Former actor Wowie de Guzman and wife Sheryl Ann Reyes pose for their pre-nuptial photo shoot in 2013. Photo from the Facebook page of Reflexion Studios
Source: www.abs-cbnnews.com
An emotional de Guzman faced ABS-CBN News on Tuesday during the wake held at United Church of Christ Sta. Catalina in Reyes' hometown of Lubao, Pampanga.
The 37-year-old former dancer, who rose to fame in the '90s as a leading man in soap operas, said he is still not sure as to what caused his wife's death.
"Sobrang bilis talaga, eh. Wala, hindi namin alam kung ano'ng nangyari. Wala, natutulog lang kami talaga tapos tumayo lang siya, pumunta sa CR, umihi, tapos bumalik para matulog ulit. Bago siya matulog, uminom siya, parang muscle pain reliever.
"Humiga siya, kasi may parang rayuma siya or arthritis. Pag higa niya, 'yun lang, para siyang nag-choke. Tapos pagpunta ko sa kanya, nag-dilate na 'yung mata niya, nanigas na 'yung mga ganito niya (fingers). Tinry kong i-mouth-to-mouth. Kaya lang, wala talaga, eh," de Guzman narrated.
De Guzman recalled rushing Reyes to a nearby hospital, and requesting doctors repeatedly to attempt reviving her. Actress-host Gladys Reyes, de Guzman's close friend and former co-star, said doctors tried to revive Sheryl for three hours.
"Tinakbo namin sa ospital," de Guzman said. "Nakiusap ako sa mga nandodoon na gawin lahat, kasi everytime na pumupunta sila sa akin, sinasabi walang pintig. Nakikiusap kami na gawin niya pa, baka kasi masalba pa, baka puwede pang tumibok. Kaya lang, siguro talagang hanggang doon lang siguro. Hindi na nila nagawan ng paraan. Wala kaming magagawa."
De Guzman and Reyes were married in July 2013, and welcomed their daughter, Alex Rafael, last March 27.
'No signs'
According to de Guzman, Reyes had been suffering from erratic blood pressure during her pregnancy. This continued even after she gave birth.
Asked if there had been serious signs of Reyes having ill health, de Guzman said, "Wala, eh, kasi wala naman siyang sakit sa puso. Walang history. Wala naman akong alam na kino-complain niya na masakit 'yung puso niya."
"Basta, 'yun lang, noong bago siya manganak, tumaas 'yung blood pressure niya. Hanggang sa pagkatapos niya manganak, pagkatapos niya ma-discharge, 'yon parin ang problema namin -- tumataas tapos bumababa ['yung blood pressure niya]," he added.
De Guzman recalled that they were advised against breastfeeding Alex, as Reyes at the time still had fluctuating blood pressure.
"Ang pinaka-sign lang na nakikita namin, hirap siya maglakad kasi nga parang may rayuma," he said. "Dati pa, gano'n na 'yon, e. Pina-CT scan na namin, pero wala namang nakita. Kailangan lang ng pahinga, 'yon lang ginagawa niya."
Asked if he is blaming anyone for Reyes' passing, de Guzman said, "Wala akong sinisisi, kasi naniniwala ako na gusto ito ng nasa taas, ng Panginoon. Kung meron na may kagustuhan na mangyari ito, siya lang. Medyo masakit, pero kailangan mong tanggapin kasi sigurado naman ako na hindi niya ibibigay ito sa akin na hindi ko makakayanan. Siguro may reason."
Raising daughter alone
While accepting his wife's death will be difficult, de Guzman said he will draw strength from their daughter. He added that he will have to remain strong for Alex, as he is now facing the task of raising her as a single father.
"Ang pinakamaganda doon sa lahat, meron siyang iniwang alaala sa akin, sa pamilya namin. Doon nalang ako huhugot ng lakas ng loob, kasi angdami naming pangarap para sa anak namin.
"Hindi ako puwedeng maging mahina kasi kailangan kong magpaka-strong para sa baby because pag magiging weak ako, unang-una, masasaktan ang asawa ko. Iyon nalang. Iniisip ko nalang na lahat ng nangyayari, may reason. May reason," he said.
De Guzman broke down in tears when asked if he is ready to raise his daughter without Reyes at his side, saying that he is still hoping to somehow see his wife at home.
"Ang hirap kasi," de Guzman said, his voice breaking. "Kung puwede lang sana, bumalik na siya sa amin. Baka sakaling nag-te-taping lang ako, baka nanaginip lang ako, baka eksena lang 'to sa mga trabaho ko."
"Hopefully, pagkatapos nito, pag-uwi ko sa bahay, sa kwarto, nandodoon siya. 'Yung laging nadadatnan ko pag galing ako sa taping... Ang hirap talaga. Nami-miss na namin siya. Mahal, nami-miss ka na namin ni Alex," he said.
Despite Reyes' passing, de Guzman said he still has reason to be happy in Alex. "Lahat kami, masaya. Thankful din ako sa Diyos na healthy siya at walang naging problema. Siguro gina-guide siya ni Sheryl. 'Yun nalang ang iniisip ko. Doon nalang ako kukuha ng strength sa anak ko."
A former member of the dance group Universal Motion Dancers, de Guzman got his big break in the late '90s when he was paired with actress Judy Ann Santos in several TV and film projects, forming one of the most popular love teams at the time.
He continued acting on stage via productions of Gantimpala Theater Foundation. De Guzman's most recent TV series role was in ABS-CBN's "Little Champ" in 2013.
I wish wowie could have her wife's body autopsy to know the real cause of her death dahil mahirap yan for me lang ha na di mo alam ikinamatay ng wife mo. Sabi nga nya never naman nagkasakit wife nya. After a month nanganak ayon namatay sya bigla.
ReplyDeleteBaka eclampsia.
DeleteDapat nitesetahan ng doctor ng methyldopa. Dapat di muna nagdischarge na mataas pa don ang bp. They shouldve monitored the bp. Mura lang naman ang bp apparatus eh. May mga digital n rin.
DeleteMay gamut kaya siya para sa mataas ng BP?
DeleteCondolence :(
ReplyDeleteSad news...condolence to the family
ReplyDeleteThis is so saddening. Sincere condolences to Wowie and family.
ReplyDeletePulmonary Embolism from a Deep Vein Thrombosis of the leg...
ReplyDeletetopnotcher sa medical boards! korek ka teh. likely ang eclampsia pero most likely ang PE (pulmonary embolism) from DVT (deep vein thrombosis). yung pain sa legs ang pinaka-clue at yung very sudden ang onset.
DeletePre eclampsia d nmn sya nag seizure.. nursing board passer..
DeleteAutopsy nallang kulang pra malaman lahat lahat
DeleteIn fer, ang tatalino ng mga taga FP LOL
DeleteCardiac arrest yun
DeleteOh yeah. Yan din ang guess ko, DVT.
DeleteShe might've died from post delivery eclampsia. Very rare and usually no symptoms. It shuts down the kidney or liver and causes seizures. RIP.....
ReplyDeleteRIP. :( And she's my age. Grabe! Too young.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she had a stroke due to postpartum eclampsia. Blood pressure pala problema since pregnancy. Yun lang guess ng mom ko na OB-GYNE kung ano siguro yung reason kung bakit nangyari.
She must have died from pulmonary embolism. Blood clot from her leg veins travelled to her lungs causing respiratory arrest. Kaya masakit na ang muscle niya sa binti pagkapanganak. Hindi predictable ang ganitong sakit. It can happen to anyone
ReplyDeletekorak! prone sa thrombosis ang mga pregnant women. nag-break off ang clot after pregnancy or delivery.
DeleteSana kasi naging regular practice na sa ospital sa atin na meron mga prophylactic means to prevent clots like giving heparin, lovenox, fragmin and or using SCDs or foot pumps.
DeleteBakit ba nagkakaroon nito? Is it for pregnant women lang ba? And is there a possibility na makasurvive?
DeleteNagheparin din ako kc malapot dugo pero nagspotting /bleeding ako.as side effect which eventually led to.miscarriage
Deletenakakatakot..pano ba maiiwasan iito?
DeleteThat's what my friend said also., so sad.
DeleteThis is heart-breaking. We are sorry for your loss, Wowie and Alex.
ReplyDeleteFound this:
ReplyDeleteIto ang post ni Wowie noong April 27:
“Para sa asawa ko..sa boss ko...sa honey ko sa kaagaw ko sa remote..at sa bestfriend ko...d ko alam Kung nananaginip lang ako coz gusto ko na magising or Kung isang eksena lang to sa isang taping ko dahil gusto ko na tapusin para makauwi na ako sayo....panginoon ano po ba kasalanan ko na ginawa at nangyayari to sa akin...Kung meron man po parusahan nyo po ako kahit na ano ibalik nyo lng po asawa ko parang awa nyo po....sherryl sherryl bumalik ka na dto nahihintay ma Kame ng anak mo...pls lang she pipikit ko ma mga mata ko sana pag gising ko nandito ka na hon.”
omg, nakakaiyak naman ito... nakakapunit ng puso habang binabasa mo.. saan, mo 'to nakuha?
Deletenakakaiyak naman ng post ni wowie,sana lakasan mo ang loob mo wowie alang-alang sa anak nyo,Condolence sa Family mo
DeleteHeartbreaking. Parang may bikig ako sa lalamunan habang binabasa ko. God bless you Wowie and Alex. Tatagan mo ang loob mo Wowie, kakayanin mo yan. Malapit na si Sherryl sa Taas, sa Kanya, I'm sure ipinagdarasal niya kayo ng anak mo.
DeleteMy heartfelt condolences.
;(
DeleteFull blown eclamsia.
ReplyDeleteNever knew there's such.
DeleteThis is so sad it brings tears to my eyes. Have faith and be strong.
ReplyDeleteAs a Mom who had just my 1st baby, this really made me sob. :(((((
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for Alex tho she won't know her mother's passing.
For Wowie, pls be strong for her. I know it's hard. Man, I even feel it difficult to go to parties with our baby without my husband. How much more raising her alone. I HOPE you good family support system to go through all this.
Oh my :'(
ReplyDeleteSad. :( Condolences to the family.
ReplyDeleteSuch heartbreaking news, sincerest condolences.
ReplyDeleteso heartbreaking... condolence =( be strong for your little angel...
ReplyDeleteCondolence Wowie. This is truly devastating. Kawawa din ang baby nwlan ng momi agad. Sna pina.autopsy nla pra mlman what really caused her death. She's very young din. So sad!
ReplyDeleteCondolence...i feel your pain. My bestfriend 7mo pregnant died due to heart complication.
ReplyDeleteBe strong for your little angel.
super sad ang news na to. kawawa ung baby kasi d na nya mararanasan ang pagmamahal ng isang ina. d na nya mararamdaman ang mahigpit na yakap at matamis na halik ng mommy nya:(
ReplyDeleteRIP Mrs. De Guzman :( thoughts and prayers to the entire family.
ReplyDeleteCondolence...
ReplyDeleteAng sakit nito for sure..too bad for their baby. Di nya na makikita mommy nya pag laki :(
ReplyDeleteOmG! Gone too soon!
ReplyDeleteI wonder what kind of pain reliever did she take. If u got HB, the safest OTC u can take is Tylenol. Other NSAIDs are known to raise BP. Plus ur not supposed ro lay down after taking ur medicine.
Sad news. Wala talagang makakapagsabi kung mangyayari..
ReplyDeleteIn a medical perspective, I think she's suffering from deep vein thrombosis kaya meron siyang pakiramdam na hirap na maglakad or parang rayuma. walking can cause the clot to be dislodged and pwedeng dumeretso yun sa brain and pwedeng magrupture at mag-cause ng bleeding stroke.
ReplyDelete-baklang doctor
korek ka doc pero half lang. ang clot sa legs ay sa lungs pumupunta, hindi sa brain. balikan mo ang anatomy. :)
Deletengayon lang ako nakarinig ng DVt na napunta sa brain :)
DeleteWaaaah take 12 yta c doc sa boards hahhaha
Deletegrabe ang bata pa ang asawa ni Wowee, condolence.
ReplyDeletecondolence po sa family nyo. may she rest in peace
ReplyDeleteCondolences, Wowie :(
ReplyDeleteOMG poor Wowie. I'm sure your wife is among God's angels now.
ReplyDeleteCondolences for Wowie.
ReplyDeletethis is a very sad moment for them and his family.
just continue being strong and lean and trust everything to God.
Pathognomonically pulmonary embolism probably secondary to deep vein thrombosis. Pag parturient kase lumalapot ang dugo at nagkecreate ng blood clots. Pwedeng maging emboli at bumara sa pulmonary vessels
ReplyDeleteIs there a way to prevent embolisms? Ano yun warning signs that you are about to have one?
Deletepathognomonically? pwede pa ang pathophysiologically or pathologically.
DeleteAnon 2:08= preventive measures are early ambulation, medications like heparin, lovenox, fragmin should have been ordered by the doctor during hospitalization and use of foot pumps and SCDs. Signs and symptoms include: difficulty breathing, leg pain and/or swelling, chest pain, cough, etc.
DeleteDVT Prophylaxis like,Lovenox SC or Heparin are being given plus mga flowtron devices during hospital stay unless contraindicated.There are blood thinners to prevent blood clots.
DeleteAlso,there are tests to rule out DVT.After my aneurysm & series of surgeries, I developed DVT sa lower extremities while in the ICU and had an IVC filter insertion.I was in rehab for 3 weeks dahil hirap din akong lumakad agad.
I feel so sad for Wowie.Being a survivor myself,sana naagapan agad.
kaya sa mga nag ttake ng pills diyan at nag yyosi tigil tigilan niyo na yan dahil delikado talaga ang dvt di biro
DeleteGrabe naman. :(
ReplyDeleteI think she's had pre-eclampsia and had normal delivery. Her BP problems should have been handled well prior to discharge. She might have developed some sort of microemboli and/or DVT ( thus causing her to have achy legs) that might have spread and or block some major veins in her system causing her death. Too tragic. Condolence to the family. May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteSo how do you know if you're having dvt it just an ordinary pain that'll go away eventually?
DeleteDvt can be diagnosed by doppler ultrasound.
DeleteWhen you complain of pain like let's say in the lower extremities,a good Doctor will order a test to rule out DVT.Kung mag-pa positive ka or negative for DVT.But usually,pain is the first symptom.And the pain doesn't go away.Patients who had surgeries or been lying in bed for most of the time are at risk the most.
DeleteWhat does the autopsy say para Hindi ako nagdududa! Anong gamot o muscle relaxant ang ininom?! On the counter ba o with prescription?! Natutulog na ba sila or ung asawa nya lang dahil pinuntahan nya pa nung parang nagchochoke?! Magulo mga pagkasunod sunod ng details e!
ReplyDeletesorry ha nde naayos para sa convenience mo at para sa maalis pagdududa mo.
DeleteSensya na ha nakakahiya naman sayo. Magulo siguro utak nya namatayan kasi. Next time magpa interview siya aayusin nya na daw.
Deleteetong si anon 1:19am ibes na magcondolence na lng umiissue pa ng ganyan. npka nega... God bless you.
DeleteCondolence to Wowie. :(
ReplyDeleteYUp this is a case of DVT - Deep vein Thrombosis...
ReplyDeleteOMG! Condolence!
ReplyDeleteIm sure Camille Pratts can very much relate to this. Bless your heart wowie.
ReplyDeletesa US Hindi ka e release sa hospital hangang hindi tapos ang blood or all test. I release ka man kailagan babalik ka for check up pag hindi ka sumipot sa appointment mo tawag sila ng tawag ganoon sila kaconcern sa patient. kulang tayo sa lahat ng bagay sa sa Phils.kahit ang hospital staff walang sense of urgency kahit emergency cases.
ReplyDeleteso bat di ka umuwi dito. baka ikaw ang savior ng philippines. lol
Deletealam ko maganda ang intensyon mo pero hindi ka nakakatulong sa komento mo. lahat tayo alam natin kung ano ang mali sa sistema. magoffer ka na lang muna ng condolences.
DeleteKulang sa pahinga at not well compensated ang medical staffs.. Lalong lalo na systema...so asan na ang motivation mo mag care!? Just a saying
DeleteHindi totoong kulang ang Pinas sa lahat ng bagay, sobra-sobra na nga tayo sa corruption eh! Anyway, condolence Wowie be strong for your child, she's an angel!
DeleteSadly,totoo ang sinabi mo.
Deletekaya nga kinocompare eh baka lang naman pede den maapply saten, para mabawasan mga agaw buhay na ina. cge push mo yan pagkapilosopo mo malayo mararating mo!
DeleteThis is true. But what is the root cause? Low compensation ng healthcare team esp nurses. Walang enough plantilla for nurses. Sa isang 100-bed hospital, iilan lang ang may item? Less than 10. Mga job order lahat at 150-250 per day. This is unfair to all professionals, mga teachers, sundalo etc. Sila kasi ang inaalagaan ng gobyerno natin. Ang mga nurses, kelangang mangibang bansa para kumita.
Delete-PNA board of director
Chairman, grievance committee
Korek! DVT or deep vein thrombosis yan. Sometimes associated sa pregnancy ang bara-bara sa mga blood vessels dahil nagiging mas viscous ang blood. Sabi ni Wowie sa interview, tumayo lang daw para mag-bathroom dahil nagko-complain ng pain sa legs, tapos pagpunta sa bathroom, yun na.
ReplyDeletei had the same condition during my last pregnancy,,i had my second child at 40 and i had pre-existing hypertension and my pregnancy aggravated it..i had pre-eclampsia and had to deliver the baby 2 mos. early,,and it took sometime to stabilize my blood pressure ,,and sa awaa ng Panginoon,,nagstabilize ito 2 weeks after my caesarean section...however before i was released by the hospital i went through tests after tests..using state of the art technology and i was found negative with pulmonary embolism and cardiac complications..Salamat sa Panginoon!!!,,,but i will be taking antihypertensive pills lifettime na...i feel sad for him and the baby :(....nakikita ko asawa ko sa kanya...but they will be okay by God's grace!....sana po ingatan natin pangangatawan natin yan ang isang bagay ba di matutumbasan ng pera...God bless sa lahat
ReplyDeleteNaiyak ako while watching this news last night. My condolences to Wowie, his daughter and the rest of the family.
ReplyDeleteHaving experienced a sudden death in the family many years ago, I could say that they caught Wowie in the most natural state of someone who is in deep grief and shock. This was me back then. Paulit uli sa isip ko nun na sana I'm dreaming lang and magising na ako and everything will be back to normal. I remember that I was willing to give up everything magising lang yung mahal ko sa buhay at makapagsabi man lang ako ng mga gusto ko sabihin.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, to Wowie and his family, my deepest condolences. Stay strong. Kasama kayo sa aming mga panalangin. Alex, mommy will watch over you. God bless, Wowie. Kakayanin mo ito. Kapit lang.
I feel you. I lost my mom to brain aneurysm 6 months ago and sudden loss is indeed the hardest.
DeleteMy condolences to wowie and alex, i pray that if wowie decides he can marry again, the girl will love alex like her own.
It must be very hard forbthe parents too, sheryl was young and got married less than a yr ago. I pray that the good Lord comforts them.
In fairness ang tatalino ng mga readers mo FP.
ReplyDeleteCondolence Mr. de Guzman
Condolence po
ReplyDeletenakakalungkot naman ng news na to,Condolence po
ReplyDeleteI dont know them both ... Masakit ito esp to wowie... D lang umuwi asawa ko at makatabi sa pagtulog hirap na... Ganito p kaya!? RIP
ReplyDeleteCondolence Wowie. Heartbreaking :-(
ReplyDeletepulmonary embolism
ReplyDeleteNatatakot na tuloy lalo ako mabuntis. Ang daming pwedeng mangyari! Pwede kang mamatay bigla!
ReplyDeletemay mjatris ka ba?
DeleteCondolence Wowie. Im praying for you and your family. God Bless you! yun mga producers dyan tutlungan ninyo naman si Wowie para masuportahan nya ang anak nya!
ReplyDeleteat walang kinalaman ang nunal nya sa pisngi, yung mga mapamahiin dyan,.. hindi po totoo yun.
ReplyDeletemay kasabihan nga ang matatanda na kapag ang tao may nunal sa tuluan ng luha madaling ma-byuda or ma-byudo.
ReplyDeleteDeep vein thrombosis that resulted to pulmonary embolism
ReplyDeleteDeepvain deepthroat infection yan its normal pag irrelevant na sa showbiz
ReplyDeleteThats how makes Mothers in the world special. As the saying goes, ang isang paa nila ay nasa hukay when giving birth.
ReplyDelete