Well, it's really much more about the first time. Marriage kasi is yung merong guy that would take care of you pag nabuntis ka unlike yung mga nabuntis o binuntis Lang eh iniwan Lang yung RESPONSIBILIDAD nila and yung babae ang magshoshoulder ng lahat! It happens sa mga naghihiwalay na db! Sa mga lalaking bumubuntis Lang darating ang araw na kakain nlng kayo ng isang beses isang araw para Lang sustentuhan mga naging anak niyo or mamatay kayo sa gutom maging maayos Lang Buhay ng naging anak niyo! Hindi pwede yung iiwan niyo Lang ang babae at mag-isang magpapalaki ng bata!!! Lahat ng Meron syong material na bagay kukunin dahil imbis na nagFap ka na Lang eh bumuo ka pa ng bata gamit mga PAKILIG!!!!!
Ako agree naman ako sa sinasabi nya, pero its a personal choice. Pero hndi naman inig sbhin hndi kana virgin, masama ka ng babae.. Yeah its a greatest gift na pwde mo bigay sa asawa mo. Pero hndi naman ibig sbhin porke virgin ka pinakasalan, hindi na kayo maghihiwalay.
Daming kuda! Di naman ibig sabihin if u do it before marriage eh binababoy mona katawan mo. Dont tell me oli, walang nangyare sa inyo ni contis noon? Lalo na yung out of the countries nyo na byahe? Wag magmalinis please. Kinasal ka lang kaya ka mayabang
What if she regretted Kung naKonquest nga siya ni Contis kaya siya nagpost ng ganyan for others to take time and think and give in when the right time comes...Coz it would feel more worth it.
Hindi lahat ng babae katulad nyo. Remember kaya nagbreak si Paolo at Isabel ay dahil di mabigay ni Isabel ang bataan niya haha. Hindi porket nagawa nyo yan ng bf nyo, lahat ng babae ganun na. Tse!
@2:33 am, nandoon ka ba sa kwarto nila noong nag out of town trips silang dalawa lang? Parang alam na alam mong lahat, dali mong maniwala na santa santita siya.
maraming hypocrite sa mundo.hahaha..what is wrong about doing it is when you do it and then you regret it..if you do it, you must take responsibility for it.
Agree with 2:33am. Mahirap malagpasan ang temptation, pero kaya siyang gawin kung gusto talaga. So don't accuse other people of being hypocrite and liar just because natamaan kayo sa pinost niya.
Wow, di ko magets, bakit ang daming nega comment. Totoo naman sinabi nya, nasa bible yan. Nasa inyo na kung ayaw nyong sumunod. Kagulat ha, sa mga nagagalit at ngtatawag ng hypocrite. Mukhang madami na pala ang nagsuko ng Bataan. Parang candy pala na binigay lng ngayon to. Kaya naman pla ang taas na ng mga Hpositive, casual na lng pala ito. Check nyo statistics ng positive para maging aware kayo, baka matamaan kayo nun, mahal ang gamot dyan. Kung herpes nama makuha nyo, forever na yun sa katawan nyo, nagiging dormant or inactive lng temporarily.
Kahit naman ako, na hindi naghintay, hindi ko masabing mali at feeling tong si Isabel. May point siya. Now that Im married with kids minsan iniisip ko sana naghintay na lang ako
pareho tayo teh, hindi issue sa asawa ko pero mismong sarili ko nagsasabi na sana naghintay ako ng tamang lalake at panahon. pero ngyari na, sinuklian ko na lang ng love at pagaasikaso ang asawa ko total deserve nya dahil napakabait ng napangasawa ko.
12:37 PM May tamang panahon din para sayo :) I lost mine when I was 19. I felt guilty but I never regretted it, Why I'd be eh ginawa ko, desisyon ko yun eh. And then we broke up, but I still not regret it. Until someone came. I admit, natakot ako nung una kasi naisip ko what if di nya ako tanggapin kc hnd na xa ang first ko, And then I was wrong, were still together until now and in the process of getting married na. Sa mga nalost at nagsisisi, i think they just have to be wiser next time. Hindi tau matututo if hnd tau magkakamali, we just need to learn how to accept everything and deal with it in the best positive way we can. :))
ndi nman sya nagpapaka righteous.. kun di man sya V ng magpakasal she's trying to send a message lang na it's worth the wait. ika nga kun nadapa ka noon di ka pa nahahanap ni God ndi nman ibig sabihin u have to stay the same forever, at dahil alam mong mali pwede mo na sya honor by not doing it anymore..
Ateng 2:18 wag masydo personal, sinasabi lang ni 1:42 base dun sa nakikita nya. Like for example si toni and direct paul, wala silang out of town na sila lang 2, kasi mas malapit nga sa temptation. Pero kung ipagpipilitan mo na hndi porke magkasama sila sa out of town, may ngyayari na, cge na maniniwala na kmi, baka P.A k ni isabel na ksma nila..
I agree! I have teenager kids, iba na panahon ngayon. Kakatakot, society are getting liberated. Hard to control if environment around has been changing fast esp morality.
Correct, kaya sana may magturo ng magagandang values sa school. Kahit papaano un kalyeserye nakakatulong pero ibang usapan na kapag babad or nauubos na ang oras mo sa kalyeserye.
Nagsama sama kayong mga madaling iligaw na mga tupa! Hindi niyo man lang binigyan mga sarili niyo ng chance na maintindihan yung post, sunod nlng sa mga comments at comment nlng! Mag-ingat kayo!
Kanina pa nyang pinagpipilitan na nabutas na ni Paolo. Hindi kaya ikaw ang nabutas ni Paolo pati ilong mo? Napapaghalata ka na eh, Paulit ulit, double S ba naman ang gawin mo sa surname ni paolo. Obvious na ikaw din un ngcocomment sa taas.
True ako din, bf ko for 7years d ko sinuko, pro sa asawa ko 2years lang suko na, buntis pa agad buti n lng d ako tinakbuhan. Pro naisip ko din sana naghintay ako after ng kasal cguro mas nakakaProud. Though mejo ok nmn kc asawa ko nmn ang una.
Wow! Praise God! Yes mga anak ko laking America but they value purity and the meaning of first. They understand that sex is a gift of God to mankind for His glory. Lessons to be learn not all American kids are like in Hollywood, there are a lot of kids here in US understand the important of marriage and purity..
Seeeee!!! Halos lahat ng commenters may pagsisisi about virginity. And yes, I am also one of those who lost my vcard. Kokonti na lang talaga ang nagiintay ngayon. Achievement yan sa ibang patient!
tama. mas maayos ang westerners. di pakawala. iba ang impression natin sa kanila kasi pero ang totoo, mas sige lang nang sige tayo kaysa kanilang westerners. based on my observation lang on both cultures.
I think young girls nowadays needs this message kasi puro nalang halikan at harutan ang makikita natin sa tv and social media. In terms of waiting to have sex before marriage I don't really agree. I think what matters is you are ready emotionally, you really love that person and you want to do it with him then nothing is wrong with that too huwag lang kung kani kanino. I am lucky though kasi the boyfriend i did my first time with is the same guy i am happily married sex should be about love not lust.
Same here mga baks! After 5years tska kami kinasal and now we have two kids. Para sakin it's really not about sa kung cno ang nauna but kung mahal mo tlaga at binigay mo wholeheartedly kasi alam mong ready kana.
Pano Kung ibinigay mo ang Bataan mo sa Jowa mo kaso after nun itinapon ka na. Tpos jowa na nman na bago tpos sex na nman and the cycle continues. Eh di papalit palit ka na nun.ang sagwa d b.
@4:21 if you really value yourself then you won't just have sex kaagad sa boyfriend mo. You would wait until you know your love for each other is real and you've been together for a long time. kasi tama ka if sex kaagad tapos break tapos bagong bf then sex na naman ewwww lang.
Sabi nga nya hindi niya opinion yun galing un sa bible bakit hindi mo naintindihan? Wala akong pakialam sa trip mo pero sa reading compre mo meron maka kuda kasi
I agree with Isabel. Sana I waited before doing it. To all women out there, if the guy truly loves you, he'll wait for it & respect your decision. Make Sarah G, Nikki Gil, & others who abstain from sex your role models. Nasa huli ang pagsisi. Learn from those who committed premarital sex.
Duh! at naniwala ka naman na mga V pa yan mga nabanggit mo, si sarah pwede pa.haha..you know, you're not with them all the time so you can never tell.."learn from those who committed premarital sex"..laments of the bigo and nagsisisi..i think what we should put in mind is to take responsibility if we would decide to do it..
Kung nasuko nyo na Bataan nyo, labas na kami dyan. Choice nyo yan eh pero un mamintang pa kayo na di na rin V un iba, mali na un. Wag kayong mandamay. Lahat naman ngkakamali pero kasamaan na ng ugali, un di ka na nga nagsisisi, namimintang at nandadamay ka pa.
Kaya sila nagbreak ni Paolo kasi ayaw nya igive up virginity nya, at si Lian willing na willing naman. Tuloy, sa hiwalayan din natuloy ang relasyon nila.
Before naman nauso ang religion nagpapakarami na ang mga tao. So whether you do it or not is your choice, walang sino pang pwede magdikta even religion. Remember, ung mga tao na gumawa ng bible at came up with Catholicism are the ones who colonized countries and caused millions in deaths sa mga ninuno natin. Sex should be about respect for your body, hindi dahil sabi ng religion mo.
Wala naman xang sinabi about sa religion nya. Binase nya sa bible. At yun pinaniwalaan nya. Ikaw nmn masyado ka affected. Kung un gawain mo wala nmn nagjudge sa u. Gawin mo ano feel mo dear.
Religion does not dictate but faith does..God does! You are right of it being a choice since God gives us the free will. You are wrong in devaluing the bible being made by "people". Yes the bible is written by people. Moses wrote the first 5 gospels in the old testament and he personally heard God, even the ten commandments were spoken directly to him. You cannot discount the validity of the events of what was written in the entire bible because of the "chronicles of the red sea" discovered in 1948 dated in the first century by the ancient people and guess what?! All the writings in the bible is exactly the same writing to the bible we have now which is based on the book copied in 1008 AD. Really amazing!
Wag isuko ang Bataan kung di pa kayo pinapakasalan. Di porket maraming ang naeengage sa Pre-marital sex eh makikiuso na kayo. Maawa naman kayo sa magiging mga anak niyo, either lumaki siyang di kumpleto yung pamilya niya or yung magulang niya di mabibigay yung mga needs niya if teenage pregnancy kinahantungan nung nanay niya. But still, the choice is in our hands, kaya nga may freewill diba? But use it wisely sana
Men like marrying virgins so they can convince them they are the best in bed. Walang basis of comparison e. Pero sila hindi virgin. What does that make these men?
Eto, virgin pa ako and I'm promising to stay one til marriage but the question is kaya ba ng magiging boyfriend ko maghintay? Baka naman maging matandang dalaga lang ako. :(
She had a point. Yung sex today parang naging part na ng buhay ng mga tao esp kabataan. But i dont agree with the Marraige before Sex thing. "Sex is okay just as long as you will do it with an open mind-know the consequences of your action and give your self to someone you know you can trust and who will stay with you kung sakali mang may maging bunga ang lahat, sex is wonderful if you do it with someone you love". Like I.E : What if you doesn't want to be or to get married? Eh di namatay kang virgin? At hindi porket ginagawa mo ang bagay na yun ay binababoy mo na ang katawan at pagkatao mo. You're merely giving your self a satisfaction and pleasure. Wag ka nga lang magrirape or magbenta ng sarili kasi un ang talaga ang tinatawag na pangbababoy ng katawan, LOL. Just saying.
I agree that we should respect our body but no one has the right to dictate us whether to do it or not before marriage. It doesnt mean na because you do it na before marriage eh wala kang respeto sa body mo..
YOUR body, YOUR consent, YOUR choice. No religion, man and any other person has the right to dictate what you should do with it, and how you should treat it. Unless you're a minor and it involves drugs and anything illegal of course.
how can you even speak from the viewpoint of God? did you hear Him say that? why would you condone people who do it? No, you're wrong to say that sex isn't something that you can readily give and offer because we can if we want to. Why would you tell people what they want to do?
i believe in God. i go & serve. but I would never rub it on people's skin that their life choices are wrong. i cannot judge them. no one should
Like.! If you're a virgin, congratulations. If you're not, well, then its okay. Its your life, just as long as hindi ka nakakatapak ng ibang tao who cares if your a virgin or not? We should not judge others just because they do not follow what the bible says. AnonymousOctober 9, 2015 at 11:03 AM has a point. God didn't condone us for all the wrong we did, instead he forgives us, we only have to know how to ask forgiveness. If he forgives us then who are we to judge? Ito yung aral na dapat nating inaapply sa buhay natin. No one has the right to judge us, we are living only for ourselves and for those we love. Not for those who gossip and trying to ruin us.
Yung feeling religious ang gumawa ng insulto, un spiritual po hindi. Kahit saang relihiyon may feeling holy. Ang mahalaga po aware of nagpadala ka, humingi ka ng tawad at namgakong hindi na uulit. Kesa sa mga taong walang remorse. Si JC pinatawad si Magda at sinabing wag ng magkasala muli.
There's nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as it's not sex but making love. For me ok lang yan if the couple who did it are both adults and they're both ready if the woman gets pregnant ( if they choose not to use protection). Para sa akin ang mali lang is yun promiscuity. Yun Palit ng Palit lang ng partner at kung sino sino lang. A lot of marriages break down because the couple isn't sexually compatible. Mabuti pa bago mag till death do us part malaman muna kung jive doon sa bed. Napaka backward and misogynistic nung thinking na a woman's worth is tied to her virginity.
I think that it's important to do "it" when you're ready. Me, I did it when I was 22. I was emotionally ready then, and I trust the person I did it with. It was a bit awkward, but it was also fun. I was comfortable doing it with him because I know that he respects me.
@4:10 that is so wrong. A lot of guys have sex with thier gf's and ends up marrying them. The only time I'd say a guy disrespects his girl is if he forces her to have sex when she doesn't want to but if they both genuinely agree to do it what is wrong with that?
Isabel has a point but to each his/her own. Basta ko go lang, katawan ko to. Ang akin lang, wag sa may girlfriend, wag sa may asawa. As long as the sex is consensual, as long as both parties are single or kung boyfriend mo naman, it's your body. If she kept her virginity, good for her that she was able to do so until she got married. Eh sa hindi kasi ganyan ang pananaw ng iba, Isabel. At hindi porke iba ang pananaw mo sa ibang tao, ikaw na yung mas mabuti. Wag tayong maghusgahan sa kung sino yung dalisay sa hindi. Hindi dun nasusukat ang pagiging mabuti ng isang tao.
Wala naman cguro sa issue ng virginity yan cguro, more on sa reason mo ng pakikipag sex. Pano ako? Gustuhin ko man na mag antay sa tamang lalaki, pero hnde na ko virgin kasi i was raped nung bata ako. Hnde ko gusto yung nangyari at yung sex mismo. Kaya iniisip ko nalang na next time, hnde ako makikipag sex kung hndi makikipag "make love" ako.
being a virgin is a good thing for those who believe..ako kasi 16 pa lng d na..pinagisisisihan ko slight yung guy, pero yung act hindi naman..haahah...also, it's good to know beforehand kung compatible kyo sexually e...
Isabel is simply sharing her belief. As a Christian, sinusunod niya yung bible, yung Word of God. Para sa mga namimilosopo dyan at magtatanong kung narinig ba mismo ni Isabel yun from God, oo, kasi yun yung nasa bible na iniawan niya para saten.
Sa mga nagsasabing I believe God, I serve God, pero katawan ko to at desisyon ko to. Just ask yourself first: do you honor God by what you are doing? Read the bible first please. If you really do believe in Him and want to serve Him, read and obey His word. Malalaman ba nating lahat na nag exist si God if he did not leave His word with us?
Until you can prove that The Bible has never been retracted, then you can tell me every word of God is in there. How sure are you na hindi yun EVER nabago, walang tinanggal, walang dinagdag, etc. Because I don't believe God will never forgive the gay people and the non-virgins. It's ridiculous.
We respect Isabels decision in staying virgin until marriage. However, that doesn't mean that she has the right to speak in behalf of all the non virgins. If this isn't an act of condoning those who do sex before marraige? Then what kind of act is this? She just want to set an example for all the ladies out there. Then fine.
And as far as I am concern, lahat ng kasalanan ng tao, nasa 10 commandments, and Sex without marraige is not included among the 10. You shouldn't judge us just because we didn't follow your beliefs and values. We Pray, We love, We're a good children to our parents, We follow rules, We go to church on sundays, smile at other people, extend hand when someones in need, does this not enough to call our selves children of God? Does this not enough to call our selves a server of God? Tell us where not good enough or not deserving enough to be God's follower/server/children kung kasing linis mo ang isang blank sheet of paper.
Wag kayong mangaral dahil hindi kayo Pari. At wag nyong gamitin ang bibliya para maipakita nyo ang kalinisan ng mga pagkatao nyo. Wag tayong epokrito.
True naman ito, medyo nasunog ako. ouch!
ReplyDeleteKaya siya pinakasalan coz she was a virgin....unlike the others na naKonquest na!
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Delete1.01 virgin sya bago pakasalan ni John Prats? yeah right and pigs do fly ha ha ha
DeleteWell, it's really much more about the first time. Marriage kasi is yung merong guy that would take care of you pag nabuntis ka unlike yung mga nabuntis o binuntis Lang eh iniwan Lang yung RESPONSIBILIDAD nila and yung babae ang magshoshoulder ng lahat! It happens sa mga naghihiwalay na db! Sa mga lalaking bumubuntis Lang darating ang araw na kakain nlng kayo ng isang beses isang araw para Lang sustentuhan mga naging anak niyo or mamatay kayo sa gutom maging maayos Lang Buhay ng naging anak niyo! Hindi pwede yung iiwan niyo Lang ang babae at mag-isang magpapalaki ng bata!!! Lahat ng Meron syong material na bagay kukunin dahil imbis na nagFap ka na Lang eh bumuo ka pa ng bata gamit mga PAKILIG!!!!!
DeleteVirgin siguro sa ilong....hahahaha... lokohin mong asawa mong pandak!!!
Delete2:53 Ang harsh ng hirit mo grabe. Masamang tao ka siguro sa personal.
Delete+++ virgin? so no touch si paolo contis noon? anoveh??
DeleteTomo! kahit si Toni, i don't believe na V pa sya.hahaha
DeleteWELL, NOT ALL PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD ARE CATHOLICS/CHRISTIANS. THERE ARE ATHEISTS, AGNOSTICS. THEY HAVE THEIR OWN RULES TO FOLLOW.
DeleteAko agree naman ako sa sinasabi nya, pero its a personal choice. Pero hndi naman inig sbhin hndi kana virgin, masama ka ng babae.. Yeah its a greatest gift na pwde mo bigay sa asawa mo. Pero hndi naman ibig sbhin porke virgin ka pinakasalan, hindi na kayo maghihiwalay.
DeleteDaming nabutthurt. Bakit? Di kayo makapaniwala na hindi sya maL? Nakakainggit ba dahil matindi ang faith nya at malaki respect nya sa sarili nya?
Delete3:45 Don't let a piece of skin define who you are. Hindi dahil sinuko ang virginity before marriage, wala ng respeto sa sarili.
DeleteBakit hirap na hirap yung iba makapaniwala that some people are capable of abstaining from sex before marriage??
Delete11:12 u R ryt... !
Deletebeing an Atheist? well, mahirap nyong sundan ang palatuntunan namin....
2:02 It's not for everyone but don't diminish virginity as just being a piece of flesh. It's about values.
DeleteBakit V ba si hubby mo nung napangasawa mo?
ReplyDeleteAs if hindi mo chinorva si paolo contis ano dadahilan mo di ka pa christian noon! hay naku sige na nga people change!
ReplyDeletekorak ateng. marami ding naging jowa yan bago si pratts
DeleteDaming kuda! Di naman ibig sabihin if u do it before marriage eh binababoy mona katawan mo. Dont tell me oli, walang nangyare sa inyo ni contis noon? Lalo na yung out of the countries nyo na byahe? Wag magmalinis please. Kinasal ka lang kaya ka mayabang
ReplyDeletehypocrite and liar siya. Baka nag jack and stone lang sila ni Paolo Contiss during their out of town trips. Lokohin mo ang asawa mong pandak.
DeleteWhat if she regretted Kung naKonquest nga siya ni Contis kaya siya nagpost ng ganyan for others to take time and think and give in when the right time comes...Coz it would feel more worth it.
DeleteHindi lahat ng babae katulad nyo. Remember kaya nagbreak si Paolo at Isabel ay dahil di mabigay ni Isabel ang bataan niya haha. Hindi porket nagawa nyo yan ng bf nyo, lahat ng babae ganun na. Tse!
Deletei agree 😉
Deleteisabel tulog ka na ikaw nga ang buntis
Delete@2:33 am, nandoon ka ba sa kwarto nila noong nag out of town trips silang dalawa lang? Parang alam na alam mong lahat, dali mong maniwala na santa santita siya.
Deletemaraming hypocrite sa mundo.hahaha..what is wrong about doing it is when you do it and then you regret it..if you do it, you must take responsibility for it.
Delete@1225 sa mga katulad mo talaga ung post ni isabel. wag masyado maoffend kung totoo
DeleteAgree with 2:33am. Mahirap malagpasan ang temptation, pero kaya siyang gawin kung gusto talaga. So don't accuse other people of being hypocrite and liar just because natamaan kayo sa pinost niya.
DeleteWow, di ko magets, bakit ang daming nega comment. Totoo naman sinabi nya, nasa bible yan. Nasa inyo na kung ayaw nyong sumunod. Kagulat ha, sa mga nagagalit at ngtatawag ng hypocrite. Mukhang madami na pala ang nagsuko ng Bataan. Parang candy pala na binigay lng ngayon to. Kaya naman pla ang taas na ng mga Hpositive, casual na lng pala ito. Check nyo statistics ng positive para maging aware kayo, baka matamaan kayo nun, mahal ang gamot dyan. Kung herpes nama makuha nyo, forever na yun sa katawan nyo, nagiging dormant or inactive lng temporarily.
DeleteLakas manlait ni 1:41, bakit kaya?
DeleteKahit naman ako, na hindi naghintay, hindi ko masabing mali at feeling tong si Isabel. May point siya. Now that Im married with kids minsan iniisip ko sana naghintay na lang ako
ReplyDeletePak!
Deletepak na pak.
DeleteAko naghintay kya d ako nagsisisi. Hahaha. Sarap kya baks pag first and hopefully last.
DeleteCorrect..
DeleteOkay lng un, at least aware ka na nagkamali ka kesa maging defensive ka mali naman ang reasoning.
Deletewoh, best comment 12:37, napacomment pa tuloy ako for the first time.
Deletepareho tayo teh, hindi issue sa asawa ko pero mismong sarili ko nagsasabi na sana naghintay ako ng tamang lalake at panahon. pero ngyari na, sinuklian ko na lang ng love at pagaasikaso ang asawa ko total deserve nya dahil napakabait ng napangasawa ko.
DeleteI am happy for you 5:01 at sa lahat ng nakatagpo na ng lalaking para sa kanila. Ako hanggang ngayon, laging naiinlove sa "maling guy". :(
Delete12:37 PM May tamang panahon din para sayo :) I lost mine when I was 19. I felt guilty but I never regretted it, Why I'd be eh ginawa ko, desisyon ko yun eh. And then we broke up, but I still not regret it. Until someone came. I admit, natakot ako nung una kasi naisip ko what if di nya ako tanggapin kc hnd na xa ang first ko, And then I was wrong, were still together until now and in the process of getting married na. Sa mga nalost at nagsisisi, i think they just have to be wiser next time. Hindi tau matututo if hnd tau magkakamali, we just need to learn how to accept everything and deal with it in the best positive way we can. :))
DeleteIkaw na righteous!
ReplyDeletendi nman sya nagpapaka righteous.. kun di man sya V ng magpakasal she's trying to send a message lang na it's worth the wait. ika nga kun nadapa ka noon di ka pa nahahanap ni God ndi nman ibig sabihin u have to stay the same forever, at dahil alam mong mali pwede mo na sya honor by not doing it anymore..
DeleteReally v sya nung nakuha ni john?!? How sad naman na bite size lang naexperience nia
ReplyDelete- woman of the world
sino naman maniniwala ng walang nangyari sa kanila ni Paolo Contiss during their out of the country trips?
DeleteNot all girls are like you na mala Miley and porn levels ang Gustong notations!
DeleteKaya nga pinakasalan ni John para walang point of comparison!
DeleteAteng 2:18 wag masydo personal, sinasabi lang ni 1:42 base dun sa nakikita nya. Like for example si toni and direct paul, wala silang out of town na sila lang 2, kasi mas malapit nga sa temptation. Pero kung ipagpipilitan mo na hndi porke magkasama sila sa out of town, may ngyayari na, cge na maniniwala na kmi, baka P.A k ni isabel na ksma nila..
DeleteBat di nyo nang tanungin si Paolo para hindi kayo nag-aaway.
DeleteI agree! I have teenager kids, iba na panahon ngayon. Kakatakot, society are getting liberated. Hard to control if environment around has been changing fast esp morality.
ReplyDeletekorek.
DeleteCorrect, kaya sana may magturo ng magagandang values sa school. Kahit papaano un kalyeserye nakakatulong pero ibang usapan na kapag babad or nauubos na ang oras mo sa kalyeserye.
DeleteTotoo naman ito! Pinangako ko to sa sarili ko na kpoag nagkaasawa na ako dun ko na iexperience ang mga ganyan bagay, kaso di ko natupad.
ReplyDeleteLike kung di nyo tinapos basahin.
ReplyDeletesan ako mag la like? pro cge na nga..sakay na lng..LIKE! ^.^
Deletehahahahaha. thank you sa like. :)
DeleteAko rin... Like!!! Ahahhaha mas binasa ko pa comments kesa sa super habang litanya.
DeleteLike... Thumbs up ...
DeleteLike! Haba eh.
DeleteLIKE! kapagod basahin neng..
DeleteBasahin nyong mabuti, hindi pa naman yang litanya like kay tita mega
DeleteNagsama sama kayong mga madaling iligaw na mga tupa! Hindi niyo man lang binigyan mga sarili niyo ng chance na maintindihan yung post, sunod nlng sa mga comments at comment nlng! Mag-ingat kayo!
DeleteIke the tone of her post. Preachy but not imposing. Thanks isabel oli!
ReplyDeleteshe should have practiced what she is preaching right now. Baka V siya sa ilong hahaha. Si Paolo Contiss pa magpapalampas? hahaha
DeleteMalay mo din kaya cla nagbreak kc ayaw nya bumigay. Kahiya nmn magpost xa ng ganyan kung nakuha n pala xa ng iba. CommonSense nmn baks.
DeleteKanina pa nyang pinagpipilitan na nabutas na ni Paolo. Hindi kaya ikaw ang nabutas ni Paolo pati ilong mo? Napapaghalata ka na eh, Paulit ulit, double S ba naman ang gawin mo sa surname ni paolo. Obvious na ikaw din un ngcocomment sa taas.
DeleteHaha, nice one 4:06.
DeleteI couldn't agree more. dumating din ako sa point na nasabi kong "sana hindi ko sinuko ang bataan" tsk!
ReplyDeleteTrue ako din, bf ko for 7years d ko sinuko, pro sa asawa ko 2years lang suko na, buntis pa agad buti n lng d ako tinakbuhan. Pro naisip ko din sana naghintay ako after ng kasal cguro mas nakakaProud. Though mejo ok nmn kc asawa ko nmn ang una.
DeleteGood for you, mabuting ang asawa mo at hindi ka iniwan.
DeleteWow! Praise God! Yes mga anak ko laking America but they value purity and the meaning of first. They understand that sex is a gift of God to mankind for His glory. Lessons to be learn not all American kids are like in Hollywood, there are a lot of kids here in US understand the important of marriage and purity..
ReplyDeleteSure ka teh?
DeleteHow sure are you? I don't think your children will be opening up to you about their sex lives. C'mon be real. I also grew up in the states.
DeleteWow, nice to know that.
DeleteTrue!!!
ReplyDeleteSeeeee!!! Halos lahat ng commenters may pagsisisi about virginity. And yes, I am also one of those who lost my vcard. Kokonti na lang talaga ang nagiintay ngayon. Achievement yan sa ibang patient!
ReplyDeleteAgree ako sa kanya. Nakakalungkot talaga na masyado nang westernized ang values ng mga filipino.
ReplyDeleteWrong. westerners are aware and responsible with their acts.Filipino in effect have wrong interpretation of being a Westerner and Liberated.
Deletetama. mas maayos ang westerners. di pakawala. iba ang impression natin sa kanila kasi pero ang totoo, mas sige lang nang sige tayo kaysa kanilang westerners. based on my observation lang on both cultures.
Deletetrue..we just have to be responsible for what we're doing..
DeleteI think young girls nowadays needs this message kasi puro nalang halikan at harutan ang makikita natin sa tv and social media. In terms of waiting to have sex before marriage I don't really agree. I think what matters is you are ready emotionally, you really love that person and you want to do it with him then nothing is wrong with that too huwag lang kung kani kanino. I am lucky though kasi the boyfriend i did my first time with is the same guy i am happily married sex should be about love not lust.
ReplyDeleteSame here. Had my first time with the person I ended up marrying.
DeleteSame here mga baks! After 5years tska kami kinasal and now we have two kids. Para sakin it's really not about sa kung cno ang nauna but kung mahal mo tlaga at binigay mo wholeheartedly kasi alam mong ready kana.
DeletePano Kung ibinigay mo ang Bataan mo sa Jowa mo kaso after nun itinapon ka na. Tpos jowa na nman na bago tpos sex na nman and the cycle continues. Eh di papalit palit ka na nun.ang sagwa d b.
Delete@4:21 if you really value yourself then you won't just have sex kaagad sa boyfriend mo. You would wait until you know your love for each other is real and you've been together for a long time. kasi tama ka if sex kaagad tapos break tapos bagong bf then sex na naman ewwww lang.
Deletewag nalang jumowa para walang continues cycle. megads
DeleteAs you said, that's your point of view. But a lot of people no longer believe in saving it for marriage. Walang basagan ng trip... at itlog!
ReplyDeleteSabi nga nya hindi niya opinion yun galing un sa bible bakit hindi mo naintindihan? Wala akong pakialam sa trip mo pero sa reading compre mo meron maka kuda kasi
DeleteOo nga, girl. Sabi nya hindi nya POV un, mismong nasa bible un, nabanggit pa nga sa ng verses galing sa Corinthians and Galatians.
DeleteSa mga kabataan ngayon, para sa inyo ang message na to. Tama lang na isuko nyo ang bataan after marriage na.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Isabel. Sana I waited before doing it. To all women out there, if the guy truly loves you, he'll wait for it & respect your decision. Make Sarah G, Nikki Gil, & others who abstain from sex your role models. Nasa huli ang pagsisi. Learn from those who committed premarital sex.
ReplyDeletete huwag ka kukumpiyansa kay Sarah G.. si Nikki Gil naniniwala ako ahahahahaha
DeleteDuh! at naniwala ka naman na mga V pa yan mga nabanggit mo, si sarah pwede pa.haha..you know, you're not with them all the time so you can never tell.."learn from those who committed premarital sex"..laments of the bigo and nagsisisi..i think what we should put in mind is to take responsibility if we would decide to do it..
DeleteKung nasuko nyo na Bataan nyo, labas na kami dyan. Choice nyo yan eh pero un mamintang pa kayo na di na rin V un iba, mali na un. Wag kayong mandamay. Lahat naman ngkakamali pero kasamaan na ng ugali, un di ka na nga nagsisisi, namimintang at nandadamay ka pa.
DeleteI beg to differ.as long as i an sexy and my bf is losing weight, go for the gold!
Delete- coleen
Shut up with your holier than thou christian attitude Isabel. No one cares.
ReplyDelete@2:53 isa na namang atheist nagkakalat dito! Tsupi!
DeleteExcuse me? I CARE. #Burn Go Isabel!
DeleteYet lo and behold, you are here commenting! Hahahahaha.
DeleteHahaha, 2:53 unbelievable ugali mo.
DeleteKaya sila nagbreak ni Paolo kasi ayaw nya igive up virginity nya, at si Lian willing na willing naman. Tuloy, sa hiwalayan din natuloy ang relasyon nila.
ReplyDeletedali mong mauto. kaya pala sama siya ng sama sa out of town trips na silang dalawa lang. Anong ginagawa nila dun, maglaro ng sungka? bwahahaha
DeleteLust not love kaya ganon cguro.
DeleteBefore naman nauso ang religion nagpapakarami na ang mga tao. So whether you do it or not is your choice, walang sino pang pwede magdikta even religion. Remember, ung mga tao na gumawa ng bible at came up with Catholicism are the ones who colonized countries and caused millions in deaths sa mga ninuno natin. Sex should be about respect for your body, hindi dahil sabi ng religion mo.
ReplyDeleteNatumbok mo 3:09
DeleteWala naman xang sinabi about sa religion nya. Binase nya sa bible. At yun pinaniwalaan nya. Ikaw nmn masyado ka affected. Kung un gawain mo wala nmn nagjudge sa u. Gawin mo ano feel mo dear.
Deletehindi po yan dahil sabi ng religion, kundi yan po ang sabi ng Bibliya.
DeleteReligion does not dictate but faith does..God does! You are right of it being a choice since God gives us the free will. You are wrong in devaluing the bible being made by "people". Yes the bible is written by people. Moses wrote the first 5 gospels in the old testament and he personally heard God, even the ten commandments were spoken directly to him. You cannot discount the validity of the events of what was written in the entire bible because of the "chronicles of the red sea" discovered in 1948 dated in the first century by the ancient people and guess what?! All the writings in the bible is exactly the same writing to the bible we have now which is based on the book copied in 1008 AD. Really amazing!
DeleteWag isuko ang Bataan kung di pa kayo pinapakasalan. Di porket maraming ang naeengage sa Pre-marital sex eh makikiuso na kayo. Maawa naman kayo sa magiging mga anak niyo, either lumaki siyang di kumpleto yung pamilya niya or yung magulang niya di mabibigay yung mga needs niya if teenage pregnancy kinahantungan nung nanay niya. But still, the choice is in our hands, kaya nga may freewill diba? But use it wisely sana
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteKung d ka na virgin b4 kinasal, d ka na pupunta sa heaven?
ReplyDeleteMen like marrying virgins so they can convince them they are the best in bed. Walang basis of comparison e. Pero sila hindi virgin. What does that make these men?
ReplyDeletevery true dear!!!
DeleteSad truth.
DeleteEto, virgin pa ako and I'm promising to stay one til marriage but the question is kaya ba ng magiging boyfriend ko maghintay? Baka naman maging matandang dalaga lang ako. :(
12:57 AM, if he really loves you, he'll wait till you're ready :)) if not. eh di sorry xa, hnd xa naghintay eh. :))
DeleteWhat is wrong with sex? It's a beautiful act.. just dont do it with a married or a committed partner! And practice safe sex!
ReplyDeleteYou got it!
DeleteShe had a point. Yung sex today parang naging part na ng buhay ng mga tao esp kabataan. But i dont agree with the Marraige before Sex thing. "Sex is okay just as long as you will do it with an open mind-know the consequences of your action and give your self to someone you know you can trust and who will stay with you kung sakali mang may maging bunga ang lahat, sex is wonderful if you do it with someone you love". Like I.E : What if you doesn't want to be or to get married? Eh di namatay kang virgin? At hindi porket ginagawa mo ang bagay na yun ay binababoy mo na ang katawan at pagkatao mo. You're merely giving your self a satisfaction and pleasure. Wag ka nga lang magrirape or magbenta ng sarili kasi un ang talaga ang tinatawag na pangbababoy ng katawan, LOL. Just saying.
ReplyDeleteI agree that we should respect our body but no one has the right to dictate us whether to do it or not before marriage. It doesnt mean na because you do it na before marriage eh wala kang respeto sa body mo..
ReplyDeleteYOUR body, YOUR consent, YOUR choice. No religion, man and any other person has the right to dictate what you should do with it, and how you should treat it. Unless you're a minor and it involves drugs and anything illegal of course.
ReplyDeletehow can you even speak from the viewpoint of God? did you hear Him say that? why would you condone people who do it? No, you're wrong to say that sex isn't something that you can readily give and offer because we can if we want to. Why would you tell people what they want to do?
ReplyDeletei believe in God. i go & serve. but I would never rub it on people's skin that their life choices are wrong. i cannot judge them. no one should
korek!!!!
DeleteUn ang nasa verses.
DeleteLike.! If you're a virgin, congratulations. If you're not, well, then its okay. Its your life, just as long as hindi ka nakakatapak ng ibang tao who cares if your a virgin or not? We should not judge others just because they do not follow what the bible says. AnonymousOctober 9, 2015 at 11:03 AM has a point. God didn't condone us for all the wrong we did, instead he forgives us, we only have to know how to ask forgiveness. If he forgives us then who are we to judge? Ito yung aral na dapat nating inaapply sa buhay natin. No one has the right to judge us, we are living only for ourselves and for those we love. Not for those who gossip and trying to ruin us.
DeleteDidn't Christians start the discrimination first? Di ba todo lait at insulto ang inabot ng mga non-virgins especially mga babae sa inyo?
ReplyDeleteOh boy, please articulate your argument. I am having hard time relating it to the original post.
Delete3:24, not my fault that you have poor comprehension skills.
DeleteYung feeling religious ang gumawa ng insulto, un spiritual po hindi. Kahit saang relihiyon may feeling holy. Ang mahalaga po aware of nagpadala ka, humingi ka ng tawad at namgakong hindi na uulit. Kesa sa mga taong walang remorse.
DeleteSi JC pinatawad si Magda at sinabing wag ng magkasala muli.
Anon 7:40, In my humble opinion you are brain dead haha
DeleteThere's nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as it's not sex but making love. For me ok lang yan if the couple who did it are both adults and they're both ready if the woman gets pregnant ( if they choose not to use protection). Para sa akin ang mali lang is yun promiscuity. Yun Palit ng Palit lang ng partner at kung sino sino lang. A lot of marriages break down because the couple isn't sexually compatible. Mabuti pa bago mag till death do us part malaman muna kung jive doon sa bed. Napaka backward and misogynistic nung thinking na a woman's worth is tied to her virginity.
ReplyDeletei wonder what's her opinion on cosmetic surgery? yes mema ako
ReplyDeleteI think that it's important to do "it" when you're ready. Me, I did it when I was 22. I was emotionally ready then, and I trust the person I did it with. It was a bit awkward, but it was also fun. I was comfortable doing it with him because I know that he respects me.
ReplyDeleteRespect you? And so you thought haha,
DeleteIf he respected you, he won't do it outside the sanctity of marriage!
Deleteeh sino naman kayo para husgahan sya. choice nya yun at walang makakapigil sa kanya! lol!
DeleteRespect cguro un kung un girl ang mapilit. Pinagbigyan ni bf.
Delete@4:10 that is so wrong. A lot of guys have sex with thier gf's and ends up marrying them. The only time I'd say a guy disrespects his girl is if he forces her to have sex when she doesn't want to but if they both genuinely agree to do it what is wrong with that?
DeleteKala ko ba templo ng Diyos ang katawan ng tao? So kung ganun pala bakit kailngan nyo yan babuyin at ipagamit kung kani-kanino!
ReplyDeletemay point naman sya pero walang naman masama kung gawin yun ng single pa may kanya kanya tayo choices sa buhay at paniniwala.
ReplyDeleteIsabel has a point but to each his/her own. Basta ko go lang, katawan ko to. Ang akin lang, wag sa may girlfriend, wag sa may asawa. As long as the sex is consensual, as long as both parties are single or kung boyfriend mo naman, it's your body. If she kept her virginity, good for her that she was able to do so until she got married. Eh sa hindi kasi ganyan ang pananaw ng iba, Isabel. At hindi porke iba ang pananaw mo sa ibang tao, ikaw na yung mas mabuti. Wag tayong maghusgahan sa kung sino yung dalisay sa hindi. Hindi dun nasusukat ang pagiging mabuti ng isang tao.
ReplyDeleteExactly hindi porket d na virgin d na mabuting babae...
DeleteWala naman cguro sa issue ng virginity yan cguro, more on sa reason mo ng pakikipag sex. Pano ako? Gustuhin ko man na mag antay sa tamang lalaki, pero hnde na ko virgin kasi i was raped nung bata ako. Hnde ko gusto yung nangyari at yung sex mismo. Kaya iniisip ko nalang na next time, hnde ako makikipag sex kung hndi makikipag "make love" ako.
ReplyDeletesorry to hear that day. hoping for your complete healing and God bless you
Deletebeing a virgin is a good thing for those who believe..ako kasi 16 pa lng d na..pinagisisisihan ko slight yung guy, pero yung act hindi naman..haahah...also, it's good to know beforehand kung compatible kyo sexually e...
ReplyDeletePag gusto may paraan. Pag ayaw ang daming daldal este dahilan...😜
ReplyDelete"Men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love."
ReplyDeleteIsabel is simply sharing her belief. As a Christian, sinusunod niya yung bible, yung Word of God. Para sa mga namimilosopo dyan at magtatanong kung narinig ba mismo ni Isabel yun from God, oo, kasi yun yung nasa bible na iniawan niya para saten.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nagsasabing I believe God, I serve God, pero katawan ko to at desisyon ko to. Just ask yourself first: do you honor God by what you are doing? Read the bible first please. If you really do believe in Him and want to serve Him, read and obey His word. Malalaman ba nating lahat na nag exist si God if he did not leave His word with us?
Until you can prove that The Bible has never been retracted, then you can tell me every word of God is in there. How sure are you na hindi yun EVER nabago, walang tinanggal, walang dinagdag, etc. Because I don't believe God will never forgive the gay people and the non-virgins. It's ridiculous.
DeleteWe respect Isabels decision in staying virgin until marriage. However, that doesn't mean that she has the right to speak in behalf of all the non virgins. If this isn't an act of condoning those who do sex before marraige? Then what kind of act is this? She just want to set an example for all the ladies out there. Then fine.
DeleteAnd as far as I am concern, lahat ng kasalanan ng tao, nasa 10 commandments, and Sex without marraige is not included among the 10. You shouldn't judge us just because we didn't follow your beliefs and values. We Pray, We love, We're a good children to our parents, We follow rules, We go to church on sundays, smile at other people, extend hand when someones in need, does this not enough to call our selves children of God? Does this not enough to call our selves a server of God? Tell us where not good enough or not deserving enough to be God's follower/server/children kung kasing linis mo ang isang blank sheet of paper.
Wag kayong mangaral dahil hindi kayo Pari. At wag nyong gamitin ang bibliya para maipakita nyo ang kalinisan ng mga pagkatao nyo. Wag tayong epokrito.