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Sunday, April 12, 2015

No Fair Treatment

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Much can be said about the true character of celebrities based on their treatment of their support system, comprising their personal assistants, yayas, househelp, drivers, among others. Without a support system, the daily dealings of celebrities will be in havoc, as they will have to devote time to domestic chores, instead of focusing on their careers. However, regardless of the attitude of househelp, celebrities treat them differently.

For instance, while Singer Actress (SA) might have had her share of bashers recently, no one can take away the fact that she treated her yaya nicely and even got her yaya some endorsements. In the same manner, a Highly Valued Celebrity (HV), who has wealth, fame, connections, and bashers, too, is known for her kind treatment of her helpers. She even brings them to her out of town trips, sometimes even abroad. Not as famous as SA or HV, Actress Painter (AP) also treats her househelp with kindness and fairness.

Now, some househelps of celebrities are not as lucky. Some have been wrongly accused of theft or are treated with inhumane hours of working, especially drivers. Most have to live within the strict rules of households. For example, the household of Actress Host (AH) imposes a rule that all househelp should buy their coffee, sugar, food, and other needs. Hence, basic food items in the home of that celebrity are off limits to their househelp. Thus, the helpers have to purchase for their own consumption. Sadly, the said celebrity is not poor, and is considered as a competent host despite her many faults in the field.

So, why can SA, HV, and AP treat their househelp properly, whereas AH’s household cannot? Probably, the difference among these celebrities is the attitude towards wealth. SA, HV, and AP were raised in environments where generosity was something that was natural, and not a matter of wealth.

SA and HV were all born in well-to-do families, and had they not started careers in showbiz, they would still be comfortably living. For AP, although she was not born in a very rich family, her parents stressed respect for their helpers, and she never forgets to look back to where they came from. Hence, her elegance reverberates because of innate kindness. By contrast, the wealth AH is enjoying is the accumulation of shrewd career deals, long hours of work, and often overexposure in media. Despite stories that AH’s family was already well-off even before she started her career, there is no doubt that it was through her struggle that her family gained wealth and power.

Goodness is about character - integrity, honesty, kindness, generosity, moral courage, and the like. More than anything else, it is about how we treat other people. – Dennis Prager

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117 comments:

  1. Time na for the yaya meal!

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    1. Yung tatlo magbarkada (HV, SA, AP) si T lang hindi. Hello t ikaw na nman? Akala mo kung sino pweh!

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    2. SA - S nega HV - K AP - L or C ??? AH - T

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    3. What do you expect? Nouveau riche naman talaga sila.

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  2. Ang sad kung si T nga 'to. :(

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  3. Ang damot ng reyna ng mga palaka...haha. Kami nga di naman ganun kayaman pero we treated our kasambahay and her as part of our family na.

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  4. SA- S; HV- K; AP-?; AH- T

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  5. SA - S
    HV - K
    AP - S
    AH - T?

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  6. I can understand where AH is coming from. AH's wealth is nowhere near the worth of SA, HV and AP plus she has a family to look after but there's a difference between being on a budget and being mean. I hope she at least pay her helpers well.

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    1. to the point na pati food sila mag shoshoulder? hindi kame celebrity and mayaman pero kung ano ang ulam namen yun din pina pa ulam sa kasama sa bahay. kung magkakape sya same din sa kape namen. even if she pays them well sa necesities lang mauubos na instead na galing na sakanya.

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  7. daming characters. gets ko si hayok sa groceries itong galing hirap na celeb lol si T..tapos iyong mabait si S, A

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    1. Ay Wrong ka anon 12:48. Walang A dito. Painter ba yun? Si M yan at Q. Then baka si S. yung painter.

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  8. SA no clue HV nstar? AP h? AH T (sureness ako)

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  9. AH - t!! Sa - j sa show ng kaF Hv - napakadaming endorsements Ap - ?

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  10. T strikes again! Haha! Ate, grabe ka na talaga..

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  11. c T! ano vah yan?

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  12. AH - T strikes again. Oh well!

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  13. SA - nega HV - yung d maka-move on k m AP - ? AH - t!

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  14. SA - S
    HV - K
    AP - H
    AH - T

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    1. parehong galing sa hirap si S at K ah, sabi well-to do family before getting in showbiz. bakit wala initials nila sa clue. ang hirap, bar exam levels!

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    2. isip pa 1:55, mga senior na S & K ito, hindi yung iniisip mo.

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    3. Yan din hula ko 12:56

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  15. AH - T strikes again.

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  16. No one else comes close sa ugali ni.... T siyempre!

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  17. retokadang Tilapia!

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  18. T! Grabe naman sya kung ganun!

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    1. magkano ba ang kape at sang kilong asukal. hindi naman nila ikahihirap yon grabe

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    2. 1:05 eh kasi nga yun pera nilaan sa mga material na bagay. eto ang totoong materialistic, when you cant afford to share even trivial stuffs to the little ones like yaya!

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  19. T! agen and agen??

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  20. SA- L? HV- K AP- no idea AH- t

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  21. sa- nstar hv-k ap-? ah-t

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  22. HV-K the q .... SA-S the M AP-M AH-C

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  23. Yuck katurn off naman si T!!

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  24. lugi! lalo n kung minimum sweldo ng helpers tapos ganyan s T! Kaloka! Nakakainggit yun mga yaya ng anak ni HV kung saan-saan bansa nkakapunta!

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    1. True... Ang swerte ng mga nagtratrabaho for her.

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  25. S, K, H and T again!

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  26. SA-S,
    HV-K,
    AP-B,
    AH-T

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  27. Ok Lang nmn, na ang kasambahay na binili ng food nila, ganyan din sa Forbes Park, pero malaking sweldo nila, as in almost same na ng isang public teacher. Baka nmn ganyan sweldo

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    1. Tulog na, T!

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    2. Te do you have an idea magkano sweldo,ng isang pampublikong,guro? Thats far from malaki

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  28. SA - S
    HV - K
    AP - H
    AH - T :)

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  29. Ewan ko ba sa mga KaF bossings kung bakit favorite nila itong si T unang una masama ugali, plastic, pangit ng mukha, retokada, at higit sa lahat mayabang!

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    1. I AGREE! TRUELILI! WATERLILY! Super Pangit ng Feslak! Super Pangit din ng Ugali!

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    2. binabayaran ang artista kc magaling sila for whatever they are expected to do at hindi dahil maganda ang ugali nila. This explains why T despite her attitude is given priority by her network. Kung ikaw capitalist or businessman ang concern mo lang magpapasok ng pera so T is doing that for the network.

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  30. SA - S
    HV - K
    AP - H or S painter kasi pareho kaya di ko sure kung sino sa kanila pero dahil elegance at innate kindness ang clue baka si S. lol
    AH - T hay naku sayang ka girl. magbago ka na. Lol

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    1. Sino ung isang actress painter... si H lang naiisip ko... and born rich sila db so its not H right? Clues pls

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    2. Its not H and S because they are from rich families.. I think this is B yung bagong "painter"

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    3. who is S the painter? I only know H and B na painter

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  31. all clues point to no other than...T!

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  32. Sino si t classmates? Time?

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  33. AH is t SA former D HV is K AP S na kaH?

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  34. AH - t SA - S HV - K AP - ?

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  35. AH-T? Paki korek Eh sino si SA? Hmmmp! Helping me! Helping me!

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  36. Hay naku, NAKAKA D kang amo pala!

    Aling Mariah

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  37. Is this T? hmmmm

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  38. SA - S the M HV - K AP -? d ko knows :( AH - T?

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  39. Is it that T again?

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  40. T, the wa-class host.

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  41. Si Ap i guess si S Kasi.sya lang lam ko mahilig magpaint bukod kay hV is K Ah is T

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  42. This is a matter of preference. Some people pay their helpers more to cover the purchase of some of their basic food items and toiletries. This actually works well with helpers because they get to choose their brand preference and may even opt to buy the cheaper ones to save money instead. This is not unusual among moneyed people.

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    1. Rationalization of a fantard.

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    2. Not unusual doesn't make it okay. Treating them like they are less worthy individuals is wrong.

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    3. The BI didn't state that they were paying their help a higher salary or giving them a monthly stipend to cover the basics like coffee, toothpaste, etc.

      Anyway, movie/tv stars tend to show off the free loot they get from the companies they endorse or from generous companies willing to recruit them as brand endorsers. How much tubes of toothpastes or bar of soaps can these artistas use. Surely, they can share that with their helpers with more to spare.

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    4. True. Baka naman kasi iba yung pagkakakwento. Feeling ko kasama na yung budget for coffee, misc stuff sa payroll ng mga yaya. Yaya namin before mas okay to.

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  43. SA - K HV - K AP - ? AH - C

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  44. Si NStar at K yung unang dalawa. AP is not H kasi not rich daw ang family. So baka si S. AH unang naisip ko si A dahil "overexposure" pero dahil sa mga comments at title ng BI, baka si T nga. Oh well. Papel. Masama talaga ugali ng merlat na iyan. - Baklang Barista sa suki nyang kapihan

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    1. lahat ba naging host?

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    2. si A ka dyan! obvious namang si T ang over.expose dahil sia na ata ang host sa lahat halos ng shows ng KAF...A A ka pa dyan!

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    3. Pansin ko lang may friends ba siya? As in mall, lunch out with friends, out-of-the-country with friends, etc...parang wala...

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  45. si T. if there's smoke, there's fire...

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  46. more clues for t pls..?

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  47. Ay naku T, hindi porke ikaw ang amo, mamaltratuhin mo na mga katulong mo. Kaloka!

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    1. Di lang nabigyan ng kape, minamaltrato agad? Baka kailangan mong gamitin ang dictionary mo na nilulumoyot.

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  48. Kaya lalong yumayabang at nahiging masungit kase dami niyang nalolokong tao na akala nila mabait yang T naiyan me hangganan din ang madamang ugali

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  49. i have no clue,ngbsa lng ako ng mga comments kung si T nga to,naman pti sa katulong msma ugali...Mei KARMA nmn...bblik sau lht yan...muka k ksing ktulong!!

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  50. 1. Mahirap maghanap ng matinong katulong. Aminin natin karamihan abusado konti na lang ang mapgkakatiwalan.
    2. Walang masama kung hiwalay ang basic needs ng amo at katulong. Una, kung pareho nagkasundo at pinirmahan ang ganun kontrata ng both sides. Pangalawa, malay natin kung kasama sa sweldo nila ang allowance for basic needs. Di porket magkahiwalay ang basic needs minamaltrato na
    3. Iwas abuso ang tawag sa ganyan. Merong mga katulong na di pa lubos na mapagkatiwalaan ng mga amo, tandaan natin ang amo ang nagpapasok ng ibang tap sa bahay niya sa panahon ngayon di basta basta Magtitiwala.
    4. Naranasan kong abusuhin ng mga katulong. Bigay dito sakop sa lahat. At the end, tatraydurin ka. Much better na magset ng line between amo and katulong. Parang boss at empleyado lang yan, mas malakas ang aircon sa kwarto ng boss kesa sa mga empleyado. May sariling elevator ang boss. At mas masarap mga pagkain ng boss.

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  51. Wagas! Kasambahay namin libre lahat. Kung ano kinakain namin yun din kinakain nya. 24/7 access sa ref - eat what you see and what you like. Same sabon, shampoo conditioner pati sanitary napkin provided. Kalerkz!

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    1. Di kasi siguro mega rich. Natural naman kung ulam nyo wagyu, salmon at iba pang mahal at imported na food at shampoo mo Chopard, etc. alangan naman pareho din kayo ng help nyo. Ok lang na local beef, tilapia, galunggong, bangus at baboy kanila. Basta dapat di panis at luma pinakakain mo sa kanila at di mo sila ginugutom.

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    2. Yes ke wagyu o salmon keber, its a matter of treating them equally

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  52. Hindi si S at Big K yung una, hindi naman sila well to do eh dati, pareho pang breadwinner. Si N to tsaka si other K.

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  53. ap baka naman si B to, parehong rich si S at H eh

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  54. Shrewd career deals na host? Di kaya si K ito, not T?

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  55. Clues sino si T??????? Pls?

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  56. Not a fan, not a hater. But maybe the household help have a separate decent budget for their own food/groceries. This is common practice. The advantages of this set up are many. The help gets to priorities food items they most commonly consume. They can choose the brands they prefer. They can budget and split the leftover money. This set up also serves hygienic purposes & cultivates attitude towards respect for property.

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  57. Sila yung nagbigay ng pizza sa sekyu ng village na puro kagat. They don't really treat their kasambahay well.

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  58. Sino T? Haha hirap na nga sa school hirap pa dito! Hahaha paano?

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  59. Not a fan, not a hater. But maybe the household help have a separate decent budget for their own food/groceries. This is common practice. The advantages of this set up are many. The help gets to prioritize food items they most commonly consume. They can choose the brands they prefer. They can budget and split the leftover money. This set up also serves hygienic purposes & cultivates attitude towards respect for property.

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  60. SA - S the M HV - K AP - S? Kasi si H, mayaman yun e. Or pwede din si Laocean deap, B AH - T. Yun na!

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  61. Ap -S na one of i girls HV - K SA - S AH - t

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  62. T strikes again.. Nacu, nakakaloka na tlga yang sama ng ugali mo t!

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  63. Hoy t, wala na talagang natitirang maganda sayo.

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  64. T. Am sure pakana din yan ng mother nya. Hitsura pa lang madamot na. Kahit anong pera nila now, they still look cheap and trying hard. Ang tanso, bihisan mo man ng ginto, mukhang tanso pa din. Karma is digital 'ne.

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  65. twice na namin nakita si T and her fam while dining at rockwell, same thing happened habang kumakain sila yung driver at yung parang alalay nakatunganga lang. yung alalay na girl para di siguro masyado maawa sa sarili kunyari busy sa cellphone. i mean dapat iniwan na lang sa kotse or pinaghintay somewhere tutal may cellphone naman ata pareho.

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    1. grabe, sana pina-break man lang nila :(

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  66. Nakakaturn off naman kung totoo to about kay T... sa mga interviews or tv shows nya kasi pag nagsalita kala mo sobrang giving sa mga tao sa paligid nya.

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  67. what do you expect from nouveau riche, T and family are the epitome of this breed of high-nosed people

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  68. Some households really do that. Nothing really wrong as long as they are given enough hudget for these necessities. That way they buy whatever they want and cook the way they want it.

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  69. some but that is not the norm. come on those people help you day in and day out why treat them like dirt. me and my hubby are just middle income earners but we treat our kids' nannies as members of the family. they eat with us, they sleep comfortably and they don't worry about their soaps and shampoos anymore as we also take care of those expenses. it all boils down to basic respect and courtesy i must say and in return you will get their loyalty and love

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  70. Well, when we lived as expats in Indonesia, our help were extremely trustworthy, masipag, madaling turuan. I didn't give them a separate budget for food and toiletries kasi siempre titipirin nila yun. We want them to have good food and good hygiene. I buy soap,toothpaste,deodorant,shampoo, sanitary napkins in bulk at Makro. For their food, there is a what is called kaki lima, food vendor on wheels. They buy their veggies from him and I pay, no limit. My belief is, these are the people that serve as well, cook our food, take care of my kids, drive them to school. They have remained very loyal to us that even during the riots in Jakarta, none of them left us, they stayed with us and even invited us to go and stay with them in their houses just so we are safe. Ewan ko sa family ni T.

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  71. We love our household helpers, to us they are family. They are good, decent and caring human beings. I wonder this creature that's being discussed can be so calloused.

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  72. sa mga interview akala mo kung sino mga santa tapos madadamot pala

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  73. I have three house helps. I pay them a thousand more than the minimum wage set by the kasambahay law. I even pay for their SSS, Phil Health and Pag-Ibig employees share hindi pa man batas ang Kasambahay Law. No deductions from their monthly salaries. But their toiletries are their own expenses na. Kasi pang personal nila 'yung kalinisan sa katawan, besides, hindi ko alam ang preferences nilang brand, malay ko sa kanilang allergies kung meron man. the food that we eat they also eat walang pagkakaiba. Kapwa tao namin sila,minamahal at ginagalang ang karapatan nila. binibigay ang hangganan ng kanila. sana naman ganun din ang TIKBALANG NA 'TO.

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  74. Grabe ang pamilya ni T.

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  75. Baka naman malaki ang pasweldo.but at least libre na lang sana ang kape.helpers wake up early to work and retire late.theyre working more than 8 hours.

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