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Sunday, November 10, 2013

Downright Unprofessional

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How much does it take to be professional in one's dealings? How much does it cost to keep one's dignity intact?

A Media Scion MS of a big media company had a big wedding recently that was attended by hundreds of guests, notably from business, showbiz and politics.

Several months before the ocassion, MS and Wedding Coordinator WC were into rigid planning to make sure that there would be no room for mistakes. Owing to the size of the event, MS with WC made no stones unturned, down to the minutest details to achieve everything as close to perfect as possible. And why not, it was to be the wedding of a very special member of the family.

As such, MS and WC chose only the best quality and dependable suppliers to be part of the event, from the choice of the venue to the flowers, on to the food and the wine. For the musical entertainment, there were many considerations and referrals given, but MS and WC zeroed in on one that was touted to be one of the best in the industry, an eccentric and a Multi-Awarded Band MB , no less.

Came the wedding day. It was grand in all aspects, with the presence of the country's major movers and influencers. Every essential element of the ocassion was well-executed and went as planned. The occasion would have been perfect were it not for MB band who was tasked to provide the musical entertainment.

Generally in most weddings, the band starts to play towards the 3rd or 4th quarter of the program. Usually this is towards the end of the 6th course (aka desert and coffee time), often while the bride and groom start table-hopping for picture-taking with the guests.

At MS wedding, this did not happen. Why? Because the group of MB came in late - so painfully and shamelessly late.

As such, MB was not able to make due preparations for their numbers. For 30 minutes of they arrival, they were still doing sound check when some guests have already started leaving the reception. Family members of the couple and some guests were seen looking at MB with eyebrows raised, obviously annoyed for their major faux pas that spoiled the ocassion in a big way.

The very stressed WC was at a loss for words and profused with apologies to the couple and their families. What's worse, WC was aghast at the attitude of MB, looking unapologetic, without guilt and remorse at the extent of their unprofessionalism.

Turned out, it was not to be the worst. Since MB would be paid anyway inspite of, WC told them to perform since there were still some remaining guests to entertain. MB told WC that they wouldn't play unless WC issued them car pass! According to them, since they came in late, they parked somewhere else, away from where the venue was. Feeling entitled, MB minced no words that unless they were issued gatepass, they would not perform. They had the nerve to use a gatepass to blackmail a client? What kind of argument was that?

That was the height of it all - being face to face with a nightmare of a supposedly multi-awarded band. Paid in full despite their major faux pas, coupled with barbaric attitude unparalled in civilized society. You think they got brownie points for that?

Such gross unprofessionalism completely demolished whatever arguments they had.

" Professionalism is about having the integrity, honesty, and sincere regard for the personhood of the client, in the context of always doing what is best." ~ Eric Lippert

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41 comments:

  1. Mb- initials are on the title

    tssk. lumaki na ulo ng mga yan, they just ruin everything..

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  2. imposibleng s umay serye toh. ma GIRAFFE xa

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  3. u? kaso fan nila ako di ako maka paniwala .... :(

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  4. Grabe kabastos naman. Sinetch itechiwa?

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  5. Based sa inititials ah nalilito ako dalawang band meron ganyan waaah help

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  6. can happen to anyone. they can be downright unprofessional but that doesn't change the fact that they are fantastic musicians. wag na lang kaseng kuning 'Wedding Singer/Band.' i bet this won't happen kung barkada nung banda yung ikakasal. iba kase talaga yun kung some random client ka lang with money LOL. sorry.

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    1. Dapat wag ng tumanggap ng wedding gig ang banda kung di kayang magpaka-professional. They should put themselves in the shoes of the bride & groom. See how disappointed, embarassed and insulted these couple felt.

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    2. Ok so your point is it's okay for them to accept the client's money and be unprofessional just because they're such great musicians? So yung client pa talaga may kasalanan for hiring them? What kind of twisted logic is that?

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    3. Shouldn't have happened. They're great, very busy musicians, but that doesn't change the fact that obligations should be met. Wag na lang kasing mag-commit kung hindi naman kayang panindigan. I bet this won't happen kung meron silang better work ethic. Iba kasi talaga kapag egotistical at gahaman sa pera LOL. Sorry.

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    4. Some random client or not, Professionalism should not be compromised.

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    5. LOL din. I think you are one of these jerks. So rude.

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    6. you have a totally corrupt mentality. for shame.

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    7. kung ganyan ng pilosopiya mo sa buhay. di na ako magtataka kung hindi ka successful sa career mo.
      great bands should back it up with professionalism.

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    8. i think what he/she meant was there are 'highly talented' artists and there are 'highly talented artists who can be fickle and unreliable.' hire at your own risk kumbaga haha. i get the impression na WALANG KONTRATA to. kase kung meron dapat nagdemanda na yung client, or hindi nila pinagbigyan yung pagiging 'bratty' nung banda kase may conditions obviously yung contract. walang ilalapag sayo kung hindi mo sinunod yung pinirmahan mo di ba.

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    9. i hope it happens to your once in a lifetime event, we'll see if you'll be singing the same tune. lol!

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  7. Isa lang naiisip ko na band and swak sa initial yung may kanamesake ng asawa ni G sa isang 90's American sitcom...

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  8. more clues please. d nnaman aq mkakatulog nito kakahula

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  9. Dalwang U naiisip ko. Alin sa knla? Huhuhu

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  10. The initials of the band is in the title. Are they really that good? I'm not familiar with their music... they really must be good since they won an award but so unprofessional!!! I feel bad for the couple and the wedding coordinator. :(

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  11. Kung may contract to play, dapat it's written. The rules are laid out. The place and time is important in the contract. Dapat, kung hindi sumunod, huwag bayaran, Baka mademanda pa ang bandang ito for damages dahil sinira nila ang event na matagal ng pinagplanuhan. So unprofessional. Kung ako, I couldn't care less kung magaling sila. I have a wedding that has been planned in advance and no one has the right to mess it up with their unprofessionalism.

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  12. No idea who they are but I think they should be exposed. I don't understand why they have to be paid in full when they were very late. I don't understand this practice.

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  13. They did not perform, so don't pay them. They broke the contract. It was their fault.

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  14. Oh my! MB happens to be one my favorite bands. Yung vocalist nila eh ka-boses ng anak ni Z.

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    1. Korek! Ginaya ata ng anak ni Z na si Z din and boses ni vocalist! Lol

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  15. dapat dyan sigawan , murahin bago bayaran, no need to be civil and respectful, it was already out of the question to start with

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  16. mas malimit silang mainvite sa mga weddings.bagay din kasi mostly mga songs nila.beach wedding pa yung iba.

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  17. nasa initials ba?
    dalawa lang to eh. fave ko pa naman sila pareho, so disappointing.

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  18. Wow umaattitude! Lesson learned: dapat may kontrata ang mga ganyang bagay. If you don't fulfill your part of the contract, you won't get paid.

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  19. Hirap nman nyan.. clues pa po please!!!! - Cutie cat

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  20. juiceko kahit super sikat kuno I never heard any of their songs promise

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  21. Hindi naman siguro iyong galling sa C ito ano? Di ko kasi ma-imagine ang mga kanta nila ginagamit during the reception. So malamang iyong isa

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    1. naku, rock band yung taga C. hindi akma sa crowd at sa mood ang songs nila unless they'll do covers. so i think yung band with female vocalist si MB.

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    2. may female vocalist din yung galing sa C

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  22. hindi ko sila kilala pero dahil sa comments ayun nakita kona :)

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  23. Sila ba un? oo o hindi..o my fave ko sila

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  24. Naku i dont think na si U na female yan. Mabait kaya yun and hindi ganun ung personality nya. Nakasama ko na sha twice during her gigs.

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  25. ang alam ko notorious sa pagiging late ung vocalista nila, if ung u na t nga ang band.

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