Still Getting Cranky

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Getting over a former lover seems to be easy for some people, whereas others pretend to have let go, but actually are still licking their wounds. This statement summarizes the travails of Seemingly Fine Actress (SA). Over the past year, SA has projected an image of control and that she has surpassed her heartache. However, actions speak louder than words.

Behind the cameras, one sure way of ruining SA’s day is to mention the name of Feisty Talent (FT). Even in an innocent conversation, SA will go ballistic and make the other party feel her displeasure over the cropping up of FT. While people around her would like to believe that SA has forgiven and forgotten, SA behaves otherwise. In front of the camera and the live audience, SA and FT are cordial to each other, which is very professional and praiseworthy. However, in private moments, SA does not want to have anything to do with FT.

It was not like this a few years ago. When they were both starting out, they were the best of friends. Like non-showbiz teenagers, SA and FT became very close and even confided their deep secrets to each other. Thus, FT was privy to the non-public relationship of SA and Mr. Heartbreaker (MH). As a loyal friend, FT never divulged nor hinted at anything publicly about SA and MH. When SA and MH broke up, FT was the shoulder to cry on.

Months passed and SA and MH seemed to have moved on. While SA remained unattached, MH was having a field day with his relationships. One event led to another until MH became close to FT. Quickly, they became an item. At this point, the bff relationship between SA and FT crumbled. Unlike SA and MH, FT and MH did a risky decision, which was to admit their relationship publicly. This gamble earned the ire of the fans of SA towards FT, who was then subjected to name-calling and other accusations, such as “boyfriend-thief.” Of course, the critics refused to accept the fact that FT and MH became an item many months after SA and MH broke up.

As FT and MH are growing strong, with MH professing that he has found the perfect match, SA is apparently still hurting. Imagine what happened when a staff unthinkingly brought a magazine with FT and MH on the cover to where SA was chilling. Poor staff!

“Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.”― Steve Maraboli

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