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Friday, February 19, 2016

Minding the Jolting Reality

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While the entertainment industry boasts of nobodies who have transformed into celebrities as well as rags to riches stories, a sad reality is happening behind the scenes. When an actor becomes successful in his/her career, expect people to surround him and his family to give support. This relationship, however, is usually anchored on a ‘what’s in it for me?’ attitude. In short, people will be there as long as they could benefit from supporting the celebrity.

When Beleaguered Actor (BA) started his career, his initial appearance was met with raves and high hopes. BA showed much potential and he was soon marked for better opportunities. Starting at a young age, BA became the beacon of hope for his family. As he started earning, he was able to support his family financially. The roles came one after the other and soon BA was able to establish a name for himself. Given the support of a network, BA landed roles in soaps and movies that made quite a high return on investment.

Unfortunately, people did fail to see the warning signs BA was showing. Perhaps because he was the breadwinner, his family allowed him to do as he pleased, which proved disastrous, as he was not given as much guidance. Thus, as easily as he made a name for himself, BA started to show lack of discipline and soon he started neglecting his career.

The network is not one who will continue supporting a talent that is obviously going astray. Besides, he was already missing his schedules, which did not give the network much choice but to drop him. With no projects at hand and involvement in negative situations, BA started to lose everything that he had worked for. Soon enough, he showed that he was indeed lost.

Taking pity on BA were people who tried to lead back into the fold. For a brief period, they attempted to prod him back to reality. They encouraged BA and gave him support. Meanwhile, the family he has known stood by in the wings and allowed these people to guide BA. As soon as the opportunity showed itself, BA seemed to be on his way to reclaiming what he had. However, a twist revealed that BA allegedly opted to return to his old self and missed the opportunity. There was no recourse but for his family to take him back. While all seemed okay, reality indicated that BA no longer has what it takes to revive his career and thus, he could no longer provide for his family. Allegedly, his family has become lukewarm to his return to their fold when they realized his comeback was a failure.

‘It's way too easy to see the real face of a person. They're amiable and full of pretense when they want something from you, but the minute you don't give in, back away or put yourself first (like they do) is the minute they show you who they really are.’ ― Donna Lynn Hope

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47 comments:

  1. si J-boy na ex ni J-girl

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    1. Not the J you are thinking. May kaya yung family ni J na yan. Yung isang J sa kanya umaasa.

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    2. Teh,

      Mali ka po... hindi c star si J na ex ni Jinx
      OK?

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    3. This is indeed J but not the ex of J-girl.

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    1. c star at breadwinner Teh...
      Isa lang naman to eh... Ung J na bumalik

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  3. Nasayang ang efforts ni A sknya kng gnun..

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    1. Sya nga una ko naisip. Sad naman

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    2. hindi naman nasayang ang efforts ni A kay J. it really takes time for J to be totally healed. prayer and moral support lang katapat nyan. may awa ang Diyos sa mga katulad ni J

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  4. This is J, kawawa naman

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  5. BA - J na parang ligaw pa rin

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  6. BA - J hindi na siguro sya talaga pang showbiz, akala ko bibigyan sya ng work ni M sa isa sa mga R niya? Sayang naman ang effort ni A.
    Na sad naman ako...hay...

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    1. Magaling pa naman ito.

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    2. baka ayaw ni J mag work k M.. pwedeng ganun... everybody wants to help but the person doesnt want to

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  7. Younger J or older J?

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  8. Young J. Si older J di naman breadwinner, mukhang may kaya naman.

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  9. awww J
    you're too young to destroy yourself

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  10. starting at a young age. maybe the younger j

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  11. I pity this young man. He had mistakes and wrong decisions in the past, but it's just so wrong that his own blood and kin, who had a taste of what he could previously provide, are not as supportive in his time of need.

    I hope that what happened to J will not happen to another lady. She did not go off the rails as J, but who knows what she's keeping inside and until when?

    It is never a good idea to see youngsters as cash cows and main breadwinners when the elders can still work.

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  12. J. kawawa naman and sayang, laki sana ng potentials,naligaw lang ng landas.

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  13. Si j ito, very m ang acting niya.

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  14. Young J na inalalayan ni A

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  15. J- award winning c actor.

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  16. BA is younger J. Kawawa naman.:(

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  17. J dating palengke King dating ka loveteam ni K

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    1. sino na naman yang pinagsasabi mo? si younger J ito

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    2. ay knows ko na etey si J nga

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  18. naapektuhan na ng D ang utak ni J. Mahirap na makabalik yan. sayang.

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  19. Si J. Kww naman sariling pamilya, gawin kang milking cow and abandon you during times that you needed them most. kaya pala balik uli sa R. Tsk tsk tsk.

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  20. I pitied him the first time..actually I read somewhere na 3rd or 4th time na sya binibgyan ng chance, pero tlgang wala.. paulit ulit lng

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    1. An ordeal like his is not easily triumphed over. His family should constantly be there as his support system, and yet their disappointment over not getting their breadwinner back deprives him of having a true family. Your sympathy should still be with BA/J.

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  21. J dating w sa E na papogian ang peg pero di nman pogi!

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  22. Sad.. Basta nag D, there's no where to go but spiral down.. Sana matuto na mga tao esp mga bata

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  23. Iwasan tlga dpat ang d sumisira ng buhay

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  24. nakakahinayang yung talent nya... yung mga pabebe young actors walang-wala sa kalingkingan ng galing nito sa acting. sayang lang at napabayaan sya. yung pamilya naman kasi nabalitaan lang na balak bigyan ng projects si J nakipag-tug of war na naman kay A na sya pang may genuine concern kay J.

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  25. J. Kasi kapag dinala mo na sa r at nakalabas na, ang laki ng expectation na magiging ok na lahat. Sadly thats not the case, majority bumabalik ulit sa dating gawi. Hanggang ang may katawan na mismo ang magdesisyon na ayaw na nya, kahit anong tulong ang gawin sa kanya, mapupunta pa rin sa wala. Actually ng tinulungan sya, napaisip ako kung alam ng tumulong ang pinapasok nya. Ayan nga, when he fell short of expectations, give up na agad sya. Yung tumulong might have done more harm. Baka magkaron pa lalo ng feeling ng abandonment yung isa. Pinaasa kaagad nila na baka finally makakausap na yung taong gusto nyang makita. Eh nagfail. Unfair pero magulo talaga isip nila, muddled ang mga katwiran. At his age malayo pa tatahakin nya sa problema nya unless magising na sya.

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