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For some people, the phrase 'moving on' after a break-up is easier said than done. It’s never easy when a significant relationship that was nurtured for years suddenly bids adieu. The intensity of feelings can be overwhelming especially if the person represents so many firsts in one's life.
Whatever the reason for the split— whether it was mutual or not —the breakup can trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings. But only if you are constantly reminded of a significant part of such past.
Reportedly, one of the reasons why Confused Actress CA has a difficult time forgetting her Past Relationship PR is because of the presence of PR's Relative RE in her life.
People privy to both CA and PR swear to have witnessed how close CA and RE had been when the couple was still together. Allegedly, CA and RE were not just close - they were very close. That's why when CA and PR parted ways years ago, more than the couple, it was reportedly RE who was having a hard time moving on.
Having shared so many fond memories together for years, RE understandably just can't just let go of CA. To this day, she and CA not only continue to exchange message and update each other - but much more.
At a dinner hosted by PR for his family, everyone came - his father, siblings, including PR's Current Love CL. But there was one family member who was noticeably absent. Defiant RE reportedly sent word that she could not join them due to prior commitments.
Yes, indeed, her prior commitment was equally important. RE went out to meet up with CA instead.
It is clear from her actions that RE doesn't want to fight her feelings. On the other hand, CA has some conflicting feelings - the ups and downs of her roller coaster emotions. From the looks of it, CA has yet to identify and acknowledge her feelings.
For RE on the othe hand, while her feelings may be that of denial, trying to suppress or ignore the truth will only prolong her agony.
“The amount of happiness that you have depends on the amount of freedom you have in your heart.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
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si K ba to?
ReplyDeleteMukhang si K nga at m ni G.
DeleteI don't think so. I do not know who these people are but FP's seems to be implying something between CA and RE. Read again.
DeleteYeah feels like closeted feelings
Deleteso obvious! i understand her. its always easier said than done. she just needs to find peace within herself and everything will work out fine.
ReplyDeleteAyon sa Psychology, delikado kapag ang crisis mo lumagpas ng 6 months. Teh iba na yan!
DeleteS, J, A! I don't know RE!!
ReplyDeleteoh well talagang mahihirapan si CL nyan kung ganun cant blame CA for still entertaining RE until now they love each other kahit out na si PR sa buhay ni CA. Alangan naman bastusin nya si RE at ignore nya mas bad yun!
ReplyDeleteCA-k RE-g's m
ReplyDeletetumpaakkk!
DeleteKaF ba? PR-G? CL- M? So si CA ay si K? Tama ba?
ReplyDeleteGalangin ang feelings ng dalawa na sina CA at RE!
ReplyDeleteCA- S PR-i
ReplyDeleteRE- m CA- k PR- g CL- m Gulo ng sitwasyon nila as if si m ayaw na get to know si cl. Wawa nman cla lahat.
ReplyDeleteCORRECTION(pati ako naconfused haha!) CA - C PR & CL - J & B RE - m of PR? Tama ba?
ReplyDeleteMali ka teh. CA- K. PR- G. RE- g's M CL- M
Deletepromise? eto? prang pwde
Deletefeeling ko may tama ka...kasi close pa din si C sa family ni J
DeleteN ni b.pareho sila ni ca ma dpa din makamove on.
ReplyDeleteCA - C PR - J CL - B RE - m of PR? Tama ba?
ReplyDeleteCA = K PR = G RE = G's M
ReplyDeletesi k and m ni g! Yey!
ReplyDeleteasaness ang mga fantard ni K hahahahaha
DeleteThis is K, G and his m.. Ohh my pareho lang silang di nakamoveon nkklk!!!
ReplyDeletekaya si K naasa pa dahil si RE yun parang tulay nya
Deletehndi si K and G to..move on mga fantard
Deleteuy naki join si K, move on ka na
DeleteRE- m of G
ReplyDeleteCA- S PR- G RE- G's m
ReplyDeleteCA - K PR - G RE - m ni PR CL - M easy peasy
ReplyDeleteCA - K
ReplyDeletePR - G
RE - G's M
CL - M
both K and G's M hindi maka move on at siguro lihim pa rin umaasa si K na babalikan sya ni G dahil sya pa rin ang gustong makatuluyan ni G's M.
kung si PR ay si G, bakit sabi ni FP, his father came, & also 'SIBLINGS"...bakit ilan ba siblings ni G, di ba isa lang???
ReplyDeletegranting na si CA ay si K, kapal naman ng face nyang ipagpatuloy pang makipag-contact at makipag-bonding kay RE ng palihim...hindi ba sya nahihiya na i-entertain pa si RE?..para ano???...para baka may magawang paraan si RE?...na baka may chance pang magkaroon ng BALIKAN???
ReplyDeleteMagbasa ka nga ulit dyan, 5:51, sabi sa blind item kaya nahihirapang mag move on totally si CA dahil palaging tumatawag or na-t-text si RE kay CA, huwag mong sisihin si CA 'no, talakan mo sina PR @ RE, at isumbong mo na rin kay CL sina PR @ RE. . .
DeletePwede. Pwede ring pang asar sa current gf ng ex nya.
DeleteAt ano naman ang gusto mo ignore na lang nya yung m? She did that already no! Pero gumagawa ng way ang m
Deletebaka may HIDDEN AGENDA yung dalawa nina Confused-A at RE...pero wala na silang magagawa kung si Current-L na ang itinitibok ng puso ni Past-R...masakit man kay Confused-A, dapat tanggapin nya na past na lang sya...PERIOD!
ReplyDeletesooo, totoo nga palang HINDI pa rin nakaka-MOVE ON si CA kay PR at CL...at bakit naman pati itong si RE, nakiki-simpatiyang hindi maka-move on, aberrr???...alam kaya ito ni PR?
ReplyDeletesuggetion ko lang-->>kung totoong may "secret dealings" si RE, dapat kay PR, magwelga kay RE...SANCTION IS THE ANSWER!
ReplyDeletekapag may ganyang pailalim na kaganapan, yan ay lalo lang magpapatibay sa relasyon nina PR at CL...dahil habang may TRIALS at CHALLENGES, mas masaya, daring, at mas nag-iinit ang pagmamahalan nung dalawa
ReplyDeletesooo HINDI TOTOO na hindi nakikialam si RE sa lovelife ni PR...na sinasakyan naman ni CA...there goes the plastikan!...BWUHAHAHHHHHHHHHH!
ReplyDeletekung totoo yung pasikretong ginagawa ni RE, NAKAKAHIYA!...at mas lalong nakakahiya si CA dahil parang ipinagsi-siksikan pa rin nya ang sarili nya para lang mapalapit ulit kay PR, kahit ayaw na sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteWalang sinabi sa bi na ipinagsisiksikan pa rin ni CA ang sarili nya sa family ni PR, si RE ay may constant communication kay CA, alangan namang bastusin ni CA si RE, ang dapat kasi pakiusapan ni PR si RE na mag move on na rin at wag ng i-bother si CA.
DeleteTrue. Kapamilya pero kontrabida.
DeleteTrue. Pede na nga daw kahit #2 na lang. Ito ay noong time ni byutipol B.
Deletesa panahon ngayon, WALA NG NAGKAKATULUYAN nang dahil lang sa kagustuhan at choices ng iba, lalo na ng kamag-anak... kahit mayayaman at alta-sosyedad, hindi na ito applicable...MARK MY WORDS!
ReplyDeleteParang iba....it says they have benn together for years...
ReplyDeletei can relate to RE, if you really love them as a pair-you don't want any other partner for either of them.and you are suspicious if somebody else gets close to him or her. you could see another guy loves a girl for her money.and a new girl (for him) is not pretty but actually thrashy
ReplyDeleteThat is what you call a close mind. Di naman ikaw ang makikisama dun sa babae, you're just making it harder sa kapamilya mo.
Deletefantard
DeleteAh kaya pala ganun si K bitter pa din eh yun naman pala reason. Tsk mahihirapan talaga sya makamove on nyan
ReplyDeleteK, G, G's m, M. Hmmm .. I don't like K .. M is better!
ReplyDeleteHindi si G si PR kasi isa lang sibling niya lol
ReplyDeletebakit nya sinisisi yung current love.. kung hindi pa naman nagloko ang anak nya e di siguro yung manugang nyang hilaw pa din ang gf ng anak nya! sana tinuruan nyang wag maging manloloko ang anak nya in the first place!
ReplyDeleteAno? Lesbian si RE? Alam ba yan ni PR? Karumal-dumal!
ReplyDeletemakaka move-on kaba kung paminta yung pumuporma kuno sayo
ReplyDeleteKahit naman hinde pamhinta walang magkamali.
DeleteI'm thinking CA - K and PR - G. Pero meron pa bang dad si G?
ReplyDeleteYes, if that is indeed G
DeleteBuhay na buhay Dad ni G.
DeleteKawawa nmn lahat. Very sad.
ReplyDeleteI remember sa interview with RE proud na proud siyang ikuwento at pakita mga gifts ni CA. So alam na natin kaya hirap din magmoveon si CA... wawang CA.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, doesn't this proves how lovable CA is if even years after the relationship has ended, the RE continues to communicate and have a loving relationship with CA. No discount to the current flame of The guy but it does speak volume when the family of a previous relationship continues to have a good relationship with the ex.
ReplyDeleteBaka parehong salbahe kaya nagkakasundo. Imagine deadmahin ung family gathering, just to spite her own family.
Deleteparang tama ung ibang nanghuhula... CA- si C PR si J.. CL si B.. RE m ni J..
ReplyDeleteKung pareho tayo ng iniisip, bakit andun si RE sa kaganapan sa paliparan?
DeleteNalulungkot ako. Hindi ko mahulaan sino sinasabi niya. Curious na curious ako malaman kung sino to. :(
ReplyDeletePag bitter ang BI si K talaga palagi ang hula? Lol pero guilty din ako dun sya din laging unang pumapasok sa utak ko hahahaha
ReplyDeleteSi K at M ni G ito
ReplyDeleteI dont think this is K and G bilang "siblings" eh isa lang naman ang kapatid ni G. So whoooo? Giaffe! Clue naman please. Kaf o kah?
ReplyDeletemga ateng parehong girlalu sina CA at RE
ReplyDelete