So how does it work nga -- who assumes the role of husband, who assumes role of wife -- in a gay relationship? Can smeone shed some light? Curious lang po
Depende sa kung anong klaseng role ang gustong gampanan ng dalawang partido sa isang relasyon:
1) PAREHAS NA LALAKE - Ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay; ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay (transgender/transexual/transvestite) 2) PAREHAS NA LALAKE - Parehas na gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay 3) PAREHAS NA BABAE - Parehas na gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay 4) PAREHAS NA BABAE - Ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay (butch/transgender); iyong isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay.
Sa Pilipinas kasi, kapag bakla automatic iisipin ng tao siya iyong babae. It does not always work that way. Kaya may tinatawag na LGBT kasi may iba-ibang klase/uri ang pagiging bakla.
12:19 panahon pa ni kupong-kupong yang alam mong assume-assume. sa isang relasyon, dalawang tao lang ang kailangan magpatakbo nito. hindi naman nangangahulugang, isang babae at isang lalaki lang dapat.
nobody has to be a wife or husband in a gay relationship, may mga gays/lesbians kasi who doesnt identify themselves as butch/femme/bottom/top/versa/trans/etc. as long as they're happy sa kanya kanyang role nila in their relationship at nagkakaunawaan sila then, who needs to define a role? pero may mga gay/lesbian couple din na yung isa they really identify themselves to be more masculine/feminine and if he/she wants to be considered the wife/husband, it's also their choice and nobody is in the position to dictate what they want to be sa loob ng pamamahay nila or sa pagpapakilala nila sa tao. /nkakarelate lang/
THIS! Love knows no gender. Hayaan nating sumaya ang lahat. Tayong lahat ay pantay-pantay sa mata ng Diyos. Kaya ang karapatang ng isa ay karapatan ng lahat.
grabe talga mga tao ngayon biruin mo mga bading din yan mga press people tas tinawanan? wtf? people kaya hindi tao nag kakaroon ng tamang pag iisip kasi closed minded mga tao dito sa pilipinas porke di na gustuhan ang tanawin we tend to bash. not look the other way around
Sorry to burst your bubble pero hindi lang "straight" people ang mapang husga. Even in the LGBT community ay may mga mapang husga din. Ang tao, kahit ano pa man sya, tao pa din yan. Mang huhusga at mang huhusga yan kahit saan lupalop nanggaling.
we should respect the gay community period. wag maging masyadong mapanghusga. if can't accept gay marriages, just keep your mouth shut! mind your own business. kung san sila masaya let them be as long as wala silang tinatapakang tao.
We should respect their being gay, we should respect them having same sex relationship and marriage, we should respect their success and achievements, we should respect their good hearts and compassion, but I don't think we should just be passive to some gays who degrades other people everytime by the means of jokes, let's face it, there are gays who know no respect and are having fun making other people their laughing stock
Sa Pinas lang naman merong husband and wife tag, mga European at western pag both female wife ang tawagan pag pag male, husband ang tawagan. Pang shunga nga sa Pinas, same sex preference tapos may male and female role playing.
Kaloka lang, when the word asawa has no gender. Bakit ung mga livein lang ok if they call each other asawa. Ito dalwa kasal hindi ok because they're gay!? Wtf ppl
you should have addressed him as "better half" or "spouse" or "loving partner". what do you expect? for people to accept right away your choices? that is what you guys chose, no judgments, but pls din e wag nyo ring ipalunok na matatanggap agad-agad ng mga tao ang decisions nyo.
Ano bang pake mo sa gusto niya itawag sa asawa niya? They have every right to choose. Nakainit ng ulo yang kakitiran mo, para kang eskinita sa maynila sa sobrang kitid. Lol
marami kasing pinoy ang nagmamagaling at nagmamalinis just to make themselves feel a little better than others. i believe everyone has the right na mahalin kung sino man ang kanilang napiling mahalin, as long as walang tinatapakan na iba. i would rather see gays and lesbians na nagmamahalan, kaysa makakita ng mga kabit na na nagsasama.
Gays like them gain my respect... Maraming gay naman talaga na hindi karespe-respeto gawa na rin ng mga sarili nilang desisyon at gawain sa buhay. But those who excel in their craft/industry despite the discrimination sa ating bansa and those who are able to stay in a relationship faithfully longer than the perceived normal man-woman marriages/unionsGays like them gain my respect... Maraming gay naman talaga na hindi karespe-respeto gawa na rin ng mga sarili nilang desisyon at gawain sa buhay. But those who excel in their craft/industry despite the discrimination sa ating bansa and those who are able to stay in a relationship faithfully longer than the perceived normal man-woman marriages/unions, saludo ako sa inyo!
"hindi ko ginamit na sukatan ng pagkatao ko ang opinyon ng iba sa akin.." Then why did u waste time and effort writing this lengthy piece? If u dont care about what people say u shud be sleeping soundly instead..
there are words kasi na para sa babae lang, at para sa lalaki lang..o para sa babae at lalaki lang. choose your words bakla, partner is more appropriate.
Respeto nalang sa dalawa, buhay nila yan.. At sa mga gay/tomboy at kung anong kasarian pa at pagkatao. As long wala silang pinapatay na tao or sinasaktan..
Ok lang naman talaga i-refer as 'asawa' n'ya dahil, asawa naman talaga n'ya at sila ay legally married. Pero parang mas akma kung sasabihin na 'my spouse' rather than my husband.
That is the problem with Filipinoes, now they have no "respect" for others and and they were not thought to have self respect. Kaya maraming, sira ulo, makakapal ang mukha ay mayayabang na akala mo sila lang ang tao sa mundo!!! We are just dust in sa mundo.! We all need to learn to appreciate and tame our toungue.
That is the problem with Filipinoes, now they have no "respect" for others and and they were not thought to have self respect. Kaya maraming, sira ulo, makakapal ang mukha ay mayayabang na akala mo sila lang ang tao sa mundo!!! We are just dust in sa mundo.! We all need to learn to appreciate and tame our toungue.
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ReplyDelete5 paragraphs mahaba? Paano na lang ang mga annual reports o feasibility studies sa opisina? O kaya magbasa ng short-story o nobela?
Deletehaha,,, ito din sana sasabihin ko...naunahan mo lng ako
DeleteI'm sure binasa mo ang trilogy posts ni nstar
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ReplyDeletewag puro artista lang ang kilalanin ng isang obra, kilalanin ang bumuo at nag konsepto.
Deleteikaw hindi. :)
DeleteHindi. Parang ikaw lang din.
DeleteC perci ang gumawa ng face to face. O okay na?
DeleteC jun lana multiawarded scriptwriter at director.
DeleteWell said!
ReplyDeleteYes.BRAVA! THAT SHOULD NAIL IT!
DeleteSo how does it work nga -- who assumes the role of husband, who assumes role of wife -- in a gay relationship? Can smeone shed some light? Curious lang po
ReplyDeletewalang role na dapat i-assume. basta partners sila 'til death do they part.
DeleteDepende sa kung anong klaseng role ang gustong gampanan ng dalawang partido sa isang relasyon:
Delete1) PAREHAS NA LALAKE - Ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay; ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay (transgender/transexual/transvestite)
2) PAREHAS NA LALAKE - Parehas na gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay
3) PAREHAS NA BABAE - Parehas na gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay
4) PAREHAS NA BABAE - Ang isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging tatay (butch/transgender); iyong isa gustong gampanan ang pagiging nanay.
Sa Pilipinas kasi, kapag bakla automatic iisipin ng tao siya iyong babae. It does not always work that way. Kaya may tinatawag na LGBT kasi may iba-ibang klase/uri ang pagiging bakla.
Sabing friend kong gay dito sa Amerika may isang dominant na male at may female sa same sex relationship. Di pwedeng pareho silang pa girl.
Delete12:19 panahon pa ni kupong-kupong yang alam mong assume-assume. sa isang relasyon, dalawang tao lang ang kailangan magpatakbo nito. hindi naman nangangahulugang, isang babae at isang lalaki lang dapat.
Deletenobody has to be a wife or husband in a gay relationship, may mga gays/lesbians kasi who doesnt identify themselves as butch/femme/bottom/top/versa/trans/etc. as long as they're happy sa kanya kanyang role nila in their relationship at nagkakaunawaan sila then, who needs to define a role? pero may mga gay/lesbian couple din na yung isa they really identify themselves to be more masculine/feminine and if he/she wants to be considered the wife/husband, it's also their choice and nobody is in the position to dictate what they want to be sa loob ng pamamahay nila or sa pagpapakilala nila sa tao. /nkakarelate lang/
DeleteTHIS! Love knows no gender. Hayaan nating sumaya ang lahat. Tayong lahat ay pantay-pantay sa mata ng Diyos. Kaya ang karapatang ng isa ay karapatan ng lahat.
ReplyDeletegrabe talga mga tao ngayon biruin mo mga bading din yan mga press people tas tinawanan? wtf? people kaya hindi tao nag kakaroon ng tamang pag iisip kasi closed minded mga tao dito sa pilipinas porke di na gustuhan ang tanawin we tend to bash. not look the other way around
ReplyDeleteSorry to burst your bubble pero hindi lang "straight" people ang mapang husga. Even in the LGBT community ay may mga mapang husga din. Ang tao, kahit ano pa man sya, tao pa din yan. Mang huhusga at mang huhusga yan kahit saan lupalop nanggaling.
DeleteI think its an insult if you distinguish them husband and wife. They both assume both roles I guess so no need for a title.
ReplyDeletewe should respect the gay community period. wag maging masyadong mapanghusga. if can't accept gay marriages, just keep your mouth shut! mind your own business. kung san sila masaya let them be as long as wala silang tinatapakang tao.
ReplyDeleteWe should respect their being gay, we should respect them having same sex relationship and marriage, we should respect their success and achievements, we should respect their good hearts and compassion, but I don't think we should just be passive to some gays who degrades other people everytime by the means of jokes, let's face it, there are gays who know no respect and are having fun making other people their laughing stock
Deletela wenta. dami sinabi,
ReplyDeleteKesa naman sa tulad mong "walang sinabi".
DeleteSa Pinas lang naman merong husband and wife tag, mga European at western pag both female wife ang tawagan pag pag male, husband ang tawagan. Pang shunga nga sa Pinas, same sex preference tapos may male and female role playing.
ReplyDeleteKaloka lang, when the word asawa has no gender.
DeleteBakit ung mga livein lang ok if they call each other asawa. Ito dalwa kasal hindi ok because they're gay!? Wtf ppl
you should have addressed him as "better half" or "spouse" or "loving partner". what do you expect? for people to accept right away your choices? that is what you guys chose, no judgments, but pls din e wag nyo ring ipalunok na matatanggap agad-agad ng mga tao ang decisions nyo.
ReplyDeletethey are married so its his right to use asawa. no judgments daw eh puro panghuhusga yang comment mo
DeleteTheir choices? Really? They woke up one they and they "chose" to be gay?
DeleteI bet you call yourself christian, you sound like a religious person. Amen to you.
DeleteAno bang pake mo sa gusto niya itawag sa asawa niya? They have every right to choose. Nakainit ng ulo yang kakitiran mo, para kang eskinita sa maynila sa sobrang kitid. Lol
Deletemarami kasing pinoy ang nagmamagaling at nagmamalinis just to make themselves feel a little better than others. i believe everyone has the right na mahalin kung sino man ang kanilang napiling mahalin, as long as walang tinatapakan na iba. i would rather see gays and lesbians na nagmamahalan, kaysa makakita ng mga kabit na na nagsasama.
ReplyDeletePang pageant answer lang yang "i believe" mo ah! Pak!
Deletebut how about believing only what's comfortable for you to believe in?
Delete"marami kasing pinoy ang nagmamagaling at nagmamalinis just to make themselves feel a little better than others."
"i would rather see gays and lesbians na nagmamahalan, kaysa makakita ng mga kabit na na nagsasama."
^^contradicting statements...^^
Gays like them gain my respect... Maraming gay naman talaga na hindi karespe-respeto gawa na rin ng mga sarili nilang desisyon at gawain sa buhay. But those who excel in their craft/industry despite the discrimination sa ating bansa and those who are able to stay in a relationship faithfully longer than the perceived normal man-woman marriages/unionsGays like them gain my respect... Maraming gay naman talaga na hindi karespe-respeto gawa na rin ng mga sarili nilang desisyon at gawain sa buhay. But those who excel in their craft/industry despite the discrimination sa ating bansa and those who are able to stay in a relationship faithfully longer than the perceived normal man-woman marriages/unions, saludo ako sa inyo!
ReplyDeleteBravo. Very well said.
ReplyDelete"hindi ko ginamit na sukatan ng pagkatao ko ang opinyon ng iba sa akin.." Then why did u waste time and effort writing this lengthy piece? If u dont care about what people say u shud be sleeping soundly instead..
ReplyDeleteUhm because he has a mouth just like you?
DeleteJust because he's not letting it get to him doesn't mean he shouldn't take the time to EDUCATE people
DeleteFor gay men, they are called husband and husband. For lesbians, they are called wife and wife. Learn to be civilized people.
ReplyDeletethere are words kasi na para sa babae lang, at para sa lalaki lang..o para sa babae at lalaki lang. choose your words bakla, partner is more appropriate.
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily true. Partner could mean you guys are not married. Husband is more appropriate when two male gays are married.
DeleteRespeto nalang sa dalawa, buhay nila yan.. At sa mga gay/tomboy at kung anong kasarian pa at pagkatao. As long wala silang pinapatay na tao or sinasaktan..
DeleteNow that's being sexist.
Deletegood for you two! have a happy and fulfilling life together.
ReplyDeletepush for equal rights <3
ReplyDeleteOk lang naman talaga i-refer as 'asawa' n'ya dahil, asawa naman talaga n'ya at sila ay legally married. Pero parang mas akma kung sasabihin na 'my spouse' rather than my husband.
ReplyDeletefamily code does not recognize their marriage
ReplyDeleteIn the Philippines, it is not recognized. But in the US, it is.
DeleteR.E.S.P.E.C.T.
ReplyDeleteThat is the problem with Filipinoes, now they have no "respect" for others and and they were not thought to have self respect. Kaya maraming, sira ulo, makakapal ang mukha ay mayayabang na akala mo sila lang ang tao sa mundo!!! We are just dust in sa mundo.! We all need to learn to appreciate and tame our toungue.
ReplyDeleteThat is the problem with Filipinoes, now they have no "respect" for others and and they were not thought to have self respect. Kaya maraming, sira ulo, makakapal ang mukha ay mayayabang na akala mo sila lang ang tao sa mundo!!! We are just dust in sa mundo.! We all need to learn to appreciate and tame our toungue.
ReplyDeletevery well said Mr Jun Lana.
ReplyDeleteipagdasal na lang natin ang mga taong nabigyan ng kakitiran ng utak. mas maging pasensyoso na lang tayo.
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