Friday, February 20, 2015

Ramon Tulfo Blames College of St. Benilde for Daughter's Drug Use

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Drugs prevalent at College of St. Benilde by Ramon Tulfo


Parents who have children studying at the College of St. Benilde (CSB), pay attention!

Prohibited drugs are sold by some CSB students on and off campus.

I learned about this from my daughter, a student of the school, and some of her classmates.

I want my fellow parents to know so they can take proper action to protect their children.

My daughter came home several nights ago, her eyes drooping.

She admitted to her mom that she had taken Valium, a depressant, which she and her classmates bought from a fellow CSB student.

When her mom and I searched her bedroom, we found a sachet of marijuana. She said she bought it from a pusher in one of the coffee shops near the school.

Upon further questioning, we learned that my daughter frequented three coffee shops near De la Salle University and CSB where students from both schools hang out.

The coffee shops are Beach, Barn and Plato where students buy drugs from fellow students and other pushers.

I learned that these establishments have been raided by the police several times but they remain open.

I went to CSB yesterday (Monday) to inform school authorities about the drug problem among their students but nobody wanted to talk to me.

I called the office of the CSB president and vice president from the lobby of the SBA building.

The person who answered the phone said both officials were not available.

I asked if there were other responsible officials I could talk to and stated my purpose, but was told I would have to wait for 15 minutes. Fifteen minutes turned into an hour so I left disgusted.

I know that by writing this I would be exposing myself to embarrassment and my daughter to reprisal but I’m concerned about the other children and their parents.

I learned that the students who push drugs at CSB are scions of rich or influential families.

Based on the reception they gave me yesterday, it seems College of St. Benilde officials are not concerned about the welfare of their students.

In another school, authorities would have fallen all over themselves trying to hear the complaint of a student’s parent.

Before I left CSB, I gave my number should the school authorities want to talk to me, but up to the time I finished writing this column, I didn’t hear from them.

224 comments:

  1. Hawak ba nila kung gustong bumili ng drugs ng anak mo?????

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    1. parents, do your jobs. and blaming schools and other people for your utter lack of guidance to your kids is NOT one of them. in short, A ang anak mo tulfo. at KASALANAN mo yan dahil dimo ginabayan ng husto.

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    2. Before a frosh enter CSB they have a drug test. So whatever happens in and outside the campus, the school does not have all control. Even if they randomly search student's bags, drug pushing in school could not be managed. Now, if his daughter is using these drugs, why don't you talk to your daughter and double check on how you raise them. The transactions made outside the school is very hard to detect. its up to the students really, if they would like to try or not. So don't blame my alma mater!

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    3. i dont know why people always find fault just to cover their own failures... may masisi lang wag lang sila... it's your daughter's responsibility and not the school's...

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    4. If the school has given a response and has accommodated Mr. Tulfo as a concern parent, he would not have called their attention in public.

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    5. Parents and schools should work hand in hand for the betterment of the child. Oo, hindi totally kasalanan ng school, pero ano man lang yung gumawa sila ng hakbang para mabawasan mga students nilang nagdrodroga?!

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    6. Maganda Sana mga reasoning ng mga nagcocomment na Hindi na saklaw ng school authorities yung action nung mga students pag dating sa labas e Kaso Kung mga estudyante na mismo ang mga pusher e papano na? Kaya me point si tulfo magsumbong. Magaling Lang kayong magsabing pag sa labas wala ng keber ang school pero pag me ginawang kalokohan ang mga students nila at me id o pagkakakilanlan ng school o institution e NAGREREFLECT PA DIN sa kanila yun. Pag Hinduism naintindihan yung point here e wag na kayo magparami ha!

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    7. Tama ka dian! Yan din ang observation ko. Sana magkaron tayo ng tama at pantay na pag iisip sa issue na ito. Hindi puro nega ang comment. Kaloka lang

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    8. As parents we can only do so much for our children. Children have to ultimately decide for themselves if they want to listen to their parents. Having said these, Tulfo still did the right thing by calling the attention of the school administration about brazen selling of drugs to warn other parents.

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    9. im a parent. both parents and school should work hand on hand regarding this issue. kaya nga pinag-aral ko yan sa isang catholic school dahil may tiwala ako. they have to discuss this kind of problem. ako as a parent palagi kong inaalalahanan ang mga anak ko sa mga ganitong problema. dont blame the parents. the surroundings is the most influential in the society now.

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    10. oo nga rich naman yang school na yan eh di dapat mag conduct ng drug test madalas!

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    11. agree ako kay 4:22. may dapat gawin ang school para maprotect ang student. ramdom drugtesting man lng. saka mali rin na di harapin ang magulang ng student. client nila mga to. laki ng binabayad, dapat lng may concern sila sa student.

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    12. Ilang beses na daw na raid yang mga tindahan na nasa labas ng CSB, pero until now meron parin.. Ito lang, walang magtitinda kung walang bibili.. Kaya ako sayo hija(anak ni tulfo) ano man pinagdadaanan mo, hndi dahilan ang drugs!! Lalo hndi nakakabuti sayo yan. Maswerte ka at nakakapag aral k sa ganyang eskwelehan. Yung pinag aaral ko, hndi kilala eskwelehan nya, dumaan pa sya sa pagiging chidl abuse, kasi binubugbog sya mg tatay nya.. Pero sa awa ng nasa taas, ngayon april graduating na.. 4 years course pa..

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    13. nowhere on the article does it say that he is blaming the school..he was just calling their attention and expressed his dismay over the way they handled his concern...

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    14. Hnd namn nya bineblame ah. Gusto lang nyang maging aware ang school sa nangyayari sa mga students nito n para narin sa ibang parents na concern sa kapakanan ng anak nila. Masakit para sa magulang na pinag aaral m sa isang mamahaling paaralan pra magkaroon ng magandang kinabukasan tapos ganun pala ang mangyayari. Better sa public nalang kung ganun na wlaa din nmn pla pakialam ang school sa mga students nila.

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  2. Wala sa school yun.. Drugs are more prevalent in more developed countries, and do you see everyone hitting the pipes or popping those pills? no.. Nasa tao yun, shouldve raised her better just saying..

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    1. He is not saying that the school is the reason why students are using drugs. The school is actually doing nothing to stop the prevalence of selling drugs. Since it's within the vicinity of the school and within the school itself, school authorities should do some action. That's what the writer is telling on his article. :)

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  3. U can't put the blame on the school entirely! As a parent, u must have lapses too!

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    1. yun naman ang sinabi nya di ba? that he is putting himself in shame by letting others know about his kid doing drugs. kaya nga gumagawa na sya ng hakbang eh. dahil social problem ang pagdo-droga. for as long as nasa paligid lang ang mga yan, meron at meron pa ring mabibiktima..hindi lang ang anak ni tulfo.

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    2. The parents have caught it and has done active action. At their age, adolescents are risk-takers and would want to be "IN". They undergo rebellion stage but a good discipline from parents would bring back their senses. It's good that they've informed everyone of this.

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    3. He did not say on the article that he blamed the school for his duaghter's drug problem. Hindi lang nagcooperate ang school sa kanya, sa kanyang attempt to investigate on the availability of drugs inside and around the school vicinity.

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  4. not only CSB but drug peddling is rampant in majority of the schools in the metro. this is alarming.

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  5. Very brave of him to come out with this story. Other personalities would choose ego and opt for discretion but he put himself out there. Why is his daughter taking drugs though? Baka rebelling because dad is a womanizer.

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  6. Wala bang responsibilidad ang customer? Lahat kasalanan ng seller?

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    1. May kasalanan nga yung anak. Pinag babayaran na nya.

      Ngayon yung, seller.. Hayaan na natin?

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    2. tinda pa ng droga anon 11:53

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    3. walang naloloko kun walang manloloko! kaya nga mas malaki kasalanan ng Pusher, sa kulungan ka hambambuhay!

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    4. Ate walang bibili kung walang ngbebenta. So ano?

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  7. Weh? baka talagang nagdadrugs anak.nya at sinisisi lang ang eskwelahan para mapagtakpan ang kahihiyan? hmmmmm

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    1. nagbibigay sya ng warning s ibang parents at aminado sya n user anak nya. Read first

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    2. addik ka siguro noh! the fact that school never attended to Tulfo's issue, is a clear sign they have no intention of prioritizing drug addict matters in their school, simple as that!

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    3. anon 2:27 AM, it should be "prioritizing drug ADDICTION matters in their school! simple as that!" tataray taray ka dyan mali ka naman! sus! tse!

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    4. basahin nyo po nh ilang ulit un article para maintindihan bago magcomment. inamin naman po, parang mapakasuspicious nyo, gumawa pa kayo ng kwento. may mali naman ang school dahil hindi hinarap ang magulang.

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  8. Matagal ng issue sa csb yan from my school mga kaklase ko na kick out na lasalle nakakakuha ng ecstasy at maryjane sa mga tropa nila dyan sa csb. Mga mayayaman un pa mga pusher. Nun nag hotel immersion nga kami, sinama pa ako sa csb (naiwan ako suv) pag balik ng 2 classmate ko may isang supot na ng marijuana. Matagal na yan at alam na ng mga tao yan dyan. Tradition na nila yan.

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  9. Damage control for the daughter eh?

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    1. Damage control ba yung pati reputasyon ng pamilya masisira? Kung iba iba nga yan aka inilihim pa! May point din naman si Tulfo. Para din sa kapakanan ng ibang estudyante ang ginawa niya at dapat nagpakita rin ng concern ang school authorities, lalo at may mga pushers na rin palang estudyante!

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  10. Push mo yan. Good intentions.

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    1. tama. kung pwede nga lang pati sa quezon prov. ay imbestigahan. biglang nagsulputan ang pusher dun. kung ayaw mong mapatay pamilya mo kelangan manahimik na lng. baka may alam kayong pwedeng kausapin na matino na laban sa droga. share naman po kayo.

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  11. Hanga ako sa guts ni G. Tulfo na i-expose ang pamilya para lamang maiwasto ang natuklasang di magandang gawain. Sana umaksyon ang mga awtoridad ng eskwela at paimbestigahan ang kanyang idinudulog para na rin sa kapakanan ng mga estudyante.

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    1. I agree. I feel Mr. Tulfo's pain in shaming his kid and his family by outing his daughter's drug use. He was right in shaming CSB for not responding quickly. This is drug use and these are our kids. This issue NEEDS to be addressed WITH IMPORTANCE and A SENSE OF URGENCY. Do we need to have someone OD on campus to take action?

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    2. Oo nga eh, masakit din kay tulfo yan, pero hndi dahil anak nya, hndi nya pwde gawin kung ano tama. Hndi naman nya sinisi ang CSB, gusto lang nya magkaroon ng dialogue, tulong tulong sila, para magkaroon ng solusyon lumala na drugs sa paligid ng campus nila..

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    3. Abg tapang pala talaga ni Tulfo!

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  12. Wala kang pananagutan as parent?

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    1. meron nga eh ayan oh gumagawa na sya ng action. at higit sa lahat inexposed na nya sarili nya at family nya. call him what you want pero for me tama yun... social problem ang droga. and yet kahit alam ng admin tong kalakaran na to hinayaan lang. bakit? kasi madaming big time na makakalaban? GADS!

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    2. meron kaya nga gumawa sya ng aksyon.

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    3. Kaya nga eh. Hindi niya kinunsinti ang anak. Aksyon agad he spread awareness kasi bilang magulang ayaw niyang maraming matutulad sa anak niya.

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  13. I think his daughter is old enough to have the discretion between right and wrong. Blame your daughter for her lapse of judgment, Tulfo.

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  14. Oh cmon... in ALL schools, there are always pushers in and around the campus... as parents, we have to make our children do not fall prey to these illegal substances... tulfo knows better than to blame the school... we know this is a mere expresssion of frustration that he, a man of strong convictions, is a failure as a father...

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    1. 12:09, so ganun gaun na lang?! alam mo palang "in ALL schools there are always pushers around" wala ka na lang gagawin? smh

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    2. May magagawa ka nga!... bilang magulang turuan at pagsabihan mo ang mga anak mo tungkol sa drugs para matuto silang umiwas... hindi lang sa schools yan, kahit saan meron... pero kapag tama ang pagpapalaki mo sa anak mo, hindi sila mabibiktima...

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    3. Hindi mo alam kung paanu maging parents

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    4. May school akong alam na hndi pwde nasa paligid lang ang pusher.. Kasi may mala cia, na tao, silang naka bantay. Even fratt, yosi. Pero sa yosi, nagtatago students, wag na wag k lang talaga pahuli.

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    5. maayos po si mr tulfo, kahit mapahiya sya at anak nya, may ginawang aksyon. binasa nyo po ba un article?

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    6. Hindi naman ibi-blame ni Tulfo ang school kung nagpakita ito ng malasakit na pakinggan ang problema na involved ang mga students nila.

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  15. Post the tweets of the daughter. Haha galit na galit anak niya

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  16. This may be true, but the school can sue Mr. Tulfo for this because drugs are not sold in campus, but in coffee shops nearby.

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    1. Meron din ang sabi "Prohibited drugs are sold by some CSB students ON and OFF campus."

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    2. TRUE.... Pero baka binabanatan na nila mag peddle ng drugs ngayon because if Mayor Duterte will win as President next year, wala ng drud pudher. Takot lang nilang ipa salvage. Kahit merong human rights hindi iyan sinasanto. Kaya humanda kayong mga pusher dahil bilang na ang araw nyo.

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    3. ibig sabihin nakakalusot sa gwardiya yung mga estudyanteng may dala ng droga. oh? may lapses na ang school. silipin mo pa sa ibang anggulo

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    4. Hindi naman coffee shops ang BEACH eh. Inuman yun.

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  17. I think hindi lang naman sa CSB, sa ibang school din but given the status ng mga students na nagaaral dun hindi impossible yang sinasabi nya.

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  18. tsk tsk tsk, grabe talaga.

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    1. Dinagsa ng pusher kasi may kaya ang mga studyante diyan

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    2. Isumbong mo sa Tulfo Brothers!!!! Ooopps... kasali ka pala dun 'no?

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  19. What's going on with the world, Momma? :(

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    1. agree, ano na ba nangyayari sa mundo?

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  20. Hay nakoooooooo...... CSB sumagot kayo. Bulag bulagan, bingi bingihan ang peg? Buti ini expose nya yan para na rin malaman ng ibang parents. Saka nasa self discipline din ng tao yan kung minsan. Kahit maraming drugs dyan kung may self disicipline ka di ka gagamit. I never smoke, i never drink andno bad vices at all. Bow.

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    1. Eh Di IKaw na #BirhengMariaClara

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    2. @1:21 AM, d naman ibig sabihin na walang vices, birheng maria clara na. marami pa ring taong walang vices. isa na ako dun and marami rin akong kaibigang ganun.

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    3. gulat ka ba 1:21. di sya kagaya mo.

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  21. Pano naman di magiging adik mga students, eh pati mga teachers sa CSB adik din! I should know. Graduate ako ng CSB. Ilang parties na na kasama teachers namin na sila pa namimigay sa students ng drugs. Ewan ko bakit walang background check bago mag hire ng teachers.

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  22. You snoop around for a living, tapos hindi mo alam to?

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    1. ngaun alam nya na! and it's a good thing nalaman agad bago pa malulon ung bata.

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    2. Ayan na nga alam na nia noh...

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    3. I think ang hindi niya matanggap eh yung anak niya na-inpluwensyahan. Tapos, hindi pa siya kinakausap ng admin. Sadly, laganap na sa mga schools ang ganyan.

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  23. Nasa tao nmn yan kung choice mo tlg mag take ng drugs.. dont need to blame others

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    1. Oo nga naman!
      Hayaan na natin yung manufacturers at pushers sa kabuhayan nila. They just make it available. Kung may bumili, ma hook, maging salot...wala na sila don. Dapat nga hindi na sila hinuhuli!

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    2. Teh, san ba utak mo. Cge katol kapa! 1:06 am.. Hahahaha.

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    3. wow, ayos ka din 1:06. krimen po ang magtulak ng droga. parang wala ka sa katinuan.

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    4. grabe ka @1:06 AM...dapat nga yung puno't dulo ang resolbahin para wala nang magdrugs. as in parang in-favor ka pa dito???

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    5. Sarcastic yung tone ng reply. Relax.

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    6. sabi nga nila don't judge not unless natikman mo, ahahahaa!

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  24. Yes. Dapat naman talagang sisihin ang school dahil laganap na pala to on and off campus at wala pa ding ginagawang action. Ang akala tuloy ng mga magulang na gaya ko na naghihirap na magtrabaho para sa mga anak nila, nasa ligtas na environment ang mga anak nila.

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    1. What happens outside the campus is no longer the responsibility of the school. OK sana if they were selling the drugs INSIDE the school, but he mentioned that they were selling it at surrounding establishments. That's not CSB's jurisdiction anymore. The school has a strict drug policy inside the campus, but how can they possibly control what's going on beyond their area? Isip Isip din

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    2. Not strict enough.

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    3. 1:01 Meron din INSIDE. Ang sabi "Prohibited drugs are sold by some CSB students ON and OFF campus." Besides, hindi porkit outside school e wala k ng pakialam. Kaya nga pinagbawal yun DOTA or other internet games sa computer shop, or yun mga alak s tindahan at restaurant, billiards etc. s labas ng school premises dahil welfare ng students yun iniisip mo dapat. Kaya yun with the help of the govt like mayor na pwedeng mag-issue ng city ordinance prohibiting vices or as mention above. Kaya ikaw ang mg-isip isip dyan

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    4. 1:52 Sa tingin mo kahit maglagay CSB / Mayor ng "no drugs allowed" sa labas ng campus (na I'm sure marami nang Naka paskin) sa mga restaurants etc, may mangyayari? Just being realistic. It's not that they don't care, it's just that they cannot physically control what every student chooses to do outside the school premises. As for the inside work, well maybe they can tighten their leash and conduct searches. At the end of the day however, it's the child's / parents' fault. Some kids who were raised well, kahit idangle mo pa yung drugs sa harapan nila, they won't buy it. So this is not CSB's full responsibility.

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    5. 2:34 agree sa not full responsibility pero yun WALANG GAWIN yun school about it is totally not acceptable!

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  25. I understand na galit si Mr. Tulfo pero para sa school lang isisi yung pag-gamit ng droga ng anak niya ay mali. Oo nga't "available" ang droga, pero nasa anak mo na din yun kung bibili siya at gagamit nun. Kahit pa ayain siya o sulsulan ng friends niya na gumamit nun, kung ayaw niya talaga o di siya nagpadala sa sulsol ay di talaga siya gagamit nun.

    As for the school, grabe lang na walang gustong makipag-usap sa isang magulang na concern sa anak at sa iba pang kabataan. Ano ba naman yung makipag-usap kayo. Is your time too precious for such matters? Remember precious din buhay ng bawat tao, ng mga students niyo. Sana makipag-cooperate kayo sa magulang.

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  26. First of all those places you named are not even coffee shops. Get your story straight pls

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  27. Matagal na yan sa csb. Dati sa isang bar near lrt station kuhaan.

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  28. I don't think he's blaming CSB, he's just saying that drugs are being sold in and around the campus.

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  29. Finally may nagawang tama itong si Ramon Tulfo. Dyan mo ituon ang lahat ng angst mo GO kuya push mo yan!

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  30. Last year a drug pusher was arrested from One Archers condo beside DLSU. The pusher was a first yr DLSU student. Mast ado talagang rampant ang drugs sa benilde and DLSU the authorities should really take action

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  31. He's a parent so its understandable. But yea di pala mahigpit ang security sa school nato. How come students can bring such drugs inside diba.. Buti nalang naagapan mo tulfo yang anak mo before something bad might happen. Tsk

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  32. Fyi this happens in EVERY UNIVERSITIES IN THE METRO

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    1. Talaga? Sa limang taon ko sa uste wala akong naexperience na May nagbebenta ng droga.

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    2. 2:44 Thomasian din ako and teh actually maraming drugs sa UST area. Baka wala kang na experience Pero meron. From Marijuana to prescription drugs to ecstacy, MERON.

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    3. Oo sa FEU madami. Nasa wallet yung marijuana and valium

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  33. Drugs has been there for a long time. At that time i was still a student (around 15years ago), meron na. Some students from Main campus even sell it to Benildeans. But we didn't buy or touch it. In the end, nasa bata yun if he will try or not. They cannot sell you that if you don't buy.

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  34. COFFEE SHOPS? Check mo ulit kuya... Hahaha

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  35. Please post the article that had his daughter's posts. To cover up his shortcoming as a parent he made this big issue. His daughter said herself that its a family problem and not the school.

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    1. teh... kung ako naman sa anak ni tulfo eh hiya hiya din pag may time. pinag aaral ako sa magandang school tapos magdodroga ako? kahit anu pang family problem yan... katangahan nalang na sirain mo buhay mo. Napaka privileged na nga ng batang to dahil may magandang bahay, sasakyan, pera at nasa magandang paaralan. Hindi natin makukuha lahat ng gusto natin sa mundo. Sa tingin mo naman ba di naging mabuting ama si Tulfo? may mga shortcomings siguro pero wag naman natin isisi sa magulang kung pariwara tong anak nya. sabi nga nung anak nya choice nya yun

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    1. Ooops. Sorry. Reply dapat ito sa comment sa taas eh. :(

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  37. Bago pa ba to? Matagal ng nangyayari to sa Benilde bulag bulagan lang mga hitad. Ngayon nakatagpo kayo ng isang tulfo eh goodluck. Sa totoo lang naman kasi yang benilde na yan tapunan ng mga bumagbagsak sa lasalle.. kaso may mga pera kaya gumawa ng school para sa kanila..

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    1. Grabe ka naman. Meron namang mga pumupunta sa Benilde for specific courses (especially the arts) na wala sa ibang schools. Benilde school of design and Arts as well as school of HRM are actually really good. And hello, may drugs din naman sa La Salle ah. Kahit saang school may drugs.

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    2. Ignorante si ate. 'Bagsakan ng La Salle' is so 90's

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    3. Grabe ka 12:53 hindi naman tapunan lang ang Benilde. Ang ganda kaya sa Benilde

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  38. Sa barangay namin marami pushers at users pero hindi man lang ako nakakita ng isang pakete sa buong buhay ko. Baka may deperensya yung anak mo. Tigilan mo kasi yung pagiging righteous mo masyado sa media, kung maka kutya ka sa mga pulis at ibang ahensya ng gobyerno parang ginagawa mong stupid. Maganda yung intensyon mo, pero lahat ng school may mga nag mamarijuana o drugs, depende nalang yan sa estudyante, hindi naman yan pwede basta kapkapan o pahubarin araw araw mga estudyante sa buong pilipinas para lang mabago sistema, minsan nagsisimula yan sa bahay.

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  39. I remember manolo of Pbb he said he try to used marijuana and school dn nya to St.Benilde :((

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    1. Kahit saang school may mga nagddrugs, hindi lang sa Benilde.

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    2. Manolo is from LSGH as in la salle greenhills not benilde, mag cocollege palang siya!

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    3. La Salle Greenhills po si Manolo.

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    4. @anon1:24 True. Kahit saan meron

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  40. It's SDA not SBA and those are not coffee shops. Do a little bit of research before writing.

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    1. Bakit alam mo na di coffee shops mga yun? Tambay ka din ba sa mga lugar na binanggit nya 1:05?

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  41. Nasa tao yan. I went to a university na rampant din ang drug use. I partied and had fun just like any other college kid, but I never tried taking drugs kahit naka-dangle pa yan sa harap ko.

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    1. Nasa tao naman tlga yan pero as magulang normal lang na iblame din nya sa school kasi bakit may nakakalusot na mga ganyan? Wala ba silang action na pwedeng gawin para mahuli mga pushers na yan para di maapektuhan mga studyante nila? Mahirap tlga pigilan mga pushers na yan pero pwede naman kung gugustuhin tlga nila mawala ang mga yan.

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  42. Search nastassjatulfo (anak ni tulfo) on twitter and makikita niyo tweets niya about sa tatay niya. Grabe.

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    1. Kung anak ko yan ipapakulong yan pero bago ko sya ipakulong sasampilungin ko muna at bastos. Hindi ko kukunsintihin kasi para sa kabutihan naman nya yan. Bahala na sya magalit sa akin basta hindi sya mapariwara.

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  43. Both parties are in the wrong! Tulfo' daughter wasn't forced to buy and used illicit drugs. She has her own free will to do whatever she wants to do. She can always ten her back because at the end of the day, it's her who will ultimately decide. On the other hand, the school should be reaponsible in securing the safety of their school and the students. If the tulfo' story was true and the buying and selling of regulated drugs are rampant there, the admin of the school should be alarmed and report it to authorities. Heck yeah, I forgot that it happens in pinas, how could anyone from the school report to authorities when the individuals involved are from rich and powerful clans.

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    1. oo ang hirap no? pero bilib ako dito kay tulfo dahil ni risk nya ang "reputasyon" nya at open na ma bash... tawaging iresponsableng ama at walang respeto sa anak... pero tong anak nya... oo choice mo yan ne... pero kung ayaw mo mapahiya wag ka sana gumawa nang katarantaduhan. Ininform lang ng ama mo ang publiko na may ganitong gakalaran sa school mo. Para maguide nila ang mga anak nila kasi nga napakahirap...Kakalabanin mo ang mga rich na tao. Para sayo din yang ginawa ng tatay mo bruha

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    2. Kung walang pusher, walang user. Dapat yung mga pushers ang mahuli at ikulong. Kung walang mabibilan, walang magagamit na drugs.

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    3. walang puso talaga mga nagtutulak ng droga. nandadamay pa ng mahihina. dapat talagang umaksyon na ang govt. talamak na talaga ang drugs. ang hinuhuli lang un mga pipitsugin. sana maayos na talaga to. kawawa ang addict at pamilya nya. ang mahal pa namang magparehab. un mumurahin, hindi naman maayos. nakakawa ang mga ito, dahil katagalan, mabubuwang sila or aatakihin sa puso. karamihan ng baliw sa mandaluyong ay dahil sa drug abuse.

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  44. Jeez, walang supply kung walang demand. Stop blaming others, let your daughter own up to her actions.

    And just because youre a Tulfo, it does not mean everyone will drop everything for you. Set up an appointment with school officials, they have schedules they follow. Be patient.

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    1. Walang demands kung walang suppliers. Dapat ang mawala mga pushers!

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    2. Wala ka sigurong anak 1:16 kaya di mo alam ang pakiramdam ng isang magulang. Hindi na yan sa pagiging isang tulfo. Kung di nga nya anak ganun na lang sya tumulong sa naapi. What more anak pa nya natural lang na gusto nyang makausap agad ang school officials. Mag anak ka para malaman mo pakiramdam pag napapariwara ang isang anak at maintindihan mo pinangagalingan ng isang magulang na gaya ni tulfo.

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  45. Why put the blame on the school alone? I had classmates in college who sells and uses drugs but never ako nainfluence kaya nasa tao yun, yan ang hirap sa ibang tao mahilig isisi sa iba ang sariling pagkakamali

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    1. 1:17 ang point nya bakit nakakalusot yang ganyan? Imposibleng hindi nakakarating sa school officials na may mga coffee shops na nag bebenta nya so kung ang studyante nila ay nalululong sa droga dapat may gawin din ang school para mawala ang mga pushers na yan. I know hindi mawawala ang mga nag bebenta ng drugs but at least kumilos man lang sila para makita ng mga magulang na ginagawa naman nila lahat na protectionan nila mga studyante nila kesa naman walang actions at hayaan na lang.

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    2. you are so blessed dahil wala s kapamilya mo na nagdrugs. di naman sa sinisisi ni mr tulfo pero sana naman magreach out sila. kasi student din nila nagbebenta. hindi pwedeng magbulag bulagan na lng. dapat may action din po.

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  46. Wag mong isisi sa ibang tao ang kakulangan mo bilang magulang o ang katigasan ng ulo ng anak mo. Panahon pa ni rizal may drugs na. Opium nga tinitira ni Kapitan Tiyago diba? Ako pa sayo don't add insult to injury, pinapahiya mo pa lalo yung anak mo. Anong klase.. Babae pa naman yan

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    1. 1:18 mas ok ng manggaling sa kanya ang kasiraan ng anak nya kesa naman sa mga media. I admire tulfo dahil walang anak anak sa kanya. Ang mali ay mali. Hindi nya pwedeng itago ang mali ng anak nya dahil pag kumalat yan sya pa ang sasabihin kunsintidor. Kung kastiguhin nya ang ibang taong may sala ganun ganun na lang so ok na yan na kahit anak nya hindi nya pinag takpan.

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  47. Fault of d child!!! She bought it herself. It was never forced on her. School should be made aware of it though pero kung gusto ng bata, kahit sa anong paraan hahanapin nila ang drugs!!

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  48. Nasa bata pa rin yun. Alam mo Tulfo sa ginawa mo mas lalo pa magwawala anak mo. Bigyan mo naman ng kahihiyan yun daughter mo. With what you did it shows you have no respect for your child. Hindi lang ang magulang dapat respetuhin. Children learn from their elder's actions. Labo mo, war freak pa.

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  49. STOP BLAMING CSB FOR YOUR LAPSES, MR. TULFO. BESIDES, YOU SAID IT WAS NOT SOLD WITHIN THE CAMPUS INSTEAD IN THOSE "COFFEE SHOPS" (HAHAHA) NEARBY. YOUR DAUGHTER WAS NOT FORCED TO TAKE DRUGS. IT WAS HER OWN DECISION. SO THE QUESTION IS, HOW WERE YOU AS A FATHER?

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    1. basahin mo ulit. it was also sold inside the campus!

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    2. Stop blaming your parents for your f'ck ups.

      Problem with this bunch is that they feel so entitled.

      Move out. Smoke storms. Sleep in Valk. Good riddance.

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  50. I don't think he's blaming the school for her daughter's use of drugs. He's just pointing out that CSB is not handling the situation the way it should be handled.

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    1. Tayong 3 lang yata nakaintindi ng point ni Tulfo

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    2. Mga tao kasi dito di muna mag basa at intindihin ng mabuti bago mag comment. Parang b*bo lang tuloy dating ng iba dito.

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    3. tama, mahirap bang intindihin?

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  51. Yung ex ko pati barkada niya, graduate ng CSB. Lahat din sila nakapag drugs nung college. Merong nabilihan na student din sa CSB. In short, hindi nakakagulat ang article about this school.

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  52. Nasa mga students yan, i think out of curiosity kaya sila naging user, kung ayaw talaga nilang maging user madaling umiwas, madaling magsabi ng NO kung gugustuhin di ba.....

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  53. You cannot blame Tulfo. If it was my child, I will do the same thing. The kid was sento to a catholic school to be well- rounded, tapos malalaman ng magulang na gumagawa ng kalokohan. The drugs were purchased around the school. The school should take action,too. I think tulfo is not blaming the school, he wants the school to properly respond to such issues kasi may nabibili na drugs around their premises. This shall serve as a warning to parents of CSB students.

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  54. I'm a CSB graduate and I've heard stories but never had any first-hand experience with these "dealings". I did have one classmate who once went to class looking stoned though lol. Anyway, I think he shouldn't put the blame on the school. I doubt they do the actual transactions in campus. Besides, CSB is aware of this issue in my opinion... That's why we have K-9 units with guards to sniff bags sa entrance ng school (except the front gates ng main building). So they're doing their part too. Yun lang di naman nila kontrolado once wala na sa campus eh.

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  55. I agree with some of the comments, as a parent, I don't blame Tulfo. He is just only concern about the situation inside and outside the school. CSB is a Catholic School and where are the administration in these incident? Nowhere to be found? The school should have done something. I'm sorry but CSB was put on this kind of siuation. Sad

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    1. E siya, what's he doing to help his child? His child needs his help, more. He should start with his child and the company she keeps.

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  56. May responsibility ang school dahil nasa loob din ang pushers. Pag may drugs may crime.

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  57. Infer, Totoo naman talagang madaming drugs sa CSB. Pack pack ng MJ pa nga may naka roll n nga daw. Ung iba daw nagtatake ng isang banig ng valium tapos tatambay na sa mga inuman near sa school, ayun basag na maya maya. Lol That was years ago. Hanggang ngayon pala grabe pa din. Medyo alarming kasi dapat magawan dn ng CSB ng paraan na mabawasan ang pagkalat ng drugs sa campus nila.

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  58. Anon 4:51 AM

    CSB shouldn't be blamed for this. College students are considered adults and the choices they make defines them individually.It's about how YOU RAISE YOUR KIDS. By the time they reach college they should be able to know which is right from wrong. CSB or any college/university for that matter is not a preschool. Whoever wrote that article is pathetic and should suffer the necessary consequence such as imprisonment for damaging the reputation of the institution.

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  59. I also agree na KAHIT SAANG SCHOOL KA PUMUNTA MERONG NAGDDRUGS.

    It's just really unfortunate na laging nadadale ang CSB. Rich kids with f*cked up lives would normally resort this. Drugs. Sad.

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  60. Buti bga inexpose ni tulfo mas maaaware abg bata magulang

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  61. This is a sad truth. What's even sadder is that the school officials of both DLSU and CSB are aware, they have been since the 90s. However, the families are huge benefactors of the schools and are very influential.

    Super talamak to. Kahit sa Mcdo, nagbebentahan.

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  62. Kung mka kondena to'ng si tulfo ng mga adik at kawatan kuning kuning e walang pakundangan ngayon ang anak nya involved magtuturo para may masisi isa kang ungas tulfo eat ur own sh#$ ang yabang yabang mo mgpahiya ng mga tao!

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  63. sua sa peyups nga kadami nag tutulak ng tsongke eh. asahan m pa jan sa benilde eh mayayaman nagaaral jan haha

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  64. Kesehodang kasalanan ng anak o hindi napalaki ni Tulfo nang maayos ang kanyang anak, pero, dapat may representative man lang ang taga-CSB na kumausap sa kanya. I heard a lot of stories also regarding the drug selling in that campus. Imposibleng walang nakakarating sa kahit na sinong opisyal ng CSB to think na na-raid na pala ang mga coffee shop na 'yan. Ano 'yun, nagti-TENGANG KAWALI lang ang mga taga-CSB?

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  65. nobody at CSB wanted to talk to him. i think he has lost his credibility. siguro aaw ng mga taong kausapin siya baka murahin sila or mainsulto just like what they do on tv. tsk!tsk!

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  66. Csb is well known for junkies and fraternities. Underhround nga lang.

    Sad that my nephew has to transfer school aftet 1 year in CSB because he was threatened that if is not going to join their frat he will have a beating. He didnt have a beating but he was constantly followed in and even up to his house. His friend was beaten black and blue. CSB was informed none was done because they said frat is illegal in the campus and no violence is committed inside the premises. After only 3 months schooling, my brother deemed it right for safety purposes to let my nephew quit school.

    I understand Mr Tulfo. He may not be blaming CSB but he can only do so much as a parent and he is asking for CSB's support if anything to crack on these people who can ruin our children's lives.

    People who cant understand are condemned to have this thing happen to them let's see if they will not ask and where their children gets this drugs and get bullied and threatened.

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    1. Correct. Kahit ako, anak ko ang involved, natural pupunta ako sa CSB at kausapin ko sila. Gusto ko amalamn ano measures ginagawa nila para ma address ang problema. Kaya ko inenrol and anak ko dyan kasi alam ko bukod sa amganda turo ay safe din siya. Pero bakit ganito ang katuwang ko sa pag mold sa anak ko, ni ayaw ako harapin?

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  67. observation ko , mga students ng CSB , yung mga di nakapasa sa major university, tipong mga mahihina academically pero since mga sosyal , eh di bagay sa mga second tier colleges,

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    1. this is a stupid comment. sana mapansin mo din na lahat ng courses sa csb, kakaiba. sila ang nags-start ng mga courses na bago. saka lang sumusunod yong ibang school.

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  68. What's wrong with people these days?
    Commit suicide-blame the teacher
    Doing drugs-blame the school
    I lived in a known drug area for years from elementary to college, and i witnessed drugs being sold openly and yet, never for once, did i go out and buy. In the final analysis, it all boils down to family support, peers/friends you go out with and the person himself or herself to resist such temptations.

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  69. Sa mga taong nag sasabi na mali ang ginawa ni Tulfo na sa kanya pa ng galing ang pag siwalat ng kalokohan ng anak. Kung pinag takpan nya ang anak nya panigurado ang sasabiin nyo naman unfair si tulfo sa ibang mga kriminal. Sasabihin nyo na naman na sarili nyang anak di nya maturuan ng leksyon at di sya patas. Mas ok na sa kanya nanggaling kesa sa media.

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    1. But isn't that exactly what he's doing? Iniisip niya ang sasabihin ng publiko sa kanya, sa anak niya. Imbes na alamin muna niya ang suliranin ng anak niya kung bakit bumili ng droga, natatakot siya sa magiging impact ng mga pangyayari sa "image" niya??? Ganon??? Mas importante ang image kaysa sa anak na obviously nangangailangan ng tulong. Screw public opinion, help your child first, save her first. Tama na yung paandar na ganyan dahil nililihis niya lang ang issue, which is something within his family.

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    2. 5:15 How can you be so sure na hindi nya tinutulungan anak nya? Diba nga he even went to cbs to talk to the school officials pero walang kumausap sa kanya. He even gave his number pero wala din tumawag sa kanya. Sa tingin mo ba he's not trying to save his daughter? And anong masama sa ginawa nya? Winawarn lang nya mga parents na may mga ganyang di magandang nangyayari sa csb. I salute him for doing that. Walang anak anak sa kanya. Patas sya maging ibang tao man or anak nya. Ang mali ay MALI!

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  70. True they should have talked to the parent because he was concern. It was only right to call their attention.

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  71. Totoo naman na rampant ang drugs sa school. Dami pang namamatay. Hindi lang na me media.

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  72. Ramon Tulfo,

    Una, kahit gaano pa karami ang mga pushers sa paligid, kung ayaw ng anak mo, hindi bibili yan, hindi magha-hang-out yan sa lugar na talamak ang tulakan ng droga. Bakit yung tatlong lugar lang ba na yon ang tanging mga lugar para mag-hang out ang mga DLSU at CSB students? Bakit doon pumupunta ang anak mo?

    Pangalawa, naiintindihan ko ang concern mo bilang magulang, pero sinu-sino ba ang mga kaibigan ng anak mo? Lubos mo bang kilala ang mga barkada ng anak mo? Hindi mo ba nakakausap o nakikita man lang ang mga kaibigan ng anak mo? Ilan beses na silang bumibili sa mga lugar na yon?

    Pangatlo, noong pumunta ka sa paaralan, pumunta ka ba bilang isang magulang o isang media personality na nagsisiga-sigaan? Maayos ka bang pumunta doon o nag mistulang high and mighty ka tulad ng persona mo sa radyo at telebisyon?

    Pang-apat, gaano na katagal gumagamit ang anak mo ng marijuana at pinagbabawal na gamot? Tumingin ka muna sa bakuran mo alamin mo bakit napatungo ang landas ng anak mo sa pagdodroga, hindi yung turo ka kaagad sa CSB at magbintang na sila ang may kasalanan kaya merong mga lugar sa paligid ng campus na may mga drug pushers na pinagbilhan ng anak mo. Pati anak ng ibang tao gusto mong isali. Pangalanan mo kung gusto mo, pero wag kang mag-expose kung wala kang tunay na ebidensya.

    Magulang ka, nasasaktan ka sa mga pangyayari, pero lalo ka dapat mag-focus. Isantabi mo muna ang galit para maliwanagan ka.

    FOCUS ON WHAT YOUR CHILD NEEDS NOW. YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF A BETTER ADVOCATE FOR YOUR CAUSE TO HELP OTHERS IF YOU HELP YOUR CHILD FIRST.

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    1. alam mo imbes na magthank u ka dahil sa natuklasan ni Tulfo eh dinedepensa mo pa yata ang mga pushers? bakit? why don't u just stick with the issue that drugs are being sold in the school campus by their own students and the school should do something about this. Or takot ba ang school na mawalan sila ng enrollees dahil baka more than 50% of their students are users and/or pushers? meron k pang "focus focus on ur child first" eh ano nga ba ang ginagawa ni tulfo? di ba he is exactly doing that? meron ka bang alam na ibang way? Ano ka paid school defendant at mukhang takot na takot ka na mabanggit ang pangalan ng school?

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    2. 5.36, you completely missed the point of 2.03. Don't let your emotions get the best of you. You say "baka more than 50% of their students are users and/or pushers," where did you get that figure? There's nothing in it that defends the school or the drug pushers. As I understand it, 2.03 is simply saying that Ramon Tulfo needs to be a father to his daughter first and foremost. You know, he can do all of the kind of investigative journalism he wants, too, BUT FIRST, he must come to his daughter's rescue because what he discovered, albeit, a problem, is more a symptom of a bigger problem, which is his daughter engaging in drugs. Having that sh*t happen to a family member is no joke. He is a father first before he is a journalist, after all. So, relax, read, comprehend people's comments and don't beat down on their opinion.
      -- Not 2.03.

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  73. for me! maaring sinulat niya ang article na yan not to blame csb but to concern parents like him na may anak sa csb! since di naman siya hinarap ng school maybe ang isang parent like him ay gagawa ng isang malaking hakbang para makuha ang attention ng ibang parents dun para sa ikakabutinng kanilang anak! may mali ang anak niya OO malaki kase nahulog siya sa prey ng mga pusher may mali sila Mr tulfo Oo kase as a parent di siguro nila masyado na bantayan ang bata! may mali ang CSB oo baket dapat kahit panu mag take sila ng actions or nakipagkita sila sa mga parents para sa isang meeting how to resolve specific problems ng students! OO totoo ding di nila hawak kung sa labas ng school nila kumuha ng drugs ang mga students pero dapat lang siguro na may gawin silang bagay o ang school admin na mag-contact sa local government para Mashigpitan ang pagbabantay sa area ng makaiwas kahit panu ang mga students!

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  74. Nakakalungkot pero,marameng estudyante ang nagbebenta ng drugs ngayon,not for the sake na makapag aral sila,but for the sake na may maimpabili sila ng luho nila...

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  75. "Coffee shops" hahaha who are you kidding

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  76. if it is true that the drugs are being sold by the students inside the campus then the school has the responsibility to take action because they are supposed to provide a safe and drug free environment for the students

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  77. There are probably 10 students per class and I mean every class that sell drugs!
    Some give it for free for the first time and literally within the campus!
    Also if I ask where did you get those they say that u just need acquintances!
    I am a straight edge person but man I don't think anyone comes out clean from the college after their studies!
    Anyways its a matter common in many institiutes its only that CBS got highlighted!

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  78. Yung iba dito, sobra ang pag praise sa Tulfo na yan. Please hindi na bago ang exposé niya noh. Yung mga "coffee shops" na sinasabi niya mga inhuman kaya yon. Hay naku, bago ma exposé ang anak niya, inunahan niya lang para di siya mapahiya. Ayaw niya mapulahan siya ng mga kalaban niya sa media at mga iba pang kalaban niya dahil bully yang Tulfo na yan. #pwe

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    1. If you read the article inamin nia mismo na gumagamit anak nia. parents of students from CSB should thank him kasi hnd madali mag expose ng ganyang problema. I believe his intention is to let the school be informed of this very serious problem and at least take action on it. This is also to inform the parents on the environment of CSB regarding drugs. magbabayad sila ng mahal na tuition para mapag aral anak nila sa magandang eskwelahan tapos may mga hnd magagandang elemento pala na umaaligid sa school na yan. CSB should take action also. Hindi ung parang wala silang pakielam.

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    2. I agree with you Anon February 19, 2015 at 1:21 AM

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    3. Ikaw namn Anonymous February 18, 2015 at 10:26 PM, ano namn kung nagkamali sya na inuman pala yun? ang importante, sinabi nya kung ano ang hindi masabi ng iba. Siguro hindi ka pa magulang kaya ganyan ka. Malalaman mo kung ano feeling pag college na rin anak mo at nag drugs.

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  79. pag naman ikaw tatay ko ka mon tulfo mag ba balyum ako lagi

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    1. Bakit kilala mo siya personally? Ash wednsday pa lang. Magtika na sa paghusga

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  80. Coffee shop na pala yung beach, plato at the barn?

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    1. baka yun ang sinasabi ng anak nya. "Dad, we'll just study at the Plato coffee shop okay?"

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  81. Hindi ako makapaniwala na ngayon niya lang yan nalaman. DIba Tulfo siya? He shouldve know that, it's an open secret! Bakit niya hinayaan na dun magaral anak niya, hindi niya alam repercussion ng actions niya, ngayon gaganyan siya. You just made your daughter's life a living hell by exposing the obvious to the public, inexpose mo siya sa kapahamakan. By exposing those transactions via your daughter hahabulin anak mo. Hindi ako mabibigla kung may mangyari sa anak mo. You can;t just fight something na matagal ng meron.

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  82. "The coffee shops are Beach, Barn and Plato where students buy drugs from fellow students and other pushers."
    -First off, these aren't coffee shops. They're drinking places.

    "I called the office of the CSB president and vice president from the lobby of the SBA building."
    -SDA , not SBA.

    Get your facts straight. It's sad that it's easy to acquire illegal drugs easily, but that's reality. Why don't parents just get their kids tested randomly. It's not just the school's responsibility to ensure their students are clean.
    If parents are really that worried, they should get their children tested.
    CSB should cooperate, if they did not.. Tulfo could report to the authorities right? I mean he has the names of the places where his daughter got the drugs.

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  83. Mr. Tulfo exposed it out of anger and who knows he must have warned his daughter numerous times but she never listened. I salute you for not giving empty threats to your daughter. This should serve as a lesson to her.

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