Nung walang social media, wala Naman pake mga tao pag nagbbreastfeed mga nanay anywhere, ngayon super offended na lahat. Konting kembot kasi lahat nalang dinadaing sa social media. Now evrythings a big deal. La lang. Hahaha #memaAkoBaket
Then tell us how to do it?.. As far as we know, how our baby will react is the basis of doing it correctly. If our baby don't like to cover up, then we ditch the cover. You are disgusted when someone is breastfeeding, how about breast shown on the billboards????? Breastfeeding feeds baby, how about billboards shows breast? Who they're feeding?....
Seriously? kung ikaw ay nadidisgust when you see someone breastfeeding, you may have been looking at them (their breasts) a bit too long. Normal na mapansin ang magpapadede na ina pero to the point that you'll feel disgusted, ikaw na ang may problema. Because the mother is not putting on a show for you, she's feeding her kid. get over yourself and mind your own business kung baga #normalizebreastfeeding
Hello u can buy a clothes to cover at least hanggang dun sa dpat icover noh, ive seen it already my mga mother na they breastfeed pero khit papano it looks decent no
Hindi talaga matatapos ang diskusyon regarding this. Iba iba ang perception and understanding ng mga tao. If you are confident enough to BF your baby in public, then good. Wag mo na lang pansinin yung mga tao. Kasi problema na nila yun. Kung sitahin ka man, tell them na wala naman sa batas na bawal magpasuso in public - again, wag kang magpaapekto. Yung mga taong asiwa sa nagpapasuso, mind your own business na lang. Wala kang pakialam kung gusto niya ibalandra ang suso niya. Nagpapakain siya ng bata, hindi ka niya inaakit, wag kang tumingin. Tapos! As for me, being BF mom, conservative kasi ako, thats just me. So i bring a cover or just go to a BF station.
Agreed! Am also a breastfeeding mom. Bilib ako sa mga nagpapadede without a cover, they have my utmost respect. Pero as for me, takip pa din ako kahit panyo lang para iwas tawag pansin na lang at inarte ng iba.
It's not about shaming public breastfeeding. What's annoying is when people don't bother to cover their breasts. Learn to have a bit of respect for those around you; particularly in a public place like a restaurant. I don't want to have to explain to a young boy or a young girl about why your breasts are wide open for public viewing.
Have you experience breastfeeding? Naiinitan at di komportable ang baby pag naka cover. Madali lang naman iexplain sa kids pag nakakita sila ng ganung scene sa public place, explain to them na it's the natural way to feed a baby. #normalizebreastfeeding
Some babies dont like to feed under the dark or with cover nankahit among gawin mo tatangalin nya UN,same as my baby. I have the respect for people around me pero sana respeto nyo dn kaming bf moms. Napakadali nman iexplain na the mother is feeding the baby that's why it's like that. Bakit mas madali ba iexplain pag ang boobs ng babaeng naka sexy dress ang litaw?
Mahirap bang iexplain sa mga bata na tulad nila, pinapakain din ang baby??? And ano ang koneksyon ng public breastfeeding sa respeto sa ibang tao? Pag nagbreastfeed in public wala na kagad respeto? Baka kayong malisyoso ang walang respeto sa kumakain na bata. You won't understand the struggle of pagpapasuso gamit ang cover until kayo ang kumain na naza ilalim ng blanket. I-try nyo.. I use a cover though pag nagbrebreastfeed in public kasi gusto pa ng baby ko. Pero pag dumating yung time na ayaw na nya, aalisin ko. Para sa anak ko ang ginagawa ko, hindi para sa ibang tao.
Let's talk about respect. Di mo ba naisip na kailangan din ng nanay na nagpapadede ng respeto? Paano mo din ieexplain sa batang sumususo na may mga taong di pa din tanggap ang ginagawa niya. As for the young boys and young girls, maiintindihan nila kung ano at bakit nagpapa-suso ang isang nanay. Nasa magulang din yan kung paano nila ieexplain sa anak nila. Kung malisya sa ang mga magulang, may malisya din ang pagtingin ng bata.
Explain them that breast are for feeding babies NOT for something beyond that or kung ano man iniisp mo. Simple as that. Ang pag iisip ng bata ay nsa magulang. Kung i-e-explain mo ng tama yan, tama matutunan nyan.
True! Yung iba kasing mga bf advocates, super OA maka impose ng #normalizebreastfeeding na yan. Hindi lahat ng tao ok makakita ng nagpapadede ng lantaran.
Even if I'm breastfeeding, nakakahiya na ibuyangyang ko ang dede ko for the public to see. Iba na ang society ngayon di tulad noong unang panahon.
For public viewing? Wow. You have a twisted kind of thinking. Feeling mo dinidisplay ang breast for you to see? The mom is simply feeding their child. If you are offended, look away. Does a young boy or a young girl no what breasts are for? O ieexplain mo sa kanila in a sexualized way that you believe it is for?
Alam mo may mga bata na ayaw n cover, bakit hindi mo ba pwedeng sabihin sa mga bata ang breastfeeding ay normal? Hindi ibig sabihin eh open for public viewing instead, pinapakain nya ang anak nyang nagugutom! Kung babae ka kung may anak ka mukang tabang sugar nanaman magyayari nyan. Or kung lalaki ka naman kawawa ang asawa mo sayo.
i think you're missing the point of the whole 'normalize breastfeeding' advocacy. when your kid see someone breastfeeding, it is YOUR reponsibility as an EDUCATED ADULT to let them know that the breasts are not there 'wide open for public viewing', it's for the sustenance of babies. If you'll do your part in educating the youth about how breastfeeeding is not something taboo, instead of being 'annoyed', years from now people wouldn't need to do anymore explaning regarding it #normalizebreastfeeding
Let's talk about respect. Did you even think of respecting the mother who is feeding her child? What if she forgot to bring her cover? What if her child is really hungry and there's no time or chance to go to a breastfeeding room or to cover up. Isa pa, yung pag eexplain sa young boys o young girls ay nasa magulang yan. Kung malisya sa pag explain ng magulang, may malisya din sa pag iisip ng bata.
If you respect them, you let them be. Sino bang nakikitingin? What they're doing is NONE of your business. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Unless you are the guy on the other table glaring at a mom who is just feeding her child. Masama manghimasok sa ginagawa ng iba.
Think of what you will say to young boys and girls pag nakakakita sila ng bare breasts sa TV for advertisment!
What do I say to them? "Hi girl/boy, she is nourishing her child. I hope you/your wife will do that too in the future."
Then you are raising your child wrong. You are sexualizing breasts kaya ganyan ang isip mo. If a child grows up KNOWING that BREASTS WERE MADE TO FEED THEIR BABIES then there will be no problems about this. Di naman sex organ ang breasts ng babae.
hey, breastfeeding is a basic human right, it's a baby's right to get the right nutrient he needs at his convenience. May anak kaba? babies, most especially the older ones (5 months and up) hate covers. they usually eat with their eyes wide open while having an eye to eye contact with their mothers. u are clamoring for respect, then respect the babies right first. if u still don't understand what i'm saying, try to have a child and make sure to breastfeed your baby.
natawa naman ako dito kailangan pa I-explain kung bakit dumedede ang baby pag nakita ng mga anak niya. hindi na kailangan I-explain yan ate, kasi alam na yan nila fresh pa yan sa memory nila kung para saan ang dede ni mommy.
So easy to say not to look, likas na usyusera mga tao. Pati aksidente, hindi natin maiwasang hindi tumingin. Ok lang public breastfeeding, as long as may takip. People are not used to it yet kaya wag pipilitin. Marami parin ang mawawalan ng gana pag makakita sila ng ganyan habang kumakain.
That's your problem then. You should learn how to mind your own business. Why would you even stare to a boob while you're eating? Is that even right? The mother is simply feeding her child. Nananahimik ung bata tatakpan mo ng cover kasi uncomfortable ka? You're older. You should know better.
Yes, first reaction will be look at someone breastfeeding in public, pero you have may been looking a bit too long para masabing mawalan ka ng ganang kumain. Asayo na ang problema nyan.
You have it the other way around. Breastfeeding has been happening for centuries! This is the norm. Recently lang naman naging issue ito. Nung na-sexualize na ang breasts dahil sa social media. Breasts were made by God to feed babies!
Mas kaya yata ng adult matuto "to look away" kesa baby pilitin mong takpan kung di siya komportable. Adult po mag-adjust kasi may isip na sila, yong baby wala pa pong kamuang-muang yan.
May mga babies na natretrain na mag feed ng may cover.. Pero may mga babies na hindi din.. lalo na sa mainit na panahon.. Nakakairita. Kahit tayo mismo naiirita pag may takip kaya lang kaya natin tiisin yung irita or init pero ang babies? Pag ayaw nya ayaw nya.. May mga taong naiididiri din sa ibang habit, ugali or kung ano pa man meron sa inyo(becuse nobody is perfect or kahit almost perfect may nasasabi parin ang iba). Magugustuhan nyo ba na sabihin sa inyo yung ayaw nila sayo sa paraan na ginagamit ng ilan na hindi pabor sa public feeding.. At isa pa, kung may problema kayo sa nagpapabreastfeed, why not tell that to our faces kapag nakita nyo kami nag brea2stfeed? Hindi yung sa social media kayo nag rarant.. #NormalizeBreatfeedingInPublic
are u a mom? are u breastfeeding? if your answers to my questions are both "no" then u definitely don't know the feeling and u don't understand breastfeeding and its importance. mema ka lang kaya ka ganyan. tama si anon 11:08, babies cannot adjust to your convenience so please let the baby eat.
Breastfeeding in public is fine kasi sustenance yun ng bata at walang malisya sa pagpapakain ng bata. Pero I draw the line dun sa mga moms na nagpapalit ng diaper ng bata in public at pinababayaan na ngumawa at mag tatakbo yung bata in confined public places lalo na sa restaurants. Sana wag laging idahilan yung bata, I believe na as a parent responsibility nila yung behavior ng bata.
Walang masama mag breastfeeding kahit saan importante matutong magtakip man lang. As a mother of three boys lahat sila breatfeed, nag papa breastfeed ako kahit san abutan pag gutom ang baby ang mahalaga marunong magtakip. Inappropriate ang nakikita ang suso sa public... Sana yan ang ilagay sa utak ng mga nag papa breastfeed magtakip at wag basta basta ibalandra ang suso sa publikong lugar di maganda tingan. Konting respect naman sa suso nyo yun lang.
in what form ba a pagiging disrespectful sa suso? ang breastfeeding is not a form of disrespect. We should learn how to respect breastfeeding in any form... if it's shown for something else then that's another question.
Only a mother can really appreciate breastfeeding in public in any form talaga. You don't know how hard it is. Kala nyo ba they want to do it in public? But when your baby cries because s/he is hungry, hindi mo na talaga maiisip yung ibang tao. Anak mo lang maiisip mo at gusto mo lang sya patahanin at ibigay ang gusto dahil ayaw mong nakikita syang umiiyak at nahihirapan. Bilib nga ako sa mga nanay na kahit anong awkward ng position kaya nilang mag breastfeed. Di bale na sila mahirapan, wag lang anak nila.
Walang problema ang breastfeeding in public. Problema yung mga manyak na sinisisi ang kalibugan nila sa natural na proseso ng pagpapakain ng isang ina sa kanyang anak. Wala namang bastos, lalo na at ang main purpose naman ng breasts ay para sa feeding, at hindi sa pagpapa-sexy. Juice ko Pilipinas...
I'm all for breastfeeding in public even if I'm not a mom yet. But as a courtesy, I'll bring a cover with me. Not everyone is comfortable seeing a child sucking a breast in public. Ganun talaga eh.
Hindi naman siguro disgusted ang tamang word. I am also a woman, but I feel awkward for them. It's actually a protection for them. IBA NA ANG PANAHON NGAYON, PATI NGA MGA BATA HINDI NA BATA ANG TINGIN NG IBANG WALANG KALULUWA...
Hindi lahat ng bata pumapayag while nursing. At walang masama kung wala takip ang suso ng nanay dahil natural ang ginagawa nya. Hindi kayo komportable pag may nakikita kayong nanay na nagpapasuso? Pero pag nanonood kayo ng porno tutok n tutok kayo? Yan dapat ang mabago.
Galit na galit kayo or inis na inis sa mga nagpapadedeng nanay, pero yung mga nakikita niyong babae sa tv, kalsada o magazine man na halos kita na ang kaluluwa, wala kayong nasasabi, baka nga gustong gusto niyo pa. Samantalang ang mga nagpapasuso, nagagalit kayo. Sasabihin niyong magcover? E kung habang kumakain kayo takpan kaya kayo, matutuwa kayo? Kung ayaw niyong makakita ng mga nagpapasusong ina, umalis na kayo ng planeta para maghanap ng mga baby na hindi kumakain.
May 'poncho' ba yun? Yun pantakip namam... iba iba tao, may pro may anti... ^_^ sabi nga ni yaya, kebs lang. Paki ba nila kung padede ka sa public... -planning to be a breastfeeding mom
Daming makikitid ng utak dito ha. If it makes you uncomfy, DON'T LOOK. Hindi maiiwasan makita ang nipple pero it's not as if we like showing out nipples off. Rest assured we really try to be as discreet as possible. It's not our fault anymore if there are pervs or puritans out there who think we display breastfeeding just for fun. Mas may paki kami sa anak namin, hindi sa inyo.
Wag kase boobs tingnan niyo, yung ulo ng baby. Divert your attention somewhere else. Makakita lang ng pisngi ng boobs nagrreact na? Ang aarte niyo naman! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... Bilang babae I find a breastfeeding mom beautiful in so many ways. If I see one I'd smile at her and give a thumbs up and not shame her... I'll shame the people who will judge her. Feeling high and righteous. pwe!
You should all know that all moms out there didn't intend to show their breast in public. Sometimes wala nang choice Lalo na kung nagwawala na Ung baby sa gutom. Or Ung mismong baby ang nagtatanggal ng cover ni mommy. Ikaw kaya kumain ng may nakatalakbong sayong tela? Matutuwa ka ba? Minsan ilagay nyo rin ang sarili nyo sa lugar ng mga mga breastfeeding mommy. Palibhasa kasi Ung iba sa inyo either mga lalaki, or mga dalaga pa na hindi pa nararanasang maging ina, or usyusero/usyusera, o talagang may bahid lang ng kahalayan ang isip.
And how about respecting the mom who is breastfeeding her child? Wala naman ginagawang masama ang breastfeeding moms, they are just feeding their child. And why you are having a hard time explaining to kids? Simple lang naman ang isasagot- the mom is feeding her child. Kung may malisya ang taong mag eexplain then may malisya din sa pagkakaintindi ng bata.. Breastfeeding is natural, its not a crime.
Umiiyak na baby kasi gutom na. Siempre bilang nanay uunahin ang papadede sa baby at hindi ung mga taong nasa paligid. Breastfeeding with manners!? hahaha. kaloka. You're probably not a breastfeeding mom. tsaka may cover? try mo kayang kumain may takip. naiinitan ang bata nyan!
Ang aarte nyo, bakit yung mga cover ng mga men's mag na lantad buong kaluluwa di nyo pinapansin, yung pagpapakain ng bata yun yung mamasamain nyo? sana di na lang kayo pinadede ng mga nanay nyo.
I dont think breastfeeding moms intead to show off their boobies but yes it does happen specially when babies are fussy, irrate, or just being playful. These babies are not aware of the bigger environment, all they know is that they have their mom and only boobies come between them. Next time you see a breastfeeding mom just look away if you are not comfortable for no matter how careful they are, nip slips do happen. By the way, if you want to enjoy a more satiable view, look for girls in minis, tube, plunging neckline, bikinis or so. People who judged public breastfeeding is either a hypocrite, never breastfed, have never tried to breastfeed or never understand motherhood. Thanks! By the way proud breastfeeding mom of a healthy bouncy baby girl here! #susoparasapagpapasuso #breastfeedingpinays #normalizebreastfeeding #expandedbreastfeedingcode
WITH OR WITHOUT COVER, IT DOESN'T MATTER. WHAT'S IMPORTANT IS THE MOTHER IS BREASTFEEDING. IT'S THE MOTHER'S CHOICE TO COVER OR NOT, IT SHOULD NOT BE IMPOSED BY ANYONE ELSE.
BREASTS ARE MADE BY OUR CREATOR TO NOURISH OUR CHILDREN. LONG BEFORE FORMULA AND BOTTLES WERE INVENTED. ONLY THEN, THAT THE BREASTS ARE SEXUALIZED IN THE EYES OF SOCIETY.
IT'S NOT HARD TO COVER. QUESTION IS, IS IT HARD TO LOOK AWAY? :)
Yung may mga non sense na comment dito hindi nila alam ang feeling ng isang breastfeeding mom! And also dapat try to put your own self sa situation, even you im sure you're not comfortable eating with mask or cover so ganon din ibang babies. They will not adjust easily to the environment and they don't even care..pag gutom sila gutom talaga kaya kung ayaw mo makakita ng isang butihing ina na nagpapakain ng kanyang minamahal na anak please try to look away baka masiyahan kapa kung model na topless makita mo sa tarpaulin or cover ng magazine! Make sense right?? Yung ulirang nanay na nagpapadede sa public agad agad hinuhusgahan.. eh sa totoo lang wala naman dapat malisya yan or hindi naman nkakadiri yan. Yan ba ituturo naten sa next generation to be disgusted to a woman who will breastfeed her child??!! What an empty brain you have. You don't have neurons baka gusto mong pastimulate brain cells mo para makapag isip ka ng mabuti.
Question. How about pumping out the milk bago lumabas ng bahay, ilagay sa bottle, pwede ba yun? Para kung umiyak man, you can feed the baby without having to expose yourself. I know the point of the post ok? nothing wrong with public breastfeeding. Question/suggestion lang. Please wag kayo magalit skn. LOL.
Some babies don't take to the bottle. They prefer the mother's breast. Minsan ang dami mo ng natry na bottle, and mamahal pa naman, pero ayaw talaga ng bata. So it really depends on the baby. Swerte if they will take both breast and bottle. Unfortunately, some don't.
Trivia lang for those na wala talagang idea, pumping 4oz of milk will take at least 20-45 mins. That is just a small amount. And that breastmilk can last for 4 hours only (normal room temp). So kung magmamall kami, makatarungan bang mag-pump pa ako ng 3 bote para may baunin kami in case magutom ang anak ko? Dapat magdala pa ako ng isang thermal bag, para tumagal pa yung ibang baon na gatas - all of these dapat gawin para lang "hindi nakakahiya" sa makakakita.
These people need to realize the rootcause of their disgust or shame in public breastfeeding.
First, all of us can turn our heads and eyes away from the breastfeeding mother. We are not invited to stare. Second, our hunger is uncontrollable especially for babies, as adult we can put up with not eating but not babies, so as a mother she will feed her baby any time the baby needs it. Third, there's not a lot of facilities that have breastfeeding room. Fourth, there is nothing wrong with it since the purpose of the eventual display of breast is for the baby and not for us. Fifth, ask yourself, do you think those mothers intends to have a public display of their breasts? Don't you think that feeding their babies is what makes them do it? Do you think that they don't have any sense of decency or sense of hiya?
Like what the F.. All mammals have breasts for feeding offspring. Like, yung mga nagsasabing masagwa toh thats because you watch too much porn and you all got twisted minds. Thats just a boob. Like a dog feeding their puppies, cats feeding their kittens, humans feeding their babies. SIMPLE! Just dont look kung twisted utak mo. Society today nga naman..
Tama nga naman. Takpan mo na lang
ReplyDeleteYou are missing the point.
DeleteAy teh!
DeleteNung walang social media, wala
ReplyDeleteNaman pake mga tao pag nagbbreastfeed mga nanay anywhere, ngayon super offended na lahat. Konting kembot kasi lahat nalang dinadaing sa social media. Now evrythings a big deal. La lang. Hahaha #memaAkoBaket
Ok lang na mema ka baks. May point ka naman.
DeleteTrue baks! Okay lang na mema ka. May super point ka. Katulad nalang nung Paola Shane sa facebook. Ayan instant sikat tuloy sya
DeleteMay point ka. Kinakabwiset ko din yan sa mga papansin sa social media.
Delete1:19 kase baka daw may manyak makiinom ng breastmilk. eww na eww, but that's the reality, this world doesnt revolve around your child and you!
DeleteTumpak -breastfeeding mom here
ReplyDeleteTime really have changed. In the 80's and 90's may nagpapabreastfeed nga sa jeep, deadma lang mga tao.
ReplyDeleteKorak! I clearly remember that!!!
DeleteTrue, naalala ko rin yan. Sttike anywhere!
DeleteMay nabibili naman na pangtakip dba pag magpapabreastfeed. No milk is better than mother's milk. Nakaka-brainy yan for the IQ and EQ ng bata.
ReplyDeleteTry mo takpan ang mukha mo habang kumakain. Ang init ng cover lalo na sa tropical country like ours. Ang point is kung ayaw mo makita, wag mo tignan.
DeleteAng point nga niya tey eh why kelangan takpan? Ikaw pagkumakain ka hindi ka naman nagtatago diba?
Deletethat's why it's called breastfeeding because it is feeding. try mo kumain ng nakatalukbong.
DeleteWE are not against public breastfeeding but we are disgusted how some do it. You can do public breastfeeding with manners!
ReplyDeletesabi nga nia if you don't like it, don't look! hindi nakaka disgust ang magpa dede in public! grabe sha!
DeleteWith manners!?? Bakit pano ba ang breastfeeding ng walang manners?
DeleteNot against but disgusted? ? Come on tell me whats the proper breastfeeding? Normalize breastfeeding. Strike anytime and anywhere. Nasa batas yan.
Deletekaloka naman yung breast feeding with manners! Pano yun? Sige nga!
DeleteThen tell us how to do it?..
DeleteAs far as we know, how our baby will react is the basis of doing it correctly.
If our baby don't like to cover up, then we ditch the cover.
You are disgusted when someone is breastfeeding, how about breast shown on the billboards?????
Breastfeeding feeds baby, how about billboards shows breast? Who they're feeding?....
how do you breastfeed with manners? if you don't like what you see, don't look.
DeleteKung may manners ka, hindi ka titingin! Kung by accident ka napatingin, edi lingon paalis ang tingin. Wag nang mata-matahin. Kaloka...
DeleteMukang hindi ka napadede ng nanay mo or hindi ka nagpadede ng anak mo? Poor you puro sugar utak mo.. Breastfeeding with manners sinasabi mo?
DeleteSeriously? kung ikaw ay nadidisgust when you see someone breastfeeding, you may have been looking at them (their breasts) a bit too long. Normal na mapansin ang magpapadede na ina pero to the point that you'll feel disgusted, ikaw na ang may problema. Because the mother is not putting on a show for you, she's feeding her kid. get over yourself and mind your own business kung baga #normalizebreastfeeding
DeleteAnong manners po ang sinasabi mo?
DeleteSinesexualize mo kasi ang paglabas ng boobs para magbreastfeed kaya nahahalayan ka. Mali pagpapalaki sayo.
DeleteHello u can buy a clothes to cover at least hanggang dun sa dpat icover noh, ive seen it already my mga mother na they breastfeed pero khit papano it looks decent no
Deletehow bout comment with manners lol
DeleteTeh, mukhang hindi ka na breastfeed nung bata ka kaya wala ka ring manners
Deletedelayed ka ateng!
ReplyDeleteMATAGAL NANG PINAG TALUNAN ANG BREASTFEEDING IN PUBLIC!
--MALDITANG FROGLET
Pero dapat hindi nakikita ang nipple ng mother, kasi nakakawkward kahit babae ako.
ReplyDeleteEdi wag kang tumingin.
DeleteSimple.
it's all in the mind. if you don't like what you see, don't look.
DeleteThen don't look.
Deleteedi kumain ka ng hindi mo nakikita yung kanin at ulam mo. para quits diba lol
DeleteHindi talaga matatapos ang diskusyon regarding this. Iba iba ang perception and understanding ng mga tao. If you are confident enough to BF your baby in public, then good. Wag mo na lang pansinin yung mga tao. Kasi problema na nila yun. Kung sitahin ka man, tell them na wala naman sa batas na bawal magpasuso in public - again, wag kang magpaapekto. Yung mga taong asiwa sa nagpapasuso, mind your own business na lang. Wala kang pakialam kung gusto niya ibalandra ang suso niya. Nagpapakain siya ng bata, hindi ka niya inaakit, wag kang tumingin. Tapos! As for me, being BF mom, conservative kasi ako, thats just me. So i bring a cover or just go to a BF station.
ReplyDeleteAgreed! Am also a breastfeeding mom. Bilib ako sa mga nagpapadede without a cover, they have my utmost respect. Pero as for me, takip pa din ako kahit panyo lang para iwas tawag pansin na lang at inarte ng iba.
DeleteIt's not about shaming public breastfeeding. What's annoying is when people don't bother to cover their breasts. Learn to have a bit of respect for those around you; particularly in a public place like a restaurant. I don't want to have to explain to a young boy or a young girl about why your breasts are wide open for public viewing.
ReplyDeleteHave you experience breastfeeding? Naiinitan at di komportable ang baby pag naka cover. Madali lang naman iexplain sa kids pag nakakita sila ng ganung scene sa public place, explain to them na it's the natural way to feed a baby. #normalizebreastfeeding
DeleteSome babies dont like to feed under the dark or with cover nankahit among gawin mo tatangalin nya UN,same as my baby. I have the respect for people around me pero sana respeto nyo dn kaming bf moms. Napakadali nman iexplain na the mother is feeding the baby that's why it's like that. Bakit mas madali ba iexplain pag ang boobs ng babaeng naka sexy dress ang litaw?
DeleteMahirap bang iexplain sa mga bata na tulad nila, pinapakain din ang baby??? And ano ang koneksyon ng public breastfeeding sa respeto sa ibang tao? Pag nagbreastfeed in public wala na kagad respeto? Baka kayong malisyoso ang walang respeto sa kumakain na bata. You won't understand the struggle of pagpapasuso gamit ang cover until kayo ang kumain na naza ilalim ng blanket. I-try nyo.. I use a cover though pag nagbrebreastfeed in public kasi gusto pa ng baby ko. Pero pag dumating yung time na ayaw na nya, aalisin ko. Para sa anak ko ang ginagawa ko, hindi para sa ibang tao.
DeleteLet's talk about respect. Di mo ba naisip na kailangan din ng nanay na nagpapadede ng respeto? Paano mo din ieexplain sa batang sumususo na may mga taong di pa din tanggap ang ginagawa niya. As for the young boys and young girls, maiintindihan nila kung ano at bakit nagpapa-suso ang isang nanay. Nasa magulang din yan kung paano nila ieexplain sa anak nila. Kung malisya sa ang mga magulang, may malisya din ang pagtingin ng bata.
DeleteExplain them that breast are for feeding babies NOT for something beyond that or kung ano man iniisp mo. Simple as that.
DeleteAng pag iisip ng bata ay nsa magulang. Kung i-e-explain mo ng tama yan, tama matutunan nyan.
Mahirap bang i-explain na the mother is feeding her baby? Respect the mom by letting her be. Ganun yun, tapos! Respect ka dyan...
DeleteTrue! Yung iba kasing mga bf advocates, super OA maka impose ng #normalizebreastfeeding na yan. Hindi lahat ng tao ok makakita ng nagpapadede ng lantaran.
DeleteEven if I'm breastfeeding, nakakahiya na ibuyangyang ko ang dede ko for the public to see. Iba na ang society ngayon di tulad noong unang panahon.
For public viewing? Wow. You have a twisted kind of thinking. Feeling mo dinidisplay ang breast for you to see? The mom is simply feeding their child. If you are offended, look away. Does a young boy or a young girl no what breasts are for? O ieexplain mo sa kanila in a sexualized way that you believe it is for?
DeleteAlam mo may mga bata na ayaw n cover, bakit hindi mo ba pwedeng sabihin sa mga bata ang breastfeeding ay normal? Hindi ibig sabihin eh open for public viewing instead, pinapakain nya ang anak nyang nagugutom! Kung babae ka kung may anak ka mukang tabang sugar nanaman magyayari nyan. Or kung lalaki ka naman kawawa ang asawa mo sayo.
Deletei think you're missing the point of the whole 'normalize breastfeeding' advocacy. when your kid see someone breastfeeding, it is YOUR reponsibility as an EDUCATED ADULT to let them know that the breasts are not there 'wide open for public viewing', it's for the sustenance of babies. If you'll do your part in educating the youth about how breastfeeeding is not something taboo, instead of being 'annoyed', years from now people wouldn't need to do anymore explaning regarding it #normalizebreastfeeding
DeleteLet's talk about respect. Did you even think of respecting the mother who is feeding her child? What if she forgot to bring her cover? What if her child is really hungry and there's no time or chance to go to a breastfeeding room or to cover up. Isa pa, yung pag eexplain sa young boys o young girls ay nasa magulang yan. Kung malisya sa pag explain ng magulang, may malisya din sa pag iisip ng bata.
DeleteIf you respect them, you let them be. Sino bang nakikitingin? What they're doing is NONE of your business. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Unless you are the guy on the other table glaring at a mom who is just feeding her child. Masama manghimasok sa ginagawa ng iba.
DeleteThink of what you will say to young boys and girls pag nakakakita sila ng bare breasts sa TV for advertisment!
What do I say to them? "Hi girl/boy, she is nourishing her child. I hope you/your wife will do that too in the future."
Then you are raising your child wrong. You are sexualizing breasts kaya ganyan ang isip mo. If a child grows up KNOWING that BREASTS WERE MADE TO FEED THEIR BABIES then there will be no problems about this. Di naman sex organ ang breasts ng babae.
DeleteTell them that's how babies eat. That's the natural way babies eat. Di naman malicious ang mga bata. Wag mong turuan maging green-minded.
DeleteI second 11:04
Deletehey, breastfeeding is a basic human right, it's a baby's right to get the right nutrient he needs at his convenience. May anak kaba? babies, most especially the older ones (5 months and up) hate covers. they usually eat with their eyes wide open while having an eye to eye contact with their mothers. u are clamoring for respect, then respect the babies right first. if u still don't understand what i'm saying, try to have a child and make sure to breastfeed your baby.
Deletenatawa naman ako dito kailangan pa I-explain kung bakit dumedede ang baby pag nakita ng mga anak niya. hindi na kailangan I-explain yan ate, kasi alam na yan nila fresh pa yan sa memory nila kung para saan ang dede ni mommy.
DeleteSo easy to say not to look, likas na usyusera mga tao. Pati aksidente, hindi natin maiwasang hindi tumingin. Ok lang public breastfeeding, as long as may takip. People are not used to it yet kaya wag pipilitin. Marami parin ang mawawalan ng gana pag makakita sila ng ganyan habang kumakain.
ReplyDeletenakakawalang gana na pala sa ibang tao ang makita na pinapakain ng mother ang baby niya.
DeleteThat's your problem then. You should learn how to mind your own business. Why would you even stare to a boob while you're eating? Is that even right? The mother is simply feeding her child. Nananahimik ung bata tatakpan mo ng cover kasi uncomfortable ka? You're older. You should know better.
DeleteYes, first reaction will be look at someone breastfeeding in public, pero you have may been looking a bit too long para masabing mawalan ka ng ganang kumain. Asayo na ang problema nyan.
DeleteNatumbok mo! Ganyan nga!
DeleteYou have it the other way around. Breastfeeding has been happening for centuries! This is the norm. Recently lang naman naging issue ito. Nung na-sexualize na ang breasts dahil sa social media. Breasts were made by God to feed babies!
DeleteMas kaya yata ng adult matuto "to look away" kesa baby pilitin mong takpan kung di siya komportable. Adult po mag-adjust kasi may isip na sila, yong baby wala pa pong kamuang-muang yan.
DeleteMay mga babies na natretrain na mag feed ng may cover.. Pero may mga babies na hindi din.. lalo na sa mainit na panahon.. Nakakairita. Kahit tayo mismo naiirita pag may takip kaya lang kaya natin tiisin yung irita or init pero ang babies? Pag ayaw nya ayaw nya.. May mga taong naiididiri din sa ibang habit, ugali or kung ano pa man meron sa inyo(becuse nobody is perfect or kahit almost perfect may nasasabi parin ang iba). Magugustuhan nyo ba na sabihin sa inyo yung ayaw nila sayo sa paraan na ginagamit ng ilan na hindi pabor sa public feeding.. At isa pa, kung may problema kayo sa nagpapabreastfeed, why not tell that to our faces kapag nakita nyo kami nag brea2stfeed? Hindi yung sa social media kayo nag rarant.. #NormalizeBreatfeedingInPublic
Deleteare u a mom? are u breastfeeding? if your answers to my questions are both "no" then u definitely don't know the feeling and u don't understand breastfeeding and its importance. mema ka lang kaya ka ganyan. tama si anon 11:08, babies cannot adjust to your convenience so please let the baby eat.
DeleteBreastfeeding in public is fine kasi sustenance yun ng bata at walang malisya sa pagpapakain ng bata. Pero I draw the line dun sa mga moms na nagpapalit ng diaper ng bata in public at pinababayaan na ngumawa at mag tatakbo yung bata in confined public places lalo na sa restaurants. Sana wag laging idahilan yung bata, I believe na as a parent responsibility nila yung behavior ng bata.
ReplyDeleteDear. You will understand when u have your own.
DeleteNaligaw ka teh, public breastfeeding ang pnag uusapan. Hindi pagpapalit ng diaper..
DeleteWalang masama mag breastfeeding kahit saan importante matutong magtakip man lang. As a mother of three boys lahat sila breatfeed, nag papa breastfeed ako kahit san abutan pag gutom ang baby ang mahalaga marunong magtakip. Inappropriate ang nakikita ang suso sa public... Sana yan ang ilagay sa utak ng mga nag papa breastfeed magtakip at wag basta basta ibalandra ang suso sa publikong lugar di maganda tingan. Konting respect naman sa suso nyo yun lang.
ReplyDeletein what form ba a pagiging disrespectful sa suso? ang breastfeeding is not a form of disrespect. We should learn how to respect breastfeeding in any form... if it's shown for something else then that's another question.
DeleteOnly a mother can really appreciate breastfeeding in public in any form talaga. You don't know how hard it is. Kala nyo ba they want to do it in public? But when your baby cries because s/he is hungry, hindi mo na talaga maiisip yung ibang tao. Anak mo lang maiisip mo at gusto mo lang sya patahanin at ibigay ang gusto dahil ayaw mong nakikita syang umiiyak at nahihirapan. Bilib nga ako sa mga nanay na kahit anong awkward ng position kaya nilang mag breastfeed. Di bale na sila mahirapan, wag lang anak nila.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Only us know and can probably understand.
DeleteWalang problema ang breastfeeding in public. Problema yung mga manyak na sinisisi ang kalibugan nila sa natural na proseso ng pagpapakain ng isang ina sa kanyang anak. Wala namang bastos, lalo na at ang main purpose naman ng breasts ay para sa feeding, at hindi sa pagpapa-sexy. Juice ko Pilipinas...
ReplyDeleteyou go girl! #normalizebreastfeeding
ReplyDeleteako, strik anywhere ang peg. walang masamang magpadede sa public. wag mo na lang tingnan kung naooffend ka.
cnu ayaw sa public breastfeeding...thats the most natural thing that a woman could do to her hungry infant...
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I'm all for breastfeeding in public even if I'm not a mom yet. But as a courtesy, I'll bring a cover with me. Not everyone is comfortable seeing a child sucking a breast in public. Ganun talaga eh.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman siguro disgusted ang tamang word. I am also a woman, but I feel awkward for them. It's actually a protection for them. IBA NA ANG PANAHON NGAYON, PATI NGA MGA BATA HINDI NA BATA ANG TINGIN NG IBANG WALANG KALULUWA...
ReplyDeleteHindi lahat ng bata pumapayag while nursing. At walang masama kung wala takip ang suso ng nanay dahil natural ang ginagawa nya. Hindi kayo komportable pag may nakikita kayong nanay na nagpapasuso? Pero pag nanonood kayo ng porno tutok n tutok kayo? Yan dapat ang mabago.
ReplyDeleteGalit na galit kayo or inis na inis sa mga nagpapadedeng nanay, pero yung mga nakikita niyong babae sa tv, kalsada o magazine man na halos kita na ang kaluluwa, wala kayong nasasabi, baka nga gustong gusto niyo pa. Samantalang ang mga nagpapasuso, nagagalit kayo. Sasabihin niyong magcover? E kung habang kumakain kayo takpan kaya kayo, matutuwa kayo? Kung ayaw niyong makakita ng mga nagpapasusong ina, umalis na kayo ng planeta para maghanap ng mga baby na hindi kumakain.
ReplyDeleteMay 'poncho' ba yun? Yun pantakip namam... iba iba tao, may pro may anti... ^_^ sabi nga ni yaya, kebs lang. Paki ba nila kung padede ka sa public... -planning to be a breastfeeding mom
ReplyDeleteDaming makikitid ng utak dito ha. If it makes you uncomfy, DON'T LOOK. Hindi maiiwasan makita ang nipple pero it's not as if we like showing out nipples off. Rest assured we really try to be as discreet as possible. It's not our fault anymore if there are pervs or puritans out there who think we display breastfeeding just for fun. Mas may paki kami sa anak namin, hindi sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteWag kase boobs tingnan niyo, yung ulo ng baby. Divert your attention somewhere else. Makakita lang ng pisngi ng boobs nagrreact na? Ang aarte niyo naman! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... Bilang babae I find a breastfeeding mom beautiful in so many ways. If I see one I'd smile at her and give a thumbs up and not shame her... I'll shame the people who will judge her. Feeling high and righteous. pwe!
ReplyDeleteYou should all know that all moms out there didn't intend to show their breast in public. Sometimes wala nang choice Lalo na kung nagwawala na Ung baby sa gutom. Or Ung mismong baby ang nagtatanggal ng cover ni mommy. Ikaw kaya kumain ng may nakatalakbong sayong tela? Matutuwa ka ba? Minsan ilagay nyo rin ang sarili nyo sa lugar ng mga mga breastfeeding mommy. Palibhasa kasi Ung iba sa inyo either mga lalaki, or mga dalaga pa na hindi pa nararanasang maging ina, or usyusero/usyusera, o talagang may bahid lang ng kahalayan ang isip.
ReplyDeleteAnd how about respecting the mom who is breastfeeding her child? Wala naman ginagawang masama ang breastfeeding moms, they are just feeding their child. And why you are having a hard time explaining to kids? Simple lang naman ang isasagot- the mom is feeding her child. Kung may malisya ang taong mag eexplain then may malisya din sa pagkakaintindi ng bata.. Breastfeeding is natural, its not a crime.
ReplyDeleteUmiiyak na baby kasi gutom na. Siempre bilang nanay uunahin ang papadede sa baby at hindi ung mga taong nasa paligid. Breastfeeding with manners!? hahaha. kaloka. You're probably not a breastfeeding mom. tsaka may cover? try mo kayang kumain may takip. naiinitan ang bata nyan!
ReplyDeleteEasy to say na takpan nlng but there are babies n ayaw ng takip. Nagiging fussy ang bata at ayaw dumide
ReplyDeleteAng aarte nyo, bakit yung mga cover ng mga men's mag na lantad buong kaluluwa di nyo pinapansin, yung pagpapakain ng bata yun yung mamasamain nyo? sana di na lang kayo pinadede ng mga nanay nyo.
ReplyDeleteI dont think breastfeeding moms intead to show off their boobies but yes it does happen specially when babies are fussy, irrate, or just being playful. These babies are not aware of the bigger environment, all they know is that they have their mom and only boobies come between them. Next time you see a breastfeeding mom just look away if you are not comfortable for no matter how careful they are, nip slips do happen. By the way, if you want to enjoy a more satiable view, look for girls in minis, tube, plunging neckline, bikinis or so.
ReplyDeletePeople who judged public breastfeeding is either a hypocrite, never breastfed, have never tried to breastfeed or never understand motherhood. Thanks! By the way proud breastfeeding mom of a healthy bouncy baby girl here!
#susoparasapagpapasuso
#breastfeedingpinays
#normalizebreastfeeding
#expandedbreastfeedingcode
Edi magadede kayo in public pero wag magagalit pag me mga lalaking nag eenjoy kc pro breastfeeding sila
ReplyDeleteWITH OR WITHOUT COVER, IT DOESN'T MATTER. WHAT'S IMPORTANT IS THE MOTHER IS BREASTFEEDING. IT'S THE MOTHER'S CHOICE TO COVER OR NOT, IT SHOULD NOT BE IMPOSED BY ANYONE ELSE.
ReplyDeleteBREASTS ARE MADE BY OUR CREATOR TO NOURISH OUR CHILDREN. LONG BEFORE FORMULA AND BOTTLES WERE INVENTED. ONLY THEN, THAT THE BREASTS ARE SEXUALIZED IN THE EYES OF SOCIETY.
IT'S NOT HARD TO COVER. QUESTION IS, IS IT HARD TO LOOK AWAY? :)
Yung may mga non sense na comment dito hindi nila alam ang feeling ng isang breastfeeding mom! And also dapat try to put your own self sa situation, even you im sure you're not comfortable eating with mask or cover so ganon din ibang babies. They will not adjust easily to the environment and they don't even care..pag gutom sila gutom talaga kaya kung ayaw mo makakita ng isang butihing ina na nagpapakain ng kanyang minamahal na anak please try to look away baka masiyahan kapa kung model na topless makita mo sa tarpaulin or cover ng magazine! Make sense right?? Yung ulirang nanay na nagpapadede sa public agad agad hinuhusgahan.. eh sa totoo lang wala naman dapat malisya yan or hindi naman nkakadiri yan. Yan ba ituturo naten sa next generation to be disgusted to a woman who will breastfeed her child??!! What an empty brain you have. You don't have neurons baka gusto mong pastimulate brain cells mo para makapag isip ka ng mabuti.
ReplyDeleteQuestion. How about pumping out the milk bago lumabas ng bahay, ilagay sa bottle, pwede ba yun? Para kung umiyak man, you can feed the baby without having to expose yourself. I know the point of the post ok? nothing wrong with public breastfeeding. Question/suggestion lang. Please wag kayo magalit skn. LOL.
ReplyDeleteSome babies don't take to the bottle. They prefer the mother's breast. Minsan ang dami mo ng natry na bottle, and mamahal pa naman, pero ayaw talaga ng bata. So it really depends on the baby. Swerte if they will take both breast and bottle. Unfortunately, some don't.
DeleteTrivia lang for those na wala talagang idea, pumping 4oz of milk will take at least 20-45 mins. That is just a small amount. And that breastmilk can last for 4 hours only (normal room temp). So kung magmamall kami, makatarungan bang mag-pump pa ako ng 3 bote para may baunin kami in case magutom ang anak ko? Dapat magdala pa ako ng isang thermal bag, para tumagal pa yung ibang baon na gatas - all of these dapat gawin para lang "hindi nakakahiya" sa makakakita.
DeleteOk then. Thank you for the information. Actually wala din talaga akong idea, that is why i asked.
Delete-ako si 5:56
My baby is 9mos. Still breastfeeding even at the public. I dont cover my boobs with a cloth because my son isnt comfortable. Paki ko sa ibang tao!!
ReplyDeleteThese people need to realize the rootcause of their disgust or shame in public breastfeeding.
ReplyDeleteFirst, all of us can turn our heads and eyes away from the breastfeeding mother. We are not invited to stare. Second, our hunger is uncontrollable especially for babies, as adult we can put up with not eating but not babies, so as a mother she will feed her baby any time the baby needs it. Third, there's not a lot of facilities that have breastfeeding room. Fourth, there is nothing wrong with it since the purpose of the eventual display of breast is for the baby and not for us. Fifth, ask yourself, do you think those mothers intends to have a public display of their breasts? Don't you think that feeding their babies is what makes them do it? Do you think that they don't have any sense of decency or sense of hiya?
Like what the F.. All mammals have breasts for feeding offspring. Like, yung mga nagsasabing masagwa toh thats because you watch too much porn and you all got twisted minds. Thats just a boob. Like a dog feeding their puppies, cats feeding their kittens, humans feeding their babies. SIMPLE! Just dont look kung twisted utak mo. Society today nga naman..
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