Yes Andei, in your shoes. Then try to be in your moms shoes, then you would know how deeply painful it is to be ignored and disregarded as a mother who gave you life, so sad for you kiddo, whatever you do in life, you will always feel incomplete. If you can just forgive and let love and a little respect shine upon You for your mom then maybe, just maybe peaceful life is ahead of you. Your heart is full of hatred same as your brother. Someday you will understand everything when you finally settle down and have kids.
12.37 selfish ang mom nila nuong bata pa sila at hanggang ngayon ang sarili lang nya ang iniintindi nya. The world must revolve around Jackie because her pain, suffering etc are all that count (yes I'm being sarcastic).
Actually I feel so sad for you instead. You dont know how to respect other people's feelings...have you not learn that insisting your opinion on other people is never good? In this case, the boy is troubled already and then people like you comes around, putting the pressure on him for something that his mother caused?! Pathetic fool!
12:37, maybe during your childhood you didn't experience of being abandoned by your OWN mother 'huh. . .i bet jackie's kids felt so miserable that time imagine their mom left them just to pursue her dreams, how selfish was that don't you think? And the more she put benjie down or to make him like a fool or just to hurt him on social media sites then her kids hate her even more., why can't jackie just reach out to them in a peaceful way without hurting their fathet?
I just wonder if all these years humingi ba ng kapatawaran si Jackie sa ama ng mga batang ito? Or she just always try to justify herself of all her adulterous act?
Adulterous act? Do you have any proof of that? It's so easy to point fingers to anyone but it's difficult to give a little sense of compassion to the mother who all her life have Been Fighting for her rights to be withe her kids just because of what you know exteriorly. Jacki wasn't awarded custody of her sons because she was so young then and didn't have a permanent work to support them. She didn't received a single alimony from the dissolution of her marriage to Benjie. Before accusing someone of adultery get your facts first.
I agree with 12:42,She committed adulterous acts. The kids said to their dad that when Jackie borrowed them for the weekend they left them to party with guys and left them no food! That's the kind of mom she is. And i don't think those kids were lying about this since the are so bitter about it. Must be a horrible experience they can never forget.
Coming from a rather chaotic family, i understand his pain. Maybe their mom didnt physically abused them, but she caused havoc on their lives. Maybe when they were little, they see their parents fight a lot and from a what they saw, they considered their mom the villain. Jackie unknowingly abused her kids emotionally and psychologically.
That's how I saw my mom when she would suddenly hurl hurtful words to my father. She never hurt me, but i knew from my heart she was making my HOME unliveable. She was the villain. It was only when I was in my mid-20s that I finally forgave her and let go of all the hate. My parents didnt seperate but she ruined my childhood and I hated her.
Jackie, if you read this. Let them be. Youre the mom. Maybe not now but they will surely find it in their heartS to forgive you. dont add up to their pain. I hated my mom the most when she would attempt to 'connect' to me while growing up.
His heart is full of hatred. I dont know the exact story but sometimes, he should learn to forgive. Their mom.was really young (not an excuse). Time will tell na lang.
Yan ang natutunan nila sa tatay nila kc ang tatay nila niloko ng nanay nila kaya yn ang pinamulat ang kamuhian din ang mama nila...mali yan dapat kayo mga anak nakita na ninyo nagsisi na mama nyo magkapatawaran nakayo.....mas gagaan pa ang buhay niyo..indi puro galit ang mamanahin nyo sa tatay nyo dahil komo naloko lng cya...indi rin kayo dpt idolohin..tignan nyo ang iba mga anak na naiwan cla pa ang naghahanap smga magulang nila na pabaya kayo nandyn na Ina nyo lahat ginagawa nya magkasundo kayo..pinalaki kayo ng tatay nyo sa galit at muhi di nyo cya dpt tularan...
You dont know the real story, so why blame the father only? And i think we should congratulate Benjie for taking care of his two boys. Look at them now, di mga pasaway/suwail o mabisyong anak. Parehong nag-aaral sa magandang school. Kung may galit man ang mga bata sa nanay may reason yan at sila lang ang nakakaalam even Jakie knows that.Now, ang tanong, did the mother ask forgiveness to the kids she'd left. Dont just blame the father coz siya din iniwan at iniwanan ng 2 anak. During those years Benjie act as a mother and father kaya ganun na lang ang pagpapahalaga ng dalawang bata kay Benjie. Sana man lang even if they are separated Jakie didnt cut her ties to her boys para naman habang lumalaki alam nila at napi feel yung presence ng mommy nila.
Who wouldn't be pissed off if your mother who abandoned and hurt you when you were young is still hurting you now by emotionally blackmailing you to do what she wants.
O ayan Jackie, nakuha mo na attention ng anak mo! Yan na din ang hinihingi mong sagot sa pangungulit mo! Hindi kasi dapat sa social media ka nagiingay kasi baka maintriga nanaman sila magkapatid. O ayan, happy ka ba sa resulta ng experiment mo? We know its painful for a mom to be denied by her kids but iits painful for the kids to recall the reasons why. Both have pains but who do you think should ynderstand more?
Then ask the mother why the hell she's using ig to get the attention of her kids and vent out her anger in ig where all of her followers can read it. why not ask them personally. Isn't difficult to call your kids phone i'm sure she have them. Or better yet set up a date with them where you can talk freely and wholeheartedly.
This is the one time when I hate how people use social media. When what should be private and inner turmoils become public fodder. Yes, it's a sure fire way of getting the attention needed and intended but at what price? Dati naman walang ganito and people resolve their issues behind closed doors. I feel the pain for both parties. Yung emotional torture that they inflict on each other. Sana matapos, in due time. And in privacy.
Hay ang mga tao nga naman. You are all reading too much into this. Kaming mga totoong fans ni Andre, yung mga totoong sumusunod sa posts niya, alam namin kung ano ito... he is simply sighting a line from Eminem, his favorite artist. Parang LSS ba? Wag masyadong maging emotional mga kababayan. Kumakanta lang po ang batang ito.
Tsk tsk. Their mom needs to give them space. They'll just hate her more.
ReplyDeletebakit, baby boy? You can count on me... Come to mama! chos!
ReplyDeleteSo what is he saying exactly? Is this for his mom?
ReplyDeleteIlang beses na kasi ulit kinol attention sila ni jackie. Including Benjie in the picture as a bad guy.
Deletein other words.... "mom, leave me alone"
ReplyDeleteYes Andei, in your shoes. Then try to be in your moms shoes, then you would know how deeply painful it is to be ignored and disregarded as a mother who gave you life, so sad for you kiddo, whatever you do in life, you will always feel incomplete. If you can just forgive and let love and a little respect shine upon You for your mom then maybe, just maybe peaceful life is ahead of you. Your heart is full of hatred same as your brother. Someday you will understand everything when you finally settle down and have kids.
ReplyDeletegive the kids some time, hindi minamadali ang mga ganyan. mas pangit naman kung pinilit diba?
Delete12.37 selfish ang mom nila nuong bata pa sila at hanggang ngayon ang sarili lang nya ang iniintindi nya. The world must revolve around Jackie because her pain, suffering etc are all that count (yes I'm being sarcastic).
DeleteEasier said than done. Dont push it te. Time heals all wounds. And besides sabi mo nga nanay parin sya kahit anong manyari so no need to rush diba?
DeleteActually I feel so sad for you instead. You dont know how to respect other people's feelings...have you not learn that insisting your opinion on other people is never good? In this case, the boy is troubled already and then people like you comes around, putting the pressure on him for something that his mother caused?! Pathetic fool!
Delete12:37, maybe during your childhood you didn't experience of being abandoned by your OWN mother 'huh. . .i bet jackie's kids felt so miserable that time imagine their mom left them just to pursue her dreams, how selfish was that don't you think? And the more she put benjie down or to make him like a fool or just to hurt him on social media sites then her kids hate her even more., why can't jackie just reach out to them in a peaceful way without hurting their fathet?
Delete3:14 what are you doing? Aren't you also insisting that your opinions are right? Even calling people names? You are rven more foolish and pathetic.
DeleteI just wonder if all these years humingi ba ng kapatawaran si Jackie sa ama ng mga batang ito? Or she just always try to justify herself of all her adulterous act?
ReplyDeleteAdulterous act? Do you have any proof of that? It's so easy to point fingers to anyone but it's difficult to give a little sense of compassion to the mother who all her life have Been Fighting for her rights to be withe her kids just because of what you know exteriorly. Jacki wasn't awarded custody of her sons because she was so young then and didn't have a permanent work to support them. She didn't received a single alimony from the dissolution of her marriage to Benjie. Before accusing someone of adultery get your facts first.
DeleteI agree with 12:42,She committed adulterous acts. The kids said to their dad that when Jackie borrowed them for the weekend they left them to party with guys and left them no food! That's the kind of mom she is. And i don't think those kids were lying about this since the are so bitter about it. Must be a horrible experience they can never forget.
DeleteComing from a rather chaotic family, i understand his pain. Maybe their mom didnt physically abused them, but she caused havoc on their lives. Maybe when they were little, they see their parents fight a lot and from a what they saw, they considered their mom the villain. Jackie unknowingly abused her kids emotionally and psychologically.
ReplyDeleteThat's how I saw my mom when she would suddenly hurl hurtful words to my father. She never hurt me, but i knew from my heart she was making my HOME unliveable. She was the villain. It was only when I was in my mid-20s that I finally forgave her and let go of all the hate. My parents didnt seperate but she ruined my childhood and I hated her.
Jackie, if you read this. Let them be. Youre the mom. Maybe not now but they will surely find it in their heartS to forgive you. dont add up to their pain. I hated my mom the most when she would attempt to 'connect' to me while growing up.
Mom?naintindihan nyo bh sabi?lol...feel your pain feel my pain...don't let them your not beautiful...?obviously it's for someone he loves
ReplyDeleteHamuna yan Andre. Okay lang yan. Malalagpasan nyo yan. Lika nga rito. Ikaw talagang bata ka. Lika dali!
ReplyDeleteHis heart is full of hatred. I dont know the exact story but sometimes, he should learn to forgive. Their mom.was really young (not an excuse). Time will tell na lang.
ReplyDeletetheir mom is full of hatred sa daddy nila.
DeleteYan ang natutunan nila sa tatay nila kc ang tatay nila niloko ng nanay nila kaya yn ang pinamulat ang kamuhian din ang mama nila...mali yan dapat kayo mga anak nakita na ninyo nagsisi na mama nyo magkapatawaran nakayo.....mas gagaan pa ang buhay niyo..indi puro galit ang mamanahin nyo sa tatay nyo dahil komo naloko lng cya...indi rin kayo dpt idolohin..tignan nyo ang iba mga anak na naiwan cla pa ang naghahanap smga magulang nila na pabaya kayo nandyn na Ina nyo lahat ginagawa nya magkasundo kayo..pinalaki kayo ng tatay nyo sa galit at muhi di nyo cya dpt tularan...
ReplyDeleteThanks FP.....masaya na ko nakita ko ang comment ko..from LA...
Deleteshut up. you've never been in his shoes.
DeleteAt hindi naman ako masayang makita ang comment mo. From tondo.
DeleteYou dont know the real story, so why blame the father only? And i think we should congratulate Benjie for taking care of his two boys. Look at them now, di mga pasaway/suwail o mabisyong anak. Parehong nag-aaral sa magandang school. Kung may galit man ang mga bata sa nanay may reason yan at sila lang ang nakakaalam even Jakie knows that.Now, ang tanong, did the mother ask forgiveness to the kids she'd left. Dont just blame the father coz siya din iniwan at iniwanan ng 2 anak. During those years Benjie act as a mother and father kaya ganun na lang ang pagpapahalaga ng dalawang bata kay Benjie. Sana man lang even if they are separated Jakie didnt cut her ties to her boys para naman habang lumalaki alam nila at napi feel yung presence ng mommy nila.
DeleteSingle parent daddy.
Correct! It's how we are raised. :)
DeleteJackie as well as her family are not allowed to see the kids. @3:02 binawalan mo din mom nila?
Deletehe gets pissed off sa IG ng kanyang biological mother
ReplyDeleteWho wouldn't be pissed off if your mother who abandoned and hurt you when you were young is still hurting you now by emotionally blackmailing you to do what she wants.
DeleteO ayan Jackie, nakuha mo na attention ng anak mo! Yan na din ang hinihingi mong sagot sa pangungulit mo! Hindi kasi dapat sa social media ka nagiingay kasi baka maintriga nanaman sila magkapatid. O ayan, happy ka ba sa resulta ng experiment mo? We know its painful for a mom to be denied by her kids but iits painful for the kids to recall the reasons why. Both have pains but who do you think should ynderstand more?
ReplyDeleteActive na active si jackie forster! lol tulog na teh!
ReplyDeleteWhy does everybody always give their two cents? Do you really know what happened in their lives to give your judgment? Leave them alone!!!!
ReplyDeletenice to see you here Andre!
DeleteThis!
DeleteThen ask the mother why the hell she's using ig to get the attention of her kids and vent out her anger in ig where all of her followers can read it. why not ask them personally. Isn't difficult to call your kids phone i'm sure she have them. Or better yet set up a date with them where you can talk freely and wholeheartedly.
DeleteLet's all leave them alone...it's their life.
ReplyDeleteThis is the one time when I hate how people use social media. When what should be private and inner turmoils become public fodder. Yes, it's a sure fire way of getting the attention needed and intended but at what price? Dati naman walang ganito and people resolve their issues behind closed doors. I feel the pain for both parties. Yung emotional torture that they inflict on each other. Sana matapos, in due time. And in privacy.
ReplyDeleteHay ang mga tao nga naman. You are all reading too much into this. Kaming mga totoong fans ni Andre, yung mga totoong sumusunod sa posts niya, alam namin kung ano ito... he is simply sighting a line from Eminem, his favorite artist. Parang LSS ba? Wag masyadong maging emotional mga kababayan. Kumakanta lang po ang batang ito.
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