For me hindi sila ang kahiya-hiya dito. Wala silang kasalanan dahil ganun lang sila minold pagdating sa usapaing Jackie. In time magbabago din sila after nilang maintindihan ang lahat at 'yon siguro ang dahilan ni Jackie kaya siya nagresort sa ganito dahil kapag hindi niya ito gagawin, wala, parang lalabas na hindi nagbigay ng chance si Jackie para mabalanse 'yong isip nila sa totoong nangyari.
Girl! People are so over with ur issue they even forgot it and now u are ranting again?? Publicity? Wants to be relevant? There are other ways ot do that without doing this dramatic thing.. If u wanna have a carrier again then come back with a good way not like this.. Ur only hurting ur kids and they will not forgive u if u keep doing this.. Have some dignity and integrity.. As a woman, as a mother and as human!
Buntis siya with her 5th child. Hormones running havoc ya know. Anyway, ang tigas din ng dalawang anak mo. Sana kahit plastikin ka na lang nila. Hey mom how are you, beso beso/ email /skype then goodbye na. Natapos na sana ang teleserye na ito. Tutal bawat isa sa inyo ay may sari sarili ng buhay. Haaaaaayy
Nge buntis pala? Why not isolate yourself from these things that stresses you out then? Plus, what you're doing is destructive. Kalma ka muna te. Sige ka manganganak ka ng isang ampalaya nyan. There are sooo many things in life to be happy about. Concentrate on that.
Dear Jackie, for the longest time you tell the world you wanted to see your sons and be there for them. You use all media available to get your message across... I don't think there is abandonment issue. Some parents mom or dad truly abandon their kids, by hiding to the ends of the world, cutting all possible communication. You are doing the opposite.
2:13 ginagawa niya ito para malaman din nila kahit papaano 'yong magandang nagawa din niya sa kanila. Bakit sa palagay mo ba sinabi ito ni Lyxen? Hindi! Hayun nga't nangingialam sa kanila, eh? Haha!
Jackie is doing this in hopes (but not expecting) that HER KIDS would acknowledge her. She's the true mother and her kids are still kids right now. She chose this way to enlighten them. Jackie never hid. It was the kids who were hidden from her. Sinong matinong tatay ang gagawa nun? So stop blaming jackie because she was young and naive then. Kawawa talaga siya at nakilala niya si benjie.
You are embarrassing them on social media. And now you're asking why they are galit sayo? Pwede mo naman i-direct message lahat ng gusto mong ipaliwanag at sabihin sa kanila, then it's up to them if they want to reply or dedma your message. But no, you chose to post it publicly because you wanted to make "Paawa". Sa ginawa mong yan, sa tingin mo ba mas magkaka interest silang kausapin ka? NO!
12:51 tama. huwag pilitin ang ayaw. kung mahal mo talaga ang mga anak mo, let them be. they have the right to a peaceful life. may sarili na silang mga utak. kung nanay ka talaga, alam mong nakaka-stress ang mga pinagagawa mo.
Did she really start nursing school? did she graduate? why couldn't she study in the Philippines especially since she had kids? Her story seems concocted to make her look like the victim yet again.
Benjie agreed to pay for her schooling after they separated. She supposedly asked $65,000 which took Benjie three years to pay - in installment kasi medyo mabigat for Benjie. Mukhang di naman nag-aral. There's an old article about it in P**.
Ano naman ang paliwanag ni Benjie dun sa choice niya na hindi dalhin si Jackie sa OB niya dahil may practice daw ito at baka false alarm lang daw ang pananakit ng tiyan nito?
Dear Jackie, ano bang point nitong paglalahad mo ng mga expose mo? To be vindicated, you say? If you really practice what youre preaching, you would not feel the need to do this. Kanino mo ba gustong mavindicate? Sa mga anak mo? Sa Diyos? O sa publiko?
You keep on saying #Godiswatching, then why dont you just hope that by God's grace, in time and after you have exhausted your resources to reach out to your boys IN PRIVATE, they would listen to your side. I really find it mind-boggling how people just carelessly mention bible verses while acting such hypocrites. Sa ginagawa mong to, youre just putting your boys in bad light. By trying to clean your name, sila naaapektuhan, not just Benjie.
Nasa America ka pero grabe ka kung manggulo ng buhay nila. -Pakialamerang Third Party hahaha
Paano mo nasabi na she is putting her boys in bad light? Anong kinalaman ng kamusmusan nila noon sa naging galit nila ngayon? I think hindi nila kagustuhan/choice 'yon dahil ganun sila minold ng mga taong nakapaligid sa kanila? At paano malalaman ng mga bata ang side of story niya kung hindi niya sasabihin? I think ang may kasalanan dito ay 'yong paano sila minold pagdating sa usaping Jackie. 'Yon lang!
I guess she's trying to have a clean slate, unloading the excess baggage she's been carrying for years, putting her version of the truth in the open. It probably does her good, realising all these, so she doesn't have to keep them anymore. The thing though, is, there is nobody else gaining from this but herself, and well, the next door chismosa and entertainment writers. She's doing this to supposedly clean her name and be vindicated, sadly though in the expense of her sons. The same sons she claims she is doing all this for--one thing I don't believe because this act is not selfless. This is for her. This is doing the boys no good, and she is just creating a bigger void in their relationship.
Her kids are practically adults, they have their own minds, make their own judgments. Surely it must her Jackie so much that her children have another Mother in the lives instead of her, but looking at her kids, they seem to have a good head in their shoulders, so she should be thankful at the least. I can't say the same for their emotional well being, though. They are obviously hurt and probably traumatized with all their family's dirty laundry out in the open for the public to see and judge.
Jackie is a victim of circumstance who's trying to rebuild her life. I believe she loves her kids unconditionally. Let's all just hope all of them heal in time.
anon 5:18am.. mas magandang manahimik si jackie.. anong minold ng ganun ng tao sa paligid? kahit ako.. makita kung ang nanay ko naglalad sa publiko ng katawan.. at kung sino sino ang lalaki pinapatulan.. maiinis din ako sa nanay ko ha.. di ba sya nahihiya sa bago nyang asawa?
Jackie, kung gusto maraming paraan,bakit di ka humingi ng tulong sa imbestigador or sa organization na pwedeng tumulong syo ma makita ang mga anak mo..bottomline hindi mo ipinaglaban ang mga anak mo ng patayan,wag mong idahilan yan edad nuon kasi marami ang batang ina na pinaglaban ang anak hindi lng mawalay sa kanila..
Kung may ina at amalang sana si Jackie na nagaruga at nan dun para sa kanya during that time. Kung ako ina nya, nakasuahn na ng rape at child abuse yan si Benjie. 25 years old na lalaki at 15 yars old na babae- nakakasuka lang.
Sana yung mga naghuhusga dito ng matindi walang anak na babae na pag 15 yrs old at pinapatulan ng 25 years old na lalake eh pagbinatngan pa ang sariling anak ng pareho g ginagawa nila ngayon. Tsk tsk!
Di mo sila kilala ng lubusan, wag papadala sa nababasa at interes lng ng writer ang nandyan. Hindi aabot ng ganito kung ang protagonist sa kwento umayos.
Ganyan rin ang naisip ko nung nabasa ko yung kwento na bumalik na lang sa US yung mom niya at hinayaan na siyang makisama kay Benjie. May anak akong babae at kung sa akin nangyari ito, kakaladkarin ko yung anak ko pasakay sa eroplano,
naku! ginusto rin ni jackie ang kalagayan nya noon. feeling ko may pgka-gold digger tlga xa. imagine the perks of being a gf/wife of benjie paras nung kasikatan nya.
Okay na sana yung comment mo te, 2:03, agree ako sa first paragraph. Pero yung second, basahin mo ulit. Nanghuhusga ka din ng matindi sa mga taong hindi mo kapareho ng opinyon. Tapos yan pa yung nakakabwisit talaga na, sana hindi nyo maranasan bullsh**. Oh please.
I can see that this is her last resort to air her side. But its not doing good sa mga anak niya. Mga matitigas na pati ang loob, may sariling isip na atsympre may bearing na din na ang hatred sa nanay nila ay lalong lumaki sa sulsol ng nasa paligid nila.
Jackie, stop na. Concentrate on your children with your husband esp may special needs sila at buntis ka ngayon. Prayers will do sa 2 mo with Paras.
Aynaku jackie kung aso nga pinaglalaban ung mga tuta sa patayan eh..tsk tsk tsk ayan di lumabas din ang katotohanan na pinabayaan mo anak mo.pano mo natiis na iwan ung anak mo sa murang edad..wag mong idahilan yang edad mo nuon kc maraming batang ina na kagaya mo na kahit kailan ay hindi iniwan ang mga anak..career inuna mo bago mga anak mo.
Nagbasa ka bA? Sa palagay mo ba maisasama niya anak niya sa US ng walang pahintulot ng ama nila? Siyempre hindi dahil kidnapping ang labas nun! Saka isa pa paano niya mabubuhay mga bata kung wala siyang work? Binablock nga niya di'ba? Sa palagay mo ba mapapasakanya ang full custody? Hindi!
I feel sorry for jackie that for a long time di nia nakasama anak nia, and ni ayaw sia kausapin.. but i dont know i sense arrogance in her every post. Walang humility. And there's also some inconsistencies. She is claiming na lahat ng common friends nila at lahat na associated Sa kanya shinut off ni benjie sa life nila, but why is ot na parang alam ni jackie lahat ng nangyayari sa loob ng bahay ng mga Paras. Who are her "reliable source" na nagpi-feed sa kanya ng info.. oh well...
Hmm now that I am hearing her side, hindi naman pala siya masamang ina. Immature, confused yes pero iyong walang pakialam sa anak NO. I admire that she is not moving on with the children that she has and disregarding Kobe and Andre. She is still making an effort to reach out which is more than I can say for others mothers who just left and never looked back. Be strong Jackie...
This woman needs to stop asking for sympathy. Lalong lalayo ang mga anak nya. Why do you need to involve the world about your personal life? You can't reach out to them in private? Talagang social media is your last outlet? It's kinda sad that you'll resort to social media just to get attention....not from your kids but from the society's sympathy. You're posting these "stories" for the entertainment of your followers, it's kinda sad really. I feel bad for you, but not as a mother who's longing for her kids....but as an unstable person who bases her decisions on the amount of Likes and comments her picture gets. Your stories are so one sided, how about opening your heart and mind as well. Accept the past and "improve" your future. You can't change what happened before so stop bringing it back! While you are getting the amount of Likes and comments from your followers (which seems to make you happy), your kids are gaining haters and bashers....your kids are unhappy and miserable. Stop dwelling the past because it will not change anything. Instead, move forward and find ways to reach out to your kids!
She can't dahil pinutol ni Benjie ang connection ng mga bata sa lahat ng kamag-anak ni Jackie at mga kaibigan for the reason that only Benjie knows. Pati nga lola hindi kinakausap, eh? Ang alam kong dapat tumigil ay 'yong si Lyxen dahil nangingialam 'yon eh? Imbes na manahimik nag-cursed pa siya kay Jackie. I think insecured 'yon sa genes ni Jackie. Lol.
wala bang nagpapayo dito na tumigil na? O wala siyang pinakikinggan? napapahiya ang mga bata... she missed them yeah, andoon na. Naiintindihan siya ng madami. Pero nai-stress ang mga bata. critical stage pa naman ang ganyang age. (young adults)
why do you always have to play the victim? someone is sabotaging your projects? as if people will go out of their way to bad mouth you in ALL of your projects? own up to all of your failures! stop dragging the past. your kids now display maturity amidst all of these. they have grown up to be well adjusted individuals! at least credit the people who brought them up well.
Jackie, stop mo na to... lalo lang sumasama loob ng mga anak mo! May career sila ngayon kung talagang mahal mo sila manahimik ka muna, wag mo idrag mga anak mo sa mga issues mo.. mukha nman silang happy sa mga buhay nila.. malamang ikaw ang di masaya kaya ganyan ka pa din.. wait ka na lang na sila mismo lumapit sayo dapat ang gawin mo habang naghihintay ka magpakabait at tumahimik ka muna..
Anak nya yng mga yan kahit ano png gawin wla kayu magagawa,buti nga cya nagpupumilit magpaka ina di katulad ng iba dyn forever na pinabayaan mga anak nila....lalo na c Jackie nagkaka edad na mas gusto na nya makasama or gusto nya bumawi sa mga anak nya bilang isang ina yng nlng ang ginagawa nnya paraan pra marinig cya .....kamukha nya mga anak nya pero sa ugali nagmana sa tatay nilang wlng pakiramdam at awa!..indi nya mahall mga anak nya yung galit nya s exwife nya ang pangganti nya sa ina nila..makasarile ang tatay!
makasarili rin ang ina. gawain ba ng mabuting ina ang ipahiya ang mga anak at ilabas ang mga bagay na dapat pribado nalang? puro paglilinis ng pangalan ang ginagawa nya. it's all about her, not her kids.
Hindi pamamahiya ang tawag dun kundi pagpapaliwanag ng kung ano mang nangyari dahil alam niya na walang magandang nasabi about kay J yong nagpalaki sa kanila. Na sa tamang edad na sila kaya ito na ang panahon para sabihin niya lahat at ng magkaroo man sila ng dahilan para mabalance yong isip nila. Nagresort siya siguro sa gsnyan dahil wala na syang choice. I think hindi yong dalawa kahiyahiya dito kundi yong dalawang taong nakapaligid sa kanila all their life.
actually 9:58, lalo lang pinapatunayan ni jackie na tama ang naging desisyon ng mga anak nyang lumayo sa kanya. pinagmumukha nyang salbahe o matigas yung mga anak nya. panghihiya ang tawag dun.
Kobe posted a very heart warming message kay Andre about their ups and downs during the past years, it is clear that these kids are being traumatized again because of the public posts of Jackie. Why Jackie can't see this? All her explanations answered what public thought of her in the past. Pero that's different from what really happened sa private lives nila during that time. My 13-yr old kid naaalala pa nya yung mga nangyari nung 3-4 yrs old siya, I am sure ganun din yung mga anak niya. Whatever she did in the past alam yun ng mga anak niya. Kung may galit man ang mga kids sa kanya that's because the kids knew something that the public didn't know.
For Benjie: you can hate and curse Jackie all your life but you don't have the right to deprive a mother of her children. A good parent never teaches or give reasons for their children to hate. Teach them about love and forgiveness. And to Jackie: stop using social media. Ask forgiveness from Benjie. If you soften his heart, the rest will follow.
I don't understand why she wants the world to know what used to be her situation.. IG is not your daily journal honey.. Negative comments were deleted from her posts and what she's asking for is fairness and that people hear both sides of the story.. One crazy woman!
awang awa ako kay jackie before kasi parang dihado siya kay benjie pero ngayon ang OA kawawa naman yung mga anak niya sa pinaggagawa niya. sobrang selfish niyang ina
In one of her interviews sinabi niya that she actually surrendered their kids full custody to Benjie cause she had to study abroad. Yan nga nursing I think, which supposedly was financed by Benjie din. What I don't get is why she had to study abroad and give Benjie full and final rights to their kids when she could've studied here instead without having to leave the kids behind. Puzzling.
Maybe that's the agreement, Jackie leaves the boys to Benjie in exchange of going to the US and study. No choice si Jackie, she does not have the means since mapera at sikat si Benjie he took advantage of the situation. He can get rid of Jackie and keep the boys to himself clever indeed.
Sabi ni Benjie sinabasabihan naman daw yung boys na makipag kita sa nanay nila, but they do not want to. Bakit kaya? I don't think Jackie is a bad person, she just made bad choices and so was Benjie. Yes I do not know her personally, my basis is how she took care of her daughter and how she took her son from past relationship with her new family. Kasi kung masama syang nanay, e di sana iniwan na lang nya yung isa pa nyang anak sa tatay may new family naman na sya.
She's talking like they have to have a relationship with her.
I told you the whole story, now, forgive me and let's all go to Disneyland this weekend!
You know, there are some people that you don't hate, but also don't want to be a part of your life. I think these boys are just over it and want to be left alone. We all need that release, but as a mother, she has to let go and accept the consequences of her (and her ex's) mistakes. Your kids have heard so many sides na, Jackie. Maybe when they're older, they will come to you. If it's too late, THEY will have to live with that mistake. In the mean time, be still..and make sure to tell your daughter not to get married at 16.
haha karamihan sa mga basketball players ay may domestic problems involving wife & kids. pag sikat sa PBA, wala kang magawa kahit battered wife ka pa. either pinapalayas ang wife or kusa na lang humihiwalay. make a census hehe
Given that Jackie may have done something wrong in the past, she had her misgivings as a young mother, Benjie should not keep her kids away from her. She is their mother kahit ano pa gawin niya. Dapat napalaki nya na may respect pa rin mga anak nya sa kanilang mother kahit ano man nagawa ni Jackie sa kanila before. It's his kids' right na makasama mother nila, but now it seems too late because of the hatred and anger.
If you bashers are really updated with her (specially sa instagram ni jackie. You would understand what kind of a mother she really is)
And if she has the chance and the money. Im sure the kids would grow up an even better version of themselves. Oo may career etc. But their attitudes are stained because they grew up with a father/new mom who is bitter and doesnt know a thing about humility.
Hello! Pati nga kapatid nilang girl dinadamay eh? Nagkasakit na nga hindi padin pinapansin. Ano kayang paliwanag dito? Hindi kaya minanipula yong dalawa at pinalaki sa takot kaya ayaw lumabag??
sige ipahiya mo pa ang anak mo sa publiko. sa ginagawa mong yan lalo lang lalayo ang loob mo sayo. Kung gusto mo makipagayos sa anak mo ay magsumikap ka pa. para kang teleserye ibinabalik ang "nakaraan". Hindi ka papatawarin o maiintindihan ng anak mo kakapost sa social media.
Nakakapagtaka lang, yung asawa ni Jackie ngayon, hindi ba siya pinapayuhan o pinagsasabihan man lang? Paninira at panggulo sa buhay ng mga anak niya ang ginagawa niya imbes na pagtuunan yung current family niya.
she's giving the public too much power over her personal life if she continues to damp her dirty laundry over the public. hindi naman cguro need ig buhay sa iba. kasi kanya kanyang baho yan
hinihiya mo lang sila lalo. dont push them too far that that wouldn't reach you anymore even if they would want to. stop it na ms. forster.
ReplyDeleteFor me hindi sila ang kahiya-hiya dito. Wala silang kasalanan dahil ganun lang sila minold pagdating sa usapaing Jackie. In time magbabago din sila after nilang maintindihan ang lahat at 'yon siguro ang dahilan ni Jackie kaya siya nagresort sa ganito dahil kapag hindi niya ito gagawin, wala, parang lalabas na hindi nagbigay ng chance si Jackie para mabalanse 'yong isip nila sa totoong nangyari.
DeleteTrue!!! Wala naman si jackie kakayahan that time. She had NO CHOICE and was given NO CHANCE.
DeleteKahiya hiya dito si benj at yung bagong asawa. Ni hindi maturuan ng respect at humility.
DeleteGirl! People are so over with ur issue they even forgot it and now u are ranting again?? Publicity? Wants to be relevant? There are other ways ot do that without doing this dramatic thing.. If u wanna have a carrier again then come back with a good way not like this.. Ur only hurting ur kids and they will not forgive u if u keep doing this.. Have some dignity and integrity.. As a woman, as a mother and as human!
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteAte,CAREER po not carrier..d naman sya PAL or cebu pac..hehe,peace..and don't judge her cause u don't know what really happened..
DeleteHay nobela, di naman relevant. Next pls
ReplyDeleteBuntis siya with her 5th child. Hormones running havoc ya know. Anyway, ang tigas din ng dalawang anak mo. Sana kahit plastikin ka na lang nila. Hey mom how are you, beso beso/ email /skype then goodbye na. Natapos na sana ang teleserye na ito. Tutal bawat isa sa inyo ay may sari sarili ng buhay. Haaaaaayy
Deletejust in case maging NBA player nga naman si kobe, wag siyang kalimutan
DeleteNge buntis pala? Why not isolate yourself from these things that stresses you out then? Plus, what you're doing is destructive. Kalma ka muna te. Sige ka manganganak ka ng isang ampalaya nyan. There are sooo many things in life to be happy about. Concentrate on that.
Deletekawawa nman ung baby nya,pinaglihian sa sama ng loob..
DeleteHINDI siya publicity. NANAY SIYA! Kung makasalita kayo! THE TRUTH WILL HURT AND SET YOU FREE. Its about time
DeleteKawawa yung pinagbubuntis niya. Puro kasi nega ang pinaggagagawa niya.
DeleteI fail to see how this is her last resort.
ReplyDeletekorek! she boasts she have the means now,why not go through the legal means?
DeleteDear Jackie, for the longest time you tell the world you wanted to see your sons and be there for them. You use all media available to get your message across... I don't think there is abandonment issue. Some parents mom or dad truly abandon their kids, by hiding to the ends of the world, cutting all possible communication. You are doing the opposite.
ReplyDeleteJackie is doing this for pure selfish reasons or she would respect her kids wishes and leave them alone until they are ready to make contact with her.
Delete2:13 ginagawa niya ito para malaman din nila kahit papaano 'yong magandang nagawa din niya sa kanila. Bakit sa palagay mo ba sinabi ito ni Lyxen? Hindi! Hayun nga't nangingialam sa kanila, eh? Haha!
DeleteJackie is doing this in hopes (but not expecting) that HER KIDS would acknowledge her. She's the true mother and her kids are still kids right now. She chose this way to enlighten them. Jackie never hid. It was the kids who were hidden from her. Sinong matinong tatay ang gagawa nun? So stop blaming jackie because she was young and naive then. Kawawa talaga siya at nakilala niya si benjie.
Deleteyoung and naive? hahaha! anon 10:21pm.. young siguro pero naive??? i don think so..
DeletePalusot ulit
ReplyDeleteYou are embarrassing them on social media. And now you're asking why they are galit sayo? Pwede mo naman i-direct message lahat ng gusto mong ipaliwanag at sabihin sa kanila, then it's up to them if they want to reply or dedma your message. But no, you chose to post it publicly because you wanted to make "Paawa". Sa ginawa mong yan, sa tingin mo ba mas magkaka interest silang kausapin ka? NO!
ReplyDeleteagree!
Deletesya na,sya na ang victim! kawawa ung dalawang bata, tapos sinabi nya pa the kids are growing like prisoners in their house.
Delete12:51 tama. huwag pilitin ang ayaw. kung mahal mo talaga ang mga anak mo, let them be. they have the right to a peaceful life. may sarili na silang mga utak. kung nanay ka talaga, alam mong nakaka-stress ang mga pinagagawa mo.
DeleteDid she really start nursing school? did she graduate? why couldn't she study in the Philippines especially since she had kids? Her story seems concocted to make her look like the victim yet again.
ReplyDeletesame thoughts here
DeletePinagtatagping kwento ngunit kulang,maraming gap sa kwento..
DeleteBenjie agreed to pay for her schooling after they separated. She supposedly asked $65,000 which took Benjie three years to pay - in installment kasi medyo mabigat for Benjie. Mukhang di naman nag-aral. There's an old article about it in P**.
DeleteAno naman ang paliwanag ni Benjie dun sa choice niya na hindi dalhin si Jackie sa OB niya dahil may practice daw ito at baka false alarm lang daw ang pananakit ng tiyan nito?
DeleteGo, Jackie! Speak up and be heard. And may God give you strength.
ReplyDeleteDear Jackie, ano bang point nitong paglalahad mo ng mga expose mo? To be vindicated, you say? If you really practice what youre preaching, you would not feel the need to do this. Kanino mo ba gustong mavindicate? Sa mga anak mo? Sa Diyos? O sa publiko?
ReplyDeleteYou keep on saying #Godiswatching, then why dont you just hope that by God's grace, in time and after you have exhausted your resources to reach out to your boys IN PRIVATE, they would listen to your side. I really find it mind-boggling how people just carelessly mention bible verses while acting such hypocrites. Sa ginagawa mong to, youre just putting your boys in bad light. By trying to clean your name, sila naaapektuhan, not just Benjie.
Nasa America ka pero grabe ka kung manggulo ng buhay nila.
-Pakialamerang Third Party hahaha
Waley sya sa US ate... Andito sya sa Sg. Chill ka lang.
DeletePaano mo nasabi na she is putting her boys in bad light? Anong kinalaman ng kamusmusan nila noon sa naging galit nila ngayon? I think hindi nila kagustuhan/choice 'yon dahil ganun sila minold ng mga taong nakapaligid sa kanila? At paano malalaman ng mga bata ang side of story niya kung hindi niya sasabihin? I think ang may kasalanan dito ay 'yong paano sila minold pagdating sa usaping Jackie. 'Yon lang!
DeleteI guess she's trying to have a clean slate, unloading the excess baggage she's been carrying for years, putting her version of the truth in the open. It probably does her good, realising all these, so she doesn't have to keep them anymore. The thing though, is, there is nobody else gaining from this but herself, and well, the next door chismosa and entertainment writers. She's doing this to supposedly clean her name and be vindicated, sadly though in the expense of her sons. The same sons she claims she is doing all this for--one thing I don't believe because this act is not selfless. This is for her. This is doing the boys no good, and she is just creating a bigger void in their relationship.
DeleteHer kids are practically adults, they have their own minds, make their own judgments. Surely it must her Jackie so much that her children have another Mother in the lives instead of her, but looking at her kids, they seem to have a good head in their shoulders, so she should be thankful at the least. I can't say the same for their emotional well being, though. They are obviously hurt and probably traumatized with all their family's dirty laundry out in the open for the public to see and judge.
Jackie is a victim of circumstance who's trying to rebuild her life. I believe she loves her kids unconditionally. Let's all just hope all of them heal in time.
nasa malaysia lang yata si Jackie.
Deletewala sya sa America..shongalang?! comment ng comment walang alam sa bina-bash!
Deleteanon 5:18am.. mas magandang manahimik si jackie..
Deleteanong minold ng ganun ng tao sa paligid? kahit ako.. makita kung ang nanay ko naglalad sa publiko ng katawan.. at kung sino sino ang lalaki pinapatulan.. maiinis din ako sa nanay ko ha..
di ba sya nahihiya sa bago nyang asawa?
Effective din ito... Kasi napapaniwala na nya ako. As a mother I feel her pain. Haaay
ReplyDeleteYun nga eh. Nag lilimos ng mga kakampi.
DeleteSTOP IT, YOU FAMEWH**E.
ReplyDeleteSomeone has mommy issues.
DeleteWala dito sa US si Jackie.
ReplyDeleteJackie, kung gusto maraming paraan,bakit di ka humingi ng tulong sa imbestigador or sa organization na pwedeng tumulong syo ma makita ang mga anak mo..bottomline hindi mo ipinaglaban ang mga anak mo ng patayan,wag mong idahilan yan edad nuon kasi marami ang batang ina na pinaglaban ang anak hindi lng mawalay sa kanila..
ReplyDeleteKung may ina at amalang sana si Jackie na nagaruga at nan dun para sa kanya during that time. Kung ako ina nya, nakasuahn na ng rape at child abuse yan si Benjie. 25 years old na lalaki at 15 yars old na babae- nakakasuka lang.
ReplyDeleteSana yung mga naghuhusga dito ng matindi walang anak na babae na pag 15 yrs old at pinapatulan ng 25 years old na lalake eh pagbinatngan pa ang sariling anak ng pareho g ginagawa nila ngayon. Tsk tsk!
Di mo sila kilala ng lubusan, wag papadala sa nababasa at interes lng ng writer ang nandyan. Hindi aabot ng ganito kung ang protagonist sa kwento umayos.
DeleteGanyan rin ang naisip ko nung nabasa ko yung kwento na bumalik na lang sa US yung mom niya at hinayaan na siyang makisama kay Benjie. May anak akong babae at kung sa akin nangyari ito, kakaladkarin ko yung anak ko pasakay sa eroplano,
Deletenaku! ginusto rin ni jackie ang kalagayan nya noon. feeling ko may pgka-gold digger tlga xa. imagine the perks of being a gf/wife of benjie paras nung kasikatan nya.
DeleteOkay na sana yung comment mo te, 2:03, agree ako sa first paragraph. Pero yung second, basahin mo ulit. Nanghuhusga ka din ng matindi sa mga taong hindi mo kapareho ng opinyon. Tapos yan pa yung nakakabwisit talaga na, sana hindi nyo maranasan bullsh**. Oh please.
DeleteI can see that this is her last resort to air her side. But its not doing good sa mga anak niya. Mga matitigas na pati ang loob, may sariling isip na atsympre may bearing na din na ang hatred sa nanay nila ay lalong lumaki sa sulsol ng nasa paligid nila.
ReplyDeleteJackie, stop na. Concentrate on your children with your husband esp may special needs sila at buntis ka ngayon. Prayers will do sa 2 mo with Paras.
it's her life not yours dear. let her be. unsolicited advise yan ang tawag sa comment mo. (oo matutulog na ako) - Jackie
DeleteAynaku jackie kung aso nga pinaglalaban ung mga tuta sa patayan eh..tsk tsk tsk ayan di lumabas din ang katotohanan na pinabayaan mo anak mo.pano mo natiis na iwan ung anak mo sa murang edad..wag mong idahilan yang edad mo nuon kc maraming batang ina na kagaya mo na kahit kailan ay hindi iniwan ang mga anak..career inuna mo bago mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteNagbasa ka bA? Sa palagay mo ba maisasama niya anak niya sa US ng walang pahintulot ng ama nila? Siyempre hindi dahil kidnapping ang labas nun! Saka isa pa paano niya mabubuhay mga bata kung wala siyang work? Binablock nga niya di'ba? Sa palagay mo ba mapapasakanya ang full custody? Hindi!
DeleteSya ang ina, kung ipinaglaban nya at naniniwala syang wala syang ginawang mali, sa kanya sana napunta ang mga bata.
DeleteI feel sorry for jackie that for a long time di nia nakasama anak nia, and ni ayaw sia kausapin.. but i dont know i sense arrogance in her every post. Walang humility. And there's also some inconsistencies. She is claiming na lahat ng common friends nila at lahat na associated
ReplyDeleteSa kanya shinut off ni benjie sa life nila, but why is ot na parang alam ni jackie lahat ng nangyayari sa loob ng bahay ng mga Paras. Who are her "reliable source" na nagpi-feed sa kanya ng info.. oh well...
Araw-araw nalang ang haba ng posts niya. Gurl, dami mong free time hahaha
ReplyDeletee bakit mo binabasa at malamang pina-follow mo pa..
DeleteHmm now that I am hearing her side, hindi naman pala siya masamang ina. Immature, confused yes pero iyong walang pakialam sa anak NO. I admire that she is not moving on with the children that she has and disregarding Kobe and Andre. She is still making an effort to reach out which is more than I can say for others mothers who just left and never looked back. Be strong Jackie...
ReplyDeleteBaka napaglilihian ni jackie si benjie.
ReplyDeleteThis woman needs to stop asking for sympathy. Lalong lalayo ang mga anak nya. Why do you need to involve the world about your personal life? You can't reach out to them in private? Talagang social media is your last outlet? It's kinda sad that you'll resort to social media just to get attention....not from your kids but from the society's sympathy. You're posting these "stories" for the entertainment of your followers, it's kinda sad really. I feel bad for you, but not as a mother who's longing for her kids....but as an unstable person who bases her decisions on the amount of Likes and comments her picture gets. Your stories are so one sided, how about opening your heart and mind as well. Accept the past and "improve" your future. You can't change what happened before so stop bringing it back! While you are getting the amount of Likes and comments from your followers (which seems to make you happy), your kids are gaining haters and bashers....your kids are unhappy and miserable. Stop dwelling the past because it will not change anything. Instead, move forward and find ways to reach out to your kids!
ReplyDeleteSame thoughts here.. I totally agree. Kawawa lang ang mga bata.
DeleteShe can't dahil pinutol ni Benjie ang connection ng mga bata sa lahat ng kamag-anak ni Jackie at mga kaibigan for the reason that only Benjie knows. Pati nga lola hindi kinakausap, eh? Ang alam kong dapat tumigil ay 'yong si Lyxen dahil nangingialam 'yon eh? Imbes na manahimik nag-cursed pa siya kay Jackie. I think insecured 'yon sa genes ni Jackie. Lol.
DeleteHope you screen cap this and make a comment on her IG posts.. You make so much sense! :)
Deleteshe is shaming her kids in the hopes that they finally give up and talk to her. sino ang bully ngayon?
Deletesa side ng stepmom, dapt lng ma-curse xa. tinawag nya kayang witch ang stepmom ng mga anak nya. mahirap din kaya mgpalaki ng anak n di mo nmn kadugo.
DeleteSiguro she provoked jackie impossible naman na gagawin ni J yon ng walang dahilan?
Deletewala bang nagpapayo dito na tumigil na? O wala siyang pinakikinggan?
ReplyDeletenapapahiya ang mga bata...
she missed them yeah, andoon na. Naiintindihan siya ng madami.
Pero nai-stress ang mga bata. critical stage pa naman ang ganyang age. (young adults)
maraming nagpappayo. she is just selfish. and if mgcomment ka s ig nya n stop she will block you.
Deletepang-ilan na ba to? sayang lang sa space. waste of time basahin, kahit mga anak niya deadma din lang. is she on something?
ReplyDeleteyung kay kris aquino napagtiyagaan kong basahin, kasi feel ko na sincere siya. pero eto hindi talaga, aksaya sa oras
ReplyDeletewhy do you always have to play the victim? someone is sabotaging your projects? as if people will go out of their way to bad mouth you in ALL of your projects? own up to all of your failures! stop dragging the past. your kids now display maturity amidst all of these. they have grown up to be well adjusted individuals! at least credit the people who brought them up well.
ReplyDeleteJackie, stop mo na to... lalo lang sumasama loob ng mga anak mo! May career sila ngayon kung talagang mahal mo sila manahimik ka muna, wag mo idrag mga anak mo sa mga issues mo.. mukha nman silang happy sa mga buhay nila.. malamang ikaw ang di masaya kaya ganyan ka pa din.. wait ka na lang na sila mismo lumapit sayo dapat ang gawin mo habang naghihintay ka magpakabait at tumahimik ka muna..
ReplyDeleteAnak nya yng mga yan kahit ano png gawin wla kayu magagawa,buti nga cya nagpupumilit magpaka ina di katulad ng iba dyn forever na pinabayaan mga anak nila....lalo na c Jackie nagkaka edad na mas gusto na nya makasama or gusto nya bumawi sa mga anak nya bilang isang ina yng nlng ang ginagawa nnya paraan pra marinig cya .....kamukha nya mga anak nya pero sa ugali nagmana sa tatay nilang wlng pakiramdam at awa!..indi nya mahall mga anak nya yung galit nya s exwife nya ang pangganti nya sa ina nila..makasarile ang tatay!
ReplyDeletemakasarili rin ang ina. gawain ba ng mabuting ina ang ipahiya ang mga anak at ilabas ang mga bagay na dapat pribado nalang? puro paglilinis ng pangalan ang ginagawa nya. it's all about her, not her kids.
DeleteHindi pamamahiya ang tawag dun kundi pagpapaliwanag ng kung ano mang nangyari dahil alam niya na walang magandang nasabi about kay J yong nagpalaki sa kanila. Na sa tamang edad na sila kaya ito na ang panahon para sabihin niya lahat at ng magkaroo man sila ng dahilan para mabalance yong isip nila. Nagresort siya siguro sa gsnyan dahil wala na syang choice. I think hindi yong dalawa kahiyahiya dito kundi yong dalawang taong nakapaligid sa kanila all their life.
Deleteactually 9:58, lalo lang pinapatunayan ni jackie na tama ang naging desisyon ng mga anak nyang lumayo sa kanya. pinagmumukha nyang salbahe o matigas yung mga anak nya. panghihiya ang tawag dun.
DeleteI wonder how the new guy feels about her raging on social media. Isn't he a diplomat? Not very good for his reputation.
ReplyDeleteKobe posted a very heart warming message kay Andre about their ups and downs during the past years, it is clear that these kids are being traumatized again because of the public posts of Jackie. Why Jackie can't see this? All her explanations answered what public thought of her in the past. Pero that's different from what really happened sa private lives nila during that time. My 13-yr old kid naaalala pa nya yung mga nangyari nung 3-4 yrs old siya, I am sure ganun din yung mga anak niya. Whatever she did in the past alam yun ng mga anak niya. Kung may galit man ang mga kids sa kanya that's because the kids knew something that the public didn't know.
ReplyDeletetama tapos sisihin nya ung mga ngpalaki saying her kids are being brainwashed! duh! at 7yrs old marami ng naaalala yun.
DeleteFor Benjie: you can hate and curse Jackie all your life but you don't have the right to deprive a mother of her children. A good parent never teaches or give reasons for their children to hate. Teach them about love and forgiveness. And to Jackie: stop using social media. Ask forgiveness from Benjie. If you soften his heart, the rest will follow.
ReplyDeleteAraw araw may pasabog ang lola. Kaloka. Pigilan nyo sya. Nagiging tabloid na instagram nya.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why she wants the world to know what used to be her situation.. IG is not your daily journal honey.. Negative comments were deleted from her posts and what she's asking for is fairness and that people hear both sides of the story.. One crazy woman!
ReplyDeleteTrue, she misses her sons like crazy!
Deleteawang awa ako kay jackie before kasi parang dihado siya kay benjie pero ngayon ang OA kawawa naman yung mga anak niya sa pinaggagawa niya. sobrang selfish niyang ina
ReplyDeleteJackie ask lang kaw ang mother db dapat sayo napunta ang mga anak mo?? Bakit kay benjie napunta??
ReplyDeleteIn one of her interviews sinabi niya that she actually surrendered their kids full custody to Benjie cause she had to study abroad. Yan nga nursing I think, which supposedly was financed by Benjie din. What I don't get is why she had to study abroad and give Benjie full and final rights to their kids when she could've studied here instead without having to leave the kids behind. Puzzling.
DeleteMaybe that's the agreement, Jackie leaves the boys to Benjie in exchange of going to the US and study. No choice si Jackie, she does not have the means since mapera at sikat si Benjie he took advantage of the situation. He can get rid of Jackie and keep the boys to himself clever indeed.
Deletekung hindi kaya artitsa at basketball player anak nya mag gaganyan kaya sya?
ReplyDeleteShe keeps on posting bible quotes on social media but she has so much bitterness in her heart. Sobrang contradicting lang with Christian teachings.
ReplyDeleteSabi ni Benjie sinabasabihan naman daw yung boys na makipag kita sa nanay nila, but they do not want to. Bakit kaya? I don't think Jackie is a bad person, she just made bad choices and so was Benjie. Yes I do not know her personally, my basis is how she took care of her daughter and how she took her son from past relationship with her new family. Kasi kung masama syang nanay, e di sana iniwan na lang nya yung isa pa nyang anak sa tatay may new family naman na sya.
ReplyDeleteAng nakakalungkot nito, kung ano ano na naman ang sasabihin ng manager nila Benjie against kay Jackie.
ReplyDeleteShe's talking like they have to have a relationship with her.
ReplyDeleteI told you the whole story, now, forgive me and let's all go to Disneyland this weekend!
You know, there are some people that you don't hate, but also don't want to be a part of your life. I think these boys are just over it and want to be left alone. We all need that release, but as a mother, she has to let go and accept the consequences of her (and her ex's) mistakes. Your kids have heard so many sides na, Jackie. Maybe when they're older, they will come to you. If it's too late, THEY will have to live with that mistake. In the mean time, be still..and make sure to tell your daughter not to get married at 16.
you said it right. :)
DeleteJackie, pa-Tulfo/T3/Imbestigador mo kaya? Tama na online!
ReplyDeletehaha karamihan sa mga basketball players ay may domestic problems involving wife & kids. pag sikat sa PBA, wala kang magawa kahit battered wife ka pa. either pinapalayas ang wife or kusa na lang humihiwalay. make a census hehe
ReplyDeleteMove on ka na lang Jackie. ma Karma din yan si benjie sa mga bad na na ifeed nya sa mga anak mo.
ReplyDeleteGiven that Jackie may have done something wrong in the past, she had her misgivings as a young mother, Benjie should not keep her kids away from her. She is their mother kahit ano pa gawin niya. Dapat napalaki nya na may respect pa rin mga anak nya sa kanilang mother kahit ano man nagawa ni Jackie sa kanila before. It's his kids' right na makasama mother nila, but now it seems too late because of the hatred and anger.
ReplyDeleteIf you bashers are really updated with her (specially sa instagram ni jackie. You would understand what kind of a mother she really is)
ReplyDeleteAnd if she has the chance and the money. Im sure the kids would grow up an even better version of themselves. Oo may career etc. But their attitudes are stained because they grew up with a father/new mom who is bitter and doesnt know a thing about humility.
Hello! Pati nga kapatid nilang girl dinadamay eh? Nagkasakit na nga hindi padin pinapansin. Ano kayang paliwanag dito? Hindi kaya minanipula yong dalawa at pinalaki sa takot kaya ayaw lumabag??
ReplyDeleteNow I understand what happened. Yan ba naman ka-passionate at stubborn si Jackie, I wonder how more when she was a lot younger.
ReplyDeletesige ipahiya mo pa ang anak mo sa publiko. sa ginagawa mong yan lalo lang lalayo ang loob mo sayo. Kung gusto mo makipagayos sa anak mo ay magsumikap ka pa. para kang teleserye ibinabalik ang "nakaraan". Hindi ka papatawarin o maiintindihan ng anak mo kakapost sa social media.
ReplyDeleteNakakapagtaka lang, yung asawa ni Jackie ngayon, hindi ba siya pinapayuhan o pinagsasabihan man lang? Paninira at panggulo sa buhay ng mga anak niya ang ginagawa niya imbes na pagtuunan yung current family niya.
ReplyDeleteshe's giving the public too much power over her personal life if she continues to damp her dirty laundry over the public. hindi naman cguro need ig buhay sa iba. kasi kanya kanyang baho yan
ReplyDelete