Saturday, February 21, 2015

An Open Letter to Mr. Ramon Tulfo in Response to 'Prevalence of Drugs in CSB' Article




Images courtesy of Facebook: Stephanie Jaurigue

96 comments:

  1. Matagal na palang issue ito bakit hindi gumagawa ng aksyon ang csb?

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    1. They conducted random drug testing a day after this incident (they do this on a regular basis). They can only take action when they catch a student red handed, they don't act based on just accusations.

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    2. They conducted random drug testing a day after this incident (they do this on a regular basis). They can only take action when they catch a student red handed, they don't act based on just accusations.

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  2. I agree with most of what she said but I think CSB has lapses din on the said matter. They could've handled this better, rather than ignoring it. Correct me if I'm wrong but wala pa atang ginagawa ang CSB about this.

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  3. The tulfos are attention hungry. Lets not make patol because yan ang gusto nilang mangyari.

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    1. It's part of their job to expose things like that. It's no being papansin. It's their job even at the expense of his family.

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    2. It is also his job to publish accurate and factual information before publishing anything in his column. He and the rest of his kin are bullies hiding in the guise of being "investigative journalists." The daughter is collateral damage to gain attention from the public. #shameonyoutulfo

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  4. Ok sana yung points nung letter sender pero naturn off ako sa pagka arogante ng tone nya.

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    1. sino ba? kay tulfo?

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    2. Matalino nga daw. We're beneath her. Ganun ang tono niya.

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    3. drama.mo naman teh. tama.naman talaga sinabi nya.

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    4. Ikaw na nagsabi letter how did you know kubg pano ang tone nya dito. Kaloka

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    5. Teh.. Anon 1:41 ... not tone as in music/sound ang sinsabi nya dito.. hihirit na lang, shunga pa. pag di mo maintindihan ang ingles, igoogle mo. Mas nakakaloka ka.

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    6. oo nga... kailan pa nagkatono ang letter... dependa na po yun kung pano mo babasahin ang sulat at kung anong klaseng tono ang ilalapat mo

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    7. Eh, what about the tone of Tulfo's "article"? Di ba arrogant din yun? Pareho lang sila.

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  5. Ang haba pero nilihis lang issue. Ang issue drugs ay talamak sa school nila. User at pusher ay nasa school nila. Fact ba iyon of bluff? Proof? Evidence? Iyon sagutin nila

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    1. Ang issue ni Stephanie eh hindi daw accurate yung mga terms or pagkakasulat ni pareng Ramon. Ndi naman nilihis ang issue. Iba ung issue ni teh, issue nya kay Ramon.

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    2. Anong nilihis dun. Naintindhan mo ba ng maayos mga sinabi nya? Wala naman.kinalaman ung school dyan. Choice un ng anak nya! At saka bumili sya outside ng school. Ano magagawa mo kung choice un ng tao.

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    3. meron. Ang sabi kasi ni MT, ON and OFF the campus. Hindi lng sa labas pati sa loob meron din. Dapat hinarap o ngset ng appointment ang CSB kay MT, ng-iwan nmn sya ng phone number on how to reach him bec he is also a concerned parent Besides, everybody knows who is he, what he does for a living and his reputation. Sana hindi nila binalewala yun tao.

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    4. Sa ginawa niya sa anak niya, I wouldn't call him a "concerned parent." Di man lang inisip kung anong magiging long-term effect sa anak niya at pamilya niya. Pinag-uusapan sa private ang mga ganyang bagay, hindi pinagsisigawan sa mundo. I would hate to have him as my dad.

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    5. 1:56 kung di naging accessible sa paboritong schools mo ang drugs walang issue dito, wala tayong paguusapan. Choice ng tao iyan OO pero bakit ginawang mas madali maacess ang drugs ON campus. Iyon sagutin nila. Nililihis niya ang issue in an effort to protect a mediocre school. Gets mo o di pa din?!

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    6. Ang TOTOONG ISSUE: may pagkukulang sa parenting ng anak kaya hindi naka "say no to drugs." Mahina ang moral judgment ng bata. Ngayon at malala na ang problema nung anak, sa eskuwelahan at sa social environment isinisisi. Ayaw umamin ng marami dito, pero ang pagpapalaki ng magulang natin ay malaking factor sa pagkatao ng bawat isa sa sa atin. Kung gusto ni Ramon Tulfo, Maayos ang problema sa anak niya, ayusin niya problema nila sa bahay.

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    7. Nasa tao yan kung gusto nya mag drugs. Maraming beses na ako pinilit at naranasan ko na rin yang peer pressure to use drugs. Ako na mismo ang lumayo at gumawa ng paraan para hindi ako mag drugs. Tulad ng yosi marami ang gumagamit at nag bebenta ngunit kung ayaw mo mag yosi eh di hindi ka gagamit. Hindi ito kasalanan ng eskwelahan. Wala akong nabasa sa artikulo ni Tulfo na sinasabing may pagkukulang sya bilang magulang. Parang nag huhugas kamay at pinapasa sa CSB ang ginawa ng anak nya.

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  6. Stephanie Jaurigue teh, tanong ko lang, naka drugs ka din ba?

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    1. Teh tanong lang nakakaintindi kaba ng english. Haahha mag mnicure ka nlang teh

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    2. 12;55

      cge pedicure ko mukha mo. libre na! bwhahaha

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    3. 5:00 hahaha!!! i-foot spa mo na din muka ni 12:55 hahaha!!!

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  7. Ito ba yung tulfo na ito ang na jumbag ni Claudine? If sya nga, nku alam na Kung Bakit na jumbag, jumping to conclusion pala kaagad...

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    1. ano ang kinalaman sa pag jumbag nya kay claudine abir? nabasa mo ba ang article ni tulfo about sa issue? hindi cguro palibhasa puro chismis nasa utak mo.

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    2. Bully kasi ka na jombag noon.
      Bully kaya inignore ngayon.
      Bully lang magpakailanman ang peg, kaya ayan, pati anak niya binully niya in public sa article niya. #karmamoanganakmo

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  8. Pro Tulfo pa rin ako! Sino ba itong Stephanie na ito? Isa ba sya sa CSB officials or isa lang saw sawerang pasikat?

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    1. She is a student from CSB. I am also pro Tulfo. Pinakamahirap sa magulang na malaman na nagdrugs anak nila. At pinakamasakit ang aminin to sa lahat. People who cannot see the point of Tulfo are those who does not want to tarnish CSB's reputation. I salute Tulfo for being brave enough to admit his mistake as a father and inform people regarding CSB's problem.

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    2. Hay ang tagal ng issue yan graduate na ako at lahat. This happens not only sa CSB. Pati na rin sa ibang schools. SC officials used to pop pills sa SC office. Some classmates come in class high from weed and other stuff. Unfortunately this is common. And I applaud Tulfo for making this public. It is time that the public know about this. And Ms. Facebook you are not helping by glossing over and covering up the drug issue.

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    3. Fantard student yan ng CSB arrogant sobra!

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    4. Magsama kayo. Shongaaa hahaha

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    5. Andito ka pala Stephanie! Wag kang epal! lol @anon 12:56

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    6. 2.36, bully kasi yang idol mo kaya hindi pinaniniwalaan ng mga taong hindi nainiwala sa bullying.

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  9. The author of the article seems to overlook the point of Tulfo. She pointed out Tulfo's way of writing and personal issues rather than the REAL & SERIOUS issue which is the prevalence of drugs in CSB. Tulfo's article is an eye-opener for parents who worked hard to send their kids to good schools such as CSB. He did not blame CSB for his daughter's drug use, he merely want the school to at least be concerned on this matter. I believe that Tulfo did the right thing to let people be informed on CSB's inaction regarding the matter. This serves as a warning to othetr parents not to enroll their kids to this school. If CSB cannot properly handle serious issues such as drugs, what more for other issues?

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    1. Papansin lang ang Stephanie para mapag usapan.

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    2. at last!! some sensible comment!

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    3. true. style yan ng mga papansin, open letter ek ek

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    4. E, yung Tulfo na yan papansin rin kaya. Asus, pareho lang kayo.

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    5. I agree with Tulfo! pag may mall nga malapit sa school, nakikisama ang mall na wag papasukin ang estudyante pag school hours. Bawal din nga magkaroon ng malapit na internet shop sa mga schools, kasi, baka nga ma pariwara ang mga estudyante. Yan pa kaya na drugs?! kelangan makisama ang school imbestigahan yan. Dapat nga walang bars malapit sa mga school eh.

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    6. They conducted random drug testing a day after this incident (they do this on a regular basis - their way of promoting a drug-free community). I know this because a friend of mine goes to CSB. They can only take action when they catch a student red handed, they don't act based on just accusations. I don't think it's fair for you to say that they're taking this matter lightly. Just because they don't announce their action plan on social media, that doesn't mean they're not doing anything about it.

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  10. attention hungry yan sila tulfo. Kung binaba yan and usap ng officials e malamang gumawa yan ng eksena dun sa school

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  11. Why csb only point out ni tulfo. E may st scholastica dun at la salle main. Di naman mashado nagkakalayo. ung galit nya sa sarili nya blame nya sa iba. Indenial cya na he failed as a parent Dahil daughter nya do drugs.

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    1. Anon 2:39 Utang na loob gamitin mo naman utak mo bago ka mag comment dito sa fp! Bakit sa St. Scholastica at Lasalle Main ba naka enroll ang anak ni Tulfo?? Sa CSB naka enroll anak nya so dapat na CSB lang ang banggitin nya!

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    2. ang talino ng tanong mo. di naman nya pwede pakealaman yung dlsu main and st scho kasi sa csb nagaaral yung anak nya.

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    3. Shunga lang? Malamang sa CSB sya magi- inquire kasi sa CSB nag aaral yung anak nya. Mahirap bang intindihin na pag parent ka at nalaman mong ang kinukuhaan ng drugs e mlapit lang sa school at ang ilan sa mga nagtutulak ay mga estudyante (accdg to the anak), malamang sa malamang itanong mo or ipaalam sa school na may ganitong issue? Hindi diba? Kasi kahit hindi mismo sa loob ng CSB ung bentahan, the mere fact ba nalapit lang sa bakuran nila ang bentahan ay cause for concern dapat yun for the school.

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    4. @2:39am.. Bawal e**ot dito... CSB lang Ang napoint out ni tulfo.kasi dun nagaaral anak nya... Yun Ang may 1st hand information sya sa ngayon. Pero since binaggit mo na Ang Ibang schools malamang yan in a few days pati sila maiimbestigahan na din... #BAO

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  12. naku eh mga di naman nag excel academically mga students ng CSB, ilan ang graduate na summa, magna cum laude sa CSB? puro mga courses na walang saysay , masabi lang na naka tapos ng college

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    1. nanette medved, basti artadi, illac diaz, marie lozano, charina sarte, bianca king, lucky manzano -- all of them studied in csb. wag kamg judgmental. before, ganyan din ang thinking ko about csb. nong nakapasok ako and nalaman ko curriculum ng csb, nag-iba impression ko. so don't be judgmental lalo na kung wala kang alam.

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    2. fyi mwy architecture sa csb. so walang saysay ang program na iyon? Hasty generalization. Stop stereotyping please, ignorance at its finest.

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    3. Ignorante ka girl.

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    4. Talaga? Boss mo nga sila ngayon.

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    5. 2:59 palibhasa mga mediocre courses with board exams lang alam mo! Csb courses delve with creative talents of their students. I dare say not half of the population of other schools can play musical instruments, paint, do film, or design. These skills are much much more in demand abroad abd are held in higher esteem than standard courses. Wag talangka please!

      - csb grad, now at the julliard school (paki google sa mga di alam lol)

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    6. Excuse you, kung walang saysay ang pag mga pinagaaralan dun eh bakit ang mga alumni nun ay may mga magagandang trabaho? Inggit ka lang teh la ka pang tuition dun hahahaha

      at magandang art school ang csb. bow

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    7. Anon 2:59 wala ka pambayad sa mahal na tuition fee ng csb! So bitter

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    8. Pinky webb is also from
      Csb! Burn you fools! Hahaha

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    9. Megan young, lauren young and rajo laurel. Benildeans yan. Hahahahahaha

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    10. Pinky's from la salle, you fool. She was even a cheerleader.

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    11. Pinky was from DLSU. Leave her out of this thread, or better yet, this whole thing.

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  13. School is the second home sabi nga nila. Csb should have addressed it better than ignoring the issue. Kahit off-campus, students nila yun e. They can take action for it. One more thing when your daughter does drugs it doesn't mean you are a failed parent kasi kahit gaano mo siya pagsabihan, hindi mo siya macocontrol talaga kasi di rin naman niya kasama 24/7, gagawin at gagawin pa rin niya. Wag tayo manghusga, we don't know the real story.

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    1. "Kahit off-campus, students nila yun e"

      Kahit student nila yun, walang magagawa ang institution kung sa labas ng campus nangyayari. Yung campus lang ang teritoryo nila, bebe. Wala silang power sa labas

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  14. So, after ng pagkahaba habang letter, ano na ang nagawa ng CSB? Kinausap na ba si G. Tulfo? Napaimbestigahan na ba ang mga sinabi niya? Naireport ba nila sa local government na may bar na malapit sa kanilang educational institution? Alam pala nila na di basta coffee shop kundi bar pa nga ang nag-ooperate sa vicinity ng school! Ang tungkulin ng school di dapat magsimula at matapos sa gate at confines ng school. Bahagi sila ng community which they serve at partners din nila ang nasa paligid nila. Ang school ay di dapat na pang profit lang. Dapat malaki ang concern nila sa kanilang stakeholders- magulang, community at higit sa lahat, sa kabataan.

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  15. Nakakabahala na mas concerned pa yata ang eskwela sa pagka expose ni Mr. Tulfo sa nangyari sa anak niya kesa sa pag-iisip ng paraan para malunasan ang problema na idinudulog ni G. Tulfo. Ang punto dapat ay ano ang ginagawa ng eskwela para makatulong na mabawasan ang ganitong problema ng mga magulang.

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  16. I feel like there are far better ways this could have been handled. For one, is shaming your own daughter in a public forum really the way to get her to shape up? I get it, Mr. Tulfo might have been thinking that this whole thing is so much bigger than his daughter and their problems, but publishing an article like that, is that the proper way go about it? That helps how? I can't think of any purpose for it but as a piece of sensationalist expose. It's just stinky to me that the editorial board of the publication gave the story the green light when it's very obviously ethically unsound and poorly substantiated. I have learned to expect nothing from these Tulfos but this is a record low even for such bottom feeders.

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  17. Hay naku isend mo yan stephanie kay mon tulfo mismo hindi yung pa open open letter ka. most probably hindi yan babasahin ni tulfo. Gusto mo lang may magshare nyang letter mo at pagusapan ka.

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    1. Uhm, kaya nga open letter ang tawag...need mo na magtasa ng utak.

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  18. choice yan ng tao kung gusto nya mag-drugs. i was surrounded by friends who used drugs in high school amd grade school. in fact, i've tried it once out of curiousity only. pero dahil maayos ang mga magulang ko, di ako nag-addict and hindi na nasundan yon. nasa guidance ng magulang at nasa bata/anak na yan kung ano gusto nya gawin.

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  19. Wow! Blame the writer but not the school?? Sorry ha, but drug peddling is a very serious crime, and the school can very well help to solve it by placing guards in those places, working with pdea or the barangay for those students who are suspected of selling drugs, etc. andaming pwedeng gawin ng school kung gusto talaga nila, but they are turning a blinde eye to it. Solve the problem, don't shoot the messenger! Arogante pa tong writer nato, bata ka pa girl, dami mo pang kakaining bigas!

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  20. Taking drugs is not JUST an individual's choice, it is a CRIME and a SOCIAL ISSUE. When a person in a community takes drugs, he or she becomes a threat to that community. That is why tulfo wants swift and specific action to be done. Drugs is not to be taken lightly, in other countries it is punishable by death! Kaya don't put blame on the reporter, amd don't diss his plea like it's his fault pa as a parent. That's just wrong.

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  21. So ganyan lang ba talaga kayabang at walang galang ang mga taga CSB? Sige may pagkukulang si Mr Tulfo pero aminin sana na may lapses din ang school. This open letter could have been written in a less accusing and more rational/ objective manner. Instead you just proved what sort of attitude students in your school have. Ok hindi fair mag-generalize dahil ang nakita so far yung anak ni Tulfo and this letter writer. I certainly hope this letter sender is not the best CSB has to offer. Kung ganun hindi lang pala drugs ang problema ng eskwelahan na yan. Tsk.

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  22. Dahil alam na nga na may drugs sa school nila, anong aksyon ang ginagawa ng CSB? Wala? Deadma lang?

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  23. Kung hindi kayang bantayan ng mga magulang ang mga anak nila sa labas ng bahay, bakit kayo mag-eexpect na kayang bantayan ng school ang mga anak nyo paglabas ng campus?

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  24. Hindi lang naman sa CSB talamak ang drugs eh! Mali na isisi lang sa school ang drug problem. I have cousins from CSB, too and hindi naman sila nagda-drugs. Nasa pagpapalaki din ng anak yan. Sa bahay ang foundation ng character and behavior ng bata. Isisi mo sa sarili mo kung bakit hindi lumaking maayos ang anak mo.

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  25. isa lang ang sagot dyan "Isumbong mo kay Tulfo" ...resolbahin ngayon ng mga Tulfo brothers ang problema ng pamangkin and kuya nila

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  26. pansin ko lang, she just let the world know TALAMAK ang droga sa university belt ng CSB.

    PDEA ano pang ginagawa nyo? gora na..

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  27. Well maybe just maybe, if someone just attended tulfo's concern, there was no need for him to publicize an open letter. If a parent believes the school is lacking action and the problem is continuous, every parent would be bothered. You are already pointing tulfo to be at fault. Don't you think the school's environment can also be at fault seeing students spend most of their time at school than with their parents.

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  28. sa dami b namn ng student ma momonitor b ng school yan? di ba dapat ang magulang ang nag momonitor s anak nila.

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    1. Oo nga pero kung may parent na nag raise ng concern, rsponsibility ng school na sagutin yun.

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  29. Can't agree more on what she wrote. Burn tulfo!

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  30. May pagkukulang din naman kasi si Mr. Tulfo, bawas-bawasan kasi ang pagpunta ng A1 sir. Spend time with your child/children.

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  31. May point naman si Stephanie. Sa pagkakasulat ni Tulfo ang dating e aakalain ng mga tao CSB ang may kasalanan kung bakit nag drugs ang anak nya. Choice ng anak nya kung bakit nya naisipan mag drugs, hindi dahil napaligiran sya ng mga addict o dahil naging lax ang CSB sa pagbabantay ng mga students. Magulang ang dapat hindi magkulang sa paalala sa mga anak na wag magbibisyo. Sana kasi di nagsulat si Tulfo ng mataas ang emosyon nya dahil sa galit sa school at sa anak nya. Ganun ang lumabas sa article, isang magulang na galit at walang mapagbuhusan ng galit kaya idinaan sa pagtuturo ng kung sino na lang ang maisip nyang sisihin. Sana pinagusapan muna nila as a family bago sya nagsulat. Sino rin ba ang sources ni Tulfo para masabi na walang ginagawa ang CSB sa issue na yan? Di nga nya nakausap ang officials di ba? Kahit din naman ipasara ng CSB ang mga bars na yan, hahanap at hahanap ng paraan ang mga pushers at addicts ng ibang lugar para makabili ng drugs. Di naman bagong issue yang drugs sa kabataan. Matagal na yan nangyayari at di lang sa iisang university, malamang sa lahat ng schools may ganyang issue hindi lang naeexpose.

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  32. CSB is doing something about this drug issue now. I would know because my son is studying At CSB.

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    1. Agree, my sister is studying there and they have stepped up their efforts with drug use after this case.

      Actually, Even before this issue there are drug measures already.

      All schools hav drug users and pushers. All comes down to choice

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  33. As always, some Filipinos' emotions get the best of them. People need to understand that when you make an accusation, it is more important to have accurate, substantive information--facts--than just pure emotions. That way, when you bring your argument to the table, your position is focused and has better feet to stand on. There's nothing wrong with having passion; but to have credibility with your accusation, you must be beyond reproach. Tulfo's reputation is also sullied by his bullying ways. He certainly did himself, his family, his employers, and his fans a disservice when he published his piece lacking in evidence.

    I know, I know, what you fans are saying. But can you, for a moment, just set aside your feelings, and look at this matter with an objective mindset?

    Yes, he's a parent. Yes, he's disappointed. Yes, he's furious to discover his daughter's drug problem. BUT, shouldn't he look closely at the root of the problem AT HIS HOMESTEAD FIRST AND FOREMOST?

    For Ramon Tulfo: Why not focus on being a good patent to your child and see how impactful that would be for her moving forward from this?

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  34. I guess the important issue here is kung ano ng gagawin ng school about the issue. Because from what I get from the letter Of Ms. Jaurigue, she is not denying the fact na may drug dealings na nangyayari sa mga establishments around the school. I'm asuming that that she's part of the administrator, faculty, or staff of this school so as part of their responsibility, kahit privtae citizen ka lang, is to report this things to the proper authorities lalo na if your students are affected or involved so that proper actions can be done to this establishments

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  35. it is part if lasalle since there is 100m radius that there should be no gambling, drugs, bars within it's perimeter. local leaders and authorities should coordinate to.

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