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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Letter from a Reader: A Bully Pastor's Family - Update

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Hi Mr Lim,

Just to update you, the eldest Son of the Pastor SP is harrassing me. From messaging my friends in facebook down to sending letter to my brother's school that he will kill me. Even the people from their church are bullying me by posting my picture and calling me a pig and a whore for having a child out of wedlock. They were saying that my daughter should have never been born because " wala syang tatay." This is a nightmare. Nabugbog na nga ang anak ko at ngayon naman ay binubugbog ang pagkatao nya.

Some of your readers may not have agreed with what I did leaving my child in the playground, I understand. Thank you all for your concern to my daughter.

But what I can not take is for my daughter to be subjected to the wickedness of these people who are hiding behind the cloak of their church. It's just too much!

When our lawyer sent them a demand letter, no response was sent back to us. So i wrote you. Then suddenly they were all over talking about the incident. I am getting facebook messages from people I do not know. Also a certain person who I later learned was SP who sent my officemate a message asking for my full name and whereabouts etc.

Oh and the all time low was when they pretended to be one of my friends and messaged me - " I am so worried about you. What is your address now?"

Very cunning. Evil at its worst.

These people are even using a popular celebrity couple's name and the name of the big congregation where their church is affiliated. In effect trying to imply that they are powerful. Imagine they were able to locate my facebook account? They are out to harm us even online.

When I wrote you a letter, I simply wanted to share the experience and warn parents like me. I didn't know that people are so evil to think and spread lies against my person. I was not out to extort money from them as what they are now claiming. They were not even talking to us, how was that possible that I extorted money and tormented them?

My child was seriously hurt and hospitalized - and then we are the ones at fault? Parang isang babae na may maikling palda tapos napadaan sa street na di nya alam na may mga manyak pala, ginahasa sya. Tapos ang blame nasa babae kasi di dapat nagpalda ng maikli? Hay nag labas lang ako ng sama ng loob.

Thank you for posting, FP. I may not have achieved the outcome that I expected, but good enough that some people were able to understand.

Regards,
Ms. Sol

"Destroy the seed of evil, or it will grow up to your ruin." ~ Aesop

Note: Letter edited for brevity and to suit a blind item format.

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107 comments:

  1. Tit for tat, girl! Post their wicked messages in social media as well. Play the game!

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    1. I agree. Take a screenshot of their vile and send it to fp. Kapal ng mukha nbila. How can they preach and be nasty at the same time? Nakakagigil.

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    2. Ano ba kasi name ng so called church or group nito!????

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    3. Sino ung popular celebrity couple para malaman na Kung Anong denomination Ito!!!!!!! Clue!!!!!!!!!

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    4. Ang gulo naman. Ung church affiliated sa Big name congregation???? Pano un?! Pakiexplain nga! Either Mali ung pagkakadescribe nya or magulo ang description nya!

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    5. Medyo affected ako sa issue na to. Kasi parang hindi lang ako makapaniwala na umabot sa ganon, to the point na nacurse na yung bata na 'sana mmty'. Kasi kahit nmn simpleng tao, kahit hindi active sa church, parang hindi nman magagawa iyon. Hindi sa hindi ako naniniwala sa letter na to, hindi lang ako makapaniwala coz i have so much respect sa mga mga tao na may katulad ng faith nila (in terms of serving God, pero syempre hindi lahat dahil iba-iba pa rin sila). Siguro nga maniniwala lang tlga if may evidence (pics/screenshots). Sana maayos na din at mapag-usapan at hndi na lumaki pa.

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    6. Teh, di ba ang Born Again iba-iba ang groups. Pinaka-popular yung V. Meron din naman yung sa J. Meron din na smaller groups na may Christian Fellowship sa name nila. So siguro the Pastor founded/established his own church, just like J. Magkakaiba sila ng church pero meron umbrella group kaya they all know and protect each other.

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    7. Agree. Post their letter to the media, and pangalanan mo if you have enough evidence na galing talaga sa kanila yung threat na yun. Walang powerful sa mundo kundi si God. Kya wag kang matakot sa kanila.

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    8. @2:10AM sa panahon ngayon IBA na ang ugali ng mga tao kahit ang mga bagay na mahirap paniwalaan na akala mong hindi mangyayari at never mangyayari in real life ay mangyayari pala. I'm talking from my own experiences.

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    9. Name this mafia para makita at magkaalaman na Kung talagang untouchable!

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    10. Anonymous 2:10 AM why won't you believe the letter sender? is it because you are part of the bully's congregation? If ancient religious leaders could condemn Jesus to the cross you think religious people of today would be better? It looks like SP is on the offensive trying to hush and intimidate the letter sender in case more people find out about their hypocrisy and bullying tactics. Keep strong and more power to you letter sender.

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  2. Girl, so dami ba naman ng readers ni FP tsaka kung gaano ka popular ng blog na to...use that to your leverage. Ipakalat mo rin ang sinasabi nila sa yo!

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  3. Stop protecting them. Reveal their names so they'll know mali sila sa binangga nila.

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    1. As a christian, I wanna know kung sino to. Pero I doubt it's our church! Hehehe. Hay nako!

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    2. "Note: Letter edited for brevity and to suit a blind item format."

      I think the sender revealed the names, fp edited the letter to avoid libel.

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  4. Oh my goodness.. wolves in sheep cloth.. christians persecuting christians. Sana alam nila oatutunguhan nila hindi yung imememorize lang ang verae sa bible di naman nila sinuaunod. What a shame. Tsk they must oreach what they teach!

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    1. Nakakaloka nadala ako ng emosyon ko mali mali post ko haha. *patutunguhan *verse *sinusunod *preach

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    2. Haha natawa ako dito. Winner!

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  5. If they keep on harassing you, i-report na po sa pulisya. Keep a record of all their messages. And keep on praying.

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    1. So she wants advice? Ano bang grabing ginawa nia para harrasin sya ng ganun kaOA.. E andami din naman jan na may child out of wedlock.. Parang there's something e.

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    2. Teh 10:02. , binubutas lang sa kanya yung pagigng dalagang ina nya, thet is not the issue. The issue is bullying by the Pastor family and the Pastor na rin and his wife who were condoning all the bullying. Read the first article where i all started:

      http://www.fashionpulis.com/2013/10/letter-from-reader-bully-pastors-family.html

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    3. 10:02 AM, read back previous posts ni FP. Same title lang without the "-Update" para malaman mo kng ano full story.

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    4. 9:22 : letter sender

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  6. Girl, take a screenshot of each derogatory and insulting message, get yourself a good lawyer and sue these hypocrites.

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  7. since BI format, intay ako kung ano pang clues abt sa congregation at pastor na to. bakit asal kulto??

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  8. at bakit kailangan i-BI ito? kung seyoso pala at may demand letters na why not totally take this out to the public by naming names.

    so anong maitutulong ng tao sayo ngayon when you can't even name the culprits?

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    1. True to the taste!

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    2. True to the taste!

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    3. Magbasa muna tayo at umintindi ok? For your benefit anon 12:35...

      "Note: Letter edited for brevity and to suit a blind item format."

      Si fp ang di nagbigay ng pangalan because of legal issues.

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    4. I wholeheartedly agree

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    5. i think pinapangalanan nman ata ng sender ang church baka ineedit lng ni fp to protect this site.. read the note after the letter.

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    6. "Note: Letter edited for brevity and to suit a blind item format."

      I think the sender revealed the names, fp edited the letter to avoid libel.

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  9. Religious people are often times the most hypocrites ! Hindi religion ang batayan ng magandang pamumuhay. Empathy should be in all of us. I-reveal na yang hypocrite na pastor na yan at ang hypocrite nyang pamilya.

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    1. Totally agree with you.

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    2. Ofcourse hyprocrites! Sa bible pa nga lang they were even mentioned to warn us diba.

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    3. I know a lot of people na sobrang makatao, pag may nakitang nanglilimos dadalhin sa nearby na karinderia at papakainin. Pero these friends of mine hindi mga relihiyoso eh, ni hindi nga nila alam ang mysteries ng rosary, o ang mga sumulat ng bibliya. I think mas importante na kahit wag mo na idaldal o ibunganga ang paniniwala o pagka makadiyos mo, isabuhay mo na lang dahil yun ang tama.

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  10. This is just so wrong!! Seek legal help already for harassment. I think there's also an organization of different denominations of churches. Maybe you can also seek help from them. You can show their messages as proof.

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  11. Reveal! Kawawa naman yung mga mapapagbintangan na mga congregation. The only way for bad people to succeed is for the good ones to do nothing. Name who's at fault and no more guessing games. Para am expose na din at mahiya naman sila sa mga church-goers nila.

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    1. Agree! Ito ang mahirap pag biniBI mga ganito maraming mapagbinintangang groups Dahil Hindi inispecify! Wala man lang kahit katiting na hint maliban sa celebrity popular couples na Madami din na affiliated sa Kung Saang Saang congregations!

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    2. Pwede ring lumabas na the writer just want to Destroy the family of the pastor coz she belongs to the rival church/congregation and making up stories lang. Dapat nga I let out na ito coz like the Bible says If you want to be light for others wag mong itago sa basket ang ilaw kungdi ilagay mo sa stand para maliwanagan Lahat! - Matt. 5:13-16

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    3. tama..kung me lumabas sa ibang social network, i-post para magkaalaman and hindi naman iyon libelous.

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  12. Teh spread them thru screenshots. Ag babae nga taga uk nagputak lang, nalunod na, what more sa mga gahamang 'to.

    all their messages can be used as proof naman e.

    gawin mo ikalat mo names nila, ag sambayanang pilipino na lang ang bahala.

    girl, ma tv patrol o 24 oras pa yan. Sisirain natin ag mga hipokritong to pati na ag simbahan nila.

    at nagtataka ag mga tao kung bakit kakaunti na lg ag mga nagsisimba. Sad to say, they dont credit filipinos much to the FACT that most churchgoers are hypocrites, esp. Their leaders.

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  13. pangalanan na yan !

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  14. sino ba mga yan ? reveal na

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  15. sometime the most religious persons i have encounter are abit snooty and "matapobre" because they see people who are not like them are Savages, low life & sinned full

    - well as they say iam what iam

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    1. most of the religious person i know are selfish and closed minded. they always want their own way. its sad when they dont follow what they are preaching.

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  16. Screenshot, screenshot, screenshot! Then send them all to FP! Pag 'di pa rin sila tumigil, FP Mike, i think puwede na mai-post ang screen-captured messages...

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  17. a death threat is a death threat. I wouldn't take it lightly I would ask help from some one, tama sabi nila screen shots and post it here. Ask help from the press kaH, KaF maski sino man may makikinig sayo.

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  18. Take screenshots of their messages, make copies of that threatening letter. Those can be used as evidences against them, be it through media or in courts. These holy men are nothing but thugs! So what too if you were a single mom, only bigots will think you're a fallen woman because of having a child out of wedlock. These muddled members should castigate their pastor and his family instead for going gangsta with you!

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  19. san bang kapanalig yan? di basta basta papangalanan yung pastor at iba iba din ang mga religion ng mga nandito.

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  20. Asa ka naman na makakuha sya ng hustisya esp, here sa pilipinas. Karma na lang for them

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  21. girl just collect all the evidence you can gather against them and one by one expose them! yang mga ganyang "kulto" na yan na pera pera lang din naman na mahuhuthut sa mga miyembro nila ang bottom line eh dapat na maexpose at masupil na! mga FALSE PROPHETS!!! mga self-proclaimed "alagad" kuno ng DIYOS! Come out in the open na te! expose them!

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  22. Pakatatag ka teh!kakampi mo ang totoong diyos!

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  23. Sino ba mga ito? Im a christian church goer, nakakainis kung may wolves in sheep's clothing, Reaveal mo na!

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  24. Tsk. Kakahiya! Supposedly mga religious cla at dpat hindi condone ang mga ganitong kasamaan! Ito b ang tinuturo sa church ng pastor na Ito??? Sana expose na Ito! At mag ka alaman na! Dahil ang pag kaka alam ko ang mga alagad ng panginoon at mapagmahal.

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  25. Your life is at stake. Tama halos dito, screenshot all their messages. Malakas na ang social media ngayon, ilabas na ang mga masasamang nagtatago sa overhype na relihiyon na yan.

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  26. natatakot lang siguro sya at pagnagkaalamanan na e, sa kanya lahat ipupukol. kawawa nmn ang bata, magugulo buhay..

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  27. Para sa safety mo n ng family mo girl ikalat m na yan sa social networking site.if ever may mangyri man sayo or sa family m na d magnda dahil s knila (i hope na d na umabot sa ganoong sitwasyon) at least alm na kung sino dpt damputin.once madami aware mas mangingilag sila na saktan kayo.sobra na sila kung pati ung bata idadamay pa. Hindi kasalanan ng bata na pinangank sya out of wedlock ang importante nanindigan ka sa pagkakamali mo. Bilib ako sa mga single mothers kahit dhil pa yan sa pagkadalaga ina, separated,annulled,etc. na mas pinili ang itaguyod ang anak sa sariling pag sisikap at harapin ang matatalas ang dila kesa sa ipaabort ang bata...di madali pero nakaya nio kya mabuhay kayo! God bless you! Laban lng ng laban;)

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    1. puwede pangalanan mo na sila para mas madaming tao tutulong sau para mapressure yang mga impostor na kampon naman ng kasamaan. kung may gagawin ulit silang masama against you eh kilala kung sino man ang may gawa.

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  28. Ireport mo sa head ng church nila. It's possible that the pastor's trying to stop you from doing just that dahil baka matanggal sya sa pagkapastor...

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  29. Very powerful na ang social media..as long as may proofs ka.. ilantad mo at marami kang kakampi. What theyre doing...thats alarming actually..

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  30. Ipa-media mo na yan te!

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  31. anong kulto ba to?

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  32. Transfer ur daughter to another school!

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  33. screen grab mo ms. sol

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  34. ATE, wag mo burahin ang message nila. isa na yan sa evidencia mo. kakainis lang kung sino pa ang religious kuno yun pa ang mas masama. grabe!

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  35. there's always another side of the story dapat sa abugado ka pumunta.am not taking sides unless I hear the other...

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  36. parang unbelievable. SP wrote a letter to your brother's school that he will kill you? this is hard evidence in black and white. post the letter...

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  37. Hindi na dapat blind item ang mga ganito. Laman na dapat ng news. Ano ba sabi ng abogado mo? Sa amin na nagbabasa, walang silbi ang warning kung di maidentify sino ang involved (or in some other cases sino seller ng counterfeit bags lol).

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  38. Post mo sa fp at sa social media ng gma o abs para naman alam namin kung cno yang mga yan...ingat ingat din kung ganyang may threat na

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  39. misis kung ako sa inyo ilalapit ko yan sa mga tv stations at pangalanan nyo na kung sino man yan!

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  40. make screen shots and have them blottered so whatever happens to you and your family,may mapapanagod.keep a record of it.

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  41. Sending death threats is no longer mere bullying. Aling bang kulto to? Kulto lang ang ganito, mob mentality, mga sheep. They should not be regarded as legitimate religious groups kung ganito kakitid ang utak nila.

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  42. HMMM... PARANG NA-SOLVE KO NA ANG SAGOT SA PUZZLE NA TOH.. THOUGH WILD GUESS LANG TOH HA, BINASE KO LANG SA TITTLE NETONG BI.. FIRSTNAME STARTS WITH THE FIRST LETTER NG TITTLE NETONG BI.. IMPERNES TAGAL KO TOH INANALYZE HUH, SIMULA PALANG NUNG UNANG NA-POST ITETCH DITEY.. PERO DI PA RIN AKO SURE IF TAMA AKO..

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    1. Ikaw na ang magaling mag analyze!

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  43. Ill pray for you ms Sol. May you have the strength to fight this fight. Dont be scared and fight for what is right. If it was my child i wouldnt give up on fighting either. Nakakainis din ang mga hypocrites na yan. Using the church to cover up their evil deeds. Karma will come their way. No wonder they have such attitude.

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  44. Hahaha! Ang wild ng imagination mo. Yung Pastor dito is not a celebrity. In short, di kilala. If you are referring to a name of celebrity couple, pwede pa siguro.

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  45. Get a lawyer or make a police report. Pangalanan mo na rin ang devil incarnate na pastor na ito kung tutoo ang kanilang ginagawa.

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  46. Big businesses na rin kasi ang mga christian organisations ngayon, kaya syempre ayaw nilang magkakuha ng bad press dahil it will mean less donations at less income, kaya siguro medyo intimidating ang dating ng anak ni Pastor dahil gusto lang niyang protektuhan ang business interest nila. Letter sender dapat i save mo lahat ang proof ng harassment at intimidation sa fb, make a diary, write down everything that had happened tapos kausapin mo ang lawyer kung pwede mo silang idemanda. Keep strong and good luck, I hope your little girl gets well soon.

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  47. Idemanda mo nlng. Mgfile ka ng kaso or magpainterview ka sa press para magkaalaman na. Magpakita ka ng ebidensya. Yan kc mahirap sa iba, nagpapakabanal kasi minister or church member. Pareho-pareho lng naman tayong tao.

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  48. Girl, have a strong faith in God. Screenshot mo lahat ng threat sau then talk to a lawyer, then expose them. If tama ang nasa isip ko, you won't be the first na nagreklamo tungkol sa kanila. Most importantly, always pray. God is good, just never ever give up.

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  49. Girl, di ka nag iisa yung byenan ko ngang pastor ganyan din. mamatay na daw kami mag ina dahil nawalan na ng sustento sa kanila anak nila nung mag asawa. ginamit pa name ni Lord to cast curses on us. Ayun sa kanila lahat bumababalik. Hanggang ngayon di maitayo tayo ang simbahan at paubos na ng paubos kaibigan. Tao lang din sila posibleng sumama o bumuti. I hope your faith will be the same kahit may na encounter kang ganyan. Huwag kang matakot after all the righteous is as bold as a lion the wicked runs even if nobody chases him. Be bold. Possible violation yan ng REPUBLIC ACT No. 9262.

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  50. Kairita yang letter sender na yan! Kung talagang may nangha-harass sa kanya eh bkit d nya ipa-blotter or ipa-media. Dami kong reporters na ka-Facebook at active cla lagi sa social media pwede nya contact-in un!

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  51. Why not tell this to the proper authority? If you are receiving death threats, e di magsumbong ka sa pulis! It already involves your child and you are not doing anything to protect your kid. All the people reading FP can sympathize with you but we cannot do anything to help you out with this. We don't even exactly know who this Pastor is. I think you need to make a proper move now.

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  52. i know that family , bibliya lang props para mabuhay ng marangya , walang pagkakaiba ni napoles ..isabi mo na ating ..para mabigyan ng leksyon ang nag santo santohan na pamilyang to! Kc pag ako magsabi di pinopost ni fp lol!

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  53. Tama! Gather all the evidence/s and if I were you search mo yung mga fab na lawyers I think even Fortun answers via FB. Let him know about your predicament, sometimes these hotshot lawyers do pro bono if its a high profile case. I know sad to hear that they'll get mileage out of your case, but at least you'll get more chances of getting things sorted out. While its unfortunate that your child was hurt, the other party should stop harassing you. They should have extended help and not to spend all their effort trying to malign and harass you and your family. For the BI I think, is this the christian sect who's endorsed by a not so visible actress? (tama ba hula ko? =)

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  54. Sila din ba yung congregation na nagbaban sa KaH?

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  55. pwede na tong ilapit sa T brothers ah .. or kay A.. or kay M.. girl wag ka na magpatumpik tumpik pa.. sila rin naman magsasabi sayo kung may laban ka or wala.. basta ilapit mo na yan sa talagang makakatulong sayo!

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  56. Blotter ang katapat nyan.

    If these allegations are true, these "religious" people are no different from the corrupt friars back in the colonial days. Using religion for power is masking the vanity that evil spreads. We all know that all super vain people have a special place in a little place called hell.

    I hate self righteous religious groups.

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  57. I am a born again christian too, lahat tayo regardless of faith ay nagkakasala sa ayaw man natin o hindi, because we were created by GOD that way. i think it is not fair for other people na ma persecute dahil born again sila. i suggest tama ang comments ng mga tao dito sa FP, PANGALANAN mo sila, screen shots ang mga pang haharass sa iyo at mga threats pati mga tao na hinaharass ng SP na sinasabi mo, or para sigurado ka, go sa mas malaking media. Kc makakapag isip pa ang mga tao sa tunay na interest mo kung patuloy ka lang dito sa FP na nag BBI dahil hindi nmn TSISMIS ang pinupunto mo dito. Db? Allegedly ay death threat.

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  58. if what youre saying is indeed true pede k nman lumapit sa legit media like t brothers manong etc..

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  59. Ate dapat ipa-T mo yan or i.. pa media mo para magkaalaman na, Active pa nmn cla s church pero pang demonyo ugali? Poor people, feeling nila powerful na sila.

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