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Monday, June 10, 2013

Agree or Disagree: Philippines Among Most Gay-Friendly in the World

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Source: www.inquirer.net

The Philippines has earned its ranking as one of few gay-friendly countries in the world.

Of the 39 countries covered by a global survey, only 17 countries had majorities that accepted homosexuality, with the Philippines ranking at number 10 among the 17.

Despite its religiosity, the Philippines is one of the countries in the world where the level of public “acceptance” of homosexuals is high, according to the results of the survey.

The survey titled “The Global Divide on Homosexuality” conducted by the US-based Pew Research Center showed that 73 percent of adult Filipinos agreed with the statement that “homosexuality should be accepted by society,” up by nine percentage points from 2002.

The percentage of Filipinos who said society should not accept gays fell from 33 percent in 2002 to 26 percent this year, it added.

This high level of acceptance, which is comparable to that found in secular western Europe, is even higher than those found in Japan (54 percent), South Korea (39 percent) or the United States (60 percent), where some states allow gay marriage.

“Brazilians and Filipinos are considerably more tolerant of homosexuality than their countries’ relatively high levels of religiosity would suggest,” the Pew survey report said.

The Philippines bucked the trend found in the survey showing that gays are mostly accepted in rich and secularized countries.

“The survey … finds that acceptance of homosexuality is particularly widespread in countries where religion is less central in people’s lives. These are also among the richest countries in the world,” the Pew report said.

“In contrast, in poorer countries with high levels of religiosity, few believe homosexuality should be accepted by society,” it added.

Religiosity scale

The Philippines is said to be one of the most religious countries in the world and almost a third of its population lives below the poverty line. In the survey’s “religiosity scale” where a score of “3” was the most religious, the Philippines almost got 2.5.

“Age is also a factor in several countries, with younger respondents offering far more tolerant views than older ones,” the survey report said.

And while gender differences are not prevalent, in those countries where they are, women are consistently more accepting of homosexuality than men,” it added.

In the Philippines, 78 percent of those aged 18-29 who were interviewed said gays should be accepted, 71 percent for those aged 30-49, and 68 percent for those 50 years old and above, according to the survey.

The report also showed that of the eight countries surveyed in the Asia-Pacific region, the Philippines had the second highest acceptance rate next to Australia’s 79 percent.

“In the Asia-Pacific region, where views of homosexuality are mostly negative, more than seven in 10 in Australia and the Philippines say homosexuality should be accepted by society,” the report said.

In contrast, only three percent of people in neighboring Indonesia, nine percent in Malaysia and 21 percent in China said homosexuality should be accepted, the report added.

Not impressed

However, Filipino gay groups were not impressed by the survey results.

When asked if the gay community in the Philippines felt accepted, Jonas Bagas, executive director of the TLF Share Collective, said: “Hardly.”

“I think that the study only reflects the perceived acceptance of the LGBT community based on the high visibility of gay entertainers. It’s acceptance [that is] contingent on how you fit the acceptable stereotype—the gay entertainer, the creative, talented bakla, the lesbian security guard,” Bagas said.

“Once you go outside these stereotypes, that’s when you encounter rejection,” he added.

Bagas said a Filipino student in a lesbian relationship faces higher probability of getting kicked out of her school than a student in a heterosexual relationship.

“We still have strong biases against gay sex, which for many is still deemed immoral and unnatural. This attitude fosters inequality in our laws, in education, healthcare and even within the family,” Bagas said.

The Pew report said those who conducted the survey had face-to-face interviews with 804 Filipinos aged 18 and above from March 10 to April 3 this year. The interviews were conducted in Tagalog, Cebuano, Ilonggo, Ilocano and Bicolano.

The survey had a margin of error of plus or minus 4.5 percent.

82 comments:

  1. DISAGREEE! kaya pala andaming binuBULLY na gay. Katulad na lang nung kanina sa kapuso mo jessica soho. Yung beki na sinabihan ng 'ang mga bakla dapat ipako sa krus!' Nagpapaka TOTOO lang ako.

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    1. Dapat nga total condemnation!!!! Accepting it e Nakakatakot yan!!! But, we are near the end times........ Judgement! Sa mga magrereact basa muna ng Bible ha para alam nyo ung pinaghuhugutan ng Takot kong Ito!

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    2. Teh, kahit saan naman eh. Sa Jamaica nga, gays, or even those just suspected to be, are routinely threatened, lynched, even killed. Mas exponentially less lang ang discrimination dito, although yeah, it's still there.

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    3. i think may nabasa ko sa isang site na pati pala sa bible may gay relationship.. Search mo na lang.. Di ko lang sure kung totoo.. About ata kay peter...

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    4. kuya ako teh!

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    5. Grabehhhh! Hindi na nanghilakbot ang mga LGBTs na Ito at ang color na ginamit pa e rainbow! Napaghahalatang walang alam sa history ng rainbow or talagang walang pag kilala talaga sa LUMIKHA!

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    6. the fact na binalita yung issue na yun sa Jessica Soho is one form of openly discussing the gay issues. In other countries, talking about gays on tv is banned.

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    7. Sa Sangkabaklaan sana bigyan panahon nyo ding basahin ang Bible...... Instead ung mga uso at mga worldly literature. Para lang sana malinaw at Hindi nyo akusahang holier than thou ang mga nagququote nito. Tulad ng mga dating Bakla, trans-operadas na namulat ng mabasa nila.

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    8. ang usaping equal rights po ng mga LGBT ay malayo sa pakikiuso o pakikipagsabayan sa mga nababasa lang. Wala po itong ipinagkaiba sa pakikipaglaban sa pantay na karapatan ng mga African American na sa tingin ng iba noon ay mababang uri ng tao.
      Kung ang Santo Papa nga recently, siya na mismo nagsabi na ang basehan ng isasalba ng Panginoon ay hindi ang paniniwalang Katoliko, kundi ang kagandahang loob ni ipinakikita ng tao sa kapwa tao, bakit tayo mas nagmamarunong na Katoliko at ang nakasulat lang sa bibliya ang totoo. So, ang mga Buddhists o Atheists na mababait, masasama pa rin, gano'n? Ang labo niyo talaga. Kayo na lang ang tama at pinagpala.

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    9. @2:22 AM: At saan mo naman ibinase ang sweeping generalization mo na ang sangkabekihan ay preoccupied lamang sa "mga uso at worldly literature", aber? Hindi ba itinuro sa inyo nung high school ang fallacy of generalizations as an argument tool?

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    10. @12:22AM kung alam na alam mo sa sarili mong sa langit mapupunta ang iyong kaluluwa bakit ka matatakot sa sinasabing end of the world? yes, one day the world will end at sa kagagawan na rin ng tao kalat kahit saan nasisira na ang kalikasan.

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    11. yes, filipinos are gay friendly, we accept them as part of our soceity. but of course, hindi naman maiiwasan na may uncomfortable sa kanila, or may nagbu-bully (extreme cases). yes, sometimes, they are the butt of our jokes, but that's just part of our culture, laro lang sa atin yun and not because we want to harm them. powerful kaya ang mga bading satin!

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  2. friendly sa may pakinabang.... balahura kung wala kang datong. ANG IBA... MINSAN. true yan kaya wag magmalinis ang iba jan.

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  3. I agree, i have 3 gay brothers, sobrang maaasahan sila and they bring colors in our home, super love ko ang gays!

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  4. Vice Ganda. Aiza Seguerra. Charice. Boy Abunda. Bebe Gandanghari. Ate Gay. A lot of ABS-CBN actors. GMAs upcoming gay-serye. The slew of gay indie films. Gay senators, congressmen and mayors. Gay Catholic priests. Yes, we are!

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  5. really? i don't think so. kung totoo man yan, bakit ginagawang issue lalo na sa mga artista na kesyo bakla si ganito at tivoli si ganyan? dapat wala ng issue. hindi na dapat ponag-uusapan o tsini-tsismis. katulad sa america, keber kung bakla o tomboy ang isang artista dun.

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    1. so walang issue sa iyo na nagladlad si Charice?

      Nakatira ka na ba sa Amerika? Kung makapagsalita ka as if walang problema ang LGBT community dun. In fact, mas malaki ang discrimination sa Amerika lalo na sa Southern states. Mas matindi ang bullying dun at binabaril pa.

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    2. Sigurado ka, teh? Kasi last I heard, Ellen's sitcom got cancelled shortly after her character came out on the show, and as she would talk about later on her talk show, "I couldn't find work, and nobody in Hollywood would touch me after that."

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    3. And, just to add, when Ellen was recently announced as the new face of JC Penney, a conservative women's group went out on a very active media campaign to have the establishment boycotted.

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    4. sa dalawa po sa ibabaw na nagcomment abt Ellen,true.PERO she still succeeded after coming out diba?and she's still succeeding now.Moral of the Story:hindi lahat ng mas madali ay tama.hindi porket mas mahirap na daan,mali.basta nagpakatotoo ka sa sarili mo at ipinakikita mo ang husay mo,you'll succeed.

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  6. Iba ung accepted sa hindi pinag-uusapan. Iba rin kasi ung accepted sa nakasanayan na. Don't get me wrong, I love the LGBT family. Pero marami kasi sa atin 'yung nasanay na lang na may bakla sa paligid nila. Open up the discussion about same-sex marriage and issues related to that, magkakagulo ang sambayanang Pilipino.

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  7. People who belittle them are those who are unhappy with their lives. In my opinion, life is not just about gender but character. My closest friends are mostly gays and they are responsible enough to provide for their families. They work harder than some men I met. But of course sometimes gays are ridiculed because of what they do and not just because of what they are.

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  8. Disgaree. Maraming Confident cross-dressers ang lumaladlad but people criticize them. Gays are number one victims of bullying in school sa pinas.Gays don't get the respect they deserve, for many, isa silang laughing stock.

    -HoneyOpinion

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  9. Double standards din masyado sa Pilipinas when it comes to LGBT issues eh. Agree ako dito pero hindi totally ganun, there's still a big change na kailangan nating i-push. Natalo pa nga sa eleksyon ang Ang Ladlad partylist na sana rerepresenta sa LGBT. :( - M

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    1. Jusme, sa dami ng party-lists. Yan talaga ang basehan mo.

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  10. I read this on Yahoo and one look at the comments section proves otherwise.

    THYROID BANKS

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  11. I agree with what's said here. It's all "perceived" acceptance. Acceptance with "BUTS" And that, in my book, means it's all fake.

    I'll accept your homosexuality, BUT you can't dress like a man/woman. When they dress up and look straight naman, the comment is BUT YOU'RE GAY! I'll accept that you're a homosexual, BUT you can't be in a relationship. I can see that you're gay, BUT sayang because you're goodlooking pa naman. Or worse yet: Fine, you can do whatever you want, BUT you're definitely burning in hell.

    Gay people here are accepted BUT only as the stereotypical comic relief they're expected to bring. It's ridiculous!

    The only time I can safely say that there's even a smidgen of acceptance of homosexuality in the Philippines is when certain equal liberties are put on paper as far as the law is concerned. Non-discrimination at work, stronger definition of hate crimes, civil unions or marriage equality, the right to adopt and have children, etc. It even sounds ridiculous having to fight for these rights when these are HUMAN rights we're talking about.

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    1. totally agree! nadale mo.

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    2. I almost cried with your brief analysis.. totally agree!!! Gays are also human beings, so why treat them less humane? Its just so sad to see that whatever they do right, still not enough credit because they are gays :( lagi na lang may kasunod na " kaso bakla eh" :(

      -magaling na nurse, kaso bakla :(

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    3. tomoh!kung sinukaman,simple yung sinabi mo pero sapol at totoong-totoo.

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  12. Sariling nanay at pamilya nga ni Charice, hindi matanggap ng buo ang pagka-tibo niya, eh. Makagatong pa ibang tao.

    In other words, DISAGREE, sadly.

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    1. Eh paano naman yung si Aiza, tinanggap.

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  13. I agree. Come on, kahit saang sulok may parlor ng mga beki. Sa 2 noontime shows may beki - Vice at Allan K. Tapos kesa maging offensive nagiging source of comedy yung pagbabadingbadingan sa Bubble Gang and Banana Split. Sa MMK nagpalabas ng beki love story. Sa GMA may ipapalabas naman silang beki teleserye.

    Iba kasi ang mga beki sa Pilipinas compared sa ibang bansa. I think it has to do with culture, we are more accepting than others.

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  14. eh saan ka pa nakakita nang BANSA na pati BABAE eh BAKLALALALALA lol

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    1. You are not making any sense.Shame on you.

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    2. Disagree. Gay marriage is not even being considered in this country.

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    3. Disagree. Pinoys only accept gays if they are being insulted or made fun of.

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    4. Pak na pak, i like your comment hahahhaa

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    5. Tama..may sense ka anon 2:19..ang dami ng babaeng mukhang bakla at bakla mukhang babae.u will find it hard to determine.

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  15. DISAGREE!!!!!It appears like that in showbiz but not in real life. Most are still being bullied and discriminated against everyday in school and at work. Unlike in other civilized countries, we don't have gays that are proud and out of the closet in politics, government, athletes and business CEOs. Most of our gays are in showbiz comedies and and caricatures of what we call parlor gays.

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    1. Very true. Smart and honest comment. We don't even have equal rights for gays here and no gay marriage right.

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  16. Just reading the comments here makes me seriously doubt the survey. Hindi pa talaga handa ang Pilipinas.

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  17. kahit pa maging accepting ang mga tao sa bakla o tomboy dito sa bansa natin, ang pinakaimportante ay ang sinasabi ng bibliya. Hindi makakarating sa langit ang mga bakla at tomboy. si God na ang nagsabi nun. Mga tunay na Katoliko na naniniwala sa kasulatan ng diyos ang mapapasalangit.

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    1. The bible wasnt written by God it was written by people, persons, human beings . Dont base your Love to our God by mere writings whom were niot even sure who the writers are, being LGBT is not a disease, not a choice but of who you are.

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    2. @ 10:44 I totally agree with you! And to all the righteous commenters talking about God and the bible, hindi ba tinuro sa atin na God is perfect? If God really is perfect, then that means he is very forgiving, and hindi nagagalit. He only knows how to LOVE, not to judge, get angry, or punish. Pati nga si Mary Magdalene hindi niya ni-judge. So you mere mortals, why are you judging the LGBT community?

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  18. The term is toletated not accepted. Double standards still there, and people can be quite ignorant about it.

    Basa basa daw ng Bible but do you people even know that the only group if people that follow that book literally and figuratively, is considered a hate group in America? In other words, 79% of what you are doing now is basically against the writings of the Bible, so hinay-hinay sa pagiging righteous. Mas malinaw at si,Jesus mismo nagsabi na ayaw niya sa mga hypokrito and modern day Pharisees.

    Anyway, lgbt is tolerated. Gays are, transgendered people are not. And for those who are not aware gay is not equal to transgender. Kaya nga may t sa lgbt kasi magkaiba yan.

    very sad lang, d tayo as extreme c ibang bansa na talagang pinapatay, but the way of thinking, mas backwards tayo than most average americans. Thank the Bible for that. Come to think of it, the Bible is responsible for more innocent lives lost than most non-religious wars...

    but oh well, studies show most gays are more successful than their straight counterparts.

    lasting words, as jesus said it in his sermon in the mountain:

    blessed are those who are oppressed, for they inherit they inherit the kingdom in heaven.

    sa mga judgmental:
    do not do unto others what you dont want done unto you.

    oh, I'm speaking your language na ha. It's ironic how the most religious are also the most judgmental and hateful.

    Fp, publish mo to ha!!!! Kaloka,ang haba nito!

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    1. salamat po sa useless trivia.haba nga.ang tanong lang ay agree o disagree (at malamang Why)

      syadong magaling.kaasar.

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    2. Wag kang mainis sa taong may alam just because you don't have anything of substance to offer. At least his/her comment made sense, yours clearly doesn't. #truth

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  19. no we dont. the thing is there is a difference between tolerance and acceptance. The Filipino public is genrally TOLERANT to Gay people...but only to a certain stereotype like entertainers, fashion designers, crossdressers and parloristas. But in terms of falling in love, being in a relationship, marriage, family, conjugal property laws, basic rights, it is still something that is not ACCEPTED and still considered a taboo.

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  20. O ano pang nirereklamo nyong mga ateng, di pa din kuntento na accepted kayo? ano ba pa ang gusto nyo, buti nga dito sa Pinas tangap na tangap na kayo pero dami pa ding kuda. Eh sa Iran kaya kayo pumunta ng mabitay kayo. Nakakaloka kayo, ayaw nyo pa ng accepted kayo, gusto nyo pa isaksak sa sikmura naming mga straight ang lifestyle nyo? Naman di pa ba kayo kuntento na may freedom kayo to do what you want to do here? At least dito sa atin, madami pa din ang open minded at respetado kayo, kung meron mang ilan na ng ookray sa inyo, need pa siguro nila ng education at acceptance. Dami kung friends na LGBT and mostly ay educated at talented, wala naman akong naririnig na they are being harassed because of their sexual preference. Only uneducated people at close minded ang mga ng ookray ngayon sa mga LGBT.

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  21. Matatanggap lang ng society ang pagiging gay/lesbian kung majority ng society ay gay/lesbians at minority lang ang straight.

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  22. The filipino heterosexuals are really so much confused with these two words, ACCEPTANCE and TOLERANCE. the Philippines have been tolerating the lgbt community so much that a lot of people already think that they are already accepted or are already accepting these minority, but in actuality they are not.


    the only people that have they most reliable authority to say or give opinion to anything regarding this matter are the lgbt folks themselves because they are the only ones who have firt hand experience of this matter.

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    1. not really.everyone has a say.saying that only the lgbt people have the right to say anything about us just breeds a mentality of Us vs. Them.that goes against what we fight for which is making all things equal and tearing down the great divide. We can't keep saying 'kami lang may karapatang magsalita tungkol dito kasi kami ang LGBT!' Eh,kung isagot sa atin ng mga hetero ay 'ah,ganun ba?eh,di maghanap kayo ng kausap niyo!'

      healthy conversations need to happen.and healthy conversations are never one-sided.

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  23. they other commentor is right, they are seemed to be accepted but with BUTs, they have to follow certain rules that are still considered to be oppressive for us in the lgbt community. but what else can we ask for, this is better than what is happening in iran, malays, india, etc. who treat homosexuality as a legal offense which is punishable by imprisonment.

    and in russia and other countries who ban anything which is related to homosexuality.

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  24. tolerance is different from acceptance? We are tolerated but are we allotted the same right as that of a straight citizen?

    We have no law that protects us from discrimination, no law that allot us the basic rights to marry or have children. We are tolerated as long as we "conform".



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    1. You are right. Many commenters here have no understanding of the real issues.

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  25. Agree! Kaya nga VICE GANDA at FP na sobrang tinatamgkilik.may mga BABAENG BAKLA rin.

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  26. iba ata ang interpretation ninyo ng bible,it should not be taken literally, anyway sa generation namin (early 20s below) lumaki na kami na ang daming accepted gays sa paligid

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    1. Porke ba accepted, tama na? Dalawa lang kasarian ang nilikha, babae at lalaki. Yung iba, porke yung ang naging preference o orientation at marami nang tumatanggap, feeling nila wala silang ginagawang masama. Binabalewala ang Salita ng Maykapal. Sa huli, Siya pa rin ang maghahari. Depende na lang sa atinkung papaano natin isasabuhay ang Kanyang Salita upang maligtas tayo sa walang hanggang apoy ng kasamaan.

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    2. Nakakaloka itong si 8:28 PM! kung makapangaral wagas! eh anong ginagawa mo sa FashionPulis? Nagpapakastraight sa pamamagitan ng blind items???

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    3. lasting words, as jesus said it in his sermon in the mountain:

      blessed are those who are oppressed, for they inherit they inherit the kingdom in heaven.

      sa mga judgmental:
      do not do unto others what you dont want done unto you.

      oh, I'm speaking your language na ha.

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  27. baka naman kasi puro gay (parloristang bakla, pamintang bakla, closetang bakla, babaeng bakla, etc) ang sumali sa survey.

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  28. AGREE!!! daming gay pageant sa pinas.

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    1. Gay pageant which are meant to make fun of gay people and not a means to celebrate diversity. Pageant to encourage ridicule and stereotype. Have you even been to one?

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  29. I guess totoo naman yung article. Kasi kung tutuusin maswerte pa din yung mga gays dito sa pilipinas compared sa mga bading sa ibang bansa most especially sa middle eastern part.

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  30. This is still a very ignorant and uncivilized country.

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  31. No. Just look how much bashing Charice got when she came out.

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  32. Hindi naman ipinag babawal sa Bible ang pagiging gay/lesbian. Ang pinag babawal ay yung sexual act between same sexes. The same din sa heterosexual... kung hindi ka pa kasal, bawal ang pre marital sex. Ang ganda lang ng Bible, you can repent over and over at patatawarin ka parin.

    God is really good to us kasi lahat tayo may choice sa buhay natin. You either follow all the rules in the Bible or you don't. Hindi siya menu sa restaurant na you can choose which rules to follow and which rules to break. And these rules applies to ALL gays/lesbian/heterosexuals. Nasa iyo lang kung susunod ka or hindi.

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  33. I love the LGBT with all my heart. There's an annual Pride Parade that happens here where I live and it's a great celebration of equality! Anyway, I think Filipinos are just used to seeing gays everywhere. They're fun and harmless and they make names for themselves. But how if someone brings up gay marriage in the Philippines? *grabs popcorn* :D

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  34. I believe this is true... well mostly the tolerant part. acceptance comes from deep personal connection e, at di naman lahat sa atin may kamag-anak o kaibigan na lgbt. generally kung makakakita ka lang ng bading o tomboy jan na di mo masyadong kakilala, keribels lang naman sa mga pinoy. kung kapamilya mo na, mejo iba ang usapan. may mga family pa rin na hirap tumanggap sa anak na beki o tibo.

    pero sa mga lgbt na feeling aping api, di nman kayo lang ang binubully o nilalait lait. pati mataba, payat, punggok, retokada, etc. basahin nyo pa lang mga comments sa ibang BI dito, madalas laitin ang mga artistang retokado, simpayat ng walis tingting, may malaking pata, at wag kalimutan si jessica soho na bading pa ang nang lait publicly. so un pang lalait at pambubully, di lang isolated sa lgbt community, at pati taga lgbt e nanlalait din... sadly e naging kultura na natin un. :(

    so generally speaking, gay friendly pa rin ang pinas.

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    1. gay friendly with conditions...

      Yang mga nilalait na iba meron silang mga karapatan... ang mga homosexual ba sa pilipinas meron?

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    2. may karapatan din naman ang mga lgbt... sa palagay mo wala? baka espesyal na karapatan ang ibig mong sabihin.

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  35. That's the thing. We're not in Iran. We pride ourselves for being hospitable and accepting, lovers of freedom (people power and all) when we can't even rightfully provide equality sa kapwa natin. And I say RIGHTFULLY in a totally different concept na these are our rights we're talking about, the same rights that any heterosexual Tom, Dick and Harry, Mary, Beth and Sally have. Hanggang wala yun, how can u even say we're being friendly when we live in a hostile environment of inequality and biases?

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  36. see comment above.how can u say tanggap kung lahat ng examples mo ay puro sa pamamaraan na KATATAWANAN lang ang pagtanggap sa amin? Eh, what if you come across a gay guy who doesn't want to be funny? Hindi na tatanggapin?

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  37. ang mga matataba,pandak,punggok at retokada,may pantay silang karapatan tulad ng mga heterosexual.ang LGBT po,hindi pantay.kayo,may karapatan kayo pakasalan ang taong mahal nyo.kami,para lang makasal sa mahal namin ay kailangan pang pumunta sa ibang bansa, o para lang makatikim ng kasal at magkapamilya ay ipilit ang sarili namin sa mga taong hindi namin mahal.

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  38. considering na "religious", "conservative", "poor" un bansa natin at di lahat "educated", mataas na talaga un public acceptance ng pinoy sa mga gays.

    i remember un giyomi video ng beki na anak, siguro kung sa ibang bansa un, o kahit dito sa pilipinas kung mga a decade or so ago lumabas un, baka najombag sya ng tatay nya... at un tatay din siguro mahihiya syang lumabas sa tv para i-claim na anak nya un beki. pero now, may mga family na talaga na accepting sa kanilang mga anak na lgbt.

    we can't expect full acceptance from anyone, kahit nga mga straight may problema pa rin sa acceptance from family or other people, although di nga lang sa sexual preference pero sa ibang bagay naman. parang you can't please everybody lang din.
    pero i'm glad na ang pilipinas, despite ng mga shortcomings natin, kahit papano unti unting lumalawak ang pag-iisip. at the same time di natin pinakakawalan un mga bagay na tunay na mahalaga, like pag-ibig sa Diyos at sa kapwa.

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  39. sa mga nagkocomment po na LGBT,sana wala na pong lecture between tolerance and acceptance.kasi yung reaksyon po namin ay based lang dun sa article,na ginamit yung word na ACCEPTANCE as a sweeping statement.kahit nga yung LGBT expert dun sa article,o,ginamit yung word na acceptance when what he meant was tolerance.

    Kaya,kalma lang po. Medyo OA yung gigil nyo,eh.

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  40. saka dun po sa nag-explain pa na ang transgendered ay iba sa gay kaya nga may hiwalay na T sa lgbt, pahabain pa ba ang usapin at magpaka-technical? Iisang community pa rin sila at collectively, ang lesbians,gays,bisexual at transgendered ay kilala as the gay community. Collectively, they are asking to be accepted equally. Now,kung ang pinag-uusapan dito are the nuances between each of them, doon ka magpaka-technical.

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  41. FP, I really LOVE that you're elevating your blog from a mere blind item site to one where other social issues are discussed,like this one.would love to see more.(pero wag mawawala syempre ang mga BI) KUDOS!

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