12:40, IT WAS THE BIOLOGICAL MOMS CHOICE TO LEAVE HER KIDS TO PURSUE HER DREAM. BUT INSTEAD OF THANKING THE STEPMOM SHE STARTED TO BE ANNOYING ALREADY.
1.13 it was not her choice wala lang siyang nagawa dahil wala siyang pera nun tsaka powerful si benjie nun mdaming pera so anong magagawa niya eh isa lang siyang bata na aanga-anga na ninakawan ng pagkadalaga? Kung itatakas naman niya mga bata papuntang us do you think hindi siya makakasuhan ng kidnapping?
1.13 it was not her choice wala lang siyang nagawa dahil wala siyang pera nun tsaka powerful si benjie nun mdaming pera so anong magagawa niya eh isa lang siyang bata na aanga-anga na ninakawan ng pagkadalaga? Kung itatakas naman niya mga bata papuntang us do you think hindi siya makakasuhan ng kidnapping? Isa pa ayaw ipagkita magiina, umabot pa sa hinabol ni J sila sa airport pero walang nangyari dahil ayaw talaga ni B. Ang tanong bakit hindi makipagreach out si B kay J pr magkaayos na sila?? Kung hindi lng sana takot ung mga bta s ama nila siguro nagkabati n sila.
2:51am, what makes you so sure that they're scared of their father? isn't it also possible that it is their own decision not to renew ties with their mom? given what she's been posting, it's not surprising.
Then why did it take so long? At kung talagang concerned siya sa mga bata, why make everything public? Napupulaan mga anak niya. Sinasabing bad kids at di mapatawad ang ina pero kung totoong mahal na mahal mo mga anak mo, you will protect them. She is trying to clean up her image at the expense ng mga anak niya. Sino ang mabuting ina?
anon 2:51 it was not her choice sabi mo, pero now choice nya tong ginagawa nya..kung talagang matino utak nya, alam nya ang approach na ganyan eh pambabastos at di maganda at di maganda hahantungan sa mga mata ng anak nya na inalagaan ng mabuti ng step mom nila...imagine mo yung mga bata nung napunta sa step mom eh talagang kalikutan stage yan...tingin mo madali sa step mom mag adjust sa 2 kids??? pero kita mo naman ang ganda ng pagpapalaki sa mga bata at matino sa school ..KAHIT yun lang..kahit dun lang magpasalamat dapat si Jackie sa stepmom...di yung puro kagaguhan sinusulat nya, kairita na sya, masyadong low class dating at papansin na..kung ako rin anak nya maiirita ako sa kanya dahil maypagkabob* ang mga sinasabi...
Jackie, please save your dignity. We heard you. We believe your story. But why couldn't you stop? You are pregnant, dear. Don't let your unborn child drink your bitterness. Enough. Live in peace and quiet. For when your heart is still, happiness will alight.
2:51 wag mo idahilanna masyado pa syang bata at aanga anga. sabi mo wala syang pera pero may pangUS sya. naman. ang tunay na ina kahit magdildil sila ng asin ng mga anak nya hindi ito aalis sa tabi nya. mas maganda pa nga sana kung nakapagpakaso sya ng kidnapping na sinasabi mo, o gaya ng sabi nya na may body guard at nagpasapak sa isa sa mga yun. nagpaospital dahil nabugbog sa pakikipaglaban sa anak nya kasi yung sakit ng katawan wala yun kumpara sa sakit ng di mo makasama ang anak mo. mga artista ang mga yan kaya nila gumawa ng eksena . ewan ko lang kung noong unang panahon kapag umiyak siya sa harap ng tv dahil d nya makita ang mga anak nya panigurado sa kanya ang simpatya ng tao. lam mo nman mga pinoy dun sila sa api. pero siguro nga di nya naisip yun o nung magulangni jackie, yun ang tanong dahil sabi nga kung gusto madaming paraan kung ayaw madaming dahilan. *pov ng isang anak na may parehong sitwasyon sa ina*
Hello 2:51 kelan pa naging powerful at mas may pera ang tatay na nanalo sa custody case than the mother? She didnt fight for the custody from the very beginning for whatever reason kung matino kang nanay kahit na wala ka pera never will you leave your children with their dad especially with her claim na masamang tao si Benjie. It was her own choice to leave the kids to Benjie because obviously she cant carry the reaponsibility she was too busy with only herself no excuses pls.
That stepmom stepped up to your responsibilities. How can you hate someone who loved your kids like their own? If I were you, I would forever thankful to the woman who did such a good job raising your kids. All you do is shame them, just stop it. Wait until they are ready for you. Just love them from afar and stop insulting the only mother that they know since they are not recognizing you. Just be happy for the things that they are achieving at the moment. Did she even finished school?
Never underestimate the power of a victim to retaliate after years of silence. May legal term sa ginawa ni kalbo, statutory rape for the live-in arrangements and for marrying her at 15. Aminin!
I feel her pain, and I try to understand her. Marami siyang pwedeng gawin noon. She's an American, and can ask for assistance if needed. Pero bata pa sya noon, medyo shunga pa, so she stumbled from one mistake to another. If only she is given a chance to rekindle her relationahip with her boys, things will be better. Pero mukhang no support from kalbo and the steppie, and that's bad. No matter how bad a relationship ended, always let the children see their mothers. Inner peace comes from the harmony within. Konting consideration na lang sana from the steppie.
Kids, please lang, wag nyong tiisin magulang nyo. An hour over coffee or over the phone makes a world of difference.
Eh pano nga ulit malalapit ang loob ng mga anak niya ginagawa namang talk of the town in a bad way yun buhay ng pamilya nila sa social media ni jackie, tapos kung sino pa yun nag abandon sa mga kids nila siya pa ang may lakas ng loob siraan ang nag aruga at nag pakahirap habang siya ay having a time of her life abroad...ngayon naman yun stepmom ang bin-bother dahil di siya pinapatulan ni ex husband...sa ginagawa ni jackie, nangaaway siya, bakit di niya puntahan kung nasaan si kobe at andre? Yun bang basta mag show up siya....or baka naman hindi na siya happy sa present family niya, kaya nagkakaganyan siya...
11:55 lagi na lang ba katwiran na bata pa sya at medyo shunga? Nasaan ba ang magulang ni Jackie? Bakit wala silang ginagawa nung down na ang anak nila ? Sino ba ang dapat gumabay kay jackie noon? Sino ba dapat hingan ng payo ng kabataan kapag may problema ito? Hahayaan mo na lang ba na maagrabyado ng ibang tao ang anak mo? Na sa oras na kailangan ng isang kabataan ng suporta mula sa nakakatanda e parang mag-isa lang sya? pasalamat sya sa step mother na nagaruga sa anak nya dahil maayos naman na lumaki at hindi pasaway ang anak nila gaya ng ibang kabataan na nagloko dahil sa problema sa bahay at pamilya. Ang pagkakabati ng anak at magulang ay hindi dinadaan sa social media, hindi sa pamamagitan ng paninira sa isa para mapabuti sya. Kung gusto niya magkabati sila matuto syang kumilos puntahan nya ang mga anak nya. Hindi sa social media. dahil wala dun yung sincerity ng pakikipagayos. kung no support din sa pagbabati ang tatay at step mom, e di sya ang gumawa ng paraan. matanda na naman siya at di na aanga anga d ba? siguro by now alam na din nya ang mga karapatan nya lalo na pag hinarang siya ng tatay ng dalawang bata.
agree 11:55! maraming pwede din gawin para magkaayos ayos sila & i think may ginawa naman din si JF kaya lang sadyang nilalayo din talaga ang mga bata.Actually simple lang naman ang solusyon dito eh...bigyan ng chance ang mag-iina.Kung sa umpisa pa lang may cooperation na ang lahat dina sana umabot sa ganito.Lahat tayo nagkakamali pero lahat tayo may karapatan din mabigyan ng chance na magbago or itama ang mga mali.Nanay si JF at mga anak nya lang pinaglalaban nya,desperada na sya kasi mahal nya mga anak nya at im sure gusto lang din nya bumawi sa mga panahon na di sila magkakasama.Just give them a chance..ipagdasal na lang natin sila kesa ibash ng ibash! Napaka hirap na sitwasyon nila.
I know that stepmon, schoolmate way way before. She's really maldita. Wawa nman si Jackie, poisoning her kids, when it's not necessary! after all sya pa rin yun biological mom, sya ang nagluwal, just unfortunate nagkalabuan sila ng tatay, pero sana hindi nila pahirapan pa si Jackie ng ganito, sila nagmumukhang baddies sa totoo lang!
Me too, I hope she reconciles with her sons soon, kun hindi man kina Benjie & his wife, at least nman the couple help-out the mom&kids to be ok, pinapa-complicate lng nila, may mga hinanakit pa ang tatanda na ng mga bata, may kanya-kanya na silang pamilya, di pa sila maka-move on! Where's forgiveness and compassion, hindi ba sila Christians??? naiinis na tuloy ako sa couple, appears so ruthless at madamot!
my god people give Jackie a break she is only 15 when she get pregant and became a mom she's not perfect and alam nya yun. Ang gusto nya lang itama... Mahirap yun condition nya before at di sya pinayagan. I believe her kasi naamin naman sya ng pagkukulang nya. She just wants the truth
Along with her most recent posts, may sinulat siya na ginagawa lang niya ito para sa sarili niya dahil ayaw na niya dalhin yung baggage from the past, and since malalaki na raw yung mga anak niya kay Paras at nakakaintindi na yung mga bata, puwede na raw niya isiwalat lahat.
FP, baka meron kang kopya nung mga first to third posts niya sa IG. Nabasa ko kasi yung sa ibang site.
If that's the case, napaka selfish naman. Para lang gumaang loob nya, kesehoda sa feelings ng mga anak Nya. If that's true, ang immature pa din Nya, then.
Oo nga, I wonder what Jackie's husband thinks about all the vitriol his wife is putting out there in the World Wide Web... Hindi man lang kaya siya pinipigilan? O walang pakialam? Kasi bakit parang walang control sa pagwawala niya. I wonder kung talagang happy ang new family life niya. Kasi kung ganon, why not just post about that?
yan nmn yta ang gusto nya sa buhay yung sitting pretty lng xa. sinasabi nya s posts nya girls shldnt be dependent frm their husbands,eh kng mghiwalay din kya cla ng hubby nya kya nya kaya buhayin kids nya?
Nakakalungkot lang kasi may cancer half sister nila kobe and andre pero matigas pa rin puso nila. They didn't even visit their sister, grabe galit sa puso nila. The flames of hatred won't keep burning if someone is fanning the flames.
Ang di ko lang kinakaya kay ate girl, puro #Godiswatching at #Godismystrength. NAKAKALOKA KA EH NANG-AAWAY KA DYAN. Kapag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo raw ng tinapay. Kahit gaano pa katotoo mga sinasabi ni ateng, the point is she's doing something wrong to her neighbor. SO STOP USING GOD'S NAME IN VAIN. Maka-#Godiswatching ka sa posts mo pero puro hatred at bitterness naman. PLEASE LANG PO.
Korek. Mas marami pa ring paraan ng pakikipag-ayos kesa sa pagkakalat sa publiko. She might be speaking the truth but the way she's expressing it mas lalo magagalit yung mga kids nya.
2:33 Kung nagawa na niya lahat at na-exhaust na niya lahat ng resources - from sending a PRIVATE EMAIL to her sons' email addresses to sending DIRECT MESSAGES, TEXT MESSAGES, and whatnot, hindi ba dapat antayin na lang niya yung God's time? That is, kung naniniwala talaga siya na lahat nangyayari IN GOD'S TIME. Hindi yung nangpupublic shame siya ng mga tao. Kung nag-email na siya, nagtext, nagprivate message, etc. at hindi nagreply mga anak niya, what makes her think na itong mga litanya niya in public ay babasahin ng mga bagets?
True Dat! Sana si StepMom din bilang ina eh konting unawa naman sa kalagayan ni Jackie. I would admire the StepMom kung sana maging tulay siya sa pagkakaayos ng MagIna.
Kung ayaw ng anak makipabati walang magagawa, ang stepmom. Bakit hindi na lang manahimik kasi si Jackie, itikom nya bibig nya at wag putak ng putak. Ayusin nya sarili nya. Sa kakaputak nya lalong lumalayo ang loob ng anak nya sa kanya. Children will love those peoole who truly love them and those who were around while they were growing up.
Maybe the stepmom tried it before pero baka nasabihan na siya na huwag ng makialam. Sana kung di ok ang dating ng pinost ni jackie kay stepmom wag na lang patulan. Unawain na lang niya. Eto namang si jackie dapat tigilan ng pagpopost ng paninira, paano niya makukuha ang loob ng mga anak niya kung ginaganun yun dad nila na kinalakihan nila at nag aruga sa kanila, sa halip mag post siya ng ikaka good vibes nila, keep reaching out thru twitter or ig or fb kung ayaw makipagusap sa kanya, give her kids TIME to ease the pain yun feeling na in-abandone sila nung maliit pa sila.
1.01, hindi sa ayaw nila kundi takot lang sila sa ama nila. Manipulated nga eh? Pag sinabing manipulated may takot yan.... yong sinasabi nila na pinagsasabihan niya sila na makipagbati? Sus, papogi lang yon dahil kung totoo yon siya mismo ang lalapit kay jackie ng personal ha para ipagbati-bati sila.
You keep saying that they're scared pero everytime Kobe or Andre posts something about their stepdad and stepmom, it radiates with love. If they have no respect for the family that they grew up with, I doubt they'll post anything on social media.
Wow 2.30 i never thought you knew everything in this story. E di ikaw na ang madaming alam! Don't forget that your assumptions doesn't equate the truth.
How do you know all these details? By nature, children clings to the mother. It's a universal fact. Children will only hate a mother when she is cruel to them. Their affection will transfer to another parent figure who they think is kind to them and takes care of them. They will never develop affection for someone not there or usually absent.
Wow and you are privy to what the boys are thinking and feeling? We don't know the entire truth and story so let's avoid making conclusions about people's character
I think takot nga ang boys na mawala amor sa kanila ni Benjie. He is the constant parent in their life and the only choice he is giving them now is "choose boys, Jackie or me." If the father made it clear that he wnt tolerate the real mom being in their life then there is this fear of abandonment by the parent they deemed as the reliable one. I hope someday when they are more independent, they will be able to make decision based on love and forgiveness. Andre and Kobe still has a lot of growing up to do.
hindi naman talaga mapapalitan yun. Pero may mga step parents din na mas kayang pahalagahan at bigyan ng importansya at priority at kaya din nilang tumayo bilang magulang sa mga batang hindi nila anak na hindi kayang ibigay ng tunay na magulang
This is not helping Jackie's case. If anything, she's pushing them away even more. Yung stepmother ang kinalakihan nilang ina, yes that could be very painful for the biological mother but ruining the reputation of someone who had guided them throughout their youth that eventually, they have grown to love can only alienate Jackie even more from her kids. If I were her, I would stop with the patutsada. Stay in silence and give the kids time. Pinapahiya niya lang lalo mga anak niya sa ginagawa niya.
Ganito lang yan eh, pag mahal mo ba ang isang tao, like you would a real mother, gugustuhin mo bang may mam-bash sakanya? Maiinis ka rin, diba? Jackie has to stop this if she really wants things to be fixed in due time.
12.35.Nope! Binibigyan lang nya sila ng mga insight ng kung ano ba talaga ang nangyari. Lalong lalayo? Nope dati na silang malayo dahil takot sila sa ama nila.
Dati na nga silang malayo, pinapalayo mo pa, Jackie, dahil sa mga pinaggagagawa mo. What's happening is you're ruining Benjie's name for them to take YOUR side. Why not find a way for them to love you and Benjie BOTH? Sabihin na nating totoo na nilalayo ni Benjie ang mga anak mo sayo, kelangan ba tapatan mo din sila? Pag nakuha mo na sila, anong gagawin mo? Sasabihan mo din ba sila ng masama tungkol sa ama nila gaya ng ginagawa mo ngayon?
so anon 2:23..by jackie doing this..you think anong ma fi feel ng mga anak nya? tamang paraan ba tong ginagawa nya or mas lalong maiirita mga anak nya sa kanya..di gawain ng matinong tao ang magpatutsada ng ganyan lalo na dealing with family matters...jackie needs to grow some brain first, kung totoong God sinasabi nya at mahal nya mga anak nya....give them respect, do things discreetly in a respectful manner, di yung ugaling kalye parati...nakaka low class talaga at lalong napapahiya mga anak nya...
Uy andito si Jackie, anon 2:23 hello! Gising hoy! Musta naman yang pinaggagagawa mo? Kahit pa ikaw ang nagsasabi ng totoo ang lumalabas naman e ang nega mo. Bigyan mo ng time mga anak mo tutal sabi mo nga malaki na sila, alam na nila dapat gawin. Wag atat ok??
Naisip ko rin yan kanina. Kasi why is she so preoccupied with him? Ginugulo niya yung pamilya ni Benjie. Naisip ko rin baka pinaglilijian niya si Benjie kasi may nagkoment dito na bunt is nga raw siya.
Naman! Dapat pa ba mag post ng ganyan? Hindi naman kasalanan ng stepmother kung ayaw tlga sya kausapin at patawarin ng mga anak ni jackie. Pasalamat ka nga dapat jackie dahil ang naging stepmom ng mga anak mo hindi gaya ng ibang madrasta na bruha lang. Baka kung ikaw pa Jackie ang naging stepmom malas ng stepchildren mo at hahanapan mo sila palagi ng mali. Based lang naman observation ko sa mga pinopost mo.
Excuse me! Kung hindi nega ang Jackie, hindi rin nega ang reaksyon ko! Gaya nyan pinost nya hindi ba ka-negahan yan. Tama bang iprovoke pa nya yung taong nag alaga sa mga anak nya??
12.36, girl may malalim na dahilan yan ky siya nagpost ng ganyan. Siguro pinapalabas nung isa na kinalimutan na siya nung mga anak niya at siya na ang pumalit sa pwesto niya, yan ay base sa post niya. Imbes na gawin niya ang tama hindi nangingialam pa, pinapalaki ang gulo ng magiina, un bang sulsul. Sayang teacher pa naman. Hibdi siya magandang impluwensiya!
Tamaaah! Ako din tingin ko mabagsik si jackie 12:36. Ibang klase din ang loka instead maging grateful sa 2nd wife ni Benjie dahil inalagaan at napalaki ng maayos dalawang anak nya, ayan nagpaparinig pa si jackie. Kung ako sa kanya gawa sya ng paraan in private para maramdaman ng mga anak nya na sincere sya kesa sa public sya nag dadrama. Mamimisintepret lang ng mga anak nya yang ginagawa nya.
2:16 Pwede rin na ayaw makialam ni stepmom kasi pwedeng sila ni Benjie ang magka problema lalo na si Benjie naman tlga ang galit kay Jackie in the first place. Meron kasing mga bagay na hindi natin pwede ipilit sa ibang tao. Ang pinaka maganda dyan mag pray na lang sa diyos mag hintay ng tahimik. Pwede din si Jackie mag effort sa mga anak nya na hindi na kailangan may maging tulay ma. Kung matiyaga syang mag palaramdam sa mga anak nya na mahal nya ang mga ito at kahit mag muka na syang aso kakahabol sa mga anak im sure one day makikita at marerealize din nila Kobe at Andre sincerity ng nanay nila. Wala naman kasi syang mapapala sa kaka post nya lalo lang sya mag mumukang nega.
Yan ang nagpapatunay na full of bitterness tong si Jackie...kahit anong nangyari at mangyayari pa...Jackie should see that the step mom did a pretty darn job raising 2 boys that are not her own....kita mo naman the boys flourished talaga, di nawaldas future at nag aaral parin...nice young men kung baga....if not for that alone..Jackie should be kissing the step mother's *SS ..sa totoo lang...magpasalamat ka nalang sa mga nagawa nya for your 2 sons..di yung tinitira mo pa sya....you ungrateful horrible human being that happened to bore 2 sons
Anon 1:31 aka Jackie, give it a rest dear. Buntis ka. Mamaya nyan maapektuhan na nman ang baby ika-bitter mo pa lalo. Sabi nila, ang guilty, noisy. Explain ng explain. Wala nga kami dapat alam e, di ka nga namin kinundina. Pero nung umingay ka ng umingay, ayan na. Kaya nman pala...konsensya. Madami kmi dito gustong magpayo sa yo but we know how smart you think of yourself kaya iro na lng, itulog mo yan.
Imbes na ngawa ka ng ngawa sa IG mo, Bakit Di mo na lang suportahan anak mo sa America. Pwede ka namang magpost sa IG ng mga anak mo everyday saying I love you and I miss you, if ever you need me or would like to talk I'm just here. Oh ayan dapat ganyan ang ginagawa mo Jackie, positive dapat wag lagi kang nakikipag away sa atensyon ng mga anak mo. Give them now the attention they longed for from you kahit sa IG man Lang, Baka sakali lumambot PUSO nila, sagutin ka na. Kaloka!
Di kaya HINDI talaga masaya ang buhay ni jackie kaya siya nagkakaganyan? Kaya mukhang gusto niya awayin lahat ng malalapit sa ex niya? Or much worst, may psychological issue na siya?
oh jackie, if ur kids are telling d world their step mom was so good to them, u shud be thankful... u know why? at least she showed them love. it is so hard to take care of children. it is a 24/7 job. lalo na siguro kng indi mo kadugo. u are miserable now for a reason. cguro me ksalanan c Benjie pero me ksalanan ka din. indi mo pwede lagi gawin dhilan na bata ka nun dhil indi lahat ng naging batang Ina irresponsible.
Just be thankful that someone was there to nurture and love your kids while you were away. She didnt took your place, because no one can ever replace a biological mom. But she loved your kids like her own.
Alam nyo,kung gagawa lng ng hakbang c benjie at asawa nya na ipaliwanag sa mga bata na patawarin na ang kanilang ina,mas maraming matutuwa sa hahanga sa knila,tutal nag suffer namn na c jackie ng ilang years,bayad na sya sa kasalanan nya,at tingin ko sa mga bata eh takot lng cla kay benjie at stepmom nila,pero narardaman ko na naawa cla kay jackie,pero wala cla magawa.naniniwala ako na hindi magiging masaya ang buhay nila na may galit sa magulang.ang pagpatawad ay nasa puso at kinakalimutan lahat ng sama ng loob para makapagumpisa uli at bigyan ng pagkakataon ang knilang ina na ipakita at iparamdam ang pagmamahal sa knila
Sasaya sla pag tumigil na si jackie at magmove on...see no comment nga sla 'bout sa mga pnaggagawa ni jackie..privacy and respect ang gusto ng mga bata..hindi na sla bata.
Easier said than done. Hindi natin alam kung gaano kalalim yung pinag ugatan ng problema nila. In God's time magkakapatawaran din mga yan pero for now hindi natin pwede iexpect na mag patawad si Benjie kung di pa nya gusto.
2.32, sinuwerte nga si Benjie dahil hindi siya idinimanda ng statutory rape dahil inisip ni Jackie ang mga anak nila. Pero sana itinuloy ni Jackie 'yon kung ganyan din lang pala ang gagawin niya dahil kung itinuloy niya ito baka sa kanya pa napunta full custody ng mga anak niya. Sana inisip ni Benjie ang sacrifice ni Jackie pero wala dahil napakaselfish niya.
FYI statutory rape is only for people below TWELVE (12) years old. Get it, TWELVE! Eleven ba si Jackie nung mabuntis? Plus they got married. And the court granted BENJIE the custody despite the kids being below 7 years old. Ordinarily in situation where the kids are below 7, the mother would get custody, except if the mother is unfit. SEE, the court awarded the custody to Benjie because he is the better parent. Pagkatapos nung decision nagpa interview si jackie left and right at siniraan si Benjie. What sacrifice are you talking about? Nagsacrifice si Jackie? Saang banda?
True. Mga binatilyo na yung kids. Lalo sila nahihiya sa pinaggagagawa ni Jackie.
If totoo man na pinagdamot sa kanya yung mga bata, na ni brainwash yung mga bata, etc. the fact is, obviously lumaki pa din silang maayos. And Jackie should be thankful sa stepmom dahil dun.
Jackie your just only the biological mother..it takes a lot of effort to be the mom...nasan mga magulang mo nung mga 15 yrs old ka pa..pinabayaan ka rin ba?
Lol yung stepmom nga lalo nagpapalayo sa mag-iina..kaya ganyan post ni jackie...minamaliit kaya siya ng stepmom...kung anu-ano pinagsasabi sa facebook...dapat nga siya maging tulay para magkaayos pero baliktad lalo niya pinag-aaway ang mag-ina..dapat lang siya lumugar noh
Really? Friend kayo sa FB ng stepmom? If that's the case, knowing how feisty and a warfreak Jackie is, im sure she already made a screenshot of that post and spread it all over media. How come wala syang maipakitang evidence against these people she hates the most?
She had. Jackie did get a hold of a post by the stepmom, at pasaring to against her (Jackie). If you have time to backtrack her IG, you'll see it. Kung wala naman, manahimik ka na lang diyan.
The stepmom, while she took care of Andre and Kobe, did it because she wanted to win Benjie back in the day. She (the stepmom) was the boys' tutor, who eventually became their father's girlfriend and now wife. She has more motive to ingrain bad things about Jackie to the boys than Jackie trying to malign her in her IG account.
Huwag ka mag imbento. She was not the kids tutor. And FYI she was a commercial model who became a preschool teacher. She could have had any man she wanted. You make it sound like she was desperate for the love of a divorcee with excess baggage. Niligawan siya. She fell in love. Fact. Itong mga followers ni Jackie ang galing mag habi ng kwento wala naman mga sources kundi imagination nila. Nakakaloka.If you want to talk about motive, it is obviously the still bitter ex wife whose children cannot stand her because of her immaturity and selfishness. Go read the public court records para matauhan ka. The stepmom is loved and respected. She does not need to stoop down to a level so low as the ex wife who still cant seem to pull her life together.
You can rant all you want. Awayin mo si Benjie, awayin mo yung stepmom, isiwalat mo lahat ng gusto isiwalat. Na masama si Benjie, di tinuruan ng tama mga anak mo, na kawawa ka, ikaw ang api, etc etc. Pero please lang, at the end of your post, wag mo nang idamay si God. Dahil kung totoo yang God hashtags mo, the first thing you would have done is forgive all who wronged you at ipaubaya sa Diyos ang pag aayos ng pamilya mo. Tutal follower ka ni God, then you must also know that everything happens for a reason. And if your hearts desire was not given to you... Wait. Very patiently. Because great things happen in GOD'S TIME. Learn. Forgive. And practice what you hashtag. Thank you.
Exactly! Didn't she mention in one of her posts that her mom was against the relationship since she was too young then? How come the mom didn't do anything considering the fact that she can file a case against Benjie? There might be something that Jackie didn't say...because a minor cannot get married without parental consent. They wouldn't be granted a marriage certificate. Sooo, where was the mom? Condoning her daughter's actions? Agreeing to the marriage? There's a huge gap in Jackie's stories. Inconsistencies that are missed by some who were carried away by Jackie's drama.
Okay na sana yung previous post niya, pero to post attacking the step mom is a little overboard. Kung gusto niya mapalapit wag niya ibash si stepmom kasi mas lalo magagalit ang mga anak niya. Dati may yaya ako pag may nang lalait sa kanya, napapaaway ako. Ito pa kaya na napangasawa ng tatay nila at talaga may motherly presence, im sure nasasaktan sila.
I myself is a stepmom. From what I heard, sinisiraan sya nung current wife which is wrong. She should know her boundaries as a step mom. Tamang mahalin nya ang mga bata, Mas tama kung turuan nyang magpatawad. Respect the fact na buhay pa ang tunay na Ina nila.
Baloney! Were you around while the stepmom was raising the kids? Sino source mo? Si Jackie? hahaha. The crazy ex wife was not even there. She was too busy getting pregnant and partying. Even before the stepmom entered the scene, Jackie's been pointing blame at others except herself.
The fact the Benjie and his wife are not responding makes me respect them more. In the end, ang mabuting magulang ay yung pinangangalagaan ang kapakanan ng anak. By not responding and not making it a bigger issue, they are protecting the kids. By washing her dirty linen in public, Jackie is dragging her kids into this muck that she is creating.
1:31 ayaw lng nilang bumaba sa level ni jackie na hanggang keyboard warrior lng..bkit hindi nya dalhin sa korte ang lahat dba..ipaungkat nya lhat ng kaso kung meron man..
A biological parent who is not next to their child while growing up is not really a parent. They are just selfish people who got pregnant and didn't want the responsibility of raising a kid. Sorry but that is how i see it.
It was Jackie's choice. Life is all about choices, you just have to pick the right one. Instead of annoying your children's stepmom, why not thank her?
Buti nga eh itinuring ng stepmom na tunay na anak yung dalawa. May instances pa nga diba na inaapi ng stepmom ang mga step children. Di pa sya magpasalamat.
Ms jackie, im sorry to tell, but you are SCARY.. kya, am not surprised at how things are between you and your kids..hope things will be fine though, eventually..no offense meant po.
I always see jackie saying things about benjie and the stepmom. Can you post a link please showing that the stepmom is saying negative things about jackie? As i said, side lng ni jackie yung nababasa ko e. Im hoping to understand where jackie is coming from. Find it weird kasi na parang all praises yung mga kids to the stepmom. dahil ba na brainwashed or the stepmom was truly good to them? I think we all know nman na kids nowadays are smart. You cant easily fool them, the same way that you cant dictate or impose on them. While benjie or the stepmom can talk to the kids, ultimately it is still the kids decision. And maybe thats what benjie and the stepmom is doing, letting the kids decide on their own. It's gatd to impose, so let them be...when they are ready. As it is, the kids are not yet ready, so give them time jackie. Dont push.
Anonymous February 28, 2015 at 2:44 AM Galing mo manermon. Kilalang kilala mo si God pero napaka high and mighty mo. Magkatabi ba kayo ngayon? Sana tinuraan ka ng sympathy at humility.
Why, what's wrong with what Anon2:44AM said? Hindi yun pagiging high and mighty, tamang advice lang yun. You can even call it common sense if you want.
Bottom line, the boys aren't ready to talk to her JUST YET. Again, JUST YET. So wag na i-push at wag na -ruin ang chances by talking smack about the woman who was there when the biological mother wasn't.
Insecure kasi si stepmom kasi alam nya na mahal pa ni benjie si jackie kaya kinuha nya ang kalooban ng mga bata para mahalin sya ni benjie. Heard na si stepmom ang unang magpakita ng motibo ke benjie.
If Jackie really loves her children they would think of their welfare first and not her own feelings. Nananahimik ang mga bata. They're asking for space but Jackie can't wait and can't give it to them. Puro sya ang dapat intindihin. Puro feelings nya ang dapat mauna. The children are of age. They can think for themselves. They can't be dictated. If they truly want to see you no one can stop them. Likewise, if they don't want to see you, no one can force them.
Jackie should just concentrate on her other child who is ill and needs most of her attention right now instead of posting her diary on social media.
Pinaka naaawa ako doon kay Kobe. Biro mo, high school student on a scholarship. Malayo sa parents. Naka tira sa isang host parent. Pagod juggling training, school and competitions. Para lang maitaguyod ang pangarap. Stressful kaya ang situation nya. Tapos eto ang nanay na nagbibigay ng mas marami pang stress sa bata. Dagdag na emotional burden. Jackie is being super selfish by not thinking of her sons' welfare. Sabagay she's been selfish and self-centered all her life. Ang mahalaga eh sarili nya. Expect pa ba natin na iba ngayon?
Nako, parang masyado namang shineshelter ang mga batang yan. Maswerte sila at nagagawa nila ang gusto nila. Napalaki.naman sila ng maayos at mukhang skilled sa art of deadma. Hayaan ang nanay na kumuda sa social media kung gusto nya, account naman nya yon at matatanda na mga anak nya. Welfare, welfare pa dyan, he's an adult and should be completely independent at this point.
Kobe is not yet an adult. Plus yes, Benjie has done a tremendous job raising such high achieving and well mannered boys, but that does not mean that Jackie should have the free hand to bother and stress them out. She's unnecessarily exposing them to public ridicule.
Malalaki na yung mga bata. They have their own minds. Sa ginagawa ni Jackie feeling mo motivated pa si Benjie and wife to help her eh kaliawa't kanan ang ginagawa niyang pag bash dun sa mag-asawa.
Bakit ganyan mga comments nyo? She is clearly desperate to reconcile with her sons as any mother would be and the only way she knows how is thru social media. How can you say magpasalamat na lang sya and move on? She might have made mistakes before but she was a 15 year old girl taken advantage of by a 25 year old man. That is a crime in itself.
For example, you made a decision to marry someone. You both love each other and have been together for so many years, and decide to start a new life together. Then your mother cannot accept your decision and would do anything to - destroy your marriage and put you under her control again - and that includes announcing to the world that your spouse cannot replace her. She wants to get you back into her house where she can tell you what to do, everyday. Would you reconcile with her now, or probably just wait until she stops shouting? I think this is a very similar situation.
The thing that I can't forget about Jackie Forster is when she was interview by Paolo Bediones long ago in Star Talk, all I can vaguely remember is that she was whining about how she's poor and don't have any money. For some reason I can't remember talk about her kid too much. I know she talked about her and Benji and the issue. But! A month after that I saw her shopping @ Rustans she was wearing an all white polo shirt matched with a white short skirt. She gave me that I don't care stare on her face as she walked away happily shopping. In just that one moment many conclusions came into to my head: 1.) Is that she is a liar! Seeing her cry, some Oscar worthy tears cause she's broke then see her later shopping at Rustans of all places. So ngayon all washed up celebs shop at Rustans? 2.) The first time I saw her personally @ Rustans I felt she was confident wearing a short skirt w/ having thunder thighs. No offense she still looked good w/ that. Then just recently show pics of her and crew of people w/ a plunging bikini w/ her cleavage out there seems like a person who is comfortable w/ her own body. 3.) Is that I do somehow believe that she is slightly changed. A bit I mean you can see her reach out and freak out!!! I don't think the kids want to see her, especially on how she's acting! Finally why not VISIT Kobe sa US? I mean is it that impossible is she BADLY needs to see them ? Pwede naman cya visit when he practice? Wla naman don si Benjie dba? Wla rin yan silang bodyguard so yeah why not visit him? I think she'd be badly hurt when she sees Kobe talk back at her!
Yung nagtatanggol kuno kay Jackie puro accusations na nambrainwash si Stepmom at Tatay.
Jackie, andami mong free time ha. Gamitin mo sana para makinig sa mga tao dito na may sensible comments at magreflect ka.
Una, ang selfish mo. Gusto mo magkaayos kayo ng mga anak mo, gusto ng peace of mind, gusto mo ibridge ka ng tatay at stepmom sa mga anak mo. Puro GUSTO MO. Pano naman yung gusto nila? Makakabuti ba sa kanila yung mga gusto mo e d pa nga sila ready?
Pangalawa, kahit anong accusations mo sa mag-asawang nagpalaki sa mga anak mo, the fact remains na pinalaki nila nang maayos yung mga anak mo nung wala ka sa buhay nila. Maayos yung ugali nila considering na pwedeng may masamang repercussions yung wala ka sa buhay nila (di ko sinabing inabandona mo sila to give you the benefit of the doubt). Kahit anong reasons mo, the fact remains na wala ka sa buhay nila and that could have scarred them in one way or another.
Third, sobrang maswerte ka at sila kasi may babaing tumanggap sa kanila at tinuring silang parang tunay na anak nung mga panahong wala ka. And they know this fact. Kaya ganon na lang nila kamahal yung stepmom nila. Kahit ano sabihin mo, sya ang naghirap. And the more you attack her, mas lalo nilang ipagtatanggol at mamahalin ang stepmom nila (lalo na sa pinapakita mong opinyon sa babaeng yun, mas naaaffirm ang thinking nila na ikaw ang masama). Sa pinapakita mo, parang gusto mong wala na lang silang naging nanay habang wala ka. Selfish mo talaga, gurl.
Ano ba gusto mo, wala ka sa buhay nila tapos iba nagpalaki tapos pagbalik mo kanila e hindi sila galit sayo at patatawarin ka nang ganon ganon lang? Isipin mo kung ikaw asa pwesto nila ha.
Hayaan mo muna sila. Babalik yan sayo kasi kahit ano mangyari, someday marerealize nilang ikaw pa rin ang nanay nila. Pero d yun mangyayari agad-agad at di yun nangyayari by antagonizing them and by making them hate your ex and his current wife.
Hayaan mo na muna sila. Deal with your demons on your own muna. Forgive yourself before you ask for forgiveness from them. Count your blessings - na ok sila and they grew up to be sons that you can be proud of, na may pamilya ka na rin na pwede mong buhusan ng pagmamahal at atensyon, na may asawa ka nang mas mature at may maayos ka nang buhay despite all the things you've been through. Remember that you can still love them from afar.
Sorry kung mahaba pero I'm sincerely concerned hehe. You are in my prayers.
how can u say forget ur own sons and just move on and be happy. if u know that u don't deserve their dedmatic reaction towards u eh ipaglalaban mo ang pagmamahal mo bilang ina. ang nakakainis eh ang ama na nagtanim ng ganyan na attitude sa mga anak.
Jackie, it's time to see a shrink. I think you have a narcissistic personality disorder. If you do not address this, you might end up destroying all of your other existing relationships.
Poor poor jackie! For goodness sake, stop being so pathetic and focus on your pregnancy as well as your 2 kids. Grow up, you're not 15 anymore, duh?!!!
Kung talagang maganda ang pagpapalaki sa mga anak, dapat lumaki ang mga bata na walang dala-dala or inaalagaang galit sa puso nila... Sobra bang mahirap magpatawad kahit na sabihing na-trauma ang mga bata? Mga bata pa sila nung nangyrai yun. Marami ng panahon ang lumipas... Sana, natutunan din nilang magparaya at magpatawad dahil ang sabi nga ng marami, maganda ang pagpapalaki sa kanila ni Benjie at ng Stepmom... Kung totoo nga yan, eh di sana sinubukan din ng mga anak na makipag-reach out sa ina. Ang mali ni Jackie ay puro siya post ng post sa social media na hindi na dapat but i keep on trying to understand her. Yan nalang siguro ang natitira niyang alas or naiisip na paraan dahil sabik siya sa mga anak niya.
why just not thank her instead because she was there while you were not?
ReplyDeletecrazy, selfish woman. bakit nya ginagalit at minamaliit yung stepmom e inalagaan at minahal naman yung mga anak nya nuong wala sya.
DeleteNot her choice not to be with her children, pls get your facts right.
DeleteWhether by choice or not, she still was not there.....FACT! Just be thankful that someone was there to love them.
Delete12:40, IT WAS THE BIOLOGICAL MOMS CHOICE TO LEAVE HER KIDS TO PURSUE HER DREAM. BUT INSTEAD OF THANKING THE STEPMOM SHE STARTED TO BE ANNOYING ALREADY.
DeleteThe step mom did a good job Jackie you should be thankful di sila natulad sayo at the age of 14.
Delete1.13 it was not her choice wala lang siyang nagawa dahil wala siyang pera nun tsaka powerful si benjie nun mdaming pera so anong magagawa niya eh isa lang siyang bata na aanga-anga na ninakawan ng pagkadalaga? Kung itatakas naman niya mga bata papuntang us do you think hindi siya makakasuhan ng kidnapping?
Delete1.13 it was not her choice wala lang siyang nagawa dahil wala siyang pera nun tsaka powerful si benjie nun mdaming pera so anong magagawa niya eh isa lang siyang bata na aanga-anga na ninakawan ng pagkadalaga? Kung itatakas naman niya mga bata papuntang us do you think hindi siya makakasuhan ng kidnapping? Isa pa ayaw ipagkita magiina, umabot pa sa hinabol ni J sila sa airport pero walang nangyari dahil ayaw talaga ni B. Ang tanong bakit hindi makipagreach out si B kay J pr magkaayos na sila?? Kung hindi lng sana takot ung mga bta s ama nila siguro nagkabati n sila.
Delete2:51am, what makes you so sure that they're scared of their father? isn't it also possible that it is their own decision not to renew ties with their mom? given what she's been posting, it's not surprising.
Delete2:51 Sya ang nanay so paano sya makakasuhan ng kidnapping?
DeleteThen why did it take so long? At kung talagang concerned siya sa mga bata, why make everything public? Napupulaan mga anak niya. Sinasabing bad kids at di mapatawad ang ina pero kung totoong mahal na mahal mo mga anak mo, you will protect them. She is trying to clean up her image at the expense ng mga anak niya. Sino ang mabuting ina?
Deleteanon 2:51 it was not her choice sabi mo, pero now choice nya tong ginagawa nya..kung talagang matino utak nya, alam nya ang approach na ganyan eh pambabastos at di maganda at di maganda hahantungan sa mga mata ng anak nya na inalagaan ng mabuti ng step mom nila...imagine mo yung mga bata nung napunta sa step mom eh talagang kalikutan stage yan...tingin mo madali sa step mom mag adjust sa 2 kids??? pero kita mo naman ang ganda ng pagpapalaki sa mga bata at matino sa school ..KAHIT yun lang..kahit dun lang magpasalamat dapat si Jackie sa stepmom...di yung puro kagaguhan sinusulat nya, kairita na sya, masyadong low class dating at papansin na..kung ako rin anak nya maiirita ako sa kanya dahil maypagkabob* ang mga sinasabi...
DeleteShe was just a kid before.... I believe jackie was Powerless... Benjie had so much and lots of connections before...
DeleteJackie, please save your dignity. We heard you. We believe your story. But why couldn't you stop? You are pregnant, dear. Don't let your unborn child drink your bitterness. Enough. Live in peace and quiet. For when your heart is still, happiness will alight.
Delete2:51 wag mo idahilanna masyado pa syang bata at aanga anga. sabi mo wala syang pera pero may pangUS sya. naman. ang tunay na ina kahit magdildil sila ng asin ng mga anak nya hindi ito aalis sa tabi nya. mas maganda pa nga sana kung nakapagpakaso sya ng kidnapping na sinasabi mo, o gaya ng sabi nya na may body guard at nagpasapak sa isa sa mga yun. nagpaospital dahil nabugbog sa pakikipaglaban sa anak nya kasi yung sakit ng katawan wala yun kumpara sa sakit ng di mo makasama ang anak mo. mga artista ang mga yan kaya nila gumawa ng eksena . ewan ko lang kung noong unang panahon kapag umiyak siya sa harap ng tv dahil d nya makita ang mga anak nya panigurado sa kanya ang simpatya ng tao. lam mo nman mga pinoy dun sila sa api. pero siguro nga di nya naisip yun o nung magulangni jackie, yun ang tanong dahil sabi nga kung gusto madaming paraan kung ayaw madaming dahilan. *pov ng isang anak na may parehong sitwasyon sa ina*
DeleteHello 2:51 kelan pa naging powerful at mas may pera ang tatay na nanalo sa custody case than the mother? She didnt fight for the custody from the very beginning for whatever reason kung matino kang nanay kahit na wala ka pera never will you leave your children with their dad especially with her claim na masamang tao si Benjie. It was her own choice to leave the kids to Benjie because obviously she cant carry the reaponsibility she was too busy with only herself no excuses pls.
Deletenaloloka na ata si jackie. Parinig ng parinig di naman pinapansin. Nakakabaliw talaga yan
DeleteThat stepmom stepped up to your responsibilities. How can you hate someone who loved your kids like their own? If I were you, I would forever thankful to the woman who did such a good job raising your kids. All you do is shame them, just stop it. Wait until they are ready for you. Just love them from afar and stop insulting the only mother that they know since they are not recognizing you. Just be happy for the things that they are achieving at the moment. Did she even finished school?
DeleteNever underestimate the power of a victim to retaliate after years of silence. May legal term sa ginawa ni kalbo, statutory rape for the live-in arrangements and for marrying her at 15. Aminin!
DeleteI feel her pain, and I try to understand her. Marami siyang pwedeng gawin noon. She's an American, and can ask for assistance if needed. Pero bata pa sya noon, medyo shunga pa, so she stumbled from one mistake to another. If only she is given a chance to rekindle her relationahip with her boys, things will be better. Pero mukhang no support from kalbo and the steppie, and that's bad. No matter how bad a relationship ended, always let the children see their mothers. Inner peace comes from the harmony within. Konting consideration na lang sana from the steppie.
Kids, please lang, wag nyong tiisin magulang nyo. An hour over coffee or over the phone makes a world of difference.
Hugot moment lang... FYI, I'm a steppie. ;)
Eh pano nga ulit malalapit ang loob ng mga anak niya ginagawa namang talk of the town in a bad way yun buhay ng pamilya nila sa social media ni jackie, tapos kung sino pa yun nag abandon sa mga kids nila siya pa ang may lakas ng loob siraan ang nag aruga at nag pakahirap habang siya ay having a time of her life abroad...ngayon naman yun stepmom ang bin-bother dahil di siya pinapatulan ni ex husband...sa ginagawa ni jackie, nangaaway siya, bakit di niya puntahan kung nasaan si kobe at andre? Yun bang basta mag show up siya....or baka naman hindi na siya happy sa present family niya, kaya nagkakaganyan siya...
Delete11:55 lagi na lang ba katwiran na bata pa sya at medyo shunga? Nasaan ba ang magulang ni Jackie? Bakit wala silang ginagawa nung down na ang anak nila ? Sino ba ang dapat gumabay kay jackie noon? Sino ba dapat hingan ng payo ng kabataan kapag may problema ito? Hahayaan mo na lang ba na maagrabyado ng ibang tao ang anak mo? Na sa oras na kailangan ng isang kabataan ng suporta mula sa nakakatanda e parang mag-isa lang sya? pasalamat sya sa step mother na nagaruga sa anak nya dahil maayos naman na lumaki at hindi pasaway ang anak nila gaya ng ibang kabataan na nagloko dahil sa problema sa bahay at pamilya. Ang pagkakabati ng anak at magulang ay hindi dinadaan sa social media, hindi sa pamamagitan ng paninira sa isa para mapabuti sya. Kung gusto niya magkabati sila matuto syang kumilos puntahan nya ang mga anak nya. Hindi sa social media. dahil wala dun yung sincerity ng pakikipagayos. kung no support din sa pagbabati ang tatay at step mom, e di sya ang gumawa ng paraan. matanda na naman siya at di na aanga anga d ba? siguro by now alam na din nya ang mga karapatan nya lalo na pag hinarang siya ng tatay ng dalawang bata.
Deleteagree 11:55! maraming pwede din gawin para magkaayos ayos sila & i think may ginawa naman din si JF kaya lang sadyang nilalayo din talaga ang mga bata.Actually simple lang naman ang solusyon dito eh...bigyan ng chance ang mag-iina.Kung sa umpisa pa lang may cooperation na ang lahat dina sana umabot sa ganito.Lahat tayo nagkakamali pero lahat tayo may karapatan din mabigyan ng chance na magbago or itama ang mga mali.Nanay si JF at mga anak nya lang pinaglalaban nya,desperada na sya kasi mahal nya mga anak nya at im sure gusto lang din nya bumawi sa mga panahon na di sila magkakasama.Just give them a chance..ipagdasal na lang natin sila kesa ibash ng ibash! Napaka hirap na sitwasyon nila.
DeleteI believe jackie, she is part of my prayers now
ReplyDeleteI know that stepmon, schoolmate way way before. She's really maldita. Wawa nman si Jackie, poisoning her kids, when it's not necessary! after all sya pa rin yun biological mom, sya ang nagluwal, just unfortunate nagkalabuan sila ng tatay, pero sana hindi nila pahirapan pa si Jackie ng ganito, sila nagmumukhang baddies sa totoo lang!
DeleteMe too, I hope she reconciles with her sons soon, kun hindi man kina Benjie & his wife, at least nman the couple help-out the mom&kids to be ok, pinapa-complicate lng nila, may mga hinanakit pa ang tatanda na ng mga bata, may kanya-kanya na silang pamilya, di pa sila maka-move on! Where's forgiveness and compassion, hindi ba sila Christians??? naiinis na tuloy ako sa couple, appears so ruthless at madamot!
Deletemy god people give Jackie a break she is only 15 when she get pregant and became a mom she's not perfect and alam nya yun. Ang gusto nya lang itama... Mahirap yun condition nya before at di sya pinayagan. I believe her kasi naamin naman sya ng pagkukulang nya. She just wants the truth
DeleteHindi kaya ang purpose ni Jackie eh hindi makipagayos kundi lalong galitin ang mga anak niya?!
ReplyDeleteAlong with her most recent posts, may sinulat siya na ginagawa lang niya ito para sa sarili niya dahil ayaw na niya dalhin yung baggage from the past, and since malalaki na raw yung mga anak niya kay Paras at nakakaintindi na yung mga bata, puwede na raw niya isiwalat lahat.
DeleteFP, baka meron kang kopya nung mga first to third posts niya sa IG. Nabasa ko kasi yung sa ibang site.
If that's the case, napaka selfish naman. Para lang gumaang loob nya, kesehoda sa feelings ng mga anak Nya. If that's true, ang immature pa din Nya, then.
DeleteI cant wait to see the day na magkikita kita and magkakapatawaran ang mga bata at ang ina nila. We are on you Jackie
ReplyDeletesusunod nyan patola na rin asawa ni benjie and the cheap saga continues...
ReplyDeletebuti nga hindi mismo ung mga anak ang pumapatol at kng anu anong masasakit n salita ang masasabi.
DeleteIlang beses na pasaring na Sinabi Ni Jackie but the stepmom has continued to remain silent
DeleteKaloka itong si Jackie talagang naghahanap ng war.
ReplyDeleteGirl! Please stop just stop!!! Stop this pathetic, strikesoil act!!!! Find a job that will makes u busy and have a life!!!
ReplyDeleteShe doesnt have to work anymore. Her husband provides for the family. Her life is her family.
DeleteAlam na alam mo ha 12:44am. I wonder how your provider feels about what you're doing.
DeleteYun na nga 12:44. Idle kaya kung ano-ano naiisip at nagkakaganyan siya. I pity her though.
DeleteYun din iniisip KO 1:04, all these time hinayahaan lang nya si Jackie, I can't help to wonder what's wrong with him.
DeleteNaks naman, nakabantay si Jackie sa FP. HAHAHA!!!
DeleteOo nga, I wonder what Jackie's husband thinks about all the vitriol his wife is putting out there in the World Wide Web... Hindi man lang kaya siya pinipigilan? O walang pakialam? Kasi bakit parang walang control sa pagwawala niya. I wonder kung talagang happy ang new family life niya. Kasi kung ganon, why not just post about that?
Deleteyan nmn yta ang gusto nya sa buhay yung sitting pretty lng xa. sinasabi nya s posts nya girls shldnt be dependent frm their husbands,eh kng mghiwalay din kya cla ng hubby nya kya nya kaya buhayin kids nya?
DeleteNakakalungkot lang kasi may cancer half sister nila kobe and andre pero matigas pa rin puso nila. They didn't even visit their sister, grabe galit sa puso nila. The flames of hatred won't keep burning if someone is fanning the flames.
DeletePalasamat ka dahil inalagaan at minahal ng stepmom ang mga anak mo especially nung wala ka.
ReplyDeleteJackie stop it. They love their step mom because she has been good to them. Be thankful nalang sana that she is there for them.
ReplyDeleteAng di ko lang kinakaya kay ate girl, puro #Godiswatching at #Godismystrength. NAKAKALOKA KA EH NANG-AAWAY KA DYAN. Kapag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo raw ng tinapay. Kahit gaano pa katotoo mga sinasabi ni ateng, the point is she's doing something wrong to her neighbor. SO STOP USING GOD'S NAME IN VAIN. Maka-#Godiswatching ka sa posts mo pero puro hatred at bitterness naman. PLEASE LANG PO.
ReplyDelete#damingfeelings BWAHAHAHA pero seryoso stop it.
Para di obvious na yung tinapay na binato nya may palaman ding bato sa loob kaya may ganyang hashtag si ateng jackie
DeleteKorek. Mas marami pa ring paraan ng pakikipag-ayos kesa sa pagkakalat sa publiko. She might be speaking the truth but the way she's expressing it mas lalo magagalit yung mga kids nya.
Delete12.50 madaling sabihin yan pero hindi natin kung nagawa na niya lahat o hindi pa. Siya lng nakaalam nun.
Delete2:33 Kung nagawa na niya lahat at na-exhaust na niya lahat ng resources - from sending a PRIVATE EMAIL to her sons' email addresses to sending DIRECT MESSAGES, TEXT MESSAGES, and whatnot, hindi ba dapat antayin na lang niya yung God's time? That is, kung naniniwala talaga siya na lahat nangyayari IN GOD'S TIME. Hindi yung nangpupublic shame siya ng mga tao. Kung nag-email na siya, nagtext, nagprivate message, etc. at hindi nagreply mga anak niya, what makes her think na itong mga litanya niya in public ay babasahin ng mga bagets?
DeleteShut up already
ReplyDeleteTrue Dat! Sana si StepMom din bilang ina eh konting unawa naman sa kalagayan ni Jackie. I would admire the StepMom kung sana maging tulay siya sa pagkakaayos ng MagIna.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you
DeleteKung ayaw ng anak makipabati walang magagawa, ang stepmom. Bakit hindi na lang manahimik kasi si Jackie, itikom nya bibig nya at wag putak ng putak. Ayusin nya sarili nya. Sa kakaputak nya lalong lumalayo ang loob ng anak nya sa kanya. Children will love those peoole who truly love them and those who were around while they were growing up.
DeleteMaybe the stepmom tried it before pero baka nasabihan na siya na huwag ng makialam.
DeleteSana kung di ok ang dating ng pinost ni jackie kay stepmom wag na lang patulan. Unawain na lang niya.
Eto namang si jackie dapat tigilan ng pagpopost ng paninira, paano niya makukuha ang loob ng mga anak niya kung ginaganun yun dad nila na kinalakihan nila at nag aruga sa kanila, sa halip mag post siya ng ikaka good vibes nila, keep reaching out thru twitter or ig or fb kung ayaw makipagusap sa kanya, give her kids TIME to ease the pain yun feeling na in-abandone sila nung maliit pa sila.
Dba sinabi ni jackie nuon na troll ung step mom kaya lalong nagalit sna kobe & andre sa kanya..
Delete1.01, hindi sa ayaw nila kundi takot lang sila sa ama nila. Manipulated nga eh? Pag sinabing manipulated may takot yan.... yong sinasabi nila na pinagsasabihan niya sila na makipagbati? Sus, papogi lang yon dahil kung totoo yon siya mismo ang lalapit kay jackie ng personal ha para ipagbati-bati sila.
DeleteYou keep saying that they're scared pero everytime Kobe or Andre posts something about their stepdad and stepmom, it radiates with love. If they have no respect for the family that they grew up with, I doubt they'll post anything on social media.
DeleteWow 2.30 i never thought you knew everything in this story. E di ikaw na ang madaming alam! Don't forget that your assumptions doesn't equate the truth.
DeleteHow do you know all these details?
DeleteBy nature, children clings to the mother. It's a universal fact. Children will only hate a mother when she is cruel to them. Their affection will transfer to another parent figure who they think is kind to them and takes care of them. They will never develop affection for someone not there or usually absent.
Wow and you are privy to what the boys are thinking and feeling? We don't know the entire truth and story so let's avoid making conclusions about people's character
DeleteI think takot nga ang boys na mawala amor sa kanila ni Benjie. He is the constant parent in their life and the only choice he is giving them now is "choose boys, Jackie or me." If the father made it clear that he wnt tolerate the real mom being in their life then there is this fear of abandonment by the parent they deemed as the reliable one. I hope someday when they are more independent, they will be able to make decision based on love and forgiveness. Andre and Kobe still has a lot of growing up to do.
Deletehindi naman talaga mapapalitan yun. Pero may mga step parents din na mas kayang pahalagahan at bigyan ng importansya at priority at kaya din nilang tumayo bilang magulang sa mga batang hindi nila anak na hindi kayang ibigay ng tunay na magulang
ReplyDeleteThis is not helping Jackie's case. If anything, she's pushing them away even more. Yung stepmother ang kinalakihan nilang ina, yes that could be very painful for the biological mother but ruining the reputation of someone who had guided them throughout their youth that eventually, they have grown to love can only alienate Jackie even more from her kids. If I were her, I would stop with the patutsada. Stay in silence and give the kids time. Pinapahiya niya lang lalo mga anak niya sa ginagawa niya.
ReplyDeleteGanito lang yan eh, pag mahal mo ba ang isang tao, like you would a real mother, gugustuhin mo bang may mam-bash sakanya? Maiinis ka rin, diba? Jackie has to stop this if she really wants things to be fixed in due time.
Delete12.35.Nope! Binibigyan lang nya sila ng mga insight ng kung ano ba talaga ang nangyari. Lalong lalayo? Nope dati na silang malayo dahil takot sila sa ama nila.
DeleteHow do you know all of this Anon 2:23? How are you so sure?
DeleteDati na nga silang malayo, pinapalayo mo pa, Jackie, dahil sa mga pinaggagagawa mo. What's happening is you're ruining Benjie's name for them to take YOUR side. Why not find a way for them to love you and Benjie BOTH? Sabihin na nating totoo na nilalayo ni Benjie ang mga anak mo sayo, kelangan ba tapatan mo din sila? Pag nakuha mo na sila, anong gagawin mo? Sasabihan mo din ba sila ng masama tungkol sa ama nila gaya ng ginagawa mo ngayon?
Deleteso anon 2:23..by jackie doing this..you think anong ma fi feel ng mga anak nya? tamang paraan ba tong ginagawa nya or mas lalong maiirita mga anak nya sa kanya..di gawain ng matinong tao ang magpatutsada ng ganyan lalo na dealing with family matters...jackie needs to grow some brain first, kung totoong God sinasabi nya at mahal nya mga anak nya....give them respect, do things discreetly in a respectful manner, di yung ugaling kalye parati...nakaka low class talaga at lalong napapahiya mga anak nya...
Delete2:23 So how could you expext them to reconcile that way?
DeleteUy andito si Jackie, anon 2:23 hello! Gising hoy! Musta naman yang pinaggagagawa mo? Kahit pa ikaw ang nagsasabi ng totoo ang lumalabas naman e ang nega mo. Bigyan mo ng time mga anak mo tutal sabi mo nga malaki na sila, alam na nila dapat gawin. Wag atat ok??
Deletei think shes still inlove with benjie
ReplyDeleteNyak!! Of course not. She has a very good life now with her husband
DeleteNaisip ko rin yan kanina. Kasi why is she so preoccupied with him? Ginugulo niya yung pamilya ni Benjie. Naisip ko rin baka pinaglilijian niya si Benjie kasi may nagkoment dito na bunt is nga raw siya.
DeleteNyak! You call that a GOOD life? A life full of bitterness? Yeah right!
DeleteNaman! Dapat pa ba mag post ng ganyan? Hindi naman kasalanan ng stepmother kung ayaw tlga sya kausapin at patawarin ng mga anak ni jackie. Pasalamat ka nga dapat jackie dahil ang naging stepmom ng mga anak mo hindi gaya ng ibang madrasta na bruha lang. Baka kung ikaw pa Jackie ang naging stepmom malas ng stepchildren mo at hahanapan mo sila palagi ng mali. Based lang naman observation ko sa mga pinopost mo.
ReplyDeleteIkaw ang malas kasi nega ka
DeleteExcuse me! Kung hindi nega ang Jackie, hindi rin nega ang reaksyon ko! Gaya nyan pinost nya hindi ba ka-negahan yan. Tama bang iprovoke pa nya yung taong nag alaga sa mga anak nya??
DeleteClose kayo teh? Sure ka tama ang alam mo, nakikisawsaw ka lang. At least inamin mo na nega ka, HALA KA! NASA TABI MO NA ANG MALAS
Delete12.36, girl may malalim na dahilan yan ky siya nagpost ng ganyan. Siguro pinapalabas nung isa na kinalimutan na siya nung mga anak niya at siya na ang pumalit sa pwesto niya, yan ay base sa post niya. Imbes na gawin niya ang tama hindi nangingialam pa, pinapalaki ang gulo ng magiina, un bang sulsul. Sayang teacher pa naman. Hibdi siya magandang impluwensiya!
Delete@ anon 1:43 Haha! Para ka naman bata batuta kung mag comment! Manakot ba??? Haha!!!
DeleteTamaaah! Ako din tingin ko mabagsik si jackie 12:36. Ibang klase din ang loka instead maging grateful sa 2nd wife ni Benjie dahil inalagaan at napalaki ng maayos dalawang anak nya, ayan nagpaparinig pa si jackie. Kung ako sa kanya gawa sya ng paraan in private para maramdaman ng mga anak nya na sincere sya kesa sa public sya nag dadrama. Mamimisintepret lang ng mga anak nya yang ginagawa nya.
DeleteAnon 1:43 -Eh bakit close din ba kayo ni Jackie at mega tanggol ka dyan! LOL
Delete2:16 Pwede rin na ayaw makialam ni stepmom kasi pwedeng sila ni Benjie ang magka problema lalo na si Benjie naman tlga ang galit kay Jackie in the first place. Meron kasing mga bagay na hindi natin pwede ipilit sa ibang tao. Ang pinaka maganda dyan mag pray na lang sa diyos mag hintay ng tahimik. Pwede din si Jackie mag effort sa mga anak nya na hindi na kailangan may maging tulay ma. Kung matiyaga syang mag palaramdam sa mga anak nya na mahal nya ang mga ito at kahit mag muka na syang aso kakahabol sa mga anak im sure one day makikita at marerealize din nila Kobe at Andre sincerity ng nanay nila. Wala naman kasi syang mapapala sa kaka post nya lalo lang sya mag mumukang nega.
DeleteYan ang nagpapatunay na full of bitterness tong si Jackie...kahit anong nangyari at mangyayari pa...Jackie should see that the step mom did a pretty darn job raising 2 boys that are not her own....kita mo naman the boys flourished talaga, di nawaldas future at nag aaral parin...nice young men kung baga....if not for that alone..Jackie should be kissing the step mother's *SS ..sa totoo lang...magpasalamat ka nalang sa mga nagawa nya for your 2 sons..di yung tinitira mo pa sya....you ungrateful horrible human being that happened to bore 2 sons
ReplyDeleteStepmom, tulog na. Kanina ka pa comment ng comment dyan, obvious ka na
DeleteI highly doubt this is the stepmom commenting. Most of us in the comments section think the same way Anon 12:38 does. Ikaw ang matulog na, Jackie.
DeleteAnonymousFebruary 28, 2015 at 1:31 AM
DeleteJackie matulog ka na. Matagal ka nang bitter.
agree ako sayo anon 12;38 DAPAT magpasalamat pa si Jackie sa stepmom for taking good care of her boys
DeleteAnon 1:31 aka Jackie, give it a rest dear. Buntis ka. Mamaya nyan maapektuhan na nman ang baby ika-bitter mo pa lalo. Sabi nila, ang guilty, noisy. Explain ng explain. Wala nga kami dapat alam e, di ka nga namin kinundina. Pero nung umingay ka ng umingay, ayan na. Kaya nman pala...konsensya. Madami kmi dito gustong magpayo sa yo but we know how smart you think of yourself kaya iro na lng, itulog mo yan.
DeleteIkaw ang matulog, kaloka wala ng maargue kaya pinapatulog nlng! Hahaha 1:31
DeleteStop na teh. Stop na paggamit sa mga anak mo, stop na pangaaway sa parents nila. They ask for space, hindi ka ba makapaghintay? Tama na, umay na.
ReplyDeleteHello Jackie bakit di mo puntahan anak mo sa America manuod ka game niya, wala kang time di ba?
ReplyDeleteMalapit na siya manganak...at ung bunso niya na babae may cancer...kaya madrama xa latELy
DeleteMe sakit anak nya. Nag chechemo diba?
ReplyDeleteImbes na ngawa ka ng ngawa sa IG mo, Bakit Di mo na lang suportahan anak mo sa America. Pwede ka namang magpost sa IG ng mga anak mo everyday saying I love you and I miss you, if ever you need me or would like to talk I'm just here. Oh ayan dapat ganyan ang ginagawa mo Jackie, positive dapat wag lagi kang nakikipag away sa atensyon ng mga anak mo. Give them now the attention they longed for from you kahit sa IG man Lang, Baka sakali lumambot PUSO nila, sagutin ka na. Kaloka!
ReplyDeleteDi kaya HINDI talaga masaya ang buhay ni jackie kaya siya nagkakaganyan? Kaya mukhang gusto niya awayin lahat ng malalapit sa ex niya? Or much worst, may psychological issue na siya?
ReplyDeleteBuntis sya ngayon,kawawa ung anak nya pinaglihi sa sama ng loob..
Deleteoh jackie, if ur kids are telling d world their step mom was so good to them, u shud be thankful... u know why? at least she showed them love. it is so hard to take care of children. it is a 24/7 job. lalo na siguro kng indi mo kadugo. u are miserable now for a reason. cguro me ksalanan c Benjie pero me ksalanan ka din. indi mo pwede lagi gawin dhilan na bata ka nun dhil indi lahat ng naging batang Ina irresponsible.
ReplyDeleteJust be thankful that someone was there to nurture and love your kids while you were away. She didnt took your place, because no one can ever replace a biological mom. But she loved your kids like her own.
ReplyDeleteAlam nyo,kung gagawa lng ng hakbang c benjie at asawa nya na ipaliwanag sa mga bata na patawarin na ang kanilang ina,mas maraming matutuwa sa hahanga sa knila,tutal nag suffer namn na c jackie ng ilang years,bayad na sya sa kasalanan nya,at tingin ko sa mga bata eh takot lng cla kay benjie at stepmom nila,pero narardaman ko na naawa cla kay jackie,pero wala cla magawa.naniniwala ako na hindi magiging masaya ang buhay nila na may galit sa magulang.ang pagpatawad ay nasa puso at kinakalimutan lahat ng sama ng loob para makapagumpisa uli at bigyan ng pagkakataon ang knilang ina na ipakita at iparamdam ang pagmamahal sa knila
ReplyDeleteSasaya sla pag tumigil na si jackie at magmove on...see no comment nga sla 'bout sa mga pnaggagawa ni jackie..privacy and respect ang gusto ng mga bata..hindi na sla bata.
DeleteEasier said than done. Hindi natin alam kung gaano kalalim yung pinag ugatan ng problema nila. In God's time magkakapatawaran din mga yan pero for now hindi natin pwede iexpect na mag patawad si Benjie kung di pa nya gusto.
DeleteEh bakit naman gawin yan ni Benjie at asawa nya tira sya ng tira sa social media nasasaktan din ang mga yun.
Delete2.32, sinuwerte nga si Benjie dahil hindi siya idinimanda ng statutory rape dahil inisip ni Jackie ang mga anak nila. Pero sana itinuloy ni Jackie 'yon kung ganyan din lang pala ang gagawin niya dahil kung itinuloy niya ito baka sa kanya pa napunta full custody ng mga anak niya. Sana inisip ni Benjie ang sacrifice ni Jackie pero wala dahil napakaselfish niya.
Delete4:27 un nga eh hanggang salita lng si jackie..
DeleteAnonymousFebruary 28, 2015 at 4:27 AM
DeleteFYI statutory rape is only for people below TWELVE (12) years old. Get it, TWELVE! Eleven ba si Jackie nung mabuntis? Plus they got married. And the court granted BENJIE the custody despite the kids being below 7 years old. Ordinarily in situation where the kids are below 7, the mother would get custody, except if the mother is unfit. SEE, the court awarded the custody to Benjie because he is the better parent. Pagkatapos nung decision nagpa interview si jackie left and right at siniraan si Benjie. What sacrifice are you talking about? Nagsacrifice si Jackie? Saang banda?
Kinacareer ni present wife ang pagdefend a
Deletejackie dear, when will you realize that the more you talk the more you widen the gap between you and your children?
ReplyDeleteTrue. Mga binatilyo na yung kids. Lalo sila nahihiya sa pinaggagagawa ni Jackie.
DeleteIf totoo man na pinagdamot sa kanya yung mga bata, na ni brainwash yung mga bata, etc. the fact is, obviously lumaki pa din silang maayos. And Jackie should be thankful sa stepmom dahil dun.
Jackie your just only the biological mother..it takes a lot of effort to be the mom...nasan mga magulang mo nung mga 15 yrs old ka pa..pinabayaan ka rin ba?
ReplyDeleteLol yung stepmom nga lalo nagpapalayo sa mag-iina..kaya ganyan post ni jackie...minamaliit kaya siya ng stepmom...kung anu-ano pinagsasabi sa facebook...dapat nga siya maging tulay para magkaayos pero baliktad lalo niya pinag-aaway ang mag-ina..dapat lang siya lumugar noh
ReplyDeleteReally? Friend kayo sa FB ng stepmom? If that's the case, knowing how feisty and a warfreak Jackie is, im sure she already made a screenshot of that post and spread it all over media. How come wala syang maipakitang evidence against these people she hates the most?
DeleteShe had. Jackie did get a hold of a post by the stepmom, at pasaring to against her (Jackie). If you have time to backtrack her IG, you'll see it. Kung wala naman, manahimik ka na lang diyan.
DeleteThe stepmom, while she took care of Andre and Kobe, did it because she wanted to win Benjie back in the day. She (the stepmom) was the boys' tutor, who eventually became their father's girlfriend and now wife. She has more motive to ingrain bad things about Jackie to the boys than Jackie trying to malign her in her IG account.
Huwag ka mag imbento. She was not the kids tutor. And FYI she was a commercial model who became a preschool teacher. She could have had any man she wanted. You make it sound like she was desperate for the love of a divorcee with excess baggage. Niligawan siya. She fell in love. Fact. Itong mga followers ni Jackie ang galing mag habi ng kwento wala naman mga sources kundi imagination nila. Nakakaloka.If you want to talk about motive, it is obviously the still bitter ex wife whose children cannot stand her because of her immaturity and selfishness. Go read the public court records para matauhan ka. The stepmom is loved and respected. She does not need to stoop down to a level so low as the ex wife who still cant seem to pull her life together.
Deletekung nanay tapos d mo maksama makausap anak mo malamang desperate act para mapansin sya ng mga anak nia..
ReplyDeletein a Wrong way naman gnagawa nya.lalong lalayo mga anak nya sa kanya.
DeleteDear Jackie,
ReplyDeleteYou can rant all you want. Awayin mo si Benjie, awayin mo yung stepmom, isiwalat mo lahat ng gusto isiwalat. Na masama si Benjie, di tinuruan ng tama mga anak mo, na kawawa ka, ikaw ang api, etc etc. Pero please lang, at the end of your post, wag mo nang idamay si God. Dahil kung totoo yang God hashtags mo, the first thing you would have done is forgive all who wronged you at ipaubaya sa Diyos ang pag aayos ng pamilya mo. Tutal follower ka ni God, then you must also know that everything happens for a reason. And if your hearts desire was not given to you... Wait. Very patiently. Because great things happen in GOD'S TIME. Learn. Forgive. And practice what you hashtag. Thank you.
I totally agree with you..sana matauhan na si Jackie. In the end, kawawa naman yung mga bata
DeleteI agree!
DeleteBEST COMMENT NA NABASA KO! Tumpak!
DeleteAmen to that!
DeleteParang busy si madrasta kakareply, natulog ka ba kagabi?
DeleteI wonder...where is Jackie's parents when she's 14?
ReplyDeletePati ba naman yan, gusto mo pa malaman. Kaloka ka
DeleteExactly! Didn't she mention in one of her posts that her mom was against the relationship since she was too young then? How come the mom didn't do anything considering the fact that she can file a case against Benjie? There might be something that Jackie didn't say...because a minor cannot get married without parental consent. They wouldn't be granted a marriage certificate. Sooo, where was the mom? Condoning her daughter's actions? Agreeing to the marriage? There's a huge gap in Jackie's stories. Inconsistencies that are missed by some who were carried away by Jackie's drama.
Delete2:44 i like what you wrote
ReplyDeleteOkay na sana yung previous post niya, pero to post attacking the step mom is a little overboard. Kung gusto niya mapalapit wag niya ibash si stepmom kasi mas lalo magagalit ang mga anak niya.
ReplyDeleteDati may yaya ako pag may nang lalait sa kanya, napapaaway ako. Ito pa kaya na napangasawa ng tatay nila at talaga may motherly presence, im sure nasasaktan sila.
I myself is a stepmom. From what I heard, sinisiraan sya nung current wife which is wrong. She should know her boundaries as a step mom. Tamang mahalin nya ang mga bata, Mas tama kung turuan nyang magpatawad. Respect the fact na buhay pa ang tunay na Ina nila.
ReplyDeleteSana may ebidensya dba na sinisiraan nga,ipost sa ig kung meron..pra naman majustify nga ung binibintang.
DeleteAno pa ba ang sisirain kay Jackie? Sorry ha pero her reputation is not that good. And how well do you know what really goes on inside their circle?
DeleteI agree with you, karma is just around the corner
DeleteBaloney! Were you around while the stepmom was raising the kids? Sino source mo? Si Jackie? hahaha. The crazy ex wife was not even there. She was too busy getting pregnant and partying. Even before the stepmom entered the scene, Jackie's been pointing blame at others except herself.
DeleteThe fact the Benjie and his wife are not responding makes me respect them more. In the end, ang mabuting magulang ay yung pinangangalagaan ang kapakanan ng anak. By not responding and not making it a bigger issue, they are protecting the kids. By washing her dirty linen in public, Jackie is dragging her kids into this muck that she is creating.
ReplyDeleteKasi guilty kaya tahimik sila, si nay lolit na naman ang ipapasagot ni benjie
Delete1:31 ayaw lng nilang bumaba sa level ni jackie na hanggang keyboard warrior lng..bkit hindi nya dalhin sa korte ang lahat dba..ipaungkat nya lhat ng kaso kung meron man..
Delete@1:31 pag nanahimik guilty kaagad? pag pinatulan defensive? saan na lulugar? Di ba pwedeng ayaw na lang ng gulo kay nanahimik? pwede ba yun?
DeleteA biological parent who is not next to their child while growing up is not really a parent. They are just selfish people who got pregnant and didn't want the responsibility of raising a kid. Sorry but that is how i see it.
ReplyDeleteAt hanggang ngyon selfish pa rin,her message in her IG is not really for her sons..attention lng ang hanap nya and she is using her sons.
DeleteI totally agree with you. She keeps on saying she is with God and God is watching but she is so full of negativity
ReplyDeleteIt was Jackie's choice. Life is all about choices, you just have to pick the right one. Instead of annoying your children's stepmom, why not thank her?
ReplyDeleteThank her for what? Sinaraan nga niya si jackie sa mga bata
Delete@anon 1:32 ay.. alam na alam mo ano? 100% sure na sure! hehehe
Delete1:32 inday ung stepmom ang nagalaga sa mga anak ni jackie habang sya eh pumaparty party at busy sa ibang guys..
DeleteButi nga eh itinuring ng stepmom na tunay na anak yung dalawa. May instances pa nga diba na inaapi ng stepmom ang mga step children. Di pa sya magpasalamat.
ReplyDeleteAmen. Never been said better.
ReplyDeleteMs jackie, im sorry to tell, but you are SCARY.. kya, am not surprised at how things are between you and your kids..hope things will be fine though, eventually..no offense meant po.
ReplyDeleteI always see jackie saying things about benjie and the stepmom. Can you post a link please showing that the stepmom is saying negative things about jackie? As i said, side lng ni jackie yung nababasa ko e. Im hoping to understand where jackie is coming from. Find it weird kasi na parang all praises yung mga kids to the stepmom. dahil ba na brainwashed or the stepmom was truly good to them? I think we all know nman na kids nowadays are smart. You cant easily fool them, the same way that you cant dictate or impose on them. While benjie or the stepmom can talk to the kids, ultimately it is still the kids decision. And maybe thats what benjie and the stepmom is doing, letting the kids decide on their own. It's gatd to impose, so let them be...when they are ready. As it is, the kids are not yet ready, so give them time jackie. Dont push.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous February 28, 2015 at 2:44 AM Galing mo manermon. Kilalang kilala mo si God pero napaka high and mighty mo. Magkatabi ba kayo ngayon? Sana tinuraan ka ng sympathy at humility.
ReplyDeleteWhy, what's wrong with what Anon2:44AM said? Hindi yun pagiging high and mighty, tamang advice lang yun. You can even call it common sense if you want.
DeleteBottom line, the boys aren't ready to talk to her JUST YET. Again, JUST YET. So wag na i-push at wag na -ruin ang chances by talking smack about the woman who was there when the biological mother wasn't.
Insecure kasi si stepmom kasi alam nya na mahal pa ni benjie si jackie kaya kinuha nya ang kalooban ng mga bata para mahalin sya ni benjie. Heard na si stepmom ang unang magpakita ng motibo ke benjie.
ReplyDeleteWeh? Anong mahal pa si Jackie. FYI si Benjie nakipaghiwalay. Si Benjie nakipag divorce, nagpa-annul etc. Huwag ka nga gawa gawa ng kwento diyan.
DeleteIf Jackie really loves her children they would think of their welfare first and not her own feelings. Nananahimik ang mga bata. They're asking for space but Jackie can't wait and can't give it to them. Puro sya ang dapat intindihin. Puro feelings nya ang dapat mauna. The children are of age. They can think for themselves. They can't be dictated. If they truly want to see you no one can stop them. Likewise, if they don't want to see you, no one can force them.
ReplyDeleteJackie should just concentrate on her other child who is ill and needs most of her attention right now instead of posting her diary on social media.
Pinaka naaawa ako doon kay Kobe. Biro mo, high school student on a scholarship. Malayo sa parents. Naka tira sa isang host parent. Pagod juggling training, school and competitions. Para lang maitaguyod ang pangarap. Stressful kaya ang situation nya. Tapos eto ang nanay na nagbibigay ng mas marami pang stress sa bata. Dagdag na emotional burden. Jackie is being super selfish by not thinking of her sons' welfare. Sabagay she's been selfish and self-centered all her life. Ang mahalaga eh sarili nya. Expect pa ba natin na iba ngayon?
ReplyDeleteNako, parang masyado namang shineshelter ang mga batang yan. Maswerte sila at nagagawa nila ang gusto nila. Napalaki.naman sila ng maayos at mukhang skilled sa art of deadma. Hayaan ang nanay na kumuda sa social media kung gusto nya, account naman nya yon at matatanda na mga anak nya. Welfare, welfare pa dyan, he's an adult and should be completely independent at this point.
DeleteKobe is not yet an adult. Plus yes, Benjie has done a tremendous job raising such high achieving and well mannered boys, but that does not mean that Jackie should have the free hand to bother and stress them out. She's unnecessarily exposing them to public ridicule.
DeleteJealousy and Envy... isa sa mga deadly sins Ms Jackie.....
ReplyDeleteSana tulungan na lang ni Benjie at ng wife niya na magka ayos sila Jackie, Andre & Kobe.
ReplyDeleteMalalaki na yung mga bata. They have their own minds. Sa ginagawa ni Jackie feeling mo motivated pa si Benjie and wife to help her eh kaliawa't kanan ang ginagawa niyang pag bash dun sa mag-asawa.
DeleteBakit ganyan mga comments nyo? She is clearly desperate to reconcile with her sons as any mother would be and the only way she knows how is thru social media. How can you say magpasalamat na lang sya and move on? She might have made mistakes before but she was a 15 year old girl taken advantage of by a 25 year old man. That is a crime in itself.
ReplyDeleteFor example, you made a decision to marry someone. You both love each other and have been together for so many years, and decide to start a new life together. Then your mother cannot accept your decision and would do anything to - destroy your marriage and put you under her control again - and that includes announcing to the world that your spouse cannot replace her. She wants to get you back into her house where she can tell you what to do, everyday. Would you reconcile with her now, or probably just wait until she stops shouting? I think this is a very similar situation.
DeleteThe thing that I can't forget about Jackie Forster is when she was interview by Paolo Bediones long ago in Star Talk, all I can vaguely remember is that she was whining about how she's poor and don't have any money. For some reason I can't remember talk about her kid too much. I know she talked about her and Benji and the issue.
ReplyDeleteBut! A month after that I saw her shopping @ Rustans she was wearing an all white polo shirt matched with a white short skirt. She gave me that I don't care stare on her face as she walked away happily shopping.
In just that one moment many conclusions came into to my head:
1.) Is that she is a liar! Seeing her cry, some Oscar worthy tears cause she's broke then see her later shopping at Rustans of all places. So ngayon all washed up celebs shop at Rustans?
2.) The first time I saw her personally @ Rustans I felt she was confident wearing a short skirt w/ having thunder thighs. No offense she still looked good w/ that. Then just recently show pics of her and crew of people w/ a plunging bikini w/ her cleavage out there seems like a person who is comfortable w/ her own body.
3.) Is that I do somehow believe that she is slightly changed. A bit I mean you can see her reach out and freak out!!!
I don't think the kids want to see her, especially on how she's acting!
Finally why not VISIT Kobe sa US? I mean is it that impossible is she BADLY needs to see them ? Pwede naman cya visit when he practice? Wla naman don si Benjie dba? Wla rin yan silang bodyguard so yeah why not visit him?
I think she'd be badly hurt when she sees Kobe talk back at her!
I'd much rather be hurt basta may derechang sagot kesa naman hindi ako pansinin. Mas okay ako na galit saken kesa naman wapakels.
DeleteAs they say misery loves company. Iyan po ang nakita ko kay Ms Jackie. I pity her though. Dapat mag concentrate muna sya sa pamilya nya.
ReplyDeleteYung nagtatanggol kuno kay Jackie puro accusations na nambrainwash si Stepmom at Tatay.
ReplyDeleteJackie, andami mong free time ha. Gamitin mo sana para makinig sa mga tao dito na may sensible comments at magreflect ka.
Una, ang selfish mo. Gusto mo magkaayos kayo ng mga anak mo, gusto ng peace of mind, gusto mo ibridge ka ng tatay at stepmom sa mga anak mo. Puro GUSTO MO. Pano naman yung gusto nila? Makakabuti ba sa kanila yung mga gusto mo e d pa nga sila ready?
Pangalawa, kahit anong accusations mo sa mag-asawang nagpalaki sa mga anak mo, the fact remains na pinalaki nila nang maayos yung mga anak mo nung wala ka sa buhay nila. Maayos yung ugali nila considering na pwedeng may masamang repercussions yung wala ka sa buhay nila (di ko sinabing inabandona mo sila to give you the benefit of the doubt). Kahit anong reasons mo, the fact remains na wala ka sa buhay nila and that could have scarred them in one way or another.
Third, sobrang maswerte ka at sila kasi may babaing tumanggap sa kanila at tinuring silang parang tunay na anak nung mga panahong wala ka. And they know this fact. Kaya ganon na lang nila kamahal yung stepmom nila. Kahit ano sabihin mo, sya ang naghirap. And the more you attack her, mas lalo nilang ipagtatanggol at mamahalin ang stepmom nila (lalo na sa pinapakita mong opinyon sa babaeng yun, mas naaaffirm ang thinking nila na ikaw ang masama). Sa pinapakita mo, parang gusto mong wala na lang silang naging nanay habang wala ka. Selfish mo talaga, gurl.
Ano ba gusto mo, wala ka sa buhay nila tapos iba nagpalaki tapos pagbalik mo kanila e hindi sila galit sayo at patatawarin ka nang ganon ganon lang? Isipin mo kung ikaw asa pwesto nila ha.
Hayaan mo muna sila. Babalik yan sayo kasi kahit ano mangyari, someday marerealize nilang ikaw pa rin ang nanay nila. Pero d yun mangyayari agad-agad at di yun nangyayari by antagonizing them and by making them hate your ex and his current wife.
Hayaan mo na muna sila. Deal with your demons on your own muna. Forgive yourself before you ask for forgiveness from them. Count your blessings - na ok sila and they grew up to be sons that you can be proud of, na may pamilya ka na rin na pwede mong buhusan ng pagmamahal at atensyon, na may asawa ka nang mas mature at may maayos ka nang buhay despite all the things you've been through. Remember that you can still love them from afar.
Sorry kung mahaba pero I'm sincerely concerned hehe. You are in my prayers.
how can u say forget ur own sons and just move on and be happy. if u know that u don't deserve their dedmatic reaction towards u eh ipaglalaban mo ang pagmamahal mo bilang ina. ang nakakainis eh ang ama na nagtanim ng ganyan na attitude sa mga anak.
DeleteJackie, it's time to see a shrink. I think you have a narcissistic personality disorder. If you do not address this, you might end up destroying all of your other existing relationships.
ReplyDeleteAng daming negative comments here, ipag. Pray na lang natin guys na magka.ayos silang lahat.. Para naman sa mga kids. Good day everyone :)
ReplyDeletePoor poor jackie! For goodness sake, stop being so pathetic and focus on your pregnancy as well as your 2 kids. Grow up, you're not 15 anymore, duh?!!!
ReplyDeleteKung talagang maganda ang pagpapalaki sa mga anak, dapat lumaki ang mga bata na walang dala-dala or inaalagaang galit sa puso nila... Sobra bang mahirap magpatawad kahit na sabihing na-trauma ang mga bata? Mga bata pa sila nung nangyrai yun. Marami ng panahon ang lumipas... Sana, natutunan din nilang magparaya at magpatawad dahil ang sabi nga ng marami, maganda ang pagpapalaki sa kanila ni Benjie at ng Stepmom... Kung totoo nga yan, eh di sana sinubukan din ng mga anak na makipag-reach out sa ina. Ang mali ni Jackie ay puro siya post ng post sa social media na hindi na dapat but i keep on trying to understand her. Yan nalang siguro ang natitira niyang alas or naiisip na paraan dahil sabik siya sa mga anak niya.
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