you? Don't presume that your experience is the same as other people's, especially when your circumstances are wildly different.
DeleteMalabo nang mabuo pamilya nila. 1 year nang may affair ung husband niya. Asawa na din niya mismo nagsabi na gusto na nila ng annulment. Un pala ayaw ni Sunshine. Hindi siya ang selfish dito. Ang selfish ay ung husband niya. Dahil imbes na pamilya sila, pinili niyang magkaroon ng kabit.
Deleteseriously 1taon na nanahimik at maraming beses binigyn ng chance at walang gnwa para ayusin ang problems at pinili pang mangabit maybe same kayo ng sitwasyon pero ibang tao kayo
Delete10:06 duh? eh ung cheating husband hindi selfish? kaloka...
DeleteKaya tuwang-tuwa tiyak ang asawa mo at ang kabit nya dahil naloko ka nila!
Deleteha? si sunshine pa ang selfish? iba ang kuwento ng buhay mo at iba kuwento ng buhay nya you don't have the right to judge her just because mgkaiba kyo ng decision. pag mali mali. pag mali pagdusahan then you forgive. - illegitimate child
DeleteHindi na mabubuo ang pamilya nila. Nakisama na si husband sa mistress niya early this year pa and he's been asking for an annulment. Hence, nagsampa na siya ng case.
DeleteDoormat, that's what you are. Just because Sunshine is fighting for her right doesn't make her selfish. So pag sa anak mo nangyari yan, will you just tell her to forgive na lang? Never mind that she got hurt and stepped on by her own husband? But of course, if you believe you don't deserve better, then magtyaga ka sa husband mong philanderer.
Deleteate paanong naging selfish si Shine? Hindi ba yung asawa nya ang suimira ng family nya? Kapag hinayaan nya yan, her children would then think na ok lang mag cheat.
DeleteEvery woman is entitled to react differently, to you it may be forgivable but the fact that they lived 3 floors above you, that's a big bs, ang selfish dito is the husband and kabit
Deleteyou are spineless. she is not only fighting for her rights but that of her children as well.
DeleteSee? Si shine pa ang masama ngayon kasi siya ang magdedemanda. Si Shine ang sisira ng buhay ng anak niya at hindi ang nangaliwa niyang mister. Your thinking is BS.
DeleteYou keep your husband kasi he's willing to stay. Sa case na ito, the guy wants out. So broken family pa rin sila.
Ang tanong...nabuo ka ba? Naging ganun ba ulit pamilya mo? Malamang sa malamang hindi. So, why?
DeleteWhat a load of crap. youre a doormat. Mabuo ang pamilya mo with someone who was so willing to tear it into pieces!
DeleteThats your choice but dont call someone who wants to stand up for whats right selfish!
Nakakainit ng ulo ang reasoning mo.
But you can't trust him again the same way as before right?
DeleteDi ba may interview si hubby niya na gusto ng annulment? E sa ayaw niya magpaka martyr, sorry nalang at lumaban siya. Hello, concubinage
10:03, 10:05, 10:06 para iisang tao ka lang.
Deleteat tlagang pinagtatanggol mo
pa ang nga kabit ha. Mistress spotted
Sometimes the reason the wife does not leave is because the husband is the breadwinner and she feels her children will suffer without financial stability. In Sunshine's case, she was working and her good-for-nothing husband was the freeloader, who took her money and spent it selfishly. She can survive without him, for sure.
DeleteJune 2015 pa raw niya nabuking na may kabit ang asawa niya and she tried her best to keep her family together pero matigas ulo ng lalake. So anong sinasabi mo na selfish si Sunshine? 1 taon na nga siyang nagtiis. Ngayon gusto nang magsama ng dalawa so paaano pa magiging buo family nila?
DeleteAno pa silbi ng pagssma nu kong nawla na ung trust.mayat maya nag hhinala ka sa aswa mo..mag kaiba cguro ku mg sitwasyon kc c shine binahay ng aswa nia c kabit sa mismong katbi ng bahay nia ano tawag don dba pambababoh s pagkatao ni shine
DeleteSiya pa ang selfish? May official statement na nga ang ga%o na they're seeking for annulment kahit walang kaalam alam si shine. He deprived his kids ng buong pamilya. He does not deserve forgiveness nor understanding.
Delete10:06 kanina ka pa post ng post dito kabitenya ah? todo defend ka sa sarili mo? walang kakampi sayo girl, home wrecker makati, dapat sa inyo karamahin, tandaan mo di ka magiging masaya habang nabubuhay ka lol
DeleteYou're right 12:49. That's why it is best for us women to have a job. Be independent so you can stand on your own. Time will heal but justice has to be served.
DeleteTama si 10.06 bakit kailangan maging collateral damage ang mga bata. Dapat hindi na lang nilabas ang baho nila in public dahil baka mabully ang mga bata sa eskwela. Fight for your rights through the legal channels na lang. Keep your dignity intact and don't go down to their level of lies and manipulation.
DeleteSige lang Shine..turuan mo ng leksiyon ang mga cheaters at mga home wreckers na yaN Para naman hindi lang lagi nagtitiis ang mga naloloko. Baka sa ginagawa mo you will make a difference even to just one person to think twice before engaging to an affair.
ReplyDeleteGo Sunshine! I never had the courage to do it, you will be a good example. I dont think we need to keep quiet and make the mistress and husband live happily. Umiinit ang ulo ko kapag ganito ang kaso. Dapat shame ang katapat kapag niloko ka kasi pag lalaki parang okey lang magloko, isama ang mga kabit sa shame!
ReplyDeleteSa mga sumisisi o nagbe-blame kay Sunshine, wish ko lang mangyari sa'yo, sa mga anak mong babae o sa nanay mo ang nangyari sa kanya. At pag nangyari yun, maaalala mo ang comment ko, hahaha.
ReplyDeleteWhen it's over it's over! May relasyon na nagtatagal at merong hinde. Masakit at mahirap mang tanggapin, tanggapin mo na rin. That is the reality! From hereon out, don't make anymore comment in public since you already filed a case. Umiyak ka kung kelangan mong umiyak, magalit ka pero do not linger too long in misery. Rebuild yourself!
ReplyDeleteSabi nga 'holding out anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die'
In the words of Mrs. Ganush sa Drag me to hell "YOU SHAME ME?"
ReplyDeleteIf this turns out to be true, ang kapal talaga ng husband to even ask for an annulment. Ano grounds nya aber? Sunshine even gave up her career (well, for a time at least) to devote herself to him and their family. Sa patriarchal society natin, palaging sa babae sinisisi pag nag-fail ang relationship kesyo hindi kuno inaalagaan ang family, kesyo losyang, kesyo etcetera etcetera. Tama ang sinabi ni ate Guy eh, ang Tatay, mag-uwi lang ng sahod tatawagin nang mabuting ama. Ang nanay, kahit magkandaugaga na sa house work, sa pag-alaga sa asawa't anak, hindi parin magiging mabuting ina. It's so unfair.
ReplyDeleteIf I were in her shoes, I'd do the same thing. I'd first keep quiet and pretend I know nothing so I can gather evidence. Then I will clamor in social media para ma-expose ang kalokohan ng kabetchina & ni mister, wait for them to deny the affair and claim there's no evidence, saka ako maglalabas ng ebidensya. Ang kapal-kapal ng mukha ng mga kabit nowadays, madalas sila pa itong matatapang, na para bang they feel victorious when they succeed in stealing another woman's bf or husband, tapos they'd take pride pa in inflicting pain sa legal wife pati sa mga anak. I have very low tolerance towards cheaters and adulterers, mapa-lalaki or babae.
ReplyDeleteKawawa ang mga bata.
ReplyDeleteTotoo yan. Kaso willing ang tatay nila na iwan sila at sumama sa ibang babae. So walang magandang ending para sa kanila.
DeleteTrue. Lalo na nung nag cheat yung guy. Kawawa talaga amg mga bata
DeleteActually, i believe its better for the kids to see their mom standing for whats right and that ultimately, good triumphs over evil.
DeleteOo kawawa kasi selfish at cheater daddy nila! Pero The good thing is may matapang silang mommy na proprotektahan sila!
DeleteYes, kawawa talaga ang mga bata because they're stuck with an asshat of a father
DeleteMas kawawa ang bata kung makikita nilang nawawalan ng respeto sa sarili niya ang kanilang ina. Magkakaroon sila ng bitterness sa ama na mapang-abuso at di pinakita ang pagiging tapat sa asawa niya.
Deletebwesit na lalaki at kabit yan. Di nag iisip.
DeleteBakit? He will still be the father of the child, di ba?
Deleteanon 10:02 10:03 10:05 10:06 iisang tao lang so obvious si kabitsina... hahaha
ReplyDeletesunshine is not selfish, cheating is not a gray area na pwedeng patawarin, its a real pain na hindi nabubura ng sorry, the more na ramdam mo pag nakikita mo ang mga anak mo hinahanap ang ama, pero yung magaling na ama ay nasa kandungan ng kabit nya. Marriage is a commitment and if you think you get to fool around thinking anyhow your wife or hubby will definitely forgive you because of the kids or because they aren't selfish. Think again!! GO Shine! Pakulong mo para matuto ang mga desperadang / desperadong mga kabit at mga walang hiyang mga asawa.
ReplyDelete10:06 PM, can you define selfish? She gave him a year or so to change but he'd rather be with the other woman. Since you've experienced the same situation and took your husband back, do you call yourself greathearted or martyr? Shine is a strong woman. She is able to stand up for herself and face her problems like a woman not a victim. She's not weak and she doesn't make herself look pitiful.
ReplyDeleteYou have to consider na yung lalaki, ver willing na iwan si Sunshine and the Kids. So wala nang SECOND CHANCE na magaganap. So yung mga suggestion niyo na patawarin si guy para sa mga bata eh hindi applicable.
ReplyDeleteSaka bakit parang si Sunshine pa ang masama? Na siya ang sisira sa buhay nila? Anong klaseng pag-iisip yan?
Go Sunshine!!!!! Wag mong gawing madali para sa asawa mo at sa kabit nya. Kaming mga legal wife sobrang naiintindihan ka. Kaya pahirapan mo sila. 👊
ReplyDeleteWhat for?!?! If u are fighting to keep ur marriage or to keep your family together, by all means fight for it. Pero if ur doing all of these just to have ur revenge or just to vent out ur anger. Better drop the case shine. Kawawa lng mga bata, for sure u will paint a very bad image of ur husband in court and he to u also. Pareho lng kau talo. At the end even if u win the case makulong un husband n the kabit sirang sira na kau s mga anak nyo n ang nakuha mo lng ay ego boost or pride mo. Just let it go, time will heal ur wounds shine. The next one will be better.
ReplyDeleteJust let it go.oh wow
Deletekung ako sayo teh, manahimik ka nlng, may ipinaglalaban sya, kunwari concerned ka pa eh tindi mo naman husgahan si Shine, sya na nga yung naloko sya pa ibabash mo? tindi mo girl.
DeleteEasy for you to say that. You're not in her shoes. Wait until your husband/wife/partner did the same to you, then we can talk about it.
DeleteGrabeng utak meron ka Bakz. Kaya naglipana mga kabit at manlolokong asawa dahil sa ganyan mentality mo!
DeleteKabet spotted! Itulog mo na Lang yan!
DeleteEasier said than done. The husband has been abusing Shine financially, emotionally and mentally. If he is guilty, he has to pay the consequences. We even correct or punish our kids when they are disobedient, disrespectful or things that they're not supposed to do what more someone who is suppose to be the head of the family.
DeleteIpakulong muna. Mas madali ang pag move on kung makamit mo ang justice. Sira na ang pamilya ni Sunshine simula nambabai ang asawa niya kaya wala nang ikasira pa. Just serve the law para wag pamarisan ng iba.
DeleteAnon 12:38 am. Kelan pa naging Mali Ang pag stand up Sa tama? When their children are grown they will understand why she had to do what she is doing now. Don't underestimate the children's ability to tell right from wrong even at a very young age. They will also learn to stand for what is right and not let anyone or anybody walk all over them.
DeleteI agree. He wants out and there is nothing that she can do about that. She can't force him to love her.
DeleteTama. Move on.
DeleteAnon 3:18 did she mention she wants him again in their lives? NO.
DeleteAlin ang mas gugustuhin mo, trial ny publicity or public shaming na ginagawa ng mga babae sa China sa kabit ng kanilang mga asawa?! Hahaha
ReplyDeleteKorek 12:29.
ReplyDeleteseriously nakakapang vigil tong asawa ni shine sarap tanggalan ng toot tlgang same building pa condo tumira sila ng kabit not juskoooooo sana tlga makulong para magtanda hays
ReplyDeletehiwalay man sila nung jan wala syang karapatan ibahay ang kabit nya na may asawa din ano yun hiniwalayan din ng kabit ang asawa nya at sila nagsama so kaya may USA trip ang peg nila kpal ng mga mukha ng mga ganyan KARMAHIN SANA AGAD
ReplyDeleteWish ko kay Shine after that magpapayat naman siya kasi ang laking ganda naman niya dun sa girl. Para nganga ulit asawa nya.
ReplyDeletenakakatawa ung mga ibang nacocomment..di mahalata na si KABIT ay anjan n ngcocomment..sa lahat n post d2 about kay sunshine anjan sya..paiba iba lang ang statement kuno..pero pansinin nio ung "selfish" n sinasabi nia paulit ulit..at may nakapagsabi n may nagmamanman s lahat ng post para makapagcomment..
ReplyDeleteIpaglaban mo pirena ang karapatan mo
ReplyDeleteGanyan dapat ang legal wife PALABAn at matapang Hindi yung paawa at Duwag! Hindi dapat kinukunsinti ang mga kabet kc mga salot yan!
ReplyDeleteHe can still support and be the father of the child even if he doesn't love her anymore.
ReplyDeleteIt's a good move for her financially , Kung walang prenup hati pa si Lalaki , TAMA shine , fight and lead by example sa mga legal wife , only few knows na pwedeng mag demanda kase.
ReplyDeleteWhen I learned about my dad cheating on my mom I immediately outed him and his mistress on social media. Pahiyang-pahiya sila and they both deserved it.
ReplyDeletemahirap magtrust sa sumira ng trust mo. he is a cheating husband. his vows mean nothing.
ReplyDeletei'm with sunshine. let him go. it is pointless to remain with someone who's just pretending to be with you. nakakababa ng dignidad.
Napakawalang hiya nitong asawa ni shine. Porke pogi. Tse!!!!! Pogi ka nga heartbreaker naman. At naatim pa sirain ang sariling pamilya. Kapalmuks!!! Magsama kayong dalawa sa putikan charot.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to hear / watch the news that the husband and mistress are going to jail!
ReplyDeleteGanyan dapat ang mga legal wives para matakot yung asawa mangaliwa at yung mga haliparot n babae.
ReplyDeletePeople here saying "kawawa ang mga anak selfish si shine" NOT TRUE. My family and i have been in that situation so many times before in the past . Babaero tatay ko pero nanay ko forgive ng forgive... At ang mga tao dito saying na dapat gawin ng mga wife ay fprgive and forget na lang para sa mga bata... No!!! Cause during that time na panay pangangabit tatay ko ang gusto ko lang gawin as a daughter e balatan sila ng buhay at patayin for cauing so much pain to my mom and my family! People who never experienced this will never understand kaya shut up na lang kaya. To ms Shine, I am very proud of you!!!!
ReplyDeleteShine you are one strong woman and we admire you. Our prayers for you n your children. Champion the wives who chose to stand up for what is right and just.
ReplyDeleteShine you are one strong woman and we admire you. Our prayers for you n your children. Champion the wives who chose to stand up for what is right and just.
ReplyDeleteYung kabit at asawang walang balls ay wala ring pupuntahan in the end..pag nagkasawaan..hahanap ulet ng kakabitan mga yan...at yun pa rin ang rason na gagamitin nila..paulit ulit lang na cycle yan..no real happiness kase they are both unfaithful...
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