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Wednesday, March 9, 2016

She Needs to Push Further

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Whenever a showbiz couple breaks up, reactions are usually on polar ends. Some fans will be sympathetic, while others will say ‘good riddance.’ However, reactions sometimes change when one party is clearly at fault, such as cheating and dropping the other with no clear reason at all. Regardless of reasons, only a handful of celebrities have actually faced the cameras to lay bare the reasons why their relationships ended the way it did. Most would rather not talk about why their relationships failed, but would gladly talk about the next new person in their lives.

Celebrities are human beings regardless of the strong and whole characters they portray on screen. If in their roles, they radiate sadness after being left by an onscreen lover, such predicament worsens in real life. Unlike in teleseryes when breakups are followed by moving on for the leads, in real life, moving on might not be as easy in real life.

When high profile celebrity Attractive Celebrity (AC) and Dashing Boy (DB) hooked up, they surprised many fans as they were only together for a brief moment for their project and they were both still committed to their partners, which they wanted fans to believe. Given that DB hardly speaks of his personal life, fans just accept the fact whenever he has new off-screen partners.

Because their relationship came at an awkward time and their involved parties did not know the end was near, AC and DB stood firm on their fondness for each other. Time passed and both were respected as far as their relationship was concerned. As years went by, their ex-partners seemed to have moved on, and many assumed that AC was the right one for DB. Time proved the well-wishers wrong.

Just as quickly as the way they started, news broke out that AC and DB have separated. After all the years of being patient with each other and dealing with each one’s idiosyncrasies, their actions indicated that they were not to last long. Thus, when a relationship ends, expect moving on to follow.

Unfortunately, AC seems to be having a hard time moving on. Typical of women whose relationships ended, AC changed her hairstyle and continued working hard. On the outside, no one saw her grieving, but on the inside, she was devastated. To heal her heart, AC moved from one place to another, but then a new environment was not enough. She soon reshaped her body and was now more confident to pose in revealing attires for her social network. While she seemed to be moving on, her actions only tell part of the story.

After choosing the most attractive photo, most people will keep it for themselves or share it in social media for their friends. However, AC is different. While people think she has moved on, AC would allegedly send DB similar photos that show off her trimmed body. Worse, she even writes notes that allude to her relationship with DB. Thus, DB could only shake his head and feel sorry that AC cannot seem to move on truly. .

Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. – Lewis B. Smedes

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119 comments:

  1. AC - A
    DB - J

    Firs time to comment, sana tama. LOL

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    1. Mukhang tama ka baks @Anon 1:18.

      I really hope A finally learns that she needs to love herself first.

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    2. Pak! Pasok sa banga!

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    3. My gosh. Naisip ko na to na parang nagpapansin c A kay J. Na baka nag d dm pa din c girl kay boy either messages or photos...

      I feel A. Ako din kasi matagal mag move on pero i dont message c ex nor magpapansin sa social media.. pray hard na lang A. So sad..

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    4. Nakakaawa naman si A

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    5. kawawang a di matanggap n wala ng pagmamahal sa kanya si j,at pinagpalit sya sa binully nya at ginaya gaya nya ang pagtawa

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  2. DB - J
    AC - A

    Good night...

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  3. Giveaway tonight ha
    A & J

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  4. Ay kawawa naman si baks

    A and J

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    1. weh? pathetic kamo si A, ayaw na sa kanya matagal na pero umaasa pa rin miski trapo ang trato sa kanya.

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    2. 4:08 Kaya nga kawawa dba? Baks, di mo pa ba narinig yung saying na "The most stupid person in the world is a woman in love."?

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    3. 4:08 pasensya daw po sabi A. nagmamahal lang

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  5. Moving on doesn't mean one has to heal within three to six months. It takes time ..

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    1. She knew their relationship was over way longer than six months ago but she is still in denial because it just proves that she didn't 'win'.

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    2. Trust me she will move on fast if she can find a more famous and richer man than J.

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    3. 3:01 over ka nmn..andun ka ba sa relationship nila at alam mo kelan at hanggang saan lng pagmamahalan nila?kahit na may nega attitude si a alam ng tao kng gano nila kamahal ang isat isa kaya di nmn kataka taka na nahibirapan si a magmove on..

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    4. 3:11am wow ha wag mo gayahin si a sa idol mo..di sya pasosyal..di sya materyosa na tao at makikita mo yun sa kanya..

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    5. kasi di bagay pasosyal si a,binabagayan ang pasosyal

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  6. Aww mukang lahat ng mga long term ni A ang lalim kaya di sya maka move on agad

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    1. Matagal talaga maka move on from the realisation na matagal syang nagt*nga tang*han for the sake of a man na hindi naman sya pakakasalan.

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    2. 3:10 nagmamahal lng sya ng wagas..malas nya lng mga lalaking pinipili nyang mahalin eh di ganun ang binabalik sa kanya kaya kapag naiwan sya malalim ang sakit..ganyan sya klase na tao magmahal eh..iba iba nmn kada tao..

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    3. anong hindi e ang bilis nga nyang naka-move on kay D dati agad-agad!!

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  7. Parang bonus question lang ito today. A and J. Idol ko yan si J pero I wish that someday, A will find her forever... and... that J will find his forever as well. Yung makakapag decide sya na tanggalin na ang mga bisyo nya alang alang sa forever nya at magiging pamilya nila.

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  8. Ingat ka Apoy medyo beyond pathetic na ang mga actions mo. Hindi yan attractive sa ex mo.

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  9. Infer. Wala sa title ang initials

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    1. Huh?? Meron naman baks! Niloloko mo nman ako eh!

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  10. Hindi makaka move on si A dahil ultimate trophy nya si J. The only way is down after J.

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    1. True kahit sabihin ng ibang tao babaero siya, mayaman at kung ikaw ang pakakasalan niya swerte ka parin kasi ikaw ang priority niya. Aminin madami ng lalake hindi faithful dun ka na sa lalaking panalo ka parin kahit papano dun ka na sa mayaman at gwapo.

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    2. Meron pa ring faithful na lalaki. Kung mayaman, gwapo pero d loyal masstress at malolosyang ka lang palagi. Love urself, d lng dpat puro ganian ang batayan.

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    3. Anon 3:00AM, what a pathetic thing to say. That's the problem with some people, they just accept infidelity because guwapo, mayaman, etc. Such a loser mentatlity.

      Anon 1:57AM, it doesn't mean the only way is down, after K. let's hope that she is able to find someone better than J. There are more substantial things in life than money, good looks, popularity.

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    4. 3am yaman at physical looks lng pala habol mo eh shallow nmn..aanhin mo ang mayaman babaero at lasenggero nmn..wala ka ring peace of mind kahit na kasal sila sa hiwalayn din ang ending at mas masaklap yun..

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    5. paano magiging ultimate trophy? lasenggo at malapit na ngang MAGSALUBONG ANG NOO AT BATOK. hahahaha

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    6. walang panalo kung sasama ka sa babaero! duh.

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    7. I beg to differ. J is not the definition of trophy boyfriend. Si J ang lalaking version ni Curacha, na ang motto yata pagdating sa mga babae is use 'em & leave 'em.
      3am, don't be superficial. Just because some men are unfaithful, it doesn't mean you have to settle for less. Madami pa din naman matitino kahit di mayaman at gwapo. Who needs those anyway if the guy is responsible & faithful.

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  11. Sino si A? Getz ko si J pero nablangko ako kay A

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    1. Ay Anon 2:05 saan ka ba nagtago at di mo knows si A. Kung knows mo si J, knows mo si A, therefore ibang J ang knows mo.

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    2. Baks baka maling j yang iniisip mo.. When u say j, automatic kaagad na irerelate mo sya kay a, and vice versa

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    3. Nagetz ko na po. Sori na po hehe

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  12. anong meron kay DB yung ex nya si S di pa rin maka move on hanggang ngayon. single pa din si s mula ng mag break up sila

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    1. The difference is walang interes si S na magkabalikan sila ni J. Being single doesn't mean you haven't move on, it simply means you're smarter now because you're taking your time to pick a better man for your next partner.

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    2. Great and Huge daw.

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    3. Di lang sa s*x umiikot ang isang relasyon anon 3:11AM, ma-L ka lang!

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  13. Apoy & ingat ba ito?

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    1. Wala ng iba. Hindi ma get over ni Apoy na wala na ang trophy bf nya.

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  14. Eh according sa isang fan ni A. Nagkikita pa rin daw in secret si A & J ah. Sa isang secret place. No cameras lang daw but soon magkakaalaman na nagbalikan na sila. Hintayin lang daw at work in progress pa. Pumupunta pa rin daw si A sa bahay ni J.

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    1. 2:39am fan ni j yun hindi ni A..at tama ka nagkikita sila in secret..si j ang pumupunta sa haus ni a not the other way around...malalaman din yan na nagkabalikan just give them time kasi wala nmn actual confirmation from the two that theyve broken up..so abangers mode nlng mga baks!

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    2. Hindi yan reliable teh, hindi nga niya masagot kung ano na ang nangyayari. Impossible workng in progress pa lang kung sila nagkikita dahil sasagotin yan agad ni A.

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    3. LOL. Eh kung nagkikita pa sila bakit kung anu-ano pang ginagawa nyang pagpapapansin na sa kasobrahan pathetic na ang dating. Baka ang work in progress na sinasabi ni J eh para dun sa kabila at di kay A.

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    4. "DAW" ---- just "DAW", move on A!

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    5. omg... the mere fact that A is the one who goes to J's house confirms that she IS desperate and hasn't moved on.

      A, hindi yan nakakaganda.

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    6. un nga kasi 2:39 ganon kadesperada si girl kay boy

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    7. Kung pumupunta, ang tanong nakakapasok pa ba sya? And knowing A, hindi nya kaya magpakaprivate. Mag hint sya at least na sila pa.

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    8. kung totoo yan tuluyan n ang paglubog ni j dahil pinaasa nya ang kaloveteam nya

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    9. 6:33am si a mismo ayaw ipaalam sa lahat..gusto nya maging private yung sa knila..at alam ko sasabihin ng mga haters nya na di sya capable manahimik sa social media etc.kasi kaya nya itago and dpat itago...nagawa nya yun dati na itago relasyon nila eto pa kaya na madami makisawsaw lalo na mga tards ng loveteam na pinipilit manok nila

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    10. 11:42am pa knowing knowing ka pa eh di mo nmn kilala at kasama si A sa bahay nya 24/7 yan ang hirap sa mga hater na tards eh nagconclude na sila kng anong klaseng tao ang pinag iinitan nila..marunong syang magpaka private kasi sya ang gusto na maging private sila ngayon kasi nga marami nakikisawsaw na katulad mo..

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    11. 12:36 wala namn pinaasa si j ah..mga fans lng ang umaasa at nagbibigay meaning sa lahat ng galaw nila. Kayo ang mga hibang sa fantasy nyo na dapat magkatuluyan ang love team nyo..ipipilit kahit na may karelasyon na..kaloka

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    12. Bwahahaha..nakakatawa mga comments halatang kinakabahan na mga tards ng ka loveteam..hahaha

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    13. 5:16 ang saya nmn if totoong nagkabalikan sila! Di nila kaya mawala ang isat isa..perfect match talaga sila ika nga ni ex ni a na si d hunk..hahaha

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    14. LOL! Parang parepareho lang mga fans ni A & fans ni B e. Gumagawa gawa ng mga kwento about secret meetings. Both thought the love life the guy described as a "work in progress" involves one of the ladies. I like the 3 of them because they all good actors, but I don't want any of the ladies to end up with him. He is still a work in progress himself.

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  15. Naku A move on ka na you deserve better... There's plenty of fish in the sea wag mong sayaning ang oras mo sa isang babaero.

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    1. Maraming fish pero hindi kasikat at hindi kayaman ni J.

      Why settle for galunggong when you're used to eating salmon?

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    2. Better to have galunggong than salmon with so many toxins

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    3. Wow, ang babaw mo, 3:28! Bravo. *sarcastic* Sana hindi na dumami ang lahi mo.

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    4. 3:28am Di nmn social climber si a..simple lng nga sya eh..hinahanap nya true love..akala nya nahanap nya kay j kaya buhos sya yun pala natanso din sya..

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    5. salmon or galunggong pareho pa ding amoy isda yan at pareho pa din nabubulok. DURRRRR!!!!

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    6. Anon 3:28 hahahaha!!! salmon lang pala and level ni panot, what is so special sa salmon? Very affordable pa din. Kung Bluefin tuna pa sya bibilib ako.

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    7. Relationships like bf/gf are not always about fame & money 3:28

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    8. Si D kaya ang salmon nuon at si J ang galunggong lol ay kwawang A, now nagdadamoves sa x nya pero di namsn kinakagat.

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    9. Why pin yourself to someone na ayaw naman na sayo. mayaman na din naman si A, di nya kelangan ng pera sa ngayon.

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  16. A move on na. May iba na si J.

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  17. Ang easy A & J...shempre finafollow ko si A hehehe kaya knows agad lol

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  18. Wala sa title ang first name initial pero.. Yun na! Halata naman sino to. Walang iba kungdi si A. Ganyan talaga pag ang babae naili-LI, pagsasawaan ka rin lang dahil lahat naman ibinibigay mo ng walang commitment na tunay e. Pangilan na ba yang ka LI mo. Respeto namans a sarili.

    -DONYA VICTORINA

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  19. Ako antay kong may mag comment na insider dito. Mga kamosa, insider update naman tungkol kay Apoy, Ingat at sa bagong kalaguyo ni Ingat. Salamat!

    -Ang Chismosa

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    1. Kalaguyo talaga. Weird lang. Almost one year A, di pa rin makagmove on? Baka senyales na yan, time to be single muna and learn to love yourself first.

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    2. hindi nmn sila kasal ni a panong naging kalaguyo ni j si b

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  20. desperada moves na si A, nakakahiya naman , magtira ka naman ng konting dignidad para sa sarili mo

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    1. Give her time, in denial stage pa si A 3:07 lahat tayo nadaan sa ganyan bakla

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  21. It's okay A
    The exes of J were in that position before and already moved on. You will move on too, sooner or later.

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    1. Tamaaa! namnamin mo lang A ang sakit para makapag-move on ka COMPLETELY after mo sa heartache stage na yan!

      ~base from experience

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  22. Is this J yung babalina?

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    1. mali baks.. kaF to

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    2. Hindi vaks, kaf ito. j is ingat ( lalake) a is apoy.

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  23. magtira ka naman ng konti para sa sarili mo A, masyado ng desperada moves yan

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    1. baks parang di ka dumaan sa stage na yan eh

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  24. Gurl, you must know that lust only lasts for a while, true love is forever. Ngayon kung ang transformed and beautiful body mo ang pinangangalandakan mo kay DB, wiz epek na yan, sawa na si DB. Most men would come to a point when they realize that a beautiful mind with a beautiful heart at character ang pak na pak sa forever. May ugali ka siguro na hindi nagustuhan ni DB. Yan ang never ma kacapture sa photograph at maaring naka tanim na sa isip ni DB ang inayawan nya sa iyo. I hope that someday you will find your forever.

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  25. Parang sa kanyang social account A made it appear that both of them are still dating kasi me insinuations na magkasama sila. Haynaku, baka naawa lang si J sa kanya at pinagbibigyan ang kanyang hallucinations. Gentlemanlike attitude lang huwag umasa.

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  26. Sad ako para kay A. I love her kasi di sya plastik pero dami nya bashers kasi di ma gets ugali nya. Sana naman maging open minded ang mga Pinoy at wag puro bash. Sana mabasa mo ito A,matapos ako anakan ng lalaking babaero iniwan kami sa ere kahit na matagal naging kami pero naka move on ako at nakahanap ng forever. He's not worth it kasi babaero yan at kahit pakasalan ka nyan babalik yan sa pagka babaero kaya pasalamat ka na lang na di pa kau kasal at di kau nagka baby kaya di ka pa din talo.talo lang naman ang babae kapag naanakan sya eh pero ikaw dalaga ka pa at madami pang mas higit sa kanya...dasal lang at kapit lang malalampasan mo din ang lahat.God bless you :)
    #MisisniKwan

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    1. e ang ugaling pagbubully kayo lang nm mga fantard ang nakakaintindi,isipin mo nga kung lahat ng tao kagaya ni a sigurado ang gulo n ng mundo

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  27. Just my 2 cents on this... Don't be too hard on her. Rather be thankful you're not in her shoes.

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    1. Sakto ka teh. Daming marunong kasi dito. Ang nenega pa.

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  28. balikan mo na si C, yung ang true love mo, di ba?

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  29. She couldn't move on and she doesn't want to dahil nakapagsalita sya ng masama sa kapwa nya noon and nakasakit sya dahil akala nya pakakasalan na sya.kaso waley.girl please makkahanap kpa ng taong mgmamahal sayo.

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  30. Si B kc homebody. Wife material. Si A palaging rumarampa.

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    1. Weh aber saan mo nakikita rumarampa? Eh bahay lng din yan at hanging out sa barkada nya..ni ayaw nga nyan pumunta sa club kasi naiingayan..hater ka lng eh..

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  31. Easy peasy naman ito eh sino pa eh di si A at J. Maloloka talga si girlalu nyan. Kya na depress yan ng ganyn -changed hairstyle, out of the country, trimmed body, trying to win back and save what was lost.

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  32. Kapag nakakilala sya ng hihigit pa kay J, malamang mabilis pa sa alas cuatro ang move on ni girl. 'Di ba ganyan nangyari sa kanya nung nakipag-break sya dun sa ex nyang si D? Eh ano't nag-iinarte sya kay J?

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    1. Yun nga eh sa kay d kasi di nta na mahal at sya nakipagbreak eh sa knila ni j akala nya mahal pa sya ni j at ok ang lahat sa kanila until iniwan nalng sa ere? Mahal pa nya si j kaya hirap sya mag move on..

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    2. sinabi mo na baks, wala pang nakikilala na tingin nya eh higit ke J...

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  33. Wow! Wagas kung makacomment ang iba dito. Take a look at yourselves, once in your life you also got hurt. And i think healing/ moving on is a unique personal experience so who are we to say A is not doing it right?! Hindi rin sya kawawa, this will make her stronger. It wasn't meant to be that's why it ended.

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  34. A deserves someone better...it's better it ended...time will heal and hope she will find the one....

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  35. Ipokrita ang mga fans ni A, kawawa daw si A ngayon. tse! remember kung gano sya manglait at humalaklak sa ex ni J dati? wagas kayong tumawa kasama ng idol niyo, nagpapakatotoo lang daw ha ha ano naman ngayon ang totoo ngayon at bakit hindi nya matanggap ang reality? ilang beses na syang ginamit at tinapon na parang trapo ni J pero desperada at pathetic pa ring umaasa si A hanggang ngayon.

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  36. Karma yan sa ginawa nya kay S

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  37. you'll get there A...... Once you finally reach the last stage (acceptance) everything will fall into perspective. No matter how much you're hurting now, all wounds heal. Time is a great healer. One day you'll look back and then laugh about all the crazy things you did out of so much pain. I just hope you adhere to the lessons, and emerge to be a better and wiser woman, by loving yourself first, more than anyone else.

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  38. Hindi lang kasi puso ni A nasaktan kindi pati ego niya...di niya matanggap kasi pahiya siya ngayon kaya di maka amin na wala n sila.

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  39. babaero lang talaga si DB. IIwanan rin nya iyong babae nyang bago. . .walang forever kay DB d lang ang forever at alak sa lalaking iyon!!!!

    al-mudznie abubakar

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