Saturday, May 23, 2015

Insta Scoop: Bianca Gonzalez Thanks Unicef, Advocates Breastfeeding

Image courtesy of Instagram: iamsuperbianca

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  1. May effect ang kaka-social media.

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  2. Breastmilk is best but don't be hard on your if it doesn't come naturally.

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    1. True. Yung iba kasi super makaadvocate eh what if wla talaga lumalabas? Do what you think is best, ikaw pa rin ang nanay. mas alam mo kung ano dapat para sa anak mo.

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    2. walang ina na walang gatas. Kung totoo yn, tingin pano nabuhay ang mga tao dati ng wala pang formula?Misinformed lang po kayo kaya kala nyo wala lumalabas na milk.

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    3. Im a mother of 3,naexperience ko sa first born ko na walang gatas ma lumalabas,tapos inverted pa pa nips ko. Pero pinilit ko gawan ng paraan,gumamit ako ng pump.ginawa ko lahat ng suggestions ng docs and nurses para lang magkagatas. And guess what?! I succeeded na magkagatas. Ang bottomline lang naman nito ay yung willingness at devotion ng nanay.GOLD MILK IS REALLY THE BEST compared sa mga pamangkin ko na never na breastfeed kasi ayaw ng nanay kasi wala daw lumalabas. Nakatipid ka na, masustansya at sigurado ka pa sa gatas ng anak mo. Di sila sakitin,Promise!
      Proud ako na nagbreastfeed ako sa 3 healthy boys ko.❤

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    4. It does come naturally. If it didn't, how were people in the dark ages feeding their babies? You just have to be patient. If you don't give the baby a choice (bottle) for the first few days, the baby is not going to starve and kill himself but will latch and keep sucking your nipples till he gets the milk. But if you're lazy, you will immediate give the bottle and say walang lumalabas.

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    5. Di pa kayo nagiging nanay noh? Or hindi lang kayo educated about breastfeeding? Walang nanay ang walang gatas.. Need lang ng patience... Lahat ng babae may milk and may capacity to produce milk. Wag nega! Mema lang e

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    6. Im also a mother but 1wk lang may lumabas na milk sakn and inverted din nips ko..I pumped too and eat alot of veggies esp.Malunggay which is good to produce milk pero wala na talaga lumabas..how sad..Good thing my son take the colostrum on his 1st feed..It depends talaga sa body,I follow Doctors advices pero wala talaga after.

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    7. What a shame for your comment! Kaya madaming nanay ang walang commitment to breastfeed dahil sa mga taong katulad mo!

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    8. Please stop pressuring moms to breastfeed. That causes more stress than necessary, especially for 1st time moms. You do not know what other moms are going through. People like you who shame moms for not breastfeeding are evil! Not all can produce milk like the rest of you. Shame on you!

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    9. Lahat ng kapapanganak may gatas. Magbasa ka pls lang wag kang pabida dito.

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    10. That's right.

      READ. The only way your milk won't come out is if your breasts are not stimulated enough. Meaning, your baby doesn't latch often, meaning you're not offering it enough for the milk to come out. Meaning, you're giving the baby other kind of milk. So see, it's just a chain reaction. Read. Educate yourself.

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    11. @6:05.Meaning, you didn't let your breasts be stimulated enough. You offered another source that's why own supply dwindled.

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    12. 6:11 korek ka jan. hnd ako naniniwala na may mga ina na walang gatas. Nung unang panahon d nmn uso formula milk pero nabuhay nmn laht ng tao

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  3. Breastmilk is the best but it doesn't make you less of a mother if you choose to bottle feed your baby. Do what you think is best not just for the baby but for yourself as well.

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    1. Why would it not make you less of mother if you chose not to persevere to give the best to your child? Had you kept trying, it is impossible for the milk not to come

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    2. 508- tsk tsk.. what if nagpersevere pero konti lang talaga lumalabas? Not breastfeeding is not equivalent to being a bad mother. Please think about that.

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    3. 8:38- kunti kasi tumigil or nagbibigay ng formula. If the breast is the only source of the baby, the milk will eventually flow because your milk supply is determined by the stimulation that your baby provides while nursing. In other words, the more you breastfeed, the more milk your body produces. So, if you seem to be producing less milk than usual, feed your baby more often.

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    4. @8:38AM, not a bad mother, just a mother who didn't try more.

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  4. Breastmilk is the best kasi hindi na tayo sure kung gatas pa ng baka yung ni mamanufacture ngayon...sa ugali ng mga nakararaming kabataan ngayon parang gatas na ata ng toro yung naiinom nila!!!

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    1. hahaha natawa ko sa toeo mo pero I doubt it.depende pa din siguro sa pagpapalaki ng mga parents..meron kaseng ibang bata bratt talaga.Good comminication as parent/child is much important..pwedi din kase ung iba nag take ng a-am..hihih

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    2. Like like like

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    3. Hahaha. Like k yang comment m. Swak na swak. Hahaha. I breastfed my eldest for almost 3 yrs. d sakitin and super smart. He learned to write the alphabet on his own by just watching on tv when he was almost 2. Before he turns 3 nasusulat na nya name nya complete pa. At bago sya mag 4 nakakabasa na. Now he is in grade 3 consistent honor student sya. And guess what every major exams lang sya nagrereview. Sa international school pa sya nag aaral nyan ha. Hnd nmn ako ganun katalino. Feeling k dahil un sa gatas k. Hahaha. At ung bunso k exclusively breastfeed din sya. Never pa sya nagkasakit. Thank God sa gatas ng ina:)

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  5. Champion dn ako ng unicef but bakit wala akong teddy burrr

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    1. #1 ka glinda na may paki.

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    2. Ikaw walang paki kasi ikaw hindi tao. Pet ka yata.

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  7. Hindigaling sa gatas ng baka ang formula. Kaya nga formula. Go biancs!

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  8. Natawa ako sa coment mo beks!

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  9. Ang daming mabilis maka-judge. Sama ng ugali ng mga obsessed sa breastfeeding tapos ipapamukha pa sa ibang nanay na hirap magkaroon ng gatas na sapat sa anak nila. Lahat ng nagkaanak may gatas sa umpisa.. pero ndi tayo pareho ng katawan at sitwasyon sa buhay. Hindi porke naka formula kami, tamad na kami.

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    1. Yes I am judging coz like some Mom, breastfeeding didn't come easy. For 2 days, I struggled. I cried with my Baby and my husband. But because we armed ourselves with knowledge prior to giving birth, we knew the milk would come. We knew how the body works. We knew that it was NOT right to have bottles and formula on standby because that would tempt us to give our baby formula. So, we did't buy bottles until after 3 weeks, in short, our baby didn't have any choice but latch. Had we offered her the bottle from the time we THOUGHT I had no milk, then why the hell would she still prefer my nipples when the bottle is much easier?


      Educate yourself.

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    2. Yes I am judging coz like some Mom, breastfeeding didn't come easy. For 2 days, I struggled. I cried with my Baby and my husband. But because we armed ourselves with knowledge prior to giving birth, we knew the milk would come. We knew how the body works. We knew that it was NOT right to have bottles and formula on standby because that would tempt us to give our baby formula. So, we did't buy bottles until after 3 weeks, in short, our baby didn't have any choice but latch. Had we offered her the bottle from the time we THOUGHT I had no milk, then why the hell would she still prefer my nipples when the bottle is much easier?

      Educate yourself. Read. There is no way a Mom can't have milk. Not possible. IMPOSSIBLE. READ.

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    3. Yes I am judging coz like some Mom, breastfeeding didn't come easy. For 2 days, I struggled. I cried with my Baby and my husband. But because we armed ourselves with knowledge prior to giving birth, we knew the milk would come. We knew how the body works. We knew that it was NOT right to have bottles and formula on standby because that would tempt us to give our baby formula. So, we did't buy bottles until after 3 weeks, in short, our baby didn't have any choice but latch. Had we offered her the bottle from the time we THOUGHT I had no milk, then why the hell would she still prefer my nipples when the bottle is much easier?

      READ. The only way your milk won't come out is if your breasts are not stimulated enough. Meaning, your baby doesn't latch often, meaning you're not offering it enough for the milk to come out. Meaning, you're giving the baby other kind of milk. So see, it's just a chain reaction. Read. Educate yourself.

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    4. Here is my crown and sceptre. I step down from my post as the most righteous Breastfeeding advocate and place it in your head.

      Seriously, mga kagaya mo ang dahilan kung bakit ayaw ng iba sa ating mga nagpapasusong ina. Itry mong maging less judgmental at tulongan sila sa paraang kailangan nila, effective yun. Pramis.
      'tsura neto!

      Oo breastfeeding mom din ako pero di ako judgmental! Di ako katulad mo.

      Go Bianca :-)

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    5. True! Nakaka-upset. Sa totoo lang. Lalo na sa ibang moms na tulad ko. Nadepress tlga at iyak ng iyak pero drops lang lumalabas. This is not helping moms who are struggling with it. Educate yourself din on how to be more compassionate and understanding of others. 2yrs old na anak ko pero ndi pa nagkakasakit. Take that self-righteous B!

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    6. 2 days??? Struggle na ba yun sayo??? Try weeks, girl! Tingnan natin if kayanin mo and hindi ka madepress. Hay, some people talaga. Nag breastfeed lang, akala mo kung sinong magaling na ina. Educate yourself din. Even better, go back to preschool and learn some compassion.

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    7. Not being self righteous. Isn't that a fact?The only way your milk won't come out is if your breasts are not stimulated enough. Meaning, your baby doesn't latch often, meaning you're not offering it enough for the milk to come out. Meaning, you're giving the baby other kind of milk. So see, it's just a chain reaction. Read. Educate yourself.

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    8. 2 days struggle na un? Jusko almost a month kng iniinda ang boobs k sa sobrang sakit. Nagkaroon pa ng pus at dumudugo dahil mainit laway ng baby k n d marunong maglatch. Nilagnat pa ko dahil engrossed sila kasi d lumalabas masydo gatas k dhil d nga marunomg maglatch nung una. Pero tiniis k laht un dahil alam k breast milk is the best for my baby.

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  10. Yes I am judging coz like some Mom, breastfeeding didn't come easy. For 2 days, I struggled. I cried with my Baby and my husband. But because we armed ourselves with knowledge prior to giving birth, we knew the milk would come. We knew how the body works. We knew that it was NOT right to have bottles and formula on standby because that would tempt us to give our baby formula. So, we did't buy bottles until after 3 weeks, in short, our baby didn't have any choice but latch. Had we offered her the bottle from the time we THOUGHT I had no milk, then why the hell would she still prefer my nipples when the bottle is much easier?

    READ. The only way your milk won't come out is if your breasts are not stimulated enough. Meaning, your baby doesn't latch often, meaning you're not offering it enough for the milk to come out. Meaning, you're giving the baby other kind of milk. So see, it's just a chain reaction. Read. Educate yourself.

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    1. 2 days lang pala, kala mo nahirapan! I have tried for weeks! And alam mo ilan lang lumabas? 2ml. Kaloka ka. Ang swerte mo. Pero sana ndi ka makapag down ng iba. Yan ang nakaka depress sa moms, yung ndi makapagbgay ng breastmilk sa anak. Imbes isupport, idown pa?? Wow! Moms like you should not be around other moms, especially 1st time moms. Sama ng ugali. Isa ka sa cause ng depression ng mga mommies.

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    2. READ. The only way your milk won't come out is if your breasts are not stimulated enough. Meaning, your baby doesn't latch often, meaning you're not offering it enough for the milk to come out. Meaning, you're giving the baby other kind of milk. So see, it's just a chain reaction. Read. Educate yourself.

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  11. Nakakalungkot naman itong thread na ito. Hwag na kayo magtalo. Support nyo na lang isa't isa. I also had a hard time breastfeeding. Nagpa-massage ako, nag malunggay soup, malunggay tea, malunggay caps, pump every 3 hours and latch every feeding time. Pero wala talaga.. i did that for a few days. Pero wala pa din. I stopped trying kasi nadedepress na ako. To the point na umiiyak na ako while breastfeeding. Hindi maganda sa babies yun dahil nararamdamam daw nila yun. Kaya please, stop bashing. Hindi lahat ng moms masama dahil hindi nag breastfeed. And pano na yung ibang babies na lactose intolerant? Or yung moms na kelangan ng medication kaya bawal mag breastfeed? Let all moms support each other to educate and help moms who really want to breastfeed.

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    1. You said it yourself, you stopped. So the supply stopped too. For some it comes easy , for some it's just hard. It's only a matter how much you're willing to do.

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  12. Pakibaba nga sa trono itong nanay na ito. May tawag ba sa ginagawa nya?? Mommy-shaming? Hehe. I agree, breastmilk is the best for babies. Pero i understand if some moms cannot do it. I hope 1st time moms will not get depressed if they read the repetitive comments ng mom sa taas. 1st time moms - there are other supportive moms out there who can help you if you are having a hard time producing milk. Stay away from moms like above. Masestress lang kayo.. baka maka-contribute pa sila sa postpartum depression nyo.

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    1. You don't know how much hell I went through. Baka kung mag litanya ako ng paghihirap ko eh mahiya kayo Sa sarili nyo. So para sabihin ng Iba na mahirap, kaya tumigil sila- nagagalit ako. Mahirap talaga, Pero yung madali Lang ba ang gusto mong Ibigay sa anak mo?

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  13. Ang daming comments ni mother. Hahaha. Please stay away from 1st time moms. I do hope you are a better, less judgmental person than what i perceive from your post. Let us all educate ourselves, mommies! If we failed in breastfeeding the first time, try again next pregnancy. :) don't feel bad. Stay away from negative people and surround yourself with people who understand what you're going through. :) dami groups who help moms in breastfeeding. Reach out to them. :)

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    1. Yes and I am part of those groups. We tell and educate Moms to never stop. Because the only way you will ran out of milk is when you stop. Never offer the formula. Just keep giving your milk. Nothing else.

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