I can relate. I had a silent miscarriage at 6 weeks. Finally decided to do the medical abortion around my supposedly 8th week pregnancy after a repeat US na wala na talaga baby & gestational sac nlang andun.
Sometimes, nature takes over when there's a big problem with the baby. It doesn't make the pain lesser, but it takes away the bigger agony of some decisions parents may be forced to make later on. Sorry for the lose. It would have been lovely having cousins so close in age.
sobrang nakakalungkot talga pag baby, kahit pa sabihin nilang dugo pa lang yan. masyado pa ata maaga para iaanonunce. diba may ganunh kasabihan. kaya si toni ayaw magsalita
Kaya mas mabuti wag na lng i announce sa social media, sa family ok lng pero sa ibang tao, wag n lang tutal nde n nmn sya active sa biz... Kc hindi lahat ng tao natutuwa, meron naiinggit din kaya nakakahatak tuloy ng negative vibes
eeeehhhh....kaloka comment mo! nagkataon lang na celeb cya...wala ka bang relatives, friends na ndi nag-announce sa sns accounts nila about mga ganitong event sa buhay nila?!?...
The same thing happened to me. It's been more than a year and I still can't get over it. The loss and sadness is deep, it encompasses your whole being. And the saddest part is, no one will understand what you are going thru unless they themselves have been there. No one will grieve for your baby except you and your husband. It's unfathomable for most people to grieve for the loss that they think was never there.
What a stupid and insensitive comment from Anon 1:40! Stupid because it's trimester, not quarter! Insensitive because there is no rule or law saying when to announce the pregnancy. And for sure, announcing it earlier or later won't affect the baby. Umayos ka!
Ive been through 2 miscarriages, 2008 and 2010. Until now when i read this kind of news, it hurts me to the bone..be strong Rica, i know the pain might take a lifetime, isipin mo nalng our babies are in the arms of Jesus now. il pray for you.xx
there are worse things than losing a baby. If nabuo yan deformed or mentally disabled. This is what my doctor told me after my third blighted ovum. What happens to the child when you are no longer around? Kawawa at the mercy of others.
Naiyak ako dito. I had miscarriage last Nov. @ 9 weeks pero based sa US 5 week Lang sya di lumalaki. Still trying to conceive pero hanggang ngayon wala pa rin. Hay..
Awww.Nakakaawa naman parang kailan lang na post dito na she's pregnant aswell as her sister :( Its okay everything happens for a reason.
ReplyDeleteParang kahapon lang ata yun?
Deletei feel sad for her. pero ang laki agad ng belly niya sa pic. anyway, may she find peace and solace soon.
Deleteeverything happens for a reason.
ReplyDeleteHe/she's an angel now watching over your family
ReplyDeleteI can relate. I had a silent miscarriage at 6 weeks. Finally decided to do the medical abortion around my supposedly 8th week pregnancy after a repeat US na wala na talaga baby & gestational sac nlang andun.
ReplyDeleteSometimes, nature takes over when there's a big problem with the baby. It doesn't make the pain lesser, but it takes away the bigger agony of some decisions parents may be forced to make later on. Sorry for the lose. It would have been lovely having cousins so close in age.
ReplyDeleteWell said. Been there and still thankful. And more thankful we got blessed with a healthy one sooner than we asked for.
Deletesobrang nakakalungkot talga pag baby, kahit pa sabihin nilang dugo pa lang yan. masyado pa ata maaga para iaanonunce. diba may ganunh kasabihan. kaya si toni ayaw magsalita
ReplyDeleteKaya mas mabuti wag na lng i announce sa social media, sa family ok lng pero sa ibang tao, wag n lang tutal nde n nmn sya active sa biz... Kc hindi lahat ng tao natutuwa, meron naiinggit din kaya nakakahatak tuloy ng negative vibes
ReplyDeleteeeeehhhh....kaloka comment mo!
Deletenagkataon lang na celeb cya...wala ka bang relatives, friends na ndi nag-announce sa sns accounts nila about mga ganitong event sa buhay nila?!?...
The same thing happened to me. It's been more than a year and I still can't get over it. The loss and sadness is deep, it encompasses your whole being. And the saddest part is, no one will understand what you are going thru unless they themselves have been there. No one will grieve for your baby except you and your husband. It's unfathomable for most people to grieve for the loss that they think was never there.
ReplyDelete1:29... so sad sis :(
DeleteWag muna ksi nagpo post hanggat hindi nalalampasan ang 1st quarter.
ReplyDeleteSo, si Rica pa ang mali ganern? Tingin mo kung hindi pinost sa social media yung pregnancy announcement nya, hindi sya nakunan? Umayos ka nga!
DeleteBaka 1st trimester?
DeleteWhat a stupid and insensitive comment from Anon 1:40! Stupid because it's trimester, not quarter! Insensitive because there is no rule or law saying when to announce the pregnancy. And for sure, announcing it earlier or later won't affect the baby. Umayos ka!
Delete1st quarter talaga? Ano to, basketball? Lol
DeleteWalang kinalaman ang pagpopost sa social media ng mas maaga sa 1st trimester para makunan. Wag shunga!
DeleteAng lungkot naman. Malaki laki na din ang baby at nag antay pa ata sila ng 3 mos. Prayers for Rica & her family.
ReplyDeletePrayers for Rica & her family. Things happen for a reason indeed. It is not anybody's fault. God is good and soon, you will have your rainbow baby.
ReplyDeleteIve been through 2 miscarriages, 2008 and 2010. Until now when i read this kind of news, it hurts me to the bone..be strong Rica, i know the pain might take a lifetime, isipin mo nalng our babies are in the arms of Jesus now. il pray for you.xx
ReplyDeleteI cried reading this and my heart is in pain, prayers for you rica, you will get past this, stay strong.
ReplyDeletethere are worse things than losing a baby. If nabuo yan deformed or mentally disabled. This is what my doctor told me after my third blighted ovum. What happens to the child when you are no longer around? Kawawa at the mercy of others.
ReplyDeleteI cried.It was heart wrenching.Everything happens for a reason.Just trust the Lord and stay strong Ms.Rica.
ReplyDeleteNaiyak ako dito. I had miscarriage last Nov. @ 9 weeks pero based sa US 5 week Lang sya di lumalaki. Still trying to conceive pero hanggang ngayon wala pa rin. Hay..
ReplyDeletenaiyak ako at natouch sa sinabi nya. 35 weeks preg myself, we have the same OB. Hope she heals soon.
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