I knew it all along. That girl just wants publicity because her kids are getting popular. Like I said, if she honestly wanted to apologize, do it privately.
true. sariling image nya n nman ang sinasalba nya.sya n tong nagmukang kawawang nny n nlayo s anak hbang ung mga anak nya e nagmmukng di mbuting anak at mpagmtaas dhil di mptwad ang nnay.
I disagree!matagal na siyang tumahimik...pero si lolit tinanong ang mga bata sa startalk about her...nasaktan naman ang lola niyo kasi walang paki yung kids at iloveyou dun sa tepmom tas tumatawa pa ang stepmom...jan nanaman nagstart yan ulet...although sa ig niya..matagal na siyang nagpopost about sa 2kids niya na namimiss nya ganun...
To all of you above ako ay isang ama...alam nyo pa ba ang kanta pag naglilibing-- "malilimutan ba ng ina ang anak galing sa kanya" kung ang Diyos ay nagpapatawad tayo pa kaya...mamuhay nga kayong maayos at hindi puro sakay sa intriga bigyan nyo ng lalim ang mga buhay ninyo Fr sapagkat akoy tao lamang
eh, yung magwala,magsisigaw at mag iskandalo c jackie sa labas ng pre school ng mga bata noon along greenmeadows ave..pananahimik ba yun? bkit sina benjie lng ginugulo nya bkit di nya hanapin at guluhin din yung ama ng isa nya pang anak n lalaki.....
May point naman yung mga bata. Why publicize everything? Kumukuha lang ng sympathy si Jackie sa public kaya niya pinupublicize mga ginagawa niyang pag reach out sa mga anak niya. She couldve done it privately pero hindi eh kaya kaduda duda ang tunay na intention. Lalo pa tuloy nagalit sa kanya mga anak niya.
I think Jackie has no choice but to go public because she has no direct contact with her kids. She wanted to be with her and any parents like me can emphatize with what she's going through. A mother will always be a mother no matter what, especially if she accepted her mistakes already.
@7:36, its good of you to sympathize with her as a mother. In this case lang, i think the need of the kids should be prioritized, that's part of being a mother that jackie should know if as she says she has improved/grown up. She's dragging her kids through mud with what she's doing instead of letting them have a peaceful existence.
Benjie is such an admirable father. Nabasa ko noon mga batang bata pa mga anak niya dinadala niya lagi sa mga practice niya sa basketball at kahit saang lakad bilang single dad nga siya noon walang magbabantay sa mga bata. No wonder ganyan na lang ang paghanga at pagmamahal sa kanya ng dalawa niyang anak.
ang gwapo at magagalang din naman ang mga batang to....let's just give them time...blood is thicker than water, pasasaan ba't mapapatawad din nila si jackie
Childhood traumas are very hard to forget. We have no right to judge these boys dahil hindi natin alam kung ano yung pinagdaanan nila. Some will say na bastos sila sa nanay nila, pero may dahilan ang lahat. Baka talagang malala yung naranasan nila noon kaya ganyan sila katigas ngayon. Hindi rin sila masisisi. Sana wag na lang pilitin kung ayaw talaga. Im sure in time pag matatanda na mga yan, mapapatawad na nila si Jackie. But I highly doubt na gugustuhin ng mga bata na magkaron ng relationship or connection with her.
Tama ka. Some people are too quick to judge yet they don't know the real story. And upon taking a closer look at the faces of Andre and Kobe, it doesn't speak of happiness. Kitang-kita ang lungkot sa mga mata nila so I hope people will understand kasi grabe daw talaga yung nangyari sa kanila noon with Jackie. Pero darating din ang araw na mare-realize din nila ang lahat at magkakaayos din silang mag-iina.
I agree, mahirap talagang maalis ang trauma lalo na at naranasan ng batang katawan at isip. Kaya nga do not judge the two boys, may mga reasons for that & besides I think sa pagsasalita ni Benjie & sa tone ng voice niya, I bet napalaki naman niya ng maayos mga bata. Polite din naman sumagot ang dalawa.
yun na nga 'day kc mga bata hindi marunong magtanim ng sama ng loob. na-brainwash ang mga yan. ang 10 commandments eh di naituro ni benjie sa kanila. ke babata pa eh nagtatanim na ng galit sa tao at ginagamit pa ang kabataan nila para maexcuse sila. 'bend the tree while young' nga eh bakit antayin ang maturity bago turuan?
Mature ba kamo? di ba sinabi na rin ni Benjie na may mga sariling isip na ang mga bata? Di pa ba mature ang mga yan? ilang taon ba dapat mag-mature? 40 years old? 50 years old?
trauma nga kasi! Wala ka man sama ng loob kapag natrauma ka mahirap yan mawala.. nag-seek pa nga yung mga bata ng help sa therapist noon which means malala nangyari.. di mo naman alam buong nangyari, malay ba natin baka bumabalik bad memories nila pag nakikita nila mom nila kaya di pa sila ready..
sino maysabi sayong di marunong nagtanim ang mga bata... wag ka magmarunong... kaya nga indemand ang mga child psychiatrists e kc masama ang epekto ng chikdhood trauma
10 commandments? Nabasa mo ba yung 6th, 7th, 8th and 9th? Pareho kayo ni jackie na nagnibintang kay benjie ng kung anu ano samantalang wala namang dadaig sa kung ano mang nakita nila.
Benjie is an epitome of a good father. Imagine, here in the Philippines matriarchal diba? Pag kids palang usually or talagang ang authority or pag aalaga at kakampihan ng court is the mother diba? Try to see the scenario, nasaan ang mga bata diba na kay Benjie? Another, kahit sino naman na bata kapag natrauma madadala nila hanggang pagtanda nila yung trauma na yun kaya siguro kids are not into their mother kasi sa trauma that it brought yung sa sinabi ni Benjie na about sa DSWD. Jackie has the right to get the kids kung pursigido talaga sya dapat dati pa noong hindi pa sila sikat compared sa ngayon at dapat hindi nya dinaan sa force. May mga nagsa succeed naman sa ganyang situation na kahit yung father yung nag aalaga e attach parin yung anak sa mother. I think on Jackie's part yes she miss her kids pero the point is why did she have to leave at before leaving PH ay binigyan nya pa ng trauma yung anak nya so ang hirap nun sa part ng kids nya imagine Benjie bringing his kids pag may
kudos to benjie for being a great parent to kobe and andre. halatang uncomfortable ang kids to talk about the issue. so jackie, please just wait. ikaw may kasalanan, so ikaw ang maghintay.
oo nga naman, and give them a break , they are just kids...! siguro pag nag-mature na (like in their 20s or 30s) magiging civil and more understanding na rin sila. I mean they are the same age now as when she had them, right? ngayon mga 30 plus na si Jackie and she's finally matured. so tama, hintay-hintay lang siya pag may time... and I like benjie. mahinahon siyang sumagot. walang drama. kahit naman noon hanga ako sa kanya as a player and now as an actor (natural comedian talaga siya).
between Benjie and Jackie kahit hindi ko sila personal na kilala makikita mo kay Benjie yung sincerity at care nya sa mga bata. I'd like to think Jackie longs for her kids pero going public about it only brings unwanted public attention sa mga bata and yung stigma sa kanila. Mukhang mababait na bata at matatalino yung mga anak nila, I guess it only seals na he's a good father to them.
Si Jackie, attention seeker, to the point na immature na. Hindi nya makukuha mga bata sa puwersahan.
Gusto nya kasi may magmamahal sa kanya. But you can't force someone to love you kahit na anak mo pa yan. Plain selfish lang yun. Mamahalin ka nila dahil mahal ka nila.
Family problems should not be publicized kasi diba. Nangunguha lang ng sympathy si Jackie, eh alam naman niyang napaka-personal level nung problem. Napalayo pa lalo ang loob ng mga gwapo niyang anak, hay.
Naiyak ako when I watched Jackie's video dahil kung iisipin kung sa akin mangyari na mawalay ng matagal sa anak, sobrang sakit. Pero pag iniinterview ang paras kids, naaawa din ako dahil parang may sadness sa kanilang mukha when the topic is their mom. Imagine the impact of the scandals that she undrwent sa kanyang mga kids. Kung nabalitaan ng mga bata sa school, or nabalitaan nila thru parents of their friends, dagdag pa sa shame at trauma ng mga bata. Cnsabi ni Jackie na wala syang hinarm sa mga ginawa nya sa past kundi sarili nya, that's wrong kasi once na nagloko at napabalita ang isang magulang, nasasaktan din kaming mga anak bcoz we feel that we're one.
i agree. bk nasaktan mga kids ..minsan bk pinag chichismisan cla s school nkk rinig ng kung ano ano.. well cla lang ylaga nkk alam. sana maaus n nila ung prob nila
Yes pero si Jackie naman kasi unang umalis eh so kaya ganyan ang maga kids. For me nakakaawa mga bata kasi imagine sa school for sure pag ganyan pag uusapan ng kung sino sino at hindi lang sa school even sa neighborhood nila.
ampopogi! tangkad pa! tisoy pa! at mukhang magagalang. they can put some so-called star magic a-list hunks to shame. pero kailangan pang pahinugin ng konti. siguro pag tumanda ng konti or makatapos ng schooling, saka sila sumabak sa showbiz full-time.
To Kobe and Andre if you want to erase your biological mother in your life you must also erase your face kasi kamukha nyo si Jackie. Whatever you say and whatever brainwashing benjie does to this kids hindi mabubura na si jackie ang ina nyo. And why don't you ask your father benjie kung bakit nya binuntis ang isang menor de edad na sya lang naman nanay nyo -- rm
daming satsat ni benjie sa interview eh wala namang naexplain.if i know tuwang tuwa sya dahil nirereject ng mga bata si jackie.bitter pa rin kc sya dahil di na sya labs ni jackie. kung ikaw mabuti kang ama dapat ikaw mismo ang maghikayat sa mga bata na sumama sa ina nila para mamasyal nung bata pa sila. mga bata hindi marunong magtanim ng sama ng loob kundi nabrainwash na sila. tsaka mga bata kayo kung makareact kayo parang hindi kayo minahal ng ina nyo, kahit nagkamali sya hindi ibig sabihin na di kayo mahal. tandaan nyo lang hindi kayo magiging masaya sa buhay nyo dahil sa ginagawa nyo sa nanay nyo. at ikaw naman benjie magpakaama ka turuan mo sila ng mabuting asal. kung ano ang ugali nila ngayon eh yun ang tinuro mo sa kanila. anong ready-ready ang sinasabi nyo ha? if they are not ready now then they will never be ready not ever. palusot pa kayo eh pare-pareho lang kayong walang puso. mararanasan nyo din sa mga anak nyo ang ginagawa nyo kay jackie ngayon.
Ang harsh mo lang. kahit bali baligtarin mo ang may kasalanan ung ina nila! GOSH. Hndi issue dito ung edad na nabuntis sy. Ang isyu ung pagiging ina nya sa mga bata! Wag nyang idahilan ang pagiging 16 nya, sobrang lame. May pagkakamali si Benjie pero mabuti syang ama. Tanungin mo si Jackie nyan.
Kaya nga nagsorry na siya di'ba, 2:07? Ano bang sinasabi mong kasalanana ni Jackie, eh nagsisi na nga 'yong tao? Ang issue dito ay 'yong ginagawa ni Benjie dahil.. huwag na tayong maglokohan kitang-kita naman sa pagmumukha niya at kilos niya kung gaano niya kagusto ang paghate ng mga bata kay Jackie. Imposible namang hindi siya sundin ng mga anak niya kung pagsabihan niya ang mga ito ng kunting lambot man lang para sa ina nila at ipagpasadiyos na lang ang lahat, di'ba? Ama siya! Kaya Imposibleng hindi siya pakinggan kung kunting lambot lang naman ang sinasabi niya... Yan ay kung hindi niya talaga iniinvolve mga anak niya sa feud nila ni Jackie dahil hindi ako naniniwala na sa tagal ba namang 'yon? Imposibleng hindi mabawasan ang galit nila kung maganda ang pagpapalaki niya.
ang babaw naman ng argument mo. if someone looked like hitler, does that make him a hitler as well? we don't know the entire story. we don't know the reason why they don't like jackie. and we do not know if benjie really brainwashes the kid. in fact, based on the interview, it's not true that jackie was barred from seeing the two boys. to be told to go with jackie after the trauma and pointing that the stepmom is not their real mother leaves a very bad taste in the mouth, makes me wonder if she was really a social worker. getting married and being pregnant at 16 is no longer the issue here. the fact that if jackie never got pregnant, wala sana siyang hinahabol ngayon. and these boys would not have existed. it takes two to tango and jackie made the choice to marry benjie. and obviously, jackie supporter ka.
The kids have an option na siraan si Jackie pero ang sinasabi lang nila is sinabihan na nilang huminto na sya sa pag publicize at wala silang sinasabi na masama si Jackie e si Jackie sinasabi niyang kesyo hindi welcome sa bahay nila Benjie kesyo pinipigilan o sino ngayon ang nagpapa mukhang kawawa sa public? Kahit naman sino maiinis diba?
Tama yan. Pinili kasi ng mga bata magiing ina nila, no? Kasalanan pa nila na nanay nila siya, no? Galing mo, klap klap.
But I won't let you go without putting some intellect into you. Somehow you must realize that your biological connection is only limited at certain point, and whatever happens after will then affect whatever you feel towards a person. You can't erase trauma, sir. If erasing their face would actually make them forget everything, then they would. The problem is your too emotional that you fail to see the problem in a bigger scale. Malalim ang sugat ng mga bata hindi lang dahil masama iyong ginawa ni Jackie, kundi dahil nanay nila un nakita nilang may gawa nun. Trust vs mistrust. And if Benjie did not do his job as a father well, then perhaps these kids will be deranged for all throughout their lives. They respect their mother by not bashing her. Sana man lang kahit iyon makita niyo.
@207am which part didn't you understand? how Benjie narrated what happened 5 years ago with the lawyer and social worker? how he gave consent to Jackie to visit their kids, even with a lawyer in tow? how they refuse to put out everything in media? how he did not say bad about jackie? kinakausap nga daw niya ang boys but the boys refused. ans the trauma happened in boracay with the mother! anong sinasabi mo na hindi pinasyal ang mga bata? ang madami satsat yung idol mong si jackie. 2 lang ang tema ng sinasabi niya: asking for forgiveness and blaming benjie and the stepmom for the situation. she has never explained herself and never specified what happened. bakit di niya sabihin na binigyan siya ng 60K dollars ni benjie for studies kuno. nakakagigil ang mga ibang commenters dito about saying walang modo ang mga bata. WALA TAYO SA POSISYON NILA AT HINDI NATIN ALAM KUNG ANO NANGYARI. Childhood trauma is very hard to overcome. Respect what the kids want. Don't quote the bible here and if
To Anon 4:49 sa generation ngayon ang mga bata hindi na madaling ibrain wash. Inallow nya nga na pumunta si Jackie sa bahay diba? Part na ni Jackie na gawin yun at hindi excuse na binuntis dahil for sure kagustuhan nya yon gaya ng sinabi ni anon 5:15 it takes two to tango at hindi kasalanan na mabuntis okay that's a blessing ang kasalanan ay yung act ng hindi pa kayo kasal at trauma na mga bata diba? Aside sa finorce sila iniwan pa kahit sinong bata mafi-feel na parang nireject sila kung ganun diba? Yes without Jackie hindi ganyan mukha ng mga yan pero hindi yun basehan na wala ng rights ang mga bata na magalit or i neglect ang nanay nila kasi at the first place si Jackie ang umalis at ngayon babalik siya kung kelan the kids are making their way to the limelight? After 8 years saka mo hahabulin? Wow is that a good mother? 1 hour lang na hindi mo kasama anak mo for sure ang hirap na diba e sya years nakapag adjust na at kinilala na nilang mommy yung stepmom nila
5:15, ang tinutukoy ko ay yong reaksyon ni Benjie hindi 'yong face niya mismo at purket nakapagsalita lang ng ganyan Jackie supporter na?? Ang babaw mo, ha. LOL...Well, according sa bagong post ni Jackie ay pinagbawalan nga siya na makita ang mga bata kaya siya nagfile ng Motion noon. Well, ang aking lang ay nagtataka lang ako kung bakit anong ginawa or hindi ginawa ni Benjie bakit hanggang ngayon ay galit pa din ang namumutawi sa puso at isipan ng mga batang ito kasi sa tagal ba namang 'yon? Imposible eh na hindi maiibsan 'yon.
Hindi ko naman sinasabi na walang silang karapatang magalit, 449, pero ewan ha pero maraming mga bata ngayon na gusto nilang makita ang mga parents nila pagkatapos ng lahat ng ginawa nila or kasalanan ng magulang nila sa kanila. So, na sa pagpapalaki 'yan ng magulang.
If I could recall it right, may masamang karanasan or i think abuse din na naranasan si jackie when she was young. This, could explain siguro sa behavior and decisions nya in life like early marriage kc cguro she would want someone who can be her knight.
Tama. She was from a broken family. Always looking for love in the wrong places. Pag stable na, maghahanap ng thrill. tapos pag nawala lahat, breakdown. Blame others, self-pity pa.
The only person who can love you the way you want to is yourself. She's self-destructing and I hope she gets some help too.
Tama!at si benjie nag take advantage...at tinilerate pa mga anak nya ihate ang sarili nilang ina...kung mabuting ama ka dapat di mo pinagkakait sa mga bata na magkaroon ng feelings na ganun towards sa ina nila...at kahit anu pa kasalanan ni jackie nanay at nanay prn un...at nagbago naman xa ipinaglalaban naman ang karapatan niya..pero aiya hinayaan niya ang mga bata di man lang pumagitna at guide mga anak na wag itrato ang nanay nila ng ganun..pansin mondi truly happy ang mga anak..obvious na my sumthing parin sila sa nanay nila..pro mas pinapansin nila ung hatred kesa pagmamahal nila sakanya...
alam nyo pare pareho taung walang alam kung ano nangyari. so wag natin sisihin si benjie or si jackie o mga anak nya. lets just pray for thwm n maging maaus ung rel nila
bkit nyo sinasabi na nagtake advantage si benjie? 16 was then a legal age to get married. benjie made a decent woman out of her pero pinili pa rin nya magwala... she had everything a woman could ask for sya ang nagtapon
All I can say is ang popogi niyo grabe ganda ng mix niyo jackie and benjie..pasalamat na lang kayo sa genes ng both parents ninyo..and I know time heals everything..eventually maggng ok din ang lahat so jackie wag natin ipilit..sooner or later they will realize and will be able to forgive..everything in god's timing jackie..
Wala naman kayong karapatan diktahan sa mga batang ito kung anong dapat nilang sabihin o gawin, buhay nila ang pinaguusapan dito, karanasan nila hindi sa inyo. Let them be.
I think for publicity bakit nmn pupunta ka sa pinas para nagpainterview lang sa the buzz why not puntahan mo sa house nila dun sa gate mag hunger strike ka hahaha
knowing abs cbn they sponsor the whole thing to get a scoop. and diba Jackie joined the Survival Philippines before? she was here di ba? why she didn't made a move to seek the kids, why now when the boys suddenly in the limelight saka nag iingay. madaming way. wag na i media. and the trauma that you brought to the kids, dala dala nila yan up to sa pagtanda. di na erase yan it will reflect sa pag pili nila ng partners in life and handle ng kids. Benjie never said any bad thing about Jackie in fairness naman.
Stop na daw sabi ng mga anak mo Jackie, so dapat magstop ka na. Stop means kaput! Pinutol na nila ang anumang kaugnayan nila sa'yo kaya kahit masakit man sa'yo wala kang magagawa. Magkaroon ka naman ng pride at awa sa sarili mo. Talo ka na, wala ka nang magagawa dahil na kay Benjie ang Alas. Ipagpasadiyos mo na lang ang lahat at ang anumang away ninyo ng x mong asawa. Kung ayaw pa din sa'yo ng mga anak mo pagkatapos ng paghingi mo ng sorry then huwag mong ipilit; intindihin mo na lang. Ifocus mo na lang yang time at pagmamahal mo sa ibang mga anak mo na ang cucute na pwede kang mahalin at ipagmalaki in the future. Hindi natatapos ang buhay sa kanila,Jackie. Move on!
I agree! she has to move on and focus on her other two children / new family esp she mentioned how she is so loved by her dutch hubby. You are so lucky Jacky kasi God has blessed you with 2 more kids and a loving and respectful husband. Make them your priority for now, you made enough effort to ask forgiveness from your other kids. God works in wonders kaya maayos nyo rin yan.
Ang taong ayaw magpatawad ay laging naghahanap ng butas para hindi mapatawad ang isang tao. Kaya stop ka na Jackie dahil hindi lang naman sila ang mga anak mo, eh?
if the kids can't accept jackie there must be a reason wag nyo naman i-judge ang mga bata. if jackie wants their forgiveness she should do it behind the cameras. because at the end of the day it is a personal thing the public should not be involve anymore.
Kobe is my brother's batchmate in ateneo. Until the day na tinanggal ni benjie sila sa ateneo (grade 4 ata si kobe), i never saw jackie visit the kids... kahit pasulyap sulyap wala... si benjie nandun everytime... walang event ng mga anak niya na wala siya... very supportive... si jackie even sa open house ng ateneo never ko nakita... so how can she say na nag reach out siya... she was never there during the formative years... busy sita sa life niya to bother with her kids?!?!
Jackie never visited her kids sa ateneo ... si benjie lang nakikita namin, cheering his kids on... kakatawa nga yan kasi front and center siya palahi to get videos... si benjie talaga kumukuha... di niya inaasa aa mga alalay... saka very supportive siya lalo na pag family day... sumasali sa games... si jackie, ni silip di namin nakita... kahit sa fair na open for everybody, we never saw her... busy siguro sa life niya to bother reaching iyt during their formative years?!?
Paanong dlsu 10:41 eh first year college nga ngayon si andre, na panganay, sa UP di ba? 17 lang sya so first time nya mag college. Di ba pang kolehiyo ang dlsu? Kokontra lang di pa nag research. Lsgh po ba ang ibig ninyong sabihin? According to Ms. KAY Y.... galing din silang Ateneo nung gradeschool. Mag Google bago mag comment!
These kids will never go far from where they are now, nag showbiz na sila forever ng kasunod ang pang alang Jackie sa showbiz career nila. Honestly they were brainwashed, kahit na anong sabihin ni Benjie, Mali sya sa pagpapalaki sa mga anak Nya na me galit sa Ina. Ang Ina ay Ina walang gagawin yan na di para sa mga anak. The stepmom really never wasted time to do the same.
wow diyos ka ba para magsabing walang mararating ang dalawang batang to...iba ang ina....iba ang egg donor...habang nagpapasarap sya iba ang nagpapalaki sa anak nya tPos ngayun ngangawa ngawa sya
Psychiatrist ka teh? Tanong mo psychiatrist or counselors na nakarinig sa statements ng mga bata. Unanimous ang mga advice nila pati ng mga abogado na di pa sila ready so pilitin man yan o pigilan ng mga taong nagpalaki sa kanila, they are damaged and scarred as of the time being. To force them would only make things worse for them. Nothing outsiders say will change what they experienced first hand.
Kung mali pagpapalaki sa kanila, then they could have bashed Jackie down into the roots. But did they do that? No. That's respect, sir. And I believe respecting someone you hate is a difficult job. Benjie was able to foster that environment for them to grow like that. Now tell me how could that be wrong?
How old we're these kids 5 years ago, pwede na ba nilang masabi na " we're not ready give us time" lol I guess if they were already in their teens masasabi nila yan.. I guess they were told what to say if their mom comes to get them. I have a 12 years old son and he is really child pa whn it comes to saying mature things...hiwalay kami ng asawA ko...but I never said bad or insinuate that that his dad is a bad person or not to go with him when he visits. My ex husband is total pain in the @ass. But what ever we gone through our marriage I never seek revenge thru my son by hating him. The dswd thing, it's but right to tell the truth to the kids that they should go with mother because shes their real mother . Dapat ang ginawa ni Benjie nung time na yun ay pumagitna sya he should've appease the child and explain what the dswd was sayiing. Hindi yung magalit din sya , tsk. Clear as the blue sky, the kids were brainwashed kahit na intanggi pa Nya.
psychologist ka teh? ang mga bata ngayon , they're more mature than we think. Di ba nila kaya magisip ng desisyon when they are 10 and 12 years old? they can opt to go or stay.
Truelaloo 2:10 pm. Sabi nga ni benjie kahapon sa startalk, matatalino lang nakakaintindi sa kanya. At ayan nanaman yang "brainwash" na yan na excuse ng mga taong di matanggap na kaya na nina Andre at Kobe mag decide sa murang edad. Therefore, ms. 6:57 am is.....?
5:02, kung talagang matured/matalino silang mag-isip bakit hindi nila kayang balansehen at patawarin ang mom nila despite of the fact na ilang years na ang nakakaraan? Iba pala ang meaning ng maturity sa'yo.
wala yan sa panahon. ang isang taong nirape kunyari, after a few years ba makakalimutan niya? we don't know the entire story. trauma can happen to anyone, but the impact of that trauma is relative to the person who was subjected to it.
stop judging them. we are not in a position to do so.
hay...ang sakit! I guess tama ang kasabihan, "Ang anak, natitiis ang MAGULANG, ang magulang di matitiis ang ANAK na galing sa kaniya". sige lang Jackie, what goes around comes around. pray na lang para sa inyong mag-iina. in God's time, in His own phase, pasasaan ba't maghihilom ang lahat.
Nega ang mga batang'to... Madami diyan iniwan ng parents pero natutong mag forgive and tanggapin mga magulang na nagkulang... So arrogant... So much bitterness... 'Yan ba ang tamang pagpapalaki... Don't forgive and forget.. Tsk..tsk..
Mahirap makalimutan ang childhood trauma. Pasalamat ka wala kang na experience na trauma tulad mg mga batang yan kaya you can make judgemental comments like that.
Madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin. Lalo na ngayon na isinapubliko ni Jackie ung isyu ng kanilang pamilya. They just want to live a normal life. Ok na sila. Just let them be.
I don't think na brainwashed ang mga bata, mga teenagers na sila me mga sarili ng isip, si jackie naman kasi why say sorry in public me point nga naman mga kids Nya. She should say sorry to her kids personally not publicly because the public doesn't know everything, I'm a mother too Pero I can't imagine she waited that long and now she can't wait parang napa bayaan na masyadong malalim siguro tapos malalim Rin ang sugat. Kaya jackie wait ka na Lang sorry masyadong masakit daw.
Jackie herself went thru a lot as a kid... Kung ano man ang nangyari before sa kanila ni Benjie, sila na lang nakakaalam nun. What Jackie wants is for her kids to know her "now", now that she is more mature, whole and have turned herself around. She's been trying to reach out but to no avail. In all fairness, though she's been trying to reach out via social networking, naunang magsalita publicly ang mga bata about their trauma etc. Jackie is trying to defend herself which is but normal. Any one who felt she is being judged w/o trial, should stand and speak up.
Mga bata pa kasi sila. I think Kobe is around 15 while Andre is 16 or 17, parang ganun. Nasa awkward stage ng pagmamature ang isang tao upon reaching mid-teens kaya normal lang yung mararanasan nila ang hatred or bitterness sa ilang mga tao o bagay. Darating din ang panahon na kapag malaki na sila, unti-unti na nilang mauunawaan ang lahat at magkakaayos din sila ni Jackie. So instead of judging them, intindihin na lang natin sila. I think yun naman ang tanging hinihingi nila sa publiko.
Payong kaibigan Jackie, if you want to get close to your sons do it privately. They are at an age where they don't like to be put on the spot...they are teenagers. The more you publicly bug them to be close to you, the more they will run away. That is how teenagers are.
Don't air their dirty laundry in public because that is child abuse. You are psychologically shaming them in public by airing your family's dirty laundry on television.
Stop pushing their boundaries. Obviously these children have had some kind of trauma/brainwashing and if they are asking you for space and time...pls. give it to them. Love and forgiveness takes lots of time and patience. You cannot rush/force someone to love and respect you.
If you want to sue Benjie Paras then go to court. But don't speak to the media. Let your lawyers speak. Your children need stability in their lives and your behavior in the media has been very eratic which will continue to drive your sons away. Again, this is a private family mater so do this privately.
I sincerely hope that you and your children will have a good relationship in the future.
Sa nakikita ko sa 2 bata ito sobrang traumatized. Ikaw ba naman na bata at takutin ng tiga DSWD at ipilit na "hindi mo nanay (stepmom) yan, eto ang totoo mong nanay (Jackie)". Tapos pag bibisitahin ni Jackie ang mga bata may kasamang lawyer o social worker na parang nanggugulo ang dating.. matru traumatize talaga yan. Siguro naramdaman ng mga bata ang tunay na pagmamahal at aruga ng ina sa stepmom.
Hi stepmom!napadaan ka.:.kaya nga may dalang lawyer dba kasi d pinapasama sa nanay???ang sinasabi ni benjie kausapin ang nga bata...pwede naman siya makiusap sa mga bata kung ayaw ng mga bata sa nanay nila...pwede niyang pagsabihan kasi kahit papano nanay prn nila un...pero anu ginawa nya?parang gustong gusto pa niya nirereject ng mga anak niya ung nanay nila...eh kung siya nakiusap sa mga bata maniniwala pa ang mga un
For me ang dating ng pagsama ng social worker and abogado ay dahil oppressed ang pakiramdam nya. Think about it, kung open talaga ang bahay ni Benjie as he claims, at tinutulungan ni Benjie ang mga bata to reconcile with their mom, bakit magsasama pa ng backup si Jackie.. ibig sabihin she needed to fight her way in
For me as simple as this, for once para matigil sa pagiging desperado si Jackie.. Let the 2 boys or let them and Jackie talk privately.. Just for once.. If they don't really want to their mudra to see anymore or want them to have a space then say it in Jackie's face.. For sure titigil yan si Jackie..
Korek!!!mahirap kay jackie tumigil...kc nga wala xang hold...need talaga sila mag usap..pro mukhang ayaw ng mga kampo ng mga bata mga matatanda dun...bka natatakot lumambot puso na mga bata...base dun sa ig ni jackie unv mga kamag anak ata sa side ni jackie di narin pinapakusap sakanila
" not only once" that was 5 years ago Kung pakikinggan mo ung video and stories..how about this year? That is why Jackie is freaking out.. No, communication. No one advice them to talk to their mother even for a day..tsk..
Yung palaging pinapamukha ni jackie is at the end of day, sya pa rin ang nanay nila but sorry nowadays love, respect and affection is earned, not given. May ibang parent nga na hinahalay anak nila, yung version lang ni jackie towards her kids is emotional abuse. I think her kids has already forgiven her but they cant forget the trauma that jackie has caused during their childhood.
Seriously people!!! Brainwash??? Very teleserye ang mindset nyo. These kids seem to be intelligent, I don't think that their strong opinions about their moms are simply based on their dad's influence. Huwag nyong insultuhin yung mga bata, May pinangagalingan yung hinanakit nila sa nanay nila.
Once they're now in their 20s or 30s, doon na nila mare-realize that in the end, Jackie is still their mother. Mga bata pa kasi sila at parang kailan lang noong naranasan nila yung emotional abuse kay Jackie. Hindi ganun kadali para mag-move on sila agad kasi naryan pa rin yung pain at sadness. Tignan niyo ng maigi ang mga mata nila at maging sa pananalita hindi mo masasabing masayang-masaya sila kasi may kulang rin.
ang sukatan ng pagiging ina ay hindi lang dahil sya ang naglabas sa kanila..ang tunay na pagmamahal ang syang sukatan..mas ina pa nga ang step mom nila kesa kay Jackie..kung ayaw ng mga bata makita ka muna then manahimik ka na muna..malay mo makita nila ang sincerity mo later on..kung sincere ka nga.
Sa mga nagsasabi na "wala kayo dyan kung wala nanay nyo" - its easy to be called a mom but its not easy being a "mom" siguro nga siya nagluwal ng mga bata pero pinandigan nya ba pagiging ina nya nung kelngan nila siya? Madali kasi sabihin na patawarin na unless kayo yung andun sa sitwasyon. Tsktsk.
I would not let my kids admire Kobe and Andre. What values would my kids get from them? Not to honor their mother? Jackie may have done the worst sin possible but that does not erase the fact that she is the one that gave birth to them. Pictures don't lie, they were happy before and in the video, they said they love her. Somehow I believe the love is still there.
Napako na kayo sa traumatic experience na yan na hindi naman nilalabas ng mga boys or magulang kay Jackie para maisaayos. Oo na may trauma, pero ganun na lang ba yon, as in The End... Eh si Barabas nga pinatawad? Sino ba tong mga parents na to para hayaan isipin ng bata na hindi importante ang magpatawad. So hayaan na lang ang mga kids na habangbuhay may dalang galit? Malaking kapalpakan yon bilang magulang, so wag na silang magpa cute dyan na napakabuti nilang parents. Tsaka bakit ba puro ang focus at mystery eh kung ano ang nagawa ni Jackie Forster sa mga bata...wala bang magtatanong kung ano ba ang ginawa (o hindi ginawa) ni Benji Paras at nagkakaganito si Jackie hagulgol ang inabot? At nagkanda desperado na at nasa last resort na? Si Jackie lang ba ang pwedeng magkamali? Besides kung may nagawa man si Jackie saludo ako sa kanya at least nagpapaka humble na. Nagsosorry kung may pagkukulang man at gusto makipagusap. Si Benjie at ang bago niyang asawa wala, puro pride. Baho ng
Exactly 1031... gusto ni benji and stepmom THE END-- PERIOD---- hwag nang magkausap usap at magka ayos ang totoong mag-iina....which is incomprehensible. They have every means to exercise due and proper influence na hindi mamasamain and ire reject ng bata,but do they even lift a finger? parang may nakikitang nakahandusay na stranger, asking for assistance at hindi mo man lang matulungan, gayong alam mong may kakayahan kang tumulong in more ways than one? Saan at paano naging tama ang ganoon?
Totoo, ma-aari na higit na nagpaka-ina ang step mom nila pero kung humihingi na ng kapatawaran si Jackie ay bakit naman hindi bigyan ng second chance. I will use the Christian card here. It's unChristian not to honor and forgive a mother. I am not an expert on other religion but perhaps their teachings also include honoring mothers and forgiveness. Kakatapos ko lang mapanood ang The Voice at ang isa sa mga auditionee dun ay nilayasan ng kaniyang ina at for a long time this girl and her family don't know where the Mom was pero ang batang ito at 16 y/o ay handang patawarin ang kaniyang ina. Si Jackie noon pa man, nag attempt at nag try na makipagkita sa mga bata. Si Jackie lang ba kaya at ang sinasabing karanasan ng mga bata sa kaniya ang nagmold sa ganitong attitude ng mga anak nya Ano kaya ang naging role ni Mr. Paras at ng kanilang step mom? Nagtatanong lang naman.
Until you have been betrayed by your own mother, don't be too quick to judge these kids. Masakit to be betrayed by a friend or a lover. But can you imagine the hurt of being betrayed by your own mother. It does not matter if she married young and had a kid when she was just a teenager. Age is never an excuse to hurt your children. My own mother abandoned us to be with her boyfriend when we were just teenagers and left us to fend for ourselves with just a caretaker in the house. She left us no money. She just told us that it was time for our father to provide for us. My lola had to live with us because my dad was living with another woman. This kind of hurt will never leave you so I can imagine the hurt that these kids are feeling so leave them alone. Jackie is just thinking of her own peace of mind and her own happiness without taking into consideration the feelings of her children. By releasing the video, she is in fact manipulating and pressuring the children to contact her. I
sumasakit ang dibdib ko sa kanila.. kakaawa mga bata.. torn between love and hate to their mom.. wawa jackie kasi ayaw i forgive.. di sya matatahimik.. wawa benjie mukha ng p
I cannot say that Jackie is a bad mother because I don't know why they broke up pero pinagtataka ko lang e diba minors pa yung mga bata at sabi dinala sa court yung about sa custody ng mga bata? Bakit hindi si Jackie ang nanalo sa custody e pareho naman silang may work ni Benjie? And come to think of it dapat nung wala sakanya yung custody finallow nya nalang yung rule na bisitahin mga anak nya. Kung talagang nanay ka no matter what you'll do everything kahit wala sayo mga anak mo na to maintain a harmonic relationship with them. You can't blame the kids for having trauma and awkward sakanila pag usapan about the mother. Look at the initial reaction of Kobe nung birought up yung issue nagka tinginan pa sila magkapatid before answering the question, I don't think binrain wash ni Benjie ang mga bata, mga bata ngayon matatalino na eh at even without Jackie nataguyod ni Benjie ang mga anak niya and raised them well, yes Jackie bore them but sino ba ang nagpakita ng love ng tunay na nanay
Hindi nga daw sya natalo sa custody, WILLING syang pumirma ng document dahil in good terms sila ni benjie non! At binisita nga nya ang bahay hindi sya pinagbubuksan, maraming beses. Hindi makakarating sa ganitong point kung pinapapasok si Jackie and kinakausap nila ng matino ang mga kids at si Jackie para MAGKABATI sa simula pa lang. Panoorin mo muna yung interview with boy abunda
puro na lang "We're or They're not yet ready." I cant believe nobody in the presscon asked, Eh KELAN PO KAYA MAGIGING READY? and PAANO magiging ready? Ano plano nyong lahat para maging ready sila? Benjie what exactly have you done para maging ready sila? Nagkakagulo na nga, imbes na tawagan or puntahan si Jackie para magkaayusan ng matino, puro na lang press release para ulit ulitin lang yung dating sinasabi -- more space and more time pa daw! Kunyari ba may kumkatok sa pintuan ng bahay, tapos sumigaw ka "sandali lang! just give me more time please" Pero actually hindi ka bumabangon para buksan or wala ka palang balak buksan ang pinto.. So kung gusto nilang pamilya ng "more time" hindi fair na wala silang balak na magdiscuss ng action plan with Jackie. Puro na lang pagmamaganda at pagmamalinis. Teach your kids na walang taong perpekto, maski kayo, learn to accept the good and bad in every person. Pag nag mature na ang kids, and they make their own mistakes, and it's their
(cont.) ... it's their turn to long for forgiveness, sana they will realize kung gaano kahirap to be in a relationship, lalo na maging magulang, nagkakamali ang mga tao. And I hope they will appreciate lahat ng efforts ni Jackie to ask for forgiveness at hindi bumibitaw. Pano kaya kung si stepmom and Benjie ang nagkamali sa anak nila, tanggapin lang kaya nila pag pinagsabihang umalis na lang sila? Kung makapag judge kala mo sinong perfect!
Tama. Karamihan kasi ng mga tao dito ay puro na lang trauma ca ca na 'yan, nakakalimutan na nila kung ano naman ang naging kasalanan ni Benjie bakit nagkadispute silang dalawa in the first place.
Yes to 5:11... ano nga plano nila? WALA... sabi nga ni 10:31 THE END... PERIOD--tapos ang kwento!!! is what the father and stepmom wants. Why do they ignore Jackie e kasali sya sa equation at hindi nga pwede mawala at mabura kasi nga sya ang nanay? Kung patay na sana sya pwede...eh buhay na buhay nga ang nanay at ngumangawa na! This is a situation that needs to be addressed; and until they stop considering Jackie as a "mere nuisance" and not acknowledge her (as part of the boys' lives), I believe Jackie will and should never stop. It is not a BIG DEAL---Benjie should be man enough to discuss this with Jackie, HELP his sons re establish ties with their mother if he really is sincere and willing. MAHIRAP bang gawin yon...KAWALAN ba yon?.. eh tutal nga nanay naman nila ang pinapa acknowledge mo sa kanila at hindi naman kaklase o kapitbahay lang? GROW some ......and stop playing innocent and harmless benjie!
Yung mga kumekwestyon kay jackie, baka di pa kayo pinapanganak nung mabaliw baliw sya kakakuha sa mga anak nya. Sa mga iidolo sa mga batang ito, magisip isip kayo! Teenage mother ang nanay nila, what would you expec
benjie is the a here - lets not forget - he was 26 when he "married" jackie - who was 16. she was a CHILD. he was an ADULT. so lets say she was sl**ty - and ma**ndi - whatever - and threw herself at him - he was the ADULT - so he should have stayed away. in other countries - that is statutory rape. so if she is messed up - and their relationship fell apart etc.etc - again - it's his fault.
Any family breakdown is just sad. Lalo na if it's being publicized. Lahat talo. In this case, I think the kids are not yet ready to accept their mom back into their lives. As a mom, Jackie should understand and give her kids time because the more she forces herself into their lives, the more she alienates them. For Kobe and Andrei, I hope they will have a more mature and open take on things as they grow older. As with everything, it takes time. I hope in the end, they sort all their issues out. Family is family.
Obvious na forbidden at pinagbabawalan ang mga bata, dahil kung talagang may matinding galit due to trauma sila sa nanay nila, sila mismo lalapitan (or susulatan, or tatawagan) si Jackie noon pa man, para i-express ang galit nila. Walang preno ang mga bata, kung hate ka talaga nila at malaki ang kasalanan mo.
Kaso nga, ang naka program sa utak, bawal tawagan/lapitan si nanay.
eh nakanino ba ang mga bata in the firdt place? the court ruled in favor of the one who has the kids.. the fact na na kay benjie sila says everything.. trauma or not maghintay sa forgiveness darating din un... stop judging kc nkpagruling na ang court nuon pa!
The court did NOT grant custody, as Jackie explained. She signed a document giving him certain powers during a time when they were still civil to each other. She was planning to leave the country to study, and trusted Benjie to take care of the kids while she's away. When it became legal, Benjie started turning around and closed the doors. Watch and listen to her interview again. To mafe, she's more believable because she gives more details than Benjie's poker-faced rehashed statements. She trusted him and he took advantage of that!!
Nag ruling nga ang court-- custody lang naman yon to his favor(hindi ownership, hindi possession)..... regular lang naman yan sa mga naghihiwalay--- kaya dapat ang visitation rights ng ina ay hindi nila binale wala at nilabag. Sila na nga ang may custody, nakakalamang na nga, mang aagrabyado ka pa ba? Kelangan pa bang ipaabot ng social worker sa mga bata kung sino ang ina at kung sino ang step mom? Obviously, kinailangan sabihin at linawin kasi parang hindi yata alam sabihin at ituro ng ama yon at ng stepmom. At sasabihin yon ang trauma ng mga bata kay Jackie? Who designed it, who contributed to it? Palagay ba ni benjie malinis sya sa aspeto na yon?
I knew it all along. That girl just wants publicity because her kids are getting popular. Like I said, if she honestly wanted to apologize, do it privately.
ReplyDeletetrue. sariling image nya n nman ang sinasalba nya.sya n tong nagmukang kawawang nny n nlayo s anak hbang ung mga anak nya e nagmmukng di mbuting anak at mpagmtaas dhil di mptwad ang nnay.
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DeleteI disagree!matagal na siyang tumahimik...pero si lolit tinanong ang mga bata sa startalk about her...nasaktan naman ang lola niyo kasi walang paki yung kids at iloveyou dun sa tepmom tas tumatawa pa ang stepmom...jan nanaman nagstart yan ulet...although sa ig niya..matagal na siyang nagpopost about sa 2kids niya na namimiss nya ganun...
DeleteTo all of you above ako ay isang ama...alam nyo pa ba ang kanta pag naglilibing-- "malilimutan ba ng ina ang anak galing sa kanya" kung ang Diyos ay nagpapatawad tayo pa kaya...mamuhay nga kayong maayos at hindi puro sakay sa intriga bigyan nyo ng lalim ang mga buhay ninyo
DeleteFr sapagkat akoy tao lamang
eh, yung magwala,magsisigaw at mag iskandalo c jackie sa labas ng pre school ng mga bata noon along greenmeadows ave..pananahimik ba yun? bkit sina benjie lng ginugulo nya bkit di nya hanapin at guluhin din yung ama ng isa nya pang anak n lalaki.....
DeleteLast resort ni jackie 'tio. She has been trying to reach out for years...
DeletePeriod.
ReplyDeleteMay point naman yung mga bata. Why publicize everything? Kumukuha lang ng sympathy si Jackie sa public kaya niya pinupublicize mga ginagawa niyang pag reach out sa mga anak niya. She couldve done it privately pero hindi eh kaya kaduda duda ang tunay na intention. Lalo pa tuloy nagalit sa kanya mga anak niya.
ReplyDeleteI think Jackie has no choice but to go public because she has no direct contact with her kids. She wanted to be with her and any parents like me can emphatize with what she's going through. A mother will always be a mother no matter what, especially if she accepted her mistakes already.
Delete@7:36, its good of you to sympathize with her as a mother. In this case lang, i think the need of the kids should be prioritized, that's part of being a mother that jackie should know if as she says she has improved/grown up. She's dragging her kids through mud with what she's doing instead of letting them have a peaceful existence.
DeleteNapaka private na tao pa naman ni Benjie Paras at ung kids nya. Except lately kasi nga showbiz na din sila.
DeletePero kung meron naman emotional scaring, mahirap talaga magpatawad at mag move on. lalo na kung kids pa lang na experience.
How I wish I had a father like Benjie na syang sumasagot for his children. Ang mga ama talaga ay natural defender ng kanilang family
ReplyDeleteBenjie is such an admirable father. Nabasa ko noon mga batang bata pa mga anak niya dinadala niya lagi sa mga practice niya sa basketball at kahit saang lakad bilang single dad nga siya noon walang magbabantay sa mga bata. No wonder ganyan na lang ang paghanga at pagmamahal sa kanya ng dalawa niyang anak.
DeleteTruelala. Mayron sila sandalan lalo sa mga batikos
DeleteTrueee! Sana tatay ko na lang si Benjie. Tower of Power nga for his kids.
DeleteInggit much.
Pinabilib nya ako lalo sa interview nya ngayon.
Benjie, napadaan ka..
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Deletehi jackie!
ang gwapo at magagalang din naman ang mga batang to....let's just give them time...blood is thicker than water, pasasaan ba't mapapatawad din nila si jackie
ReplyDeleteChildhood traumas are very hard to forget. We have no right to judge these boys dahil hindi natin alam kung ano yung pinagdaanan nila. Some will say na bastos sila sa nanay nila, pero may dahilan ang lahat. Baka talagang malala yung naranasan nila noon kaya ganyan sila katigas ngayon. Hindi rin sila masisisi. Sana wag na lang pilitin kung ayaw talaga. Im sure in time pag matatanda na mga yan, mapapatawad na nila si Jackie. But I highly doubt na gugustuhin ng mga bata na magkaron ng relationship or connection with her.
ReplyDeleteTama ka. Some people are too quick to judge yet they don't know the real story. And upon taking a closer look at the faces of Andre and Kobe, it doesn't speak of happiness. Kitang-kita ang lungkot sa mga mata nila so I hope people will understand kasi grabe daw talaga yung nangyari sa kanila noon with Jackie. Pero darating din ang araw na mare-realize din nila ang lahat at magkakaayos din silang mag-iina.
DeleteInulit nyo Lang ung Sinabi ni Benjie!!!!!
DeleteI agree, mahirap talagang maalis ang trauma lalo na at naranasan ng batang katawan at isip. Kaya nga do not judge the two boys, may mga reasons for that & besides I think sa pagsasalita ni Benjie & sa tone ng voice niya, I bet napalaki naman niya ng maayos mga bata. Polite din naman sumagot ang dalawa.
DeleteVery, very well said 12:24
Deletepoor jackie, her kids hate her. but cant blame them, they are still kids. pag nagmature na sila then i guess they will be more open for forgiveness
ReplyDeleteyun na nga 'day kc mga bata hindi marunong magtanim ng sama ng loob. na-brainwash ang mga yan. ang 10 commandments eh di naituro ni benjie sa kanila. ke babata pa eh nagtatanim na ng galit sa tao at ginagamit pa ang kabataan nila para maexcuse sila. 'bend the tree while young' nga eh bakit antayin ang maturity bago turuan?
DeleteMature ba kamo? di ba sinabi na rin ni Benjie na may mga sariling isip na ang mga bata? Di pa ba mature ang mga yan? ilang taon ba dapat mag-mature? 40 years old? 50 years old?
Deletetrauma nga kasi! Wala ka man sama ng loob kapag natrauma ka mahirap yan mawala.. nag-seek pa nga yung mga bata ng help sa therapist noon which means malala nangyari.. di mo naman alam buong nangyari, malay ba natin baka bumabalik bad memories nila pag nakikita nila mom nila kaya di pa sila ready..
Deletesino maysabi sayong di marunong nagtanim ang mga bata... wag ka magmarunong... kaya nga indemand ang mga child psychiatrists e kc masama ang epekto ng chikdhood trauma
Delete214, you don't know what you are talking about.
DeleteAng galing ni 2:14. Child psychologist ang peg kuno. Pagpatuloy mo yan te.
Delete10 commandments? Nabasa mo ba yung 6th, 7th, 8th and 9th? Pareho kayo ni jackie na nagnibintang kay benjie ng kung anu ano samantalang wala namang dadaig sa kung ano mang nakita nila.
DeleteWow! Ang ganda ng pagpapalaki ni Benjie sa mga anak nya mga mapagmahal na anak(sarcastic) at magalang sa magulang(sarcastic)
ReplyDeleteO miss jackie napadaan ka..
Deletemapagmahal sila sa kanilang ama at stepmom. and they didn't really bash jackie, they just narrated what they want.
Deletemapagmahal silang anak sa mga taong tumayong ama at ina nila... iba ang ina sa egg donor
DeleteTumpak 5:35
DeleteKawawang mga bata....na brainwashed sila.
DeleteMapagmahal sila sa magulang na hindi nagcause ng trauma sa kanila~
DeleteBenjie is an epitome of a good father. Imagine, here in the Philippines matriarchal diba? Pag kids palang usually or talagang ang authority or pag aalaga at kakampihan ng court is the mother diba? Try to see the scenario, nasaan ang mga bata diba na kay Benjie? Another, kahit sino naman na bata kapag natrauma madadala nila hanggang pagtanda nila yung trauma na yun kaya siguro kids are not into their mother kasi sa trauma that it brought yung sa sinabi ni Benjie na about sa DSWD. Jackie has the right to get the kids kung pursigido talaga sya dapat dati pa noong hindi pa sila sikat compared sa ngayon at dapat hindi nya dinaan sa force. May mga nagsa succeed naman sa ganyang situation na kahit yung father yung nag aalaga e attach parin yung anak sa mother. I think on Jackie's part yes she miss her kids pero the point is why did she have to leave at before leaving PH ay binigyan nya pa ng trauma yung anak nya so ang hirap nun sa part ng kids nya imagine Benjie bringing his kids pag may
DeleteHay, I can see the sadness dito lalu na kc family matters
ReplyDeletekudos to benjie for being a great parent to kobe and andre. halatang uncomfortable ang kids to talk about the issue. so jackie, please just wait. ikaw may kasalanan, so ikaw ang maghintay.
ReplyDeleteKorek!
Deleteoo nga naman, and give them a break , they are just kids...! siguro pag nag-mature na (like in their 20s or 30s) magiging civil and more understanding na rin sila. I mean they are the same age now as when she had them, right? ngayon mga 30 plus na si Jackie and she's finally matured. so tama, hintay-hintay lang siya pag may time... and I like benjie. mahinahon siyang sumagot. walang drama. kahit naman noon hanga ako sa kanya as a player and now as an actor (natural comedian talaga siya).
Deletebetween Benjie and Jackie kahit hindi ko sila personal na kilala makikita mo kay Benjie yung sincerity at care nya sa mga bata. I'd like to think Jackie longs for her kids pero going public about it only brings unwanted public attention sa mga bata and yung stigma sa kanila. Mukhang mababait na bata at matatalino yung mga anak nila, I guess it only seals na he's a good father to them.
ReplyDeleteSi Jackie, attention seeker, to the point na immature na. Hindi nya makukuha mga bata sa puwersahan.
DeleteGusto nya kasi may magmamahal sa kanya. But you can't force someone to love you kahit na anak mo pa yan. Plain selfish lang yun. Mamahalin ka nila dahil mahal ka nila.
E di ba nga ayaw nilang makipag meet kay Jackie,
ReplyDeleteExactly!kya d na alam ni jackie kung san xa lulugar...
Deleteexactly!
DeleteI agree kaya nagawa na ni Jackie mag reach out sa mga Anak Nya Kasi Ayaw sa Kanya makipagkita..Kasi desperate na xa makasama ulit mga Anak Nya...
DeleteFamily problems should not be publicized kasi diba. Nangunguha lang ng sympathy si Jackie, eh alam naman niyang napaka-personal level nung problem. Napalayo pa lalo ang loob ng mga gwapo niyang anak, hay.
ReplyDeleteNaiyak ako when I watched Jackie's video dahil kung iisipin kung sa akin mangyari na mawalay ng matagal sa anak, sobrang sakit. Pero pag iniinterview ang paras kids, naaawa din ako dahil parang may sadness sa kanilang mukha when the topic is their mom. Imagine the impact of the scandals that she undrwent sa kanyang mga kids. Kung nabalitaan ng mga bata sa school, or nabalitaan nila thru parents of their friends, dagdag pa sa shame at trauma ng mga bata. Cnsabi ni Jackie na wala syang hinarm sa mga ginawa nya sa past kundi sarili nya, that's wrong kasi once na nagloko at napabalita ang isang magulang, nasasaktan din kaming mga anak bcoz we feel that we're one.
ReplyDelete-i really follow this issue bcoz nakakarelate
i agree. bk nasaktan mga kids ..minsan bk pinag chichismisan cla s school nkk rinig ng kung ano ano.. well cla lang ylaga nkk alam. sana maaus n nila ung prob nila
DeleteYes pero si Jackie naman kasi unang umalis eh so kaya ganyan ang maga kids. For me nakakaawa mga bata kasi imagine sa school for sure pag ganyan pag uusapan ng kung sino sino at hindi lang sa school even sa neighborhood nila.
DeleteMukhang malalim talaga ang pinaghuhugutan ng anak. tsk tsk then now gusto lang ng publicity para sumikat ulit.
ReplyDeleteNakaka distract yung ka cute-an ng anak ni benjie na nasa gitna lol
ReplyDeletetrue! :) hindi din ako nakapag concentrate
Deleteampopogi! tangkad pa! tisoy pa! at mukhang magagalang. they can put some so-called star magic a-list hunks to shame. pero kailangan pang pahinugin ng konti. siguro pag tumanda ng konti or makatapos ng schooling, saka sila sumabak sa showbiz full-time.
DeleteWhat did their mom actually do for her kids to be traumatized ng ganto katagal? Is it true that she did somethng in front of the kids?
ReplyDeleteOo nga! Mabuti nga at hindi nia nire reveal kung ano yun e.
DeleteTo Kobe and Andre if you want to erase your biological mother in your life you must also erase your face kasi kamukha nyo si Jackie. Whatever you say and whatever brainwashing benjie does to this kids hindi mabubura na si jackie ang ina nyo. And why don't you ask your father benjie kung bakit nya binuntis ang isang menor de edad na sya lang naman nanay nyo -- rm
ReplyDeletedaming satsat ni benjie sa interview eh wala namang naexplain.if i know tuwang tuwa sya dahil nirereject ng mga bata si jackie.bitter pa rin kc sya dahil di na sya labs ni jackie. kung ikaw mabuti kang ama dapat ikaw mismo ang maghikayat sa mga bata na sumama sa ina nila para mamasyal nung bata pa sila. mga bata hindi marunong magtanim ng sama ng loob kundi nabrainwash na sila. tsaka mga bata kayo kung makareact kayo parang hindi kayo minahal ng ina nyo, kahit nagkamali sya hindi ibig sabihin na di kayo mahal. tandaan nyo lang hindi kayo magiging masaya sa buhay nyo dahil sa ginagawa nyo sa nanay nyo. at ikaw naman benjie magpakaama ka turuan mo sila ng mabuting asal. kung ano ang ugali nila ngayon eh yun ang tinuro mo sa kanila. anong ready-ready ang sinasabi nyo ha? if they are not ready now then they will never be ready not ever. palusot pa kayo eh pare-pareho lang kayong walang puso. mararanasan nyo din sa mga anak nyo ang ginagawa nyo kay jackie ngayon.
DeleteBINUNTIS ANG MENOR DE EDAD! Que horror!
DeleteMAY maaga lang naghanap.
If the kids could erase their face, they would. Look at their faces. Kinahihiya nila nangyayari sa pamilya nila ngayon.
Ang harsh mo lang. kahit bali baligtarin mo ang may kasalanan ung ina nila! GOSH. Hndi issue dito ung edad na nabuntis sy. Ang isyu ung pagiging ina nya sa mga bata! Wag nyang idahilan ang pagiging 16 nya, sobrang lame. May pagkakamali si Benjie pero mabuti syang ama. Tanungin mo si Jackie nyan.
Deletepuso mo ateng,.hehe,.bwasan ang pgkain na mcholesterol,ha????
DeleteKaya nga nagsorry na siya di'ba, 2:07? Ano bang sinasabi mong kasalanana ni Jackie, eh nagsisi na nga 'yong tao? Ang issue dito ay 'yong ginagawa ni Benjie dahil.. huwag na tayong maglokohan kitang-kita naman sa pagmumukha niya at kilos niya kung gaano niya kagusto ang paghate ng mga bata kay Jackie. Imposible namang hindi siya sundin ng mga anak niya kung pagsabihan niya ang mga ito ng kunting lambot man lang para sa ina nila at ipagpasadiyos na lang ang lahat, di'ba? Ama siya! Kaya Imposibleng hindi siya pakinggan kung kunting lambot lang naman ang sinasabi niya... Yan ay kung hindi niya talaga iniinvolve mga anak niya sa feud nila ni Jackie dahil hindi ako naniniwala na sa tagal ba namang 'yon? Imposibleng hindi mabawasan ang galit nila kung maganda ang pagpapalaki niya.
Deleteang babaw naman ng argument mo. if someone looked like hitler, does that make him a hitler as well? we don't know the entire story. we don't know the reason why they don't like jackie. and we do not know if benjie really brainwashes the kid. in fact, based on the interview, it's not true that jackie was barred from seeing the two boys. to be told to go with jackie after the trauma and pointing that the stepmom is not their real mother leaves a very bad taste in the mouth, makes me wonder if she was really a social worker. getting married and being pregnant at 16 is no longer the issue here. the fact that if jackie never got pregnant, wala sana siyang hinahabol ngayon. and these boys would not have existed. it takes two to tango and jackie made the choice to marry benjie. and obviously, jackie supporter ka.
DeleteSi jackie lou siguro yan
DeleteReader dn pla ang FP c jackie at mga relatives nia....
DeleteThe kids have an option na siraan si Jackie pero ang sinasabi lang nila is sinabihan na nilang huminto na sya sa pag publicize at wala silang sinasabi na masama si Jackie e si Jackie sinasabi niyang kesyo hindi welcome sa bahay nila Benjie kesyo pinipigilan o sino ngayon ang nagpapa mukhang kawawa sa public? Kahit naman sino maiinis diba?
DeleteTama yan. Pinili kasi ng mga bata magiing ina nila, no? Kasalanan pa nila na nanay nila siya, no? Galing mo, klap klap.
DeleteBut I won't let you go without putting some intellect into you. Somehow you must realize that your biological connection is only limited at certain point, and whatever happens after will then affect whatever you feel towards a person. You can't erase trauma, sir. If erasing their face would actually make them forget everything, then they would. The problem is your too emotional that you fail to see the problem in a bigger scale. Malalim ang sugat ng mga bata hindi lang dahil masama iyong ginawa ni Jackie, kundi dahil nanay nila un nakita nilang may gawa nun. Trust vs mistrust. And if Benjie did not do his job as a father well, then perhaps these kids will be deranged for all throughout their lives. They respect their mother by not bashing her. Sana man lang kahit iyon makita niyo.
@207am which part didn't you understand? how Benjie narrated what happened 5 years ago with the lawyer and social worker? how he gave consent to Jackie to visit their kids, even with a lawyer in tow? how they refuse to put out everything in media? how he did not say bad about jackie? kinakausap nga daw niya ang boys but the boys refused. ans the trauma happened in boracay with the mother! anong sinasabi mo na hindi pinasyal ang mga bata? ang madami satsat yung idol mong si jackie. 2 lang ang tema ng sinasabi niya: asking for forgiveness and blaming benjie and the stepmom for the situation. she has never explained herself and never specified what happened. bakit di niya sabihin na binigyan siya ng 60K dollars ni benjie for studies kuno. nakakagigil ang mga ibang commenters dito about saying walang modo ang mga bata. WALA TAYO SA POSISYON NILA AT HINDI NATIN ALAM KUNG ANO NANGYARI. Childhood trauma is very hard to overcome. Respect what the kids want. Don't quote the bible here and if
DeleteTo Anon 4:49 sa generation ngayon ang mga bata hindi na madaling ibrain wash. Inallow nya nga na pumunta si Jackie sa bahay diba? Part na ni Jackie na gawin yun at hindi excuse na binuntis dahil for sure kagustuhan nya yon gaya ng sinabi ni anon 5:15 it takes two to tango at hindi kasalanan na mabuntis okay that's a blessing ang kasalanan ay yung act ng hindi pa kayo kasal at trauma na mga bata diba? Aside sa finorce sila iniwan pa kahit sinong bata mafi-feel na parang nireject sila kung ganun diba? Yes without Jackie hindi ganyan mukha ng mga yan pero hindi yun basehan na wala ng rights ang mga bata na magalit or i neglect ang nanay nila kasi at the first place si Jackie ang umalis at ngayon babalik siya kung kelan the kids are making their way to the limelight? After 8 years saka mo hahabulin? Wow is that a good mother? 1 hour lang na hindi mo kasama anak mo for sure ang hirap na diba e sya years nakapag adjust na at kinilala na nilang mommy yung stepmom nila
Delete5:15, ang tinutukoy ko ay yong reaksyon ni Benjie hindi 'yong face niya mismo at purket nakapagsalita lang ng ganyan Jackie supporter na?? Ang babaw mo, ha. LOL...Well, according sa bagong post ni Jackie ay pinagbawalan nga siya na makita ang mga bata kaya siya nagfile ng Motion noon. Well, ang aking lang ay nagtataka lang ako kung bakit anong ginawa or hindi ginawa ni Benjie bakit hanggang ngayon ay galit pa din ang namumutawi sa puso at isipan ng mga batang ito kasi sa tagal ba namang 'yon? Imposible eh na hindi maiibsan 'yon.
DeleteHindi ko naman sinasabi na walang silang karapatang magalit, 449, pero ewan ha pero maraming mga bata ngayon na gusto nilang makita ang mga parents nila pagkatapos ng lahat ng ginawa nila or kasalanan ng magulang nila sa kanila. So, na sa pagpapalaki 'yan ng magulang.
DeleteIf I could recall it right, may masamang karanasan or i think abuse din na naranasan si jackie when she was young. This, could explain siguro sa behavior and decisions nya in life like early marriage kc cguro she would want someone who can be her knight.
ReplyDeleteTama. She was from a broken family. Always looking for love in the wrong places. Pag stable na, maghahanap ng thrill. tapos pag nawala lahat, breakdown. Blame others, self-pity pa.
DeleteThe only person who can love you the way you want to is yourself. She's self-destructing and I hope she gets some help too.
Tama!at si benjie nag take advantage...at tinilerate pa mga anak nya ihate ang sarili nilang ina...kung mabuting ama ka dapat di mo pinagkakait sa mga bata na magkaroon ng feelings na ganun towards sa ina nila...at kahit anu pa kasalanan ni jackie nanay at nanay prn un...at nagbago naman xa ipinaglalaban naman ang karapatan niya..pero aiya hinayaan niya ang mga bata di man lang pumagitna at guide mga anak na wag itrato ang nanay nila ng ganun..pansin mondi truly happy ang mga anak..obvious na my sumthing parin sila sa nanay nila..pro mas pinapansin nila ung hatred kesa pagmamahal nila sakanya...
Deletealam nyo pare pareho taung walang alam kung ano nangyari. so wag natin sisihin si benjie or si jackie o mga anak nya. lets just pray for thwm n maging maaus ung rel nila
Deletebkit nyo sinasabi na nagtake advantage si benjie? 16 was then a legal age to get married. benjie made a decent woman out of her pero pinili pa rin nya magwala... she had everything a woman could ask for sya ang nagtapon
DeletePsychologist ka rin, 3:01? Galing naman.
DeleteYou don't have to be a Psychologist for not being able to discern everything, 3:01. Ang babaw mo ha.
DeleteAll I can say is ang popogi niyo grabe ganda ng mix niyo jackie and benjie..pasalamat na lang kayo sa genes ng both parents ninyo..and I know time heals everything..eventually maggng ok din ang lahat so jackie wag natin ipilit..sooner or later they will realize and will be able to forgive..everything in god's timing jackie..
ReplyDeleteWala naman kayong karapatan diktahan sa mga batang ito kung anong dapat nilang sabihin o gawin, buhay nila ang pinaguusapan dito, karanasan nila hindi sa inyo. Let them be.
ReplyDeletekorek!
DeleteTunay, ateng. Check na check.
DeleteKung ayaw muna kausapin si jackie then let it be mas pinipilit mas lalong lalayo and ano ba tlga yung real reason why natrauma sila?
ReplyDeleteI think for publicity bakit nmn pupunta ka sa pinas para nagpainterview lang sa the buzz why not puntahan mo sa house nila dun sa gate mag hunger strike ka hahaha
ReplyDeleteBaka gate pa lang ng sub or village dna yan makakapasok,wehehehe
Deleteknowing abs cbn they sponsor the whole thing to get a scoop. and diba Jackie joined the Survival Philippines before? she was here di ba? why she didn't made a move to seek the kids, why now when the boys suddenly in the limelight saka nag iingay. madaming way. wag na i media. and the trauma that you brought to the kids, dala dala nila yan up to sa pagtanda. di na erase yan it will reflect sa pag pili nila ng partners in life and handle ng kids. Benjie never said any bad thing about Jackie in fairness naman.
DeleteHer goal was to get their attention but it looks like she pushed them away even further.
ReplyDeleteStop na daw sabi ng mga anak mo Jackie, so dapat magstop ka na. Stop means kaput! Pinutol na nila ang anumang kaugnayan nila sa'yo kaya kahit masakit man sa'yo wala kang magagawa. Magkaroon ka naman ng pride at awa sa sarili mo. Talo ka na, wala ka nang magagawa dahil na kay Benjie ang Alas. Ipagpasadiyos mo na lang ang lahat at ang anumang away ninyo ng x mong asawa. Kung ayaw pa din sa'yo ng mga anak mo pagkatapos ng paghingi mo ng sorry then huwag mong ipilit; intindihin mo na lang. Ifocus mo na lang yang time at pagmamahal mo sa ibang mga anak mo na ang cucute na pwede kang mahalin at ipagmalaki in the future. Hindi natatapos ang buhay sa kanila,Jackie. Move on!
ReplyDeleteI agree! she has to move on and focus on her other two children / new family esp she mentioned how she is so loved by her dutch hubby. You are so lucky Jacky kasi God has blessed you with 2 more kids and a loving and respectful husband. Make them your priority for now, you made enough effort to ask forgiveness from your other kids. God works in wonders kaya maayos nyo rin yan.
DeleteForgive! Nag sosorry na eh!
ReplyDeletePls don't tell them what to do esp since we have no idea what she did that traumatized her kids~
DeleteAng taong ayaw magpatawad ay laging naghahanap ng butas para hindi mapatawad ang isang tao. Kaya stop ka na Jackie dahil hindi lang naman sila ang mga anak mo, eh?
ReplyDeleteif the kids can't accept jackie there must be a reason wag nyo naman i-judge ang mga bata. if jackie wants their forgiveness she should do it behind the cameras. because at the end of the day it is a personal thing the public should not be involve anymore.
ReplyDeleteKobe is my brother's batchmate in ateneo. Until the day na tinanggal ni benjie sila sa ateneo (grade 4 ata si kobe), i never saw jackie visit the kids... kahit pasulyap sulyap wala... si benjie nandun everytime... walang event ng mga anak niya na wala siya... very supportive... si jackie even sa open house ng ateneo never ko nakita... so how can she say na nag reach out siya... she was never there during the formative years... busy sita sa life niya to bother with her kids?!?!
ReplyDeleteThank you for this insight. A little something to make others realize how a mother could still be mother.
DeleteJackie never visited her kids sa ateneo ... si benjie lang nakikita namin, cheering his kids on... kakatawa nga yan kasi front and center siya palahi to get videos... si benjie talaga kumukuha... di niya inaasa aa mga alalay... saka very supportive siya lalo na pag family day... sumasali sa games... si jackie, ni silip di namin nakita... kahit sa fair na open for everybody, we never saw her... busy siguro sa life niya to bother reaching iyt during their formative years?!?
ReplyDeleteateneo? sure ka nandun ka? hindi ba dlsu ang mga batang ito before Andre enrolled in UP now
DeletePaanong dlsu 10:41 eh first year college nga ngayon si andre, na panganay, sa UP di ba? 17 lang sya so first time nya mag college. Di ba pang kolehiyo ang dlsu? Kokontra lang di pa nag research. Lsgh po ba ang ibig ninyong sabihin? According to Ms. KAY Y.... galing din silang Ateneo nung gradeschool. Mag Google bago mag comment!
DeleteAnonymousJuly 27, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Deletehi jackie! galit na galit ka dahil nabuko na kahet kasal pa kayo magasawa, d ka pumupunta sa activities ng anak mo?
These kids will never go far from where they are now, nag showbiz na sila forever ng kasunod ang pang alang Jackie sa showbiz career nila. Honestly they were brainwashed, kahit na anong sabihin ni Benjie, Mali sya sa pagpapalaki sa mga anak Nya na me galit sa Ina. Ang Ina ay Ina walang gagawin yan na di para sa mga anak. The stepmom really never wasted time to do the same.
ReplyDeletewala kang karapatang magjudge ke benjie at sa mga bata dahil wala kang alam... nakikibasa at nakikinood ka lang
Deletewow diyos ka ba para magsabing walang mararating ang dalawang batang to...iba ang ina....iba ang egg donor...habang nagpapasarap sya iba ang nagpapalaki sa anak nya tPos ngayun ngangawa ngawa sya
DeletePsychiatrist ka teh? Tanong mo psychiatrist or counselors na nakarinig sa statements ng mga bata. Unanimous ang mga advice nila pati ng mga abogado na di pa sila ready so pilitin man yan o pigilan ng mga taong nagpalaki sa kanila, they are damaged and scarred as of the time being. To force them would only make things worse for them. Nothing outsiders say will change what they experienced first hand.
DeleteKung mali pagpapalaki sa kanila, then they could have bashed Jackie down into the roots. But did they do that? No. That's respect, sir. And I believe respecting someone you hate is a difficult job. Benjie was able to foster that environment for them to grow like that. Now tell me how could that be wrong?
DeleteHow old we're these kids 5 years ago, pwede na ba nilang masabi na " we're not ready give us time" lol I guess if they were already in their teens masasabi nila yan.. I guess they were told what to say if their mom comes to get them. I have a 12 years old son and he is really child pa whn it comes to saying mature things...hiwalay kami ng asawA ko...but I never said bad or insinuate that that his dad is a bad person or not to go with him when he visits. My ex husband is total pain in the @ass. But what ever we gone through our marriage I never seek revenge thru my son by hating him. The dswd thing, it's but right to tell the truth to the kids that they should go with mother because shes their real mother . Dapat ang ginawa ni Benjie nung time na yun ay pumagitna sya he should've appease the child and explain what the dswd was sayiing. Hindi yung magalit din sya , tsk. Clear as the blue sky, the kids were brainwashed kahit na intanggi pa Nya.
ReplyDeletepsychologist ka teh? ang mga bata ngayon , they're more mature than we think. Di ba nila kaya magisip ng desisyon when they are 10 and 12 years old? they can opt to go or stay.
DeleteTruelaloo 2:10 pm. Sabi nga ni benjie kahapon sa startalk, matatalino lang nakakaintindi sa kanya. At ayan nanaman yang "brainwash" na yan na excuse ng mga taong di matanggap na kaya na nina Andre at Kobe mag decide sa murang edad. Therefore, ms. 6:57 am is.....?
Delete5:02, kung talagang matured/matalino silang mag-isip bakit hindi nila kayang balansehen at patawarin ang mom nila despite of the fact na ilang years na ang nakakaraan? Iba pala ang meaning ng maturity sa'yo.
DeleteAnonymous July 29, 2013 at 7:01 AM
Deletewala yan sa panahon. ang isang taong nirape kunyari, after a few years ba makakalimutan niya? we don't know the entire story. trauma can happen to anyone, but the impact of that trauma is relative to the person who was subjected to it.
stop judging them. we are not in a position to do so.
hay...ang sakit! I guess tama ang kasabihan, "Ang anak, natitiis ang MAGULANG, ang magulang di matitiis ang ANAK na galing sa kaniya". sige lang Jackie, what goes around comes around. pray na lang para sa inyong mag-iina. in God's time, in His own phase, pasasaan ba't maghihilom ang lahat.
ReplyDeleteNega ang mga batang'to... Madami diyan iniwan ng parents pero natutong mag forgive and tanggapin mga magulang na nagkulang... So arrogant... So much bitterness... 'Yan ba ang tamang pagpapalaki... Don't forgive and forget.. Tsk..tsk..
ReplyDeletemas bitter ka... nakikibasa ka lang nagjudge ka na agad
DeleteMahirap makalimutan ang childhood trauma. Pasalamat ka wala kang na experience na trauma tulad mg mga batang yan kaya you can make judgemental comments like that.
DeleteBOOM 5:42! Yun na yun eh!
DeleteYah, i agree, nega agad ang aura ng mga bata! How could you treat your mom that way? She's been asking for your forgiveness a long time ago...
DeleteHindi ko nanaisin na pamarisan or gawin kyong idol ng mga anak ko... Di marunong magpatawad, sariling ina! Kung ang Diyos nga nagpapatawad!
ReplyDeleteMadaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin. Lalo na ngayon na isinapubliko ni Jackie ung isyu ng kanilang pamilya. They just want to live a normal life. Ok na sila. Just let them be.
DeleteNah. You forgive someone who deserves it. These kids give their mother respect.
DeleteAnd please, as if you could control the mind of your kids. If you could, then you're the brainwasher.
Sabi din ng Diyos, huwag manakit ng kapwa. Jesus is Lord and peg mo sa pangaral, teh??
DeleteI don't think na brainwashed ang mga bata, mga teenagers na sila me mga sarili ng isip, si jackie naman kasi why say sorry in public me point nga naman mga kids Nya. She should say sorry to her kids personally not publicly because the public doesn't know everything, I'm a mother too Pero I can't imagine she waited that long and now she can't wait parang napa bayaan na masyadong malalim siguro tapos malalim Rin ang sugat. Kaya jackie wait ka na Lang sorry masyadong masakit daw.
ReplyDeleteJackie herself went thru a lot as a kid... Kung ano man ang nangyari before sa kanila ni Benjie, sila na lang nakakaalam nun. What Jackie wants is for her kids to know her "now", now that she is more mature, whole and have turned herself around. She's been trying to reach out but to no avail. In all fairness, though she's been trying to reach out via social networking, naunang magsalita publicly ang mga bata about their trauma etc. Jackie is trying to defend herself which is but normal. Any one who felt she is being judged w/o trial, should stand and speak up.
ReplyDeleteI dont know bakit hanggang ngayon hindi pa kayo ready? U are still full of hatred & bitterness. Remember kung wala ang nanay niyo wala kayo ngayon
ReplyDeleteMga bata pa kasi sila. I think Kobe is around 15 while Andre is 16 or 17, parang ganun. Nasa awkward stage ng pagmamature ang isang tao upon reaching mid-teens kaya normal lang yung mararanasan nila ang hatred or bitterness sa ilang mga tao o bagay. Darating din ang panahon na kapag malaki na sila, unti-unti na nilang mauunawaan ang lahat at magkakaayos din sila ni Jackie. So instead of judging them, intindihin na lang natin sila. I think yun naman ang tanging hinihingi nila sa publiko.
Deleteu will never know why kasi di ka nman part ng buhay nila kaya wala ka karapatanagjudge
DeleteWhy, did they have the decision to choose who their mom will be? Isa kang malaking fallacy, dude.
DeletePayong kaibigan Jackie, if you want to get close to your sons do it privately. They are at an age where they don't like to be put on the spot...they are teenagers. The more you publicly bug them to be close to you, the more they will run away. That is how teenagers are.
ReplyDeleteDon't air their dirty laundry in public because that is child abuse. You are psychologically shaming them in public by airing your family's dirty laundry on television.
Stop pushing their boundaries. Obviously these children have had some kind of trauma/brainwashing and if they are asking you for space and time...pls. give it to them. Love and forgiveness takes lots of time and patience. You cannot rush/force someone to love and respect you.
If you want to sue Benjie Paras then go to court. But don't speak to the media. Let your lawyers speak. Your children need stability in their lives and your behavior in the media has been very eratic which will continue to drive your sons away. Again, this is a private family mater so do this privately.
I sincerely hope that you and your children will have a good relationship in the future.
Sa nakikita ko sa 2 bata ito sobrang traumatized. Ikaw ba naman na bata at takutin ng tiga DSWD at ipilit na "hindi mo nanay (stepmom) yan, eto ang totoo mong nanay (Jackie)". Tapos pag bibisitahin ni Jackie ang mga bata may kasamang lawyer o social worker na parang nanggugulo ang dating.. matru traumatize talaga yan.
ReplyDeleteSiguro naramdaman ng mga bata ang tunay na pagmamahal at aruga ng ina sa stepmom.
Hi stepmom!napadaan ka.:.kaya nga may dalang lawyer dba kasi d pinapasama sa nanay???ang sinasabi ni benjie kausapin ang nga bata...pwede naman siya makiusap sa mga bata kung ayaw ng mga bata sa nanay nila...pwede niyang pagsabihan kasi kahit papano nanay prn nila un...pero anu ginawa nya?parang gustong gusto pa niya nirereject ng mga anak niya ung nanay nila...eh kung siya nakiusap sa mga bata maniniwala pa ang mga un
DeleteFor me ang dating ng pagsama ng social worker and abogado ay dahil oppressed ang pakiramdam nya. Think about it, kung open talaga ang bahay ni Benjie as he claims, at tinutulungan ni Benjie ang mga bata to reconcile with their mom, bakit magsasama pa ng backup si Jackie.. ibig sabihin she needed to fight her way in
Delete@623
Deletesiguro guard ka sa bahay nina benjie to claim na di siya pinapapasok.
nakausap niya ang mga bata di ba? sinasama niya ang mga bata paalis, but the child refused.
give them space. wag pilitin ang ayaw. when they are ready, sila pa mismo pupunta sa malaysia.
@1121
DeleteWala akong kine claim, basahin mong mabuti. Opinyon ko yan.
Ikaw, paano mo alam nakausap nya mga bata? Andon ka din? Just because sinabi ni Benjie, yon ang totoo?
Taga QC-RTC ako 10:38.... nasilip ko ang documents that Benjie is telling the truth. LOL
DeleteTo 5:05 - sige nga pakita mo para mabasa ng buo.Mahirap kc magcomment based on claim mo lang
Deleteeh di supalpal ka 1038? maglabas ka din ng pruweba mo if you know the story.
Delete1150- if u think supalpal ako with an invisible document claimed by another invisible anonymous person, sya.
DeleteFor me as simple as this, for once para matigil sa pagiging desperado si Jackie.. Let the 2 boys or let them and Jackie talk privately.. Just for once.. If they don't really want to their mudra to see anymore or want them to have a space then say it in Jackie's face.. For sure titigil yan si Jackie..
ReplyDeleteKorek!!!mahirap kay jackie tumigil...kc nga wala xang hold...need talaga sila mag usap..pro mukhang ayaw ng mga kampo ng mga bata mga matatanda dun...bka natatakot lumambot puso na mga bata...base dun sa ig ni jackie unv mga kamag anak ata sa side ni jackie di narin pinapakusap sakanila
DeleteDid you watch the video? Benjie already said Jackie and the kids talked face to face. Not only once.
Delete" not only once" that was 5 years ago Kung pakikinggan mo ung video and stories..how about this year? That is why Jackie is freaking out.. No, communication. No one advice them to talk to their mother even for a day..tsk..
DeleteYung palaging pinapamukha ni jackie is at the end of day, sya pa rin ang nanay nila but sorry nowadays love, respect and affection is earned, not given. May ibang parent nga na hinahalay anak nila, yung version lang ni jackie towards her kids is emotional abuse. I think her kids has already forgiven her but they cant forget the trauma that jackie has caused during their childhood.
ReplyDeleteSeriously people!!! Brainwash??? Very teleserye ang mindset nyo. These kids seem to be intelligent, I don't think that their strong opinions about their moms are simply based on their dad's influence. Huwag nyong insultuhin yung mga bata, May pinangagalingan yung hinanakit nila sa nanay nila.
ReplyDeleteOnce they're now in their 20s or 30s, doon na nila mare-realize that in the end, Jackie is still their mother. Mga bata pa kasi sila at parang kailan lang noong naranasan nila yung emotional abuse kay Jackie. Hindi ganun kadali para mag-move on sila agad kasi naryan pa rin yung pain at sadness. Tignan niyo ng maigi ang mga mata nila at maging sa pananalita hindi mo masasabing masayang-masaya sila kasi may kulang rin.
ReplyDeleteang daming holier than thou ang attitude ng iba dito.
ReplyDeleteang sukatan ng pagiging ina ay hindi lang dahil sya ang naglabas sa kanila..ang tunay na pagmamahal ang syang sukatan..mas ina pa nga ang step mom nila kesa kay Jackie..kung ayaw ng mga bata makita ka muna then manahimik ka na muna..malay mo makita nila ang sincerity mo later on..kung sincere ka nga.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nagsasabi na "wala kayo dyan kung wala nanay nyo" - its easy to be called a mom but its not easy being a "mom" siguro nga siya nagluwal ng mga bata pero pinandigan nya ba pagiging ina nya nung kelngan nila siya? Madali kasi sabihin na patawarin na unless kayo yung andun sa sitwasyon. Tsktsk.
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DeleteSuper agree.yung iba kung makasabing walang utang na loob.FYI hindi nila sinabing iluwal sila sa mundo kaya wala silang utang na loob kay jackie
DeleteI would not let my kids admire Kobe and Andre. What values would my kids get from them? Not to honor their mother? Jackie may have done the worst sin possible but that does not erase the fact that she is the one that gave birth to them. Pictures don't lie, they were happy before and in the video, they said they love her. Somehow I believe the love is still there.
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Deleteyes, pictures do not lie. but the question is, were these pictures taken before or after the traumatic experience?
giving birth to a child does not make you a mother.
So true..
DeleteNapako na kayo sa traumatic experience na yan na hindi naman nilalabas ng mga boys or magulang kay Jackie para maisaayos. Oo na may trauma, pero ganun na lang ba yon, as in The End... Eh si Barabas nga pinatawad? Sino ba tong mga parents na to para hayaan isipin ng bata na hindi importante ang magpatawad. So hayaan na lang ang mga kids na habangbuhay may dalang galit? Malaking kapalpakan yon bilang magulang, so wag na silang magpa cute dyan na napakabuti nilang parents. Tsaka bakit ba puro ang focus at mystery eh kung ano ang nagawa ni Jackie Forster sa mga bata...wala bang magtatanong kung ano ba ang ginawa (o hindi ginawa) ni Benji Paras at nagkakaganito si Jackie hagulgol ang inabot? At nagkanda desperado na at nasa last resort na? Si Jackie lang ba ang pwedeng magkamali? Besides kung may nagawa man si Jackie saludo ako sa kanya at least nagpapaka humble na. Nagsosorry kung may pagkukulang man at gusto makipagusap. Si Benjie at ang bago niyang asawa wala, puro pride. Baho ng
Deletetama 10:31
DeleteExactly 1031... gusto ni benji and stepmom THE END-- PERIOD---- hwag nang magkausap usap at magka ayos ang totoong mag-iina....which is incomprehensible. They have every means to exercise due and proper influence na hindi mamasamain and ire reject ng bata,but do they even lift a finger? parang may nakikitang nakahandusay na stranger, asking for assistance at hindi mo man lang matulungan, gayong alam mong may kakayahan kang tumulong in more ways than one? Saan at paano naging tama ang ganoon?
Deletesabi nga ni benjie, matatalinong tao lang nakakaintindi sa kanya. #fact!
DeleteFor Benjie and 3:26:
DeleteYan ang excuse ng mga walang masabing matino. Tinatapos and usapan dahil walang defense.
Totoo, ma-aari na higit na nagpaka-ina ang step mom nila pero kung humihingi na ng kapatawaran si Jackie ay bakit naman hindi bigyan ng second chance. I will use the Christian card here. It's unChristian not to honor and forgive a mother. I am not an expert on other religion but perhaps their teachings also include honoring mothers and forgiveness. Kakatapos ko lang mapanood ang The Voice at ang isa sa mga auditionee dun ay nilayasan ng kaniyang ina at for a long time this girl and her family don't know where the Mom was pero ang batang ito at 16 y/o ay handang patawarin ang kaniyang ina. Si Jackie noon pa man, nag attempt at nag try na makipagkita sa mga bata. Si Jackie lang ba kaya at ang sinasabing karanasan ng mga bata sa kaniya ang nagmold sa ganitong attitude ng mga anak nya Ano kaya ang naging role ni Mr. Paras at ng kanilang step mom? Nagtatanong lang naman.
ReplyDeleteOo nga, eh.. Siguro pinalaki siyang walang galit sa mga real parents niya. Tinuruan siyang magpatawad kaya nawala 'yong pait sa puso niya.
DeleteUntil you have been betrayed by your own mother, don't be too quick to judge these kids. Masakit to be betrayed by a friend or a lover. But can you imagine the hurt of being betrayed by your own mother. It does not matter if she married young and had a kid when she was just a teenager. Age is never an excuse to hurt your children. My own mother abandoned us to be with her boyfriend when we were just teenagers and left us to fend for ourselves with just a caretaker in the house. She left us no money. She just told us that it was time for our father to provide for us. My lola had to live with us because my dad was living with another woman. This kind of hurt will never leave you so I can imagine the hurt that these kids are feeling so leave them alone. Jackie is just thinking of her own peace of mind and her own happiness without taking into consideration the feelings of her children. By releasing the video, she is in fact manipulating and pressuring the children to contact her. I
ReplyDeletesumasakit ang dibdib ko sa kanila.. kakaawa mga bata.. torn between love and hate to their mom.. wawa jackie kasi ayaw i forgive.. di sya matatahimik.. wawa benjie mukha ng p
ReplyDeleteI cannot say that Jackie is a bad mother because I don't know why they broke up pero pinagtataka ko lang e diba minors pa yung mga bata at sabi dinala sa court yung about sa custody ng mga bata? Bakit hindi si Jackie ang nanalo sa custody e pareho naman silang may work ni Benjie? And come to think of it dapat nung wala sakanya yung custody finallow nya nalang yung rule na bisitahin mga anak nya. Kung talagang nanay ka no matter what you'll do everything kahit wala sayo mga anak mo na to maintain a harmonic relationship with them. You can't blame the kids for having trauma and awkward sakanila pag usapan about the mother. Look at the initial reaction of Kobe nung birought up yung issue nagka tinginan pa sila magkapatid before answering the question, I don't think binrain wash ni Benjie ang mga bata, mga bata ngayon matatalino na eh at even without Jackie nataguyod ni Benjie ang mga anak niya and raised them well, yes Jackie bore them but sino ba ang nagpakita ng love ng tunay na nanay
ReplyDeleteHindi nga daw sya natalo sa custody, WILLING syang pumirma ng document dahil in good terms sila ni benjie non! At binisita nga nya ang bahay hindi sya pinagbubuksan, maraming beses. Hindi makakarating sa ganitong point kung pinapapasok si Jackie and kinakausap nila ng matino ang mga kids at si Jackie para MAGKABATI sa simula pa lang. Panoorin mo muna yung interview with boy abunda
Deletepuro na lang "We're or They're not yet ready." I cant believe nobody in the presscon asked, Eh KELAN PO KAYA MAGIGING READY? and PAANO magiging ready? Ano plano nyong lahat para maging ready sila? Benjie what exactly have you done para maging ready sila? Nagkakagulo na nga, imbes na tawagan or puntahan si Jackie para magkaayusan ng matino, puro na lang press release para ulit ulitin lang yung dating sinasabi -- more space and more time pa daw! Kunyari ba may kumkatok sa pintuan ng bahay, tapos sumigaw ka "sandali lang! just give me more time please" Pero actually hindi ka bumabangon para buksan or wala ka palang balak buksan ang pinto.. So kung gusto nilang pamilya ng "more time" hindi fair na wala silang balak na magdiscuss ng action plan with Jackie. Puro na lang pagmamaganda at pagmamalinis. Teach your kids na walang taong perpekto, maski kayo, learn to accept the good and bad in every person. Pag nag mature na ang kids, and they make their own mistakes, and it's their
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Delete... it's their turn to long for forgiveness, sana they will realize kung gaano kahirap to be in a relationship, lalo na maging magulang, nagkakamali ang mga tao. And I hope they will appreciate lahat ng efforts ni Jackie to ask for forgiveness at hindi bumibitaw.
Pano kaya kung si stepmom and Benjie ang nagkamali sa anak nila, tanggapin lang kaya nila pag pinagsabihang umalis na lang sila? Kung makapag judge kala mo sinong perfect!
Tama. Karamihan kasi ng mga tao dito ay puro na lang trauma ca ca na 'yan, nakakalimutan na nila kung ano naman ang naging kasalanan ni Benjie bakit nagkadispute silang dalawa in the first place.
DeleteYes to 5:11... ano nga plano nila? WALA... sabi nga ni 10:31 THE END... PERIOD--tapos ang kwento!!! is what the father and stepmom wants.
DeleteWhy do they ignore Jackie e kasali sya sa equation at hindi nga pwede mawala at mabura kasi nga sya ang nanay? Kung patay na sana sya pwede...eh buhay na buhay nga ang nanay at ngumangawa na!
This is a situation that needs to be addressed; and until they stop considering Jackie as a "mere nuisance" and not acknowledge her (as part of the boys' lives), I believe Jackie will and should never stop.
It is not a BIG DEAL---Benjie should be man enough to discuss this with Jackie, HELP his sons re establish ties with their mother if he really is sincere and willing. MAHIRAP bang gawin yon...KAWALAN ba yon?.. eh tutal nga nanay naman nila ang pinapa acknowledge mo sa kanila at hindi naman kaklase o kapitbahay lang? GROW some ......and stop playing innocent and harmless benjie!
Yung mga kumekwestyon kay jackie, baka di pa kayo pinapanganak nung mabaliw baliw sya kakakuha sa mga anak nya. Sa mga iidolo sa mga batang ito, magisip isip kayo! Teenage mother ang nanay nila, what would you expec
ReplyDeletebenjie is the a here - lets not forget - he was 26 when he "married" jackie - who was 16. she was a CHILD. he was an ADULT. so lets say she was sl**ty - and ma**ndi - whatever - and threw herself at him - he was the ADULT - so he should have stayed away. in other countries - that is statutory rape. so if she is messed up - and their relationship fell apart etc.etc - again - it's his fault.
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY. Kadiri! May mali sa taong ganyan, and kitang kita ngayon.
DeleteShe's been begging for forgiveness... Baka kailangan niya muna magkasakit or mawala... By then it would be too late... Sana huwag namAn ganun katagal!
ReplyDeleteMas bilib sana ako kay Benjie kung napalaki niya yungga bata na walang hinanakit sa ina...
ReplyDeleteagree!
Deleteyou will never understand jackie's situation until you become a mom..
ReplyDeleteSorry Jackie, but I still believe that making babies DOES NOT MAKE you a parent!
ReplyDeleteSorry Anonymous, but I still believe that she went BEYOND just making these babies hello :-/
DeleteAny family breakdown is just sad. Lalo na if it's being publicized. Lahat talo. In this case, I think the kids are not yet ready to accept their mom back into their lives. As a mom, Jackie should understand and give her kids time because the more she forces herself into their lives, the more she alienates them. For Kobe and Andrei, I hope they will have a more mature and open take on things as they grow older. As with everything, it takes time. I hope in the end, they sort all their issues out. Family is family.
ReplyDeleteObvious na forbidden at pinagbabawalan ang mga bata, dahil kung talagang may matinding galit due to trauma sila sa nanay nila, sila mismo lalapitan (or susulatan, or tatawagan) si Jackie noon pa man, para i-express ang galit nila. Walang preno ang mga bata, kung hate ka talaga nila at malaki ang kasalanan mo.
ReplyDeleteKaso nga, ang naka program sa utak, bawal tawagan/lapitan si nanay.
eh nakanino ba ang mga bata in the firdt place? the court ruled in favor of the one who has the kids.. the fact na na kay benjie sila says everything.. trauma or not maghintay sa forgiveness darating din un... stop judging kc nkpagruling na ang court nuon pa!
ReplyDeleteThe court did NOT grant custody, as Jackie explained. She signed a document giving him certain powers during a time when they were still civil to each other. She was planning to leave the country to study, and trusted Benjie to take care of the kids while she's away. When it became legal, Benjie started turning around and closed the doors. Watch and listen to her interview again. To mafe, she's more believable because she gives more details than Benjie's poker-faced rehashed statements. She trusted him and he took advantage of that!!
DeleteNag ruling nga ang court-- custody lang naman yon to his favor(hindi ownership, hindi possession)..... regular lang naman yan sa mga naghihiwalay--- kaya dapat ang visitation rights ng ina ay hindi nila binale wala at nilabag. Sila na nga ang may custody, nakakalamang na nga, mang aagrabyado ka pa ba? Kelangan pa bang ipaabot ng social worker sa mga bata kung sino ang ina at kung sino ang step mom? Obviously, kinailangan sabihin at linawin kasi parang hindi yata alam sabihin at ituro ng ama yon at ng stepmom. At sasabihin yon ang trauma ng mga bata kay Jackie? Who designed it, who contributed to it? Palagay ba ni benjie malinis sya sa aspeto na yon?
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